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Speaker 1: Hey there, everybody. Welcome to another TJ is starting episode

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Speaker 1: of Amy and TJ.

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Speaker 2: My favorite episodes.

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Speaker 1: Look can we go? We're going to talk a little

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Speaker 1: reality TV today. And I am not a big reality

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Speaker 1: TV fan, haven't been throughout my life. But what would

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Speaker 1: you say is your Even before us you and I

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Speaker 1: have started watching some things, but what is your would

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Speaker 1: you say has been your number one? Like the show

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Speaker 1: you made sure you watched if it was a dancing

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Speaker 1: competition or if it's a housewive type show, what's what

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Speaker 1: did you commit to?

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Speaker 2: So it's evolved over the years.

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Speaker 3: So I think my first reality show that I got

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Speaker 3: totally stuck on was American Idol, without a doubt. I

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Speaker 3: loved it, the girls watched it with me.

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Speaker 2: It was a family show.

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Speaker 3: There aren't many shows on TV these days, especially where

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Speaker 3: you can watch with the family safely and so so

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Speaker 3: American Idol, for sure, I was obsessed with that show.

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Speaker 1: I loved it.

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Speaker 3: And I have not been a big reality TV show

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Speaker 3: person per se. We've had to watch for what we

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Speaker 3: did for a living oftentimes. But I kind of got

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Speaker 3: into at one point in my life in the in

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Speaker 3: the Bachelor series.

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Speaker 2: I liked Bachelor in Paradise.

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Speaker 3: I kind of fell in love with that because those

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Speaker 3: were all the rejects who then got thrown on an

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Speaker 3: island together. And then just like whatever happened happened, and that,

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Speaker 3: I think then led to my next guilty pleasure, which

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Speaker 3: was Love Island. It's embarrassing to admit, but in weak moments,

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Speaker 3: or in like moments where I just couldn't think or

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to accept my own reality, I went

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Speaker 3: to Love Island, and then you and I when we

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Speaker 3: got into our situation, we found an absolute amazing outlet.

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Speaker 1: Well, I can't what was my question?

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Speaker 3: You asked what reality shows I like?

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Speaker 2: I just went through the timeline of it.

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Speaker 1: What was my question?

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Speaker 3: What reality shows I liked? And I think I did

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Speaker 3: a very good job at answering you. Chronologic dive is

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Speaker 3: what we call it, explaining everything, maybe over explaining.

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Speaker 1: Would you say, though, that you are a reality TV fan?

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Speaker 1: Because I don't want to call it trash TV. That's

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Speaker 1: but a lot of people do call it. But it's

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Speaker 1: a guilty pleasure is a good way to put it.

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Speaker 2: It's a guilty pleasure. But I will at least feel

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Speaker 2: like I choose No, I can't say that. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: a guilty pleasure. I was thinking that.

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Speaker 3: So I don't like a lot of conflict. I like

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Speaker 3: some conflict. I like fun, silly conflict. I don't like deep,

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Speaker 3: like table throwing conflict.

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Speaker 2: I have a limit to the conflict. I'm willing to watch.

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Speaker 1: What the actual is happening right now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just answering it as honestly as I posed.

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Speaker 1: Well, I haven't been a reality TV fan. The one

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Speaker 1: that I did follow was Rachel Lindsays season of The Bacheloreat. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that was one that I was committed to, watched every

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Speaker 1: day and was she's a friend, so that's.

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Speaker 3: It's also for work because we needed to watch those things.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'll give you that one. But the first one

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Speaker 1: that you and I found this was the first one

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Speaker 1: that I was shocked by that I got into and

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Speaker 1: it was completely random. Okay, how you're going to say,

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Speaker 1: serving the Hampton, Yes, okay, this We're sitting in the

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Speaker 1: room here with our producer Andy, who was a reality guy,

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Speaker 1: and he's even looking at me like what.

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Speaker 3: It's a little left field, it's a little here's why

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Speaker 3: we liked it. Go ahead, because it was people who

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Speaker 3: were actually doing a job that they would have done ordinarily.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't a forced situation with fake friends. Yes, you're

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Speaker 3: actually showing somebody at work and the conflict that often

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Speaker 3: ensues at work.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just look at Andy, our producer here, and

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Speaker 1: he's he this is not what he was into. It

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Speaker 1: was completely random. You and I of course, at the

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Speaker 1: end of twenty twenty two went into kind of a

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Speaker 1: lockdown for a while to where we were inside together,

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Speaker 1: just the two of us in hiding to a certain

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Speaker 1: degree for whatever I think it was. H BO Max

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Speaker 1: serving the Hamptons, which is about a restaurant called seventy

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Speaker 1: five Main I think is right.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, and we've eaten there.

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Speaker 1: Okay. See that's the thing. We followed these folks on

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Speaker 1: together at this place, all the conflict, you get it,

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Speaker 1: it's a reality show. We then friend of yours Joe. Yes,

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Speaker 1: as when we were in hiding, if you will, Joe

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Speaker 1: and Preston both we wanted to just get out of town, yes,

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Speaker 1: and they knew we couldn't go a lot of places

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Speaker 1: and they say, hey, why don't you just we have

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Speaker 1: a place here in the Hamptons that we rent out.

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Speaker 1: You will just come hang out there, just get away

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Speaker 1: for a little bit. Sure enough, we go there and

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Speaker 1: we order food. Not knowing where we're ordering from, we

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Speaker 1: order from a restaurant take out, and sure enough, it's

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Speaker 1: seventy five Maine.

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Speaker 2: It was great.

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Speaker 1: By the way, the place that's featured in Serving the Hamptons. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so to catch you up now, after we finished that one,

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Speaker 1: we like, when is Serving the Hamptons too. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if they had a season.

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Speaker 3: I don't think they got renewed. We might have been

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Speaker 3: the only one who, like everyone else, might have thought

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Speaker 3: it was boring.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Then, holy hell, we were looking for something else. You

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Speaker 1: actually googled best reality shows to stream or something.

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Speaker 2: In the workplace.

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Speaker 3: I think I said that because we wanted people to

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Speaker 3: actually have a real function, like a real job, so

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Speaker 3: it wasn't all manufactured. We wanted to have actually some

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Speaker 3: reality to the reality.

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Speaker 1: And what we found was below deck.

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Speaker 3: Below deck and our lives were never the same ever,

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Speaker 3: so it was like, I mean, not trying to throw

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Speaker 3: shade on Serving the Hampton's but that was just nothing

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Speaker 3: compared to what Below Deck offered.

