WEBVTT - Below Deck with Captain Lee 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:07.480 Hey there, everybody. Welcome to another TJ is starting episode 0:00:07.640 --> 0:00:09.480 of Amy and TJ. 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:10.760 My favorite episodes. 0:00:11.240 --> 0:00:15.240 Look can we go? We're going to talk a little 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:19.200 reality TV today. And I am not a big reality 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:22.520 TV fan, haven't been throughout my life. But what would 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:25.759 you say is your Even before us you and I 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:28.000 have started watching some things, but what is your would 0:00:28.000 --> 0:00:30.840 you say has been your number one? Like the show 0:00:30.960 --> 0:00:33.800 you made sure you watched if it was a dancing 0:00:33.840 --> 0:00:38.199 competition or if it's a housewive type show, what's what 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:39.239 did you commit to? 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:40.960 So it's evolved over the years. 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:43.120 So I think my first reality show that I got 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:46.519 totally stuck on was American Idol, without a doubt. I 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:49.080 loved it, the girls watched it with me. 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:50.400 It was a family show. 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:53.000 There aren't many shows on TV these days, especially where 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:56.600 you can watch with the family safely and so so 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:59.440 American Idol, for sure, I was obsessed with that show. 0:00:59.520 --> 0:00:59.960 I loved it. 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:03.240 And I have not been a big reality TV show 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:06.560 person per se. We've had to watch for what we 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:09.479 did for a living oftentimes. But I kind of got 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:12.440 into at one point in my life in the in 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:14.200 the Bachelor series. 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:16.600 I liked Bachelor in Paradise. 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:18.960 I kind of fell in love with that because those 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:21.840 were all the rejects who then got thrown on an 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:25.960 island together. And then just like whatever happened happened, and that, 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:29.080 I think then led to my next guilty pleasure, which 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:34.000 was Love Island. It's embarrassing to admit, but in weak moments, 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:37.080 or in like moments where I just couldn't think or 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:39.960 I didn't want to accept my own reality, I went 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:42.200 to Love Island, and then you and I when we 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:49.360 got into our situation, we found an absolute amazing outlet. 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:51.640 Well, I can't what was my question? 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:56.160 You asked what reality shows I like? 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:58.680 I just went through the timeline of it. 0:01:58.760 --> 0:01:59.559 What was my question? 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:03.040 What reality shows I liked? And I think I did 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:06.360 a very good job at answering you. Chronologic dive is 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:10.399 what we call it, explaining everything, maybe over explaining. 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:13.400 Would you say, though, that you are a reality TV fan? 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:16.120 Because I don't want to call it trash TV. That's 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:17.520 but a lot of people do call it. But it's 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.080 a guilty pleasure is a good way to put it. 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:22.360 It's a guilty pleasure. But I will at least feel 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:25.520 like I choose No, I can't say that. Yeah, it's 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:27.560 a guilty pleasure. I was thinking that. 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:30.440 So I don't like a lot of conflict. I like 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:35.080 some conflict. I like fun, silly conflict. I don't like deep, 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:37.480 like table throwing conflict. 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:40.840 I have a limit to the conflict. I'm willing to watch. 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:45.600 What the actual is happening right now. 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:47.880 Okay, I'm just answering it as honestly as I posed. 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:51.960 Well, I haven't been a reality TV fan. The one 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:56.000 that I did follow was Rachel Lindsays season of The Bacheloreat. Okay, 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:57.799 that was one that I was committed to, watched every 0:02:57.880 --> 0:03:00.400 day and was she's a friend, so that's. 0:02:59.800 --> 0:03:02.760 It's also for work because we needed to watch those things. 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:06.359 Okay, I'll give you that one. But the first one 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:08.359 that you and I found this was the first one 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:11.640 that I was shocked by that I got into and 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:14.239 it was completely random. Okay, how you're going to say, 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:18.320 serving the Hampton, Yes, okay, this We're sitting in the 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:20.959 room here with our producer Andy, who was a reality guy, 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:22.320 and he's even looking at me like what. 