WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Haunted Bars 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:04.960 From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:11.680 on air with Ryan Seacrest. Oh yes, this is it. 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:14.520 This is the just after six o'clock moment. I wait 0:00:14.560 --> 0:00:18.479 for all week. Friday morning here one or two point 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:23.640 seven kiss f M. Are you all excited for your weekends? Oh? 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:26.040 Yes I am. What are you doing? You already have 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:29.560 your plans? My plans? Yeah, you know what. We're just 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:32.519 gonna carve pumpkins. It's gonna be very mellow. The Chargers 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:34.320 are off this weekend, so we really don't have to 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:36.360 like go to a game or anything. It's just like nice. 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:38.519 You're relieved when your team is off. I'm bummed when 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:41.240 my team is off. I'm relieved because this last week 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:43.040 was jam packed. We had a Monday night game and 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:44.760 a Sunday night game for the last It was a 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:48.400 lot last week. You must be so I was. Really 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:51.760 It's really tough for me. That was a tough loss 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:54.280 last Sometimes I put icy hot on myself after a 0:00:54.280 --> 0:00:56.480 Georgia game just because I've been through it, so you 0:00:56.560 --> 0:01:01.400 understand what I go through. Ton. Does Robbie your boyfriend 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:04.720 have a football team? No, he has like his fantasy 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:06.720 players that he roots for. But he doesn't really have 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:08.840 like a go team. He likes the Lakers. He's more 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:15.560 of a baseball guy. I mean sorry that I knew that. 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:18.960 I know you know when said yeah, yeah, it all 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:24.039 can run together, baseball, basketball, one letter off. Uh so, well, 0:01:24.080 --> 0:01:27.679 we got usc IS in Tucson playing you have a 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:32.600 right hey battle it out Number nine u c l 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:37.399 A hosting Stanford at the Rose Bowl tomorrow night, Rams 0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:39.920 and forty Niners this weekend. By the way, thank you 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:41.720 Sisney for getting back to me. Last night. I was 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:45.360 on a text rampage. I had a thought. Now I 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:47.080 don't know how you are when you get a thought 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:49.840 about work and it's past seven o'clock. But I had 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:53.520 a thought and I wanted to quickly get it resolved. 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:57.920 I wanted to know fast. So first I texted Bada. 0:01:58.400 --> 0:02:01.840 I didn't anything back. So I two minutes texted John 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:05.080 Ivy and Sysney at the same time and didn't get 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:10.120 anybody respond. By the way, in Sisney, for like twenty minutes, 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:12.320 I was still here at the station. By the way, 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:18.160 it was a long day, no excuse for. Then we 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:20.200 get on and we get on the chat and then 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:23.120 like the connection sucks and I'm like, well, then it drops. No, 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:24.760 she gave me the answer, but it dropped them, like 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:26.480 I gotta call her back to say okay, I got 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:28.520 you and nothing. No, I'm just gonna text her. I 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:30.880 got we got the answer, thank you. And then Beada 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.600 texted me she had the answer. I said, I already 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:36.399 got it from Sissany. And then John Ivy called me. 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:38.919 I was in my bed. I was in my bed. 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:42.880 He's calling me. I said, no, no no, I got the answer. Yeah. Music. 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:45.360 It was a music question. But it was funny because 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.480 I can't wait. It's so like if I'll text three 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:50.720 people to see who's in a respond first so I 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:54.520 can get the answer. I have an impatient. My text 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:57.079 was I had my phone like silent or low and 0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:58.880 just but if I call you, it's an unknown. I 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:01.119 have a blocked call, so you would you're the only one. 