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Speaker 2: Just let just your rubber and she's glue.

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Speaker 1: Yep, that's true. So Hi, this is a bit different

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Speaker 1: in terms of kinds of boasts. But this just happened

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Speaker 1: So I, twenty seven female, have been working at my

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Speaker 1: the way, this comes from Pesh twenty four on the

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Speaker 1: r slash Okay, storytime celebrate it. So my position is

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Speaker 1: I work in an office with one person, along with

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Speaker 1: all get along and text, et cetera. When I first started,

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Speaker 1: I had a coworker who had been here for about

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Speaker 1: not enjoy the job anymore. Fast forward two weeks into

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Speaker 1: me starting, my coworker quit and I had to pick

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Speaker 1: being new. That sucks double double double of work. I

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Speaker 1: and honestly it was rough. I live about an hour

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Speaker 1: we were able to hire someone new. Let's call her Leslie,

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Speaker 1: thirty two female. We got along from the jump since

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Speaker 1: we needed help for all the backlog. She wasn't able

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Speaker 1: to fly out to her corporate office for the training

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Speaker 1: which is another job tony jobs, which was fine.

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Speaker 2: Are you getting paid for this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I hope you're getting compensated for it, which was fine.

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Speaker 1: I had picked up on the job quickly doing it

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Speaker 1: he's getting paid for all my hard work. After Leslie

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Speaker 1: was fully trained, we got along well and conversated a

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Speaker 1: that just means my training was successful. I did a

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Speaker 1: great job, but it was constant. It was complaining about

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Speaker 1: sure everyone knew she was the one who resolved the issue,

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Speaker 2: I actually did a really good job. And hope he

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Speaker 2: didn't help at all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, little things like that. I didn't think too much

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Speaker 1: I decided to dye my hair. It's nearly fall and

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Speaker 1: I wanted a change.

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Speaker 2: Can I get that change?

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Speaker 1: It was a dark red. I got a lot of

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Speaker 4: That's kind of funny.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I want to do as good a job

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know. She claimed it was a mix up.

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Speaker 2: A mix up, you need a mix up your hair dying.

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Speaker 1: I busted it off and we moved on. So now

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Speaker 1: fast forward to yesterday. Despite getting weird vibes, I just

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Speaker 1: When a customer brings in goodie bags, it's for everyone

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Speaker 1: to share. Customer told sales rep that he brought some

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Speaker 2: Just a little snitch.

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Speaker 1: Little snitch that feels very uh passive aggressive.

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Speaker 2: It's very like PS just by the way.

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Speaker 1: By the way, because you didn't know. Yeah you might

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Speaker 1: but I just wanted to let you now to inform you.

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Speaker 1: I responded, stating that I never received anything from that customer,

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Speaker 1: and if I had, of course I would have shared.

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Speaker 1: She then responded stating that I was the one who

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Speaker 1: she's spreading live.

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Speaker 2: She's trying to start a mob.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's trying to spread some gossip. I explained

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Speaker 1: She responded with I'm just warning you. That's what I

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Speaker 1: now on and not you anymore. Dude. She's playing power boosts.

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Speaker 1: This is like Machiavellian level.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's going up to the boss and she's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I think Opee took the thing that was supposed to

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Speaker 1: To be honest. Yeah, you're trying to be honest, which

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Speaker 2: Are you being caught in your lies?

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Speaker 1: Leslie, the liar, liar les lies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Kristen, whoa, that's another thirty minutes.

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Speaker 1: That's another thirty minutes.

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Speaker 2: For the twenty memberships. And that was that like time. Wow,

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Speaker 2: I didn't even notice we were at like we had

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Speaker 1: A minute last. Christin Foil had making sure continuous. We

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Speaker 1: love to see it, but we have more to this story. Kristin.

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Speaker 1: Some some hats in the chattoil hats put some hats.

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Speaker 2: I dare you that chats?

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Speaker 1: But uh. She started stuttering and said she would not

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Speaker 2: What are you an investigative journalist? Give us your sources?

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Speaker 1: I told her, I will find out and get to

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Speaker 1: the bottom of it and clear my.

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Speaker 2: Name, now, apiece in this to give them journalists, I.

