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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl lex Pee and it's

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Speaker 1: your girl Dre in the.

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Speaker 2: Call, and we are back with another episode of A

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Speaker 2: Poor Mind where mind speaks thoughts.

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Speaker 1: Me, what's up? What the fuck is up? Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's been so long.

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Speaker 2: It has been like a week, and well it's been. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's been a long and it's been a long it

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Speaker 2: have been. We missed, y'all know that is. We've got

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Speaker 2: a lot of ship to cover today. Now, let me

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Speaker 2: first off start this episode off by apologizing because we

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Speaker 2: were supposed to drop the episode. Yes, but we ended

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Speaker 2: up going to Joe Budden's show podcast and shout out.

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Speaker 1: To Joe and.

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Speaker 2: We got fucking lit off of Jamison. We was turning

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Speaker 2: up fucking Rory kept coming with the shots. Then Joe

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Speaker 2: kept coming with the shots, and shit just got fucking

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Speaker 2: Nicholas got ugly. But we wouldn't gonna make it. We

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Speaker 2: apologize for the delay, but I will say this, Joe said,

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Speaker 2: now that it's Poor Minds, we're not obligated to drop

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Speaker 2: on Winds. Yeah, we n So y'all got leave us

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Speaker 2: alone and let us do what we gotta do. Okay,

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Speaker 2: y'all gonna be happy, y'all giving this damn episode.

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Speaker 1: Okay, No, I'm just kidding. It was hung over today.

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Speaker 1: When I tell y'all, I've been throwing up all morning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been just chilling and laying around and feeling

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Speaker 2: fluggish of hell like I'm when I tell y'all, I

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Speaker 2: don't ever want to see another battle of jameson in

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Speaker 2: my life, Okay, because that's not even our drink of choice.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know that, I think because that was

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Speaker 2: just all they had. I think that was just all

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Speaker 2: they had. But now I know James seen and me,

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Speaker 2: I'm sticking to champagne.

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Speaker 1: Mommy. Yeah, I don't know who I was trying to fool,

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Speaker 1: whind my me. So let's go ahead and get into it.

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Speaker 2: So the first topic I want to talk about, I

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Speaker 2: anything like that. And y'all are going through rough times

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Speaker 2: and you know one person is blowing up the other person,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm calling you, You're not answering me, you responding

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Speaker 2: whenever you want to? How do you get your power back.

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Speaker 2: How do you make the nigga or the bench or

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Speaker 2: whatever in the situation be like damn okay, I need

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Speaker 2: to start chasing them before I lose them, Like, how.

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Speaker 1: Do you turn the tables?

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Speaker 2: Because you know sometimes that that happens in a relationship

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Speaker 2: where your nigga mad at you, yeah, fucking with you,

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Speaker 2: and things just start getting not fun anymore, and you

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Speaker 2: feel like he's slipping away, or she's slipping away, or

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Speaker 2: you might be slipping away. So how do you get

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Speaker 2: that power back to where you got things under control

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Speaker 2: and you can get your nigga in line? I don't know,

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Speaker 2: because I don't never really be trying to keep my

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm gonna get him in line. I have to

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Speaker 1: begin with you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but I'm saying, though, you've never been in

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Speaker 2: he was just not talking to you and not fucking

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Speaker 1: Dry with you.

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Speaker 2: So that's how that's he can just fucking still be

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Speaker 1: Ain't no nigga about to fucking still be acting funny.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like, first of all, to do if

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Speaker 2: want him? But that's relationships when you y'all, people go

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Speaker 1: People do go through things.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like if somebody is ignoring you or

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Speaker 1: It's both people putting forth effort.

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Speaker 2: If you're constantly putting fourth effort and his nigga been

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Speaker 2: But you ignore me and being drive with me, I'm

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Speaker 2: Is so what I'm not about to do is be

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Speaker 1: We need to break up.

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Speaker 2: I am trying to be in our relationship where we

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Speaker 2: don't communicate, right. I definitely feel you on that. For

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Speaker 2: me personally, I feel like this, if I did something

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Speaker 2: I'll give you. I'll give you two three days max

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Speaker 2: how you doing me. That's the easiest way to get

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Speaker 2: your power back, because you're gonna get two results. One

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Speaker 2: so you know you gotta rub that little ego sometimes.

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Speaker 1: Or what's gonna happen is he.

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Speaker 2: Gonna be like, oh shit, she finally comped the hand

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Speaker 2: of course hit him up and be like, oh my god, baby,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry that we had this disagreement. What can I

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Speaker 2: Because if he really still wants to be with you,

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Speaker 2: him how he was doing you, If he wants you

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Speaker 2: still he's gonna come back, right exactly, He's gonna be like, damn,

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Speaker 1: Heaven right.

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Speaker 2: And that's why I just don't believe that you should

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Speaker 2: to fuck he gonna move, that's gonna let you know

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Speaker 2: what you need. But I feel as women, I feel

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Speaker 2: because niggas don't know. Okay, so niggas don't know what

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying the power as in you're leading the relationship,

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Speaker 2: as far as he just needs to fuck with you

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Speaker 2: we're naturally, we're nurtureds, we're lovers, so we're gonna get

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Speaker 1: You have his fucking heart in your fucking hand, your

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Speaker 2: So I feel like women, one thing that we need

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Speaker 1: How but how do you ensure that?

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Speaker 2: Like, how do you make sure that you keep his

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Speaker 2: just the compatibility. Like, if y'all are compatible and y'all

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Speaker 1: He's gonna fuck with you. It's inevitable. It's in.

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Speaker 2: And if two people are sexual, chemistry is amazing, their

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Speaker 1: It's just a list of things.

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Speaker 2: It's inevitable if y'all are doing this for months on end,

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Speaker 2: And I do agree because I was kind of kidding

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Speaker 1: Put the pussy on him.

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Speaker 2: But in a relationship, you know, I think a lot

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Speaker 1: Think that six be the answer to things.

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Speaker 2: Then a lot of the time the communication be lacking

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Speaker 2: and that be the root of the problem. And you

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Speaker 2: niggas because niggas don't like talking about I don't know,

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Speaker 2: they don't like talking about what's going on in the relationship,

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Speaker 2: but what's going on with them and why they feeling,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, And I think there's a way to

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of.

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Speaker 2: Times women, Yeah, we don't understand how to be how

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Speaker 2: know how to express themselves without being combative.

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Speaker 1: No, if you're trying.

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Speaker 2: To express just want, they just won't say nothing.

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Speaker 1: Right, they'll just be mad in not say yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like you, as adults, all of us

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Speaker 2: being combative. How can I tell you, hey, you hurt

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Speaker 2: like two days, but you don't even be like, nigga,

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Speaker 2: what the fuck you been doing? You ain't called me

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Speaker 2: for two days to see this nigga? Im my fuck

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Speaker 2: So I just feel like, wait, what were we talking about?

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Speaker 2: So it's like if somebody feels like every time they

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Speaker 1: Be mad that I was. You're gonna worry about the face.

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Speaker 1: So, like I said, I'm a two or three day

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Speaker 2: Not even doing it for two three days, like if

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, babe, I'm sorry, whatever whatever.

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Speaker 1: Or I'm gonna call you and have a conversation with you.

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Speaker 2: But then if after that you still acting drying, you

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you space and I'll tunity to do

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Speaker 1: No, I definitely agree with that as well. But like

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Speaker 2: I'm a video so I'm gonna do I'm gonna do

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Speaker 2: so I'm definitely gonna do that for about two three days.

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Speaker 1: Because Tyrone in the back way. No big mom, not Torone,

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Speaker 2: I'm not That's the thing about me though. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: this Actually I'm glad that we got on this. How

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Speaker 1: Lex y'all?

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Speaker 2: Lex is really lex Is really this way, I will honestly.

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Speaker 1: Say, she's not. I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she not capping like she really will be in

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Speaker 2: And once I start feeling now, I will say, I

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Speaker 2: fucking won't now. I gotta be getting dicked down. I

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Speaker 2: the communication is there. If you give me everything, everything

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Speaker 1: Be loyal as s fuck to you.

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Speaker 2: As soon as you slip in one of those departments,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you know. But if you don't try

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Speaker 2: Tyron gonna get a date or two as soon as

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Speaker 2: you slipped about on another d records bitch. I'm telling

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Speaker 2: And I'm young. I'm gonna enjoy my fucking life. You should,

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Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna lie. I don't know what it

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Speaker 2: And I will say that's a huge difference between me

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Speaker 2: if I break up with a nigga, we probably still

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Speaker 1: If I'm breaking up with you, that means I done

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Speaker 1: had enough. Yeah, I'm already.

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Speaker 2: I already got tyron in the back and I'm ready,

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Speaker 2: Like see your breakup.

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Speaker 1: I'm not lying.

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Speaker 2: After a breakup, I'm probably gonna be sad for about

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Speaker 2: three or four days. Yeah, but after that, I'm like, bitch,

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Speaker 2: I'm going on a date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got my dates lined up like it's niggas.

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Speaker 2: It's like I am not like Chloe Kardashian has been

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Speaker 1: How long he's like that? Man? That's so pathetic to me,

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Speaker 1: because like my good sens, live your life. You're young,

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Speaker 1: you're beautiful, you're fucking rich as fuck. Who the fuck cares?

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Speaker 2: Bro? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: She why have any nigga along? I know, Damn, show

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Speaker 1: you can. It's bitch niggas like a rich bitch. She

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Speaker 2: But but I think that's the issue though, you know

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Speaker 2: what I mean. I feel like I wouldn't want a

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Speaker 2: But I feel like that was the problem with that

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Speaker 2: but I'll say I'm just saying for her to be

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Speaker 1: Day, bitch. It ain't that hard. I also just know

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's hard to find a date.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like the issue with women too, is like,

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Speaker 2: Chloe's problem, Like she wants today these certain type of guys,

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Speaker 2: and that's why it never works out, you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean. But I do think it's I don't think

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Speaker 2: it's pathetic that she hasn't moved on yet, because some

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Speaker 2: people it does take them a while to move on

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Speaker 2: after a breakup, especially considered.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but they have a kid together, so I

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Speaker 2: But what I think is pathetic about the situation is,

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Speaker 2: like I said, not so much that she hasn't moved

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Speaker 2: on yet, but the fact that she's always like posting.

