WEBVTT - Second Date Update: 401 NOT OK

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<v Speaker 1>dating is if you have a bad date, never accept

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<v Speaker 1>blame for anything. So any good relationship expert will tell

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<v Speaker 1>you always pass the blame. Never accept responsibility for your

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<v Speaker 1>own actions. Yeah, you can blame the food, You can

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<v Speaker 1>blame the weather, you could do what Victor, who's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone for a second date? Updated? And you can

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<v Speaker 1>blame your boss for ruining your date. All sorts of

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<v Speaker 1>people that you can blame screwing up your date. What's up, Victor?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? Hey? Guys, I'm good. How are you Victor? Good?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you playing the blame game? Man? Oh? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I take responsibility for a couple of things.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I got to feel like I did

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<v Speaker 1>everything right as much as I could have given the circumstances. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>so us, before you get into your actual date, tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about the girl you want to call to day.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Her name is Zoe? Zoe? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>And where did you meet Zoe. We met through a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of a friend. Okay, that's exciting. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>feel when you first saw I mean, she was super cute,

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of radiated a little bit. I was pretty impressed.

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<v Speaker 1>She looked a lot better in person than she did

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<v Speaker 1>in the picture, and so that's always a bonus. And

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you told her that. I hope you told

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<v Speaker 1>her that she looks better in person that she does

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<v Speaker 1>in pictures, and tell her stop taking pictures. I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell her that. I didn't tell her that. I just

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<v Speaker 1>after a few seconds of meeting her, I had to

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<v Speaker 1>actually excuse myself. Really why. That's kind of where my

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<v Speaker 1>boss comes in. He had kept me about like ten

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<v Speaker 1>to fifteen minutes later than I had expected, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was late for the date. So in order to get there,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a run, and in doing so, worked up

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of a sweat and kind of got a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit a little bit of a sank to me

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<v Speaker 1>by the time I actually got to the restaurant. See

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<v Speaker 1>did you like it down and then realize your own

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<v Speaker 1>smell and then have to excuse yourself? No, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I could as soon as I like close the door

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<v Speaker 1>to the restaurant, you know, when you're like the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of go from inside to outside and like all a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>just like you know, you could you could tell you

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<v Speaker 1>it was a wasting smell. Yeah, exactly, like like a

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<v Speaker 1>stink pocket. So is that why you think she's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back because she noticed the funk coming from you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that you noticed the funk. I went

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<v Speaker 1>over to the table and just said, hey, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I just gotta go run and hit the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom real quick. And when I did, all I had

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<v Speaker 1>on me was a little bit of cologne, like a

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<v Speaker 1>little sampler. So I just kind of doused myself in

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of at least mass the smell. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was all I could do. Great idea using cologne

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<v Speaker 1>to cover up body odor and never goes wrong. Everyone

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<v Speaker 1>knows that it's the worst possible move. Obviously. You take

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<v Speaker 1>a sink shower at the bathroom. That's what you should

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<v Speaker 1>have done. You got towels there. You just get it wet,

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<v Speaker 1>you get your armpits drenched down, you take care of business.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have been with me. There's no real hand

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<v Speaker 1>book on this. I didn't know that. Well. I am

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<v Speaker 1>an expert on body odor. So you have from the

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<v Speaker 1>foremost expert in the world on body odor Brook. So

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't do that, you dashed yourself in cologne. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think she noticed? Well, I was hoping she wouldn't,

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<v Speaker 1>but when we got the appetizer, she definitely called the

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<v Speaker 1>waiter back over and was was like, I think there's something.

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<v Speaker 1>There's something very punsent about this, as in not in

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<v Speaker 1>a good way. Oh she thought it was a food.