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:25.679 It's a little left field, it's a little here's why 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:28.320 we liked it. Go ahead, because it was people who 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:33.600 were actually doing a job that they would have done ordinarily. 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:36.920 It wasn't a forced situation with fake friends. Yes, you're 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:41.080 actually showing somebody at work and the conflict that often 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:43.200 ensues at work. 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:46.200 So I'm just look at Andy, our producer here, and 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:48.040 he's he this is not what he was into. It 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:50.080 was completely random. You and I of course, at the 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:52.160 end of twenty twenty two went into kind of a 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:55.400 lockdown for a while to where we were inside together, 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:58.040 just the two of us in hiding to a certain 0:03:58.080 --> 0:04:00.640 degree for whatever I think it was. H BO Max 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:03.880 just popped up, I started it and really got into 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:08.000 serving the Hamptons, which is about a restaurant called seventy 0:04:08.000 --> 0:04:09.200 five Main I think is right. 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:10.800 Yes, okay, and we've eaten there. 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:14.320 Okay. See that's the thing. We followed these folks on 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:16.839 this journey of on the show to where they're working 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:18.560 together at this place, all the conflict, you get it, 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:22.880 it's a reality show. We then friend of yours Joe. Yes, 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:25.680 as when we were in hiding, if you will, Joe 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:28.159 and Preston both we wanted to just get out of town, yes, 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:30.800 and they knew we couldn't go a lot of places 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:33.080 and they say, hey, why don't you just we have 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:35.080 a place here in the Hamptons that we rent out. 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:38.920 You will just come hang out there, just get away 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:41.320 for a little bit. Sure enough, we go there and 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:44.960 we order food. Not knowing where we're ordering from, we 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:47.520 order from a restaurant take out, and sure enough, it's 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:48.559 seventy five Maine. 0:04:49.160 --> 0:04:49.719 It was great. 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:54.760 By the way, the place that's featured in Serving the Hamptons. Okay, 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:58.560 so to catch you up now, after we finished that one, 0:04:58.600 --> 0:05:00.760 we like, when is Serving the Hamptons too. I don't 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:01.640 know if they had a season. 0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:03.279 I don't think they got renewed. We might have been 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:07.120 the only one who, like everyone else, might have thought 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:07.680 it was boring. 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:08.200 I don't know. 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:12.320 Then, holy hell, we were looking for something else. You 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:17.880 actually googled best reality shows to stream or something. 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:18.400 In the workplace. 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:20.120 I think I said that because we wanted people to 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:23.200 actually have a real function, like a real job, so 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:26.159 it wasn't all manufactured. We wanted to have actually some 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:27.800 reality to the reality. 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:31.039 And what we found was below deck. 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:35.680 Below deck and our lives were never the same ever, 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:40.360 so it was like, I mean, not trying to throw 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:44.239 shade on Serving the Hampton's but that was just nothing 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:46.839 compared to what Below Deck offered. 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:52.800 Wow, and below Deck, Look, folks, this show it is 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:56.119 if you haven't and it's to your point, it's folks 0:05:56.160 --> 0:06:00.240 who are actually doing a job that looks difficult. Was 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:02.320 it takes a lot of them. It's physical ability, but 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:05.200 you need to know how to You're right? Do I 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.560 need to throw this out here? Do I need to? 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:09.720 I mean it's a lot of Technically, if you screw up, 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:12.800 you could crash a boat, oh, without a doubt. Yes. 