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Speaker 1: Knew there was only one other person that could be

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Speaker 2: That's when you take your receipts and you'd bring them

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Speaker 1: No one no what I was talking about, because none

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Speaker 1: and she said she wasn't sure, and that is all

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Speaker 1: that happened. And for whatever reason, Leslie decided to create

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Speaker 2: Oh, he needs to send those texts. You've got a

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Speaker 2: paper trail, you got a paper you're taken to your boss.

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Speaker 1: I had a small meeting with management and they were

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Speaker 1: It's it's not minis school. This person is lying actively

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Speaker 1: to basically to cause you to his credit ability, to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there could be a time where someone doesn't believe you,

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Speaker 1: And you got to advocate for yourself in these situations.

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Speaker 1: And I know it seems minischool, but it's honestly the

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Speaker 1: principle of the issue, the principle of this. She accused

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Speaker 1: go live every weekday at three pm PST just tapper profiles.

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Speaker 2: Literally top it.

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Speaker 1: Just tap, just freaking freaking get into here.

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Speaker 4: She just tap it.

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Speaker 2: Please do one of these things.

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Speaker 1: She did apologize in front of our regional manager by saying, sorry,

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Speaker 1: you took it that way. I was just telling you

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Speaker 1: And I came back and said, no one told you that,

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Speaker 1: though no one knows what you're talking about. And now

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Speaker 1: I have no interest in being friends and plan to

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Speaker 1: be civil. But that's it. She has tried to converse

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Speaker 1: with me today, but I have no interest. So tell me,

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Speaker 1: is this attempted sabotage or is she just a compulsive liar?

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Speaker 2: I think it's both. I think she's a compulsive liar

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Speaker 2: and she's sabotaging.

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Speaker 1: I think she's whack as heck, she's whack. I think

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Speaker 1: she's wack.

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Speaker 2: You need to you need to double sabotage. You need

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Speaker 2: to dual switch through. No start being the sabotage.

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Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't sabotage, but I definitely wouldn't. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: because then that could backfire on you, for sure.

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Speaker 2: For sure. But when I say sabotage, I mean you

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Speaker 2: should take all of this information that you have to

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Speaker 2: your ross.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think you should be truthful. That's not sabotage,

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Speaker 1: Take my money, Katie. How things work is basically, if

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Speaker 1: Lady Less, thanks for the ten bucker rooneys. First time alive,

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Speaker 2: That's so sweet.

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Speaker 1: And but Betty blasphemy. That's a sick name. Thanks to

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Speaker 4: Let me check, lex, I know, lex Oh, we.

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Speaker 1: Got in Sashia ten bucks on the dono link, which

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Speaker 1: If you're going to play office politics, make sure you

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Speaker 1: Nope, that's uh Worm Princess fifteen bucks. We already said that,

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Speaker 1: Know who always comes through. He has facial hair more

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Speaker 1: I have a girlfriend, cry.

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Speaker 3: I have any names, and all of them fit.

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Speaker 4: What's up everybody who we're on Sofia right now? Will

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Speaker 4: you get set up? Here?

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Speaker 2: Me apparently like sent Riley a screenshot of the dono.

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Speaker 4: Where do I say you got another dunno?

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, thank you for.

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Speaker 2: The five bucks?

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Speaker 2: Hello, hey baby, yes, little baby girl and baby girl?

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Speaker 3: What's up everybody? Thanks for the oranges in the chat.

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Speaker 3: Hey yo, hey yo. A lot of jokes, a lot

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Speaker 4: All right, I'm setting up for the next Megga right now.

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Speaker 2: We are getting beautiful, beautiful.

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Speaker 3: You got that?

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Speaker 2: I got it?

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Speaker 4: Who'll be reading first?

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Speaker 2: Tis?

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Speaker 4: I tis you to use? Uh, You're good to go?

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Speaker 4: Anybody else, John, anything else? Any words of wisdom today?

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Speaker 3: I have no wisdom today, only idiocracy?

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Speaker 2: Whoa idiocracy? What a word?

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Speaker 4: Come on, let's get to the story though the story.

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Speaker 2: My cousin is furious at me for permanently destroying her

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Speaker 3: Can you just steal her clothes and then make a

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Speaker 3: It all makes sense.

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Speaker 3: Or long distance of time, long distance of time.