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<v Speaker 1>Well she I definitely steered her in that direction as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I encouraged that a little bit an expiration date on

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<v Speaker 1>these cheese sticks because it smells like they've turned a bit. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I had no idea what to do, so

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<v Speaker 1>I just I kind of demanded that the waiter just

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<v Speaker 1>take the appetizer away, and oh, my gosh, it's so awkward. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it was awkward. I just but I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be you know, the guy that's like, yeah, no, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just it's me. It's my stinky armpits, don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 1>She had to have noticed when they took the appetizer

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<v Speaker 1>away that the smell stayed. I don't know that she

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<v Speaker 1>did it. Maybe she just kind of you know how

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<v Speaker 1>you just get used to things after a while. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's where it went, because from there on out our

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<v Speaker 1>conversation was great and like kind of hit on all

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<v Speaker 1>the right notes, you know about family, career, five year goals,

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<v Speaker 1>and he really got kind of deep and so, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, you had a good conversation despite being late

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<v Speaker 1>and then smelling like pooh, yeah pretty much. Don't tell

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<v Speaker 1>me that you gave her a hug at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the night. Actually I did. Oh that is a

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<v Speaker 1>terrible idea. Yeah, why, well it was. It was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like a surprise hug though. I mean she was

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<v Speaker 1>like leaving the restaurant. I kind of just came up

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<v Speaker 1>behind her and like just quickly, like just wrapped my

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<v Speaker 1>arms around her. That sounds worse than yeah, hugging her

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<v Speaker 1>with body, So now you got a creepy, stinky hug

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<v Speaker 1>is what she got behind Yeah, I mean, I know

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't perfect by any means, but it was just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a little show of affection and kind of say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I had a great time. Thanks, Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>use your words next time would be my would be well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to use my words now, but she's not

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<v Speaker 1>answering my phone calls, and uh, you know, hopefully you

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<v Speaker 1>guys can help me out with that. Yeah, that is

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<v Speaker 1>not shocking news to me. Yeah, it sounds like she

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<v Speaker 1>was really impressed by you, now, I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I mean, listen, I really like this girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Seems like one of the most like normal people I've

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<v Speaker 1>gone out with in a long time. And those two things,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know, I mean, it's funny and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like, look, I can always be on time,

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<v Speaker 1>I can always take a shower. Those things I can.

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<v Speaker 1>I can, I can, I can change. I just need

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<v Speaker 1>to redo here, I really do. Okay, Okay, well I'll

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<v Speaker 1>try to get you your redo. We'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, and then call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. All right, thanks guys, Yeah, okay, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning update if you just joining

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<v Speaker 1>us for today's second date update. Victor is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and today he wants to call a woman named Zoe,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm surprised he's not getting a call back because

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<v Speaker 1>they played the most fun first date game ever. Where's

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<v Speaker 1>that smell coming from? Always a fun game to plan

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<v Speaker 1>a first date, and unfortunately for Victor that smell was

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<v Speaker 1>coming from him because he showed up late. He had

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<v Speaker 1>to actually run there, and by the time he got

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<v Speaker 1>there he had body oed Or, so he excused himself

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<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom, put on a bunch of cologne, and

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<v Speaker 1>smelled pungent. He blamed the smell on the appetizer, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if his date bought it. All Right, Victor,

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to call Zoe and see if it was

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<v Speaker 1>your funky armpits that did you in? Yeah, and can

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<v Speaker 1>you promise when you take her at it again? No

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<v Speaker 1>from behind surprise hugs like nobody wants that. It was

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<v Speaker 1>an awkward moment. Yeah, I forgot to add that along

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<v Speaker 1>with the smell. When they were walking out of the restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>Victor just grabbed her from behind and gave her a hug.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm assuming that it was not only creepy but

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<v Speaker 1>also very smelly, and she realized it wasn't coming from

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<v Speaker 1>the appetizer. Yeah. Well, he didn't try to throw her

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<v Speaker 1>in the trunk of his car, so she's probably good

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<v Speaker 1>with it. She's lucky we didn't go to dessert, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's probably what I would have done. The way this

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<v Speaker 1>date went for you. It wouldn't surprise me at all.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now,

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can get her on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out why she's not calling you back. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>really appreciate it, man, Thank you, thank you? Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>no problem. Here we go. Hello him, I speak to Zoe. Please.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Zoe. Hi Zoe. How are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil from Brook and Jewbil in the morning. Jubil Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what do we do you know? Jebil? Or do

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<v Speaker 1>you not know? Jubilum? I've heard Wait where are you

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<v Speaker 1>guys from Brook and jew Bil in the morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio program. Some pele might call it a show gram.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Am I on the RAI Radio?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to be? Because we can make that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you know you can make that happen if you

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to be? Why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to know why? Yes? That's why? Okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>We're calling you because we got an email about you