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Speaker 1: Wow, and below Deck, Look, folks, this show it is

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Speaker 1: if you haven't and it's to your point, it's folks

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Speaker 1: who are actually doing a job that looks difficult. Was

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Speaker 1: it takes a lot of them. It's physical ability, but

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Speaker 1: you need to know how to You're right? Do I

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Speaker 1: need to throw this out here? Do I need to?

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Speaker 1: I mean it's a lot of Technically, if you screw up,

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Speaker 1: you could crash a boat, oh, without a doubt. Yes.

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Speaker 1: So to see them going through that's what we respect.

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Speaker 1: At least they were doing a job, and you can

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Speaker 1: respect what they're doing. But we got to stream this

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Speaker 1: if people don't know, did you all know you can

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Speaker 1: stream stuff and they don't have commercials? Did you all know?

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Speaker 1: We streamed how many scenes of this show?

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Speaker 3: All that there was to stream, and we went through

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Speaker 3: all of them, not just rolling Deck Mediterranean, there was sailing,

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Speaker 3: there was all the down Under. We haven't gotten totally through,

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Speaker 3: but we have gone through all the different iterations. We

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Speaker 1: So if anybody knows what we're talking about, we say,

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Speaker 1: below Deck the first thing out of your mouth after

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Speaker 1: saying below deck has to.

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Speaker 2: Be Captain Lee.

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Speaker 1: It has to be because if you've watched that show,

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Speaker 1: he has been the constant on that show. Look, we

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Speaker 1: liked Blow Mediterranean, yes, and we liked Captain Sandy there

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Speaker 1: as well, but the thing that got us into it

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Speaker 1: but he was the constant throughout that show and if

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Speaker 1: helped us through one of the craziest stretches yep, and

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not trying to be ridiculous here, but

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Speaker 3: it actually makes me kind of emotional because I feel

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Speaker 3: like Captain Lee and watching how he led this young,

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Speaker 3: learn the trade of yachting. It was Captain Lee, And

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Speaker 3: I told you from the beginning it felt. And I

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Speaker 3: hope he doesn't get offended by this, but I have

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Speaker 3: a very young dad, but he just reminded me of

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Speaker 3: my dad, like how I was raised, his nose sense,

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Speaker 3: like he wasn't going he was not going to take

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Speaker 3: any bs from anybody, Like no silliness, like he was like,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be just leading folks in the right

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Speaker 3: way with the littlest to say about it. I'm just

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Speaker 3: going to say what I'm going to say, and you're going.

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Speaker 2: To shut up.

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Speaker 1: So, Captain Lee, are you offended to hear that? Amy

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Speaker 1: Robock says that you remind her of her dad? Is

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Speaker 1: that offensive? That's a compliment? Is it not? Not?

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Speaker 4: Definitely as a compliment. I'm flattered.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much, Oh Captain Lee.

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Speaker 3: It's so fun to hear your voice and see your

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Speaker 3: I'm a little starstruck.

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Speaker 2: I'll just speak for myself.

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Speaker 3: Because we really did lean on you on it like

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Speaker 3: so many ways, in so many ways. And then to

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Speaker 3: come to find out you're from Michigan, I'm from Michigan.

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Speaker 3: And then when I found out and this was like

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Speaker 3: months after watching the show, because you're just referred to

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Speaker 3: as Captain Lee, but your last name and my last

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Speaker 4: That's freaky.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Captain Lee Rosebach and Amy Robo we have to

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Speaker 3: be related, Captain Lee.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to choose to think we are.

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Speaker 4: That's almost scary. It truly is in a good way.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, no, because you remind me of my family.

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Speaker 3: You remind me of how I was raised. The things

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Speaker 3: So it was just it felt like I was watching

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Speaker 2: This group of kids. It was great, It was It

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Speaker 2: felt great.

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Speaker 4: Wasn't a lot There wasn't a lot of gray area

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Speaker 2: No, there was not. It's blackys.

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Speaker 4: You knew exactly where you stood if you screwed up,

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Speaker 4: and you knew what was coming, and if you didn't,

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Speaker 4: you might get an added boy. Probably not because you

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Speaker 4: didn't get ada boys for doing what you were supposed

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Speaker 4: to do.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, you don't get praised for doing what's expected of you,

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Speaker 3: but if you don't do what you're supposed to do,

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Speaker 3: there will be consequences.

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Speaker 2: And that is exactly how I was.

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Speaker 4: I ever wanted to hear was wait did I tell

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Speaker 4: your father?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: That was it's the worst. Oh my goodness, that's so funny.

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Speaker 4: And if it happened early in the morning, you had

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Speaker 4: all dated.

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Speaker 3: To sweat it out, to sweat it out. Yes, no,

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Speaker 3: German Catholics are very specific. I don't know if you

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Speaker 3: were raised the same way, but yes, German Catholics both sides.

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Speaker 3: My mom is Schtopfel and my dad is a Robot,

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Speaker 3: and we were all German Catholics, So I think, yes,

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Speaker 3: there was a familiarity and just and there's.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Well, Captain Lee, he's my professor is triggering me, and

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Speaker 3: Sorry, and my daughters, I think, would say the same

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Speaker 4: My job supersedes your authority. You charted the boat, you

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Speaker 1: Be take the cameras away, Captain Lee, did you do

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Speaker 4: Didn't make any difference. Cameras are no cameras. That's the

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Speaker 4: You know, maybe early in my career, before all of

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Speaker 1: Can you spot them from a mile away, even before

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Speaker 4: They're pretty easy to spot.

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Speaker 4: Level of transparency is just like, seriously.

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Speaker 1: Tell us this, Captain Lee. If the two of us

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Speaker 1: Okay, fine, lead deckhand. Okay, what would you say these

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Speaker 4: Have I been able to look at your resumes?

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Speaker 1: Yes, and they are stellar.

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Speaker 4: Well I've never met anybody that that impellised your resume.

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Speaker 1: Right, we were fired once. We probably gonna leave that off.

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Speaker 4: I was fired once as well. Okay, I don't. I

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Speaker 4: It was the owners of Utopia two, in Utopia three

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Speaker 4: So when she fired me, I thought, there.

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Speaker 2: Is a god hallelujah. Wait what did she not want

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Speaker 4: Well. We had a My boat was primarily used as

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Speaker 4: It's better. Okay, the chiefs do come, do comes upstairs?

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Speaker 1: I was not expecting that story was that was a

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Speaker 4: So I was so glad I got fired.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, hindsight sometimes is well twenty twenty right,

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Speaker 1: Do you know, keptain Lee, do you have a rolling count?

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Speaker 1: Do you know how many people you have fired in

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Speaker 4: Deck everyone that deserved it.

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Speaker 4: I think there. I think the most I'd fired I

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Speaker 4: I did regret it, but not for the reasons you

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Speaker 2: I think I remember this. Who was this?