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Speaker 2: Regardless, Megan has offered to give me her wedding dress,

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Speaker 2: she's letting off. I mean, maybe care a lot one

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Speaker 4: I do not know.

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Speaker 3: We just got a special ring from somebody.

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Speaker 2: Lex, thank you for the five bucks. Hope this one

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Speaker 2: does show up, love y'all. It did, it did, thank you,

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Speaker 4: I figured it out. It's something you guys, Okay.

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Speaker 2: One thing about me, however, is that I'm a very

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Speaker 3: You know anything, won't agree.

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming, Megan Magon, I don't know, like there is more?

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Speaker 2: Ope, sold Gooven, given to Op because there was was

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because she said something like oh oh, I think

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I would. I think I would double

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Speaker 5: I think it's one of those things where it's like,

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Speaker 2: Yes, you know, I think I think personally, I would

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Speaker 2: though she never gave me the impression that she wanted to.

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00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:52,359
Speaker 2: Megan has already stated before that she has no interest

441
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 2: in getting remarried. Ever, I asked what she wanted me

442
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,720
Speaker 2: to do, and she snapped at me that it was

443
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:01,359
Speaker 2: too late. She hung up and has apparently been telling

444
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,399
Speaker 2: people I saluted out her wedding dress.

445
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,199
Speaker 3: Dude, Okay, that's messed up.

446
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,160
Speaker 2: Come and made sure I would embarrass her by outdoing

447
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 2: the original dress. I don't know what to do. The

448
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,200
Speaker 2: wedding is way too close to consider making myself a dress,

449
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 2: and I have my heart set on something, having something

450
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 2: unique and personal for my wedding. Her mother called both

451
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,240
Speaker 2: me and my mom, saying I should have asked that

452
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,120
Speaker 2: I am a spoiled brat for taking advantage of Megan's

453
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 2: kindness and generosity. My parents and a few family members

454
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 2: who I've told think I should uninvite Megan and just

455
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 2: wear the dress, But my aunt is saying I would

456
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 2: break Megan's heart unless I find something else. Should I

457
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 2: give up on my dress and see what else there

458
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:46,439
Speaker 2: is To provide some context and answer some questions, Megan

459
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 2: and I are not super close from both the age

460
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 2: gap and different lifestyles. Megan is the third cousin out

461
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 2: of twenty one, I am the ninth. Megan, being the

462
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 2: first girl child in the family, grew up with a

463
00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 2: lot of expectations and pressure, and ended up and a

464
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:05,199
Speaker 2: very religious and controlling husband. After her divorce, Megan went

465
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,479
Speaker 2: through what can best be described as a breakthrough and

466
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 2: reevaluation of her life and ambitions. Since then, she completely

467
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 2: changed her job, appearance and opinions. She is no longer

468
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 2: an active member and family events, and only takes part

469
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 2: in important ones like birthdays, funerals, and weddings. Despite this,

470
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,239
Speaker 2: we have never had any problems between us, and our

471
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:33,360
Speaker 2: interactions have always been civil and kind. Secondly, the alterations

472
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 2: I did were only limited to the skirt and bodice.

473
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 2: The saluted out comment apparently stemmed from my removal of

474
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 2: the sleeves, turning it into a sleeveless top, and raising

475
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:50,400
Speaker 2: the hem to a tea length. My ankles are exposed now,

476
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 2: which someone had pointed out to me that Megan's anger

477
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 2: was a product of her own self esteem, as she

478
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 2: had naturally grown and gained weight since then, which I

479
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 2: could definitely see even though she is still beautiful. And Thirdly,

480
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 2: I am definitely planning on regular updates if any more

481
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 2: incidents happen up to the wedding in a full breakdown

482
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,439
Speaker 2: with photos after the ceremony. Thank you everyone for the

483
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 2: kind messages. You've all made me feel so much better

484
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: and I appreciate you taking the time to comment. And

485
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: there is an updates. But let's answer this question of

486
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 2: is op the ahole?

487
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 5: So? I think I think that Megan is the a hole?

488
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:33,719
Speaker 5: For Megan, you gave it away. You can't saying all

489
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 5: these horrible things.

490
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 3: Get out of here. Megan.