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Speaker 1: Subliminals that don't give a fuck. Patty LaBelle bitch. I

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Speaker 1: wanted to fucking die. She posted Petty labill. I can't

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Speaker 1: even Oh on my girl, you're fucking lying, bro. That's

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Speaker 2: But yeah, that's to me what's pathetic about the situation

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Speaker 2: because she's like posting all of this stuff because she

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Speaker 2: knows Shade Room gonna repost it. She knows all of

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Speaker 2: these blocks reposted nine times out of ten is gonna

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Speaker 2: it's like he he don't give a fuck though, And

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Speaker 2: that's what I think women be feeling to realize, Like

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Speaker 2: see if he don't give a fuck, it don't matter.

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Speaker 2: These niggas do not have no sympathy when they are

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Speaker 2: over you, over you. That's why I say, why the

435
00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:20,240
Speaker 2: fuck am I gonna be sitting here crying when I

436
00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:24,640
Speaker 2: know for a fact he bitch already too. Niggas move

437
00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:28,359
Speaker 2: on quick, quicker. You know what I'm saying? Like you

438
00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:33,080
Speaker 2: just i't got y'all. It's really it really makes no

439
00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:36,040
Speaker 2: sense how fast links move on. I'll be like, bro,

440
00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,919
Speaker 2: but what's the point you just met this nigga, But

441
00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:41,080
Speaker 2: what's the point of crying about it and being said?

442
00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:43,600
Speaker 2: If I saying you should cry and be sad? Now,

443
00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:45,880
Speaker 2: I will say this, as far as we get a relationship,

444
00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,480
Speaker 2: I think I do catch I'm not saying catch feelings.

445
00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:51,120
Speaker 2: But I fuck with people fast because I'm a people person. Yeah,

446
00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:53,200
Speaker 2: so I feel like shit, if I'm fucking with somebody

447
00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:55,240
Speaker 2: and we're going on dancingly like each other, you like, hey, shit,

448
00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:56,080
Speaker 2: you want to be my girl?

449
00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,000
Speaker 1: I'll be like, fucking might as well? Why not? I'm

450
00:19:58,000 --> 00:19:58,959
Speaker 1: not doing nothing tomorrow.

451
00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'll just be like, but I also feel

452
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:06,640
Speaker 2: like that's you also don't have a type either, That's

453
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,439
Speaker 2: why you that's why you move on so fast. I

454
00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 2: feel like me, that's why I only like I'll go

455
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,320
Speaker 2: Don't get me wrong now, y'all. If I was fucking

456
00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,280
Speaker 2: with somebody then we stopped talking, I be going on

457
00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,840
Speaker 2: dates the next week. I'm always going to date. I

458
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:21,480
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck about going on a date, but like,

459
00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:25,000
Speaker 2: really fucking with a nigga again. I think it's because

460
00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:28,119
Speaker 2: I like certain type of niggas. That's part of the

461
00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:30,480
Speaker 2: reason why it always takes me a while to start

462
00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:32,920
Speaker 2: dating somebody else, because I really be feeling like I'll

463
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:34,120
Speaker 2: go on a date with you, but I'm not about

464
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,520
Speaker 2: to start fucking with you if you ain't better than

465
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,399
Speaker 2: the last nigga that I was looking right well, I

466
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:41,280
Speaker 2: always say like, I don't look at it like, oh

467
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,120
Speaker 2: somebody's better, somebody's worse.

468
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,880
Speaker 1: I mean, but because honestly, I'll say, like.

469
00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:51,159
Speaker 2: Personality wise, or like occupationalize, like money, what they do

470
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 2: for a living. I feel like pretty much like everybody

471
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:56,159
Speaker 2: i'll fuck with there they do well for themselves, right,

472
00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:56,919
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

473
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,159
Speaker 1: But I don't have a type. If you look at

474
00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,320
Speaker 1: like the past, like war five guys off, like what

475
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 1: the type?

476
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 2: If I like you and you make me laugh and

477
00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,760
Speaker 2: I'm and I'm physically attracted to you, baby, we can

478
00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:10,280
Speaker 2: do what to do.

479
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,240
Speaker 1: I don't have no type as long as you're just

480
00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:13,680
Speaker 1: not sure.

481
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 2: But when I say, yeah, you don't have a type,

482
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,480
Speaker 2: I don't. I mean, like, in general, you don't have

483
00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 2: a type. I feel like I don't have a type physically.

484
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:22,639
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

485
00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 2: Because if you see niggas that I've dated, you'll and

486
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 2: you'll see one nigga be like what the fuck? You

487
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,399
Speaker 2: see another nigga and be like how the fuck you

488
00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:30,760
Speaker 2: like both of them niggas. So I don't have a

489
00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 2: type physically, But when it comes to like the type

490
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:35,400
Speaker 2: of nigga that I like as far as like their

491
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:39,439
Speaker 2: attributes and stuff, I like similar types of Yeah, but

492
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,200
Speaker 2: I just feel like I don't know. I guess because

493
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,879
Speaker 2: me learning what works for me. That's why my type

494
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 2: opened up. Because I used to be that way.

495
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

496
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:49,880
Speaker 2: I used to be like I'll go through a break

497
00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 2: and I'm like, damn, bitch. I used to feel like

498
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna move on. It's gonna take me forever

499
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 2: to find somebody, and it always would and I hated that.

500
00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:00,200
Speaker 1: So once I started like, oh, you know what, I actually.

501
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,360
Speaker 2: Like these kind of guys, like these kind of guys too,

502
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 2: and it just opened up. I just started meeting like

503
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 2: cool and sometimes I'm not fucking all these niggas. Sometimes

504
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 2: I meet somebody will start, you know, going on a

505
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 2: few days, so we end up having a bomb ass friendship,

506
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,640
Speaker 2: you know, Like sometimes shit like that happens. So sometimes

507
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 2: it'll just be a distraction that'll grow into like a

508
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 2: cool ass friendship or something that'll grow into like a

509
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 2: fuck buddy or another relationship.

510
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,879
Speaker 1: Bitch, I'm really like free spirited and care free when

511
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:26,719
Speaker 1: it comes to shit like that.

512
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,159
Speaker 2: No, you are, yeah, and I'm very like, I know

513
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:31,199
Speaker 2: what type of nigga I'll right, You're like, this is

514
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:34,120
Speaker 2: what I want and if you don't got it moved. Yeah, Honestly,

515
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 2: it's like we'll go on to dating. We might even

516
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 2: focus on you know what I mean, because sometimes I

517
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:42,400
Speaker 2: just be' I'm like any other girl, I be wanting

518
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 2: the fun. Yea, I need it one gir But yeah,

519
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 2: so it's like we might fucking something.

520
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 1: But I'm really like a.

521
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 2: Nigga though, y'all, like honestly, Like it's always like niggas

522
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 2: always be liking me more than I like them. Like

523
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 2: it's like we might go on a day and we'll fuck.

524
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 2: Can niggas be thinking I be feeling them and it's like, no, nigga,

525
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:02,879
Speaker 2: I'm not feeling.

526
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 1: We just fucked because I was harny. No, I can

527
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 1: be that way too.

528
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 2: Because it's like, yeah, you definitely can be that way

529
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 2: because sometimes niggas have good dig but they personality or

530
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 2: they conversation be trased, and do you have this problem

531
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 2: like and not because I don't want this to see,

532
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 2: because I mean, of course, me and lects aren't like

533
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,439
Speaker 2: celebrities or nothing like that, but for your fucking self,

534
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: do you ever have the problem like with meeting niggas

535
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 2: and they be fangirling?

536
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 1: That's another thing.

537
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 2: That's another reason why I feel like I'm so selective

538
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 2: about the type of niggas that I date.

539
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 1: I hate meeting a nigga and he be.

540
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 2: So impressed or like being following me on Instagram and

541
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 2: he'd be like, oh my god, I've been following you

542
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:48,920
Speaker 2: for years. I hate that shit, Brod, I think Instagram,

543
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 2: But I feel like that's why. Sometimes, you know, a

544
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,919
Speaker 2: lot of people feel that way, like we are not

545
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 2: celebrities by any means.

546
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 1: No, yeah, you do have a little bit.

547
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we do have a little following. So I

548
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 2: actually was talking to somebody about this the other day.

549
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 2: I think it's very weird when people like I don't know,

550
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 2: like be wanting me to say things about them on

551
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 2: my podcast, want me to like, oh, can you tweet

552
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 2: this or can you repost this? And be like or

553
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 2: they'd be like, oh, yeah, I know that. It be

554
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: so many times people be like, oh you know such

555
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 2: and such they said that they knew you, they said

556
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 2: that y'all was cool, and I'm like, I'm not even

557
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 2: we ran into each other one time start us. So

558
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 2: I do think it's definitely weird because I sometimes you

559
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 2: meet people and they have a whole playing and plotting

560
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 2: because they are following you in a year. Yes, And

561
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 2: I feel like, honestly, that's why I choose to only

562
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 2: date the type of niggas that I date. It is

563
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 2: because them niggas, no, don't be like that with me.

564
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, but I be feeling like

565
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 2: a lot of the time I be running into niggas

566
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 2: and they be cool or they be cute, but then

567
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:50,919
Speaker 2: they be like, man, I've been following you for the

568
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 2: longest time, Like I've been wanting to take you on a.

569
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 1: Date since nineteen eighty three. I'm not about to pay.

