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Speaker 1: Jebels second date of date. One of the secrets in
Speaker 1: dating is if you have a bad date, never accept
Speaker 1: blame for anything. So any good relationship expert will tell
Speaker 1: you always pass the blame. Never accept responsibility for your
Speaker 1: own actions. Yeah, you can blame the food, You can
Speaker 1: blame the weather, you could do what Victor, who's on
Speaker 1: the phone for a second date? Updated? And you can
Speaker 1: blame your boss for ruining your date. All sorts of
Speaker 1: people that you can blame screwing up your date. What's up, Victor?
Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? Guys, I'm good. How are you Victor? Good?
Speaker 1: Why are you playing the blame game? Man? Oh? Well,
Speaker 1: you know, I take responsibility for a couple of things.
Speaker 1: But you know, I got to feel like I did
Speaker 1: everything right as much as I could have given the circumstances. Really,
Speaker 1: so us, before you get into your actual date, tell
Speaker 1: us about the girl you want to call to day.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Zoe? Zoe? All right?
Speaker 1: And where did you meet Zoe. We met through a
Speaker 1: friend of a friend. Okay, that's exciting. How did you
Speaker 1: feel when you first saw I mean, she was super cute,
Speaker 1: just kind of radiated a little bit. I was pretty impressed.
Speaker 1: She looked a lot better in person than she did
Speaker 1: in the picture, and so that's always a bonus. And
Speaker 1: I hope you told her that. I hope you told
Speaker 1: her that she looks better in person that she does
Speaker 1: in pictures, and tell her stop taking pictures. I couldn't
Speaker 1: tell her that. I didn't tell her that. I just
Speaker 1: after a few seconds of meeting her, I had to
Speaker 1: actually excuse myself. Really why. That's kind of where my
Speaker 1: boss comes in. He had kept me about like ten
Speaker 1: to fifteen minutes later than I had expected, so I
Speaker 1: was late for the date. So in order to get there,
Speaker 1: I had a run, and in doing so, worked up
Speaker 1: a bit of a sweat and kind of got a
Speaker 1: little bit a little bit of a sank to me
Speaker 1: by the time I actually got to the restaurant. See
Speaker 1: did you like it down and then realize your own
Speaker 1: smell and then have to excuse yourself? No, I mean
Speaker 1: I could as soon as I like close the door
Speaker 1: to the restaurant, you know, when you're like the kind
Speaker 1: of go from inside to outside and like all a sudden,
Speaker 1: just like you know, you could you could tell you
Speaker 1: it was a wasting smell. Yeah, exactly, like like a
Speaker 1: stink pocket. So is that why you think she's not
Speaker 1: calling you back because she noticed the funk coming from you.
Speaker 1: I don't know that you noticed the funk. I went
Speaker 1: over to the table and just said, hey, I'm here.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I just gotta go run and hit the
Speaker 1: bathroom real quick. And when I did, all I had
Speaker 1: on me was a little bit of cologne, like a
Speaker 1: little sampler. So I just kind of doused myself in
Speaker 1: to kind of at least mass the smell. I know,
Speaker 1: it was all I could do. Great idea using cologne
Speaker 1: to cover up body odor and never goes wrong. Everyone
Speaker 1: knows that it's the worst possible move. Obviously. You take
Speaker 1: a sink shower at the bathroom. That's what you should
Speaker 1: have done. You got towels there. You just get it wet,
Speaker 1: you get your armpits drenched down, you take care of business.
Speaker 1: You should have been with me. There's no real hand
Speaker 1: book on this. I didn't know that. Well. I am
Speaker 1: an expert on body odor. So you have from the
Speaker 1: foremost expert in the world on body odor Brook. So
Speaker 1: you didn't do that, you dashed yourself in cologne. Do
Speaker 1: you think she noticed? Well, I was hoping she wouldn't,
Speaker 1: but when we got the appetizer, she definitely called the
Speaker 1: waiter back over and was was like, I think there's something.
Speaker 1: There's something very punsent about this, as in not in
Speaker 1: a good way. Oh she thought it was a food.
Speaker 1: Well she I definitely steered her in that direction as well.
Speaker 1: I encouraged that a little bit an expiration date on
Speaker 1: these cheese sticks because it smells like they've turned a bit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I had no idea what to do, so
Speaker 1: I just I kind of demanded that the waiter just
Speaker 1: take the appetizer away, and oh, my gosh, it's so awkward. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: it was awkward. I just but I'm not going to
Speaker 1: be you know, the guy that's like, yeah, no, it's
Speaker 1: just it's me. It's my stinky armpits, don't worry about it.
