1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:00,320 Speaker 1: To them. 2 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, they talk better than the excited. These are the 3 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 2: radio blogs on the Fresh Show. I might be really gray, 4 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:09,960 Speaker 2: but I still got here. 5 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 3: It's luscious. 6 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 4: We don't got to be spraying anything on quite yet. 7 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 4: You're lucky yet. Nope, like writing in our diaries, except 8 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 4: we say them alad, we call them blogs. Paulina's got 9 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:20,959 Speaker 4: one go. 10 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 3: Thank you so much, dear blog. On Saturday, I did the. 11 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: Most Paulina thing ever, and I pulled up to Detroit, 12 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: Michigan and pulled back out like four hours later, literally 13 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:36,319 Speaker 1: like popped in, popped out because my little sister had 14 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: a baby. 15 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 2: Congratulations, thank you. 16 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: So I am an aunts I'm an Auntie. I can't 17 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 1: believe that because it was Auntie. Sorry, I think I 18 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: say Auntie. It's probably not correct, but it's okay, it's me. 19 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say whatever you want to say. 20 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:52,840 Speaker 3: Auntie. My sister had a baby and it's a little girl. 21 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: And I don't know if I should say her name 22 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: because not much husband disclosed, like I'm not even have 23 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: her moment type thing. 24 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 3: But the world knows little girl. 25 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: And it's exciting because obviously. 26 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 3: I'm a mother and I have a daughter, but like 27 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 3: having a. 28 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: Niece is like so cool, Like I don't know how 29 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: to explain it, Like it's you know, you have nieces, 30 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: Like it's the most beautiful. 31 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 3: Feeling in the world. 32 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 2: Oh, it's a good gig. 33 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 4: You have your own kid to take care of it, right, 34 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 4: It's an especially good gig if you can do your 35 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 4: deal like this weekend going for Halloween and you know, 36 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 4: get them stuff and do all this and then bye bye. 37 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,839 Speaker 2: Yes Christmas, Yes, Thanksgiving. 38 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 3: That's how you feel. 39 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm gonna pop in, I'm gonna see you, 40 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna play with you, but I'm gonna go home. 41 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 3: Then again, it's like you're I'm gonna go home to 42 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 3: do this all over again. 43 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 5: I will say though, that like even though my mom 44 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 5: there's three girls in her family and they all have kids, 45 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 5: and even so even though they have their own kids, 46 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 5: like I have a very different special relationship with my 47 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:47,119 Speaker 5: mom's sisters, oh, specifically one of them. 48 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 3: So it's a cool it's a different vibe, it is, 49 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 3: but it's not your own kid. 50 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 5: You know, you can be a little naughty, you can 51 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 5: like kind of get your sister back with some stuff, 52 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 5: which they totally do. 53 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: And I'll be doing that percent and she is like 54 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: the cutest just most beautiful baby I've ever seen. Like 55 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: she's gorgeous and I'm excited to be her. 56 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 4: Aunt is. 57 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 3: Can we not say? 58 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: It's not a good word in Spanish? But it's how 59 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: I say it's literally, how you say it's oh, I could? 60 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: I mean it's just a word Polish an no, like 61 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: in Polish to say aunt, like that word means something 62 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:20,959 Speaker 1: else in Spanish. 63 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 2: She told me she was kaling and. 64 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 3: She's like, hold on, isn't that something else? And I'm like, 65 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 3: it is it is something that. 66 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: It's crazy because like it's quite literally how you say aunt. 67 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't need to try try We're good to know. 68 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 3: But I tell you later, Okay you're older, I'll say 69 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 3: you when you're older. But no, I I'm really. 70 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: Excited about that. And it kind of gives me baby 71 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: fever for five minutes. Five minutes, it's all I had 72 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: a guy as I promise, because then I also heard 73 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: my sister's birth story and it's so interesting. 74 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 3: Every woman's sports story is always so different. There is 75 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 3: no one size fits all. 76 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: So she's like, you know, healing, recovering, now, taking it easy, 77 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: moving very slow and mom is there helping out a lot. 78 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: And it's interesting because I posted on my Instagram Agala 79 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: one of those carousels and I said why I'm a 80 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: mom of one and done like why I'm good with 81 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: just one daughter? And I got a lot of interesting feedback, 82 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: which again write feedback. 83 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 3: It's like, first of all, I'm asked for it, but 84 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 3: I never asked. 