570
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 2: And I'd be like, I don't have that problem as

571
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 2: much you do because you have like way more follower

572
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 2: than me. And I feel like it's more so like

573
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 2: the after effect, Like if they haven't already been following me,

574
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 2: once they start following me or something they see they're like,

575
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 2: oh shit, oh you popping popping, and they'd be like,

576
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 2: I just feel.

577
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 1: Like they just be doing it.

578
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 2: They'd just be real extra, you know how people be

579
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,439
Speaker 2: trying to move, then they'd be you hanging out.

580
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: With them, they trying to put you on their story. Yeah.

581
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,639
Speaker 1: I think that's really weird. Oh my god. I actually

582
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 1: had to like go off on somebody about that.

583
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 2: I didn't go off, but it was just kind of like,

584
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 2: can you not like, can we just eat dinner?

585
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

586
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 2: Like it was like, I'm understand, and it's so funny

587
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,919
Speaker 2: that you said that because last week when I was

588
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 2: in Houston, I went out with Little Alley and Brittany

589
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 2: shout out to Little Alley a little bit.

590
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 1: Hey y'all, Yes, we had went to Swaggers.

591
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 2: And well brick, oh I shouldn't say, never mind. So yeah,

592
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 2: so we had went up there and we like some

593
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,640
Speaker 2: dude had like bought us shots and stuff, and like

594
00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 2: he was trying to.

595
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 1: My face. I like, that's so uncomfortable.

596
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 2: I hate when niggas do stuff like that, Like why

597
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,880
Speaker 2: are you recording me without my permission? Yeah, I think

598
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 2: a lot of people are just weird nowadays, And I

599
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 2: don't know, I just feel like I get while you

600
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,159
Speaker 2: say you only date certain type of guys. Now for me,

601
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,880
Speaker 2: I can pretty much feel the niggas that I date

602
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 2: they just be cool as fuck.

603
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 1: No, I don't. I pretty much.

604
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 2: One thing I can say about most of the guys

605
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 2: that I take series that I'm actually fucking or I'm

606
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 2: in a relationship with, Like them niggas, they.

607
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: They cool as fuck.

608
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like so they don't be on no shit like that,

609
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 2: Cause I can pretty much tell, after like a first

610
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 2: time hanging out, if you're like a weirdo or not.

611
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 2: You're gonna be like kind of fangirling and acting like no, right,

612
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 2: I agree, That's why I'm saying, that's why I decline.

613
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 2: I feel like I decline a lot of like offers

614
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 2: to go on dates and stuff, because when I meet

615
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 2: niggas initially, I can already tell that it's like YouTube

616
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 2: PRIs you know what I mean, especially if a nigga

617
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 2: be like, two, oh my god, can you follow me back?

618
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,880
Speaker 1: No love the follow backs, follow back Friday.

619
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 2: I'm telling you it be sad, it really does. You.

620
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 2: Let us have to stop doing it. So I hope

621
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 2: that y'all are listening. If y'all would like to date

622
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:13,400
Speaker 2: me or lex P, please do not approach us the way.

623
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: It's not flattering. Yes, it's gonna be a weird though. Yeah,

624
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a weird though. Just keep it cool,

625
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: just be keep it cute, just keep it cooling. You

626
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: have to this. We love to go on a good date.

627
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: We do. We love good dates. So let us know

628
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: how long.

629
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 2: Going back to the topic, let us know how long

630
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 2: it takes y'all to start dating after a breakup?

631
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 1: Are you that kind of person? Who are you? Months?

632
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you mean? Like me forty eight hours, bitch.

633
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Me Like, God damn, I'm gone. Yeah.

634
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: And me on the other hand, like, it's definitely gonna

635
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,360
Speaker 2: take me a few months before I start dating someone else. Seriously,

636
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 2: Like I said, I'll go on little dates here and there,

637
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 2: but before I start really getting into another situation. It

638
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,479
Speaker 2: definitely takes me a little time. So this next topic

639
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 2: is going into my personal life a little bit.

640
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So I'm not gonna get into too

641
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 1: much of a.

642
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 2: Detail, Okay, y'all, Like you know what I'm saying. You

643
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,640
Speaker 2: just meet somebody, y'all, go on a few dates, y'all.

644
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 1: Cool, kicking it?

645
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 2: He fine, you fine, she just live popin ish cool,

646
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 2: and it's like you called it digging though, but it's

647
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 2: very early, okay. And then like somebody approaches you and

648
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 2: they're like, y'all new nigga hostes.

649
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all new nigga home. He used to fuck with.

650
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 2: This girl, he used to talk to this girl, he

651
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 2: used to do this and this and this and this

652
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 2: and this and that. How do you feel about somebody

653
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 2: telling you y'all knew nigga A hossis.

654
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: I hate holls? Like that, Beach. Don't come to me

655
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: telling me god damn.

656
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: But I don't know why you're saying goddamn, because you

657
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 2: already knew what the fuck I was gonna.

658
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: Say, super sassiest, I don't like cows like that, beach.

659
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 2: And I'm saying this too. I'm saying this to everybody

660
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 2: who listening out. If y'all ever see me with a nigga,

661
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 2: mind your business. Don't walk up to me. So you

662
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 2: mind your business, bitch, don't walk up to me telling

663
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 2: me what you know about this nigga, because I don't

664
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 2: give a fuck because you don't know why I'm fucking

665
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 2: with him.

666
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: But what if they just trying to like, look out,

667
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: don't be I don't.

668
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 2: You ain't gotta look out for me, Jesus looking out

669
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 2: for me for real, bitch like you ain't gonna look

670
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 2: out for me that ass like. I don't like girls

671
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 2: like that, especially when they don't really know you. And

672
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 2: I just feel like two At the end of the day,

673
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 2: if a man is single, just like if a woman

674
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 2: is single, you free to date whoever you want to

675
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 2: fucking date and whoever you want to fuck with, as

676
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 2: long as you ain't in no relationships. So they were like, oh, bitch,

677
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 2: your nigga thirsty, like you're trying to holler at everybody

678
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 2: you still do? What is everybody? I don't know, but

679
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. What is everybody? Because everybody to

680
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 2: one bitch might be like, oh, she was at a

681
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 2: party and seeing that nigga try to holler at two

682
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 2: bitches that she know, and now she like, oh, the

683
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 2: nigga try to fuck with everybody.

684
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 1: So I don't know.

685
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 2: I think I think things can get us. Yeah, things

686
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 2: to get misconstrued. And that's why I just feel like

687
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 2: bitches need to mind name of the fucking business and

688
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 2: worry about who they are.

689
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 1: Real passionate about this because.

690
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 2: I don't like it because when you told me about

691
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 2: a situation, this was the meaning you was texting.

692
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: But if that's how I was typing me, and I

693
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: was like, bach.

694
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 2: On your day, I did. And I always tell like

695
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 2: that because I feel like we're different in that scenes,

696
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 2: like somebody could tell Lick something about a guy and

697
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 2: she won't want to fuck with him. No, no, okay,

698
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 2: let me give my answer, let me give my side. Okay,

699
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 2: this is how I feel. I'm not gonna lie. I'm

700
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 2: not a person. I don't necessarily care what other people think,

701
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 2: but I do take oh yeah, yeah, I do take

702
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 2: seed because sometimes people have tried to warm me about

703
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 2: people and I didn't listen, and the same exact shit

704
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 2: that they was trying to warm me about happen.

705
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 1: So I do try to move consciously, but I also

706
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: not trying to.

707
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 2: Just because this nigga was like this with these bitches, amen,

708
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 2: don't mean he gonna be like that with me. And

709
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: that's exactly what I was about to say, Like niggas

710
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 2: treat different bitches different, you know what I mean. It's like,

711
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: just because the dude might have been one way with

712
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 2: these three other beaches, that doesn't mean that he's gonna

713
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 2: be that way with you, because he might fuck with

714
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 2: you different, you know what I mean. So that's another

715
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 2: reason too, why I don't like when people do that,

716
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: Like bitch, mind y'all, Besney's worry about who you fucking

717
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 2: worry about who getting in them? Draw don't worry about mean,

718
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 2: I guess they got HIV or something unless you know

719
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 2: some shit like that, like you know, he got hurt people.

720
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: If you see me with that nigga, bitch, on me shoulder.

721
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: But anything other than that, bitch mind y'all. Well, I

722
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: definitely agree with you on that.

723
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 2: But, like I said, one things, because this is not

724
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 2: the first time this just happened to me.

725
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: I mean, it's happened in the past. I mean, I

726
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: think we've all gone through.

727
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 2: But I also look at it from the other point

728
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 2: of view, because a nigga could tell him, hey, man,

729
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 2: don't fuck with Lex, PC should be busting up pussy

730
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 2: open or another.

731
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: They could be like, oh ship Lex, cool as fun.

732
00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 2: Different people have different and different because honestly, we all

733
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 2: like to think that we're consistent and solid people, but

734
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 2: we don't give the same I don't give the same

735
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 2: legs to everybody.

736
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: You don't get the same drift at all.

737
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 2: And it's people who would say I'm a cool ass

738
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 2: baching these people who were say, man, fuck the house.

739
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 1: Exactly, you know what I mean. So I I definitely

740
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 1: looked at it from that.

741
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not gonna stop fucking with the nigga obviously, like, yeah,

742
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 2: it's not gonna happen, but it definitely I'm not gonna lie.

743
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 2: I definitely was feeling some type of way you was

744
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 2: kind don't say because you was contemplating. I was like,

745
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 2: oh my God, was like gluck the people.

746
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: I was upset.

747
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, and I kind of feel like

748
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 2: one thing about me is I can't hide it, so

749
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 2: like you know, not that I said anything, but I

750
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 2: think I was kind of maybe not acting funny.

751
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: You was acting funny. I was funny. I was acting

752
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: a little funny. But once I like talked about.