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<v Speaker 1>from one of our listeners who well his name is

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<v Speaker 1>Victor and you guys went out on a date. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, yeah, why that's why would he email a

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<v Speaker 1>radio station about our date. Well, because we do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on our show called the second Date Update. So

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<v Speaker 1>Victor is confused why you won't call him back? That's weird? Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it should be obvious why you're not calling it back?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that why it's weird? I mean I would have

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<v Speaker 1>thought so. Really, I know, you know Zoe from Victor's

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<v Speaker 1>scretion the date. He also knows it was kind of weird,

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<v Speaker 1>but he really liked you and would like a shot

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<v Speaker 1>at a do over. But he says he can't get

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<v Speaker 1>ahold of you. I mean, what's the reason that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to call him back? I mean, we're just

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<v Speaker 1>we're very different people. I mean I've been on several,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, first dates that were a little off, but

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<v Speaker 1>this one was just like, I can't exac I don't

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<v Speaker 1>would embarrass him or anything. But well, we talked to

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<v Speaker 1>him already and there's no way you could embarrass him

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<v Speaker 1>anymore than he's already embarrassed himself times about to date.

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<v Speaker 1>So he told us a lot. Okay, well you probably

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<v Speaker 1>already know. I mean it was kind of inappropriate. What happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it was the hug, it was the

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<v Speaker 1>weird back hug, wasn't it. At the end he told

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<v Speaker 1>us about the surprise hug. He came up from behind.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have punched him. Awkward. It was awkward, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he didn't seem harmful to know. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>punch him or anything, but that that wasn't even a

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<v Speaker 1>weird part, honestly, not the weirdest part of the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you talking about him showing up late and smelling

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<v Speaker 1>like a used gym towel? No? I mean I knew

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<v Speaker 1>something smell, but I didn't I didn't notice him smelling

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<v Speaker 1>any particular way. Okay, So what are you talking about then,

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<v Speaker 1>because those are two really big red flags that he

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<v Speaker 1>described to us. Okay, So the conversation it got pretty

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<v Speaker 1>in depth, which is kind of nice on a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>but it went I don't know if he was doing

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<v Speaker 1>it on purpose, but he just got a little too

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<v Speaker 1>personal with some of his questions, like what. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>we talked about goals in life, which I think is

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<v Speaker 1>pretty important, and he's very much a numbers guy, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said he wanted to retire early, and he asked me,

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<v Speaker 1>had I ever thought about it? When did I plan

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<v Speaker 1>to retire? And I said, well, I have it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like in my mid twenties. It is not something I've

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<v Speaker 1>really thought about. And he gets kind of focused at

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<v Speaker 1>this point and take out his laptop as a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>to start to see when I can retire. He's like

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<v Speaker 1>analyzing her financial situation. But he's like asking me, like

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<v Speaker 1>what do I do for a job, and how much

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<v Speaker 1>money do I make? Do I have a four O

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<v Speaker 1>one K and savings and all this? Wow wow, that

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<v Speaker 1>little it was a little creepy to me. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to tell him all of that's kind of personal,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, well, I don't really know, and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll just estimate. So it's more like he's your financial

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<v Speaker 1>planner at this point rather than you're going to date

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<v Speaker 1>with a dude. Right, I'm trying to think about when

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<v Speaker 1>I like give you a kiss at the end and

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<v Speaker 1>the night, not when do I want to retire a right.

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<v Speaker 1>And it got really weird because I said, he asked

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<v Speaker 1>if my parents were rich, and he said, well, what

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<v Speaker 1>if their estimated date of death? Do you think you

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<v Speaker 1>had a date When we talked to him, he told

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<v Speaker 1>us that you guys had some really deep conversations, really deep,

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<v Speaker 1>too deep. Yeah, he took that having a deep, meaningful conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>and you hoffeously took that as a weirdo who's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out when you can retire when your parents

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<v Speaker 1>are gonna die? Yeah, I mean, is this what he

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<v Speaker 1>does all the time? I don't know. It just it

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<v Speaker 1>weird of me out. Yeah. You know what else is weird?