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:03.919 You're like, oh, don't be ridiculous. You were the only 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:07.320 unknown caller, Like your plan doesn't work. If anything, it 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:11.000 just tells me it's you. Yeah, no one else calls you, 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:16.160 no caller. I d the only one. I got to 0:03:16.240 --> 0:03:18.919 change my number now you know it's me every time. 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:21.640 I'm the only one I'm walking around with no caller 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:26.840 idea on my forehead. It's probably for everybody trying to 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:30.240 be all discreet. I was like, oh, that's Ryan. Yeah, 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:33.680 that's funny because our chairman, Bob Pittman, every time I 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:37.480 call his phone, he goes, Ryan, How does he know 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:41.640 it's me? That's weird. He must say he must have 0:03:41.720 --> 0:03:45.000 my phone. I don't know. It's really funny because you 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:47.120 probably went through like hoops, you got to get your 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:51.880 things to be like private and all this andops hoops. 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:53.520 I don't know how to do that with my own 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:57.440 How much I didn't bother you, Tanya last night? Don't 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:59.560 you did not bother me? Actually to sleep last night? 0:03:59.600 --> 0:04:04.720 It's seven now I want to do that. Then I 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:08.480 get sad about that. I was down on myself, like 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:13.920 bron really it was. It was a time I need 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:16.679 to You didn't even watch your grays. You didn't do anything. 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:21.159 Are you still recovering from Sunday Night Terry Style's House? Yes? 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:23.960 It really gets Tanya like if once her week is 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:27.039 like thrown off. You know what? I realized though, it's 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:30.480 my Hushi mottos because they say sleep is like so important, 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:32.640 And I was like whatever if I get don't mean 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:38.080 before Final Jeopardy. It was just one night and I'm 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:40.000 like back now. I feel like I got it back 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:43.240 back and took her five days. They say, you can't 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:45.240 ever make it up. You just have to like get 0:04:45.400 --> 0:04:47.920 through it. Yeah, way do you have kids? Like I 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:51.000 went to bet at to last night. That's so what 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:54.760 it sounds like my worst night? Well, they is having 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:57.720 like stomach issues, like what are we gonna do? Tell 0:04:57.800 --> 0:04:59.800 Michael to deal with it. I couldn't. He was actually 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:04.160 up working late. We were both in it. It's his 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:06.200 busy season. He's almost done. He's like one more week. 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:09.080 So once his busy season is over, does he then 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:11.240 have to step it up? Yeah, No, he does step 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:13.360 it up. He really does step it up in general. 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:15.240 It was just last night was a funky night. Is 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:17.800 he what is he doing that's busy right now? Yes? 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:20.400 It is your end and then the projecting overall next year. 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:23.159 I don't know when's Robbie's busy season. Tony once his 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.680 year end business, well his goes and ebbs and flows, 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:27.720 but his is like so he worked all weekend long, 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:31.719 like he was on calls all Saturday. Yeah, getting deals closed, closed, 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:33.880 he was on calls Sunday. Good for him Saturday and 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:37.760 sun I mean NonStop. Al Right, Well, good morning, good 0:05:37.800 --> 0:05:39.720 to be back with you. Got a great show for 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:42.680 you this morning. It is a Friday broadcast. We are 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:47.479 a weekend away from Halloween. Let's see what fun stuff 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:53.960 we've got up here. Oh yeah, spooky music. What's your 0:05:54.080 --> 0:06:02.320 favorite horror movie? Sis me? Oh the Conjury? Have I 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:07.040 seen that? You should? There's three of them, like spooky movies? Same. 0:06:08.080 --> 0:06:10.599 I just watch um this new one. It's on Hulu. 