WEBVTT - Ep. 40 "Games People Play" feat KendallKyndall 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:07.080 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:12.720 talks back and we back? What's up, y'all, it's a 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:15.320 new episode that we talk back. It's your girl, a 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:20.000 j A, it's me's tampam. I guess what, y'all never 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:27.479 guess this. I fucking love y'all every week? Oh girl, 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:31.840 how was your weekend? Girl? I'm not drinking consomme goes 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:35.600 no more. I woke up on my living room floor 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:39.120 naked with a broken fingernail and a busted lip. Did 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:41.920 you go to sleep by yourself the fun? Yeah? I did. 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:47.480 I think I was there here by myself. I'm pretty 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:49.760 sure lets somebody came in here, candy man, it might 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:56.640 have been a hag. Don't say that you believe in 0:00:56.680 --> 0:01:00.400 that which crap. Sh that's not witch crap. You believe 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.320 in spirits, don't y'all go to church, y'all be catching 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:06.440 the Holy Spirit and ship y'all believing spirits? Though I confused. 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:09.000 I ain't never caught no Holy Spirit. I don't know 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:12.160 what did you do this weekend? Look? I hung out 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:15.440 with my dad a little bit, you know, dad or 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:24.360 your dad, my dad, my actual daddy? Yea, Um, you 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:27.360 know I hung up with the old man. You know, 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:30.400 if you don't see your parents, how often you see 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:33.959 your parents? Your dad? I see my dad about two 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:38.360 or three times a year. That's not enough, right, No? Yeah, 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:41.199 I need to see my dad more, That's all I'm saying. 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:44.560 Though he's he lives in Chicago. I saw him more 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:47.360 pre COVID, but since COVID I have not been able 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:49.840 to see him. But we talk every single day. So 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:51.840 I don't even be talking to my daddy every day. 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:55.160 I'm a bad daughter. We got a group chat my mom, 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:57.360 my dad, and my sisters, and we said good morning 0:01:57.520 --> 0:02:00.320 every single morning, and we talked a little bit every 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:02.800 I don't even think my people that fucking internet savvy 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:05.760 or phone savvy to do a group anything. Ain't nobody 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:14.360 on text back? No? Um? Anyway? Did you see uh Chloe? No, Chloe? 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:20.240 Which Kardashian Courtney? Courtney is getting Courtney Kardashian is engaged 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:28.960 to Travis Barker. Congratulations to her. Yes, and yeah, his 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:33.120 ex wife is fucking taking a sabbatical from social media. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:36.239 The funk is wrong with you? What do you mean 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:39.840 her whole? She not? She newly married. Don't nobody want 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:42.959 to see their eggs move on until they're happy. That's 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:44.919 some bullshit. And that's why you know you'd be having 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:46.920 problems when Nigga's baby mama is a ship like that. 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:50.680 So this man can't be happy until you get a man. Yes, 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:55.520 that's some bullshit. The fuck you need to be miserable 0:02:55.560 --> 0:03:01.600 till I'm happy. That's some bullshit. That's reality though. So look, 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:04.480 I ain't dating nobody who baby MoMA, ain't married. Oh 0:03:04.560 --> 0:03:08.120 got a boyfriend, right, But that they've been backfired on 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:10.760 me too because I was dating somebody. They their baby 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:12.960 mama had a whole boyfriend. It was on cruise. They 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:14.799 was taking Disney Cruise and all kind of ship. And 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:18.519 then when that ended, I want my man back. This 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:21.560 that's my man. Now you better sit your motherfucking mass back. 