1 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: Hi. 2 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 2: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson. 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 3: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship. 4 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 2: And what it's like to be siblings. We are a 5 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 2: sibling railvalry. No, no, sibling. You don't do that with 6 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 2: your mouth revelry. That's good. Well hello, hello, Hello, it's 7 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 2: me and by me I mean Oliver. And if you 8 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:45,480 Speaker 2: don't know that by now, then you've got problems because 9 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 2: you are listening to the Sibling Revelry Podcast with Oliver 10 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 2: Hudson Kate Hudson. Notice I put my name first, Okay, 11 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 2: because Kate Hudson has taking a back seat under Stone. 12 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 2: I'm saying she's working. I get it. But it's the 13 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: Oliver and Kate Hudson podcast now where it used to 14 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 2: be the Kate and Oliver Hudson. I'm older, number one 15 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 2: by two and a half years. I'm funnier. Yeah, she 16 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 2: has more money, potentially more talent, But I think people 17 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 2: in my family love me more. At least. These are 18 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 2: the things that I take with me so I can 19 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 2: get through the day and not feel like the black sheep. 20 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 2: I'm sitting in my kitchen right now. Drop the kids off, 21 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 2: and that's just me. I'm sure one of them is 22 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 2: going to come down and bother me any second. 23 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 3: Now. 24 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 2: Anyway, we have two guests today that are sisters, and 25 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:57,639 Speaker 2: forget about anything else. Their names are Minnie and Dolly. 26 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 2: All right. I mean that alone is incredible. And they 27 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 2: are sisters, and they are one hundred and four and 28 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: one hundred and one respectively. Pretty incredible. I mean, if 29 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 2: there's any insight you're going to get into a full 30 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 2: sibling relationship, this is it. So I'm going to get 31 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 2: into it, all right. I'm not going to put kid 32 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:26,399 Speaker 2: gloves on. Even though they're in their hundreds, I'm still 33 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 2: going to get after them. You know, Oliver Hudson does 34 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 2: not hold back. I want to know about growing up. 35 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 2: I want to know about the fights. I want to 36 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 2: know about the boyfriends, the husbands. I want to know 37 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 2: about nineteen twenties. You know what that was like fascinating 38 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 2: across the board. These are by far the oldest siblings 39 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 2: that we've had on and I'm sure their wisdom is deep. 40 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 2: Let's bring them on. My two favorite names Minni and 41 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 2: DOLLI I am. 42 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 1: The oldest sister I am. My name is Minnie. How 43 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: are you. 44 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 2: I'm good. My name is Oliver. How are you guys? 45 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: Very good? 46 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 2: Good? So we have Minni and Dolly. First of all, 47 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 2: I love your names. And is this Minie, is this 48 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: your your real name or is this short for something? 49 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:22,399 Speaker 1: This is my real name? 50 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 2: Okay, and Dolly, same thing, real name Minnie and Dolly. 51 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 1: Uh No, it's a nickname, she said, since a baby. 52 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: Oh okay. So, first question I have is in your 53 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 2: one hundred years plus of life, have you ever seen 54 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: someone as handsome as me? 55 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: I think about that. 56 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 2: Just look really quickly, you know, not at all. No, 57 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 2: the bones, look at the cheek, look at the I've 58 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 2: got the high cheekbone. 59 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: You know. My sister says, no, she's never seen anyone 60 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: so handsome. 61 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 2: Okay, good, It's a pleasure to talk to you, guys. 62 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:13,839 Speaker 2: I appreciate you for coming on. You know, you, as 63 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 2: siblings have seen a lot, done a lot, been through 64 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 2: a lot together, I'm sure. First of all, let's start 65 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: from the beginning. Okay, how many siblings do you have 66 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 2: or how many siblings were in your family? 67 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: We had four girls and one boy, so that means 68 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: two of us. Are two of us are in there? 69 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 2: Yes? And then and where did you grow up? 70 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 1: I was born in Rochester, but we moved all rephrase 71 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: every and dundee. 