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:13.120 It's called Abandoned. It's not bad. I think it's like 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:16.640 PG or maybe in. It's not super scary, and it 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:22.240 has um Emma Roberts in it starts in it. I 0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:24.479 asked for something like a burp. Well now I asked 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:30.480 for some new spooky sounds for the show. And Hatreddy 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:33.520 Krueger's The chuck Ees. The Child plays movies. No, it 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:36.159 keeps me up, Tony. What's your favorite horror movie? I'm like, 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:40.760 I watch She's like hop Polus. I remember Christmas Focus 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:45.400 and Hughie's Hughie's Halloween, Adam Sandon movie Like when I 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:49.159 had friends say to me, both as a child and 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.520 as an adult. Hey, let's get together and watch scary 0:06:52.600 --> 0:06:56.680 movies and eat popcorn. No hard Pass True Crime is 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:58.679 enough for me to watch on streamers. Oh my gosh 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:00.680 movies and like the late eight in early names with 0:07:00.760 --> 0:07:04.480 the best horror movies, all the screams, because were all 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:06.760 so good? Which was the one? Wait? What was the 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:08.760 one with Jennifer Love Hughie? Oh? I know what you 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:13.400 did that. I still know what you did last sum 0:07:13.760 --> 0:07:18.600 I don't know what you did last summer. I don't 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:20.840 like that. I don't either. Can we guys have a 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:22.680 meeting after the show and get some new sounds for 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:25.080 the show. How about show up? I don't need to 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:26.720 show up. I'm doing it now. We have a meeting 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:34.320 every day after the show, as you should like. Why 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:37.040 can't you stay ten more minutes? I got a lot 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:39.760 of things, you know, things to do. You watch the 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:44.080 Watcher all weekend. I'm not gonna meet with you guys 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:46.600 over the weekend. Whatever. I'm just saying, you have time. 0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:49.360 I have a lot of American Top forty meetings. Don't 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:51.960 eastern right? In fact, what time were you in this 0:07:52.000 --> 0:07:55.960 morning for thirty am? Waiting for me? Time I get 0:07:56.000 --> 0:08:00.760 in any kind of every five minutes of it? Are 0:08:00.760 --> 0:08:04.960 we gonna have our seasonal meal? Can you remind me 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:08.080 what the first and who one was? It was at 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:11.160 your house? Seasonal? Remember we thought we said were gonna 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:14.000 do with the seasons? Oh yeah, like when that was 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:17.080 like before weingo. You mean the one where I had 0:08:17.080 --> 0:08:21.920 you guys over to the terrace, to the terrace to 0:08:22.000 --> 0:08:29.000 your house. Yes, your backyard, I was. I was corrected 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:30.880 years ago that I used to call it a patio 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:34.760 and I was told to terris difference. I don't know 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:43.080 resale value exactly. Marketing, Yeah, I don't know. We would 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:46.720 have to do that before jingle ball, wouldn't we. I 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:48.600 like the idea of it, to be honest with you. 