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Speaker 1: First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Hunter is on the phone today for a first DAVE

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Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Carrie.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him a second date. But first, Hunter, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Carrie?

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Speaker 3: That's been like two weeks?

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Speaker 4: Okays a long time, you stress in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean two weeks is an eternity. I feel

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Speaker 3: like this sort of situation.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Have you tried to reach out to her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, of course.

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Speaker 5: You know it's not like I was just waiting for

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Speaker 5: her to make a nice move, you know, text.

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Speaker 6: It's called, and you've heard nothing back, No, absolutely nothing.

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Speaker 4: Well, why don't you tell us about the date?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 6: We we did this like artisan pretzel making workshop.

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Speaker 4: You know that's cool. States are getting good, right, I thought, so, you.

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Speaker 6: Know, Flower everywhere we're wearing those weird crazy hipstery aprons,

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Speaker 6: and you know, everyone's pretending the Doe has emotions.

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Speaker 3: All right. It was fun, man, you know, kind of

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Speaker 3: had a little mishap.

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Speaker 6: What's the with the dough, and I think that's possibly

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Speaker 6: what might have gone ry.

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Speaker 4: What happened with the dough? What kind of domes happened?

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Speaker 6: Stort kind of hit her in the face with a

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Speaker 6: little bit, just just a little on purpose.

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Speaker 3: No, not on purpose.

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Speaker 6: I mean I was kind of doing a thing with

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Speaker 6: the like a dramatic chef kind of dough flip kind

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Speaker 6: of thing. Dough kind of goes airborne and you know,

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Speaker 6: gives her a little one.

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Speaker 3: Two right right to the right to the face.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you kind of left like a you some flower

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Speaker 6: on her face, And I feel like that possibly.

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Speaker 4: Did she seem upset after she got hit in the

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Speaker 4: face from the dough?

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Speaker 6: Uh, she wasn't happy.

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Speaker 3: Kind she kind of played it off. I didn't think

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Speaker 3: it was that big of a deal. You know, I

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Speaker 3: think I think we're like. I was like, I was like,

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Speaker 3: are you okay? Do you have a doe allergy? And

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Speaker 3: she was like no, no.

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Speaker 6: She lasted off and said I didn't sign out to

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Speaker 6: be assaulted by carbs. You know, I thought it went

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Speaker 6: pretty well except for that whole thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, how did the date end?

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Speaker 6: It went pretty good. I didn't get a kiss, but

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Speaker 6: I got a hug you know, which that to me

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Speaker 6: is like a red flag.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, a little pat on the back,

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Speaker 1: like thanks, I'm not going to see you again.

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Speaker 5: I didn't get the pat on the back, you know,

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Speaker 5: the squeeze, but yeah, okay, yeah, if it'd have been

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Speaker 5: like the you know, hug like distance, that would have been.

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Speaker 3: That would have been I would have known right away.

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Speaker 4: All right.

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Speaker 2: So you're thinking the dough in the face is the

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Speaker 2: reason that you're getting ghosted, I.

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Speaker 3: Would think so. I mean, I can't think of anything

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Speaker 3: else it would have happened.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we'll play a song come Back, and then

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Speaker 2: we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, we'll get your first day follow up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Hunter is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Carrie. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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Speaker 2: second date. But before we do that, Hunter, why don't

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Speaker 2: you break down your date again for us real quick?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we went out like a fancy pretzel making workshop thing,

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Speaker 6: and I kind of assault.

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Speaker 3: Of her with the dough. That's probably why, right not pose?

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Speaker 4: That sounds so violent?

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Speaker 3: I feel like that.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I didn't think that sounded It feels like

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Speaker 6: that I made it sound way worse.

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Speaker 3: There was the word.

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Speaker 6: Assaulted in there, right, kind of sounds like I'm in

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Speaker 6: the empty files or something there.

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Speaker 3: But what happened? Okay?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 2: Well, are you ready for us to call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she'll tall as watch's ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, hopefully we can.

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Speaker 5: You know, I promise I'm not going to smack it

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Speaker 5: in the face with Doe again.

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Speaker 4: Okay, here you are. We're gonna call it right now.

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Speaker 3: Here we go?

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, man, I speak to carry Please this Hey Carrie,

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Speaker 2: how are you? This is a radio show. It's called

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Speaker 2: The Jewbell Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 4: I'm Nina, I'm make sure you and my name is Jubell.

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Speaker 1: How are you wait? Okay? Hi, Hi? What's going on? Well?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 1: I've actually seen clips of you guys on TikTok, but

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Speaker 1: I've never like listen listened.

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Speaker 2: Oh cool, Okay, we do a segment on our show

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Speaker 2: called the first day follow up. That's where if you

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Speaker 2: go out on a day with somebody and you ghost them,

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Speaker 2: they can email us to call you and ask why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you

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Speaker 2: from somebody, Oh my gosh, any idea who.

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Speaker 4: Would email us? Maybe I want to take a shot

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Speaker 4: and tell you if you're right?

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Speaker 1: Maybe Hunter?

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Speaker 4: Yes it is Hunter.

