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Speaker 1: The program Your Alarm to Power one five point one

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Speaker 1: on iHeartRadio in USA.

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Speaker 2: AF.

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Speaker 1: Your girlfriend turned around. That's crazy if your girlfriend hears

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Speaker 1: that right now, she started looking around. Ain't nobody calling her?

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Speaker 1: I was mimick in Santa Claus.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 3: Well, today's show is all about family. Hopefully you enjoying

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Speaker 3: family today. Some of our favorite family episodes like when

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Speaker 3: Rome stopped through and you know Rome is just as

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Speaker 3: baby daddy.

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Speaker 1: Yes, And you know Jess has a book coming out

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Speaker 1: called Tell Death We Parent. That's right, it'll be out

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Speaker 1: on my book in print, Black Privilege Publishing, Simon and Schuster,

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Speaker 1: and it's literally about her time co parenting with Rome.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's still co parenting now.

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Speaker 1: But you know how they got through it because they

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Speaker 1: had a young Ashton when they were young.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 3: And also my wife would be stopping through. Gia, of course,

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Speaker 3: Gia Casey. We have a book called Real Life, Real

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Speaker 3: Family out right now. We talk about raising our kids.

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Speaker 3: So it's gonna be best with Look to the Casey Crew.

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Speaker 1: I thought about the Kzy Crew when we was at

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Speaker 1: Miss Patty Labell house because I was making the waffles

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Speaker 1: and I was like they're not ready until they're a

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Speaker 1: complexion of the Casey crew.

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Speaker 3: Yes, he actually said that out loud like it wasn't

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Speaker 3: that under his breakfast like he really said, is it

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Speaker 3: the complexion of the Casey crew?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is.

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Speaker 1: When everybody understood exactly what I meant, they was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's right, that's how they're supposed to look.

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Speaker 3: My goodness, Merry Christmas. Let's get into those interviews in

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Speaker 3: a little bits. It don't go Anywhere's the Breakfast Club

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Speaker 3: for morning?

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Speaker 2: It's a new day. Is your time to get it

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Speaker 2: off your chest? Way up, whether you're man or blast,

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Speaker 2: time to get up and get something. Call up now

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Speaker 2: eight hundred five eighty five, one oh five to one.

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Speaker 2: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello,

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Speaker 2: who's this?

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Speaker 4: Good morning?

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Speaker 2: It's Hudson, Hutchson, what's up? Get it off your chest? Brother?

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Speaker 4: I just want to know when, like at nine to fifty,

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Speaker 4: when y're wrapping up the show with the administration ever

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Speaker 4: come down and be like, Yo, that was Jay, But

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Speaker 4: tomorrow I need you to be a little jagger.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I don't know who does imagine, I don't

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Speaker 1: know who this imaginary administration is y'all think, uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: has his hand on this show.

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Speaker 2: But no, that doesn't happen, sir. We're mid that's all.

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Speaker 3: Let's be honest, though, who starts the show? Was like

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Speaker 3: last night when I went to Dix like that.

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Speaker 1: I'll talk about Dick Boyden good That was ridiculous.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's a little crazy, a little at you know

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Speaker 4: what I.

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Speaker 2: Want to know to Hudson, why would they name the

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Speaker 2: store Dick's? Though? Like this was because there's people named Dick.

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Speaker 2: Authority Sporting Goods.

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Speaker 1: Richard came down and we needed a little gear man.

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Speaker 1: Everything is in gay guys. Now you got me googling.

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Speaker 1: Why is Dick Sporting good called Dick Boydon Good?

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Speaker 2: There? You have to have a good man, A good morning.

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Speaker 2: Dick Borton Goods is named after its founder, Richard Dick Stack.

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Speaker 2: That's his name.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, salute to Richard. All right, Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 4: Yoe's top of Brooklyn from Brooklyn?

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Speaker 5: What's up the morning, Charlotte King?

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Speaker 4: Yah, y'all ever, I just wanted to tell you it

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Speaker 4: was it was one hey, y'all was up there joking.

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Speaker 5: Than every little thing you're thinking, like, y'all know how

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Speaker 5: you got to do it, and then you you say,

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Speaker 5: get it.

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Speaker 2: On your chest.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, nah, that's a big four.

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Speaker 2: I y'all don't make.

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Speaker 4: Full for everything if they're not for get it off

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Speaker 4: your touch, to get it off your mind.

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Speaker 6: I literally said that, Yo, I'm with you.

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Speaker 7: I said that as soon as I started working there,

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Speaker 7: telling you everything.

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Speaker 3: Why you're thinking about men when I think you get

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Speaker 3: it off your chest, I'm thinking women, what's on your mind?

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Speaker 5: Trying out?

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Speaker 4: Stop thinking about it now? Because yeah, y'all was doing

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Speaker 4: all them jokes. I was doing all them poor jokes.

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Speaker 4: And then right after you're gonna say all right, get

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Speaker 4: it up your chest, I'm like, hey, yo, full and.

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Speaker 6: And who you getting giving that donkey to?

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Speaker 3: I gotta give it time, no, no, no to everything.

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Speaker 2: You said, I'm giving it heavy. I'm saying, hello, who's

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Speaker 2: this from chapter Hey to me? Cause get it off

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Speaker 8: Mama, Okay, good morning, did and be charlsmagne. I'm a fan.

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Speaker 8: I just wanted to get off my chest to the fact

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Speaker 8: that I did nothing. And now I'm broken up with

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Speaker 8: the boyfriend that I've been with for three years because

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Speaker 8: his girlfriend, his side girlfriend, thinks that I'm her stalker.

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, his side girlfriend, did you stalker? All right,

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Speaker 1: explain this to me a little bit more now, So okay, okay.

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Speaker 8: So I'm saying with this boy for like almost three years, okay,

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Speaker 8: and when I came out of my relationship, he came

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Speaker 8: out of his relationship for a long time, and he

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Speaker 8: still wanted to explore and all that, and we didn't

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Speaker 8: know what we was. So he told me like, oh,

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Speaker 8: I'm talking to this one, I'm talking to that one

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Speaker 8: and talking that one. So it's like, okay, whatever. But

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Speaker 8: Tom had passed and he has started moving his stuff

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Speaker 8: into my apartment, and we started establishing things. I would

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Speaker 8: for this. I put him on my assurance. We started

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Speaker 8: establishing an't making plans. I didn't realize how strong of

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Speaker 8: a connection he was making with other girls. But then

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Speaker 8: he comes to me one day and tells me that's.

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Speaker 4: The other girl.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I've heard enough. So you're not his only girl.

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Speaker 8: No, I'm not his only girl.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, so what are you calling her to ask?

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Speaker 3: But she's upset because she put him on insurance.

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Speaker 2: It was serious.

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Speaker 8: I wasn't asking anything.

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Speaker 2: Oh you just you're just mad at yourself for being stupid. Hey, yes,

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Speaker 2: how old are you?

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Speaker 8: Thirty four?

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Speaker 1: Thirty four years old? How many girls does this man got?

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Speaker 8: Who knows how many?

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Speaker 1: How many East infections have you had? Since balance is

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Speaker 1: always fall stop it come on?

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Speaker 8: No's not?

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Speaker 2: Oh okay.

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Speaker 3: I understand though, because you put him on insurance, he

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Speaker 3: moved in. You thought it was more serious than it

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Speaker 3: was and he was still playing the field. Well see see,

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Speaker 3: I want to tell you that that you know you

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Speaker 3: can do better.

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Speaker 8: That's not the part that I'm mat at. The part

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Speaker 8: that I'm mad at is that I have nothing to

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Speaker 8: do with his other relationships, and I'm being accused of

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Speaker 8: being a random girl. Saul, Why would you know this girl?

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Speaker 2: Why would you even care? You shouldn't even speak, wouldn't

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Speaker 6: This is what I'm saying.

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Speaker 8: You've ever been a cue of something who absolutely did

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Speaker 8: not do yes and just frustrated. But then he's also

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Speaker 8: super relief because it's like you never trust in the beginning,

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Speaker 8: but it's just super fussing.

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Speaker 1: Understand there, upset, but stop cursing, but understand that the

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Speaker 1: truth don't need no defense and it only needs witnesses.

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Speaker 1: So as long as you know the truth. That's the

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Speaker 1: most important thing. But the truth is you just wanted

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Speaker 1: this man's holes. Now you need to ask yourself, do

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Speaker 1: you just want to be one of this man's holes

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Speaker 1: or do you want to be more to somebody? Because

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Speaker 1: if you want to be more to somebody, then you

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Speaker 1: need to go find that somebody because it's not gonna

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Speaker 1: be with him.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry you went through that, mama, but take what

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Speaker 3: went through it.

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Speaker 2: He's still going to it. Now, take him off. She

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Speaker 2: ain't gonna do nothing.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Who that's talking to you in the background.

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Speaker 8: Nobody that's on the radio?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, man, you just another one of his holes. Man.

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Speaker 1: And and you know, I think that you deserve better

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Speaker 1: than that. But you know, he did keep it one

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Speaker 1: honey with you from the beginning. It's not like he

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Speaker 1: lied to you.

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Speaker 2: He didn't lie.

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Speaker 3: And y'all didn't have a conversation. You just assume because

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Speaker 3: he moved in. But that was not a great assumption, obviously.

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Speaker 2: And I know it's hard. I know it's hard.

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Speaker 1: Three four years of raw sex. Three you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. Him blowing in your bookie, I know it.

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Speaker 1: I know it got you a little open man, But

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Speaker 1: you know you deserve better.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, mama, have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Damn man, she'ould take him off insurance right now, you know,

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Speaker 2: get it off your chest.

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Speaker 3: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one.

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Speaker 2: If you need the VIC, call us up right now.

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Speaker 2: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, it's away. Is your

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Speaker 2: time to get it off your chest. Way up. Whether

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Speaker 2: you're man or black, time to get up and get something.

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Speaker 2: Call up now. Eight hundred five eight five one o

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Speaker 2: five one. We want to hear from you on the

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Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. Hello. Who's this y'o? What's up?

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Speaker 9: Trap?

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Speaker 3: Hey boo?

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Speaker 5: What's that?

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Speaker 4: What's up? Sorry?

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Speaker 2: Pieces? What's the word?

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Speaker 5: He ain't ain't nothing, ain't nothing, chilling, chilling. I was

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Speaker 5: gonna shout out through things number one, shout out to

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Speaker 5: the dollars cowboys. Make sure y'all tune in. Watch us

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Speaker 5: get that work for then, you know what I mean

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Speaker 5: talk to I.

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Speaker 2: Don't like how you said that. You said, watch us

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Speaker 2: get that work and me and then we're gonna lose bro.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, no, no, no no man, watch us put in

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Speaker 5: that work.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you ain't say that. You said watch us

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Speaker 1: get that work. You bottomed this out Bro, you turn

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Speaker 1: this into a bottom and stead of the top.

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Speaker 2: Bro, don't do that.

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Speaker 10: You're right, You're right.

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Speaker 5: Number two, I gotta talk about my man Cole. Y'all

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Speaker 5: have somebody come on Marco plus I think his name

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Speaker 5: man shout out to him. I mean a dreams villain

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Speaker 5: like myself. But Charlomagne.

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Speaker 4: I want.

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Speaker 5: I want to tell you that you know nobody you

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Speaker 5: name it's touching J Cole, all care if it's Big Kurt.

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Speaker 1: All cameras, Mike, I don't have nothing to do with

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Speaker 1: your ridiculous hip hop takes. Okay, you cannot hold on,

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Speaker 1: hold on, Broke. Cole is not the king of the

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Speaker 1: South in no way shape before.

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Speaker 4: Yes, he rapped better than anybody you can name.

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Speaker 1: That's not flows his delivery day one person, Jay colt

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Speaker 1: On rap better than Scarface. J colt On in T I.

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Speaker 2: Lit, Wayne, Yes you do.

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Speaker 2: Said we could fight right. Hello, who's this jo?

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Speaker 10: It's Comachi? What's good man?

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Speaker 10: Killing my brother. Man, just want to get off my

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Speaker 10: This fla Manxi Man I made that hoodie for Angela

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Speaker 4: Was, hey, you know me, but I love you brother.

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Speaker 10: I ain't got no height for you.

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Speaker 10: I'm still out here to as so man seven years strong, Bro,

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Speaker 2: And I was hating about it. I'd be forgetting.

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Speaker 8: She was not that you like.

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Speaker 10: You ain't you ain't nothing, man. You was hating back

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Speaker 10: I ain't got no hatred for you, man, I swear

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Speaker 4: I used to hate you, but now I don't.

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Speaker 10: Man, it's cool.

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Speaker 3: It was probably trash, but like it like people get

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Speaker 2: Remember saying I don't, I've never seen his clothes and

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Speaker 2: Was wearing it. Does that sound like it? Absolutely? Damn

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Good morning everybodyj Env Jesse, Hilarius, Charlamagne, the guy.

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Speaker 3: We are the Breakfast Club. We got some special legends

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Speaker 3: cast of good Times, fifty years of good time.