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Speaker 4: That was Andrew Sturby.

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Speaker 2: Yeah we have, we have and young blond.

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Speaker 4: this to you. I said, but you're just too much

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Speaker 4: I told you you know he was, and he was

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Speaker 4: And I think that's the only one that I actually regret.

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Speaker 4: There were quite a few that I enjoyed. I really did.

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Speaker 4: I mean, there's something gratifying about being able to dish

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00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 4: out to some people who desperately deserves it what they

445
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 4: have coming.

446
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 2: I think I think everyone can relate to that when

447
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 2: you and I.

448
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 4: Just I don't feel bad about it one iota.

449
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 1: Maybe you two are related, no, but I get that.

450
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 2: I mean, like, if you feel like no one's ever

451
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 2: told this person no.

452
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 3: Before, actually and you get to be the one to

453
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 3: do it, and maybe that will be the thing that

454
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 3: makes them wake up to how they act.

455
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 2: There is something satisfying about that. I totally. I get

456
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 2: that you and I are on the same paper. Who

457
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 2: was the most enjoyable to fire?

458
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:10,919
Speaker 3: Do you know?

459
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 4: The most enjoyable to fire was Dane. Dane was a

460
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:22,360
Speaker 4: deckhand and I'd sent the crew out to a private

461
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 4: resort and they had to resort all to themselves, overnight, rooms,

462
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 4: open bar, They had everything that they wanted, so two

463
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning, I get a call from Meddie

464
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 4: and he said cat. He said, Dane's out of control.

465
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 4: He said he can't stay here. So two o'clock in

466
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,400
Speaker 4: the morning, I'm scraunging around trying to find somebody to

467
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,239
Speaker 4: hop on a boat go to this other island and

468
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 4: pick up Dane.

469
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 3: Even just the name Dane, you keep saying it such

470
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 3: a way, it's annoying.

471
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 4: We had we had Dane down in the if we

472
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 4: have film with him down in the crew mess. He's

473
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 4: got a bottle of Crown Royal in one hand and

474
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 4: a Budweiser in the other, and he's alternating hugs and

475
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 4: he's talking to himself and we can't understand what he's saying,

476
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 4: so we slow the tape down to try and figure

477
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 4: out what he's saying. We still can't understand. We had

478
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:38,879
Speaker 4: it to damn near stop and we're still so we

479
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 4: had to just use subtitles of all the special characters

480
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 4: that you're.

481
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 2: Supposed to Oh, I love when you do that, yes.

482
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 4: Because we had no idea what he said, garble drunk.

483
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 4: He gets he gets back to the bug. This is

484
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 4: like three o'clock in the morning, and now there's a

485
00:25:56,040 --> 00:26:00,880
Speaker 4: knock on my door. It's one of the producers. They go, cat,

486
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 4: we've got a problem, and I looked at him. I thought, oh,

487
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 4: do you ever have a problem. You know, it's three

488
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning. I've got to be up in

489
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 4: three hours. This said, really better be good. He said,

490
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 4: we've got Dane down on the dock and he refuses

491
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 4: to leave the boat until he gets his tip money.

492
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: Wait did this play out in the season for people

493
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 1: to see. I don't remember that.

494
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, well you didn't see that.

495
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:31,919
Speaker 2: I see that.

496
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 4: Because there were certain things they transferred there you probably

497
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 4: didn't want to see anyhow, I said, all right, I'll

498
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 4: get his tip money for him. So I gave the

499
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 4: producer his tip money. I got back into bed. Fifteen

500
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 4: minutes later, there's another knock on the door. Now it's

501
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 4: twenty after three or so in the morning, and he said,

502
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 4: Dane's really really getting out of control and he won't leave,

503
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 4: and now he's starting to verbally assault, you know, like

504
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 4: the executive producer's wife family. He's just gone off the

505
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 4: deep end. And he said, you know, will you come

506
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 4: down and help us out with it? And then I

507
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 4: said absolutely, I will, I said, but I don't want

508
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 4: anybody questioning my methods of how I deal with it.

509
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 4: I said, but trust me, it will get dealt with.

510
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 4: I said, because I need to get some goddamn sleep here,

511
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 4: I said, you guys want me up at six thirty

512
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 4: in the morning, and it's three thirty now. So I

513
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 4: went down there and we had two security guards there

514
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 4: and they're just standing off in the background. And I

515
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 4: walked up to Dane and I said, I asked him

516
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 4: if he was doing all right. You got your mother, yeah,

517
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 4: I got my money. I said, you're not going to

518
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 4: stay on board the boat tonight. I said, we have

519
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 4: a hotel room for you. I said, and you see

520
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 4: these two gentlemen over there. I said, they're going to

521
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 4: escort you to your hotel room and then in the morning,

522
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 4: you and I will have a conversation. And he looked

523
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 4: at me and I said, wait a minute, I said,

524
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 4: don't say anything. I said, you do have options here.

525
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 4: I said, you can walk with these two gentlemen to

526
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 4: your hotel room in a peaceful fashion. I said, or

527
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 4: you can get carried to your hotel room. And I said,

528
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 4: I know which one I would prefer, but it's up

529
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 4: to you. And he took his envelope of money and

530
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 4: put it in his back pocket and went with the

531
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 4: gentleman as I re quested, and made it to his

532
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 4: hotel room. Then he comes. We get him back at

533
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 4: eight o'clock in the morning. Now, mind you, he's still hammered.

534
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 4: There's no way as drunk as he was that he

535
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 4: was going to sober up three or four hours just

536
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 4: wasn't going to happen. And all apologies, all this, all that,

537
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 4: and he said, well, he said, you know, I said,

538
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 4: I guess I should hand him my resignation. And I said, no, no,

539
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 4: wait a minute, you have not earned the prov of resigning.

540
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 4: Your dumb ass is fired. And were I you, I

541
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 4: wouldn't put me down for a wh I would delete

542
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 4: this part of your life.

543
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 2: Amazing.

544
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 4: So he said, okay, he says, I'll go down and pack.

545
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 4: I said no, no, I said, you won't go down

546
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 4: and pack. You're not packing anything. Our people will pack

547
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 4: for you, will ship it to wherever it is you

548
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 4: want to go. You're going straight from this office to

549
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 4: the airport and you're getting on a plane and you're

550
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 4: leaving you guys, any questions.

551
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, Kevin, you have to tell us you've been doing

552
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: this for so long before cameras ever became a part

553
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: of it. Have you always had debt crews that were

554
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 1: like this, even before we were able to see what

555
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: life was like on a boat.

556
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 4: Yes.

557
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 3: Wow.

