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Speaker 1: Don't gossip.

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Speaker 2: Next next, next one, next one, More more Better, more

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Speaker 2: better Better, welcome. Sorry, you know what this is, what

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Speaker 2: it is. It is what it is, guys. If you

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Speaker 2: don't know by now it, you don't know me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, really off key, Welcome to More Better, a podcast

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Speaker 3: where we stop pretending to have it all together and

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Speaker 3: embrace the journey of being off key and becoming a

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Speaker 3: little more better every day, or at least trying to.

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Speaker 2: That's Melissa Famiro.

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Speaker 1: That's Stephanie Beatrice.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, we're off to a great start. Great start,

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Speaker 2: great start, doing great.

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Speaker 1: We're doing great, Melsa, what.

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Speaker 2: Have you done that's a little more better? Let me

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Speaker 2: just take that back, let me let me try to

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Speaker 2: more better that okay, hold on, yeah, well Lissa, what

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Speaker 2: have you done lately? That's a little more better? That's

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Speaker 2: all natural, so natural, so natural.

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Speaker 4: Well, Stephanie, I literally can't think of anything because I'm

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Speaker 4: drowning currently.

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Speaker 1: No, that sounds you know what. I'm just tired.

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Speaker 5: My More Better this week is just being okay with

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Speaker 5: the bare men of mum.

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Speaker 1: We're just keeping it basic. That's come up for air.

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 1: What you've been doing, Stephanie, that's more better.

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Speaker 2: Uh, you know, I am the opposite right now. I

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Speaker 2: don't have anything going on other than like I am

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Speaker 2: in a little bit of a waiting game because my

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Speaker 2: took it upon myself to you know how you read

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Speaker 2: in the mom blogs and stuff that you're supposed to

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Speaker 2: cycle their toys out if you don't have kids. What

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Speaker 2: that means is to help them have a better brain.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, be a better human. I'm not sure

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Speaker 2: you're supposed to take some of their toys away and

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Speaker 2: put other ones out so they're not overwhelmed by like

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Speaker 2: a bunch of toys. And also you you like it's

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Speaker 2: like introducing new toys to them because they're kind of

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Speaker 2: goldfishy a little bit about toys, or like, well this

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Speaker 2: is new? What's this? So I've never done it before.

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Speaker 2: I did it today. I had some time. I took

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Speaker 2: a bunch of stuff out of her toys. I put

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Speaker 2: and uh, she didn't notice. I don't know is that

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I know they want out of sight, out of mind,

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Speaker 5: like every kid at that age, every toddler, they'll just forget.

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Speaker 5: I love hiding things all the time twins that annoy me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, man, I mean fingers crossed. This child is.

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Speaker 2: This child is not barely playing by herself. She's like, Mommy,

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Speaker 2: you want to come and play with me? And I'm like, man,

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Speaker 2: I get paid to play pretend. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: play pretend for free. I'm trying to do this every

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Speaker 2: day for free. I'm putting on voices, I'm doing an

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 1: That's how I feel.

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Speaker 2: I can't do it.

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Speaker 1: Bro, Are you cutting me a check? Little person?

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Speaker 2: You know? Then the answers no.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, more better.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of work, that's what we wanted to talk about

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Speaker 2: this week. We're going to be discussing work parties. I

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Speaker 2: already feel anxious. How do you feel about work parties?

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Speaker 2: You know, you know, work parties specifically, they are not

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Speaker 2: regular parties, right, No, I would say, like normally big

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Speaker 1: I feel like.

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Speaker 5: There's summer soys too, like summers of the kay big

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Speaker 2: Or like if your work has some kind of big event,

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Speaker 2: like if you're going to oh, conventions, Yeah, we're going

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Speaker 2: for everybody from blah blah blah. So come on down

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Speaker 2: The thing about it, though, is that you're not only

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Speaker 5: You're at work, that's the thing. Yeah, You're not at

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Speaker 1: You're working. Do you like work parties?

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Speaker 2: I really struggle with this. I really struggle with this. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like they're with people from work, so like these are

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Speaker 2: of this art forum. And so, like work parties, you

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Speaker 5: Heads of studios, executives studios.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes, Oh my god. You know who's really good at

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Speaker 2: these Laura Ash She's great at a work party. She

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Speaker 2: knows everyone's name, she remembers everybody. I am not good

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Speaker 1: Bro, Bro, I'm not good at it.

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Speaker 2: Each I can't. I'm really bad at it.

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Speaker 1: They make me feel really anxious. Yeah, I think same.

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Speaker 1: I've gotten a little bit better over the years.

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Speaker 5: I remember the first few that we had to go

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Speaker 5: you should have a drink, Like, just have one drink

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Speaker 5: when you get there, Just have one drink when you

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Speaker 5: get there to relax, yes, to just like kind of

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Speaker 2: Off, right, But like if you're not drinking, I'm not drinking,

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Speaker 2: so like, right, I was super nervous about this rap

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Speaker 2: I can't like do that right now, you know. But

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Speaker 2: from you know, it's a choice that I'm making. But

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Speaker 2: like it's definitely easy to lean on substances when you're

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Speaker 2: You know, there's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, there's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 5: But also like you have to be careful too, because

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Speaker 1: Just being in the middle of a work party and

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm drunk. Do you remember that first dinner we

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Speaker 2: do you remember what I'm talking about? Yeah, Yosa, I

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Speaker 2: Do you remember this. I had so many glasses of

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Speaker 1: God bless him, because I was ripped.