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:53.360 Jingle balls on a Friday. Do it on a Thursday 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:58.240 loses its appeal. But yeah, all right, I'm down four 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:02.559 four BM arrivals. What you What are you guys doing 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:09.600 after the school buses there? All right? So I just 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:11.600 want to say, you know, trick or treating is coming 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:14.160 up this year. On a serious note, You've seen all 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:18.400 the reports about Fenton, al And it's scary if you're 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:23.000 a parent. If you look on any online form Facebook, 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:26.400 next door parents are talking about this new type of fentanyl, 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:30.200 which is rainbow colored and it looks like candy, like 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:33.400 to a child that doesn't know, it looks like bright 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:38.320 pastel colored sherbet colored candies. Experts say there is no 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:40.960 reason to be overly worried, but I still think it 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:43.640 is scary. I mean, we used to worry about, like 0:09:43.679 --> 0:09:47.079 what needles in our candy or something my mom was 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:51.000 afraid of, like people putting a needle in a chocolate. General, 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:53.160 like you, we still check like the kids candies, make 0:09:53.160 --> 0:09:57.360 sure there's none on they're open. Yeah, So there's some 0:09:57.600 --> 0:10:00.560 good news on that front. About of these here in 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:04.880 southern California and the safest ones, they say the most 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:10.880 safe cities in the nation for protecting kids from this 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:14.920 are in southern California. Number one actually is Gilbert, Arizona, 0:10:14.960 --> 0:10:20.440 but number sixth safest city is Irvine. Uh, let's see 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:25.080 number nine safest cities. Glendale Burbank made the list at eighteen, 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:29.640 Torrents A and go On Mariotta getting in there twenty five. 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:32.360 No other state had that many safe cities looking out 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:35.959 for this stuff for your kids during Halloween. Oh, that's nice. 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:41.320 So it's a testament to the agencies in our area 0:10:41.760 --> 0:10:44.839 and the hard work that they do to prevent big 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:47.839 crises like these. I gotta say our neighborhood seems very 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:50.160 safe as well. All the neighbors like we block off 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:52.440 the streets. It's like a nice little block party for 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:55.400 the kids. That is what it should be. All Right, 0:10:55.640 --> 0:10:58.920 I've got your morning hack here, then we've got your 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:03.600 quote of the day. This weekend, they have done a 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:08.080 survey of what men and women find to be the 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:12.360 most attractive costumes this year, and number one was for 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:18.040 a woman she Hulk? What she Hulk? She with a sheelk? 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:23.760 She Hulk the show hu Hu Hulke But like she 0:11:23.880 --> 0:11:30.400 Hulk you, I'm sorry, how is like painting your face 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:34.880 green and looking like seeing the series? UK? No, I 0:11:34.920 --> 0:11:39.040 have not, but I'm trying to like visualize, like in 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:46.200 like a like what's it called? She's very wonderful woman? Ask? 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:49.120 I get it, But painting your face green? I don't 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:51.200 find the sex appeal in this. Isn't there a big 0:11:51.200 --> 0:11:54.760 billboard in Sherman Oaks of Hulk? Yeah? You didn't you 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:59.640 see that? Hul what's the guy? What's the guy? Hot one? Hulk? Oh? 0:11:59.679 --> 0:12:04.080 So it's double hulk. No, no, no, no, not the 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:06.280 Halloween costs. To me, you're saying this is the one 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:10.400 for women who you got to be more specific these days. No, 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:14.720 the guy one is Tom Cruise. No way, who made 0:12:14.760 --> 0:12:18.920 this list. I'm just telling you what the sample group said. Sample. Yeah, 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:23.000 just survey this weekend Halloween parties. If you're single, she 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:26.680 Huwk and Maverick are the top two for sure. Maverick hot. 0:12:27.000 --> 0:12:31.360 I don't know about she hold for a girls, aren't 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.720 you a fan? It's such a big hulky over here. 