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:15.440 So to see them going through that's what we respect. 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:17.080 At least they were doing a job, and you can 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:19.760 respect what they're doing. But we got to stream this 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:21.920 if people don't know, did you all know you can 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:24.560 stream stuff and they don't have commercials? Did you all know? 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:29.800 We streamed how many scenes of this show? 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:32.600 All that there was to stream, and we went through 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:35.719 all of them, not just rolling Deck Mediterranean, there was sailing, 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:38.640 there was all the down Under. We haven't gotten totally through, 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:41.200 but we have gone through all the different iterations. We 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:42.920 just wanted more and more and more. 0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:45.120 So if anybody knows what we're talking about, we say, 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:48.040 below Deck the first thing out of your mouth after 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:50.400 saying below deck has to. 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:52.479 Be Captain Lee. 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:55.039 It has to be because if you've watched that show, 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:59.240 he has been the constant on that show. Look, we 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:03.560 liked Blow Mediterranean, yes, and we liked Captain Sandy there 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:06.240 as well, but the thing that got us into it 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:09.000 and the guy who guided us through. They changed staff, 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:13.400 but he was the constant throughout that show and if 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:16.680 he it sounds crazy, but this was a guy who 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:20.720 helped us through one of the craziest stretches yep, and 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:22.440 difficult stretches of our lives. 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:24.280 I mean, I'm not trying to be ridiculous here, but 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:26.760 it actually makes me kind of emotional because I feel 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:31.640 like Captain Lee and watching how he led this young, 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:36.040 wild group of kids trying to put on their best 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:39.160 to a make tips and just keep people happy and 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:41.960 learn the trade of yachting. It was Captain Lee, And 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:45.840 I told you from the beginning it felt. And I 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:48.040 hope he doesn't get offended by this, but I have 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:51.440 a very young dad, but he just reminded me of 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:54.960 my dad, like how I was raised, his nose sense, 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:57.400 like he wasn't going he was not going to take 0:07:57.440 --> 0:08:01.360 any bs from anybody, Like no silliness, like he was like, 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:05.480 I'm going to be just leading folks in the right 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:07.560 way with the littlest to say about it. I'm just 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:09.280 going to say what I'm going to say, and you're going. 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:09.760 To shut up. 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:12.320 So, Captain Lee, are you offended to hear that? Amy 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:17.200 Robock says that you remind her of her dad? Is 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:19.720 that offensive? That's a compliment? Is it not? Not? 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:22.760 Definitely as a compliment. I'm flattered. 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:25.760 Thank you very much, Oh Captain Lee. 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:28.360 It's so fun to hear your voice and see your 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:30.560 face and see us actually talking to you like we're 0:08:30.600 --> 0:08:31.640 I'm a little starstruck. 0:08:31.640 --> 0:08:33.400 I'll just speak for myself. 0:08:33.320 --> 0:08:36.680 Because we really did lean on you on it like 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:39.040 so many ways, in so many ways. And then to 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:42.320 come to find out you're from Michigan, I'm from Michigan. 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:44.800 And then when I found out and this was like 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:48.200 months after watching the show, because you're just referred to 0:08:48.240 --> 0:08:51.520 as Captain Lee, but your last name and my last 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:54.960 name are almost identical, rose Bocher. 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:56.320 That's freaky. 0:08:56.720 --> 0:09:01.240 Yeah, Captain Lee Rosebach and Amy Robo we have to 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:02.360 be related, Captain Lee. 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:04.000 I'm going to choose to think we are. 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:08.720 That's almost scary. It truly is in a good way. 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:12.319 Yes, yes, no, because you remind me of my family. 