72 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 2: And were you moving around with the family for for work, 73 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 2: for parent parents, work and stuff? 74 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 1: Mm? Hm. 75 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 2: When were you guys born? What year? 76 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: Nineteen twenty nineteen twenty two? 77 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 2: Wow, oh my gosh? And were you were you in 78 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 2: the pecking order of the four you guys the middle 79 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 2: at the end? Year at the end? And has your 80 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 2: relationship always been extremely close? 81 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: Yes, we were called little girls and we had two 82 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 1: sisters older they were called the big girls. So yes, 83 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 1: we played together, fought together. 84 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 2: M you did? And do you guys live together now? 85 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: No? 86 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 2: No, no, And you guys are happy about not living together. 87 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 2: It seems so growing up. You know, give us a 88 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 2: taste of what it was like, sort of nineteen twenties, 89 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 2: So when you were in your ten years old, you're 90 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 2: talking about nineteen thirties, What was a day like for 91 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 2: you guys as sisters? You know, what what was that 92 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: in the sort of let's say, in the thirties, you know, 93 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 2: I mean, just give us a little idea and insight 94 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 2: as to sort of what life was like trying. 95 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: To think where we were at that time. Usually we 96 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: played outside outside. We had a pet lamb that we 97 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: played with and chased around the yard, and mostly it 98 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 1: was outside playing in the summertime. In the winter time 99 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: it was course insight. Mm hm a ram lamb? What a. 100 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 2: Ram land? Or yes? 101 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 1: Yes, it used to butter us. 102 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 2: Oh yes, yeah, is that horns? 103 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 1: Yes? 104 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:11,119 Speaker 2: So games would be running from the ram Yeah, amazing. 105 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: It was a land. My father rescued from being killed 106 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: and he had one ear off, and it was really 107 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: cute because he would come up in the morning on 108 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: the porch in order to tell us to come on 109 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: out and play with me. He would do that every day. 110 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 2: Oh wow. Yeah. So we have a ranch in Colorado, 111 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 2: and we had a bunch of goats and there was 112 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 2: one that was not the nicest goat, and they were 113 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 2: small ish, but he had an attitude and he would 114 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 2: I have three kids and when they were little, he 115 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 2: would try to just pull them over. So you'd hear 116 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 2: screaming from the house and you'd walk outside and see 117 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 2: this little goat chasing my children as they're crying and screaming, 118 00:07:58,360 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 2: running across the gravel dirt. 119 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: I can see it. 120 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 2: Do you guys have children? 121 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: Yes? I had six wow, of course they're they're all driving, 122 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: and why I am not driving anymore? And you wouldn't 123 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: want to see me on the street. 124 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 2: No, And Dollie, how about you? How many children did 125 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 2: you have? 126 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: I didn't have. I had one, just one? 127 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: Oh wow? Yeah, okay. And were you guys married many times? 128 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 2: One time, one time, one time? Good for you? That's 129 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 2: that's hard to come by these days, you know what 130 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 2: I mean. Yeah, my my wife's parents, my in laws, 131 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 2: are high school sweethearts. They've been together since they were 132 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 2: fifteen years old. Oh my goodness, yeah I know. And 133 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 2: then grandkids, great grandchildren. 134 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 1: Oh one grandchild right? Just one? 135 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 2: Okay, but many you must have more just because of 136 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 2: pure numbers. 137 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: I cannot tell you how many I have. I have 138 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 1: great great great grandchildren. 139 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 2: Three greats, three greats, and I had just one. 140 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 1: Little one was born this Oh, my great great great 141 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: great was born this this year, and he must be 142 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 1: a few months old. I have no idea. I cannot 143 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: remember the names anymore. 