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<v Speaker 1>He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you right now. What he's been listening this whole time? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So there is nothing wrong with what I did. I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing you a favor. Usually I charged like five

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<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars for my services, but you don't talk about

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<v Speaker 1>that on a first date. I mean, who brings a

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<v Speaker 1>laptop to a first date? Anyway? Who were asking me

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<v Speaker 1>all those questions about money? Not what, you know, my

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<v Speaker 1>life aspirations were, or did I want to have kids

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<v Speaker 1>one day? All these important things, and it was just

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<v Speaker 1>numbers when we were going to get to that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody should be educated about their finance. That would have

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<v Speaker 1>been on our second day first I mean, I was

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<v Speaker 1>really concerned you didn't seem to have a clue what

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<v Speaker 1>it really wasn't what I was worried about it the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't just call I call her clueless right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, listen, she had no idea. You had no

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<v Speaker 1>clue when she wanted to retire, how to retire, what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of payments had been making in the meantime, how

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<v Speaker 1>to set herself up. I mean it was atrocious. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she just didn't want to discuss it with you, basically

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<v Speaker 1>a total stranger on a first date. Yes, yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>was a date, victor, not a meeting setup so you

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<v Speaker 1>could do her financial plan. Well, I just seemed important,

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<v Speaker 1>And this is how I showed I care. One of

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<v Speaker 1>those like you your seven love signs or whatever it

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<v Speaker 1>is to show how you loves only five, and I

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<v Speaker 1>guarantee you that's not one of them. Only financial planning

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<v Speaker 1>is a love language. I don't know. And why would

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<v Speaker 1>you ever even ask me when I thought my parents

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<v Speaker 1>would die? You can't even ask their name? Is appropriate?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I didn't mean that that I wanted to know

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<v Speaker 1>when they were going to well, I mean I did

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<v Speaker 1>want to know when they were going to die, but

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<v Speaker 1>not for the creepy rhiment. It's just an average Men

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<v Speaker 1>die at eighty four point seven and women are at

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<v Speaker 1>eighty seven point three, and I thought that I could

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<v Speaker 1>calculate there for how when and if you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get an inheritance, given the fact that that would be

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<v Speaker 1>roughly around the time that they may pass, and I

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<v Speaker 1>could into your retirement plan. I'd rather think about them

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<v Speaker 1>living to like one hundred and twenty. I love my parents,

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<v Speaker 1>but not to mention, if you're the oldest daughter, statistically

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be the ones financially responsible for taking

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<v Speaker 1>care of them in their old age. Yeah, I hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>gotten to that yet. I'm very aware that's a very

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<v Speaker 1>poor factor. But she kept blocking me on the inheritance

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<v Speaker 1>aspect of it was I couldn't get that flock. It's terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>She's an inheritance Blocker's so ridiculous. But why are we

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<v Speaker 1>even talking about this? Well, because Zoe, I think you

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<v Speaker 1>need to hear the hard truth, and that's that you

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<v Speaker 1>have got to get yourself set up for a good future.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, absolutely absolutely venture you're the one that called

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<v Speaker 1>us and you wanted a second chance. What happened to that? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>she told you what was wrong, Why aren't you apologizing

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<v Speaker 1>instead of just attacking her further? I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 1>attack her look, I mean this is this is very important.

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<v Speaker 1>Um you know, I mean it's your financial well being

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<v Speaker 1>in the long term. We're talking about relationship. It's long term.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on your head, but shouldn't you know whether you're

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<v Speaker 1>compatible with the person before you even start to care

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<v Speaker 1>about the finances? Yes, I ran the numbers. I'm compatible

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<v Speaker 1>with her, and I believe you did the research. Victor,

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<v Speaker 1>I do you know what I mean? I guess I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just more of a planner than you guys, are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm trying to plan a second date

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<v Speaker 1>for you though. Zoe, would you like to go on

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<v Speaker 1>another date with Victor? We will pay for it, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>It is just as tempting as it is. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no offense. I just I don't think we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>be that compatible because you're you're gonna want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>numbers and I'm not. So thank you very much, putting

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<v Speaker 1>all Zoe, thank you for your time. Sorry you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>work out for you, That's fine. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with them again anyway. Yeah, and Victor, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry that didn't work out with Zoe. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you have time to get dinner soon, I could

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<v Speaker 1>probably use your help with a few things. You've got

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<v Speaker 1>my number broken. Jupil in the morning,