558
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 4: I remember I had an engineer one time, and this

559
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 4: was on Nick Cage's boat and I was bringing it

560
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 4: back from the Hampton's somewhere up in Connecticut back down

561
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 4: to Lauderdale. And I didn't know it at the time

562
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 4: because I didn't know the guy well enough. But the

563
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 4: engineer he passed out well I should have said, he

564
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 4: looked like he fell asleep during a team meeting, staff

565
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 4: meeting in a sleep. He faced drunk and I took

566
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 4: his class and it was like a tumbler. It was

567
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 4: straight vodka.

568
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, the engineer, the engineer, a lot of people's lives

569
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 3: at seek.

570
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 4: So yeah, there's I mean, it does happen, not just

571
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 4: on television. So that's why it cracks me up sometimes

572
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 4: when people say it's all scripted, and I said, trust

573
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 4: me when I tell you, if it was scripted, my

574
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 4: life would have been so much easier. I would have

575
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 4: known what was coming. I could have you know, just

576
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 4: read my lines and everything would have been great. But

577
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 4: the stuff that happened it just like straight out of

578
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 4: the box and you get hit right between the eyes

579
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 4: with it.

580
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 2: How about the guests on the show, I we from

581
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 2: the very beginning, we're curious about how you picked them

582
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 2: and what the incentives were for them to be on

583
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 2: the boat, because obviously a lot of them some of

584
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 2: them act just fine, but many of them don't, and

585
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 2: were like, who would put themselves out there to be

586
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 2: talked about, ridiculed?

587
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,719
Speaker 3: And you know for folks who are on the outside

588
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 3: looking in, just they look like general.

589
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: FLEs like we were just curious about that process.

590
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 4: Well, there's there's two things. When we first started the series,

591
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 4: it was so unknown and I'm not going to say

592
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 4: nobody knew what they were doing, but nobody had filmed

593
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 4: charter guests on a moving boat with all of the

594
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 4: crew and then all the camera crew and all the

595
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 4: audio techts and everything that we had to have on

596
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 4: board had never been done before. And so we were

597
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 4: actually we weren't charging anybody for the charters, and then

598
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 4: we ran into an issue because we weren't charging anybody

599
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 4: for the charters if they didn't have some skin in

600
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 4: the game. At the last minute, they'd find what I

601
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 4: call a BBD, a bigger, better deal, Oh wow, and

602
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 4: they wouldn't show up.

603
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 1: Oh wow.

604
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 4: So then I'm you know, myself and the production crew

605
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 4: were sitting there. Now we got four days to fill

606
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 4: with no guests.

607
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: Then think about that.

608
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 4: So we started charging, and they did get a heavily

609
00:33:54,680 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 4: discounted rate, and it was really a great deal for them.

610
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 4: You know, generally they got like I remember a couple

611
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 4: of seasons we'd charter. We would rent a mansion, a

612
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 4: villa that would accommodate six or eight people. They'd have

613
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 4: their own chef swimming pool, and they would get there,

614
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 4: spend two days in the villa and then come on

615
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 4: board the boat, spend three days there and then go

616
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 4: back to the villa for another day or two and

617
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 4: then on their airfare or on their plane to get

618
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:34,720
Speaker 4: out of there. And we would charge them X amount

619
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 4: of dollars. But everything was inclusive.

620
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 2: So that's a really good deal.

621
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 1: That's a great deal.

622
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 4: It was a really good deal for them. And you know,

623
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 4: unless they wanted a case of Louis tray, then you know,

624
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 4: they stayed within limits. Then they were okay, But what

625
00:34:53,800 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 4: used to amaze me tremendously was when you talk to

626
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 4: people like crew, they you entered them and you want

627
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 4: this is why you want them, because they're an interesting personality.

628
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 4: They seem like they're fun to hang out with, they're

629
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 4: going to be great on film. They look good, they're beautiful,

630
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 4: they're handsome, and they've got an engaging personality, and that's

631
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 4: why you hire them, or that's why you agree to

632
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 4: have them come on board as guests. And then as

633
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 4: soon the very split second that the cameras start rolling,

634
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 4: they just morph into the biggest volume bear.

635
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 2: Wow, that's crazy.

636
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,839
Speaker 4: Camera comes on and they're just totally different, and you're

637
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:49,439
Speaker 4: going like, no, what the hell just happened here?

638
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,359
Speaker 1: Why? But why wouldn't you want to look bad? I mean,

639
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 1: that makes them look worse. Why wouldn't they be on

640
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: their best behavior and telling the crew so well?

641
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 4: With the cameras rolling, they would get together and conspire,

642
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 4: the guests would to think of difficult situations to make

643
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 4: for the crew.

644
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 2: Kidding me, Wow, I'm shocked by that.

645
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,439
Speaker 1: Why wow?

646
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 4: And it was just you know, and we dealt with it.

647
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 2: Wow, I know we watched it. Was there a group

648
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 2: that shocked you the most.

649
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 4: Didn't happen a lot, but you know, because there were

650
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 4: so many really really great charters that I had throughout

651
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 4: my career and below deck the Two's, for example, LeAnn

652
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 4: Dewey and Shawnee her husband from the blind Side. Yep,

653
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 4: they were just great and you just loved hanging around

654
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 4: with them and cameras on or not, they didn't change

655
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 4: who they were or what they were. I remember having

656
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 4: some housewives on board and I thought, oh my god,

657
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 4: talk about high maintenance. I'm an overload here, and when

658
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,439
Speaker 4: the charter was over, couldn't have been further from the truth. Well,

659
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:10,280
Speaker 4: they were just the nicest group of it was Claudia

660
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 4: Jordan and Cynthia Bailey.

661
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 3: Cynthia her mom and daughter, and we.

662
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 4: Just had a great time with them. They weren't high maintenance.

663
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 4: They were a lot of fun. And then there were

664
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:28,399
Speaker 4: some other guys. I mean, you just you take. It's

665
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:29,760
Speaker 4: kind of like the luck of the draw.

666
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 1: Kem Lea advise folks who maybe if they're not even

667
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 1: maybe they will be a charter guest somewhere on some

668
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: boat some day. But there's something we see it a

669
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:43,720
Speaker 1: lot with airline travel to where people who you feel entitled,

670
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: that that flight attendant or that deckhand or that stewards

671
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: or whatever. It's like your servants. They people feel for

672
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: whatever reason in those like you're there to serve them

673
00:37:56,080 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: and obey their every command. Just in general, give some

674
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 1: advice to people to give a break to maybe some

675
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: of these folks who are serving them in travel.

676
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 4: The people that behave that way with that sense of entitlement.