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:31.720 But y'all with no kids, that's hard, man. Everybody our kids, 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:34.400 especially our age. Everybody's gonna have at least one kid, 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:39.000 except for all how many men out they don't have 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:43.320 any kids, Tam, there's a lot of men with no kids. Dick, 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:46.440 who got a good dick? They're shooting blank. It's like 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:50.840 I'm joking out. Baby daddy's be having a good duck. 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:53.640 I've met some men my age they don't have children yet. 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:56.480 They've been very careful about how they shoot off, how 0:03:56.520 --> 0:04:01.960 they they ain't shooting the club book. I think. I 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:04.120 think you're dick whack if you ain't had a woman pregnant. 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:07.720 How you know they ain't aboard all their babies like that. 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:09.360 Don't mean just because they ain't got no kids, don't 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:13.400 mean they ain't never made none. They might have had 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:15.560 an abortion when they were young. And let's not talk 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:19.320 about abortion. Lode Jesus Christ. Y'all got mad at us 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:24.040 last week and we're women the fun we can talk 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:27.679 about this. We just make light of things that are serious. 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:30.440 Like Dax Chappelle, He makes light of things that are 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:33.480 very serious. Because if you can't laugh at the serious ship, 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:36.640 what can you laugh at? You know? If I can't 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:44.640 make fun of abortion, what can I talk about? H 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:48.960 y'all go to hell with y'all sensitive ask. We got 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:52.920 our best friend on the show today, best friend, that's 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:56.240 my best friend. That's my best friend. What's up? You 0:04:56.440 --> 0:05:03.039 look good? You look black a little bit? If y'all 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:06.640 don't recognize that voice, you guys, that's kindle, kindle everybody's 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:10.279 best friend. Oh, we talk back. Thanks for pulling up 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:17.200 with us. Thanks. So my first question, describe Kendall Kendle 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:22.280 in three words? Who are you? Three? Oh? Okay, I 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:29.840 got you. Dope dope lit in amazing. I'm here for it. 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:34.680 So dope litting amazing from Flint, Michigan, right born and ray. 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:36.120 So you know I had to go there when I 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:39.640 saw you was from Flint. You went there? No, I 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:43.680 ain't never feel hell, ain't that wrong? Let me know 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:51.400 what I go to water. I had a question for you. 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:55.400 I'm gonna get a little deep here should go. That's 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:57.360 what I'm going. That's where I'm going. Heard what I said? 0:05:57.360 --> 0:06:02.880 I said past with the water crisis. What's your experience 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:07.080 with that? Like your family living in Flint with a 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:10.560 passing current water crisis? So I had some family there, 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:13.640 most of like my brothers and sisters. We do not 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:16.600 live there. We were in Detroit. Um as we left, 0:06:16.880 --> 0:06:20.360 we were in Detroit and then Houston. My mom was 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:23.279 in Houston. My dad is still there, but he's kind 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:26.480 of like on the cusp, so it really didn't affect 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:31.679 him as much. UM my grandparents they were down Detroit area. 0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:35.080 So like my immediate family. It was kind of like 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:38.880 we thank god we was going. Um, other than that, 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:42.080 I'm my other like my cousins and stuff that are 0:06:42.120 --> 0:06:46.640 still there. Um, they were affected, right, Um, I mean 0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:50.880 it was it was messed up because my thing was 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:53.640 how long has it been like that? Like? All right? 