491
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 5: Is Opie the a hole? I think maybe just just

492
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 5: a little bit, just a little bit, because again, like

493
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 5: and it would be even more different too if she had,

494
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 5: you know, paid her for it. Yes, the fact that

495
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 5: it was like given, okay, given that is like a

496
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 5: very very generous thing. And it's like, again I could

497
00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,040
Speaker 5: understand someone like seeing it change like a man. I

498
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 5: thought I was like giving you this memory, and now

499
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 5: it kind of changes. I can kind of see that.

500
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 5: So a little bit the a hole. But I have

501
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 5: a I have a counter question for you. I have

502
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:13,439
Speaker 5: a dare I say real questions for you?

503
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 2: So you hit me?

504
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:20,199
Speaker 3: I think that Opie should and it is okay to

505
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 3: uninvite Meghan from the wedding. What are your thoughts?

506
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 2: I agree, Yeah, mean I get her out of here.

507
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 2: I think that again going back to I think Op

508
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 2: was a little bit the a hole, but did not

509
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 2: deserve this level of.

510
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 1: Ir ex crime.

511
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 2: Did not no, no, no no. And I think that

512
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:40,120
Speaker 2: if Megan is going to continuously harass you and call

513
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 2: you names for something that cannot be changed anymore, Yeah,

514
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,199
Speaker 2: there's just no point in inviting her to this.

515
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 3: It's gonna, it's gonna, it's gonna ruin the day.

516
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, and like I think, you know, at the end

517
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 5: of the day, again, it would have been better to

518
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 5: definitely tell her, but like she's just crashing out. As

519
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 5: the kids say, it's just too much, and you don't

520
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 5: deserve to have to deal with that because she did

521
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 5: ultimately give it to you.

522
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 2: She gave it to you. Yeah, Okay, but there is

523
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:10,959
Speaker 2: an update.

524
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 4: It's funny. It's funny because John wasn't here, But there's

525
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 4: another Meghan story earlier John and yesterday. Yeah, there's just

526
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 4: too much Meghan to world, especially from want no offense

527
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 4: to everyone who's named Megan in the chat.

528
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 2: Just you gotta Megan him Oh right, Yeah, Yeah, it.

529
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 4: Makes sense, So that's why it's just like really funny.

530
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 2: No, a lot of names happening today.

531
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 4: A lot of Megan's is happening today.

532
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 2: But there is an update. As of yesterday. I found

533
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 2: out from my fiance that Megan had reached out to

534
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 2: him with false concern about how my home style dress

535
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 2: gave the wrong idea about our wedding and have the

536
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 2: audacity to ask him, the man I've been in love

537
00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 2: with for nearly three years, if he was sure he

538
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,239
Speaker 2: wanted to marry a woman who wouldn't put in the

539
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 2: effort of getting a proper dress.

540
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 3: You gave it to her.

541
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 2: You literally gave insult yourself, insulting your own dress.

542
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 3: Yeah.

543
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:16,360
Speaker 2: Crazy. She says this as if I hadn't spent weeks

544
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 2: sowing the dress to make sure it was perfect. Thank goodness,

545
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 2: My fiance wasn't upset by your attitude and responded that

546
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 2: I had put way more effort into the dress then

547
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 2: she put into her marriage, and that shut her up

548
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 2: real fast. Dang props to fiance, you like him him.

549
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 2: She turned around and apparently has been crying to my

550
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 2: elderly grandparents, her mother, some of the other cousins et cetera.

551
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 2: That I'm a trashy or with a cheap shotgun wedding.

552
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 2: I'm not even pregnant lmao with a fiance who was

553
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,439
Speaker 2: only interested in our family's money.

554
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 3: Megan, this one thing causes you to go this crazy.

555
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 2: If you were this attached to the dress, you shouldn't

556
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 2: have given it away.

557
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 5: Shouldn't have given it And uh, I am wondering if

558
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 5: if Opie knows Megan this well, it's like, should you

559
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 5: have just like not taken it?

560
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, seems like she wasn't super close with Megan.

561
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 3: M so maybe she didn't well know her.