677
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 4: Generally it's new money. It's not old money, because old

678
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 4: money is a product of class culture and breeding. The

679
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 4: new money they have that sense of entitlement about them

680
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:37,720
Speaker 4: for no reason whatsoever, and they should the people my crew,

681
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 4: and I've told some charter guests on charter, no, my

682
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 4: crew are not your slaves period. You will treat them

683
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 4: with respect or I'll turn this boat around and head

684
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 4: back to the dock. Dump your ass off and keep

685
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:58,839
Speaker 4: your money you have.

686
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,320
Speaker 2: You've kicked a guest before, we've seen it.

687
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: It was awesome.

688
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 4: I have no problem doing that.

689
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, And you kicked her off the lorus.

690
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 2: That was amazing. And now and now.

691
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 4: Season one, I kicked Johnny.

692
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 2: Eyelash yes, yes, oh yes, And he's the.

693
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 4: Guy that came rolling down the dock a group of

694
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:30,800
Speaker 4: photographers and he's wearing this nasty, dirty, old bathrobe. Do

695
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:31,840
Speaker 4: you remember that, teacher?

696
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:32,839
Speaker 1: I do? I do?

697
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 2: I do I do?

698
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 4: That's that's a sight you can unsea.

699
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 3: And then we've seen guests behave badly, like horribly, and

700
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 3: then come back the next season trying to redeem themselves

701
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 3: like we were like, oh my god, they came back

702
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 3: for more. Like they they're.

703
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 4: Trying to be more outrageous than they were the season before.

704
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 4: That was like Charlie Wallers crazy. That was the way

705
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 4: he was. He he had try and outdo it every time,

706
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 4: and some people just really wanted to be as memorable,

707
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 4: good or bad as they could possibly be.

708
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 2: Which is wild.

709
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 3: And now you have the I'm curious what your perspective

710
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 3: is now because you're at home watching and you've got

711
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:26,800
Speaker 3: a podcast you recently met made headlines talking about Speaking

712
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 3: of Housewives Jill Zarin and how she acted on this

713
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:33,280
Speaker 3: latest season. What is it like for you to watch

714
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 3: it now like the rest of us on television knowing

715
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 3: what you know.

716
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 4: Well, you know it's TJ. It's like I said before,

717
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:53,280
Speaker 4: I haven't changed anything and the way I operate my boat.

718
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 4: My attitude toward the guests is the same as it is.

719
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 4: Everybody comes on lights clean, Let's do what we can

720
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 4: to keep it that way. But some people are just

721
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 4: hell bent. And when I watch people go out of

722
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 4: their way, it's a conscious effort that they're doing what

723
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 4: they're doing. This is no mistake, it's no accident. So

724
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,359
Speaker 4: don't hand me that bullsh because I'm not buying it,

725
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 4: and neither is anybody else. So you know, I'm not

726
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 4: really interested in like I said, And you know, Amy,

727
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,439
Speaker 4: I'm just you know, will I take your ass back

728
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 4: to the dock in a heartbeat. I will put you

729
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 4: on the dock with your luggage, get you to the

730
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 4: airport and say it's been a slice.

731
00:41:51,040 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: And Kevinly, you said earlier while we were discussing issues

732
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 1: in our past, that we've been fired from jobs before,

733
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: and you were telling the story about being fired from

734
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: a from a job before. Were you fired from this one?

735
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: From below deck? That they brought in another captain, But

736
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 1: what is the right way to put their transition from

737
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 1: you as captain to the new guy as captain?

738
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:36,240
Speaker 4: I guess that's subject to interpretation. Ah, I'm a pretty

739
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 4: cut and dried character, And to me, if you have

740
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:47,919
Speaker 4: a job one minute and the next minute you don't

741
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 4: have a job, and you haven't been given a verifiable reason, Uh,

742
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 4: there's only one conclusion I can draw.

743
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 1: Which is your fire. Well wait a minute. You made

744
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 1: it sound as if there's no There had to be

745
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 1: some conversation or explanation for Hey, we're going in a

746
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: new direction. We wanted to do something.

747
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, that that new direction. That's boy, that one's about

748
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 4: ben worn out, hasn't it.

749
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's all I had in the moment.

750
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 3: VI.

751
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 4: I think that's the same one everybody on TV that

752
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 4: loses their job has been told, is we're going in

753
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 4: a new direction.

754
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 2: We were a distraction. We were told we were a distraction.

755
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:36,880
Speaker 2: That was I.

756
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 4: Didn't think so I wasn't. I wasn't following because I

757
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 4: guess I don't know. Maybe I was naive. But the

758
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 4: situation between you two, to me, didn't even constitute a

759
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 4: speed bump.

760
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 2: We appreciate that.

761
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 4: No, it didn't as far as I was concerned, because

762
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:02,800
Speaker 4: you were still doing your jobs and doing them well. Amy.

763
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 4: I've always loved all of your work that you've done,

764
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 4: and I just like seems a little petty to me.

765
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 4: But what the hell do I know. I'm just a

766
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 4: boat captain. Well, that's where you have to be cautious

767
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 4: with me. If you if you really don't want the

768
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 4: the answer to that question, then I may not be

769
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:35,439
Speaker 4: the one you want to ask because it may be

770
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 4: more than you bargained for.

771
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 1: You know, that's a that's a good point, but go ahead,

772
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Ahead.

773
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 4: Well, I've always been of the belief that you do

774
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 4: the right thing, and the right thing is what's what's

775
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 4: right in your mind. You know what the right thing is,

776
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 4: and you know when you're not doing it. And if

777
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 4: I've done the right thing, I sleep really good at night.

778
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,399
Speaker 4: I feel pretty good because I've always strived to do

779
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 4: the right thing, period and I don't think you can

780
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 4: never go wrong by doing the right thing. Now. To

781
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 4: say that doing the right thing is always going to

782
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 4: be easy or comfortable, oh hell no, Sometimes it's going

783
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 4: to be one of the hardest things you've ever done.

784
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 4: Doesn't change the fact that it's the right thing to do.

785
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 1: But for us, though, Captain Lee, for like, I mean,

786
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:34,799
Speaker 1: I don't want to go overboard with it. But for

787
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: I know fans are fans of the show for different reasons.

788
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 1: We are fans because it really did cap'n Lee. Yeah,

789
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: she wasn't exaggerating what you said. You kind of were

790
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: a steady voice that carried us through and we streamed

791
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 1: and streamed and streamed when we were essentially on lockdown.

792
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: But to thank you. But the thing that there was

793
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 1: a breakup between you and the show, that there should

794
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 1: have been a sindoff that should have been. It feels

795
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 1: like dust By you were the show for so long

796
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: that why in listening to you now, it sounds like

797
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 1: you didn't even get a good reason or even a

798
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: conversation about why you weren't coming back. And certainly it

799
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 1: sounds like you did want to and were willing to

800
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 1: come back.