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Speaker 1: We got Micha Wholm and JJ Well Carter and Bernadette

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Speaker 2: That's right right, Good morning, guys.

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Speaker 11: How y'all feeling Good morning, Breakfast Club fifty years a

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Speaker 11: good time?

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Speaker 7: Wow, I know, wow.

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Speaker 2: And we're still going strong. Did y'all know Good Times

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Speaker 2: were going to make the market? It made well.

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Speaker 6: I didn't have no idea, No.

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Speaker 11: We didn't, but we're very grateful it did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well from the beginning, let's start, how did it come about?

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Speaker 3: How did Good Times come about? How did you guys audition?

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Speaker 3: And how did it make because during that time, there

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Speaker 6: Well, and he is black, you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: They joked me all the time and I'm black.

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Speaker 7: a card to say, they're looking for a teenager to

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Speaker 7: be in this show. And meet Norman Lear at CBS,

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Speaker 7: you know. So we went up there. But there were

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Speaker 7: but that's how it started with me.

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Speaker 2: You were a teenager a good huh? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Oh you eighteen?

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, Lord have mercy. Okay, yeah, all right, okay,

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Speaker 2: he's still beautiful, thank you. Absolutely so.

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Speaker 7: And then, you know, after a couple of months, I

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Speaker 7: My mom got the call that I was Thelma, and

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Speaker 7: so they flew me out to California. That's how it

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Speaker 2: Wow, what about you, miss card.

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Speaker 11: By the time I began to work with Norman Lear,

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Speaker 11: Pat Kirkland. These were two wonderful women who I auditioned

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Speaker 11: seventy four. However, as a result of that, Norman would

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Speaker 11: said it never rains in California, and I was excited.

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Speaker 2: It made for three months when I got to.

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Speaker 11: Right then, and there are any illusions about Hollywood were

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Speaker 11: always neutralized as far as our concerned. So I'm very

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Speaker 11: grateful to have not only worked with and still loved

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Speaker 11: Jimmy Walker and Bernardette. But we give to the spirit

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Speaker 11: of miss Esther Rowe du Bois, and to Johnny Brown

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Speaker 11: who played Bookman, to Helen Martin who played Weeping Wonder.

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Speaker 11: Of course, to mister Ben Powers as well Albert Reed

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Speaker 11: who played the older These are the people who accentuated

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Speaker 2: So we think you what about you, mister Walker. I'm

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Speaker 2: just a hard core stand up. That's it.

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Speaker 14: That's all I do. I'm just a stand up to

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Speaker 14: the core. So I went to a comedy store, I'm

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Speaker 14: doing shows. I go back to bed at like three

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Speaker 14: o'clock in the morning, get a call JD.

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Speaker 2: Joe.

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Speaker 14: She says, where are you? I said, We're my bed sleeping.

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Speaker 14: She says, well, you belong across the street. We're doing rehearsals.

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Speaker 14: I said, rehearsal for what she says. There's a show

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Speaker 14: called good Times. You signed on to the show? I

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Speaker 14: had signed on to it at the inprov Yeah, because

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Speaker 14: I didn't believe Hi because.

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Speaker 2: He's a liar. So it was a verbal contract.

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Speaker 14: No, they had a contract. Kenny, the drunk, who was

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Speaker 14: this any good? He said, yeah, I think so sign it.

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Speaker 14: I'll send it back for you. And I thought, I said,

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Speaker 14: Kenny's a drunk. He's not going to send He's a lie,

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Speaker 14: he's not going to send this. So then he sent

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Speaker 14: we had a script, because they said this is script downstairs.

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Speaker 14: I said, I'm going back to bed because I'm not

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Speaker 14: going downstairs to get a script because they're lying.

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Speaker 2: I don't have time, but you did. So I went.

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Speaker 14: I got the script and I'm reading the script and

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Speaker 14: I said that guy next to me like you normally.

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Speaker 2: I said, man, this sucks. What is this? I said?

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Speaker 2: He said, we're going to do a TV show.

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Speaker 6: I said, really, I said, you're a liar.

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Speaker 2: It's not gonna happen. This is terrible.

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Speaker 14: From then on, we did the show, and I was

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Speaker 2: So when did you stop thinking people?

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Speaker 14: Was like, never, I think it now people, I mean,

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Speaker 14: agent's a lie. They're all liars, No, very few people.

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Speaker 14: People want to be bigger than what they are. And

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Speaker 2: They're in the.

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Speaker 14: Big glass tower upstairs on the ninetieth floor. So you know,

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Speaker 2: You text them, you email them.

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Speaker 14: They just they sit in their room and they sit

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Speaker 2: They go this moron I met at Walmart. He asked

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Speaker 14: I gave him my number because I know I'm never

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Speaker 14: gonna talk to him. I answer as emails ever again,

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Speaker 14: And I learned this from a friend of mine who

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Speaker 14: interesting thing. She said, you know, if you want to

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Speaker 14: I asked you to go out.

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Speaker 2: I say, hey, Jess, you know, why don't we you know,

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Speaker 10: Come on?

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Speaker 14: No, it wasn't lucky yet, but it was a girl

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Speaker 2: One did call back. I was. I was stunned. How

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Speaker 14: I'm available anybody, but see they they and I said

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Speaker 2: No, they just start laughing.

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Speaker 1: How do how do y'all feel about the Good Times

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Speaker 1: cartoon on Netflix?

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Speaker 2: Well, that's Berniette's thing. She'll tell you it a reboo.

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Speaker 7: But that's not a no, that's not that's not it

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Speaker 7: at all. No, that's not it.

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Speaker 2: At all.

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Speaker 7: I think that our audience missed something, you know, they

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Speaker 7: missed what happened to us. It's always they want the

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Speaker 7: My thing about the animation was this that you know,

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Speaker 7: I know that Jimmy Walker came to them and he

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Speaker 7: presented a cartoon about five years before this, before this one,

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Speaker 7: but later on came up with they're gonna do an animation,

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Speaker 7: and I remember my manager called them and said, well,

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Speaker 7: you know, progression of what everything is going to be

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Speaker 7: for the Good Times family.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 7: Fine, But they asked Jimmy and I to do a

446
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Speaker 7: tiny little part.

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Speaker 6: But it sounded.

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Speaker 7: Okay, you know, we didn't see the scripts. So Jimmy

449
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Speaker 7: did a part. I did a little part. My character's

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Speaker 7: name is Peaches. You know, she's like a project lady.

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Speaker 7: That's whatever. But when Nick trailer came out. We saw

452
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Speaker 7: it and everybody was like, no, you know, you don't

453
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Speaker 7: have a crack baby in somebody in the mother's arms.

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Speaker 2: You don't do that.

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Speaker 7: So and I remember having an interview with the singer Gilstrap,

456
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Speaker 7: Jim Gilstrap, and he was saying, you know, there are

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Speaker 7: some lyrics that they took out. So I said, we're

458
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Speaker 7: the lyrics and he's said, well, you know they say

459
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Speaker 7: roaches roaming the hallway and the landlord lives on the

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Speaker 7: other side of town or something like that. He said

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Speaker 7: that they took it out because fifty years ago now

462
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Speaker 7: they thought that that would be offensive to black people. Okay,

463
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Speaker 7: but fifty years later, you have two roaches singing in

464
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Speaker 7: the shower whatever they sing in the song good time.

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Speaker 7: So I'm like, this is not it.

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Speaker 2: I haven't watched it, mister Carter.

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Speaker 11: I actually was quite disappointed with the actors who took

468
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Speaker 11: the time to sign on to that project. These are

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Speaker 11: actors and artists and comedian that I really had a

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Speaker 11: high regard for. I won't use the past tense with

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Speaker 11: them right now, but I'm disappointed at the fact that

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Speaker 11: they did that. When I did take a quick review

473
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Speaker 11: of this particular rubbish that I saw. I was contacted

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Speaker 11: by some media outlets from my point of view, but

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Speaker 11: I refused to dignify with a response. And I'm just

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Speaker 11: pretty much disappointed with the artists who signed on to it.

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Speaker 2: Y'all don't like the Good Times reboot.

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Speaker 6: To say that, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Fifty years a good Times.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking like nobody did a documentary or some type

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Speaker 1: of you know, reunion show like y'all didn't get approached aout.

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Speaker 2: None of that.

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Speaker 11: Now, the anthology that I did, right, it wouldn't be

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Speaker 11: a product commercially right now again because of.

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Speaker 2: The losses that we had. They but we didn't have

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Speaker 2: people that we worked.

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Speaker 6: That we're going to put together, and we had all

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Speaker 6: the characters.

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Speaker 11: It's just this is there now ancestors.

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Speaker 14: So this is Brett Miller, who works with Norman, and

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Speaker 14: that's the guy who kind of kind of gebashed us,

492
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Speaker 14: and that that was it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's the way because when I took it around.

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Speaker 14: Everybody I talked to says, well, do you own the rights?

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Speaker 14: We go no, and they said, well, nothing we could

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Speaker 14: do for you. And these are all friends of mine.

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Speaker 14: So that's the way it was. I just think that

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Speaker 14: they didn't want us involved and they achieved their goal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we love y'all.

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Speaker 7: Yes, our fans really writing us and telling us how

501
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Speaker 7: much they loved us, and we did. They did not

502
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Speaker 7: like the animation, you know, they respect us in so

503
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Speaker 7: many different ways, so we still got our satisfaction out

504
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Speaker 7: of it, you.

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Speaker 11: Know, absolutely, and when the people don't like it, watch out.

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Speaker 2: Well, we appreciate you guys for joining us.

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Speaker 6: Fifteen the lyrics to the theme song. Y'all all know that.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know. I think Ralph knows it.

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Speaker 11: Keeping your head above water, making a way when you can,

510
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Speaker 11: temporary layoffs, good times, easy credited, rift fall, good time,

511
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Speaker 11: scratching in surviving good good times, hanging in a child line.

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Speaker 2: That's how I interpret I have the living.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it is hanging and versions, hanging in and making

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Speaker 6: it and driving.

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Speaker 11: But also I have on document in my archive hanging

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Speaker 11: in the child and something.

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Speaker 6: So they have they said it that way, so long.

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Speaker 2: Versions of it.

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Speaker 11: However, it really caught on the way that the wonderful

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Speaker 11: jar wrote the soundtrack for Moving On Up for the Jeffersons. Wise,

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Speaker 11: there is the writer and the musician and the vocalist

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Speaker 11: that sings that song, so that in itself when you

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Speaker 11: deal with themed songs, and when we were coming on,

524
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Speaker 11: y'all were gracious enough to play for us. So it

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Speaker 11: was a nice way to walk into your sound studio,

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Speaker 11: and we thank you.

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Speaker 2: So the mystery continues. We still don't know if it's

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Speaker 2: hanging in the child.

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Speaker 7: It's hanging in and giving.

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Speaker 3: That's what it is, and.

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Speaker 11: That's not going to have this going on for a while.

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Speaker 7: Jim Jim Gillsdraft, the one who sung it, told me

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Speaker 7: he said it was hanging in and giving.

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Speaker 6: That's what it was.

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Speaker 7: But it came off I don't know if it was

536
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Speaker 7: the enunciation of it or not, but it came off

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Speaker 7: as hanging in a child line. It sounds that way,

538
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Speaker 7: but it really was hanging in a giant.

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Speaker 11: And there's a second verse that people have never heard

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Speaker 11: that goes to the same song. So the information that

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Speaker 11: I do have had, I'm saying, so you guys have

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Speaker 11: been wonderful. I thank you for thinking enough of us

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Speaker 11: get into your listening audience. We thank you again for

544
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Speaker 11: wonderful fifty years. May you be blessed by every breath

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Speaker 11: you breath and every beat of your heart.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much. That's right, it's the breakfast club.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, thank you all right? Dangerous wanting to go

548
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Speaker 2: to breakfast club? Charlamagne to God. Lauren lo Ross is here?

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Speaker 2: Just hilarious? Is here?

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Speaker 8: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Who's feeling in for? Envy? Laura l Rose is feeling

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Speaker 2: in for? Isn't feeling in? He's ill? I'm here she's

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Speaker 2: feeling in Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a guest today though, because his new book

555
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Speaker 1: Real Life, Real Family with the Queen of the House

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Speaker 1: Get a Katy is out right now.

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Speaker 2: How do you feeling?

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Speaker 9: You come by being given the opportunity to write a

559
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Speaker 9: book about something that is the most important thing for me,

560
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Speaker 9: the thing I'm the most passionate about, the thing that

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Speaker 9: brings me the most joy, family, parenting, my household, our home.

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Speaker 15: So yeah, I'm very humbled.

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Speaker 6: This is the second book. Yes, it's amazing, you know what.

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Speaker 6: Let's just rewind a bit for those who don't know.

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Speaker 2: Who is the K. C.

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Speaker 1: Crewe?

567
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Speaker 6: Where did that name come from? How did y'all get started?

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Speaker 2: Do you remember the carew? Yes? Our last name? What

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Speaker 2: do you mean?

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Speaker 16: No?

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Speaker 15: No, no, But do you remember how we came up

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Speaker 15: with a name?

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Speaker 2: Come up? With the name.