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:57.080 It was like, okay, it's just now coming out, but 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:59.040 how long has it been like that? Stuff where we 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:04.600 affected when we were there? Right? Um, but that might 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:07.200 be why y'all as crazy as you are because you're drinking. 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:18.560 I'm just missing. I'm just trying to make light of 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:21.840 like it's a traumatic thing and going on in Flint, 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:24.120 and I pray for the people there, but all right, 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:26.720 we're gonna move on from there. I don't know if 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:30.960 y'all heard about being Herbert. They have some, yeah, but 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:35.760 then they replaced him recently. Yeah, it's I watched one 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:38.800 of your your episodes of your your TV show You 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:43.120 Got Now on All Black Network. I watched episode one. 0:07:43.240 --> 0:07:49.520 I watched the one with NENI links leaks society. Yes, yes, yes, 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:52.200 social society is what I'm talking about right now. Yeah, 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:56.240 so now we're talking about Flint. Yes, we talked about Flint, Michigan. 0:07:57.720 --> 0:07:59.920 How do y'all feel about the current administration? Now we've 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:04.520 eight months in, everybody be lying. Let's first of all, 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:08.960 let's start here. Everybody okay, right, everybody lying because I'm 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:10.840 still trying to figure out when he canceling leads to 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:13.160 loans like he said he was gonna do. Is that 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:17.360 your that's your deal breaker? Like that's but look, I 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:20.720 was excited because I was like, what I got that? 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:30.400 E Um? How do I feel? You know, politics is 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:34.160 not my thing. I just pay attention because everybody be lying, everybody, 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:37.440 no matter if it's Republican or Democrat. I just be 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:40.319 sitting there, like, you know, we go hard for these people. 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:46.800 Get him in there, and I'll just be like, all right, right, 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:52.440 you're lying. Yeah. So for me, with election, it was 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:59.040 more so about uh over versus covert racism. So now 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:00.880 we've got people who are gonna pass some sh on 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:04.000 pen and paper to hinder the hinder black people as 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:07.280 opposed to somebody just being in your face saying fuck yall, niggas, 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:10.040 which way you prefer. That's really what it boiled down to. 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:15.680 So I noticed y'all talking about No, That's what I'm saying. 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:20.080 He's not at all. They already proved that with the 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:23.800 Asian Hit Bill. We're still waiting on in the tip bill, 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:26.880 in the tipid bill, how long we've been looking for? Like, well, 0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:30.719 come on, we got Granddad. We can't even fly the 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:34.760 flag period. I don't know. I only mentioned that because 0:09:34.800 --> 0:09:39.840 I see y'all talk about politics a lot on social society. 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:42.400 I am not in the politics. I will keep dealing 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:46.720 all that because it's start too much trouble, you know, 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:49.600 And I don't have time for that. Just I need 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:51.800 positive energy. I don't have time for that back and 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:55.840 forth because, let me tell you, in my household, nothing 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:59.440 but my mom, oh baby, I don't want to start 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:06.720 a real fight. Yeah, we don't even need to go there. Yeah, yeah, 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:09.439 we ain't gonna go there. We ain't gonna tell y'all 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:12.640 who she was going for. But let's keep going. Yeah, 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:16.280 let's move and I'm probably on your mama here. We're 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:22.360 gonna move on from that. Whatever's go, followers. So congratulations 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:26.640 season two games people play, congratulations to you today, right, 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:32.480 thank you? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah? So all right, which character 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:36.360 do you relate most too on the show outside of 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:47.360 yourself on the show, and why? Right? Exactly me? J 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:49.719 know what he talking about? What people think because MJ 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:51.760 is crazy. He don't know he's talking about. So nobody 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:53.880 want to listen to m J until she hit the 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:57.240 fan and he's like, but MJ said, keep your gass 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:02.320 out there out So MJ in a lot of ways, 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:04.480 but a lot of ways no, because there's some things 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:08.600 m do that I like, Okay, I'm I forgot I'm 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:12.440 a character, right, right, because that's what I'm gonna ask you. 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:15.920 Are you playing yourself? Yeah, you're not playing You're not 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:18.800 playing yourself. I'm not a little bit here and there. 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:23.120 You know, they always need to sprinkle on there. But 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:25.360 then again, I have to remember that that's not candle 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:28.600 and this is a character. And I sometimes get caught 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:31.079 up and be like, I'm not I mean, MJ is 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:36.600 gonna do that, right, would not say that ship right? 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:42.560 And then I'm like, oh, yeah, it's not me. So, um, 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:47.360 I noticed that you did clause as well. Yeah, how 0:11:47.480 --> 0:11:52.080 was that experience? That was a great experience. I'm laughing 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:54.920 because that was like the first thing so clause I 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:57.240 had like Oneline but it got cut out of there. 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:03.440 It was like you think, sh it's so funny today 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:07.120 I think I love you, nigger. You don't even know 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:12.800 how much I love you. When I watched it, I said, 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:17.120 ain't that. I was so excited, like watch me. So 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:20.360 they have me and they're doing this crowd up. But 0:12:20.920 --> 0:12:22.480 that was a great experience. I was there for what 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:26.040 making four or five days? Um, do you t treat 0:12:26.120 --> 0:12:29.320 you really well? You know? It was really nice. It 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:33.160 was good to be on set with um, Nissy, Nash, Karucci, 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:38.880 Jenny Uh, Shoot, y'all, all the ladies, Okay, I love 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:42.760 all of them. So Caruchi Caruchi is on on the 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:45.880 current show now too, right, James, That's funny because that's 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:48.080 what we met, was on clause because I recently went 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:50.360 there to do some social media stuff just to be 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:52.200 on set with them and kind of like talk to 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:55.520 them and blasted during their premiere week and I end 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:58.480 up connecting with Nisy And when I left, Nisy called 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:01.719 me was like, what's where are you at. I was like, 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:05.680 I'm in Atlanta. I gotta lay over and I'm running 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:07.199 and she was like, call me as soon as you 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:10.920 land betray. I said, okay, yeah, the plane was landed. 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:12.800 We wasn't even close to the ground, and my phone 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:14.959 was right instead, and you see now, I said, what 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:22.280 the hell? I'm like hello, I'm like, no, we literally man, 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:24.560 I'm like, we haven't even touched the ground. She's like, 0:13:24.600 --> 0:13:27.480 I'll call me as soon as you get home. Finally, 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:30.840 I get to my car, I'm driving, I'm half way home. 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:33.360 She's like, I need you to do something. She's like, 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:36.240 it's a row, it's a DJ, it's turned up, it's 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:38.560 at the weird and it's the all white party. It's wedding. 