144 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 2: So, oh gosh, no, I mean, I'm forty seven and 145 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:58,079 Speaker 2: I can't remember names of anything. I can't imagine having 146 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 2: one hundred and eighty seven grandchildren and great grandchildren it's like, 147 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 2: all right, great another one. I mean, yeah, good for you. 148 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 2: I'll meet them later. So there's a story that I 149 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 2: was reading about that you guys both got shot in 150 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 2: the leg. Is this true? 151 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: It is true? And you know what, I'm going to 152 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: let my sister tell you, because I told the last time, 153 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: I let her tell you this time. 154 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 2: Okay, big deal, Yeah, yes, yes. 155 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: Well, this neighbor boy came over to visit. I believe 156 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: it was Christmas Day and he came over to visit 157 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: and everything and play around. And he started working with 158 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 1: our china cabinet which my father had made, and he 159 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: put a a closet in it for guns, which he 160 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:13,319 Speaker 1: had locked up well, so it wasn't lots of the time. 161 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:18,319 Speaker 1: And the boy opened it, which would We kept telling him, 162 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 1: don't open it, don't open it, you know, but he 163 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: did and that was it. He opened it, and I 164 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: don't know what happened afterwards. I was sitting on the 165 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: chair of my leg crossed and and absudentenly was my 166 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 1: sister Dolly, and she was standing up and the boy 167 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: was was a young boy. He was probably about five 168 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: years old, and we were probably well they say seven five. 169 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: We probably were around seven five also, but evidently the 170 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 1: gun was too heavy and fortunately and it got me 171 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: in above my knee, cleaned through, clean through, and I 172 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 1: fell on the floor. Didn't know why I was there. 173 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 1: Was so funny because I fell on the floor and 174 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:11,079 Speaker 1: I didn't know why why I was there, And and 175 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 1: it got Dolly in the you know, a calf, kind 176 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: of like an upper calf of the legs. The same bullet. 177 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: The same bullet. 178 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it went through your leg and into 179 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 2: Dolly's was. 180 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 1: One so she was able to She hopped and screamed 181 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 1: to her mother, to mom, who was visiting. I had 182 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: a visitor there and it was the boys, and there 183 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 1: was a relative anyway, and she said, I'm shot, I'm shot. 184 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 1: So she was letting Mom know that we were hurt. 185 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: I was down the floor. I did not feel pain. 186 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 1: I didn't feel anything, and I why she was hollering. 187 00:12:54,720 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 1: I thought, what's she hollering for? But that was it, 188 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: And at that time we had to call the doctor. 189 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: The doctor would come to the house. And the bullet 190 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 1: was taken out of my sister Dolly on the table, 191 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:15,679 Speaker 1: on the kitchen table. They had to do it on 192 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: the kitchen table. No. I'm not sure whether she had 193 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 1: anything to take for that or not. I don't believe them. 194 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, So you were fine because I went 195 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 2: right through you. But Dolly had to really deal with 196 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 2: the so man on your kitchen table. No hospital, no anesthetic. 197 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: No, no, no no, it wasn't even thought of them. 198 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 1: And I had to get the wounds cleaned out. But 199 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: it was straight clean, it was clean, No bones were chipped, 200 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 1: no anything. Wow, I was fortunate. 201 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 2: Do you still have the scar? 202 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: Yes? Everything? Yes, yeah, still feel The. 203 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 2: Real question is what happened to this kid? 204 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: Nothing? Nothing, nothing, Because nothing happened then, it wasn't a 205 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: big deal. Then. 206 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 2: Now did you still remain friends with him? 207 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 1: Never saw him again? We were blamed for it because 208 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 1: my mother was blamed for it and I, which was unfair. 209 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 2: No, I know, I know. So have you guys always 210 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 2: been close? 211 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: You know? 212 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 2: Was there a time when you were not so close, 213 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 2: or when you were living your own lives and separate 214 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 2: from each other, or has it always been important for 215 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 2: you to remain in each other's lives? 