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Speaker 12: We were doing our first podcast, and it was before

575
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Speaker 12: we were doing like the audio version of the video version.

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Speaker 12: It was just the audio version, and we started the

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Speaker 12: podcast without a name, and we sat there and we

578
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Speaker 12: kind of was coming up with like different names, and one.

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Speaker 15: Of us said, well, how about the k CY crew.

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Speaker 15: You know, our last name is Casey. We have a

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Speaker 15: whole crew of kids, a whole gaggle. What about the

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Speaker 15: k C crew.

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Speaker 12: And then people you know, DMed us and emailed and whatnot,

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Speaker 12: and they said, yeah, we love that name.

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Speaker 15: We love that name. So we decided to call ourselves

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Speaker 15: the KC Crew.

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Speaker 2: Amazing that's where it came about.

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Speaker 17: And whenever you post on social you always hashtag the

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Speaker 17: KSEY Crew.

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Speaker 6: Yes, and he does as well.

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Speaker 15: But wanted it.

592
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Speaker 17: Things that you guys do really good from the podcast

593
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Speaker 17: to bringing it online, is you pay attention to the

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Speaker 17: comments and the responses Ki. Yeah, and you guys bring

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Speaker 17: them into the podcast, but you also like reflect on

596
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Speaker 17: them on social media. So I want to read one

597
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Speaker 17: of the posts that we pulled and I thought that

598
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Speaker 17: this was great. You inspired me. This is someone commenting

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Speaker 17: to you guys. You inspired me. I wish all parents

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Speaker 17: had this level of intention, planning, and vibe. Truth is,

601
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Speaker 17: most parents, moms are stressed, over worked by trying to

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Speaker 17: make ends meet, in harboring trauma. Therefore, it's passed down

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Speaker 17: to the children. You've passed down light and love because

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Speaker 17: of that and because of what you are, high five

605
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Speaker 17: to all of the parents doing their best, and you

606
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Speaker 17: use that as a moment to talk about like, no,

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Speaker 17: it gets a little crazy over here, but oh yeah,

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Speaker 17: but it's important because when you if you've ever been

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Speaker 17: around your family, it is a lot of love and

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Speaker 17: a lot of light. But I'm sure on the inside

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Speaker 17: things get crazy.

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Speaker 12: Well, you know, that's a big misconception. People assume that

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Speaker 12: because you live a certain lifestyle or because you've earned

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Speaker 12: a certain financial status, that you don't have the same

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Speaker 12: problems that they have. You know. So that comment really

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Speaker 12: really stood out to me because she spoke on the

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Speaker 12: troubles and the trauma, the word trauma that she used,

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Speaker 12: and Rashan will speak on the word trauma sometimes he

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Speaker 12: feels as though it's a word that's overused, but it's

620
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Speaker 12: a word that represents something that so many people endure.

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Speaker 12: The difference now is that we have words to identify

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Speaker 12: how we feel and what we go through, and it's articulated.

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Speaker 12: Because when our feelings and our experiences are articulated, then

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Speaker 12: you're able to communicate. People are able to understand you,

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Speaker 12: You're able to understand other people. You're able to have

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Speaker 12: empathy and compassion for other people because now we're all

627
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Speaker 12: speaking a universal language. Like the word triggered, like the

628
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Speaker 12: word trauma, like the word of gaslin. You know, these

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Speaker 12: are things that some may think are overused now, but yes,

630
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Speaker 12: but there is value there. There is value there because

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Speaker 12: now we can see each other, we under stand each other.

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Speaker 1: When you're trying to create a safe space, you know,

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Speaker 1: how is it to venture into an unsafe space like

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Speaker 1: the comment, especially when somebody on the air every day.

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Speaker 2: You know, I mean if you have an opinion about.

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Speaker 15: It every day.

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Speaker 12: So I read every single comment.

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Speaker 15: I interact.

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Speaker 12: It started when I had a lower follower account. It

640
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Speaker 12: started because I always felt that if someone follows me,

641
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Speaker 12: that's an investment. In a small investment, maybe, but it's

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Speaker 12: an investment that they put into me. And they're looking

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Speaker 12: at my content content, they're looking at my pictures, and

644
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Speaker 12: you left a comment, I want to respond back to you.

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Speaker 15: I used to respond to almost every.

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Speaker 12: Comment, you know, but then when my followers went up,

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Speaker 12: I wasn't really able to do that, and that was

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Speaker 12: something that you know, I had to take that on

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Speaker 12: the chin.

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Speaker 15: I wasn't able to. But it's a sign of respect, and.

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Speaker 12: You said, why do I do that to myself? Because

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Speaker 12: I'm strong enough to do that. I'm strong enough to

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Speaker 12: do that. The comments don't if they are negative, and

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Speaker 12: I have to say I don't receive a lot of

655
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Speaker 12: negative comments, thankfully, thank God. But if they are negative,

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Speaker 12: I look at it as insight. I might ask myself, why.

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Speaker 15: Might someone have that perspective?

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Speaker 12: To me? It feeds my mental because I'm a thinker.

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Speaker 12: I'm a deep thinker. I'm all over things. I love

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Speaker 12: to understand people. So for me, the comments are food

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Speaker 12: and they also bring me happiness when they're good. It

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Speaker 12: lets you know that you're reaching someone, you're whatever it

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Speaker 12: is that you're putting out because it's in the sense

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Speaker 12: of sharing. There's a lot of things that I don't share,

665
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 12: so if I choose to share and it's well received,

666
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 12: then that's a good feeling. I think that's why a lot.

667
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 15: Of people are on or part of the reason why

668
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 15: a lot of people are on social media, you know

669
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Speaker 15: what I mean.

670
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 12: And I'm strong enough to do so. And that's because

671
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 12: of the way that I was raised. I was raised

672
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 12: to be a very strong and resilient woman.

673
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 15: It comes directly from my parents.

674
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Speaker 12: I'm fortunate in the sense that I can look back

675
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 12: and identif to find things about the way that I

676
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 12: was raised that created the individual, the woman, the mother,

677
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 12: the wife that I am. And it's for me. It's

678
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 12: a very beautiful thing. Both of my parents are no

679
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 12: longer here, so to be able to say, wow, when

680
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 12: my mother did this every single day, or when she

681
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 12: took me here once a week, or when she said

682
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 12: this to me, and those compliments, and that the way

683
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 12: that she fed me and she fed my soul, and

684
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 12: the joy that I experienced, and the amount of fun

685
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 12: that I had as a kid, like I loved my life.

686
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 15: And it's not because we were wealthy. We were not.

687
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 12: We were a middle class family. I'm from Brooklyn, from

688
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 12: East Flatbush. We weren't raised, you know, like I'm from

689
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 12: an urban area. And it's not had nothing to do

690
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 12: with money. It had nothing to do with wealth. It

691
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 12: had everything to do with what my parents poured into

692
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 12: my home and the love that I felt. And that

693
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 12: is what we put into writing this book. There's a

694
00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 12: lot of books that we could have written, you know,

695
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 12: so many ideas came. Oh because Real Life or Love

696
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 12: was a huge success. It was a national bestseller. So

697
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 12: it's like, I go, you write a book about this. We said,

698
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 12: we want to write a book about family. It's what

699
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 12: we know best. It's what we know best. We've had

700
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 12: so many ups, so many downs, so.

701
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 15: Many wins, so many losses, so many things that we

702
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 15: thought we were doing right that we weren't.

703
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 12: That we had to regroup and make sure that we

704
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 12: were balanced, you know, as as a married couple. Because

705
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 12: when we didn't agree, it's like my way is better,

706
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 12: know what my way is better? And this, you know,

707
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 12: we had to come to a meeting of the minds.

708
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 12: Yeah you know what I mean. So a relationship, you know,

709
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 12: the relationship grew, you know, because we had to learn

710
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,719
Speaker 12: how to see eye to eye as parents. So there

711
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 12: was just there was many many ups and downs, and

712
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 12: we wanted to pour that all into a book. You know.

713
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 12: We wanted to let everyone know like it's really that

714
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 12: village mentality. It's really that like we are a community,

715
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 12: especially our black community, because I'm black. Yes, yeah, yeah,

716
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 12: for the record, for the record, Spanish.

717
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Speaker 10: Joy.

718
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Speaker 12: But I know that you're well aware because you speak

719
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 12: to things of this nature often. But our history is

720
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 12: being erased in schools and it's being stripped away silently

721
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 12: in society. So the foundation starts in our homes. We

722
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 12: have to teach children how to identify themselves. We have

723
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 12: to teach children that sense of belonging, and they have

724
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 12: to understand that they come from something meaningful. And if

725
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 12: you leave it up to society to teach them that,

726
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 12: you're going to wind up with children that are lost,

727
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 12: that are overlooked, that don't know how to identify themselves,

728
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 12: that get taken advantage of, and that are susceptible to

729
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 12: what society wants for them. So for us, our core,

730
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 12: our nucleus, our foundation, our home supersedes anything else in

731
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 12: this world.

732
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Speaker 15: We put our family first.

733
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Speaker 7: Would you say that you and and we have two

734
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 7: different parenting styles, absolutely the more lenient parent.

735
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 15: Who was the more lenient parent?

736
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Speaker 2: It depends what it is like.

737
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 3: You know, everybody knows my dad is retired police officer

738
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 3: and ex military, So I'm disciplined. I was the yell

739
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 3: of the screamer, because I said, so, it is a

740
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 3: lot different, like seven hours, Like she wants to know

741
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 3: why did you feel like she likes to break down.

742
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 6: You don't get it, You're gonna get it by the

743
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 6: end of the right.

744
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 2: Exactly. So you got to think, really think before you

745
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 2: speak to U.

746
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Speaker 3: Because she's like, all right, explain that, like I just

747
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 3: said it just because no, no, no, explain this. But so

748
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 3: I'm more like, because I said so, she's more like, well,

749
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 3: you can't go to the more because of this, because

750
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Speaker 3: this could happen. Explain your parentsingtole Mine is my dad

751
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 3: was like no, and you didn't ask why it was

752
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 3: what it was you just figured out later.

753
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 2: Is a little different. I prefer the explanation.

754
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 15: Yeah. So that's how my parents were with me.

755
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 12: I knew that my parents were invested in me living

756
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 12: a happy, fulfilled and fun life, and we didn't go

757
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 12: lightly on the fun. And because I knew that, and

758
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 12: my parents never said no just for the sake of

759
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 12: saying no. Because parents are overworked and they are stressed,

760
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 12: and the last thing they want to hear when they

761
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 12: walk through the door is mommy, can.

762
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 15: I can you take me here? Can you buy me this?

763
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 15: Can we watch this together? Can we go like flow down?

764
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 5: No?

765
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 15: And sometimes you say no.

766
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 12: You don't even know why you're saying no. That's not

767
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 12: a good parenting technique. Yeah, you really have to take

768
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 12: a moment.

769
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 15: You have to take a beat. You all have to

770
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 15: take a beat.

771
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 12: To listen to our children and be patient. And because

772
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 12: I knew that my parents were invested in me that way,

773
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 12: I knew that when they said no, there was a

774
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 12: good reason.

775
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 2: How do you make sure you not you're raising the

776
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 2: kids out of love and fear?

777
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 12: Though that's such a good question, it comes with the explanations,

778
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 12: do you know what I mean? I don't tell them

779
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 12: you can't do this and you can't do that? Why

780
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 12: because I said so? Let me explain to you why.

781
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 12: You know, sometimes we'll watch the news together, you know,

782
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:18,479
Speaker 12: when they're at an appropriate age at about nine years old.

783
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 12: You know, I think that they're mature enough to ingest

784
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 12: certain things. So what I do is I would record

785
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 12: it on my DVR and then cherry pick different stories

786
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 12: that I think that are appropriate, that speak to the

787
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 12: protective measures that we take on them, you know what

788
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 12: I mean. So it's like, if I see a child

789
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 12: abduction that's not too traumatic, I might save that and

790
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 12: then show it to a child that's old enough.

791
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: You know.

792
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 15: I did it with.

793
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 12: Madison, I did it with Logan, and I find that

794
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 12: they take that into their adult lives and they're very,

795
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,839
Speaker 12: very like. Madison walks around like a police officer. She

796
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 12: has a boyfriend. His name is Andrew, and when they

797
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 12: go into a restaurant, she's the one that sits facing

798
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 12: the door.

799
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 15: She feels like the protective in that.

800
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 12: Relationship because her head is always on smoke, you know

801
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 12: what I mean. She could tell you a car that

802
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 12: was driving six cars ahead, you know, and she's always

803
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 12: paying attention to license plates. When she was young, I

804
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,280
Speaker 12: used to go through like in case you get kidnapped

805
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 12: scenarios because it's the type of information that can save

806
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:22,280
Speaker 12: a life.

807
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 15: Girls are being taken.

808
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 12: So if you have a young girl, it is very

809
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:32,240
Speaker 12: proactive to educate them about the realities and the tricks

810
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 12: and the cons that people. You know, because even me

811
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 12: as proactive as I try to be, that whole technique,

812
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 12: with a baby crying outside your house, I would I

813
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 12: would be inclined to open the door if I hear

814
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 12: a baby crying and someone that sounds like a mother

815
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 12: yelling and screaming outside the house.