801
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,879
Speaker 4: I was willing to come back. I did have some

802
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 4: health issues which I worked through, and if somebody had

803
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 4: said to me, that's why this is why you're not

804
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 4: coming back, I could have accepted that. I don't. You know,

805
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 4: the truth is kind of like the right thing right.

806
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 4: It may not be easy to swallow, but it doesn't

807
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 4: change the fact that it's the truth. And before I

808
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 4: left the show in the middle of season ten to

809
00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 4: come back and try and recover conversation with one of

810
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 4: the producers who I admire very much and I've spent

811
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 4: a lot of time with him on a personal level,

812
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 4: and I told him, I said, I said, right now,

813
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 4: I said, I'm more of a liability than I am

814
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 4: an asset. So I think it's time for me to

815
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 4: step aside, go get this situation resolved as quickly as

816
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 4: I can, and then come back and finish the season out.

817
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 4: Because I had promised the crew. I gave my word

818
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:35,360
Speaker 4: that I would be back and I would finish the season.

819
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 4: And when I came back here, I went straight from

820
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 4: the plane to the hospital into physical therapy and I

821
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:50,359
Speaker 4: spent four or six, sometimes eight hours a day every

822
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:53,399
Speaker 4: day of the next two weeks, two and a half

823
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 4: weeks and physical therapy just to get to the point

824
00:47:57,080 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 4: where I could walk with a crutch. But if you

825
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 4: give your word, you keep it.

826
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:09,320
Speaker 3: And we watched you come back, and it was everybody

827
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 3: was so excited to see you come back.

828
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:13,320
Speaker 4: Away with a totally clear conscience.

829
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,959
Speaker 2: Yeah you did. And so where are you health wise now,

830
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:16,720
Speaker 2: Captain Lee.

831
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 4: I'm doing pretty good. I still have a little bit

832
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 4: of a limp. I'm not going to run the Boston

833
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 4: Marathon that year, But hell, I can't think of a

834
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 4: year I was ever going to run the Boston. But

835
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 4: I'm doing well and I'm still having a lot of fun.

836
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:41,240
Speaker 4: The wife and I are traveling a little bit, and

837
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:46,760
Speaker 4: I still go to the gym every day without unless

838
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 4: there's something really profitable or something I can't get out

839
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:56,919
Speaker 4: of happening. But yeah, I'm still a gym rat.

840
00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: And perfectly physically capable of running a chart of season

841
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 1: on a boat right now. Absolutely you want to.

842
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 4: I've I've had offers to go back to work, but

843
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 4: it's like anything else, you know. I interview the owners

844
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 4: as much as the owner interviews me, because I'm going

845
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 4: to have to spend a lot of time with this individual.

846
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:26,399
Speaker 4: And if he just wants somebody to sit there and go, yeah,

847
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 4: you're right, Yeah, you're right. I'm not your guy.

848
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 1: What about your wife though, Does she want you to

849
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 1: go back to work.

850
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 4: No, she wanted me to retire three four years ago.

851
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 2: How long have you all been married now?

852
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 4: April twelfth, we hung out year number forty nine.

853
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:51,760
Speaker 3: Congratulations, thank you. What's the secret to your marriage?

854
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 4: Well, I'm just trying to figure out what we're going

855
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:55,720
Speaker 4: to do with the next forty nine.

856
00:49:56,440 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: I love that. I love that we have to ask everybody.

857
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: Does anybody in a relationship, here's that somebody's been together

858
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 1: fifty years of a marriage, Like, what is it that

859
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 1: worked for you? Guys? What? So? What can you can

860
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 1: you give advice?

861
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 4: I I get up every day and I think, what

862
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 4: can I do to put a smile on her face?

863
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 4: What can I do to make her world better? And

864
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,919
Speaker 4: I will if there's something that I want to do

865
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 4: and something she wants to do. What she wants to

866
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 4: do comes first. Always.

867
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 1: Do you think she she wakes up and has those

868
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:36,439
Speaker 1: same thoughts about you?

869
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 4: Yes, I think they're reciprocal.

870
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: Now that's awesome, that's all.

871
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 4: And she she and I know she has I know

872
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 4: she's acquiesced a numerous god too many to count, where

873
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 4: she knew something really meant a lot to me, and

874
00:50:53,800 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 4: it was like to her, it was like, but she

875
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 4: would do it anyhow, And she would put herself out there,

876
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 4: and she would put herself sometimes in some uncomfortable situations,

877
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:15,279
Speaker 4: especially like if we were you know, doing something like

878
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 4: when they had a tribute to me when I left,

879
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 4: and she wasn't really comfortable, you know, being there but

880
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 4: she did it because she knew it meant a lot

881
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 4: to me. Yeah, And I think if you if you

882
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 4: spend your time trying to make your significant other happy,

883
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:45,399
Speaker 4: you're probably going to succeed as long as the two

884
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 4: of you do it together, because you're going to change.

885
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 4: There's things that that you like now that you're not

886
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 4: going to like ten years down the road. And it's

887
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,879
Speaker 4: a two way street. Amy. There's things you like now

888
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 4: that you're not going to lie and tjate. There's things

889
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 4: that you do that five ten years now you go

890
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 4: like the hell was I think? And but they're just

891
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 4: speed bumps. You get over them. But you do it together.

892
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:19,000
Speaker 2: That's sweet. I love that.

893
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 3: What did what did it do, if anything, to your

894
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,840
Speaker 3: marriage for you suddenly to become the stud of the Seas,

895
00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 3: to become Captain Lee on television? Did that change anything

896
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 3: in your marriage?

897
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:33,879
Speaker 4: Yeah? You have no idea how much mileage. My wife

898
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 4: has gotten out of that Stud of the Sea.

899
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: I like her. I like her.

900
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 4: She's going like, yes, study to see my ass.

901
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 2: But it didn't change anything.

902
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 4: It did, and there was there was a long time

903
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:56,840
Speaker 4: where I I had a lot of trouble in soby

904
00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 4: she just getting used to the celebrity aspect of it,

905
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:08,760
Speaker 4: because I've never considered myself a celebrity. I still don't.

906
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 4: I was always just a captain that got filmed doing

907
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:18,799
Speaker 4: his job the best that he could, period. And now

908
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 4: to have people you know, fawning over you, for lack

909
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 4: of a better word, you just they don't. Nobody gives

910
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 4: you a manual that says, okay, when this happens, turn

911
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 4: to page forty two and paragraph three and you'll find

912
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,399
Speaker 4: the answer for this situation. Teach you how to deal

913
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 4: with it. You're just kind of like tossed into it.