216 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 1: Oh? No, we lived in each other's life. But she 217 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: was down in Florida and I was up here when 218 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 1: she got married Rochester, right, yeah, yeah, but they moved down. 219 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 2: Oh, they'd moved to Florida, So you guys moved near each. 220 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: Other, but by we were always were always felt close, yes, 221 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: because we'd call each other and you know, write leathers, visit. 222 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. And did you were you did you guys work? 223 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 2: Were you working back then when you were married? I 224 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 2: was not until around What did you guys do for 225 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 2: a living? 226 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: Later on when the kids were all out of school 227 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: except for one and she was working at school after 228 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:41,119 Speaker 1: ove bus? 229 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 230 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. 231 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 2: And how about you, Dolly? 232 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 1: I just working in office? Yeah, yeah, good office work, 233 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 1: you know. 234 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: So let me ask you a question. Do you like 235 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 2: being one hundred plus years old? Do you feel like 236 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 2: there is you reach some sort of a benchmark. We're like, hell, yes, 237 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 2: I'm a hundred, and you're not. 238 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 1: No, I don't even realize I'm a hundred. 239 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 2: You don't. 240 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: It doesn't seem possible. No, No, I don't feel a hundred. No, 241 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 1: you don't except when I try to walk. 242 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 2: But you're no. Isn't it amazing? 243 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 1: Though? 244 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 2: I mean I'm again, I'm forty seven, almost forty eight, 245 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 2: but I feel like i'm eighteen years old. You know, 246 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 2: I mean, at the end of the day, it's about 247 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 2: your spirit. Well, you know, I mean, of course we 248 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 2: need to be mobile, but who cares? We don't. We 249 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 2: can have everyone, we can people take care of us. Now, 250 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 2: this is what this is what we need. 251 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: I do not feel that way. I do not feel way. 252 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: In fact, I do have to have somebody take care 253 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 1: of me. Have to live with my youngest daughter and 254 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: her husband, and I do have to Yeah, mm hmmm. 255 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: I feel bad to think I have to do that, 256 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 1: but they want of those two. So right, I live 257 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: with your oldest daughter and shoots with your youngest. 258 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 2: Oh really, yeah, take care of you? 259 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 1: Oh? Yes, they're good. 260 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 2: And do you guys see each other all the time? 261 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:35,440 Speaker 1: No? Well, yeah, at least twice a week, you do, 262 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 1: my daughter, my oldest daughter says, at least twice a week. 263 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 2: Is your oldest daughter being truthful? Or is she blink twice? 264 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 2: If you're being held hostage. 265 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 4: I don't know, ask your questions. 266 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 1: We can't remember to tell you. 267 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 2: This is amazing, you know. Well, when you guys, when 268 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 2: you guys get together, what does your day look like? 269 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 2: I mean, do you just you talk? Do you reminisce 270 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 2: or are you living in the present moment? You know, 271 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 2: I mean how much do you live in your present 272 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 2: moment right now? And then how much are you living 273 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:23,679 Speaker 2: sort of reliving your past in. 274 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 1: A present moment? I would say most of the time. Yeah, Yeah, 275 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:30,719 Speaker 1: we play. We like to play games. 276 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 2: Okay, give me some games with games. 277 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:36,360 Speaker 1: There's a roma cue. 278 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 2: Oh my god, face Tim. 279 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: What's the other one? Mark Farcle, That's that's the noat 280 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: one with dice. 281 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 2: Love farkle, love farkle. My wife and I play farkle 282 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 2: with the dice. Yes, yes, we play Yatzi, which have 283 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 2: always loved. But let me explain something to you girls. Okay, 284 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 2: Rummy Cube has come into my life in a very 285 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 2: strong way. My wife is obsessed with Rummy Cube. She 286 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,399 Speaker 2: cannot stop playing Rummy Cube. She plays it on her phone. 287 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 2: She's constantly asking me to play live games, and I 288 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 2: cannot win. I have not won one time in a 289 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 2: live game. And I consider myself a pretty smart person. 