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:38.520 And what is it about l that's attractive. She's a strong, 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:41.880 powerful woman and she takes what she wants. She has 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:49.280 a green face, and that's her point. I'm just saying, like, 0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:51.080 and then you start making out and then you have 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:53.880 green face and like the dude and it's like, it's 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:58.880 just messy. Maverick from Top Gone so hot, Like that's 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:01.319 great for a guy, make it. But by the way, 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:04.800 if we dressed up as Mavericks from Top Gun, it's 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:07.800 too cocky, Like I think it's you're just too full 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:12.120 of yourself. No, it's not. It's so typical. Walked in 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:15.720 in a onesie zip with Maverick glasses people like joke. 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:20.600 I don't think so you care to mine? Yeah? Yeah, 0:13:20.800 --> 0:13:22.440 why do you think I care too much? Because I 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:28.760 work here? No, you're coming in like sequence unitard for 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:32.720 Harry styles like you obviously don't care that much, Just 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:39.600 trying to seek your approval. Sorry. Today's quote don't let 0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:42.280 old hurt get in the way of new love and 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:51.160 check out Chiulk isn't a series? Yeah, diney Plus I 0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:58.920 cannot with the costumes headlines. So Elon Musk became Twitter's 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:02.640 owner yesterday day, firing top executives and providing a little 0:14:02.679 --> 0:14:06.120 clarity over how he will achieve the lofty ambitions he 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:09.880 has outlined for the social media platform. Elon Musk has 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:12.760 said that he wants to defeat spam bots on Twitter, 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:16.600 make the algorithms that determine how content is presented to 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:20.440 its users publicly available, and prevent the plat form from 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:24.520 becoming an eco chamber for hate and division, even as 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:29.200 he limits censorship. Now, it's easier to adopt a pet. 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:33.680 Los Angeles Animal Services has unveiled a revamped website that 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:36.520 officials said will make it easier for people to find 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:39.280 a furry friend to adopt for foster or to obviously 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:42.160 to keep locate lost pets, apply for a new and 0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:46.320 animal license online, uh find upcoming adoption events and just 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:49.960 learn more about alternatives to surrendering a pet to a 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:53.440 shelter in general. The changes applied to both desktop or 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:57.000 mobile devices. You can go to l a Animal Services 0:14:57.120 --> 0:14:59.160 dot com. I was just there and yes it is 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:02.600 a lot more using friendly than the previous ones. You 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:06.000 should check it out. And Rihanna is back with her 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:10.120 first solo track in six years and nine time Grammy 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:13.680 Award winner released Lift Me Up off the official soundtrack 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:16.800 for Black Panther with Conda Forever. This song acts as 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:20.400 a tribute to late Chadwick Boseman. Now. Along with Lift 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:24.360 Me Up, Rihanna also has another ballad on the soundtrack 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:26.400 called Born Again. But you know, we will have Lift 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:29.440 Me Up for you every hour today, starting in just 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:36.000 a few minutes at seven o'clock on air with Ryan Seagrez. Shoot, 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:39.400 I threw away everything I need. Thank you one or 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:44.040 two point seven Friday morning. That's why it's Friday, and 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:46.040 it's free gas Friday. I think we should start that. 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:49.600 In a few minutes seven, We're gonna start getting you 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:52.480 some free gas for free gas Friday, and then after 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:55.280 eight we've got a hometown US or Alta Montebello if 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:58.120 you're a Mona bellow. We are focusing on somebody that 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:01.840 just pivoted and purs do in their passion and that's 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:05.400 their full time job now and I love that. All right, 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:12.040 all right, let's see here we've got Jada. Yeah in Procuma. Oh. 