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:15.079 You remind me of how I was raised. The things 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.320 you say are the things my father would have said. 0:09:17.360 --> 0:09:19.360 So it was just it felt like I was watching 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:22.320 a little bit of home, watching you out on the 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:23.920 water commanding. 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:25.760 This group of kids. It was great, It was It 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:26.240 felt great. 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:28.400 Wasn't a lot There wasn't a lot of gray area 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:29.920 when you were growing up, was there? 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:31.520 No, there was not. It's blackys. 0:09:31.840 --> 0:09:35.079 You knew exactly where you stood if you screwed up, 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:39.480 and you knew what was coming, and if you didn't, 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:43.120 you might get an added boy. Probably not because you 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:45.319 didn't get ada boys for doing what you were supposed 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:45.600 to do. 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:49.319 Exactly, you don't get praised for doing what's expected of you, 0:09:49.400 --> 0:09:51.480 but if you don't do what you're supposed to do, 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:52.880 there will be consequences. 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:54.560 And that is exactly how I was. 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:57.880 I ever wanted to hear was wait did I tell 0:09:57.920 --> 0:09:58.400 your father? 0:09:58.840 --> 0:09:59.120 Oh? 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:03.040 That was it's the worst. Oh my goodness, that's so funny. 0:10:03.640 --> 0:10:05.600 And if it happened early in the morning, you had 0:10:05.679 --> 0:10:06.600 all dated. 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:09.480 To sweat it out, to sweat it out. Yes, no, 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:12.560 German Catholics are very specific. I don't know if you 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:16.240 were raised the same way, but yes, German Catholics both sides. 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:18.880 My mom is Schtopfel and my dad is a Robot, 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:21.880 and we were all German Catholics, So I think, yes, 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:25.120 there was a familiarity and just and there's. 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:25.320 I don't know. 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:27.880 I just felt so connected to you and to everything 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:29.480 you had to say. It was it was cool and 0:10:29.520 --> 0:10:30.080 I needed that. 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:33.800 Actually, I when I found out your last name, because 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:39.600 I'd watched you for years, and I thought there's something there. 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:41.520 Yeah, there has to be really. 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:44.080 There, really is it just can't. I'm not a firm 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:45.400 believer in coincidence. 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:47.560 Well neither am I at all. 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:49.800 But you're also not of a believer yet in twenty 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.480 three and me, you say you don't necessarily want to 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:55.080 trace all that DNA. 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:59.080 Like I said, my dad was rather prolific, So I'm 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.520 not sure if I want to open up that Pandora's 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:02.200 box or not. 0:11:03.400 --> 0:11:05.920 It has been that for many people twenty three and 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:08.480 me and all of those other new DNA that's yes, 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:10.560 yea right find relativetion nevernew you had. 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:13.040 You've got to be careful what you ask for. 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:15.640 Ketie, What do you think when you hear something like 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:18.240 she's describing. I mean, people have all kinds of stories. 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:20.600 I'm sure fans have talked about just you know, they 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:22.599 just didn't enjoy the show is one thing. But I 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:26.920 mean maybe you do remind people of somebody in their family. 0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:29.120 Maybe they feel a different type of connection the way 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:32.400 Robot here that I'm sitting next to does. What do 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:36.120 you do? You get a lot of that kind of 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:36.760 thing from people. 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:39.600 I do. I get a lot. You remind me of 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:46.760 my dad, my granddad, And I think that I come 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:50.040 from a generation where things are pretty cut and dried. 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:54.320 You know, you didn't you knew when you screwed up, 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:57.439 you knew when you didn't and I mean you knew 0:11:57.440 --> 0:12:02.040 it before you finished doing it, and you knew what 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:04.840 was going to happen, and then you had to figure out, Okay, 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:07.280 is the going up going to be worth the coming down? 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:08.440 Yeah? 