816
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 15: I am that type of person, but not me.

817
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 12: But now I am I am because I would my

818
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 12: heart with my eyes, I would be inclined to open

819
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 12: that door. But now with all the knowledge and some

820
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,840
Speaker 12: of the good things about social media is that so

821
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 12: much knowledge is being spread, so now we're consuming good

822
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 12: information as well. So I heard that, I'm like, wow,

823
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 12: that's absolutely right. It jogs your.

824
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 15: Thinking, it makes you say, oh, wait a minute.

825
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 12: I do have to put myself first, even if someone else,

826
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 12: a stranger, seems to be in need. I have to

827
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 12: prioritize myself, my home, my family. So you know, it's

828
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 12: important to spread information and to teach your kids, even

829
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 12: though it may be a little scary, but you do

830
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:35,280
Speaker 12: have to do it in a way where it doesn't

831
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 12: incite fear.

832
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 15: How y'all pick and choose?

833
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 17: What do y'all like? What y'all decide to be transparent about,

834
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 17: Like it's just so much, and your kids are getting

835
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 17: older and they're like, you know, like they're wanting to

836
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 17: walk by themselves with their friends.

837
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,399
Speaker 3: If it was up to me, I'm transparent with everything right,

838
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,720
Speaker 3: Geea has to hold back a lot, like for instance,

839
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 3: like with Logan. Right, Logan, when he was in high school,

840
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 3: you used to get picked on all the time.

841
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 2: But he used to get picked on. Guess for what reason? No,

842
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 2: because because Charlamagne. Yes, yes, so.

843
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 3: When you gave me the ask, that's why he gave

844
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 3: me the buck cake, when he gave me the not

845
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 3: much better you know what I mean, not about to

846
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 3: He used to be getting made fun of it because

847
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 3: of that. So but the reason I'm so transparent is

848
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 3: there's so many families and people dealing with the same

849
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 3: things but never want to talk about it.

850
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 2: Scared to.

851
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 3: So that's why I talked about the orgasm thing in

852
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 3: the first book. That's why in this in the second book,

853
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 3: we talk about, you know, the time from the first.

854
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 2: Every view, every you want to do some.

855
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 3: Even like in this book we talk about the time

856
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 3: that that Logan found a bloody condom at one of

857
00:38:58,480 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 3: his friend's house.

858
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 2: So he can't, but he's comfortable. Why are you looking

859
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 2: at that? It wasn't mine.

860
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 12: He's like, oh, he found bloody house a right friend friends,

861
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:18,320
Speaker 12: and and he was like maybe nine years old, nine years.

862
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 2: Old, he was about nine years old, but he was

863
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,479
Speaker 2: comfortable enough. He was in.

864
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 12: The basement, and and the little boy had an older brother.

865
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, when.

866
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 3: My gosh, so she had That's what we had the

867
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 3: sex talk and had to have the sex talk with

868
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:38,720
Speaker 3: Logan and Madison.

869
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 1: What kind of sex talk though it wasn't a backdoor

870
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: sex talk that we ain't just birds and bees and

871
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: wasp and.

872
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 15: They got a full blown sex talk. They had to

873
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 15: understand because if you leave it back door.

874
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 2: Sex to him, That's what I'm really trying to figure out.

875
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 2: Why was the condon bloody? I'm really kind when.

876
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, somebody be like a first time thing.

877
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 12: Yeah yeah, but no they at that point I found

878
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 12: that they were old enough and mature enough, and you're

879
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 12: they're encountering things now, these conversations are being had amongst

880
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,439
Speaker 12: their peers, and I knew that if I didn't set

881
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 12: them straight, that they were going to be absorbing all

882
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 12: of this wrong information and wrong ideas. So I told

883
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 12: them sex feels good, It's a pleasureful experience. God made

884
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 12: us that way because God wants us to reproduce, He

885
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 12: wants us to create offspring. So he made it something

886
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 12: that we would enjoy, but it's meant for someone that

887
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 12: you love and that's the reason why. So they're like, oh, okay,

888
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 12: so what is it like and what did you say? Okay,

889
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 12: if I'm being honest, I told them that there is

890
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 12: a penis and there is a vagina. And my son,

891
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 12: Logan was like, so like this. I was like, yeah,

892
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 12: something like that. I said, you know, some people look

893
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 12: at it as a negative thing.

894
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:17,320
Speaker 15: No, no, No, he really didn't know.

895
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 2: He really didn't.

896
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 15: He really didn't.

897
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 12: Even like my eleven year old son right now, he

898
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 12: does not know. So when they asked me questions that

899
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 12: I don't want them to know about.

900
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 15: And he's older than Logan was.

901
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 12: But now with I have a better grip on his

902
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 12: friends and a grip on what he's exposed to on

903
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 12: his phone and whatnot in parameters boundaries, so I'm really

904
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 12: abreast of what he knows and what he doesn't in

905
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 12: our lines of communication.

906
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 2: Are way better. Yeah, you have.

907
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 7: Six kids, So is there anything that you felt like

908
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 7: in the beginning got itt know and until y'all got

909
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,839
Speaker 7: to that six kid, of course, Yeah, Like, what were

910
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 7: some of the I'll give you a next timeple?

911
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,439
Speaker 6: You didn't know? You just was like, man, Rashan winging

912
00:41:59,520 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 6: this like.

913
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 12: I'll give you an example. So one of the fails,

914
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 12: and this was something that we disagreed on. So it

915
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 12: was the explaining everything to the kids. I have the

916
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 12: patience to do it. And he really is a because

917
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 12: I said so type of guy. And it worked beautifully

918
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 12: with Madison, but with Logan from a young age, I

919
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:21,760
Speaker 12: would explain everything to him and he's a mama's.

920
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 2: Boy times thirty, you know what I.

921
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 15: Mean, Like we're very, very close.

922
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 12: But it kind of went wrong with him because what

923
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 12: we found was that we created an environment where he

924
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 12: felt that he was entitled to an explanation and he

925
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 12: felt as though because we gave him too safe of

926
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 12: a space that he could challenge me and he can

927
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 12: challenge a decision that I made. So we had to

928
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 12: dial that back to the boundaries and then we had

929
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 12: to teach boundaries and let him know his place. So

930
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 12: that was a fail in a sense. And Rashamoud always

931
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 12: look at me like see I told you, Like see

932
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 12: I told you.

933
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 2: Because he's the bad guy.

934
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 3: Because now I got to go discipline that. So now

935
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 3: me and Logan get into it.

936
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 2: Now you can't beat Logan because Logan.

937
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 3: So now I got a discipline Logan, and then me

938
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 3: and Logan get into it. But one thing about Logan

939
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,879
Speaker 3: and all of our kids, which is the craziest thing, is.

940
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 2: They're very forgiven.

941
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 3: Like with Logan, I have to get sometimes so disrespectful

942
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 3: for him to understand.

943
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 2: And the next day he's like, hey Dad, what's up.

944
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 2: And I'm like, hey Dad, what's up.

945
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 3: But that's how he is, and he just has conversations.

946
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,439
Speaker 3: But we have those conversations and we understand and we talk.

947
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 3: But he's he's the one that just like his mom.

948
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 2: Did you have a family mission statement?

949
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 6: Yes?

950
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:38,840
Speaker 2: What is the mission statement? And tell people the importance

951
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 2: of that.

952
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 3: Well, just so we know, we don't have it on

953
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 3: our wall and then make the kids read it when

954
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 3: they walk in the house. It's not like that. So

955
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 3: our mission statement is just something that we, you know,

956
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 3: as a family, we all live by, right, And I'll

957
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 3: read some of them. And the reason is is we

958
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,760
Speaker 3: are a close unit. Right, So if you see us together,

959
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 3: we're all always out together. You see me the other

960
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 3: day with Jackson, You've seen me before, Charlan mane Sei before.

961
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 2: So the misterstatement is we are a unit.

962
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:04,959
Speaker 3: Right, we all ride together like we are really a unit,

963
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 3: a unit. I'm an only child, so I'm heavy into

964
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 3: taking care of each other. We respect each other, of course,

965
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 3: simple like we make sure that you know, we respect

966
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:14,320
Speaker 3: each other's feeling.

967
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 2: We always have each other's backs.

968
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 3: That's one thing that we always do, and it's you know,

969
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 3: sometimes when we have conversations up here, I always talk

970
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,240
Speaker 3: about my kids. So when they see stuff on social media,

971
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,879
Speaker 3: at times I have to stop them because they will

972
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 3: go in, especially Logan Logan, Oh, yeah. We always love

973
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 3: uplift each other and pointing out the good in one another.

974
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 2: Right.

975
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 3: We see that more especially with our girls in dance

976
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 3: because they compete against each other a lot, so when

977
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 3: they do, we have to make sure that regardless of

978
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 3: what happens. Like a couple of weeks ago, London lost

979
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 3: and we thought London got jerked. So I told, you know,

980
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 3: I had a conversation with Brooklyn, and Brooklyn was like, Dad, don't.

981
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 2: Worry, I'm gonna get first and the second four. And

982
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:49,479
Speaker 2: she went out there and busted at the first and second.

983
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:50,799
Speaker 15: She got first place, and.

984
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 3: You know, gave the first place to her sister because

985
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:56,360
Speaker 3: that's what it was. We represent each other at all times.

986
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 3: That's how it always is. So we always tell our

987
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 3: kids if we're not there, you make sure that those

988
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 3: parents come back and say, oh my gosh, he was

989
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 3: such a pleasure. He was polite, he was this even

990
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 3: with Jackson at the game. You know, Jackson said thank

991
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 3: you a million one time, so you said hello million

992
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 3: one times you because that's what he's taught to do

993
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 3: it you show respect with that.

994
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,359
Speaker 12: My goal for my kids is that when they leave

995
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 12: our house, I want everyone that they come in contact

996
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,720
Speaker 12: with to know that they're well loved. What we teach

997
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 12: you inside this house you exemplify outside of this house.

998
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 12: And these are things that a lot of parents don't

999
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 12: put into perspective when raising children.

1000
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 15: Because what do we usually do.

1001
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 12: We take, like, you know, an idea, and we throw

1002
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 12: it up against the wall and we see if it

1003
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 12: sticks or not.

1004
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 15: You know what I mean, Oh that worked, Oh that didn't.

1005
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 2: Okay.

1006
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 12: But a lot of people don't have something tangible that

1007
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 12: they can go back to and be like, this is

1008
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 12: a way to create a foundation, This is a way

1009
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,479
Speaker 12: to create a structure. And because we had so many

1010
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 12: ups and downs, we were able to do that and

1011
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 12: put it in one place.

1012
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 3: And I think the biggest story now you hate want

1013
00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 3: to tell a story, was Jackson?

1014
00:45:59,080 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 2: Right.

1015
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 3: So we had a parent teae night a couple of

1016
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 3: weeks ago and a teacher came up to me. Teacher,

1017
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 3: I had no idea you know who he was step night.

1018
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 3: So he walks up to me. He was like, are

1019
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 3: you Jackson's dad? And I'm like, yeah, what.

1020
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 2: A teacher usually asked? That's us? This bs right?

1021
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 3: So I'm like, oh, here we go. What did Jackson do?

1022
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 3: And he was like, I just want to tell you. You know,

1023
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 3: Jackson did something that no child or adult has done

1024
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 3: in my life. The other day, I'm walking down the

1025
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,399
Speaker 3: hall and Jackson comes running up to me and he goes,

1026
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 3: you know, are you okay?

1027
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 2: And the teacher was like, what do you mean?

1028
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 3: He was like, you just don't look as happy as

1029
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 3: you usually do, or you are right?

1030
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 2: Is anything bothering you? Would you like to have a

1031
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:29,839
Speaker 2: conversation with me and just talk it through?

1032
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 3: Like he was like, now, you just don't seem as

1033
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 3: happy as you do, but don't let things stress you out.

1034
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 2: Just pray on it and tomorrow'll be better. Right, And

1035
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:42,239
Speaker 2: if you need to talk to me, Come talk to me.

1036
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 3: And he said, Jackson ran off and he was like,

1037
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 3: I've never had an adult or a child ever do

1038
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 3: that to me. So he was like, whatever you're doing

1039
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 3: at home, continue that, and you know, I mean that

1040
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 3: just shows what the kids are learning at home is

1041
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 3: worth every and so you need.

1042
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 2: To report that teacher too. He don't need to be

1043
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 2: in the school.

1044
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 3: You got some time.

1045
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:10,240
Speaker 6: Such a beautiful family.

1046
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 15: Thank you, you know.

1047
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 3: Have you, Thank you for pulling up and for everybody else.

1048
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 3: We just want to add this last part. We actually

1049
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:23,240
Speaker 3: wrote it with somebody that helped us out with terms

1050
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 3: and helped us with different phrases and helped us with

1051
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 3: made sure that we were actually doing the right thing

1052
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 3: when it came to raising our kids.