0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:43.319 You need to self tape. It's a self tape. I 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:45.120 don't know nothing about this because you know, I was 0:13:45.200 --> 0:13:48.320 like the job. So I'm like and she was like, 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:51.280 callingly get home. So her carter she showed me how 0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:54.200 to do when she was like play DJ, I got 0:13:54.280 --> 0:13:56.800 the keys, she was like, dude, all that played. She 0:13:56.920 --> 0:13:58.640 was like, turning in and sent it to me so 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:01.360 I can see it too. I did, y'all. A couple 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:03.719 of days later, down at work, I'm like, what's calling me? 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.120 As a fun It's like, hey, this is so so 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:10.080 you go through a roll of DJ. How I'm about 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:11.320 to go in here and tell my boss. I gotta 0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:15.560 be god. I was ready because if she would have 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:19.040 said now out of like girl on this laptopic on 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:24.160 your cell phone, I'm a time. So I did. That's 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:27.720 how I really got close with all of them, especially 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:31.840 Needs and Kuru the boom here We're going years later 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:34.840 were five years later we're back again. Yeah, man, So 0:14:34.840 --> 0:14:38.560 how'd you end up on Games Fool Play? Robbie read? 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:43.520 So Robbie Ree saw me at the bto Wars twenties 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:46.040 seventeen and I was like, yeah, I'm moving here and 0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:48.880 I remembered her but didn't remember, so she hit me 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:51.600 when I got there, and she kept invite me to 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:53.720 these indie nights. So it's like I need to go 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:56.440 to this. I need to because this is her networking, 0:14:57.200 --> 0:14:59.680 hanging out with her. And then she was calling me 0:14:59.800 --> 0:15:02.680 for auditions and I wasn't getting and she was like 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:04.680 getting glass and I was like okay. So in a 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:06.360 year I was like, I want to book something. I 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:09.200 got a class, got a coach. A year later she 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:11.360 hit me about another audience. She didn't get that. One 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:15.440 month later Games People Play and I actually read for 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:20.560 m J and Jackie's part Kareem, And Uh, what's funny 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:23.160 is I don't think Robbie thought that I was give 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:29.320 what needed to be gained, what she needed, what she 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:31.640 needed to see for Kareem, and she was like, oh 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:33.880 because it was like m J. Okay, he did it. 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:36.600 Okay cool. She's like, I played this part, played this way. 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:39.400 I did it. She's like okay, She's like, take a minute, 0:15:39.400 --> 0:15:40.960 go get you some ware to come back black Kareem. 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:48.840 I played Karee and she's like, oh when I end 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:53.360 up looking MJ, which it's fine, um, but Robbie, it 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:55.080 was definitely Robbie. She had her eye on me. She 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:58.280 when she sees something, she knows she see it, and 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:01.120 when she sees it, she's not give up. And I 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:03.760 booked it. I didn't know. I think I auditioned for 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:06.040 it in September and then she hit me in like 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:09.760 you no remember, right before Thanksgiving going home for Thanksgiving 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:11.680 and she hit me and told me I booked a row. 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:15.960 I was like, oh, so you said that you had 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:18.240 like a lot of nose before you had the yeses. 