290 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 2: But the numbers and the patterns, when the board gets 291 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 2: too big, it jumbles in my head and I just 292 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 2: lose everything. I can't do it anymore. 293 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 1: One of my favorites and the dominoes. 294 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, do you guys ever play for money? No money, come. 295 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: On, but I just like to play dominos. 296 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 2: That's fun. Well, maybe one of these days we can 297 00:19:56,600 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 2: play Rummy Cube. That would be so, I know, I know, 298 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:04,679 Speaker 2: I mean, if you guys played online, we could definitely 299 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 2: play online. But maybe all cruise over there and play 300 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 2: rony cue with you guys, that would be good. So 301 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:22,919 Speaker 2: let me ask you a question and if it's if 302 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 2: it's too much, that's that's okay. But I'm just curious, like, 303 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 2: what's your as you get older, you guys seem in 304 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 2: I don't know about your health, but you seem very vibrant. 305 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 2: You seem you know, you are lucid, You are right there, 306 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 2: your humor is on point. But as you reach these 307 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 2: your you're into your hundreds, what does your relationship with 308 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 2: death become? 309 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 1: Like? 310 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,440 Speaker 2: You know, I mean, are you still afraid of it 311 00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 2: or is it just the natural part of life or 312 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,400 Speaker 2: is it just hey, let's just keep going, like where's 313 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 2: your head with that? 314 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 1: Okay? No, not at all. Because my mother was sure 315 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 1: that we went to church and every place we moved, 316 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 1: we had to go to Sunday School and we've been 317 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 1: in we see a Baptist church, a Methodist church, Episcopal church, 318 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 1: Presbyterian church. Because we moved so many times and she 319 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:29,400 Speaker 1: wanted to make sure that we would have that foundation. 320 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: And I remember every night we used to kneel by 321 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 1: her knee and say the little no, I lay me 322 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,919 Speaker 1: down to sleep one and every night we had to 323 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 1: say it, so we believed, so everything will be okay. 324 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 2: Same with you, Dolly. That gives you comfort, Well. 325 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: Yes it does. And I say, the only reason we're 326 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: one hundred, we've got something to do. We've got something 327 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:04,159 Speaker 1: for us to do. We got to do it. 328 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. You're here, that's a guess. You are. You're 329 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 2: here with a forest. That's a good question actually is 330 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 2: what do you attribute it to? I mean, were you guys, 331 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 2: are you healthy eaters? Did you drink? Did you smoke? 332 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 2: You know, did you party or are you healthy? Do 333 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:22,400 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? 334 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 1: Like, we were a from a poor family, so we 335 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: didn't party and we didn't have a lot of extra 336 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 1: So I think that's it candy and everything because the 337 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 1: kids have non As far as drink, we are not drinkers. No, yeah, 338 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 1: mm hmmm. 339 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 2: What about laughter? Do you guys laugh? A lot. 340 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:50,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I like to laugh. 341 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:57,120 Speaker 2: Yes, me too, me too. That's I think that's part 342 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 2: of the key to longevity. You know, obviously you have 343 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 2: to take care of your body, but I think humor 344 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 2: and love and being with people who are able to 345 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 2: sort of bring you those things can definitely increase, you know, 346 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 2: increase your lifespan for sure. You know. I mean, I 347 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 2: feel like you guys laugh a lot. It just feels 348 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 2: like you guys get together and laugh a lot. 349 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm not a person, I'm I mean, I'm not 350 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:31,639 Speaker 1: a down person. I'm an up person. I am. 351 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 2: No, I know, and I can. I can. I can 352 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:40,880 Speaker 2: see that. I can see that. And then who's better 353 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 2: at rummy cube? 354 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 1: She is? Well the one that beats first. They're competitive, 355 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 1: are they? 356 00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,439 Speaker 2: Are you guys competitive? Yes? 357 00:23:55,560 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: Extremely yes, when it comes to that, I am. I 358 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 1: I like the way like Rummy you play Rummy in 359 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 1: the cards, and I like Rumma cue because you can 360 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 1: change so many ways to make it, you know, make 361 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:17,400 Speaker 1: a number, Yeah you can. I like the different ways 362 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 1: you can change your. 363 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 2: Is yes, yes, yes, yes, no, I know, I know. Well, 364 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:33,120 Speaker 2: listen you guys, I really appreciate you sort of having 365 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:38,239 Speaker 2: this conversation with me, and you know we should all 366 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 2: be so lucky. Feels like, you know, you guys have 367 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 2: done it correctly. 