753
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 2: It, like, I was like, oh, you talk to the

754
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 2: person about it, and what did he say? He was

755
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 2: just like like, I mean I'm single, Like I'm yeah,

756
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 2: basically what you just said, like, I'm single and I'm.

757
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 1: Doing right right, which I can't agree.

758
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 2: I can't get mad at that because it's like you sing,

759
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 2: you're doing what you're gonna do.

760
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 1: Like what am I really tricking on?

761
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 2: So basically you're saying you appreciate when people come and

762
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 2: tell you things about something kind.

763
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: Of do and I kind of don't.

764
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 2: I'm like fifty to fifty with it, okay, because like

765
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 2: I said, it makes me kind of take keep so

766
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 2: I can know, Okay, this is how you are, So

767
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 2: don't jump into it, Like, don't jump into this, like

768
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 2: because he might be you know, just you might be

769
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 2: it was just somebody you want to just date casually,

770
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 2: like right, So now I know, like, oh, you're a

771
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 2: serial dator, which is fine because I'm a serial dator

772
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 2: as well.

773
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I just know what, So how the.

774
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 2: Fuck it's okay for you to be a serial but

775
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 2: it's not okay for your niggas to be a serial dator.

776
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: Well, because I'm not.

777
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 2: Because it's different for niggas, Like because niggas most of

778
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 2: the time, if they're dating women, they're smashing them.

779
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't do it. I'm not.

780
00:33:55,520 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 2: I'm not fucking every I guarantee you time if you

781
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 2: see me out on the day with a nigga, I'm amen.

782
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm being honest, And I do have a

783
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: lot of guy friends.

784
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 2: I have niggas that just like being in our presence,

785
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 2: like yeah, or we just cool with like one of

786
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 2: my best guy friends out he literally always takes me

787
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 2: out and he just takes me to dinner just because yeah,

788
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 2: and it's like that it doesn't mean anything, you know

789
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So I just feel like that's that's

790
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 2: why it's fucking different, because I'm not smashing all these niggas.

791
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right.

792
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: I mean it's nothing wrong because, like I said, niggas

793
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 2: do what you do, smash these bitches.

794
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck.

795
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 2: But now, but I'll just be like, okay, so maybe

796
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 2: you're not taking this. You're not gonna be taking this

797
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: as serious, so I just know how to move. I'm

798
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 2: not talking about this particular situation, no, right, Like in general,

799
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 2: so I do appreciate something I don't because I'm an overthinker. Yeah,

800
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 2: I overthink fucking everything. Like if you tell me one thing,

801
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:51,919
Speaker 2: I'm gonna think about it for about a week.

802
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 1: See. Yeah, I feel like I overthink things too.

803
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 2: But when it comes to like me, give me in

804
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 2: a situation and I start fucking with a nigga, I'm

805
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 2: not trying to hear nothing about what the fuck you

806
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 2: was doing or what you used to be doing unless

807
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 2: I see you with my own two eyes, I really

808
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck, you know what I mean?

809
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 1: Cause niggas are niggas.

810
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 2: Like what nigga haven't dated a bunch of beachies, right,

811
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:14,319
Speaker 2: And I feel like everybody has a past to like

812
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 2: we have. Most single if you're not in it, if

813
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,320
Speaker 2: a man is not in a relationship. News flash, lady,

814
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 2: He's dating a bunch of bechees in fact, until he

815
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 2: find one that he likes. That's just how the game go,

816
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. But Lex, so Lex appreciated sometimes.

817
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 2: Like I said, mind trying, mother fucking bees when it

818
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 2: comes to me.

819
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 1: I appreciate a little tea. I do appreciate a little tea.

820
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, I always do

821
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 2: what I'm gonna, what I want to do anywhere. Yeah,

822
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,760
Speaker 2: So if I ever stop sucking with somebody, it's damn

823
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 2: sure not because of what a bitch told me or

824
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 2: what a nigga told me. Yeah, if I stopped fucking

825
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 2: with somebody, it's always a decision that I've made on.

826
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,760
Speaker 1: My own, right on my own beach.

827
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 2: So speaking of you know, going on dates and this

828
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 2: and that, I just want this topic real real, fuck,

829
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:01,479
Speaker 2: it's gonna be real fucking quick.

830
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 1: We're not even gonna spend a lot of time. So,

831
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: oh I forgot, I'm gonna get to I'm gonna get

832
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: to that after this.

833
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 2: Okay, So you're on a date with a nigga, y'all

834
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 2: had a really fancy restaurant. You know, he's just popping bottles,

835
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 2: ordering steaks, ordering salmon's, ordering this, ordering.

836
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 1: That salmon, salmon's. Bitch, you annoying. So when the.

837
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 2: Tab comes out, he pays the tab. Have you ever

838
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 2: like I wanted to be like, oh, let me.

839
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 1: Have you. Have you ever been like, oh, let me

840
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: pay the tip?

841
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 2: No, no, playing, I have actually paid paid the till before.

842
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 2: It's first of all, It's definitely been a while since

843
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 2: I did something like that, but I've done it before,

844
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I feel like in my

845
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 2: younger days when I was dating like dudes that I

846
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 2: went to college with and shit like that. You know,

847
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 2: we would go to Chili's and stuff like that. You

848
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 2: know they will pay the tab.

849
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: Come on Southwestern.

850
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 2: Amen, Yes, bitch and Cajun Lfred Opasta.

851
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: They used to be my sheet.

852
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 2: But yeah, when you know, we'll go on a little

853
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: date to Chili's and he'll pay the tab to be

854
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 2: like fifty dollars. You know, I leave a tip. That's cool.

855
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 2: The niggas a day now, bitch, I'm not leaving no

856
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 2: motherfucking tub. If you could pay a four hundred dollar tab,

857
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 2: you could pay.

858
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 1: The mother's fucking cube. So you would never even offer.

859
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 2: Offer to pay the tip for a rich nigga tab?

860
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 2: How did how that works?

861
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 1: How did that make sense? Okay?

862
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,399
Speaker 2: If you any think I would pay for a day okay, Okay,

863
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 2: I see.

864
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: What I wouldn't mind.

865
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 2: Like if I'm in a relationship or I'm fucking with

866
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 2: a nigga and we together all the time, I don't

867
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 2: care how much.

868
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 1: Money you got.

869
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 2: I don't mind going on a date and occasionally maybe

870
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 2: paying for it.

871
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: That's cool. But to be cause.

872
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 2: How do you cause I feel I don't know, I

873
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 2: feel like, how do you even have that conversation? Like

874
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,080
Speaker 2: how do y'all even get to the point of like

875
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 2: he paid the tab and then you paid the tab?

876
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: Is that a conversation? That y'all conversation?

877
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,240
Speaker 2: Because I've done this in the past before now, not

878
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 2: not recently, not because I don't want to, but just

879
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 2: because I've never the niggas that I date now they

880
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 2: don't really be tripping or say nothing. Yeah, but I

881
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 2: know like sometimes like I was going on a date

882
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 2: like with guy all the time and something I be like, oh,

883
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 2: I got the tip, I'll leave it. Just don't worry

884
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 2: about it, like just so you know, throw it in

885
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 2: Trump tump. I mean, I think that's cool. I mean,

886
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 2: if that's what you want to do or whatever. But

887
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, if you just paid

888
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 2: two hundred dollars, what's the problem with paying the extra forty?

889
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 2: I mean, the damage already done.

890
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: You.

891
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 2: I feel like you ain't really helping the nigga out

892
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 2: that much by paying forty dollars, But you rather not

893
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 2: leave it till you rather like, if you're gonna pay

894
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 2: for that, you're just gonna pay.

895
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: I would rather Yeah, I would just rather just at

896
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: that point in a relationship, are you paying for a date?

897
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 2: I would say, after I feel like we're consistently dating. Yeah,

898
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 2: not like in the beginning stages where you know, you're

899
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 2: just taking me on dates occasionally. We might see each

900
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 2: other once a week or once every two weeks, I

901
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 2: would say, consistently dating to the point that I'm seeing

902
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 2: you numerous times a week. You're always we fucking we

903
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,360
Speaker 2: always going on dates, you know what I mean? We

904
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 2: always together. I don't mind paying occasionally, but I'm not

905
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 2: paying it like OCEANAI or nything.

906
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: He got a mother maybe soft grass.

907
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:45,320
Speaker 2: SDK, No, he gotta any fucking roadhouse, bitch, niggas like

908
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 2: nigga should appreciate a little variety. Okay, you every day,

909
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 2: Well that's sweet, bitch.

910
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 1: I might pick you up some Chick fil A leg

911
00:39:56,560 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 1: not chick legs. Not Chick fil A. You would at

912
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:04,439
Speaker 1: least take your nigga to Applebee's. Honestly, I'm just I'm

913
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: like this.

914
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 2: I don't really I'm not a good going on date

915
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 2: type of person. If anything, we go to happy hour,

916
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 2: like I got the drinks this type shit, or like

917
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 2: you go we go somewhere I'm gonna pay for Like,

918
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 2: I'm not like, oh, I plan a date for a sweetie, like,

919
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,359
Speaker 2: oh my god, I don't do that. I'm just like, oh,

920
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 2: were linking up. Okay, I'll be like when they bring

921
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 2: this time, I'm be like, I got it this time

922
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:25,359
Speaker 2: type shit.

923
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not really like that.

924
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 2: I'm not a d I like people to plan dates

925
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 2: for me, so if I pay off for some ship,

926
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 2: it's gonna be like on the whim shit. Well, I

927
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 2: like for niggas to pay for stuff for me, But

928
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 2: I will say I don't really plan dates and stuff neither.