Speaker 1: She had to have noticed when they took the appetizer
Speaker 1: away that the smell stayed. I don't know that she
Speaker 1: did it. Maybe she just kind of you know how
Speaker 1: you just get used to things after a while. Maybe
Speaker 1: that's where it went, because from there on out our
Speaker 1: conversation was great and like kind of hit on all
Speaker 1: the right notes, you know about family, career, five year goals,
Speaker 1: and he really got kind of deep and so, I
Speaker 1: don't know, you had a good conversation despite being late
Speaker 1: and then smelling like pooh, yeah pretty much. Don't tell
Speaker 1: me that you gave her a hug at the end
Speaker 1: of the night. Actually I did. Oh that is a
Speaker 1: terrible idea. Yeah, why, well it was. It was kind
Speaker 1: of like a surprise hug though. I mean she was
Speaker 1: like leaving the restaurant. I kind of just came up
Speaker 1: behind her and like just quickly, like just wrapped my
Speaker 1: arms around her. That sounds worse than yeah, hugging her
Speaker 1: with body, So now you got a creepy, stinky hug
Speaker 1: is what she got behind Yeah, I mean, I know
Speaker 1: it wasn't perfect by any means, but it was just
Speaker 1: kind of a little show of affection and kind of say,
Speaker 1: you know, I had a great time. Thanks, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: use your words next time would be my would be well,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to use my words now, but she's not
Speaker 1: answering my phone calls, and uh, you know, hopefully you
Speaker 1: guys can help me out with that. Yeah, that is
Speaker 1: not shocking news to me. Yeah, it sounds like she
Speaker 1: was really impressed by you, now, I know, I know,
Speaker 1: I just I mean, listen, I really like this girl.
Speaker 1: Seems like one of the most like normal people I've
Speaker 1: gone out with in a long time. And those two things,
Speaker 1: I mean, I know, I mean, it's funny and stuff,
Speaker 1: but it's like, look, I can always be on time,
Speaker 1: I can always take a shower. Those things I can.
Speaker 1: I can, I can, I can change. I just need
Speaker 1: to redo here, I really do. Okay, Okay, well I'll
Speaker 1: try to get you your redo. We'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, and then call her and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. All right, thanks guys, Yeah, okay, hang on
Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning update if you just joining
Speaker 1: us for today's second date update. Victor is on the
Speaker 1: phone and today he wants to call a woman named Zoe,
Speaker 1: and I'm surprised he's not getting a call back because
Speaker 1: they played the most fun first date game ever. Where's
Speaker 1: that smell coming from? Always a fun game to plan
Speaker 1: a first date, and unfortunately for Victor that smell was
Speaker 1: coming from him because he showed up late. He had
Speaker 1: to actually run there, and by the time he got
Speaker 1: there he had body oed Or, so he excused himself
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, put on a bunch of cologne, and
Speaker 1: smelled pungent. He blamed the smell on the appetizer, but
Speaker 1: I don't know if his date bought it. All Right, Victor,
Speaker 1: you're ready to call Zoe and see if it was
Speaker 1: your funky armpits that did you in? Yeah, and can
Speaker 1: you promise when you take her at it again? No
Speaker 1: from behind surprise hugs like nobody wants that. It was
Speaker 1: an awkward moment. Yeah, I forgot to add that along
Speaker 1: with the smell. When they were walking out of the restaurant,
Speaker 1: Victor just grabbed her from behind and gave her a hug.
Speaker 1: And I'm assuming that it was not only creepy but
Speaker 1: also very smelly, and she realized it wasn't coming from
Speaker 1: the appetizer. Yeah. Well, he didn't try to throw her
Speaker 1: in the trunk of his car, so she's probably good
Speaker 1: with it. She's lucky we didn't go to dessert, because
Speaker 1: that's probably what I would have done. The way this
Speaker 1: date went for you. It wouldn't surprise me at all.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now,
Speaker 1: see if we can get her on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out why she's not calling you back. Okay, I
Speaker 1: really appreciate it, man, Thank you, thank you? Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: no problem. Here we go. Hello him, I speak to Zoe. Please.
Speaker 1: This is Zoe. Hi Zoe. How are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewil from Brook and Jewbil in the morning. Jubil Yeah.
Speaker 1: Wait what do we do you know? Jebil? Or do
Speaker 1: you not know? Jubilum? I've heard Wait where are you
Speaker 1: guys from Brook and jew Bil in the morning. It's
Speaker 1: a radio program. Some pele might call it a show gram.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Am I on the RAI Radio?