368 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: We really have been blessed with long life. I will 369 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: say that much. 370 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, long life if it's lived right, and the 371 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 2: long life if it's lived in happiness, you know, I mean, 372 00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 2: and then it seems like you guys have that. That's 373 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 2: the key here. Yes, I mean, age is but a number. Okay, 374 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,679 Speaker 2: like you you maybe one hundred and four and one 375 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 2: hundred and one, but you don't feel that way. You know, 376 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 2: you feel a mirror. How old do you feel? Oh, 377 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 2: I don't know. 378 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe eighty. 379 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:27,919 Speaker 2: That's amazing that that is really great you feel eighty. 380 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 2: I mean, that's amazing. But but it is true. It 381 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:36,479 Speaker 2: is true, you know, you guys, you know it's one hundred, 382 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 2: but it doesn't feel like that. You guys are awesome. 383 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,360 Speaker 4: Well, we were blessed. 384 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:47,879 Speaker 1: With health healthy. I have not. I haven't had to 385 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:53,360 Speaker 1: go to the hospital for any great thing at all. 386 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 1: I mean with my children, yes, but I've been very fortunate. 387 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,200 Speaker 2: How old are all of your children? Many? 388 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: What's the oldest one, I'll be eighty two. My oldest 389 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,720 Speaker 1: one is eighty two because she told me just now. 390 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:19,000 Speaker 1: And my youngest one was born in fifteen years younger. 391 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 2: Eighty two. I neither can. I That's why I don't 392 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 2: play Rummy Cube. Do you hear what I'm saying? Like 393 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,439 Speaker 2: this is my problem? Mass messes me up? 394 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: Ye? Yeah, six. She's in their sixties. My youngest one 395 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 1: is in their sixties. 396 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 2: Wow. 397 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 1: We all are driving. 398 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 2: Yes, that's good. 399 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 1: Probably driving you crazy too, And they're driving me around 400 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 1: all the time, which is good. 401 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 2: Good, good good good, Oh my god. Well. I appreciate 402 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,159 Speaker 2: you guys, Thank you so much. Thanks for taking the time. 403 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 2: And you are definitely an inspiration. Yeah no, not not 404 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 2: just not just age, but just how you sort of 405 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,199 Speaker 2: handle it and the fun you have and being together 406 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 2: as siblings, which is extremely important. 407 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 1: When you can remember it's easy, right. 408 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,679 Speaker 2: You have a new sibling every every day, every week. 409 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 2: All right. I appreciate you, guys, Thank you. 410 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 1: Bye bye. 411 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 2: Amazing talking to these young women. I wanted to get 412 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:43,640 Speaker 2: into a little bit more, but I get a little nervous, 413 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:47,880 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I wanted to I try 414 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 2: to get a little philosophical, and then I wanted to 415 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:56,400 Speaker 2: maybe get into sort of just living this long, extended 416 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,880 Speaker 2: life and all of the things that they must. 417 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 3: And all of the technology, and you know, they lived 418 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 3: through the Great Depression and the Industrial Revolution and you know, 419 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 3: I mean everything. 420 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 2: Moo going in the mood. They probably have a million stories, 421 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 2: but I don't know. It didn't feel I didn't feel 422 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 2: like I could break in with that. 423 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:20,120 Speaker 1: So but. 424 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 2: Here's my takeaway. Just two siblings one hundred plus years old, 425 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 2: getting together twice a week still, which honestly is more 426 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 2: than most people get with their siblings, playing games, laughing, 427 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 2: loving each other, still competitive and not giving a shit 428 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 2: about death. 