929
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 2: I'm just more of a person who I'm gonna do

930
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 2: something spontaneous and surprise you, like I'm maybe instead of

931
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:49,280
Speaker 2: like seeing my nigga, it will arrange me like get him,

932
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 2: like pay for a masseuse to come to his house

933
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:54,839
Speaker 2: and give him one him to make sure like that time,

934
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 2: remember when I like decked out my little we like

935
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 2: I cook the whole I got got a bottle and

936
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 2: all like invite somebody over, like I'll do a little

937
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: cute shit like that, baby. But as far as being like,

938
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 2: oh theyy dressed up, I'm gonna come scoop you up

939
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 2: like we ain't training places, bitch, just ain't not.

940
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 1: No, yeah, I'm not about to do all that shit either,

941
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 1: because I feel like too.

942
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, I feel like niggas appreciate thoughtfulness more

943
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 2: than you paying for things anyway, right, Yeah, like they

944
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 2: appreciate the acts most men that I've encountered, like they

945
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 2: appreciate the fact that you thought about they will be

946
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 2: and youve seen they was tired and you like, oh

947
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 2: let me make you like, let me get you a

948
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 2: spy day, right, you know, ship like that or I

949
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 2: don't know, dude, just appreciate shit like that more than

950
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 2: money because majority of the time, if you dating somebody

951
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 2: who is financially stable, they can pay for everything.

952
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: So it's like you paying for a day. It's not

953
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:43,840
Speaker 1: gonna impress.

954
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,959
Speaker 2: Yeah it's nice, and you're putting yourself in a buying

955
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 2: trying to see me independing girls.

956
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 1: I mean, but that's what I said.

957
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 2: If I pay for something, it'll be like on a whim,

958
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 2: Like I'll be like, oh, I got the drinks. Yeah,

959
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 2: you always take it like it'll but it ain't gonna

960
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 2: be like no planned out.

961
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 1: Shit, I will, right.

962
00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 2: But as far as leaving the tip, I guess I

963
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 2: do agree with you. I was gonna be like, no,

964
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 2: I'm been talking wout leave a tip, but actually I'm

965
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 2: just like why, Yeah, it's.

966
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 1: Like, bitch.

967
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 2: Paid three hundred dollars for this tamn. I mean, you're

968
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 2: trying to save him sixty dollars. I was ready to

969
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 2: argue because we've been getting along today I have. That's

970
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:20,479
Speaker 2: not even a very cooperative episode. Abody like y'all bitches

971
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 2: that took a week off and y'all new people. They're like,

972
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 2: oh the president, don't worry, bitch, give about two weeks.

973
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: We're gonna be back on this whole argum our usual.

974
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 2: So let us know how y'all feel about like leaving

975
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 2: his tip for like paying for the day as a

976
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 2: woman and feil us. How do y'all feel about girls

977
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 2: paying for your day or do you rather like, you know,

978
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 2: thoughtful little gifts.

979
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're gonna get into my favorite.

980
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 2: Topic, the big, the big, the big, bring this one, okay.

981
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: All right, y'all.

982
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 2: So you know, I think we've all been in a

983
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 2: situation like this where you know, you dating the dude

984
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 2: and y'all start fucking around and you know, me personally,

985
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 2: the first time I have six for somebody. I feel

986
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 2: like sometimes niggas will come quick because for numerous reasons,

987
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 2: like they'll be excited, they might have been wanting to

988
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:19,760
Speaker 2: fuck you for a minute, they excited to get the pussy.

989
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 2: Sometimes niggas will come quick. That happens, but you only

990
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 2: get one pass the two passes with me. If this

991
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 2: is something that happens all the time, I got an

992
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 2: issue with it. So how do y'all feel about men

993
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 2: that come quick?

994
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:34,280
Speaker 1: Okay?

995
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 2: So what do you define as come quick? Like, give

996
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 2: me a time, I would say like five minutes. Five

997
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:47,280
Speaker 2: that's quick, yeah, five ten minutes, But honestly, at this age,

998
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 2: quick sex is fine with me only yes, because you

999
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: know what, I'm not being funny. I might be getting

1000
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:56,480
Speaker 2: a little detailed detail, but I think i'll talk about

1001
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 2: this for I know how to make myself orgasm right

1002
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 2: every fucking time. I right, this is something that I'm

1003
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 2: very proud of that I've mastered. Yeah, that's a long

1004
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 2: time to get there, because I.

1005
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: Know, not every time. I know how to.

1006
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 2: But it's like it's a difference between a man making

1007
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 2: me come and me making myself come. I know how

1008
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:14,280
Speaker 2: to make myself come every time. So at this point,

1009
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 2: like as soon as you sit the dicken, if I

1010
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 2: know you're a quick pumper, I can start working on

1011
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 2: my nuts.

1012
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,359
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna get my nuts right lost of the time.

1013
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:23,839
Speaker 2: So honestly, a quick nut as long as it's not

1014
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 2: no fucking two, three minutes, five minutes is still pushing it.

1015
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 2: But bitch, I can do ten minutes. My big ass

1016
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:30,360
Speaker 2: be tired anyway.

1017
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess you right, ten fifteen minutes.

1018
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 2: I mean I usually like for my sexual incouness to

1019
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: last like twenty minutes. No, that's too fucking that's not

1020
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 2: long to me. Oh, I'm just talking about sex. I'm

1021
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 2: not including four plays. Okay, yeah, sex only ten to

1022
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 2: fifteen minutes is cool. Yeah, ten fifteen minutes is cool.

1023
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:49,800
Speaker 2: But if a niggas come, I mean, I'm not gonna

1024
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 2: lie to y'all. I had a situation where.

1025
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:53,439
Speaker 1: I passed sticks with these dudes.

1026
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 2: This was last year, and at the end of last year,

1027
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 2: we have been friends for a long time, like years,

1028
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 2: and he always had a crush on me, and I

1029
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 2: slyly gave him some pussy and it lasted like two

1030
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 2: three minutes, y'all know, lie, he was shaking in that puss, yes, bitch,

1031
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 2: and I was like, what the fuck are you serious?

1032
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:21,240
Speaker 1: But the fore play last. But the fore play lasted

1033
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: for like.

1034
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: But you just said one or two times you supposed

1035
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 2: to give him a chance.

1036
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: After that, it was the first time, y'all.

1037
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:30,280
Speaker 2: Fuck why didn't give him another chance? For obvious reasons.

1038
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 2: But we're not gonna get into that because they don't

1039
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 2: have nothing to do with the topic in hand. But

1040
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 2: you know, I just feel but I was very disappointed.

1041
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,479
Speaker 2: But I also have never had sex with a dude.

1042
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:45,760
Speaker 2: They came that quick. I've had some quick pumpers before,

1043
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 2: but sometimes niggas like to get that first nut out

1044
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 2: the way so.

1045
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 1: They can, you know, get that second round.

1046
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 2: And niggas got a power up, bitch, So I feel

1047
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:55,960
Speaker 2: like this. I'm cool with that first nut if it

1048
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:58,839
Speaker 2: come in two, three, five minutes, but nigga, you better

1049
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 2: get that ship back up, and you got the horses

1050
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 2: in the back, bitch, because it's Tom Rath. Bitch, I'm dead,

1051
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 2: It's fucked. But I'm just like, that's the issue with

1052
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 2: a lot of niggas. I don't know what type of

1053
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 2: men you be fucking with. They be having superhuman strengths,

1054
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 2: but these niggas, a lot of the niggas I'll be

1055
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 2: running in to be they be one and done with

1056
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 2: a Well, if you will talk.

1057
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: To somebody who's under the age of sixty, Oh, I'm

1058
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 1: fucking god, bitch, I'm just playing y'all. Oh my god,

1059
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: I haven't even The crazy thing is I be dad

1060
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: niggas that be in a thirties. I'm kidding.

1061
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 2: That was such a joke, now, I know, But I'm

1062
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 2: just letting y'all know, like I'll be dating dudes that

1063
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 2: be like in eight thirties.

1064
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: I haven't even haddy thirties. Yeah, late thirties.

1065
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:41,240
Speaker 2: Men's sexual drive goes down as they get older, women's

1066
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 2: goes up.

1067
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: But what about this person, the person that we were

1068
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,240
Speaker 1: just talking about, he's like in his twenties.

1069
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 2: That was but y'all only fucked once, and you said,

1070
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 2: I'll give you that it was his first time fucking you.

1071
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,720
Speaker 2: He was falling like damn, Like I'm actually fucking like damn,

1072
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 2: this pussy fought.

1073
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1074
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 2: So it's like, I feel like you don't really know

1075
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 2: how the dick is if you only had it once,

1076
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,319
Speaker 2: because like I told you, I told him to all

1077
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 2: the time.

1078
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: This nigga that I was fucking for a fucking long,

1079
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: long long time. We have the best fucking sex. The

1080
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: first time we had sex, he was.

1081
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 2: Like, I wasn't gonna fuck you no more because your

1082
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 2: pussy was tressed.

1083
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 1: And I was though I was nervous as fun, so

1084
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: you wasn't. We I don't know. I don't know why.

1085
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, but not like, bitch.

1086
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 2: Please ask Hi about this pussy down, bitch, ask him now,

1087
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:25,720
Speaker 2: let's call him.

1088
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 1: I think we better call him. I'm just playing, but

1089
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, ask him about it, because it's

1090
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 1: like you can't go off of one round like you can't.

1091
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I ain't gonna lie.

1092
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 2: Like the he you know, other things was cool, but

1093
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 2: the actual sex. I was like, my nigga, turst them

1094
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 2: all beat. You got me fucked up? What the fuck

1095
00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:44,280
Speaker 2: is going on?

1096
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 1: You supposed to get him another chance?

1097
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 2: It was really supposed to get the dick back up.

1098
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you nothing, you need to learn

1099
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:51,879
Speaker 2: how to get your dick back.

1100
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 1: Amen.

1101
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 2: I agree, So that's what I'm saying. I was very disappointed.