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Speaker 1: You had a job.

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Speaker 2: You went absolutely nothing, but Hunter told us about your day.

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Speaker 2: He said he really liked you a lot. But it's

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Speaker 2: been two weeks and you haven't talked to him, and

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Speaker 2: he's wondering if you'll tell us, will you?

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is really awkward, but you know, he

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Speaker 1: just wasn't my type. You know, the way he argued

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Speaker 1: with the structor about like pretzel philosophy.

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Speaker 4: I guess he was arguing with the instructor what is

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Speaker 4: pretzel philosophy?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he had like a lot of pretzel knowledge, and

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Speaker 1: that moment like kind of stuck with me, but like

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Speaker 1: not in a good way.

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Speaker 2: Okay, he didn't tell us anything about any argument with

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Speaker 2: any instructor or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: Oh, he's very he's very into his Pretzels. He took it,

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Speaker 1: he took it very seriously.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, he told us that you guys made pretzels,

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Speaker 2: and he thought the reason you weren't calling him back

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Speaker 2: was because he accidentally hit you in the face with

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Speaker 2: the dough.

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Speaker 1: No, it wasn't the dough to the face. Honestly, that

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Speaker 1: was kind of funny though, well.

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Speaker 4: Good, I'm glad you have a sense of humor about that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was you know, things happen that The rest

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Speaker 1: of it.

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Speaker 4: Was too much for me, Like how intense was the argument?

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Speaker 1: He just was correcting the instructor quite quite a bit

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Speaker 1: in the little judge of the instructor. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: thought we were just coming to make pretzels and have

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Speaker 1: a good time. I didn't know it was like a

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Speaker 1: like a food network like, you know, like we're trying

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Speaker 1: to win a competition kind of thing.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, how did the instructor take it?

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Speaker 1: I think the instructor was kind of taken back because

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Speaker 1: I don't think a lot of people take a pretzel

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Speaker 1: course and drill the instructor, you know what I mean, right,

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Speaker 1: So I'm sure that he was not used to that.

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Speaker 1: For me, that's like a big red flag. I mean, people,

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Speaker 1: who are you with servers? You know you're going to

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Speaker 1: argue with someone who is teaching how to make pretzels, Like,

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Speaker 1: I just can't deal with that. You know, I need

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Speaker 1: someone who's a little bit more easy going. So that's

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Speaker 1: just a red flag for me. I just can't have

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Speaker 1: someone that's that uptight, especially about something as simple and

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Speaker 1: as fun as pretzels should be.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, thank you for telling us and carry I'll

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Speaker 2: also let you know that Hunter is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: Wait, he's here now, Hi. Okay.

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Speaker 5: I mean I just think it's a little ridiculous where

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Speaker 5: you're saying, you know, it's just a little debate.

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Speaker 1: You you know, it wasn't just a debate. You snatched

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Speaker 1: the dough and said, let me show you the proper

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Speaker 1: Bavarian twist, and you like.

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Speaker 6: Like she's doing it wrong, all right, I was helping.

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Speaker 3: I mean you.

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Speaker 1: Called her salt scattered, chaotic, like you were very judgy.

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Speaker 1: You said pretzels are heritage, not a free for all,

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Speaker 1: like that's literally something you are.

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Speaker 4: They are don't have the memory.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is just ridiculous. I mean you were

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Speaker 1: just like waving the pretzel around like crazy, like like

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Speaker 1: I can't I mean.

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Speaker 3: It's not my fault. She's teaching a dough class. I

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Speaker 3: was in your right. You gave zero support.

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Speaker 1: I mean we were taking a pretzel course. I mean

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Speaker 1: I didn't know I had to back you up in

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Speaker 1: pretzels Like I thought it was just supposed to be

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Speaker 1: like fun. I didn't know you were going to need

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Speaker 1: like to tag me into your argument about a pretzel,

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Speaker 1: like this is pretzels that we're talking about.

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Speaker 3: You know what, never mind, I'm not going to say it.

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Speaker 1: You know what, No I will if your pretzel twisting

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Speaker 1: is anything like your life twisting, like, trust me, nobody

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Speaker 1: wants that. Oh wow, Okay, I mean I said it.

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Speaker 5: I mean I wasn't going to say anything, but your

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Speaker 5: your pretzel is probably the worst one in the entire class.

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Speaker 3: It was just there's no way it was going to

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Speaker 3: come out right. There's gonna be oh my.

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Speaker 1: God, like you just came off yourself.

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Speaker 4: Wow wow. Carry would you like another date with a hunter?

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Speaker 4: Will pay for it?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: No? No, yeah, there's no no thanks?

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's fine. Good. Yeah, I want someone who's got

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Speaker 3: my back.

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Speaker 5: Would have been nice if I had some you know,

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Speaker 5: support from you, especially when you know that what I

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Speaker 5: was saying about the princils were.

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Speaker 1: Right, Okay, you need therapy like good luck.

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Speaker 3: I can't Yeah, yeah, you can't. Can't make you can't

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Speaker 3: make a PREENCEL

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