1053
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:33,280
Speaker 12: Yes, so we wrote it alongside a psychologist because yes,

1054
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 12: because we wanted to make sure that our outlooks were

1055
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:41,879
Speaker 12: were on the level that I would want to put

1056
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 12: it out to the public. I wanted the psychological research

1057
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 12: and quarterbacking behind the way that we parent to pretty.

1058
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 15: Much put a stamp on it, to know that what we're.

1059
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,800
Speaker 12: Doing not just from our personal experience driven point of

1060
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 12: view is sound, but from a psychological point of view

1061
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 12: is also sound. Wanted to make sure that alongside the

1062
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:05,399
Speaker 12: truth and the transparency and the experience that we had

1063
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 12: that backing to the book as well. I wanted that

1064
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,399
Speaker 12: level of value in the book as well.

1065
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 15: So and also you.

1066
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 12: Know, if you have a child with anxiety, add ADHD,

1067
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 12: other setbacks, other disabilities, you know, we speak to you

1068
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 12: in this book as well, because those people are very like.

1069
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 15: They don't have that many resources.

1070
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,359
Speaker 12: This book is for anyone who is a parent, a

1071
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 12: single parent, a parent that is married.

1072
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 15: Maybe about to have kids next, someone that wants to

1073
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 15: have a child. Wow, you look over here, thank you,

1074
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 15: it's it's it's it's forever.

1075
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 12: It's a very relatable book and there's a lot of

1076
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 12: exercises in the book. We kind of also created it

1077
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 12: in like a workbook.

1078
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 15: Style, so there's a lot of reflections.

1079
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 12: There's a lot of places in there for you to

1080
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 12: answer questions, so you can kind of analyze yourself and

1081
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 12: understand your own point of view in a way of

1082
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 12: like articulation, where if you haven't really thought about certain things,

1083
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 12: it'll jog you to think about things. And even if

1084
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 12: you don't duke, don't take on take it encourages you

1085
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,720
Speaker 12: and helps you to come up with your own takes

1086
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 12: on parenting.

1087
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 2: So you have to my real family, the Casey Crews,

1088
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:12,480
Speaker 2: the Breakfast club gave.

1089
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 6: Me donkey other day, and I deserve that. You need

1090
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:15,879
Speaker 6: to know what you need to tell them.

1091
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 2: I am you have the boy.

1092
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 6: Tell them it's time for don't give the day.

1093
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: It's a read.

1094
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 2: But you're so good at your charlamage.

1095
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 5: Sure you wants Charlomagne to go.

1096
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, Solomon, who do you give the dusk the other day?

1097
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 5: Sooner?

1098
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 1: Well, sexy rad Donkey of to day goes to Robert

1099
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 1: Langleiss in Tunisia, eBay. They had thirty three and thirty

1100
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 1: two years old, respectively, and they was trying to duck

1101
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 1: the law. Okay, just like you did last night. It's okay,

1102
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: all right. Somebody out there listening to me right now.

1103
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: Ran from the police late last night, early this morning.

1104
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: It happens, I understand, all right. One of the best

1105
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: feelings in the world is running from police and getting away.

1106
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 2: Trust me, I know, I sold crack ones. Okay, when

1107
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 2: the police are coming to raise your spot and you

1108
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 2: hit the woods and get away, what an exilt feeling. Now,

1109
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 2: you shouldn't be doing illegal things that would make the

1110
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 2: police come after you. I am not encouraging that.

1111
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 1: I'm just simply saying that when you are doing illegal

1112
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 1: things and the police come for you and you get away, incredible. Now,

1113
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 1: Robin and Tania don't know what that feels like. No,

1114
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: officers tried to execute a warrant on a property in

1115
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: Fall River, Massachusetts, and Robin and Tania tried to get away,

1116
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,720
Speaker 1: but it didn't work. Let's go to NBC ten Boston

1117
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 1: for the report.

1118
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 2: Police. No, that's not Santa Claus.

1119
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 16: You're looking at police body camera video from Fall River.

1120
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 16: It shows a man there stuck in a chimney where

1121
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 16: told officers executed a search warrant at a home on

1122
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 16: Canal Street last night. That's when thirty three year old

1123
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 16: Robert Langleace tried to evade arrest by hiding in a chimney.

1124
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 2: It didn't work.

1125
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,240
Speaker 16: He got stuck. Police had to call in the fire

1126
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 16: department to get him out. Langlace is facing drug charges.

1127
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 1: See this is what happens when you believe in Santa Claus.

1128
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: Every year, you all get mad at me for telling

1129
00:50:54,040 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 1: the truth. No, Santa Claus is not real, Okayanta.

1130
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 2: Clause is not real. Clause is not real.

1131
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: Number one, reindeers don't fly they Number two, you don't

1132
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:10,800
Speaker 1: even own the chimney, all right. Number three, if you

1133
00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 1: owned the chimney, would Santa Claus be able to fit

1134
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 1: down it?

1135
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 2: Have you seen Santa Claus?

1136
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:17,280
Speaker 1: He's built exactly like former Governor of New Jersey, Chris Christie.

1137
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: All right, there's no way. There's no way his big

1138
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 1: ass could fit down the chimney. But you humans have

1139
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: convinced yourselves that the story of saying it is real

1140
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:26,920
Speaker 1: and being that you all think sand is real. You

1141
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: think what Santa does is real, and you thought your

1142
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 1: dumb ass could just slide down the chimney and end

1143
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 1: up wear exactly Huh in somebody's living room eating milk

1144
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 1: and cookies.

1145
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:35,800
Speaker 2: Huh.

1146
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: Now, Robin and Tania will both charged with possession of

1147
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 1: class A and B drugs. I had to look that up.

1148
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 2: Okay.

1149
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 1: Class A drugs in Massachusetts are heroin, morphine, meth, ecstasy,

1150
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: and ketamine. All right, Class B drugs, somebody tell what.

1151
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 15: You think.

1152
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 2: Nick's ready for vacation drug tests up? My god?

1153
00:51:56,840 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: Class B drugs of cocaine, crack, lsd an, ecstasy. Okay, Listen,

1154
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,319
Speaker 1: none of this is surprising in light of the circumstances.

1155
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: Whoever made up the story of Santa Claus.

1156
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 2: Was high as hell. Okay, it's the only explanation.

1157
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:11,760
Speaker 1: And the fact we created this one size fitch sauce

1158
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 1: story that doesn't even make no damn sense hasn't even

1159
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: really stood the test of time if you think about it.

1160
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 1: We live in the era of Amazon fed x ups

1161
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:22,839
Speaker 1: dropping packages off all types today, all times a night.

1162
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:24,439
Speaker 2: But all Santa God is a.

1163
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 1: Bag, one bag, like he a hole who just stayed

1164
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 1: over for the night, and he got something for everybody

1165
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: in the world, and just one bag dressed in all red.

1166
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 2: So he don't go to crip neighborhoods. Huh.

1167
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:39,800
Speaker 1: Not to mention, Nobody ever questions who exactly are the elves.

1168
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:42,359
Speaker 1: I don't think they are else at all. I think

1169
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 1: Santa Claus is engaging in child labor. Okay, if he's real,

1170
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:46,719
Speaker 1: he got a bunch of kids in the know poll

1171
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,280
Speaker 1: treating him like slaves either that are they are desperate

1172
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,879
Speaker 1: migrants from Mexico and Santa Claus has benefiting from cheap

1173
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 1: illegal labor. Now, some of y'all out there are saying yourself.

1174
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 1: Charlamage is on the radio making up things about Santa Claus.

1175
00:52:58,080 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 1: If you feel that way, then you two are on

1176
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 1: Class A class be drugs. I'm making up things about

1177
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 1: a made up thing.

1178
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1179
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: The morrow of the story is police described Robert's antics

1180
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 1: ass Santa like, well, this deseason, please give Robert Langlish

1181
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: the sweet sounds of the Hamilton.

1182
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 18: So you oh the day, oh the day, ye.

1183
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:38,759
Speaker 3: Becauseta, Santa Claus is real.

1184
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why you your ass all year long

1185
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,240
Speaker 1: to give a fat white man the credit for taking

1186
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:44,920
Speaker 1: care of your family.

1187
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 3: I did say Santa was white. I just said Sada's real.

1188
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: Well, either way giving another man credit, but that is

1189
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 1: crazy though, exactly what type of man gives another man

1190
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: credit for taking care of his fami?

1191
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 2: He grew up Jehovah witness.

1192
00:53:56,120 --> 00:54:01,360
Speaker 6: I mean, oh my god, it is the whole community

1193
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 6: dealing with reality.

1194
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 3: So yeah, so Santa Israel and Shelter being good out there.

1195
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:10,359
Speaker 2: So that's right, thank you so much.

1196
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 3: So so Santa could get you toys and the Elvisanta

1197
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,879
Speaker 3: watching you guys to make sure you guys are doing

1198
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 3: the right thing, so you can get more toys from Santa.

1199
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:22,280
Speaker 6: He has children, young children, Charlotte.

1200
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 1: N okayhole, who laugh at us because they're like, why

1201
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 1: are you trying to convince us that this entity is real?

1202
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:34,280
Speaker 2: But suit it for levels?

1203
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:38,320
Speaker 7: Your kids know more about civil rights and everything.

1204
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 6: He hasn't introduced that to them.

1205
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 2: Yet, so you re all right, jesus.

1206
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 6: I don't know the last time I seen the chimney?

1207
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 2: What is the chimbley? What's stretched out? Stressed? When you

1208
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:58,080
Speaker 2: when you make up your words? And I know because

1209
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 2: you got your list for going on. But I it's

1210
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:01,319
Speaker 2: always been chimney for me.

1211
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:01,719
Speaker 6: I'm sorry.

1212
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 3: You got a five place. I have a five place,

1213
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 3: but I don't have a chimney. If you have a

1214
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:08,280
Speaker 3: five place, you have a chimney.

1215
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 2: Oh so when is it?

1216
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 6: Where is that in the attics?

1217
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 2: You know what?

1218
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 3: I've never seen the chimney, John, If I got a chimney,

1219
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:16,160
Speaker 3: youth exactly?

1220
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 2: An electric five place?

1221
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 4: Though?

1222
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 2: Oh see, now how you do that? You have a chimney, sir?

1223
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 2: What an electric five place? Yes? I don't know.

1224
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 6: And we know about houses.

1225
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 1: I know when we don't got Santa Claus. Okay, I

1226
00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 1: know we ain't got that. I know that much.

1227
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 2: I hate this place, man, all right, it's the Breakfast Club.

1228
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 3: Good morning morning everybody in stej n V, Jess, Hilarious,

1229
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 3: Charlamagne and the God.

1230
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. You got a special guests.

1231
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:41,840
Speaker 1: In the bat Man, who I feel like him and

1232
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 1: Jess have one of the best co parenting relationships I've

1233
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 1: ever seen.

1234
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 2: Room is Hell, Room is here. I got already Room

1235
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 2: you Wow, what happened?

1236
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,319
Speaker 3: Just saying I want to know who gave Room some

1237
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 3: liquid this morning? And I was like, I ain't give

1238
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 3: it to abody, just told them where the ball was. Yes,

1239
00:55:58,040 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 3: help you help yourself.

1240
00:55:59,400 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 2: That's fine.

1241
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 7: You said it was apple juice, and so I was

1242
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 7: about to take a step and I was like, I

1243
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 7: was not.

1244
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 13: You already knew it one apple juice. I just ain't

1245
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 13: thank you. Was gonna pick the cup up?

1246
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 2: Okay?

1247
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 1: You and just have the best parents in situation I've

1248
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 1: ever witnessed. How did y'all get to this point?

1249
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 4: There?

1250
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:16,279
Speaker 2: And she thinks she's my mother first and foremost, But

1251
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 2: it took time. I felt like when you take the.

1252
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 13: Feelings out of it and you realize that the child

1253
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,359
Speaker 13: is the most important part of the relationship, because it's

1254
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 13: still a reallyship.

1255
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:30,879
Speaker 2: Whether you're intimate or not, you can do magical things.

1256
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,359
Speaker 13: Magical things, And I think that me being a dad

1257
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 13: that I was and that I am still today, I

1258
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 13: wanted that.

1259
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 2: I felt like if.

1260
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 13: We wasn't gonna be together, it was more need for

1261
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 13: us to be. We've created over time. Whereas now she's

1262
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 13: my best friend, she's my safe space. I feel like

1263
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 13: when I convent to her because sometimes all the time

1264
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 13: I need it. But I feel like when I was

1265
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 13: pouring into these other women, they would use against me.

1266
00:56:56,680 --> 00:57:00,000
Speaker 13: Whereas though now now that she's pregnant, I don't really

1267
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 13: call it and say certain things because I know she's

1268
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 13: going through certain things mentally now. So Ess is always

1269
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,800
Speaker 13: with my safe space though, so it's like she's always

1270
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:10,719
Speaker 13: been a person that I go to a call give

1271
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 13: me advice, some advice I don't take, but just to hear,

1272
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 13: but just to hear her give it to you, just

1273
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 13: to know that she cared, because.