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:21.640 How did you handle that? How did you like navigate 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:25.560 that and not be discouraged by the nose? Um Lit 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:32.360 mornings Linings. Lit mornings were for me and it just 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:37.960 happened to help everybody else help y'all me. I always 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:39.840 had notes, even the corporate it was like no, not 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:42.720 right now, And so I think I was just used 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:46.160 to it, but I wasn't letting it, you know, affect me, 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:47.960 and I wasn't going to give up because it was 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:50.920 like you saying no now. But okay, why why did 0:16:51.000 --> 0:16:53.480 you say now? Oh? You said no because of that? Okay, 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.120 let me tweet this. I'm not to work on that 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:58.440 and then come back and show you that it's gonna 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:01.800 be a yes. So let me ask you this, do 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:05.800 you like? Um? Alright? So with reality you get to 0:17:05.800 --> 0:17:09.320 be your natural self. You're quick, witty, funny, always quick 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:11.679 on your toes. With acting, you have to say what 0:17:11.760 --> 0:17:14.240 someone else has decided for you to say. Which one 0:17:14.280 --> 0:17:19.520 do you like more? Um? Both of them? It just 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:23.200 depends on the moment. With reality, when I'm doing that, 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:26.000 I'm in control, so I can redo, you know what 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:28.800 I mean. That's like I'll be like hurry up and post. 0:17:28.840 --> 0:17:31.280 I'm like, I'm edited and I said something that I like. 0:17:34.160 --> 0:17:36.480 But with that, you know, you might have wanted two 0:17:36.560 --> 0:17:39.200 tries to get it done because time is money. You 0:17:39.320 --> 0:17:42.879 gotta get through it. But you learn to pick it 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:45.600 up easy and the muscle memory come. And then I mean, 0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:48.560 I like acting because it's not me. It's I can 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:52.159 act like somebody else. Somebody got something to say, and 0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:56.520 don't bother me because that's not me. That was MJ talking. 0:17:57.480 --> 0:18:05.560 I didn't do that. Okay, hold that thought one second. 0:18:05.840 --> 0:18:12.560 Let's play some bills. You play games on the show. 0:18:12.720 --> 0:18:16.200 We want to play a game with you on our show. Okay, 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:20.880 you're ready, all right, so it's called this or that. Now, 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:23.479 if there's anything that you don't want to answer, just 0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:26.960 say passed. Okay, but we hope that you answer all 0:18:27.000 --> 0:18:29.200 of them, but pass it. If you don't, it ain't 0:18:29.200 --> 0:18:34.639 that bad. Relaxed don't starts to way. So monogamy or 0:18:34.720 --> 0:18:40.480 open relationship monogamy don't play with me. When relationship you've 0:18:40.480 --> 0:18:42.800 been you want to offer relationship, you open to get 0:18:42.840 --> 0:18:51.399 your ass. Don't look. But to us, open relationship is 0:18:51.440 --> 0:18:54.080 just the open line of communication. You should be able 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:58.399 to talk to your partner by every and anything, including baby, 0:18:58.440 --> 0:19:01.679 I might want somebody else. Okay, you could say that 0:19:02.320 --> 0:19:04.119 you might want somebody else, but you ain't gonna go 0:19:04.160 --> 0:19:05.880 get nobody else, because if you do, you can stay 0:19:05.920 --> 0:19:11.679 over there. We could keep that communication open before we 0:19:11.760 --> 0:19:14.879 turn this into a whole another turn it turn it? 0:19:14.960 --> 0:19:16.800 How did it trigger or you just trigger? Just now? 0:19:16.840 --> 0:19:18.080 I feel like he was a little bit. I just 0:19:18.119 --> 0:19:20.080 don't like when people do that because I think that 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:23.320 is very disrespectful. Like even if I see friends that 0:19:23.359 --> 0:19:26.560 do it, I just be like, really, why you always 0:19:26.640 --> 0:19:28.800 got different friends me and you want to come friends? 0:19:31.000 --> 0:19:35.120 Or I caught, but it wouldn't be that though you open. Yeah, 0:19:35.160 --> 0:19:37.920 because a lot of people in fake monogamous relationships. First 0:19:37.920 --> 0:19:41.760 of all, right, right, a wrong but fake monogamous relationship. 0:19:41.960 --> 0:19:44.360 So that's what you would prefer or you want you 0:19:44.400 --> 0:19:48.720 want just a solid, solid relationship here, Like you said, 0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:51.240 we can talk about it. It's not gonna happen. Okay, 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:53.639 we're not doing that. You can say what you feel, 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:55.280 but I'm gonna telling you this if you want to 0:19:55.320 --> 0:19:59.520 do it, you don't think that's kind of selfish? O, 0:20:04.320 --> 0:20:08.080 how do you expect? Listen, I don't want the cake 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:10.400 and eat it too, but how do you expect something? 