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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: It's the almost Famous podcast. I'm here today with my

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Speaker 2: good friend Trista. Hello, Trista. We are here in San Francisco.

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Speaker 2: We spent yesterday at Radio Row in the Super Bowl.

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Speaker 2: Today we are sitting in the podcast studios, newly built,

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Speaker 2: very beautiful in San Francisco. But there's been a lot

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Speaker 2: happening in Bachelor Nation recently, and we've got a lot

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Speaker 2: of news to bring your way. Trista is here with

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Speaker 2: us today to be our resident expert break down everything happening.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna start with a big one, A big.

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Speaker 3: One that was actually a lot of people were talking

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Speaker 3: about it last night.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people were talking about a lot of opinions.

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Speaker 2: I have my own. I know, Trista, you have your own.

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Speaker 2: But the overall I think feeling is excitement and curiosity.

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Speaker 2: Chris Harrison to host trade aditional marriage dating show nearly

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Speaker 2: five years after Bachelor exit. Trista tell us about it.

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Speaker 2: We'll talk about it.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I mean, honestly, I feel like nobody I saw

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Speaker 3: yesterday was everyone was talking about it, and I think

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Speaker 3: because it's a bit controversial, and I think the only

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Speaker 3: reason that it's controversial. I mean, clearly Chris knows dating shows.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's pretty good.

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Speaker 4: But because of what.

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Speaker 3: The tagline or the caption about the announcement was, and

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Speaker 3: it basically said not basically, this is what it said,

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Speaker 3: A prominent streaming service is casting single men and women

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Speaker 3: twenty one plus who want a traditional marriage, minded partnership

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Speaker 3: built on commitment and shared values. We're looking for singles

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Speaker 3: who believe in clear roles. And I think that was

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Speaker 3: part of the controversy, long term commitment in building a

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Speaker 3: life together and who are dating with real intention. Now

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Speaker 3: I don't see the controversy in most of that ninety

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Speaker 3: nine percent of that statement I don't see, but the

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Speaker 3: clear roles part. Someone commented, what the heck does that mean?

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Speaker 3: I feel like what people are wondering is if it

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Speaker 3: is promoting women staying at home and cooking dinner and

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Speaker 3: you know, like that kind of like clear role or

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Speaker 3: is it just saying in my mind saying it could

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Speaker 3: be clear roles, Like you know, I'm going to be

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Speaker 3: home work and work mom. I'm going to make the dinners, Ryan,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to take the kids to school, Like, are.

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Speaker 4: Those the clear roles or are they?

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Speaker 3: Are we going back to the fifties and kind of

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Speaker 3: that more quote unquote traditional marriage.

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Speaker 2: Well, a couple things here. Yeah, as you said, Chris

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Speaker 2: Harrison knows dating shows. There was no language used in

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Speaker 2: this announcement that was not on purpose. Right. And if

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Speaker 2: there's controversy, there's conversation, yep. And conversation is great for

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Speaker 2: the promotion of a show, right yep. Now here's the

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Speaker 2: other thing. And I think you and I can speak

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Speaker 2: to this because we know Chris so well. Look at

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Speaker 2: his own marriage, right totally.

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Speaker 4: I said that all night last night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, look at his own marriage. Lauren works, he works,

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Speaker 2: she runs her race, He runs his race.

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Speaker 3: Yep.

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Speaker 2: I and I don't know this to be a fact,

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Speaker 2: but my assumption and what I would stand pretty firm on,

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Speaker 2: is when they say clear roles, it's more in the

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Speaker 2: lines of what you were saying, where, Hey, this is

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Speaker 2: a traditional relationship in the sense that we are looking

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Speaker 2: for a man and a woman today. They're both going

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Speaker 2: to have their separate interests and hobbies. You know, could

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Speaker 2: there may maybe have been a little more like clarification

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Speaker 2: to that in the caption when they announced it. Sure,

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Speaker 2: but but then we wouldn't be talking about it like this.