562
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,199
Speaker 2: Well. Yeah, my fiance is a mechanic, and regardless of

563
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 2: the fact that he is doing really well and makes

564
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 2: a pretty good salary, she still seems to think he's

565
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 2: beneath her. Some of my older cousins, the one I

566
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 2: don't talk to as much, have actually expressed concern about

567
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 2: whether or not they want to go to the ceremony

568
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 2: at all. What Megan's freaking spreading lies? Again? Stop stop

569
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 2: my aunt for spreading misinformation, which I managed to assure

570
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 2: them wasn't true.

571
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: Good.

572
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 2: After all of this, I reached out to Megan saying

573
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 2: that because of all her comments and insults, she's no

574
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 2: longer invited to the wedding.

575
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 3: Good, there we go.

576
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 2: I admitted that I was sorry for the situation, but

577
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 2: I can't keep pardoning her rude comments on what is

578
00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 2: supposed to be a happy time in my life. That

579
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 2: she wouldn't show her face at my pathetic excuse for

580
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 2: a wedding, and that she can't wait to see how

581
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 2: I act when he leaves me.

582
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 1: Damn.

583
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 5: I would be like, well, I'm just not going to

584
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 5: see your pathetic issues for her face, damn.

585
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: And then you get everyone around you to go, oh.

586
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 3: Ben, gotcha.

587
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 2: Overall, I'm pretty confident that Megan and I's relationship might

588
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 2: not recover. Do we wanted to though?

589
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 1: Really?

590
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 2: But at this point I don't regret anything. Here's hoping

591
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 2: everything else cools down in the next couple of weeks

592
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 2: and I can go into our day with no negativity

593
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 2: at all. Am I the a hole for altering my

594
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 2: cousin's hand me down dress after she told me I

595
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 2: could have it? There's another update, another update?

596
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 3: Man, oh man, so many updates. I don't I don't

597
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 3: even know what to do.

598
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 2: With my man o man, Yeah, I think I'm still

599
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 2: at the same I'm still in the same boat here.

600
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 5: I'm more I have sailed even further in the same

601
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 5: boat in the middle of the ocean, saying Megan, don't

602
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 5: invite her so bad. Also the ant to right, mom, Yeah,

603
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 5: kick everyone out.

604
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 2: Who's who's supporting Megan?

605
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 3: Do you here?

606
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 5: Here's a question, do you this is like music to

607
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 5: my ears? Do you you know the people that were

608
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 5: like starting to be like, oh, I don't know if

609
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 5: I want to go there, being you know, poisoned by

610
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 5: the d do you go to them?

611
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 3: Try to like set the story straight to you.

612
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 2: I think he was doing that. I think that's why

613
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 2: there's gonna come now, because he was like, that's not

614
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 2: true at all. Right, yeah, I think you set the

615
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 2: story straight.

616
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, And that's probably what you would do in the

617
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 5: same shoes, like all right, let.

618
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 2: Me if I were an op's wedding heels, glass slippers.

619
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 2: But there is an update two months later.

620
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 1: Oh my gor and eight days ago, Oh my door.

621
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 4: Love the recent stuff you too, me too?

622
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 2: Hello everyone, Hi. I made a post on this subreddit

623
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 2: a few months ago about my eighteen female wedding dress

624
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 2: and all the surrounding drama that came from it. I

625
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 2: had been given my forty female cousin's old wedding dress

626
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 2: from a failed marriage and altered it to better fit

627
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 2: the needs of my ceremony and style. This she did

628
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 2: not appreciate the changes and became very rude and hurtful.

629
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 2: My wedding was six days ago and I was asked

630
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 2: to update, and I'm happy to share how it all

631
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 2: went down.

632
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:25,719
Speaker 3: Please we love it.

633
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,719
Speaker 2: I'm still so happy how my dress turned out, and

634
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 2: was very glad to have shortened the train, as there

635
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 2: had been rain the night before and morning dew on

636
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 2: the grass. The shorter headline save me a lot of

637
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 2: mess and damage in the long run. Plus, I felt

638
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 2: beautiful and it made such a special day all the

639
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 2: more amazing. I had told my cousin, Megan that her

640
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 2: behavior was rude and unnecessary, and that I did not

641
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 2: want her bringing her unpleasantness to my day. However, her mother,

642
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 2: who had been one of her primary supporters, had apologized

643
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 2: in order to go to the ceremony. Apologize is in

644
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 2: quotes though.