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:11.440 And it's crazy too, like you think about it so 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:15.200 many people. Everyone parents differently, but there is something to 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:19.880 that knowing what the expectations are and knowing what the 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:24.079 consequences will be. I think so often kids these days, 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:26.400 I sound so old, but don't know that though, or 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:28.360 they aren't being taught the same way we were. 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:33.040 Now they don't have the structure that I feel they need, 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:36.280 and they don't have the discipline, and they don't have that. 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:39.440 A lot of them don't have that male figure in 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:43.360 their life. It sets an example. You know, you get up, 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:45.680 you go to work every day, and if you don't 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:47.760 go to work, you do your job at home. Whatever 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:50.960 your job is, you do it. You don't make excuses. 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:53.960 You just suck it up no matter what the issue is, 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:59.680 and you get it done. Period. So yeah, I don't 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:03.200 like my professor at college, so who cares? 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:05.680 Oh my god, that's my dad. 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:09.319 Well, Captain Lee, he's my professor is triggering me, and 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:12.000 it's it's reminding me of a trauma that I had, 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:15.880 Captain Lee, and he should not. My professor needs to 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:19.360 be aware of these triggers for me. Captain Lee. 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:22.920 Your professor doesn't give two about your trigger. 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:28.360 Oh Captain Lee, I wish there were more of you 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:30.640 in the world. It just no, it really is a 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:31.360 slice of hope. 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:32.240 It makes me laugh. 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:34.160 Sorry, and my daughters, I think, would say the same 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:37.360 thing because I'm I'm the mean mom apparently, But that's 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:39.280 just I think there is something to that, and you 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:40.800 give them to the. 0:13:41.120 --> 0:13:44.319 Keep being the mean mom than you, you keep being 0:13:44.360 --> 0:13:48.319 the parent first. Yeah, there's plenty of time later on 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:53.480 to be friends. But if you if you're not, in 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:58.280 my opinion, if you're not the parent first, then you're 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:00.360 probably not going to raise the type of show that 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:01.839 you want to be friends with later. 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:07.000 So true, so true and just. And you take that 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:09.640 philosophy and you bring it on the boat. How did 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:10.000 that work? 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:15.040 I do? It worked fine for me. For some of 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:19.040 the crew members not so much. And production and I 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:23.440 had an understanding from Jump Street that you know you 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:26.080 have a job to do. I have a job to do. 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:32.680 My job supersedes your authority. You charted the boat, you 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:35.760 got me with it, so you can film me all 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:39.000 you want. I'm going to do my job as I 0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:42.160 understand it, and that's to make sure that everybody on 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:44.360 this boat is safe and I don't do any harm 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:48.000 to the boat or anybody on it. And if we 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:50.680 can do whatever it is you'd like to do within 0:14:50.760 --> 0:14:55.520 those confines, I'm all in. But don't ask me to 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:57.360 compromise because there won't. 0:14:57.160 --> 0:15:01.640 Be take the cameras away, Captain Lee, did you do 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:04.280 everything the exact same way you did it that we 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:07.640 sell on camera. If those cameras weren't there, you've been 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:08.440 the same guy. 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:13.520 Didn't make any difference. Cameras are no cameras. That's the 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:18.240 way I've been running boats for over almost forty years now, 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:21.480 and I doubt it's going to change now. 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:25.280 I was just going to ask, it's the way you've 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:28.000 been running boats. It's the way you see fit to 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:31.280 run boats. But when you watch yourself back, did you 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:35.160 have any thoughts like that was too much or maybe 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:36.600 that was too harsh? 