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Speaker 2: A couple other things. I think a lot of people

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Speaker 2: ninety nine percent this, I don't see any problem with, right. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they're they're obviously casting for something looks like similar to

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Speaker 2: what The Bachelor has casted for. Right, there's a man,

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Speaker 2: there's a woman they date. You know, a woman is

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Speaker 2: We haven't seen Chris Harrison on our televisions since twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty one. It's twenty twenty six. It's five years of

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Speaker 2: have to imagine if Chris is going to say yes

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Speaker 2: it otherwise, he would not do it otherwise, he doesn't

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Speaker 2: I think we're looking for reasons to get upset. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and sometimes they're justified and sometimes they're not. I think

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Speaker 2: like looking for like a show that it takes us

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Speaker 2: back to the nineteen fifties. Yeah, it just doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 2: It wouldn't. It wouldn't be accurate to his life. So

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Speaker 2: how can he host a show where like, you cook,

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Speaker 3: I totally agree. I think that would be a big

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Speaker 2: I don't think it would go over. But Chris Harrison

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Speaker 2: is hosting a new dating show nearly five years after

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Speaker 2: Bachelor exit. Stay tuned for the announcement of when the

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Speaker 2: show will air. But if you're out there looking for

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Speaker 2: a relationship, maybe this is the show for you. Speaking

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Speaker 2: of relationships, we've obviously followed Nick and Natalie along the

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Speaker 2: on Netflix that will be coming out very soon. They

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Speaker 2: also had a big announcement this week Trista where they're

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Speaker 2: expecting twins. I don't understand what this means, so you

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Speaker 2: Rainbow babies. I don't know what that is.

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Speaker 3: I literally was going to ask you. I know I've heard.

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Speaker 3: I think it's when you've had a loss, like a miscarriage, okay,

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Speaker 3: and after the miscarriage or I don't know if it

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Speaker 3: includes infertility struggles or fertility struggles, and then if you

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Speaker 3: have a rainbow baby, like we struggled with getting pregnant

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Speaker 2: To obviously other things have been public about they've had

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Speaker 2: three miscarriages over the last year. I mean, this has

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Speaker 2: just I can't imagine finding out I'm having twins, or

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Speaker 2: like the Jess is having twins. But like that's I mean,

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Speaker 2: That sounds wild totally, But tell us a little more

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Speaker 3: So Natalie said, our rainbow babies are finally ready to

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Speaker 3: wrote in a joint caption. They have really sweet photos

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Speaker 3: with their two year old daughter River, sitting on Nick's

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Speaker 3: I love all the goodly announcements. They're so cute and

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Speaker 3: honestly so happy for them. I cannot imagine experiencing three

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Speaker 2: Wow, it's uh, I'm laughing, only because when you just

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Speaker 2: I was like, this seems so wild. And then I

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Speaker 2: their announcement. NODU date was announced, but I did see

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Speaker 4: So got it.

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Speaker 3: So they waited a little bit longer, maybe the uh

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Speaker 2: Yeah, again wild. I thought it was crazy when one

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Speaker 2: The Bachelor Mansion. We mentioned the show a few months

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Speaker 2: The Bachelor Mansion is uh is in rough shape right now?

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Speaker 2: Or it was as of like not anymore? Well, oh

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Speaker 4: Well, because we did the oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: You've seen it all. You've got the sneak cakes. It's goodness.

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Speaker 2: trailer was revealed and it shows some contestants that we

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Speaker 2: Ashley about the mansion and how wonderful it is and

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Speaker 2: how like memory, how many memories we have there. But

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Speaker 2: like I kind of live there. It was just torn

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Speaker 2: years and years of furniture coming in and out. There's

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then when I was filming, I remember the doors

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Speaker 4: Oh heck.

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Speaker 2: Uh. It just needed like it needed some love. Yeah. Uh,

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Speaker 2: And this I think is going to be a great

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Speaker 4: It's a great way to do it.

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Speaker 3: I just am taking it so personally that I was

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Speaker 3: not asked to be a part of it in any way.

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Speaker 3: So Ryan and I did a pilot called Rocky Mountain

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Speaker 3: Renault for HGTV. Yeah, and come on, like, I mean, please,

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Speaker 3: do I have an interior design degree? No, but I

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Speaker 3: to Joan a lot and Tasha because we were both

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Speaker 3: at the mansion. So and Tyler Cameron are the hosts,

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Speaker 3: and there's a competition with people including Joan. We've got

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Speaker 3: Jill Chen, We've got Dean Bell, We've got Courtney Robertson,

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Speaker 3: We've got Sandra and Sam Alisha.

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Speaker 4: So many people are.

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Speaker 3: I think it was just like her commentary on wait, so,

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Speaker 3: were you just buying me dinner to be the nice

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Speaker 3: guy who wanted to say I appreciate your beauty? Or

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Speaker 3: were you saying I want to buy you dinner because

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Speaker 3: I want to get you back to my hotel room.

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Speaker 2: And I do think most people could read through that

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Speaker 2: pretty quickly.

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Speaker 1: She did.