429 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. 430 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 2: They can't really get much better than that, you know, 431 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 2: because death is funny, man. Death used to freak the shit. 432 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 2: I used to get so scared of it when I 433 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 2: was a kid, because what I would do is I 434 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,760 Speaker 2: would and when I'm when I say kid, I mean 435 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 2: even in like ten eleven, twelve, I remember I would 436 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:11,240 Speaker 2: just get quiet and in my room and just picture 437 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 2: what death might feel like. And even though you probably 438 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 2: don't feel death essentially, although we don't know, it's just 439 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 2: this idea of being black and nothingness would just put 440 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 2: me into some sort of a tail spin. And I 441 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 2: can still go there even in my forties forty seven. 442 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 2: I think I've said that a thousand times today. Maybe 443 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 2: I'm getting scared of my age, but even now I 444 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 2: can put myself there and having kids too. It's funny 445 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 2: because I heard this notion that, oh, when you have kids, 446 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 2: your sort of fear of death goes away because it's 447 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 2: not about you anymore, right, It's about someone else, and 448 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 2: it's about them, protecting them, you know, making sure you 449 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 2: know that they're safe. So it sort of takes this onus, 450 00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 2: this pressure off of you. You become selfless. Well you 451 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 2: know what, that's horseshit because it makes me more afraid, 452 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:13,280 Speaker 2: not for myself but for my kids. 453 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 1: You know. 454 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 2: My shit is like, oh, if I'm not there for 455 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 2: my children, if I go, they are going to be 456 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 2: so screwed up and I cannot do that. So whenever 457 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 2: I fly alone, or because I get a little nervous 458 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:31,120 Speaker 2: to fly, or you know, whenever I go out on 459 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 2: my boat potentially and there's weather, I'm like, all right, dude, 460 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 2: come on. But I truly believe that if you can, 461 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 2: if you can find yourself in an amazing relationship with death, 462 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 2: meaning you don't fear it because it is inevitable, which 463 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:54,600 Speaker 2: it is. And if you can truly not fear death, 464 00:30:55,600 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 2: that's when you can fully live, because fear is sort 465 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 2: of what holds us back from everything. I mean, fear 466 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,280 Speaker 2: number one. I mean, if you were to distill all 467 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 2: of your negative emotions, negative feelings, you're to distill that 468 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 2: down at the bottom of that barrel will be fear. 469 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,480 Speaker 2: And if you can truly eliminate fear, it opens you 470 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 2: up to just living as full as you can live. 471 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 2: You're no longer afraid to take chances, calculated chances. You're 472 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 2: no longer afraid to try something new. You're no longer 473 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 2: afraid to fail. And that's my biggest shit. It's just 474 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 2: to be a failure looking stupid, but you can't learn. 475 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 2: You can't get better unless you fail. It's cliche, but 476 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 2: it's the truth. So I guess my takeaway is just, 477 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 2: you know, let go fucking like go. I mean, they 478 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 2: also never drank or smoked or did anything bad, so 479 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 2: let's not forget about that. I mean, their bodies are 480 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 2: probably like so pure. You know, mine is not mine. 481 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 2: You know, it's it's been through some shit. It's been 482 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 2: through some shit. Anyway, that was fun, it was short, 483 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:28,560 Speaker 2: it was sweet, and I have this feeling that you 484 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 2: know they're gonna be one hundred and forty five years old. 485 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 2: They just see him right on top of it. Anyway, 486 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 2: I will see, I won't see, but I'll be in 487 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 2: your ear I'll be in your in your earbuds in 488 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 2: about a week. So good luck out there everyone. Maybe 489 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 2: I'll do a pirate radio show like Christian Slater wasn't 490 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,720 Speaker 2: pump up the volume where I just talk and riff 491 00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 2: and rant, you know what I mean. But maybe i'll 492 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 2: use that voice disguise are so I sort of seth 493 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 2: like this. Anyway, I don't know what I'm talking about. 494 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 2: I'm out peace. 495 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 1: M