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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show, Adam,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing pretty good, guys.

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Speaker 1: How are we feeling doing?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this woman? Stephanie on waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone? Says you met on bumble? I got to

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Speaker 1: hear though about any dates that you've been on. And

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Speaker 1: then you know why you think you're being ghosted right now?

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Speaker 1: Why she's maybe she's not calling you? What do you

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Speaker 1: think is going on?

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Speaker 2: Well? What's going on with Stephanie? Is the question? Right now? Right?

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Speaker 2: Because all right? So like I met this girl on

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Speaker 2: bumble right, and we went out and we just had

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Speaker 2: one date. But yeah, we went out and look not

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Speaker 2: to brag, like I feel like I'm kind of a

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Speaker 2: good first date. Like I feel like I'm pretty solid

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Speaker 2: first day, you know, Like I've never gotten ghosted before.

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Speaker 2: It's always been like pretty good vibes after that first date.

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Speaker 2: But like this time, she, I mean, she's not responding

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Speaker 2: to me at all. So I just kind of I

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Speaker 2: don't know, I hope I'm not getting ghosted right now.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the date went pretty good.

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Speaker 3: I just I don't really know what's going on, Like

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Speaker 3: she's not hitting me back whatsoever. And so I'm kind

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Speaker 3: of hoping you all can help me figure out what's

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Speaker 3: going on here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So Adam's not saying he's like mister man, but what

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Speaker 1: are you saying is he's a likable guy and for

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Speaker 1: the most part, he gets second dates. In fact, in

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Speaker 1: this case, you said you've never been ghosted after a

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Speaker 1: first date, so you always get a second date?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, like every time. It like usually second

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Speaker 4: day and we'll be like flirting for a couple of

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Speaker 4: days afterward, you know it. It's usually usually like I'll

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Speaker 4: establish something at least with that first day, but like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I'm getting nothing from her.

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Speaker 1: This is rare, rare air for my man here, Adam.

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Speaker 1: He's never experienced this before. And so let's do this.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna play a song, We're gonna come back, We're

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Speaker 1: gonna call Stephanie. You'll be on the phone at him

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Speaker 1: at the same time. I'm gonna ask all these questions

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Speaker 1: on your behalf and see if we can figure out

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Speaker 1: what's going on. You're welcome to jump in at some point.

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Speaker 1: And what we're always trying to do here is get

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Speaker 1: you set up on another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 2: All right, that would be dope, Thank you, Adam. What's up, guys.

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Speaker 1: Let's call this woman Stephanie. You met on Bumble, one

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Speaker 1: of the dating apps. You went on a date. You

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Speaker 1: felt like the date went great, you felt like you

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Speaker 1: feel like most first dates go really well for you.

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Speaker 1: But you have not heard from Stephanie since the date,

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Speaker 1: and you are puzzled and you want to know.

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Speaker 3: Why no exactly, Like I just I feel like I've

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Speaker 3: never been in this situation, and I definitely just want

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Speaker 3: to see why did I mess something up?

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Speaker 2: Like I think that they went well, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Let's find out right now, Adam, good luck?

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi? Is this Stephanie?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Stephanie. Nice, Stephanie, Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I am calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning Radio Show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can we chat for just

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Speaker 1: a minute. You can hang up at any time. Okay, good,

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 1: guy we just spoke with. His name is Adam, and

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Speaker 1: I guess you guys met on Bumble, the dating app,

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Speaker 1: and you went on a date recently. Do you remember him?

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Speaker 5: I hope yeah, I do you remember Adam?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we were just chatting about how much he

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Speaker 1: and he feels like he's, you know, good on first

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Speaker 1: dates and the whole thing. And he's never been ghosted

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Speaker 1: after a first date, he said, But in this case,

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Speaker 1: he says he can't get a hold of you since

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Speaker 1: the date, So what's going on with that? Honestly, Adam

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Speaker 1: was great.

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Speaker 5: He's really fun, fun to flirt with. He's canon person,

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Speaker 5: And the only thing that was just not cute was

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Speaker 5: once the stud came to the table the soup.

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Speaker 1: No, it wasn't cute. When the food came to me,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't cute. It wasn't cute. When the food came

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Speaker 1: my soup, the guy ordered suit Like, okay, I can

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Speaker 1: see why he ain't golo. No, what happened, Well, he looked.

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Speaker 5: Up to waitress with a dead serious face and said,

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Speaker 5: will you get my stake for me?

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Speaker 1: He asked her to cut his meat like mommy would do.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh.

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Speaker 1: She clearly was taken aback by this, and I mean,

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Speaker 1: do you make serious?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he was so serious and it was super embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: Like did he wanted did he wanted like slice like

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Speaker 1: butterfly they do that back in the kitchen, or did

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Speaker 1: he want her to actually like cut it into bite

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Speaker 5: I think she wanted to bite sized pieces, because I mean,

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Speaker 5: he went back and forth with the waitress and she

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Speaker 5: was just like, we don't really do that, and she's like, well, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Paying you for this, you're not the customer. Let me,

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Speaker 1: let me ask Adam about this. I forgot to mention

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Speaker 1: that Adam is here. I'm very forgetful. I get caught

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Speaker 1: up in the stair. Adam, what are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, listen, like I don't even know this is crazy.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna goes me over something like this.