1102
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck is going on? Like, So,

1103
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 2: I'm okay with a nigga coming if you come in

1104
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 2: like five minutes or less, you need to be able

1105
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 2: to get the dick back up.

1106
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: But ten fifteen minutes six.

1107
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:09,240
Speaker 2: Not including four play, I'm cool with it. Ten minutes,

1108
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:12,320
Speaker 2: I'm cool, Yes, you right, Ten fifteen minutes is cool.

1109
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:14,760
Speaker 2: Anything less than ten minutes, though, yeah.

1110
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: Anything less than ten minutes, but it's my fat ass

1111
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:17,839
Speaker 1: be Oh my god.

1112
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 2: I don't mean you though. Unless I'm riding deep bitch,

1113
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,240
Speaker 2: I'll be no, I'm talking, but you know, and y'all

1114
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:24,439
Speaker 2: know how we feel about that.

1115
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:24,959
Speaker 1: We don't.

1116
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 2: I'm not fucking riding my knees two minutes if you

1117
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 2: can't now that's when I need you to come quick.

1118
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:32,760
Speaker 2: We gotta get on top because you got two minutes

1119
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 2: to left. That none ut you're like minutes select it.

1120
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 2: That's my longest I'm gonna last. The niggas be one

1121
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:39,759
Speaker 2: of you.

1122
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 1: But I'll be cool on top.

1123
00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 2: If I be on my knees, yeah you say, tip toe,

1124
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 2: I'll be like, uh uh I least they want you

1125
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:51,799
Speaker 2: to turn around like sitting with like they sit on

1126
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 2: a chair on the bend. They want you to like

1127
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 2: bounce up and down, bitch like my fucking less hurd.

1128
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,040
Speaker 1: Bitch allays asked, I need some cist. That's time I

1129
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: think that position. She's like, oh, why do you start with?

1130
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: I don't like my knees hurt? Don't I know? You

1131
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: see them all shaky? Thats the worse. I really like.

1132
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 1: It's a really annoyed thinking about that.

1133
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 2: But honestly, I feel like the reason even I said

1134
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 2: ten minutes, evenough if I'm not on top, I'm really flexible.

1135
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. But it's like, bitch sometimes, bitch

1136
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:25,800
Speaker 2: holding your legs behind your head for fucking fifteen minutes.

1137
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: Like no, I'll bitch, I can't even do this or relate.

1138
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 1: I can definitely put the legs behind I.

1139
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:33,760
Speaker 2: Cannot put my legs behind my head. You can't, bitch,

1140
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 2: no bitch, you need to do your stretch.

1141
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 1: Swear to God, I bet you can't do no split me.

1142
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 1: You ain't do it a split bag. Oh head, these

1143
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: bones press got stretched the fucking heill. I need some kaoki.

1144
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 2: I'm I'm shook right now. Wh All women can put

1145
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 2: their legs behind their head. I thought that was like

1146
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:55,399
Speaker 2: a woman.

1147
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: I mean, don't get me wrong.

1148
00:49:56,880 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 2: Now I can lift my legs pretty high, but put

1149
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 2: it behind my head. They don't be like flat on

1150
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 2: the bed. They could be flat on the bed of

1151
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 2: a bitch, not behind my head. I'm thinking you talk

1152
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 2: about like.

1153
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:13,760
Speaker 1: In a principle. Oh no, not doing that to though,

1154
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: not me, not me. I'm just talking about your.

1155
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 2: About your legs being like like he's putting the pressure

1156
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 2: on your head.

1157
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's normal, that's regular. Yeah, how you

1158
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: are flexible, bitch.

1159
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 2: I'm thinking you talking about putting your head your leg

1160
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 2: behind your head.

1161
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 1: No, bitch, like leg above your head like gotcha? Gotcha?

1162
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 2: No?

1163
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, but no, I still can't do no sleep out.

1164
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:37,919
Speaker 1: I'm dead bitch.

1165
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:39,879
Speaker 2: So let us know how y'all feel about quick letting

1166
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 2: guys out there whout pretty quickly.

1167
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: Let us know why. I don't think they're gonna DM

1168
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 1: us and be like, hey, I was listening to that

1169
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 1: talking about it. No, not even that.

1170
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 2: If you do not quick, do you get it back

1171
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 2: up from around two, because some guys be like, yeah,

1172
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 2: I gotta get that first nut off, Like some guys

1173
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 2: will admit.

1174
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 1: That it ain't nothing wrong with that. You gotta get

1175
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: that first nut off, and.

1176
00:50:57,640 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 2: Then you come back from around two and you, you know,

1177
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 2: but if they happen every time, I wonder if that's

1178
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 2: like a problem.

1179
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 1: You know, you know, Yo, Dicky, you know what's going

1180
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: down for my Yes, I'm cool with it. I'm really

1181
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: cool with it. Honestly, I'm fucking cool with it. Okay.

1182
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 2: So y'all know, we recently announced that we're starting to

1183
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 2: do a Q.

1184
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 1: And A at the end of the episode.

1185
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 2: So for anybody who wants to send us, you know,

1186
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 2: any topics, any questions, or anything, you can email us

1187
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:30,280
Speaker 2: at ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1188
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: It's a s K P O U R M I

1189
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: N D S.

1190
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 2: At gmail dot com. So I'm so excited, y'all we

1191
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 2: got our first question.

1192
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna go ahead. I'm gonna go ahead and read it.

1193
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 2: Okay, So it says, hey, dream lets you just want

1194
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 2: to start by saying, how much I love listening to

1195
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:51,399
Speaker 2: you guys podcast away from New York.

1196
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 1: You're so hell damn I'm talking about you with that

1197
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: weekend You're you a.

1198
00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 2: Hater bro anyways, and can't wait until y'all return to

1199
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 2: YouTube so I can see you guys pretty faces. I

1200
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:07,400
Speaker 2: have a few questions I would like to be asking

1201
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:10,399
Speaker 2: answered on the show, But my main question is if

1202
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 2: you're dating someone and they don't post your pick or

1203
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 2: picks you have together on social media, does that necessarily

1204
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 2: mean that they have a few holes or he just

1205
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 2: likes keeping things exclusive? Would it be a deal breaker

1206
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:25,320
Speaker 2: in a relationship, especially if a few of y'all friends

1207
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 2: know y'all are exclusively dating, but he won't put it

1208
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 2: on social media for the.

1209
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: World to see. Thanks, guys, it's Raybella. Hey, Rabela girl.

1210
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 2: That's crazy because we just kind of talked about this

1211
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 2: like the week before last.

1212
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:44,360
Speaker 1: You all right, so, Rabella.

1213
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 2: The way I feel about this sheet is if y'all

1214
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:51,640
Speaker 2: exclusively dating and he has an issue posting your picture, that.

1215
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: Would be a problem for me. Okay, this is mine.

1216
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 2: If that's something only it only because obviously for you

1217
00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 2: to ask us about it, ask us ire pen of

1218
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 2: it is something that you kind of have an issue with.

1219
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 2: So if it's something that bothers you, because things like

1220
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 2: that don't really bother me. But if it's if it

1221
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,359
Speaker 2: was something that was bothering me and we're in an

1222
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 2: exclusive situation, and I kind of don't let you know

1223
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 2: that I want you to post my let the fucking pictures.

1224
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: I totally disagree. What do you mean why?

1225
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:24,720
Speaker 2: Because it's like I feel like we care about social

1226
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 2: media for for the wrong reasons.

1227
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 1: Why why do you care to be posted? My thing

1228
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:29,839
Speaker 1: is this? Though?

1229
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 2: If you wanted to be posted, just post him on

1230
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 2: your page. It's tag him, it'll be in his tag photos.

1231
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 2: But to get mad, this is his social media. You

1232
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 2: have to let this man run his social media how

1233
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 2: he wants to run it. Because let me tell you something,

1234
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 2: whether you're on his page or not, he's gonna do whatever.

1235
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 2: You still don't cheat. If he's cheating, we're not gonna

1236
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:52,240
Speaker 2: say he's cheating. And he is that's not gonna change anything.

1237
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 2: If he's letting girls know that he's in a relationship,

1238
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 2: him putting you on social media is not gonna change that.

1239
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,879
Speaker 2: So as well, Like I feel, as long as he's

1240
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 2: in these streets letting it be known that he's in

1241
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 2: a relationship and he's not single, I don't give a

1242
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 2: fuck what you do on your social media. I feel

1243
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 2: like we need to stop putting so much pressure on

1244
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 2: being an Instagram couple and being seen on Instagram. Well,

1245
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck about being seen on Instagram, Like,

1246
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 2: I don't care about she like that. Stuff like that

1247
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:22,880
Speaker 2: don't even bother me. I'm just saying because I but

1248
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 2: I do feel like if you're in a relationship and

1249
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 2: something is a concern for you and.

1250
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 1: It's something that you don't like, if that's something that

1251
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 1: you don't.

1252
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 2: Like, what the fuck y'all need to talk about that's

1253
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 2: a problem for her, Like she doesn't like the fact

1254
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 2: that he doesn't post her, And I don't see nothing

1255
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 2: wrong with that if that's what she wants. No, but

1256
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. My thing is, though she has

1257
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 2: a problem with it, which is fine. I will never

1258
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:47,880
Speaker 2: invalidate somebody's feelings. If this is how you feel, you

1259
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 2: have a fucking right to try that way, and you

1260
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 2: have a right to bring.

1261
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:51,919
Speaker 1: It up to him.

1262
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, but he also has a right to be like,

1263
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 2: this is how I feel about it, and you also

1264
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:57,720
Speaker 2: got a right to break up with their nigga. Sees,

1265
00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 2: I don't feel.

1266
00:54:58,360 --> 00:54:59,919
Speaker 1: Like it's that serious to break up over.

1267
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,120
Speaker 2: I think if it's nothing. But some women are like that.