645
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 5: So yeah, did she say it just to because now

646
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 5: OPI was like telling the truth. Now everyone's getting back

647
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 5: on opyside. Now she's like, oh, if I don't go,

648
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 5: if I don't.

649
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 3: Apologize now ever, the bad guy, I think that's all.

650
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 3: But Megan's just letting it all burn. She just care

651
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 3: doesn't care.

652
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 2: So while Megan herself was not actually at the wedding,

653
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 2: I had not completely excluded the issue. Megan's mother is

654
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 2: seventy one female. My aunt is your basic senior white

655
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,719
Speaker 2: woman and usually expresses her opinions in a loud and

656
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 2: unspoken manner, so I was uneasy in the beginning. When

657
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 2: she arrived. She didn't make a fuss throughout the ceremony, though,

658
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 2: and everything went smoothly. I sneezed while walking down the aisle,

659
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 2: but that wasn't anyone's fault in particular. I bet it

660
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 2: was Megan's dress.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, I'm allergic to Megan's nonsense. Yeah, talk about

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Speaker 3: that type that dog. Bless me.

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Speaker 2: The reception was at an outdoor garden where we had

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Speaker 2: set up under a gazebo with temporary floor for tables

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Speaker 2: and eventual dancing with a slightly elevated platform for the

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Speaker 2: big table in speeches sounds lovely. This is where my

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Speaker 2: aunt decided to make sure everyone knew about her daughter's dress.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, dang, it's here we go, planned this, Here

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Speaker 3: we go.

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Speaker 2: After a few speeches following my friend's champagne rendition of

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Speaker 2: that time we went camping and the tent slid down

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Speaker 2: a hill, she made her way up to the podium.

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Speaker 3: Do we tackle on?

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Speaker 2: We tackled, We tackled a seventy one year old one.

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Speaker 3: We gotta go. We got to sack them. Full quarterbacks gone.

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Speaker 2: She started her speech in the usual unassuming way, congratulating

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Speaker 2: us and remarking on how far we've come as people. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 2: she decided to tie this statement into a comment of

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Speaker 2: you've even made your own dress? I mean not really.

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Speaker 2: Actually it was Megan's first.

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Speaker 5: Okay, cool, cool story, Broway, what do you want?

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Speaker 2: She then went on into how she remembered shopping for

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Speaker 2: the dress with Megan for her own wedding, and going

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Speaker 2: on and on about how it was perfect and made

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Speaker 2: for her. At this point in the speech, I was

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Speaker 2: just staring at her in confusion, while my husband and

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Speaker 2: everyone else just sat there awkwardly waiting for her to

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Speaker 2: be done. And you don't have to wait for us

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Speaker 2: to ever be will never be done. If you join us,

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Speaker 2: live every week dancing PMPST. Just stop for a fight.

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Speaker 3: We'll be here forever, be here forever.

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Speaker 2: There's another relevant update. But let's talk this talk.

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about it.

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Speaker 2: What do you did you tackle her before we get

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Speaker 2: into her final parts of this speech.

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Speaker 5: You know, I would, I would want to stop her

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Speaker 5: from the speech, but in reality, it is a little

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Speaker 5: tough and awkward.

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Speaker 2: Sure, seventy one year old woman's crazy.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's a tough call.

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Speaker 5: I think it kind of depends if she goes like

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Speaker 5: soup like right now, she said she's talking about the dress.

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Speaker 5: Most people probably don't even know what's going going on.

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Speaker 5: I think I would probably Okay, like, let's just hope it.

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Speaker 2: So I think this is what you do. So so

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Speaker 2: you're the aunt story. Okay, yeah, just say my beautiful

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Speaker 2: Megan stress that just burst in strong and I'm so

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Speaker 2: grateful that Megan gave me this stress. Thank you so

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Speaker 2: much for coming. I love you so much. And now

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Speaker 2: we're actually gonna hear from my dad.