Speaker 1: Do you want to be? Because we can make that happen?
Speaker 1: Because you know you can make that happen if you
Speaker 1: if you want to be? Why are you calling me?
Speaker 1: Do you want to know why? Yes? That's why? Okay, cool.
Speaker 1: We're calling you because we got an email about you
Speaker 1: from one of our listeners who well his name is
Speaker 1: Victor and you guys went out on a date. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, yeah, why that's why would he email a
Speaker 1: radio station about our date. Well, because we do a
Speaker 1: segment on our show called the second Date Update. So
Speaker 1: Victor is confused why you won't call him back? That's weird? Why?
Speaker 1: Because it should be obvious why you're not calling it back?
Speaker 1: Is that why it's weird? I mean I would have
Speaker 1: thought so. Really, I know, you know Zoe from Victor's
Speaker 1: scretion the date. He also knows it was kind of weird,
Speaker 1: but he really liked you and would like a shot
Speaker 1: at a do over. But he says he can't get
Speaker 1: ahold of you. I mean, what's the reason that you
Speaker 1: don't want to call him back? I mean, we're just
Speaker 1: we're very different people. I mean I've been on several,
Speaker 1: you know, first dates that were a little off, but
Speaker 1: this one was just like, I can't exac I don't
Speaker 1: would embarrass him or anything. But well, we talked to
Speaker 1: him already and there's no way you could embarrass him
Speaker 1: anymore than he's already embarrassed himself times about to date.
Speaker 1: So he told us a lot. Okay, well you probably
Speaker 1: already know. I mean it was kind of inappropriate. What happened.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was the hug, it was the
Speaker 1: weird back hug, wasn't it. At the end he told
Speaker 1: us about the surprise hug. He came up from behind.
Speaker 1: I would have punched him. Awkward. It was awkward, but
Speaker 1: I mean, he didn't seem harmful to know. I didn't
Speaker 1: punch him or anything, but that that wasn't even a
Speaker 1: weird part, honestly, not the weirdest part of the date.
Speaker 1: Are you talking about him showing up late and smelling
Speaker 1: like a used gym towel? No? I mean I knew
Speaker 1: something smell, but I didn't I didn't notice him smelling
Speaker 1: any particular way. Okay, So what are you talking about then,
Speaker 1: because those are two really big red flags that he
Speaker 1: described to us. Okay, So the conversation it got pretty
Speaker 1: in depth, which is kind of nice on a first date,
Speaker 1: but it went I don't know if he was doing
Speaker 1: it on purpose, but he just got a little too
Speaker 1: personal with some of his questions, like what. Okay, So
Speaker 1: we talked about goals in life, which I think is
Speaker 1: pretty important, and he's very much a numbers guy, and
Speaker 1: he said he wanted to retire early, and he asked me,
Speaker 1: had I ever thought about it? When did I plan
Speaker 1: to retire? And I said, well, I have it. I mean,
Speaker 1: like in my mid twenties. It is not something I've
Speaker 1: really thought about. And he gets kind of focused at
Speaker 1: this point and take out his laptop as a restaurant
Speaker 1: to start to see when I can retire. He's like
Speaker 1: analyzing her financial situation. But he's like asking me, like
Speaker 1: what do I do for a job, and how much
Speaker 1: money do I make? Do I have a four O
Speaker 1: one K and savings and all this? Wow wow, that
Speaker 1: little it was a little creepy to me. I didn't
Speaker 1: want to tell him all of that's kind of personal,
Speaker 1: and I said, well, I don't really know, and he said,
Speaker 1: we'll just estimate. So it's more like he's your financial
Speaker 1: planner at this point rather than you're going to date
Speaker 1: with a dude. Right, I'm trying to think about when
Speaker 1: I like give you a kiss at the end and
Speaker 1: the night, not when do I want to retire a right.
Speaker 1: And it got really weird because I said, he asked
Speaker 1: if my parents were rich, and he said, well, what
Speaker 1: if their estimated date of death? Do you think you
Speaker 1: had a date When we talked to him, he told
Speaker 1: us that you guys had some really deep conversations, really deep,
Speaker 1: too deep. Yeah, he took that having a deep, meaningful conversation,
Speaker 1: and you hoffeously took that as a weirdo who's trying
Speaker 1: to figure out when you can retire when your parents
Speaker 1: are gonna die? Yeah, I mean, is this what he
Speaker 1: does all the time? I don't know. It just it
Speaker 1: weird of me out. Yeah. You know what else is weird?