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:40.560 You know, maybe early in my career, before all of 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:45.440 the TV stuff started, I may have been a little 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:49.880 more strict than I actually needed to be. But I 0:15:49.920 --> 0:15:53.120 think that's a process that all captains go through, a 0:15:53.240 --> 0:16:01.640 maturation process where you learn that everybody's different and some 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:04.920 people need to be handled differently. It's not a one 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:08.040 size fits all. So where you can take a very 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:13.960 firm and stern approach with one individual because their psyche 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:21.280 can handle it, you'll get more from another individual by 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:25.520 maybe taking a software approach, not cream off Casper milk 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:32.200 toast approach, but maybe a little more subdued approach. 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:35.840 Can you spot them from a mile away, even before 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:38.800 you start a charter season, can you say, yep, that's 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:40.520 going to be a problem like this, that's going to 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:43.120 be or were you even surprised once you got to 0:16:43.160 --> 0:16:43.840 know them a little bit. 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:45.800 They're pretty easy to spot. 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:49.040 Has anyone surprised? 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:55.000 Level of transparency is just like, seriously. 0:17:04.720 --> 0:17:06.760 Tell us this, Captain Lee. If the two of us 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:10.720 t J. Holmes and Amy Robot stepped on to your 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:14.119 deck as new members. 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:17.080 Of the crew, she's chiefs to lead deckhand. 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:24.000 Okay, fine, lead deckhand. Okay, what would you say these 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:26.760 two are going to be for you and your crew? 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:29.520 Have I been able to look at your resumes? 0:17:30.600 --> 0:17:32.000 Yes, and they are stellar. 0:17:33.200 --> 0:17:33.520 Yeah. 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:38.280 Well I've never met anybody that that impellised your resume. 0:17:40.080 --> 0:17:43.120 Right, we were fired once. We probably gonna leave that off. 0:17:44.600 --> 0:17:44.920 I was. 0:17:45.119 --> 0:17:51.359 I was fired once as well. Okay, I don't. I 0:17:51.359 --> 0:17:54.240 don't leave that off off my resume. I was actually 0:17:54.359 --> 0:17:56.240 quite proud of the fact that I was fired. 0:17:56.359 --> 0:17:58.600 Wow, why were you fired? Who would have fired you? 0:17:59.560 --> 0:17:59.679 Uh? 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:06.560 It was the owners of Utopia two, in Utopia three 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:14.159 and four and five, but extremely demanding people, and I 0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:17.560 was fired for bringing something to one of the owner's 0:18:17.600 --> 0:18:22.280 attention that she really didn't want to see. And I 0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:24.600 didn't really care she wanted to see it or not, 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:27.760 because it was the truth and I was doing the 0:18:27.880 --> 0:18:30.280 right thing. And I've always been a firm believer that 0:18:30.320 --> 0:18:33.080 you can never go wrong by doing the right thing. 0:18:33.720 --> 0:18:38.440 So when she fired me, I thought, there. 0:18:38.320 --> 0:18:41.880 Is a god hallelujah. Wait what did she not want 0:18:41.960 --> 0:18:42.399 to see? 0:18:43.280 --> 0:18:44.800 Oh? You don't really want me to say? 0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:46.359 Oh I do, though, I kind of do. 0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:53.440 Well. We had a My boat was primarily used as 0:18:53.520 --> 0:18:57.439 a floating hotel. When they'd have too many guests for 0:18:57.560 --> 0:19:00.000 the big boat, they'd send them over to my little 0:19:00.000 --> 0:19:03.880 one hundred and sixteen foot fed ship and they would 0:19:03.920 --> 0:19:08.800 spend the night. It was one of their executives, and 0:19:09.560 --> 0:19:12.280 he came rolling in about six thirty or so in 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:17.320 the morning. Of course, our crew was all up and 0:19:18.760 --> 0:19:25.240 took a shower and promptly passed out. But while he 0:19:25.400 --> 0:19:28.159 was in the shower, he left something behind that he 0:19:28.200 --> 0:19:33.280 should have left in the toilet. I told you you 0:19:33.359 --> 0:19:34.159 didn't want to know. 0:19:34.320 --> 0:19:38.640 Wait, but you got fired for that. Wait a minute, Okay, 0:19:38.640 --> 0:19:39.120 I'll get better. 0:19:39.160 --> 0:19:42.600 It's better. Okay, the chiefs do come, do comes upstairs? 0:19:42.600 --> 0:19:47.640 And she goes kat. She said, you have to come 0:19:47.680 --> 0:19:51.159 downstairs with me, and I told I said, I have 0:19:51.240 --> 0:19:54.280 no I have no wish to even join you downstairs. 0:19:54.480 --> 0:19:58.359 I said, that's just She said, no, you have to 0:19:59.080 --> 0:20:06.600 because won't believe this. So I went downstairs and bigger 0:20:06.640 --> 0:20:14.960 than life there it was, so I uh. I took 0:20:14.960 --> 0:20:19.800 a picture of it and I sent it to the 0:20:19.840 --> 0:20:26.040 owner and I said, really that was it? One word text? 0:20:26.240 --> 0:20:30.640 Really uh. I was terminated the next day. 0:20:31.160 --> 0:20:35.840 Wow, wow, wow, the reason being, what the way they 0:20:35.840 --> 0:20:38.639 had to give you some reason for that? 0:20:39.920 --> 0:20:44.240 Well, it's funny because like on a boat, I am 0:20:44.640 --> 0:20:49.920 hr M right, So if you're gonna if you're gonna 0:20:49.920 --> 0:20:53.040 get on a boat as a steward, as a deckhand, 0:20:53.119 --> 0:20:55.119