1268
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 2: I'm just being honest. Some women like to be flunny

1269
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 2: on their men social media. They want they want to

1270
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:12,359
Speaker 2: are not even necessarily flaunny, but they might just want

1271
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 2: be just to know this is my nigga.

1272
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:16,840
Speaker 1: They just like she just won't want people. But honestly,

1273
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 1: but social media we all know is a caffass place.

1274
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:22,439
Speaker 1: So it's like, bitch, you have to I'm gonna calling

1275
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:24,359
Speaker 1: you a bitch, rebel. I'm just saying, my bad girl.

1276
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying you you you know, people are

1277
00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 1: friends at this point. I think people know we mean

1278
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:31,880
Speaker 1: it as a term. You have to, But you gotta

1279
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: realize when you.

1280
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 2: Get posted on social media, you're putting yourself out there.

1281
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:37,799
Speaker 1: I have a friend who was dating a man.

1282
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:41,280
Speaker 2: He's he's an athlete, and she was like she actually

1283
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,240
Speaker 2: told that nigga. She was like wanting him to post her. Okay,

1284
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 2: you got your fucking wish and all these girls and

1285
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:50,760
Speaker 2: her dms fucking with her. So it's like you opening

1286
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,759
Speaker 2: Pandora's box. So it's like, be careful what.

1287
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 1: You asked for.

1288
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 2: Ye. So it's like I wouldn't be worried about them

1289
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 2: hole no, you know, but it's like, who wants to Oh,

1290
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 2: this is your man, Oh, let me, let me tell

1291
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Speaker 2: you this, let me tell you this, let me. I

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00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 2: just feel like it's unnecessary drama. It's really a lot

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00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 2: of drama. But now she's like, don't she tells some nigga,

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00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 2: don't post me, don't post me.

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Speaker 1: For me.

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00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 2: My advice to you personally is definitely talk to him

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00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 2: about it, see his reasoning why. And I feel like

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00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 2: you need to understand where he's coming from, but he

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00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 2: also needs to understand where you're coming from. Like if

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00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 2: he doesn't necessarily want it on the page, we'll like shit, well,

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00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 2: at least post Maybe y'all can work it out. Post

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00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 2: him on posts, he can post you on his story

1303
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 2: something like that.

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00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 1: I feel like there's other.

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00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:39,240
Speaker 2: Ways that y'all can, cause I feel like it's social

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00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,240
Speaker 2: media and it does not need to be a reason

1307
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 2: that y'all break up or anything that y'all honestly need

1308
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 2: to be fighting over, because I feel like social media

1309
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 2: really ruins a lot of good friendships and relationships. I agree,

1310
00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 2: I agree, but I guess my advice will be, yeah,

1311
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:56,759
Speaker 2: y'all just need to kind of come to a compromise.

1312
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 2: But I also feel like, at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: people want what they want in relationships and in situations,

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00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 2: and if that's something that to you, you like that

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Speaker 2: being an element of your relationships.

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00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:07,960
Speaker 1: I don't see anything wrong with right.

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Speaker 2: And I feel like, if he really cared about you,

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00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:11,279
Speaker 2: and he really fuck with you and there's something that's

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00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 2: important to you, I don't see the big deal with

1320
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 2: posting you on his page unless he.

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Speaker 1: Now I will say that's how I feel. But she did.

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Speaker 2: Say all of y'all, all of their friends know that

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00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 2: they're exclusively dating. So with that being said, it's like,

1324
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 2: if everybody knows y'all day, then that's what I'm saying now.

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00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 2: And then another factor, now, with me Andrea, we do well,

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00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 2: especially her, we date certain type of people, so it's

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00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 2: a little more factors that go into it whenever we

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00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:42,000
Speaker 2: post on social media.

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Speaker 1: Oh absolutely.

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00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 2: So it's like I feel like it's like if he's

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00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 2: not somebody that's like a celebrity or somebody that's like

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00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 2: in the spotlight or somebody that a lot of people know,

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Speaker 2: it's like, Okay, my nigga, what what's the point?

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Speaker 1: What's the big deal? Right? Yeah?

1335
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 2: You know, because I mean I'm not trying to be funny,

1336
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 2: but like with what God about to give a fuck

1337
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 2: by who you dating? Right, because I mean I'm not

1338
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 2: trying to be well, we don't want to say that, no,

1339
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 2: but I'm saying like, if you're not like somebody who's

1340
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:07,480
Speaker 2: like a celebrity or something, nobody is really just checking

1341
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 2: for you, like like checking to see.

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Speaker 1: That's what I mean.

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00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 2: Well, and even like like say he's like a blogger

1344
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 2: or something like I understand stuff like that because you

1345
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 2: have to have a certain aesthetic on your page. Like

1346
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:19,760
Speaker 2: for me, I'm not posting on nigg on my page

1347
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 2: period because it doesn't match the aesthetic of my page.

1348
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Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. You know what I'm saying.

1349
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 2: What if it's like a blog type photo. What if

1350
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 2: y'all sitting at a coffee shop.

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Speaker 1: I then a couple.

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00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 2: I mean, if it's working into if he's working with me,

1353
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 2: and that's where our lifestyle leads, and it's at that

1354
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 2: point I'm cool with it. But for now, people follow

1355
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 2: lex P. They don't follow LEXP and a dick sheie sucking,

1356
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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

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00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:42,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know.

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00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:45,000
Speaker 2: I feel like it's a lot of factors that goes

1359
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 2: into it. But if you just got a nigga, you

1360
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:49,280
Speaker 2: just be posting whatever on his page. All y'all friends

1361
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 2: know that y'all are dating, then maybe he probably is

1362
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:55,440
Speaker 2: hiding something and there's other issues that need to be expressed.

1363
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 2: But my thing is, where is your want coming from?

1364
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 2: Is it coming from a good place?

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00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:03,439
Speaker 1: Like what you mean? Because I feel like you.

1366
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:05,479
Speaker 2: Can't be like, oh, post me on your social media

1367
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 2: so these bitches will know that you with me. I

1368
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 2: don't think it needs to I think it needs to

1369
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 2: be coming from like, you know, I just want to share,

1370
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 2: you know, you just want to share pictures and share

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00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 2: what we're doing and share our fun together. It doesn't

1372
00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 2: then it comes from a place of trying to shut

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00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 2: people up and show people so you need to make

1374
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 2: sure the things that you want are coming from a

1375
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 2: good place as well, because if a man feels like

1376
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 2: you're just trying to show off or show that you're

1377
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 2: with me, that's gonna make him not want to do

1378
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:28,959
Speaker 2: it even more.

1379
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess I agree.

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Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, I just feel

1381
00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 2: like niggas and women be tripping about dumb She like,

1382
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 2: what is the big deal with posting your girl on

1383
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 2: her pain?

1384
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: I mean, on your pay I just don't even see

1385
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: the issue.

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00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 2: Like you said, if they're exclusively dating one another and

1387
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:52,680
Speaker 2: everybody close to them know, then everybody who's important already know.

1388
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:55,800
Speaker 2: You shouldn't give a fuck about everybody else, right, you

1389
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:56,320
Speaker 2: know what I mean?

1390
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:58,520
Speaker 1: So why not post your girl all your pay? So

1391
00:59:58,640 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: but just be a deal breaker for you.

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01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 2: It wouldn't be a deal breaker for me because I

1393
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:06,920
Speaker 2: don't care about things like that. But things are a

1394
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 2: deal But in a relationship, I guess that's what I've

1395
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 2: been trying to say.

1396
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 1: In a relationship, if I have an issue with something.

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01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 2: And it's a concern of mine, if somebody is not

1398
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 2: willing to compromise with me on it, it could be

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01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 2: a deal breaker.

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01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 1: So I don't.

1401
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 2: I don't necessarily care about this in particular in a relationship.

1402
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:24,000
Speaker 2: But if it was something that bothered me and I

1403
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 2: brought it to my man attention and you wasn't willing

1404
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 2: to like compromise with me on it, it.

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01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 1: Would be an issue for me.

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01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 2: So let me kind of maybe get a little bit

1407
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 2: further into the situation here, because I feel I'm feeling like,

1408
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 2: maybe you want to be posted because you feel like

1409
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 2: maybe he's probably hunting something or people that need to

1410
01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 2: know that he's in a relationship don't know.

1411
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 1: So I feel like that needs to.

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01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 2: Be addressed rather than the whole social media thing. I

1413
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 2: feel like, you know, because I don't think you a

1414
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 2: problem where it ain't one, no, because that's that's what

1415
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 2: we know. It's not because she said, she she said,

1416
01:00:57,360 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 2: and the question she said, does that mean that they

1417
01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 2: have a few hoes or he just likes to keep

1418
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 2: thinking exclusive?

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01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:05,919
Speaker 1: So in the back of your mind, you're thinking that.

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01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 2: Maybe it's he's trying to hide you, So that issue

1421
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 2: needs to be addressed. You need to talk to him like,

1422
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 2: are you trying to hide our relationship?

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01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 1: What's going on?

1424
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 2: Y'all need to address because obviously there's some trust issues there.

1425
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's trust issues there.

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01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 2: So I feel like the social media thing does need

1427
01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:23,200
Speaker 2: to be talked about.

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01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 1: But y'all need to talk about the issues that really

1429
01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 1: aren't being talked about.

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01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 4: That's why this is leads to That leads to this

1431
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:34,560
Speaker 4: because if y'all had trust and you felt like he

1432
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 4: tells everybody that he's in a relationship, you really wouldn't

1433
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:38,920
Speaker 4: care if he's posting.

1434
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 1: On your social media or not. Let's keep it one none,

1435
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

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01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:45,480
Speaker 2: Like, I feel like you can't say that though, lex

1437
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 2: It just goes back to what different things are important

1438
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:52,320
Speaker 2: to do. But if she's asking, does that mean he

1439
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 2: have holes? That means that you probably feel that way.