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:16.200 I think this is a relationship guidance call. She's seeing 0:16:16.240 --> 0:16:20.200 two guys at the same time and has a dilemma. Jada, 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:23.840 thanks for coming on. What is your dilemma about seeing 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:28.480 two guys at the same time? Yeah, so, Um, I'm 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:33.200 currently dating two gentlemen. Um, it's okay, it's nothing scandalous. 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:36.040 They both know we're not exclusive, and we're obviously others 0:16:36.040 --> 0:16:40.120 seeing other people, and um, they're allowed to see other 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:43.000 people as well. And it's just very open and honest 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:45.280 and we're just you know, living her lives and dating, 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:49.040 trying to find the right people. Um. They don't know 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:53.120 each other, but they know that we're not exclusive. Um, 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:55.520 so I'm going to a costume party with one of 0:16:55.560 --> 0:16:58.280 them this weekend. He asked me about two weeks ago, 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:01.760 and I said, yes, and I'm super excited. Um, but 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:04.399 I just found out that the other guy I'm seeing 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:08.040 is also going to be at this party with someone else. 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:12.879 I'm guessing. Yeah, I'm not cheating on anyone or anything, no, no, 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:15.960 but but I'm trying to paint the picture of here. 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:20.320 First of all, Halloween's a high impact day to choose, Like, 0:17:20.520 --> 0:17:24.040 whoever you choose on Halloween says more than a regular day. 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:27.120 That that shows your priority in a way, it shifts 0:17:27.119 --> 0:17:29.560 some weight. But the scene could be that you would 0:17:29.560 --> 0:17:31.120 be there with the guy you chose, and the guy 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:35.800 you didn't chose could be with another woman there. He might, yeah, 0:17:35.920 --> 0:17:37.880 he might, And I'm okay with that. I just think, 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:41.600 like it's going to be it might be awkward time 0:17:41.640 --> 0:17:44.160 there with somebody else. What's wrong? You just the guy 0:17:44.200 --> 0:17:50.920 that the guy didn't choose, But it's choose. I'm hurrying, guys, 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:53.840 all the vowels, don't you Guys. I stayed out of this. 0:17:55.320 --> 0:17:59.560 I'm focused on Jada, not my vowels. So I think 0:17:59.600 --> 0:18:03.920 this is a disaster, and it's a disaster that you're 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:07.760 asking for because you know, whether it be this Halloween 0:18:07.760 --> 0:18:11.800 party or an incident in six months, this is what's 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:14.600 going to happen. There is going to be a moment 0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:19.840 where someone feels really bad and feels like they weren't chosen, 0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:23.080 and we're chosen, and that's what happens when you parallel 0:18:23.119 --> 0:18:26.080 track two people at the same time. So this is 0:18:26.119 --> 0:18:29.520 symbolic of either what's happening now or what's to come, Jada, 0:18:29.880 --> 0:18:32.719 So I think you need to make a choice for 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:35.800 the future and somebody needs to not go to that party. No, 0:18:35.920 --> 0:18:37.520 she made her choice. You go with the dude that 0:18:37.560 --> 0:18:40.080 you're going with, and that's the end of the other guy. 0:18:40.200 --> 0:18:43.480 Then he's over, she sisne He's right. Then you've made 0:18:43.480 --> 0:18:46.240 your choice. When you see him, there's no more him 0:18:46.680 --> 0:18:50.119 because this is just gonna rear its ugly head over 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:58.159 and over and over and over. Or you can go 0:18:58.280 --> 0:19:01.800 dressed up as a as like something that's just complete disguise, 0:19:02.280 --> 0:19:05.159 so he doesn't even see you the whole night. No, 0:19:05.359 --> 0:19:12.600 she's gonna see costume with the guys I'm goingster So 0:19:12.680 --> 0:19:14.600 what are you gonna do? Ja? Are you going to 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:19.480 realize and accept the fact that you made a choice 0:19:19.520 --> 0:19:20.879 and you've got to let the other guy go, or 0:19:20.960 --> 0:19:27.119 you just avoid this party for now? Um? I'm I 0:19:27.160 --> 0:19:31.080 don't know right, I'm actually now leaning towards avoiding this party. Um, 0:19:31.119 --> 0:19:33.399 I was excited about going and just being in an 0:19:33.440 --> 0:19:37.120 awkward situation, but I think emotionally right, yeah, it will 0:19:37.160 --> 0:19:39.200 be hard on you, and you're kicking the can just see, 0:19:39.200 --> 0:19:42.679 you know, but good luck and happy Halloween. What can 0:19:42.760 --> 0:19:45.280 I mean? She's kicking the whole issue down the line. 0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:47.560 It's kind having a Christmas next she's