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Speaker 1: dating is if you have a bad date, never accept

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Speaker 1: blame for anything. So any good relationship expert will tell

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Speaker 1: own actions. Yeah, you can blame the food, You can

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Speaker 1: blame the weather, you could do what Victor, who's on

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Speaker 1: the phone for a second date? Updated? And you can

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Speaker 1: blame your boss for ruining your date. All sorts of

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Speaker 1: people that you can blame screwing up your date. What's up, Victor?

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Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? Guys, I'm good. How are you Victor? Good?

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Speaker 1: Why are you playing the blame game? Man? Oh? Well,

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Zoe? Zoe? All right?

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Speaker 1: And where did you meet Zoe. We met through a

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Speaker 1: feel when you first saw I mean, she was super cute,

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Speaker 1: knows that it's the worst possible move. Obviously. You take

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Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning update if you just joining

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Speaker 1: phone and today he wants to call a woman named Zoe,

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Speaker 1: from behind surprise hugs like nobody wants that. It was

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now,

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Speaker 1: really appreciate it, man, Thank you, thank you? Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: no problem. Here we go. Hello him, I speak to Zoe. Please.

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Speaker 1: This is Zoe. Hi Zoe. How are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewil from Brook and Jewbil in the morning. Jubil Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Wait what do we do you know? Jebil? Or do

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Speaker 1: you not know? Jubilum? I've heard Wait where are you

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Speaker 1: a radio program. Some pele might call it a show gram.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Am I on the RAI Radio?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to be? Because we can make that happen?

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Speaker 1: if you want to be? Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know why? Yes? That's why? Okay, cool.

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Speaker 1: Victor and you guys went out on a date. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, yeah, why that's why would he email a

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Speaker 1: Victor is confused why you won't call him back? That's weird? Why?

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Speaker 1: So he told us a lot. Okay, well you probably

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Speaker 1: already know. I mean it was kind of inappropriate. What happened.

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Speaker 1: I would have punched him. Awkward. It was awkward, but

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Speaker 1: weird part, honestly, not the weirdest part of the date.

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Speaker 1: And it got really weird because I said, he asked

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Speaker 1: So there is nothing wrong with what I did. I

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Speaker 1: I mean, listen, she had no idea. You had no

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Speaker 1: a total stranger on a first date. Yes, yeah, this

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Speaker 1: living to like one hundred and twenty. I love my parents,

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Speaker 1: but not to mention, if you're the oldest daughter, statistically

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Speaker 1: She's an inheritance Blocker's so ridiculous. But why are we

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Speaker 1: even talking about this? Well, because Zoe, I think you

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Speaker 1: You know, absolutely absolutely venture you're the one that called

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Speaker 1: us and you wanted a second chance. What happened to that? Like,

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Speaker 1: Come on your head, but shouldn't you know whether you're

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Speaker 1: about the finances? Yes, I ran the numbers. I'm compatible

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm trying to plan a second date

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Speaker 1: another date with Victor? We will pay for it, you know.

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Speaker 1: It is just as tempting as it is. No, no,

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Speaker 1: numbers and I'm not. So thank you very much, putting

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Speaker 1: all Zoe, thank you for your time. Sorry you didn't

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Speaker 1: probably use your help with a few things. You've got

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Speaker 1: my number broken. Jupil in the morning,