914
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 4: And one of the hardest things is to get used

915
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:57,840
Speaker 4: to your anonymity being gone forever. You can't you can't

916
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,399
Speaker 4: walk down the street, you can't go out to her.

917
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 4: And I mean I've tried it. Like I thought, when

918
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:08,399
Speaker 4: we've filmed in Thailand, which is one of my favorite spots,

919
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 4: I thought, surely I've got to be safe in Thailand.

920
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:17,959
Speaker 4: Day one, I'm walking down the dock and we're going

921
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:23,840
Speaker 4: for pickup interviews and I hear somebody's screaming Coppin Lee.

922
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 4: I'm going, right, no, it can't be happening. So we

923
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 4: had to stop talk take a bunch of pictures, and

924
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 4: I don't mind that. I really don't if I'm out

925
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 4: and about at a restaurant supermarket. That's why I hate

926
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 4: going to the supermarket, because it's never just run in,

927
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 4: grab that gallon and milk and get the hell out

928
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 4: of there. Forget that, it's a half hour, forty five minute,

929
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 4: maybe an hour deal.

930
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:57,359
Speaker 1: It's like a book signing, fawning of you. What are

931
00:54:57,400 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: some of the weirder things or even shocking things we

932
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,440
Speaker 1: hear about rock stars get the letters in the mail

933
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 1: and you know, undergarments and stuff like that. What is

934
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:08,720
Speaker 1: the weirdest kind of thing you've gotten.

935
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 4: I've received some pictures that you're probably never going to

936
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:19,440
Speaker 4: be able to unsee in your life. That's amazing, amazing,

937
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:22,400
Speaker 4: And you just go, really.

938
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:26,959
Speaker 1: It's flattering kind of though, kevinly, isn't it? No?

939
00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 4: Okay, sorry, it's just like I mean, there's some pictures

940
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 4: that I've gotten where you go like, y'all have been

941
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 4: better off keeping your clothes.

942
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 1: Definitely, that's great.

943
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 4: Well, TJ, come on, now, there's just some there's some

944
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:45,719
Speaker 4: things you just can't unsee.

945
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:49,319
Speaker 1: Well, it's still just to think that someone thinks the

946
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: stranger thinks enough of you, or thinks you're so adorable

947
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:56,440
Speaker 1: that it's worth taking the clothes off and sending a

948
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: stranger a picture. I mean, that's I don't know.

949
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 4: Think about what you just said.

950
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, as it was coming out, it sounded dumber and dumber.

951
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 3: Yes, Captain Lee, you mentioned just it kind of sparks

952
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 3: because I wanted to ask you this. You said Thailand

953
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 3: was one of your favorite places. You've been all over

954
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 3: the world. I think so many of us love traveling

955
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 3: and want to know what is Do you have a

956
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 3: favorite place you've ever been, you've ever sailed? Just I

957
00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 3: want to know from a man who's seen almost everything,

958
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 3: what's your favorite place.

959
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 4: I'm not sure I've been there yet, but of the

960
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:37,359
Speaker 4: places I've been, Tahiti probably ranks up there at the

961
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 4: top because it was so nice. Here we are, we're

962
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 4: on a one hundred and eighty five foot vote. It's

963
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:50,720
Speaker 4: just dropped dead gorgeous. And you know when you travel

964
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 4: by yacht throughout the you know, like go up to

965
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 4: the Hamptons, try and get a dog spot. It's not

966
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 4: going to happen in the high season. Go to France.

967
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 4: You're just another billionaire with a big boat, nobody really cares.

968
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:11,560
Speaker 4: But in Tahiti, you pull into an anchorage, there may

969
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 4: be one other boat there, and you've got the whole

970
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 4: anchorage to yourself. In fact, Jimmy Buffett wrote a song

971
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 4: about it. It was called One Particular Harbor. I don't know that,

972
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 4: and I have been to that harbor, and now I

973
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 4: understand why he wrote the song, because as soon as

974
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 4: you got inside that harbor and you were back in

975
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 4: the calm water, drop the hook, it was so serene,

976
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 4: so peaceful, and you you realize that you could spend

977
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 4: an endless amount of time there just thinking, contemplating, just

978
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 4: sharing it with someone.

979
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 1: Okay, that's nice. We got to go to Tahiti. Tell

980
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 1: me this guy and lead met Mediterranean Sailing yacht down

981
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 1: under Adventure. Which of those below deck spinoffs is your favorite?

982
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 4: Not going there?

983
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:09,479
Speaker 1: Oh?

984
00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 2: Or isn't?

985
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know you've seen them all. There's what I have?

986
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 1: Why not go there? I thought that was an easy question.

987
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 4: I I don't think it's it's right because I have

988
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 4: I have a certain way that I prefer doing things,

989
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:40,920
Speaker 4: and of course I think everybody else is wrong, but

990
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 4: I have a certain way that I use and I

991
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:47,959
Speaker 4: have certain things that I I try to stay away from,

992
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 4: and judging someone else's whether especially a peer of mine,

993
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 4: judging their performance or how they handle something is not

994
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 4: something that I'm willing to do in a public form.

995
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: Well to that point, well, I was just kind of

996
00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: not as a criticism of any other. But to your point,

997
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: it seemed like, I mean, Robot and I here have watched.

998
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 4: Well, it seems like if I don't, if I go

999
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 4: ahead and I say, okay below deck Shaling is my favorite.

1000
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 1: Then everybody else will be mad?

1001
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:20,160
Speaker 4: What's what's wrong with the other three?

1002
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: Yeah? There it is. No, Yeah, I'm just I'm.

1003
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 4: Proud of the fact that I was the first one

1004
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 4: and then we had four more spin offs.

1005
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, got there. He's been he's figuring this whole

1006
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 1: thing out years. But to your point there, it seemed

1007
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 1: like a lot of people. Again, Robot and I watched

1008
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: all of your seasons, and we saw when Captain Sandy

1009
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 1: came in so to read that people were trying to

1010
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 1: make like a beef between the two of you. They

1011
00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: seemed to want to cause some kind of controversy. We

1012
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 1: didn't see it necessarily watched it. So about your relationship

1013
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: with Camptain Sandy. It didn't seem like there was any

1014
00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 1: animosity between the two of you, but people.

1015
00:59:58,680 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 2: Wrote about it.

1016
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:05,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, we do things differently and there are certain things

1017
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 4: that we don't see eye to eye on. But I

1018
01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 4: think that's true in any profession. That's why you get

1019
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 4: a second opinion when you go to the doctor.

1020
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: Bottom line, how is your relationship with Captain Sandy?