Speaker 1: He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you right now. What he's been listening this whole time? Yeah,
Speaker 1: So there is nothing wrong with what I did. I
Speaker 1: was doing you a favor. Usually I charged like five
Speaker 1: hundred dollars for my services, but you don't talk about
Speaker 1: that on a first date. I mean, who brings a
Speaker 1: laptop to a first date? Anyway? Who were asking me
Speaker 1: all those questions about money? Not what, you know, my
Speaker 1: life aspirations were, or did I want to have kids
Speaker 1: one day? All these important things, and it was just
Speaker 1: numbers when we were going to get to that. I mean,
Speaker 1: everybody should be educated about their finance. That would have
Speaker 1: been on our second day first I mean, I was
Speaker 1: really concerned you didn't seem to have a clue what
Speaker 1: it really wasn't what I was worried about it the time.
Speaker 1: I can't just call I call her clueless right now.
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, she had no idea. You had no
Speaker 1: clue when she wanted to retire, how to retire, what
Speaker 1: kind of payments had been making in the meantime, how
Speaker 1: to set herself up. I mean it was atrocious. Maybe
Speaker 1: she just didn't want to discuss it with you, basically
Speaker 1: a total stranger on a first date. Yes, yeah, this
Speaker 1: was a date, victor, not a meeting setup so you
Speaker 1: could do her financial plan. Well, I just seemed important,
Speaker 1: And this is how I showed I care. One of
Speaker 1: those like you your seven love signs or whatever it
Speaker 1: is to show how you loves only five, and I
Speaker 1: guarantee you that's not one of them. Only financial planning
Speaker 1: is a love language. I don't know. And why would
Speaker 1: you ever even ask me when I thought my parents
Speaker 1: would die? You can't even ask their name? Is appropriate?
Speaker 1: Because I didn't mean that that I wanted to know
Speaker 1: when they were going to well, I mean I did
Speaker 1: want to know when they were going to die, but
Speaker 1: not for the creepy rhiment. It's just an average Men
Speaker 1: die at eighty four point seven and women are at
Speaker 1: eighty seven point three, and I thought that I could
Speaker 1: calculate there for how when and if you're going to
Speaker 1: get an inheritance, given the fact that that would be
Speaker 1: roughly around the time that they may pass, and I
Speaker 1: could into your retirement plan. I'd rather think about them
Speaker 1: living to like one hundred and twenty. I love my parents,
Speaker 1: but not to mention, if you're the oldest daughter, statistically
Speaker 1: you're going to be the ones financially responsible for taking
Speaker 1: care of them in their old age. Yeah, I hadn't
Speaker 1: gotten to that yet. I'm very aware that's a very
Speaker 1: poor factor. But she kept blocking me on the inheritance
Speaker 1: aspect of it was I couldn't get that flock. It's terrible.
Speaker 1: She's an inheritance Blocker's so ridiculous. But why are we
Speaker 1: even talking about this? Well, because Zoe, I think you
Speaker 1: need to hear the hard truth, and that's that you
Speaker 1: have got to get yourself set up for a good future.
Speaker 1: You know, absolutely absolutely venture you're the one that called
Speaker 1: us and you wanted a second chance. What happened to that? Like,
Speaker 1: she told you what was wrong, Why aren't you apologizing
Speaker 1: instead of just attacking her further? I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: attack her look, I mean this is this is very important.
Speaker 1: Um you know, I mean it's your financial well being
Speaker 1: in the long term. We're talking about relationship. It's long term.
Speaker 1: Come on your head, but shouldn't you know whether you're
Speaker 1: compatible with the person before you even start to care
Speaker 1: about the finances? Yes, I ran the numbers. I'm compatible
Speaker 1: with her, and I believe you did the research. Victor,
Speaker 1: I do you know what I mean? I guess I'm
Speaker 1: just more of a planner than you guys, are you?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm trying to plan a second date
Speaker 1: for you though. Zoe, would you like to go on
Speaker 1: another date with Victor? We will pay for it, you know.
Speaker 1: It is just as tempting as it is. No, no,
Speaker 1: no offense. I just I don't think we're going to
Speaker 1: be that compatible because you're you're gonna want to talk
Speaker 1: numbers and I'm not. So thank you very much, putting
Speaker 1: all Zoe, thank you for your time. Sorry you didn't
Speaker 1: work out for you, That's fine. I don't want to
Speaker 1: go out with them again anyway. Yeah, and Victor, I'm
Speaker 1: sorry that didn't work out with Zoe. But you know,
Speaker 1: if you have time to get dinner soon, I could
Speaker 1: probably use your help with a few things. You've got
Speaker 1: my number broken. Jupil in the morning,