1274
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:18,920
Speaker 2: Like, man, I don't really have nobody. How did y'all,

1275
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 2: how did y'all meet? How did you meet Jesson? How

1276
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 2: did y'all start dating? Back then? Did you see it

1277
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 2: when it was.

1278
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 3: Like, oh, this is this is somebody I want to

1279
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 3: it's crazy because we grew up on the he'starting to smile.

1280
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 2: He goes back, No, because my mom, my mom was alive.

1281
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 2: My mom down was a tenth. My mom was alive.

1282
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 2: We went to the same church. My mom died.

1283
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 13: My father like really took me away from everybody. So

1284
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 13: now it was like fast forward. I'm like seventeen Facebook

1285
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 13: and she came across my timeline. I was like, okay,

1286
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:50,439
Speaker 13: so I did a dot dot dot and I put

1287
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 13: a basketball.

1288
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 2: Emoses you thought she was a w just shut up.

1289
00:57:57,520 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 2: He played with you, but she bid on a tick.

1290
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 13: I think I was like, I'm just coming to get

1291
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 13: my ball. Coming to get was mine something?

1292
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 2: And you wat a basketball room. I needed to know.

1293
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 2: I've seen it somewhere. Basketball. No, I seen somebody do that. Like,

1294
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 2: I don't know what I seen. Basketball is eleven year,

1295
00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 2: twelve years ago. So I'm like, I don't know.

1296
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 13: I I did it because I thought it was it

1297
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 13: was corny, but I thought it was you know, but

1298
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:22,919
Speaker 13: it worked.

1299
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 2: It got our test. What do you think just when

1300
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 2: you saw the basketball, I just.

1301
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 7: Said I just typed that back and like he said,

1302
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 7: it was my ball, it's my ball, and I'm coming

1303
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 7: to get I'm coming to get it or something like

1304
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 7: I'm coming to get.

1305
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 6: With mine And I was like, okay, what's up.

1306
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 7: I knew what that was, giving what it was about it,

1307
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 7: but it worked.

1308
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 2: It worked. So you started talking, Where was your first date?

1309
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:46,479
Speaker 3: What was your first when you started first talking?

1310
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 2: What was your honest? Man, jas did a lot.

1311
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 13: I'm gonna say this, before a lot of these young

1312
00:58:53,760 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 13: guys became Jody, I was Jody and that first date,

1313
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 13: big date. I'm gonna say it was six flags.

1314
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, doing it big.

1315
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 13: But before that we did a lot of other things.

1316
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 13: But after that it was we did a lot. Like

1317
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 13: she introduced me to a lot. Actually we both it

1318
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 13: was the same age, but she helped make me become God,

1319
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 13: you're becoming a man, feming the man and then yeah,

1320
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:22,960
Speaker 13: then boom.

1321
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:26,320
Speaker 3: I just always says that you are you were overprotective,

1322
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 3: make sure she was good.

1323
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 2: But she always said, you can't fight. Oh my god, no,

1324
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 2: she never seen me fight. Had we thought?

1325
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 6: I got that from.

1326
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 13: I'm not want to fight her. Bro Oh, it's crazy

1327
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 13: because I just got a picture from the window.

1328
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 2: You bust the minds one window? Would I fist What

1329
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 2: what happened? You can't be her? And if she could

1330
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 2: break a window from a fist out when you're trying

1331
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 2: to fight, what happened?

1332
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 14: Wrong?

1333
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 2: To take a sip thinking about that?

1334
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 13: My step like, Jessica pull up, mindu eate together. Jessica

1335
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 13: pulls up. I had a girl in the house. So

1336
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 13: my brother like, come to the top of the steps.

1337
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 2: Like just at the door. I'm like, all right here

1338
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 2: I come. You don't even wait for me to come.

1339
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 2: He let her, He let her in. Oh boy, I

1340
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:18,880
Speaker 2: walked right past him and his friends with the girl.

1341
01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 2: That's the good end step.

1342
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 13: But what did I see when I walked down the steps? Jerne,

1343
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 13: you didn't see so and then she tries to passage

1344
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 13: this story.

1345
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:30,160
Speaker 2: Ashton, I had a portable.

1346
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 13: Rocking bashing that where I could put it in the trunk,

1347
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 13: send it to her, bring it back. Ashton was in

1348
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 13: a portable rocking joint. Me and the girl was on

1349
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 13: the on the bed. I had on basketball short, she

1350
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,640
Speaker 13: had on her uniform pasts. She gonna say, she's been

1351
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:43,040
Speaker 13: saying this.

1352
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 6: Is correct.

1353
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 2: She's a correctional officer.

1354
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 13: So like she's sitting she's facing me, but her legs

1355
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 13: is like, you know how that goes to come down and.

1356
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 2: Says she keeps she gonna say, oh, we was naked.

1357
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 2: We was not naked. It been happening. I don't get

1358
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 2: when she topped it up. Oh my gosh. She's never

1359
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 2: gonna tell anyway, she banged the girl, beat up the girl.

1360
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 2: She didn't beat up, bang popped and I picked up

1361
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 2: and walked up stairs and through outside.

1362
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 6: You could never lift me.

1363
01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 2: You never see what I'm saying. He never wants to.

1364
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 2: She never wants to admit the truth. On the field.

1365
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 2: Couldn't fight. No, I ain't.

1366
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 6: Fight or not.

1367
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 7: But she the one time and then she she put

1368
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 7: on her uniform and went unless went upstairs. I promise you,

1369
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 7: I wish it was the cat that that. No, my

1370
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 7: son was not in no portable nothing. He was on

1371
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 7: the floor on a blanket and the cat was looking

1372
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:43,440
Speaker 7: at him like he wanted.

1373
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:43,680
Speaker 2: To eat him.

1374
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 13: Yes, under the carpet. So I will never lay my

1375
01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 13: I wouldn't even lay on the floor.

1376
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 2: About this eleven. She never want to tell you. She

1377
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 2: was drunk out of her mind. And I'm trying to

1378
01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 2: figure out whoever was just getting off work. Just damn

1379
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 2: a joke. You didn't.

1380
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 7: Damn you didn't just get off where he was fired

1381
01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:06,200
Speaker 7: at that time. So I got fired right after that.

1382
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 7: I was working at McDonald's. That's when I was stealing

1383
01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 7: this is and then if I was drinking, okay, I

1384
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 7: was rinking on the joe, but I was at work.

1385
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 7: So and then I came to get my son and

1386
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 7: did not.

1387
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 2: Come get your son because it was my weekend. So

1388
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:23,400
Speaker 2: what I was getting until Monday from day kid? Why

1389
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 2: would you coming now? He was coming to be nosy.

1390
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:26,880
Speaker 6: I didn't have to come to you.

1391
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 2: Was looking at a passinger with you to get.

1392
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 13: She because go home eleven, old man, that's my job.

1393
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 13: How did you break the women shut off her hand?

1394
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 13: You walked out this car? No, I threw ass out.

1395
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:48,280
Speaker 6: Not that you was not that strong.

1396
01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 2: You did not. Yeah, I mean I had you and

1397
01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 2: it was steps right then.

1398
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 6: Had never ever eaten right now, could not do that

1399
01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 6: the window.

1400
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:01,360
Speaker 7: I was just really really because he wouldn't give me

1401
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 7: my son. Don't give me my son. You called the police.

1402
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:05,520
Speaker 2: I'm the police.

1403
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 6: Call the police.

1404
01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 2: Never called the police. Yeah, I call the police.

1405
01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 6: I went to jail that night.

1406
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 2: Everybody everybody here is well, I'm from the jailer.

1407
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:18,439
Speaker 6: Is right there, right around the corner.

1408
01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 2: You can walk. It's they walked to. I don't know

1409
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:22,240
Speaker 2: how they came.

1410
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 7: He called the police on me and then going, and

1411
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:27,880
Speaker 7: then when the police came, I was I just sat

1412
01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:28,320
Speaker 7: in my car.

1413
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 2: I was mad.

1414
01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 7: I was like, no, I can't move here to get

1415
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 7: my son. And Nicole did tell me your come on

1416
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 7: is pull off. He's not giving you the baby. He

1417
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:34,240
Speaker 7: not giving you the baby.

1418
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 6: I was like, all right, cool, but I was mad,

1419
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 6: so I didn't pull off.

1420
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 7: Police paddy wagon pulled up and got out, and you

1421
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 7: was like, she right there.

1422
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 13: I try to get you. How did I try to

1423
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 13: get you locked up? When I'm the same one call

1424
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 13: try to bail you out with no money?

1425
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 6: I don't know why you ever thought you could bild

1426
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:57,440
Speaker 6: somebody out with sleep that night trying to.

1427
01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 2: Check this out. You have a bit you ever went

1428
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 2: through a woman phone? Of course? Could you eat after that?

1429
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 15: Yes?

1430
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:05,439
Speaker 2: You could?

1431
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 13: Well I couldn't. I'm comparing that to when she went

1432
01:04:08,520 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 13: to jail. I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep, you know,

1433
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:12,600
Speaker 13: and thick I was sick.

1434
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:15,440
Speaker 2: I didn't I didn't want jail. I call the.

1435
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 1: Police, so Now when you hear this story and you

1436
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 1: say to yourself, why they there on national co parenting

1437
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: because they are like the best of friends. Now they

1438
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:26,000
Speaker 1: call each other. Jeff calls you her brother. How do

1439
01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 1: you feel about that?

1440
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 2: How did y'all get there? Do you look at her

1441
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:29,840
Speaker 2: like your sister?

1442
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 7: You said, Mama, I was going to say what she

1443
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:34,520
Speaker 7: said created that like my mother.

1444
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 2: Like when we are out of town, like my main't

1445
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 2: gonna disclose too much, but thanks she my mam.

1446
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 13: No, I just know like the control like she know

1447
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:45,600
Speaker 13: how I am though, like me and alone, I think

1448
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 13: part of that controlling pause.

1449
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 2: Like she cares.

1450
01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 13: And sometimes especially when I'm under the influence, I've done

1451
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 13: dumb ash so as.

1452
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:57,760
Speaker 2: Good as you know that you can, I don't know.

1453
01:04:57,760 --> 01:04:59,200
Speaker 2: I just assist in the back.

1454
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 13: Everybody like you know, everybody knows, but I hold myself

1455
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 13: accountable to that mind you Now, I ain't gonna say

1456
01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 13: you I learned from woman stick cause I can die

1457
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 13: a dumbash over and over again. But I think in

1458
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:12,360
Speaker 13: that aspect, that's when the mother of the mother with

1459
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 13: the v coming but the.

1460
01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 2: Brother called me brother and sister. We're like honestly without

1461
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:19,200
Speaker 2: the child like it's there.

1462
01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 13: It seemed like Amazon camera's off, like you can't fake this,

1463
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 13: will make this up?

1464
01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, Rome started that room started calling me sis first,

1465
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:30,080
Speaker 7: and then I started calling him bro. I you know,

1466
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 7: I'm like, yeah, we do have like a sibling dynamic

1467
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 7: in some way. You know, he's still confides in my mom.

1468
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 7: He like, my mom is our mother? Like it's not

1469
01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 7: it ain't nothing crazy, it's nothing intimate. Like seriously, I

1470
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 7: always say this. People be like, yeah, right, I can

1471
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 7: literally walk past and I don't do this, but what

1472
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 7: I'm saying, I can walk past this man nigked and

1473
01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 7: he does. They be like, girl, what like pick that out?

1474
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 7: I'm talking about seriously, like.

1475
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 2: How do y'all know each other's spouse's or each other's

1476
01:05:57,720 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 2: boyfriend and girlfriend? Like how do you deal with his girl?

1477
01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:04,840
Speaker 2: And how do you deal with five?

1478
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 7: I never told you always try.

1479
01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:13,880
Speaker 13: It's cool though, it's cool, but this is this and

1480
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 13: now this was the friction part. Now we got over that,

1481
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 13: but this the fric The friction part was I my Betdess.

1482
01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 2: I don't getting her.

1483
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 13: But the friction part was her getting into minds. But

1484
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 13: she's still a woman. I'm still a man, So women

1485
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 13: tend to do that.

1486
01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 2: And this is not no shame of women.

1487
01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 13: I don't mean no disrespect by saying it, but I

1488
01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 13: think women tend to do that, especially a woman that.

1489
01:06:33,120 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 2: Care about you.

1490
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:37,240
Speaker 3: She said, sometimes you make bad decisions and she's there

1491
01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:40,160
Speaker 3: as your sister to make sure you're good, regardless if

1492
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 3: it's life relationship or whatever.

1493
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 2: Correct said that.

1494
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 13: With me personally, I never really like I talked to

1495
01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:48,840
Speaker 13: about certain things, but I never really liked my family

1496
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 13: to get into no intimate situation. Yeah, because guess what,

1497
01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 13: y'all feel a way about this person. However, I want

1498
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:57,800
Speaker 13: whether it's negative of good. If I'm gonna deal with

1499
01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 13: this person, I'm gonna deal with like mal can smash

1500
01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 13: it out me yesterday, mm hmmm, I might get over them.

