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Speaker 1: But let's get into this next week at it. So,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't let it hit you where the good lards

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Speaker 2: So at this point, like it feels like it's going

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Speaker 2: Yeah, be within the bounds of monogamy. Sometimes you just

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Speaker 1: Know, exactly. Two wrongs don't make a right exactly.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's like, you know how like a bridge

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Speaker 1: He's the concrete the backs of up with. He's the concrete.

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Speaker 1: I'd rather be rid of people like this. Sorry if

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Speaker 1: Currently chat more votes get him in. Currently one hundred

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Speaker 2: guys think, but your answers in comments that was a

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Speaker 2: wild ride though.

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Speaker 1: Hell's why wellet that with these comments? So you dez

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Speaker 1: Ships twenty two says I feel for Noah. He's always

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Speaker 1: he'll always be a sucker for her, and she'll always

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Speaker 1: get away with anything, no consequences for anything. No contact

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Speaker 1: is an ultimatum. Sigh. No contact is not an ultimatum. Sigh, unbelievable. Now,

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Speaker 1: I think I feel like it's not MC minimum contact,

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Speaker 1: minimum contact, marriage count, marriage counseling. Marriage counseling is not

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Speaker 1: an ultimatum. Si, unbelievable. Maybe one day he'll catch her

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Speaker 1: with a guy in their own bed and he'll snap

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Speaker 1: out of it. You did the right thing the way

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Speaker 1: you handled it, and distance yourself right now. Don't turn

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Speaker 1: your back on Noah though. He's going to need people.

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Speaker 1: Not so it seems like, uh, they're against kind of

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Speaker 1: what we're saying, and like stay in contact and keep

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Speaker 1: kind of pushing him. Uh. Not so Religious now says

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Speaker 1: I feel no sympathy for Noah. He needs to find

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Speaker 1: his cahnus from wherever she hid them because she will

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Speaker 1: cheat on him again and again and he will always

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Speaker 1: stupidly take her back. You're completely justified from staying away

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Speaker 1: from that mess. I don't know if I agree with

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Speaker 1: the severity of that, because he seems like he's such

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Speaker 1: a good guy, but ultimately it's kind of like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it does seem like he'll keep going back. So and

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Speaker 1: then Plastic Bottle says Noah's blind loyalty is sad. He

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Speaker 1: deserves better. He's choosing misery. But you can choose to

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Speaker 1: tap her profile and join us every single week day

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Speaker 1: at three PMPSD. You can. You can be your live.

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Speaker 2: Looking at craziness like this that you can come on.

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Speaker 2: But that's where we end. Wow, no I hope you

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Speaker 2: find peace and love. Please a way way away from

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Speaker 2: this drama.

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Speaker 1: If you're watching this Noah and have gotten away from her,

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Speaker 1: or just have an update, listen, well have you on

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Speaker 1: the show? Yeah, partner, you are being an American idiot,

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Speaker 1: that is right, but you can walk this holy road

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Speaker 1: not alone. Yeah, yeah, you got the whole. Ok.

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Speaker 4: Hope that you wake up when September it is October.

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Speaker 2: It's time to wake up. Come on, time to wake up.

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Speaker 2: But if you love us, make sure you wake up.

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