0:20:10.720 --> 0:20:15.400 Sometimes relationships is just not about sex outside of the union. Right, 0:20:15.480 --> 0:20:18.160 It could be like this person has access to things 0:20:18.560 --> 0:20:20.720 my man don't have access to. I should be able 0:20:20.760 --> 0:20:27.960 to have a conversation with that person. So so yeah, okay, 0:20:27.960 --> 0:20:37.040 I'm having friend, but the friend could benefit both of us, right, 0:20:40.200 --> 0:20:46.600 don't don't get the sexual benefits. Yeah, don't get giggling 0:20:46.640 --> 0:20:50.840 in the face. Look, we really really we really wouldn't, 0:20:50.840 --> 0:20:53.960 but we wouldn't about this much. Okay. I'm with the 0:20:54.000 --> 0:20:56.480 ship because I just can't imagine the same person old 0:20:56.600 --> 0:21:03.960 and old and just damn you so you huh, I 0:21:04.040 --> 0:21:06.440 don't don't. We ain't practicing none of this ship, just 0:21:08.960 --> 0:21:11.439 like it's ideas. It's just like when you you know 0:21:11.520 --> 0:21:13.400 you'd be you'd be like, oh, I just want to relationship. 0:21:13.440 --> 0:21:15.600 I want somebody, like I just I'm out of a relationship, right, 0:21:15.840 --> 0:21:17.560 You just want somebody. But then when you get a 0:21:17.640 --> 0:21:21.080 motherfucker's like you got someplace else to be right now, 0:21:21.400 --> 0:21:27.080 like painted a football game, y'all to talk about artis 0:21:27.200 --> 0:21:30.880 like I'm like the open line. And then like practicing ship. 0:21:35.720 --> 0:21:39.200 I promised, I would, I promise I would. Hell no, no, 0:21:39.480 --> 0:21:43.080 come talking to me. You're probably right, I talk all 0:21:43.080 --> 0:21:50.840 that ship and I'd be like Jesus all right. Next question, 0:21:50.880 --> 0:21:53.840 in a movie, would you rather be the villain or 0:21:53.880 --> 0:22:00.600 the hero? Oh? So, as a kid, you always want 0:22:00.600 --> 0:22:02.560 to be the hero, but now I want to be 0:22:02.600 --> 0:22:05.640 the villain because I want to play the funk out 0:22:05.680 --> 0:22:08.639 that part. I'll play because easy to be a hero, 0:22:08.880 --> 0:22:10.919 you know what I mean. But being a villain, I'm 0:22:10.920 --> 0:22:13.040 gonna play the funk out that part, and because I 0:22:13.080 --> 0:22:15.560 want people to hate me when they watch it, to 0:22:15.720 --> 0:22:18.440 the point when they see you they're like, I can't stand. 0:22:20.359 --> 0:22:22.760 That means you did your job, job, thank you? So 0:22:22.880 --> 0:22:26.000 probably the villain. Yeah, I just think good people always 0:22:26.040 --> 0:22:27.600 want to be the villain in the movie because it's 0:22:27.760 --> 0:22:30.200 an alter ego from who they are in real life. Exactly, 0:22:32.280 --> 0:22:37.800 I could be both in real life. Play with it. 0:22:38.080 --> 0:22:39.800 You choose if you want to take your blow to 0:22:39.840 --> 0:22:44.919 the left. No, hold, Jim and I are here for real, alright, 0:22:45.200 --> 0:22:53.119 drink or smoke, drink drink the girl. Yeah, here be 0:22:53.200 --> 0:22:55.560 on that making all the good martiniz. I'll be writing 0:22:55.600 --> 0:22:59.720 them down, like wait a minute, let's see. I'm trying 0:22:59.720 --> 0:23:05.400 to take a saving them ship. Um. Would you rather 0:23:05.440 --> 0:23:12.640 be happy and poor? Are rich and sad? O? Kah oh, 0:23:13.400 --> 0:23:24.920 don't line now what's most important? Guess happiness? But yeah, 0:23:28.040 --> 0:23:32.840 I guess happiness. Be happy and poor? So you don't 0:23:32.840 --> 0:23:39.879 want to cry in the Maybe he looks stressed up. Oh, 0:23:41.400 --> 0:23:43.520 I don't know, because there's so many things that can 0:23:43.600 --> 0:23:47.520 happen with being rich and sad. Because you could be 0:23:47.680 --> 0:23:51.239 rich and sanding people. Mental health is is real. You 0:23:51.320 --> 0:23:53.840 might do some things that you ain't supposed to do it. 0:23:53.920 --> 0:23:56.520 You might not be here now most right, how might 0:23:56.560 --> 0:23:59.760 spill this be? I let me be happy. Yeah, that's 0:24:00.000 --> 0:24:04.480 that's what I'm saying. Look, you better than it will. 0:24:08.240 --> 0:24:15.879 It's just a game. I'm not manifesting that. Lord. Okay, 0:24:15.920 --> 0:24:21.520 next question vaccine or trust your own immunity? Here we go. 0:24:22.240 --> 0:24:26.560 We got doing it doing this because I will not 0:24:26.640 --> 0:24:29.879 go by. Hey. Look, first of all, they already changed 0:24:29.920 --> 0:24:33.720 the hippolawes so people can ask you now they have 0:24:33.880 --> 0:24:38.280 changed the definition to vaccination and vaccine, and they've changed 0:24:38.359 --> 0:24:44.160 hippolawe so people can legally ask you about your vaccination status. 0:24:44.480 --> 0:24:48.560 What do you think about that, Kendle, I think that's 0:24:48.600 --> 0:24:52.280 a bullshit, because you know, even at work, we had 0:24:52.359 --> 0:24:54.800 to be careful. You got to be careful with talking 0:24:54.840 --> 0:24:59.400 about medical you know, now you can ask me about 0:24:59.440 --> 0:25:05.600 the vaccine. M let's leave that alone, because we got 0:25:05.960 --> 0:25:09.560 no because everybody is going viral on social media for 0:25:09.600 --> 0:25:12.639 their opinion. That's why I went on, let's leave that alone. 0:25:12.720 --> 0:25:18.800 I'm gonna remained best friend. Okay, al right, next question, 0:25:19.080 --> 0:25:27.040 fucking or love making, and nobody got tied for no fucking. 0:25:27.520 --> 0:25:30.960 It's hottest fun. Let's little babe, Let's make this. Let's 0:25:30.960 --> 0:25:33.560 go on a roller a roller coaster ride. Let's make 0:25:33.640 --> 0:25:39.480 take clark in clark in. Okay, I'm here for that. 0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:41.560 You know. It's just it's a roll over the dice 0:25:41.600 --> 0:25:44.880 for me. It could be one of them a night. Huh. 0:25:45.040 --> 0:25:50.080 How much const me goes have I had? Listen, I stopped. 0:25:50.080 --> 0:25:52.480 I'm back to Don Julio. I'm back to Don Julio 0:25:52.560 --> 0:25:55.400 because as soon as too many people get on some ship, yes, 0:25:55.880 --> 0:26:00.800