1501
01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 13: But it's like that's why I always That's how I

1502
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 13: was always able to distinguish the two. Like when Jessica

1503
01:07:11,600 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 13: will have men when she comes to me, like I

1504
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:16,479
Speaker 13: don't know, like I ain't never pillow talking or sneak

1505
01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:18,440
Speaker 13: dish or nothing like I don't really care for Like,

1506
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:21,440
Speaker 13: it ain't nothing that I don't if you put it

1507
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:22,800
Speaker 13: in that sense. But when she come to me with

1508
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 13: a man, I tell her ain't right.

1509
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:26,920
Speaker 1: But both of y'all got because you're gonna want to

1510
01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:28,240
Speaker 1: know who around your son.

1511
01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:32,080
Speaker 13: I never did, yeah, I never so in the beginning stage, yeah,

1512
01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 13: don't have my summer.

1513
01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:34,440
Speaker 2: But I grew out of that.

1514
01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:37,120
Speaker 13: So now it's I trust my child mom enough to

1515
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 13: she won't bring no fast around my child. So I

1516
01:07:40,160 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 13: don't say, oh, don't have this. That's never been a problem.

1517
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 13: It has been a problem was because envy me.

1518
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 2: Except for my last.

1519
01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:51,120
Speaker 13: Doge my dogs.

1520
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 2: Who who's the dog? My dog, Chris, Chris, Chris my dog,

1521
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:55,640
Speaker 2: my dog. I ain't gonna hold he.

1522
01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 13: I think he's the I think like man, honestly me

1523
01:07:58,600 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 13: and jesss man like. I think it's in times where

1524
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:03,600
Speaker 13: a woman didn't like me and her situation.

1525
01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 7: But guess what, bye, Yeah more so on and yeah

1526
01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:09,959
Speaker 7: it'll be more so on his end because it's much

1527
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:14,520
Speaker 7: more of them. But the thing is, the thing is

1528
01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 7: like I don't like when because I even tell him

1529
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:21,120
Speaker 7: what he's doing wrong too, Like, yo, don't cheer her

1530
01:08:21,200 --> 01:08:21,479
Speaker 7: like that?

1531
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 6: This is how how how you going to introduce me

1532
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 6: to it?

1533
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 2: Now?

1534
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 7: I done got to know where you know, and whether

1535
01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:29,320
Speaker 7: she had a kid or not. Most of the time.

1536
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 7: It's the ones that have the kids. But it's like, yo,

1537
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:35,800
Speaker 7: you gotta do right or just be single, Like, don't

1538
01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:39,760
Speaker 7: keep hurting women in the process of trying to find

1539
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 7: what you're looking for. I mean, I know that's all

1540
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:44,000
Speaker 7: a part of dating, but when you have kids, it's different,

1541
01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:44,280
Speaker 7: you know.

1542
01:08:44,680 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 6: And then he be like, oh, that's why I don't

1543
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:48,600
Speaker 6: like you to be getting into it, you know.

1544
01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:51,519
Speaker 7: And then I don't like he attracts a lot of

1545
01:08:51,520 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 7: toxic women to like abusive relationships where women will put

1546
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:57,680
Speaker 7: their hands on them. I'm like, what, all right, you know,

1547
01:08:57,920 --> 01:09:01,080
Speaker 7: but he don't. He's like, no, but I might be

1548
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 7: of the mom what she just blacks your eye?

1549
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:05,840
Speaker 6: What are you talking about? You know what I'm saying, like, no,

1550
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 6: we're not doing it.

1551
01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:08,599
Speaker 2: But Claire, I never had a black guy.

1552
01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:11,080
Speaker 6: Okay, well she busts her nose whatever.

1553
01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:16,479
Speaker 7: Women have put their hands on you, and that's why.

1554
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 13: And that's why she's my dog, Like I think she's

1555
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 13: the only one really honestly, the one to get the

1556
01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:24,400
Speaker 13: under my skin. Like it's a certain wordplace she used

1557
01:09:24,400 --> 01:09:26,040
Speaker 13: and I don't care what tone she used it in,

1558
01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:30,000
Speaker 13: but to say that, it's like I was really never

1559
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:30,720
Speaker 13: tolt how to love.

1560
01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:33,240
Speaker 2: When I moved my dad, my dad moved.

1561
01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 13: My dad and my step mom, which is my mom

1562
01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:36,879
Speaker 13: now and my mom have a great relationship.

1563
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:40,280
Speaker 2: That's my step mom and my dad was married.

1564
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 13: But my dad was cheating, like saying, like my dad,

1565
01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:50,840
Speaker 13: my dad showing me that I'm thinking cool. So like

1566
01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 13: when even when I started dealing with women and stuff

1567
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:57,600
Speaker 13: like that, multiple women and all that, my dad was like, yeah, absolutely,

1568
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:01,000
Speaker 13: and I'm thinking it's cool because that's how you're being

1569
01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:03,280
Speaker 13: That's that's what I'm saying. I'm being taught like and

1570
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:05,599
Speaker 13: every man in my life that I looked at as

1571
01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:07,800
Speaker 13: a role model to me was the same way.

1572
01:10:09,200 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 2: So it's like what you expect.

1573
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 13: But the good thing is now it's like I'm old

1574
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 13: enough now in mind you I ain't perfect.

1575
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:19,320
Speaker 2: Now I'm seeing it. I'm trying to, you know, change it.

1576
01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 13: But I've never was taught to love properly. So and

1577
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:25,240
Speaker 13: I never my trust issues up from my dad because

1578
01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:28,040
Speaker 13: I'm seeing what he's doing. But I'm saying when it's

1579
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:31,040
Speaker 13: done to him, his reactions like damn, you were just

1580
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 13: doing this, How you're gonna get mad?

1581
01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:33,800
Speaker 2: Right?

1582
01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 13: So it's like every relationship I've went into. I had

1583
01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:39,800
Speaker 13: an exploration date me, I put an xtray on myself.

1584
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 13: I said, she's gonna get, she gonna get get what

1585
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:41,679
Speaker 13: I'm getting.

1586
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:42,080
Speaker 2: I'm gone.

1587
01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:47,720
Speaker 13: So I've never really gave a woman the commitment, not

1588
01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:49,679
Speaker 13: even commitment, but I've never give the woman a chance

1589
01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:51,640
Speaker 13: to really love me. But even with the kids, like

1590
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 13: even having kids, No, I haven't. And this is like

1591
01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:56,679
Speaker 13: I said, no distrest to my children, moms. A lot

1592
01:10:56,720 --> 01:11:01,080
Speaker 13: of my my children came out of vulnerability, explain found

1593
01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 13: on that and explaining that. So I will meet a

1594
01:11:03,520 --> 01:11:06,759
Speaker 13: woman who I may feel like she's what I need,

1595
01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 13: another safe place or whatever the case may be. But

1596
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:11,840
Speaker 13: I'm already vulnerable from a previous relationship. I have a child,

1597
01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:14,599
Speaker 13: knowing I don't want to be with this woman, but

1598
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 13: I feel like I'm forced to be with it because

1599
01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 13: it's a child.

1600
01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 2: MM and I've done that.

1601
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 1: You know multiple times times you needed a therapist, not

1602
01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:24,760
Speaker 1: another baby, Mam.

1603
01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:28,040
Speaker 13: I need correct they at the time of me, at

1604
01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:30,920
Speaker 13: the time in vulnerability. You know women, you know women,

1605
01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 13: women can they be masked up. But like I never

1606
01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:37,439
Speaker 13: really knew how to be alone. Like I feel like

1607
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:40,080
Speaker 13: I got to have somebody laying next to me, because

1608
01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 13: even before my mom died, my mom always sleep naked.

1609
01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 2: This is a back then thing.

1610
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:46,080
Speaker 13: How old were you, I was telling, But I was

1611
01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:48,519
Speaker 13: a mommy's boy. Did you ever did you ever really

1612
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:51,000
Speaker 13: properly so grieving?

1613
01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 9: No?

1614
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:54,280
Speaker 13: I never really a grieved. All I did was I

1615
01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 13: thought it was gonna help me by going to school

1616
01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:59,240
Speaker 13: for social work because that's what she was. But I

1617
01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:01,400
Speaker 13: never really probably grieve, and that's a that's a process.

1618
01:12:01,479 --> 01:12:03,200
Speaker 2: Now. I do want to get, you know, back in

1619
01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:03,719
Speaker 2: the gym.

1620
01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 13: I do want to get a therapist, but don't want

1621
01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:07,680
Speaker 13: everything else around me to be intact so that I

1622
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:10,840
Speaker 13: could fully commit, because if I ain't fully committed, it

1623
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:11,599
Speaker 13: ain't gonna work.

1624
01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:14,639
Speaker 1: How did y'all that's the most I think, the most

1625
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 1: I won't say most important, one of the most important things.

1626
01:12:16,400 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 2: How did y'all realize we don't have feelings for each other?

1627
01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:19,040
Speaker 9: No?

1628
01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 1: More?

1629
01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:21,680
Speaker 2: Like? How did that just go away? Like y'all have

1630
01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:24,000
Speaker 2: y'all love each other? But not that way?

1631
01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:26,280
Speaker 13: I got my answer, you want to go first, you

1632
01:12:26,280 --> 01:12:28,479
Speaker 13: can go first, because I'm still thinking when I stopped

1633
01:12:28,520 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 13: caring about who she dealt with, when I wouldn't even like.

1634
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:35,599
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even care, Like how long did that take?

1635
01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:36,679
Speaker 4: Oh?

1636
01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:39,200
Speaker 2: Three years? Like when action was like.

1637
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:42,720
Speaker 13: Three it was still really yeah, it was like three years.

1638
01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:45,200
Speaker 13: But at that but honestly that three years, like I

1639
01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:48,640
Speaker 13: had caught a big check, so it was like, you know,

1640
01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:51,400
Speaker 13: I was almost half a million dollars, So it was

1641
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 13: like the pain that I had. Whatever the case be,

1642
01:12:54,280 --> 01:12:55,760
Speaker 13: I would I would pay. I would have like just

1643
01:12:55,840 --> 01:12:58,719
Speaker 13: bot block it out. But other than that, like.

1644
01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:00,439
Speaker 2: You ain't trying to ftund on her a little? No,

1645
01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:04,120
Speaker 2: I never, no, I never, no, I never. I'm waiting

1646
01:13:04,120 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 2: for that. I never intentionally stunned on her. I never

1647
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 2: did that. Never. I did everything she possibly could ask

1648
01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:13,360
Speaker 2: me to do. She said on.

1649
01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 13: One of these souls something about a B G. E bill,

1650
01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:22,040
Speaker 13: And I'm address that I never wanted. I'm addressed that

1651
01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 13: now with the bill. So so i'ma explaining her lights

1652
01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:27,080
Speaker 13: got cut off.

1653
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 2: I got a five hundred thousand dollars checking Listen.

1654
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:32,599
Speaker 13: No, it wasn't right then and there, but it's over time,

1655
01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:36,400
Speaker 13: mind you, like mind a lot of my places, she

1656
01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:38,240
Speaker 13: helped me. She helped me get a lot on the

1657
01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:40,559
Speaker 13: back end. But in a time like I helped her.

1658
01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:42,840
Speaker 13: Whatever the case, I didn't know she's moving with a man.

1659
01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 6: I didn't move with the man.

1660
01:13:44,200 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 13: Well she moved man in with her. Yeah, all right, okay,

1661
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 13: he had you and the.

1662
01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:52,880
Speaker 2: Dog too, no before in my business, so I don't

1663
01:13:52,920 --> 01:13:53,840
Speaker 2: know that he's not there.

1664
01:13:54,200 --> 01:13:56,840
Speaker 13: So boom, here's his So here's here's here's my logic,

1665
01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:59,280
Speaker 13: and I'm gonna say what I'm gonna say to her

1666
01:13:59,400 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 13: after I playing it.

1667
01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 2: My logic was, all right, man is in the house. Boom,

1668
01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:07,760
Speaker 2: eager cut off. So she like, was wrong. I'm like, well, I.

1669
01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:10,240
Speaker 13: Take my son with me. But that wasn't me talking.

1670
01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:14,200
Speaker 13: That was the girlfriend I had talking. Oh a, I

1671
01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:16,040
Speaker 13: never told you that because as a woman, you ain't

1672
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:17,960
Speaker 13: trying to hear that, and as well as a man

1673
01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:19,680
Speaker 13: and you be and me, I.

1674
01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:20,360
Speaker 2: Don't want to hear that.

1675
01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:22,559
Speaker 13: So I didn't want to tell you that because I

1676
01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:26,800
Speaker 13: have felt less of a man. So yeah, but now.

1677
01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:27,720
Speaker 2: I understand them.

1678
01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:30,040
Speaker 3: If somebody else is smacking the cheeks, listen.

1679
01:14:30,160 --> 01:14:33,439
Speaker 2: So the girlfriend was So the girlfriend.

1680
01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:35,519
Speaker 6: Was like, don't talk about no house ahead.

1681
01:14:35,560 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 2: So the girlfriend was like, I took a certain amount

1682
01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:41,240
Speaker 2: of money up the bank. I did.