1021
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 4: That's fine. Like I said, we don't see the eye

1022
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 4: to eye and a lot of things, but she has

1023
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 4: a job to do. I commend her for for, you know,

1024
01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 4: her achievements, because there's not a lot of female captains

1025
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 4: in the in the Meggiat world, and most people don't

1026
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 4: understand how rigorous and how difficult it is not only

1027
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 4: to achieve it, but to keep it right.

1028
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 2: So it sounds like there's professional respect. Is there a friendship? No,

1029
01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 2: and that's okay, but I'm fine with that.

1030
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 4: There's there's a lot of people I don't like, but

1031
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 4: I respect them.

1032
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 2: He's freaking out because you and I sound so much alike.

1033
01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 4: I don't. I've had people on board that I don't

1034
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:16,840
Speaker 4: like that have worked with me, and I don't have

1035
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 4: to like you. If you're doing a good job, and

1036
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 4: I like your performance. What you're doing. Your personal life

1037
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 4: is your business.

1038
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 1: Can we ask you about the new guy, Keptain Carrie? Carrie?

1039
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 1: All right? Can we ask you?

1040
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 4: I've met Carrie a time or two, We've had a

1041
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 4: discussion or two, and I really don't have an opinion

1042
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:43,440
Speaker 4: one way or the other as far as Carrie goes.

1043
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 1: After watching him on the show, after watching how he works,

1044
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 1: or just after your personal one on one interaction both.

1045
01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 4: You know, you're always going to look at at somebody

1046
01:01:59,880 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 4: that doing your job in a fashion where you go like,

1047
01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:09,960
Speaker 4: I wouldn't have done that that way. I had handle

1048
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 4: that differently.

1049
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:12,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it.

1050
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 4: Doesn't mean that somebody's wrong, It just means you're different.

1051
01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 2: So, Captain Lee, if you were going to set sail

1052
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 2: on a new season, who would be your dream team cast?

1053
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 3: Oh?

1054
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 4: That's question, And that's another area I won't all right,

1055
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 4: I will give you I would have Eddie and Kate.

1056
01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:40,440
Speaker 2: Okay and Eddie, Eddie and Kate. I get that, that's totally.

1057
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 4: There's so many that were so much fun and were

1058
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 4: such hard workers. Connie was one. Yeah, she was a

1059
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 4: great deckhand, fun to be around. Ah, love to play jokes,

1060
01:02:56,680 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 4: you know. I mean, who brings a sewing machine board

1061
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 4: a yacht.

1062
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 2: With them, Connie, Yeah.

1063
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 4: And you know what she did with it. She would

1064
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 4: watch the deck through how they put their shorts on

1065
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 4: in the morning because doors are open all over the place.

1066
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 4: Nobody there's no modesty whatsoever, So they're putting their shorts

1067
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 4: on in the morning. And then when she got the opportunity,

1068
01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 4: she would take the opposite leg and sow it shut

1069
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:32,520
Speaker 4: so they'd get the one leg in, then they go

1070
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 4: to put the other one in and it wouldn't go through,

1071
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 4: and they'd fall on their rasps and she'd start laughing.

1072
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:42,320
Speaker 4: And then by the time they got that it's situation

1073
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 4: straightened around, they'd go to put their deck shoes in

1074
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 4: and find out there was stuff full of shaving cream.

1075
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 4: It's like.

1076
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 2: Keeping everybody home.

1077
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 4: There have been so many people on board that were just,

1078
01:03:55,560 --> 01:03:57,720
Speaker 4: you know, just really great to work with, a lot

1079
01:03:57,720 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 4: of fun and that I would love to work with

1080
01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 4: again given the opportunity. But I mean, way too many

1081
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,800
Speaker 4: to mention. And it's pretty rare that you had anybody

1082
01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 4: back for a second season. I think Eddie and Kate

1083
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:17,439
Speaker 4: were the only two outside of Frasier that actually made

1084
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:19,680
Speaker 4: the cut to come back for more than one season.

1085
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 1: Please please tell us we like Fraser? Is he good? People?

1086
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:29,400
Speaker 1: Because we really liked him. Surprisingly, he snuck up on

1087
01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 1: us and we're like, wow, we really like this guy.

1088
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 4: Yes he is.

1089
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 1: He's a real deal.

1090
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 4: Okay, good, He's very sincere. I used to die laughing

1091
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 4: when he'd start talking to himself.

1092
01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:42,920
Speaker 2: He's such a perfectionist.

1093
01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:45,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, he would come. He would come back from a

1094
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Speaker 4: conversation with somebody that would just like jerk his chain

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Speaker 4: and he would be talking to himself under his breath.

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Speaker 2: We get that.

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Speaker 4: I and I and I keep going crazier. You're on

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Speaker 4: a hot mic.

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Speaker 1: So kem leeh Is there any chance or what are

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Speaker 1: the chances we will see you on TV at the

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Speaker 1: helm of a boat on Bravo or wherever it may be,

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Speaker 1: or back on below deck where we would like to

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Speaker 1: see you. But is there is that in the car.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how much chance there is that I'll

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Speaker 4: be back on TV at the helm of a boat,

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Speaker 4: but I think I can feel pretty safe in saying

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Speaker 4: that there is a distinct chance that I will be

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Speaker 4: back on TV in the not too distant future.

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Speaker 2: That's very exciting, and that's.

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Speaker 4: About as much as I'm without really getting my hands slapped.

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Speaker 2: Well, we can't wait.

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Speaker 4: That I can say about it there.

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Speaker 2: It's not the same without you, So I know you've

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Speaker 2: thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: You're very kind from.

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Speaker 3: So many people, but you are one of the main

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Speaker 3: reasons why we kept watching. So thank you for helping

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Speaker 3: us us truly get through last year with some levity

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Speaker 3: and some lessons and some wanderlust because we actually made

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Speaker 3: a vacation around one of the destinations. So thank you

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Speaker 3: for all that you have done, and just thank you

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Speaker 3: for being yourself. Just to see somebody in this world

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Speaker 3: of reality TV actually be real is awesome and you

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Speaker 3: embody that.

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Speaker 2: So thank you, Captain Lee.

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Speaker 4: It's my pleasure and thank you. I can't tell you

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Speaker 4: what it means to be on your show. I'm honored

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Speaker 4: and it's been very enjoyable. And I can't say that

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Speaker 4: about a lot of podcasts. I can't say that about

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Speaker 4: a lot of podcasts and appearances that I've made over

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Speaker 4: the years that I actually enjoyed it and had a

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Speaker 4: good time coming from you. This is definitely one of them.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Thank you so much. Kaviie we'll see on

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Speaker 1: the seas, brother, all.

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Speaker 4: Right, catch it. Everybody on the flip side by bye

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Speaker 4: bye bye