85 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: I'm telling you what I'm doing for my family that 86 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: works for me, Like, that's a crazy guy. 87 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 2: Were people saying like, you need to have more than one, and. 88 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 1: Most people, I would say ninety percent were like same 89 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: or like I hear you. 90 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 3: That's awesome. 91 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,079 Speaker 1: People who have like ten kids were like girl, yes, yeah, 92 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like thank you. So it's a lot of 93 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: like supportiveness and you know the comments. One person said 94 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: only children are weird, and I took that literal because 95 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: I was like very hurt. 96 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 3: I know, I looked like Jason and I was only child. 97 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 3: I thought, like only children. Of all the people that 98 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 3: were only children weird, I was like. 99 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: No, no, only child, Yeah, only child, I. 100 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 3: Mean I am weird. 101 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 4: So yeah, my sister had another child simply because of that, 102 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 4: because she was concerned that Polly would be weird if 103 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 4: she didn't have a sibling. 104 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 3: That's crazy, guys, that's crazy. It were all weird. 105 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 4: She made a whole other human and I have fun 106 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 4: others because of it, and I am too. But I 107 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 4: was seven and a half years apart from my My 108 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 4: sister and I were seven and a half years apart, 109 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 4: so I kind of was an only shod for a while. 110 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 4: And then it was spoiled. Everything was going so great. 111 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 4: It was all about me. It wasn't so yeah, so no, 112 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 4: maybe maybe another one. 113 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,919 Speaker 1: Maybe no, no, And then somebody I had a couple 114 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 1: people say, oh, this is so unfair to your husband, Like, so. 115 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 2: First, first of all, for wait, what's unfair to your husband? 116 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 3: We wouldn't have more children? Like it's his choice too. 117 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 2: Maybe he was considered in this. 118 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 3: Thank you. 119 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: So y'all think I didn't talk to my husband when 120 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 1: I posted this, like I would think, I like looked 121 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: at him and said, hey, like we're good. 122 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 3: Randma posts this week because I don't want kids. Randa 123 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 3: wanted confusion. Actually it's funny. 124 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 1: Sorry, it tays like he had to have one kid 125 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: his whole life. He's always wanted one child. I wanted 126 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: mind being funny, I wanted six or seven because my 127 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 1: grandma had a lot of kids and I wanted like 128 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: that big family. And then I grew up in this 129 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: economy and this world and I'm like, one is just 130 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: so perfect. 131 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 3: It is so good. And people were saying, yeah, you know, 132 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 3: your husband's and that, and I'm just. 133 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: Like, I have a lot to say about that because 134 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: her my husband's not carrying my kid until he can 135 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 1: he can choose to do so. If he wants to 136 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: carry the child and figure out a way to make 137 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: that would be that. 138 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 4: Would be something that would be something you'd want to 139 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 4: discuss with him ahead of time, just before you tell 140 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 4: everyone he can carry the child. That might be something 141 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 4: that you'd want. 142 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 2: To run by him. 143 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 144 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, we've talked about him many of the times. 145 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 3: He is so good, he is so happy. 146 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 2: You talked about him carrying the child. 147 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 3: Well, I mean I joked for him. 148 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: I was like, if he's like I don't want any more, 149 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, well if you decide to, I'm like, do. 150 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 3: You carry no kid? Yeah, you can figure that out. 151 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 3: You work on this project and figure it out. I 152 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 3: get a uterus. 153 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: But like he's like very supportive and content and truly 154 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: it was his idea before you even met me. He's like, 155 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 1: I just always wanted one child, which is very interesting. 156 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 1: I wanted like six or seven. No today, No, So again, 157 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 1: let's all like mind our business and like just be 158 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 1: happy for people, like that's a cool thing. 159 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 5: Are you so mean, dear husband, I'm being sarcastic, Warlette, Yeah, 160 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 5: give him all. I guess he doesn't want because they 161 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 5: have no idea about your relationshians. 162 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, what I'm hearing is that he's begging you for 163 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 4: another child, and your response is get a uterus. That's 164 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 4: what I'm hearing, and I'm about to get in the 165 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 4: comment section. It's so unfair, unbelievable you treat him this way.