1683
01:14:41,360 --> 01:14:44,639
Speaker 13: She was with me, She like, why are you giving

1684
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:48,600
Speaker 13: it to Jessica. I'm like, cause she needed and she like,

1685
01:14:48,720 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 13: I never said them here. I never said the reason.

1686
01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:54,880
Speaker 13: I never said the reason. Yeah, yeah, I never said

1687
01:14:54,920 --> 01:14:57,639
Speaker 13: the reason though. She was like, what exactly do she needs?

1688
01:14:57,640 --> 01:14:59,360
Speaker 13: Because I know you ain't giving her. No, she don't

1689
01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 13: need a bag and nothing like that. I'm like, no,

1690
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:04,040
Speaker 13: it's something else. She's like, well, don't she got to

1691
01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:07,759
Speaker 13: living with her? And mind you, I'm drinking at the time.

1692
01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 2: You're thinking the same thing. I'm like, we.

1693
01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:11,200
Speaker 6: Weren't even thinking that till she said it.

1694
01:15:11,400 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 2: I wasn't thinking that, but I'm drinking and I'm like, no,

1695
01:15:13,920 --> 01:15:14,800
Speaker 2: what You're right?

1696
01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:17,640
Speaker 1: Why you ain't a just though crazy people phone say

1697
01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:21,200
Speaker 1: because I was a young emotional boy who had.

1698
01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:24,120
Speaker 6: Just ran it to a bunch of money and with.

1699
01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:27,320
Speaker 2: That, I'm hurt. Hurt young man got a lot of money.

1700
01:15:27,320 --> 01:15:32,080
Speaker 2: Everybody got some money. I'm doing make myself happy, and

1701
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:32,559
Speaker 2: that's how.

1702
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:37,720
Speaker 7: I broke everybody except me.

1703
01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:40,639
Speaker 2: That was what I was like, and granted.

1704
01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:44,360
Speaker 13: Right now on today, I'm gonna say I truly, sincerely

1705
01:15:44,800 --> 01:15:48,840
Speaker 13: apologized for not taking care of you the way I

1706
01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:49,320
Speaker 13: should have.

1707
01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:54,200
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna take my glasses because for a long time.

1708
01:15:54,840 --> 01:15:59,280
Speaker 13: That hurt me, and it's like I never ever, ever,

1709
01:15:59,360 --> 01:16:02,559
Speaker 13: especially never ever ever ever meant to do that to you.

1710
01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:05,360
Speaker 13: And it's like, now, that's why even I worked so

1711
01:16:05,439 --> 01:16:10,280
Speaker 13: hard today and just try to even just give you something.

1712
01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:13,360
Speaker 2: But in due time that should come back. I ain't

1713
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 2: you know.

1714
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:15,640
Speaker 13: I hadn't made that back when broke again, made it

1715
01:16:15,680 --> 01:16:18,640
Speaker 13: back broke again. But my biggest downfall, the comments denominator,

1716
01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:22,600
Speaker 13: was alcohol and women. Them two problems never allowed me

1717
01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 13: to really freach my full potential, even when I seen

1718
01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:27,879
Speaker 13: it a couple of years ago. You've seen it twenty

1719
01:16:27,960 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 13: nineteen when I was single. When I went moved back

1720
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:35,760
Speaker 13: by myself, I ran flourished, but if women holding me back. Man,

1721
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:39,559
Speaker 13: I'm sorry that I didn't do what I was supposed

1722
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:41,160
Speaker 13: to do and a lot of more. Dude, I wasn't

1723
01:16:41,240 --> 01:16:42,080
Speaker 13: the job the when you done.

1724
01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:43,960
Speaker 2: I felt that I was gonna do it, but because

1725
01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 2: I had certain people.

1726
01:16:44,720 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 13: In my in my ear that I thought had their

1727
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 13: best interest in me, but when the bag ran out,

1728
01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:49,960
Speaker 13: they left.

1729
01:16:50,880 --> 01:16:53,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry. Not a sorry person.

1730
01:16:53,320 --> 01:16:58,559
Speaker 7: I apologize, Okay, I appreciate that, but listen, I was

1731
01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 7: not I was talking to you and he moved in

1732
01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:03,720
Speaker 7: months after. You think he was gonna move into a

1733
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:06,120
Speaker 7: dark house. You think you think I wanted to see

1734
01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:08,840
Speaker 7: how I was living. No, And when you said, I

1735
01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:11,320
Speaker 7: asked you, like, yo, can you just get my my

1736
01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:13,560
Speaker 7: lights on? I'll pay you back. That's when I was

1737
01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:15,599
Speaker 7: scamming and doing all that shit. That got slow too,

1738
01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:17,680
Speaker 7: So I'm like, all right, you was like, no, I

1739
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:20,320
Speaker 7: take my son. Nobody taking my kid, not even as far.

1740
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:23,400
Speaker 7: Like as long as Asha instead of the dark, we

1741
01:17:23,439 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 7: was good, you know what I'm saying. Like I still

1742
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:27,479
Speaker 7: had candles, we was playing, We was doing all that.

1743
01:17:27,479 --> 01:17:31,439
Speaker 7: We would stay outside until it went until it got dark,

1744
01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:33,360
Speaker 7: and then we were going in the house. And him

1745
01:17:33,479 --> 01:17:35,439
Speaker 7: he ain't never asked me why the lights ain't coming on.

1746
01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:37,400
Speaker 7: It don't matter. So as long as he was good,

1747
01:17:37,439 --> 01:17:40,160
Speaker 7: I was good. I just wanted to be able, you

1748
01:17:40,160 --> 01:17:41,840
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying, and just be like, yo, get

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01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:43,320
Speaker 7: my life and.

1750
01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:43,760
Speaker 2: You should have.

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01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:46,720
Speaker 13: Well guess what that made you a demon? And when

1752
01:17:46,720 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 13: I say demon, I said, in the best way, that

1753
01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 13: turned you up. And I got to teach my kid,

1754
01:17:51,320 --> 01:17:53,240
Speaker 13: especially my oldest boy, might leve me, yo, bro, like

1755
01:17:53,320 --> 01:17:55,400
Speaker 13: I don't want you to go through something bad to

1756
01:17:55,479 --> 01:17:56,080
Speaker 13: learn a lesson.

1757
01:17:56,280 --> 01:17:56,760
Speaker 2: I don't think.

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01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:58,080
Speaker 13: Everybody should have to go through something bad and learn

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01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:03,040
Speaker 13: a lesson. But in your case, I feel like, yeah,

1760
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:06,040
Speaker 13: that put that battery in your back. You know, when

1761
01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:08,519
Speaker 13: that battery came in your back, you ain't it ain't

1762
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:11,120
Speaker 13: treat me no way. It took still a minute for

1763
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:12,120
Speaker 13: us to create that.

1764
01:18:12,240 --> 01:18:15,519
Speaker 2: Bond, but y'all have it now. And I think y'all

1765
01:18:15,640 --> 01:18:19,400
Speaker 2: should give each other some grades because y'all yeah, and

1766
01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:21,760
Speaker 2: I always was a hurt young man, so right. I

1767
01:18:21,800 --> 01:18:22,400
Speaker 2: love the story.

1768
01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:26,400
Speaker 3: It shows the foundation and how and how y'all treat

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01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:26,720
Speaker 3: each other.

1770
01:18:26,760 --> 01:18:26,920
Speaker 2: Now.

1771
01:18:27,160 --> 01:18:28,360
Speaker 3: You know, I don't know you, but the way she

1772
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:30,840
Speaker 3: talks about you on the radio, and and like you said,

1773
01:18:30,920 --> 01:18:33,479
Speaker 3: she is a mother, She protects you, she holds you down.

1774
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:34,680
Speaker 2: I just love to see it.

1775
01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:35,439
Speaker 12: You know.

1776
01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:37,320
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'll be telling us that I'm talking about room

1777
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:40,960
Speaker 1: like that, like why you be talking about But I

1778
01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 1: get it.

1779
01:18:42,120 --> 01:18:42,720
Speaker 2: She don't mean no.

1780
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:44,760
Speaker 13: Harm, but she don't, like I said, man, like I

1781
01:18:44,800 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 13: wish a lot of other people would take from us.

1782
01:18:48,600 --> 01:18:50,840
Speaker 13: And that's why to be on TV, that's why you're

1783
01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:56,160
Speaker 13: writing a book, book coming, Everything coming, Everything coming.

1784
01:18:56,280 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 1: I think the most important thing because I don't want

1785
01:18:58,320 --> 01:18:59,640
Speaker 1: you to save a lot of this, but what's the

1786
01:18:59,680 --> 01:19:00,559
Speaker 1: most important thing.

1787
01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:01,519
Speaker 2: It takes the cole parents.

1788
01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:04,439
Speaker 1: Y'all just leave leaving on that because the National co

1789
01:19:04,560 --> 01:19:06,479
Speaker 1: Parenting Day, Yo, I.

1790
01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:08,120
Speaker 6: Started up communication.

1791
01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:11,200
Speaker 7: Like a lot of people be scared to hurt each

1792
01:19:11,240 --> 01:19:13,840
Speaker 7: other feelings, and a lot of people be afraid to

1793
01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:20,960
Speaker 7: have uncomfortable conversations, whether it's about kids, unhashed differences whatever.

1794
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:23,439
Speaker 7: Like one day me and Rome just literally met up

1795
01:19:23,479 --> 01:19:26,320
Speaker 7: and just we just talked about everything that, you.

1796
01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 6: Know, he felt like I did him wrong in certain situations, and.

1797
01:19:28,720 --> 01:19:31,120
Speaker 7: Then he felt like like I will always try because

1798
01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:34,479
Speaker 7: he says I'm controlling a lot, and I do take that,

1799
01:19:34,560 --> 01:19:36,639
Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying, Yeah, I own that idea,

1800
01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:39,959
Speaker 7: Like I was trying to control how he parents sometimes,

1801
01:19:40,000 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 7: like how he.

1802
01:19:40,920 --> 01:19:43,080
Speaker 6: Would raise Ash and all of that type of stuff.

1803
01:19:43,120 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 7: We just put everything on the table and just it's

1804
01:19:46,439 --> 01:19:48,280
Speaker 7: just like all right, you're moving forward, cause it's really

1805
01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:53,479
Speaker 7: about Ash, right, And that's really like when we after that,

1806
01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:55,320
Speaker 7: it was like no looking back, It's like all right, whatever.

1807
01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:56,040
Speaker 2: Cool.

1808
01:19:56,840 --> 01:19:58,880
Speaker 1: I'm sure it's a discussion that will continue on, not

1809
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:01,120
Speaker 1: even just amongst you know, just in Rome, but this month.

1810
01:20:01,160 --> 01:20:03,439
Speaker 1: Anybody out there, you're dealing with coparents and issue. But

1811
01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:05,479
Speaker 1: I think Rome, you know, Rome is talking to a

1812
01:20:05,479 --> 01:20:07,559
Speaker 1: lot of different issues that a lot of us men go.

1813
01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:09,559
Speaker 2: Through, you know what I mean. So I'm happy that

1814
01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:11,920
Speaker 2: you was vulnerable this morning. Right, that's right, you know

1815
01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:12,280
Speaker 2: what I mean.

1816
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:15,200
Speaker 1: And their book is coming soon, be a black privilege

1817
01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 1: posa simon the shoes.

1818
01:20:17,840 --> 01:20:18,840
Speaker 2: All right, well it's wrong.

1819
01:20:19,080 --> 01:20:22,479
Speaker 3: Yes, it's the Breakfast Club the morning. It's time for positive.

1820
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:23,599
Speaker 2: Note what we got positive?

1821
01:20:23,640 --> 01:20:26,559
Speaker 1: Notice simply this man, be careful what you wish for

1822
01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:29,200
Speaker 1: uthers because it just might get to you.

1823
01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:29,599
Speaker 2: All right.

1824
01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:32,760
Speaker 1: To wish bad things for somebody else is actually like

1825
01:20:32,880 --> 01:20:35,439
Speaker 1: looking for something bad to happen to you. Because when

1826
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:38,160
Speaker 1: you wish bad calm on somebody else, you bring bad

1827
01:20:38,200 --> 01:20:40,600
Speaker 1: calm on yourself. Okay, you are consuming and bringing in

1828
01:20:40,640 --> 01:20:42,040
Speaker 1: negative vibes into your life.

1829
01:20:42,080 --> 01:20:44,040
Speaker 2: Instead, be the person you wish they were.

1830
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:46,200
Speaker 1: Be the person who brings only positive thoughts and good

1831
01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:49,599
Speaker 1: vibes into their own life, because being negative yourself will

1832
01:20:49,600 --> 01:20:53,000
Speaker 1: only bring negative into your life. Don't poison yourself hoping

1833
01:20:53,040 --> 01:20:58,640
Speaker 1: somebody else will die. All right, Breakfast Club, finish for y'all,

1834
01:20:59,280 --> 01:21:01,880
Speaker 1: Wake you up you quick that ass up program your

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Speaker 1: alarm to power one oh five point one on iHeartRadio,