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Speaker 1: Is normal to me.

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Speaker 2: I don't wait.

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Speaker 1: So when you when you go to restaurants, Adam, you

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Speaker 1: order food and then the server will cut it into

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Speaker 1: bite sized pieces in front of you.

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I mean sometimes I get some stuff right,

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Speaker 3: like a steak is kind of tough, you know what

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Speaker 2: Likes something like, well, my mom.

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Speaker 3: She never taught me, like how to do the steak

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Speaker 3: cutting stuff. She was a single mom and she worked

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Speaker 1: She didn't I'm not laughing in the fact that your

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Speaker 1: mom you have a single mom, but like she never

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Speaker 1: caught you to never tell you how to use silverware.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean not really, Like kind of the vibe

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Speaker 3: that she taught me was this someone else would cut it.

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Speaker 1: You know, man, I don't I don't understand. Why are

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Speaker 1: you on man? A lot of times he's a grown man,

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Speaker 1: Like it's some boy. You got to learn how to

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Speaker 1: cut your own You had a single mom, and she

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Speaker 1: taught me when in fairness, if your mom wasn't there,

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Speaker 1: then you would have had to cut your own. But

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Speaker 1: then to get an attitude with the waitress is crazy.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not laughing at you.

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Speaker 3: But I'm no, there's no like for like I know

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Speaker 3: how to cut meat like this something. I just don't

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Speaker 3: cut it like good, you know, like I don't cut

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Speaker 3: it well, but like a waitress can kind of get it,

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Speaker 3: like the vibe that my mom was cutting out.

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Speaker 1: Do you eat it rail out? Do you only eat

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Speaker 1: like bite sized?

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Speaker 2: Do you?

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Speaker 1: I mean? How do you are you at home picking

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Speaker 1: your stake up with your hand? Yeah? What do you?

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Speaker 1: What do you do when you're by yourself?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just I'm not so good at like hitting it

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Speaker 3: or the four kind of like like divides it well,

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Speaker 3: So I gotta like cut it, you know, like I

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Speaker 3: gotta put it and.

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Speaker 1: It is someone seth Are you moaning?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I heard. It sounded like this

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Speaker 1: man can't cut his food. Somebody's moaning over here. Somebody

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Speaker 1: can't cut his food. I don't know what the hell's

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Speaker 1: going on. Look, Stephanie, I don't blame you Adam, you

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Speaker 1: are a grown man. Okay, You've got to be able

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Speaker 1: to feed yourself. Like, how can anybody think that you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be able to care for like another human? Like

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Speaker 1: you're out with someone. This person may marry you and

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Speaker 1: have children you got you know, you can't cut your

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Speaker 1: own meat like I don't. This is so weird.

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Speaker 3: I figured that I would have a pretty good vibe

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Speaker 3: on how well Stephanie isn't cutting meat and shut to me.

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Speaker 5: I will never cut your meat for you.

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Speaker 1: Nobody should be cutting your meat. But what is going on?

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Speaker 1: Like even I'm not that good at it.

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Speaker 5: I don't eat steak, but like I still know my

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Speaker 5: way around the knife and.

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Speaker 1: A fork, you know. So, Adam and someone, are you

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Speaker 1: just expecting that someone will marry you and cut all

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Speaker 1: your food for you forever? Is that?

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Speaker 2: I mean?

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Speaker 1: That's kind where.

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Speaker 2: Three comes in? And how good is she cutting my meat?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: You wear ben? I see on day three it transition

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Speaker 1: from the server having to do it to you having

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Speaker 1: to do it. Okay, I do this for my niece.

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Speaker 1: In fact, I don't do it anymore because she's five

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Speaker 1: and she can do it herself now, So all right,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, man, Stephanie, would you like

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Speaker 1: to go out with him again? We'll pay for it

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Speaker 1: and we'll get someone else to cut the food, you know,

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Speaker 1: for him.

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Speaker 5: He went from like he's being argumentative to pittle flow

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Speaker 5: to watch and it's like bay for this wager to

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Speaker 5: cut his meat and no, I can't do it again.

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Speaker 1: And he's standing on business with this too, like like no,

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Speaker 1: this is okay. I'm sorry man. Yeah, a single mom,

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Speaker 1: he grew up in a single mom. Okay, nobody taught

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Speaker 1: him how to cut meat.

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Speaker 2: Let's just say, like, your knee sounds very gifted and all.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like this is a weird reason to

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Speaker 2: break up.

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Speaker 1: With a guy. Break up. We work together, But I

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Speaker 1: and my niece might be gifted. And ask my sister.

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Speaker 1: She'll tell you that she is all right, Look, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, she's not interested, Adam. I think that there

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Speaker 1: are some things that are just sort of basic things

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Speaker 1: that have grown people we need to know how to do,

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Speaker 1: and feeding ourselves is one of those things. Assuming that

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Speaker 1: we're able bodied, and it sounds like you're able bodied.

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Speaker 1: Can you tie your own shoes or do we wear

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Speaker 1: a velcro?

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Speaker 3: I mean I just try to leave them hide the

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Speaker 3: way they've been, you know, like I just flip them off.

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Speaker 1: To wipe your butt or does someone else do? Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to know. Don't answer that. Guys, thank

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Speaker 1: you for your time, best of luck to both of you.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you, thank you, Stephanie, thank you,