gonna yeah, she's 0:19:47.560 --> 0:19:50.120 just gonna follow it. If you and I. If I'm 0:19:50.200 --> 0:19:56.360 dating Tanya and I'm dating Sissy, and whoever picks the other, wait, 0:19:56.480 --> 0:20:01.040 I guess that's doesn't work, so you go. So whoever 0:20:01.119 --> 0:20:05.119 whoever doesn't get picked is out like your bruise. Right, 0:20:05.160 --> 0:20:06.800 So we all go to the same Halloween costume. But 0:20:06.840 --> 0:20:08.720 you decided to do a couple's costume with Tanya, But 0:20:08.760 --> 0:20:11.000 I'm not going to the constume that. I'm like, well, 0:20:11.080 --> 0:20:13.720 then that's it. That's it, Like I'd be so hurt 0:20:13.800 --> 0:20:17.840 by that, like to pick one of the other. Why 0:20:17.840 --> 0:20:21.320 are you hurt because I chose? Because you chose, I choose, 0:20:21.400 --> 0:20:30.359 but she chose, she choses correctly where she chooses before 0:20:30.400 --> 0:20:32.560 she's ready to choose. Then she might regret it. So 0:20:32.600 --> 0:20:34.280 I think if she's not ready to make a choice, 0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:36.400 she should. She wants to have her kick and eat 0:20:36.480 --> 0:20:39.160 too and never gonna last. That doesn't happen. She's kicking 0:20:39.160 --> 0:20:40.600 the can. She should kick it and go to a 0:20:40.600 --> 0:20:45.439 different It's just a figure of speech. Who made up 0:20:45.480 --> 0:20:49.919 that speech? It's like can kickers? Yeah, I don't like it. Well, 0:20:50.240 --> 0:20:53.240 we're not in that situation, So you're all right, sis, 0:20:53.280 --> 0:20:54.760 And he's got a story about gen Z or s 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:57.359 quitting her jobs. Go ahead. So remember back in spring 0:20:57.359 --> 0:21:02.080 of one, when everyone one was voluntarily leaving their jobs, 0:21:02.080 --> 0:21:05.320 it was referred to as the Great Resignation. Okay, so 0:21:05.359 --> 0:21:07.960 the trend is kind of picking up steam again, but 0:21:08.040 --> 0:21:12.520 now specifically just with gen Z sixt gen Zers plan 0:21:12.640 --> 0:21:14.600 to leave their job by the end of this year, 0:21:15.000 --> 0:21:18.480 and across all generations say that they're going to quit 0:21:18.480 --> 0:21:21.240 in the coming months. And one of the main reasons 0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:24.560 is because they're talking to all their friends, specifically ones 0:21:24.600 --> 0:21:27.560 that live in different states, and they're realizing that they 0:21:27.600 --> 0:21:29.560 do the same job and they're being paid three times 0:21:29.560 --> 0:21:32.160 more the amount is it not also that in some 0:21:32.240 --> 0:21:37.919 states it costs three times more to live in well, 0:21:38.040 --> 0:21:40.000 or three times less, but like in I mean Los 0:21:40.000 --> 0:21:43.960 Angeles is a very expensive city to live in. Like 0:21:44.040 --> 0:21:46.240 I look at where I grew up and the cost 0:21:46.280 --> 0:21:48.880 of a pizza here and there, and it's a totally 0:21:48.880 --> 0:21:53.320 different world, totally different world. Or but it's sometimes it's 0:21:53.359 --> 0:21:55.560 the opposite. It's like they're making more money and they 0:21:55.600 --> 0:21:57.879 live in a cheaper state for a cost of living. 0:21:57.960 --> 0:22:00.199 So then they're like, forget it, Like I don't just 0:22:00.280 --> 0:22:02.760 using as an example, but like Austin Nashville, Like you've 0:22:02.800 --> 0:22:04.639 seen a lot of trends of people like moving to 0:22:04.680 --> 0:22:09.000 these different cities for a better quality of life of 0:22:09.080 --> 0:22:13.640 living most cost in general system with the Nashville so 0:22:13.760 --> 0:22:15.800 I know, and so they're saying that this is going 0:22:15.840 --> 0:22:18.159 to be a trend, and they're thing that now is 0:22:18.200 --> 0:22:20.080 the time that gen zs are finally saying like we're 0:22:20.080 --> 0:22:22.040 going to do this, and they're and they're going for 0:22:22.080 --> 0:22:25.159 I mean, obviously it's speculation, but gen Z has gotten 0:22:25.200 --> 0:22:28.200 a bad rap. I guess at work places for moving 0:22:28.280 --> 0:22:30.800 quickly and like the quiet quitting memory talked about that 0:22:30.840 --> 0:22:33.880 a few months ago and act your wage. And so 0:22:33.960 --> 0:22:36.960 now it comes to the question, like what do you 0:22:37.000 --> 0:22:39.200 think this is do you think it's laziness or do 0:22:39.280 --> 0:22:42.440 you think that gen Z just has different principles when 0:22:42.440 --> 0:22:44.439 it comes to their the way they think they do 0:22:44.600 --> 0:22:48.400 their job and a smart right, Like, first of all, 0:22:48.440 --> 0:22:52.240 you can't generalize the whole generation, but I do think 0:22:52.320 --> 0:22:55.919 it's kind of clever if you can pick up and 0:22:55.960 --> 0:22:59.280 find a better quality of life for yourself or do 0:22:59.440 --> 0:23:01.600 a job it pays the same job that pays you 0:23:01.640 --> 0:23:04.480 more or do less for the same amount. Like clever, 0:23:05.240 --> 0:23:07.840 good for you. I think so too, especially if you're 0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:10.760 in that bracket of that age gap, because I feel 0:23:10.800 --> 0:23:13.280 like those are the years to explore and take and 0:23:13.760 --> 0:23:16.520 take chances and you're less tied down maybe to go 0:23:16.560 --> 0:23:19.280 ahead and make those decisions to go for You might 0:23:19.280 --> 0:23:20.960 not be married yet, you might not have kids yet 0:23:21.000 --> 0:23:23.480 to kind of like tie you down. I'm a millennial, 0:23:23.600 --> 0:23:26.560 so I can't relate to this at all because I've 0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:29.960