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Speaker 2: I think in the video quote at some point the

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Speaker 2: guy said I make more money than you, and oh.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that was come on and come on, I mean

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Speaker 3: that showed his cards right there.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's done. At that point, You're done, get up,

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Speaker 2: walk away, don't spend any more time. No. I also,

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Speaker 2: and the almost famous listeners have gotten mad at me

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Speaker 2: about this for years and years and years. And I

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Speaker 2: used to ride this train and I stopped because I

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Speaker 2: couldn't take the comments about it anymore. But I'm jumping

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Speaker 2: right back on the train right now. Anytime, and Jen

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Speaker 2: mentions this without saying it the same way I do.

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Speaker 2: Anytime somebody has to describe themselves to you in a

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Speaker 2: positive light, Trista, I love that you love yourself and

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Speaker 2: that you're confident in yourself. I don't know. I'm asking

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Speaker 2: that question myself all the time, but I love that

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Speaker 2: you could sit here and tell me, Hey, I'm a

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Speaker 2: good mom, I'm a loving wife, all these things. You

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Speaker 2: could say that, and I believe it. However, I don't

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Speaker 2: actually know if I need you telling me those things

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Speaker 2: totally I want to be the one telling you from

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Speaker 2: my witness I call it self describing. So Jen in

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Speaker 2: the video says that the guy sat down and pretty

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Speaker 2: much immediately he was like, well, I just want to

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Speaker 2: let you know I'm not an asshole. And it's like,

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Speaker 2: as soon as somebody says something like that to you,

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Speaker 2: that is a moment to take a step back. How

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Speaker 2: many people have we met that's like, oh, you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm a nice guy. If I sat down with you, Tristan,

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you know me, I'm a nice guy. Like,

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Speaker 2: that's a weird thing. I feel like for me to

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Speaker 2: say you can say that about me, you can talk

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Speaker 2: about me behind my back and say been such a

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Speaker 2: nice guy. I don't even have to hear it.

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Speaker 5: But if at some point I am so insecure and

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Speaker 5: who I am that I have to describe myself to

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Speaker 5: almost manipulate your thought process, I think that is a

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Speaker 5: red flag.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I I don't know why you would get pushback

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Speaker 4: on that.

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Speaker 2: I just well, the show has a lot of self

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Speaker 2: describing and it was always my like red flag when

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Speaker 2: I was watching The Bachelor. When Bachelor, when somebody would

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Speaker 2: be come in and be like, you know, I'm not crazy.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you're a hundred percent crazy. Now, yeah you are.

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Speaker 2: It's all over, you know what.

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Speaker 3: And also I am so drawn to the humility in people.

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Speaker 3: My husband is the most humble person you will ever

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Speaker 3: meet on the planet. So I feel like, I yes completely.

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Speaker 3: It gives me the ick if someone's like, I'm a

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Speaker 3: nice guy, I'm not crazy, Oh, yes you are.

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Speaker 4: And I'm staying far away.

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Speaker 2: There's so many ways we can do this. People tell them.

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Speaker 2: Tell me that you know I'm really smart is another one.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh goodness, if you have.

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Speaker 4: To say that, then.

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Speaker 2: You have a lot of work to do. Anyways, jin

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Speaker 2: Trand posted a video. It seems like she is trying

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Speaker 2: to tell the public that no, this Jesse Solomon rumor

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Speaker 2: is not true. She said within a thousand miles of her,

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Speaker 2: there was no guys that intrigue her or interest her.

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Speaker 2: So we have this post saying that won't be surprised

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Speaker 2: if we see them out together again, and her video

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Speaker 2: from the source saying no guys.

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Speaker 3: We are assuming that she was talking about Jesse, but

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Speaker 3: still timing works out.

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Speaker 2: Timing works out. That's been the headlines for this last week.

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Speaker 2: Some big things we covered again Chris Harrison's new show.

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Speaker 2: It's going to be streaming on a prominent streaming service.

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Speaker 2: They're looking for people interested in a traditional marriage. If

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Speaker 2: you're interested in applying, they're still casting for this. Also,

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Speaker 2: congratulations to Nick and Natalie on The Twins. The Bachelor

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Speaker 2: Mansion Makeover show is trailer is out, Michael a is sober,

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Speaker 2: Katie Thurston is buying a home, and Gintran is saying

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Speaker 2: no guys are intriguing her within one thousand mile radius. Hey,

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Speaker 2: that's all we have for you today. Until next time.

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Speaker 2: I've been Ben, I've been Dresda.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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