1440
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:57,000
Speaker 2: But who wouldn't feel that way if that's something that

1441
01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 2: you want out of a situation and he's not he

1442
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 2: doesn't want to do it, And I feel like I

1443
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 2: would feel that way. So if I wanted my nigga

1444
01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 2: to post my picture and he don't want to post it,

1445
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 2: any woman with any amount of sins with me, not necessarily,

1446
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 2: because if I trust my nigga and I know he

1447
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:15,640
Speaker 2: ain't doing shit, I don't care if you post me

1448
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 2: or not. I really don't because if I know, we

1449
01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 2: rocking and we like this, I dated super regular niggas

1450
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 2: before and we never posted each other and I was

1451
01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 2: cool with that because I knew my man, but you

1452
01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 2: couldn't tell me shit about my man. I don't even

1453
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 2: fuck if I'm on his Instagram because guess where I'm at,

1454
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:33,800
Speaker 2: bitch on his dick the fuck?

1455
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:34,439
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1456
01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:37,440
Speaker 2: So I feel like maybe those issues need to be

1457
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 2: addressed as well.

1458
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 1: Just maybe. Yeah, I mean, I guess I agree, y'all.

1459
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 1: Just y'all.

1460
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 2: Definitely, there's definitely a conversation that needs to between the

1461
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 2: two of y'all, and you need to avoid your concerns

1462
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 2: and then you need to let him know about the

1463
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:52,960
Speaker 2: social media thing. And I think he needs to be

1464
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 2: honest too, like if you got shit going on and whatever,

1465
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 2: you need to just be honest. That's why I hate

1466
01:02:57,560 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 2: about these niggas, So right, Bella, make sure nigga listen

1467
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 2: to this.

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01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 1: Nigga. You need to keep it real, well, what the

1469
01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:03,800
Speaker 1: fuck is going on?

1470
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 2: And it's like, if it's not in the darden, don't

1471
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 2: do that ship you niggas is not fucking real.

1472
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 1: Keep it real.

1473
01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 2: Eye. Let her know what the fuck is going on

1474
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 2: because they don't make things so much easier.

1475
01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 1: She won't trip. Y'all be happy and y'all can move

1476
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: on from this.

1477
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 2: Y'all have to come to a compromise and y'all just

1478
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 2: need to communicate.

1479
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:23,320
Speaker 1: People agree at end the day. You know we're not you.

1480
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:26,760
Speaker 2: So everybody moves different, everybody does different things at end

1481
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 2: the day. You need to talk to your women and

1482
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 2: figure out what you need to do to make her happy.

1483
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:33,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, so y'all need to figure it out and work

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01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:34,240
Speaker 1: that ship out.

1485
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, so anybody else if y'all have any questions

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01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 2: or anything, we always heard these questions, giving a little advice,

1487
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Speaker 2: doing the best we can. We're not trying to break them.

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Speaker 2: No happy homes, So make sure y'all email us at

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Speaker 2: ask Poor mind.

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Speaker 1: I tell y'all, Nigga, we gave you these advice neither.

1491
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 2: Oh, he don't listen, So make sure y'all email us

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01:03:57,040 --> 01:04:01,680
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Speaker 2: my bop of the week is Beyonce Before I leave.

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01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 2: You know, she beats the little remix to the Frankie,

1506
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 2: Beverly and May song, and I really loved the song.

1507
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:56,439
Speaker 2: I mean, I love the original song obviously as well,

1508
01:04:57,000 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 2: but her remix is definitely a motherfucking bo and the

1509
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:01,919
Speaker 2: little dance is so cute.

1510
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 1: Yes, I fuck with because that's a hard song. You can't.

1511
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 2: People always fuck up classics when they try to renew them.

1512
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 2: So she took one of the most classic successful family reunion.

1513
01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 1: Song made it made it even better.

1514
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 2: So kudos to Beyonce to be So, I have actually

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01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 2: two bops of the week, So my first one is Bitch.

1516
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 3: Niggas, nish Nigga hope, Nigga bitch, Nigga bitch, Niggas nisch

1517
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:29,200
Speaker 3: Nigga Hope, Nigga bitch, Nigga bitch, Niggas nis Nigga Hope,

1518
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:32,920
Speaker 3: Nigga bitch, Nigga bitch, Niggas nis Nigga Hope Nigga bitch Nigga.

1519
01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 1: I really wish y'all could have seen this.

1520
01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:40,440
Speaker 2: Why Why G killed that ship and he did.

1521
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 1: What the fuck he had to do?

1522
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:42,000
Speaker 2: Bro?

1523
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 1: Why y G?

1524
01:05:44,120 --> 01:05:47,240
Speaker 2: When I tell y'all, when white people like hear rap songs,

1525
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:48,920
Speaker 2: this is probably like the e pitime of the rap song.

1526
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 1: They're like, Oh, that fucking nigga and listen, now.

1527
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 2: This is what white people talk about. Y G is

1528
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 2: a nigga to the core. And I love this song.

1529
01:05:56,320 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 2: It's super Cali, it's super it's super y G. It's

1530
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 2: it's like his bars. I just felt like.

1531
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 1: It was like it was just it's just a good song, bro.

1532
01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 1: I love y G.

1533
01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 2: I was like a fan, like back in the gap

1534
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 2: with his first mixtape job.

1535
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 1: I just I feel like a big watch. I love

1536
01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 1: y G. Bitch Why G did what the fuck he

1537
01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:18,919
Speaker 1: had to do? So my first bop of the week

1538
01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 1: is I think it's called snitch. Okay, snitch byy G whatever.

1539
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:28,880
Speaker 1: Stop snitching, my bad, Stop snitching. So my uh second

1540
01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: bop of the week.

1541
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:33,280
Speaker 2: I'm actually super late on this artist, and I'm really

1542
01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 2: mad about it because I always see her on my timeline,

1543
01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 2: people always retweeting her, and she's so fucking dope. So

1544
01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 2: her name is Lizzo, and she had a song that

1545
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:44,919
Speaker 2: came out like two years ago called Truth Hurts, and

1546
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:47,640
Speaker 2: it's just a fire song. It's a feel good song.

1547
01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:50,760
Speaker 2: It's basically about her like saying why men, Why are

1548
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:53,360
Speaker 2: men great until they have to be great? Like it's

1549
01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:56,080
Speaker 2: just like a breakup song. She's just talking her shit.

1550
01:06:56,240 --> 01:06:58,480
Speaker 2: She was like I just took a DNA test and

1551
01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 2: it came back that I'm one hundred percent that bitch.

1552
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:04,360
Speaker 2: Like she got bars. She's got bars, and she's like

1553
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 2: body positive because she's like a bigger girl. She plays instruments,

1554
01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 2: she's wrapped. She's super super, super fucking talented. And I'm

1555
01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:13,760
Speaker 2: late on her music. And like I said, I kept

1556
01:07:13,800 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 2: seeing her on my timeline, but I never like listen

1557
01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 2: to her music. So my second bop of the week

1558
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 2: is Truth hurts by Lizzo, So shout out to a

1559
01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:28,640
Speaker 2: little Lizo girl. Okay, So I guess that's that's about it.

1560
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 2: I know we're so sad that our time has come

1561
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:33,160
Speaker 2: to an end.

1562
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 1: Damn oh shit, I thought it cut off.

1563
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:43,040
Speaker 2: So sad that our time has come to an indie guys,

1564
01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 2: we definitely.

1565
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:46,680
Speaker 1: Missed y'all in We're definitely.

1566
01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 2: Gonna try to get a bonus episode up this week

1567
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:52,800
Speaker 2: because we definitely ow y'all want, because we've been saying

1568
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 2: that for a minie nile.

1569
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:55,720
Speaker 1: So we're definitely gonna get on that. And we are

1570
01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:59,360
Speaker 1: going back to posting on YouTube. Yes, we're going back

1571
01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:00,520
Speaker 1: to YouTube next week.

1572
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:03,960
Speaker 2: Hopefully I got my camera fixed, so hopefully that'll be

1573
01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:06,720
Speaker 2: you know, back next week. But we are going back

1574
01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 2: to on Wednesday mornings posting on Wednesday mornings again. But

1575
01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 2: like I said, YouTube is coming back, if not next week,

1576
01:08:13,640 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 2: the week after that. So y'all just keeps keep sucking

1577
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 2: with us to keep rocking with it. And I will

1578
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 2: say this, y'all, our numbers are going up slowly but surely.

1579
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:24,480
Speaker 2: But I thank y'all so much all the do listeners

1580
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 2: who came from like our cocktail.

1581
01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:28,799
Speaker 1: They came from horrible decisions.

1582
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 2: And came from naked communion, came from any podcast that

1583
01:08:32,040 --> 01:08:32,479
Speaker 2: we've done.

1584
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:35,880
Speaker 1: We appreciate we do, and it's always best word of mouth.

1585
01:08:35,960 --> 01:08:38,320
Speaker 2: So if you know anybody that likes podcasts, listen to

1586
01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:40,240
Speaker 2: our podcasts.

1587
01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:42,120
Speaker 1: Along and put them on to the poor mind. Let

1588
01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 1: them know what's the fuzz going on, let them know

1589
01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:45,240
Speaker 1: how we get down over here.

1590
01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:48,920
Speaker 2: Sorry, we'll see y'all again, a very betty soon. We

1591
01:08:48,960 --> 01:08:50,160
Speaker 2: didn't drink today.

1592
01:08:49,960 --> 01:08:52,679
Speaker 1: We did. It was oh child, I can't. I don't

1593
01:08:52,680 --> 01:08:56,519
Speaker 1: want to look at a liquor. So we'll see y'all soon.

1594
01:08:56,880 --> 01:08:59,280
Speaker 1: It's your girl next piece, and it's your girl draining

1595
01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:00,880
Speaker 1: the call. See y'all next week.

1596
01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:01,679
Speaker 2: By y'all,