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Speaker 6: I would have tackled you and then you have it,

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Speaker 6: and that's called love. Good job, good job, guys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how I would handle that. But there's a

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Speaker 2: little bit left to the story. She finished her speech

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Speaker 2: with a half but did backtrack to me looking lovely

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Speaker 2: and wishing us good luck on our marriage. She am

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Speaker 2: moved back to her seat and let the ceremony keep going,

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Speaker 2: looking entirely too proud of herself. Other than that, the

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Speaker 2: only other trouble she caused was apparently showing everyone she

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Speaker 2: could manage a photo of the original, which is really

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Speaker 2: not that bad and the grand scheme of things. I'm

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Speaker 2: so happy that my family and friends were able to

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Speaker 2: be there and celebrate with us, and can't wait to

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Speaker 2: see what comes for us next. Thank you again to

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Speaker 2: everyone who commented and reassured me in the beginning. You've

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Speaker 2: all been so kind. Who knows I might even dye

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Speaker 2: the dress another color and keep it around just in

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Speaker 2: case an appropriate event comes up. And that is the

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Speaker 2: end of the story.

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Speaker 3: That's all, she wrote. That's all we got there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think a piano that as well as could

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Speaker 2: be handled.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think every every move was made. Well, you

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Speaker 3: didn't go too bad. Yeah I like it.

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Speaker 2: I like it me too. But you know what else

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Speaker 2: I like? Oh? What finding that donation from lex the Rise?

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Speaker 2: No there was another one though.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think it just ever went through. I

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Speaker 4: think it was in Riley's discord. I'm gonna check Riley him.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, we could just go on on that computer.

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Speaker 3: You can it is. Yeah, so if you get a message, then.

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Speaker 2: We can pull that up.

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Speaker 3: But Lex, thanks to five bucks. Host one does show up,

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Speaker 3: love y'all.

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Speaker 5: Lex, that one did show up because I read it

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Speaker 5: with my very own eyeballs.

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Speaker 2: I read it with my very own eyes, verified. Verified.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let me get the rest of it. I'm checking

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Speaker 4: right now.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything else on the other check?

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Speaker 4: Did? Yes?

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Speaker 1: There is?

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Speaker 4: I can pull that up for you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay in our last forty seconds?

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Speaker 3: Forty seconds, can you zoom in?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Thank you? Okay, perfect? Valvou, thank you for the Oh

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Speaker 2: it's gone, where's the It's gone? Valvo? Thank you for

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Speaker 2: the nine New Zealand dollars. Also, thank you for all

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Speaker 2: the amazing co hosts Kean Dakota, Molly John Sister, everyone

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Speaker 2: is so sweet and lovely vibes. Thank you, Amy, thank

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Speaker 2: you for the two bucks. John's juice is worth the

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Speaker 2: squeeze and that is ten likes little too much?

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Speaker 4: Amy, No, no, no, no, you want to talk about

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Speaker 4: too much? Talk about last week.

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Speaker 2: Oh YoY, Alyssa Monday, thank you for gifting five gifted

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Speaker 2: memberships woo wie and to be find what's the et

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Speaker 2: I on on that donation?

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Speaker 4: I'm checking all did we get this one pigeon?

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Speaker 5: I can't read that prostalyizer. Thanks for being a member

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Speaker 5: for six months. Let's go so glad for the extra

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Speaker 5: thirty minutes. I'm almost done with a fifty hour engraving

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Speaker 5: project and I need.

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Speaker 2: Contest man fifty hours.

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Speaker 5: That's that's pretty show us the discord by the way, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: let's let's let's celebrate with the fan when you finish.

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Speaker 5: And then, Alyssa Monday, thanks for of twenty five bucka.

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Speaker 5: Rooney's on the dome having a rough day. I need

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Speaker 5: more minutes. Love you, okay fam, Alyssa, as much as

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Speaker 5: we love you and all the okay fam.

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Speaker 3: We have said one in a minute.

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Speaker 2: We run out of minute zero. Yes, so tragically if

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Speaker 2: you love us. Wait wait, I was like, no, that's

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Speaker 2: not it.

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Speaker 4: Do we get lexus here? Now? We got I found

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Speaker 4: for your d M or your discord. It's just like

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Speaker 4: the receipt, so no it's not it's not a but well,

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Speaker 4: I'll talk to Riley about it, and we'll message you

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Speaker 4: and try and coordinate something.

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Speaker 3: But big shout out to you, thank you so much,

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Speaker 3: thank you. Sorry it didn't go through.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you love us, make sure to subscribe

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Speaker 1: And Seinemo