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Speaker 2: Man, I was rip.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember that. Did you just go disappear?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I just left. I just left because I was like,

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Speaker 2: if Mike Sure says I should go home, I should.

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Speaker 1: Go home right now. Remember that? Yeah? I think I

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Speaker 1: do remember turning around and being like, where's that go?

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Speaker 2: Where'd she go? Because I had like a bottle of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, ridiculous, ridiculous.

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Speaker 5: I also remember, uh, we would have to do these parties,

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Speaker 5: So the TCAs were like Television Critics Association have this

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, And then you're like, well, I just say

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Speaker 5: and I don't even know how to get better at that,

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Speaker 5: but it was just awkward.

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Speaker 1: We all just hung out, like the whole cast. We

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Speaker 2: I don't remember that. Where were we? Do you?

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Speaker 1: It was like the one at the Soho House.

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Speaker 2: don't remember that. I was like, where's everybody? Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: thought it was all of us.

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Speaker 1: We were all just over there, and then it was

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Speaker 5: But I think that then as a group we were

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Speaker 2: I mean sometimes I think it depends on what you

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Speaker 2: Uh, because I'm gonna see all these people and like,

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Speaker 2: It was so nice hanging out with you guys. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: The other thing is like I like to have It

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Speaker 1: That to them or whatever, because that makes some smart stuff.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because you're going into it with like some goals,

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Speaker 5: I did the thing, I did the work party.

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Speaker 1: If I'm having a good time, I can stay.

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Speaker 5: But also, like I released myself, I can go I

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Speaker 2: Exactly so I get this party. I really wanted to

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Speaker 2: I did. I'm I like made sure that I like

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Speaker 2: That you know. And then my other like goal that

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Speaker 1: And the other goal was eat all the pretzels.

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Speaker 2: Like they had a they had little you know, those

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Speaker 2: little soft pretzels. What are they called. They're like sour

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Speaker 2: So I had a lot. Those were my goals for

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Speaker 5: Okay, goals for a party being okay with being frank

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Speaker 1: These are hot tips. I am learning you still be rude,

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Speaker 2: and like go to it, like if you really want to,

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Speaker 2: Remember that? Oh yeah at that party? Yeah, the Oscar

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Speaker 5: I wanted to go, but it was late, and we're

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Speaker 1: She hit that two year old mark anymore. She's in

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Yeah, she's in the she's in the fuck sleep.

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Speaker 5: But my children wake up at like five thirty six am,

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Speaker 5: we can stay out later.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: But yes, yes, I do love. I do love a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because at work, it's very At the work party,

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Speaker 2: it's like your bosses are there, you're you're you gotta

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Speaker 2: you gotta act right because I got it. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to get fired because some dumb shit you did

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Speaker 2: it's not worth it. No amount of free alcohol is

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Speaker 5: And everybody remembers the person who got stupid at the

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's so embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: It's so embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's me.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes maybe, Oh I don't think it's ever been you.

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Speaker 5: What's your most memorable like Brooklyn work party or work

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Speaker 5: It doesn't have to be a Brooklyn one, but like,

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Speaker 5: do you have a work party that you were like,

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Speaker 5: this was amazing and I totally nailed it and I

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Speaker 1: I was like, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't know that. I know. I don't think I ever

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Speaker 2: But I also think like separating the idea of like

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Speaker 2: for my brain. It's like, yeah, there's certain pressures that

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Speaker 2: going to succeed. And everybody at that party except for

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Speaker 2: there's someone at your party that you admire there, whatever

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Speaker 2: it is, whatever job you have, if there's somebody that

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Speaker 2: or I look up to your work so much, or

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Speaker 2: you know, I don't know how you got to where

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Speaker 2: have coffee, don't say because that's gross. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 2: that's why I got that number because I wanted to

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Speaker 2: I just think she's so cool. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: I don't have a phone, umber I'd really like to

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Speaker 2: chat with her, not necessarily because I want her to

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Speaker 2: exchange ideas about work outside of this work party situation. Yes,

440
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,120
Speaker 2: I one hundred percent agree that is such a good

441
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 2: point because I feel like I've gotten a little bit

442
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 2: better with that too, and it has led to collaborations

443
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 2: or friendships or.

444
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I used to feel so weird.

445
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 5: I think when I was starting out being like I

446
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 5: like your work, like I don't know, like I was

447
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 5: like afraid it made me look thirsty or like something,

448
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:34,479
Speaker 5: you know, just like overthinking it, desperate or you know.

449
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 5: And then the first time I did it was actually

450
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,160
Speaker 5: with phil Augusta Jackson.

451
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 2: And it was kind of a work party.

452
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 5: And he had like screened some stuff, and there was

453
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:48,119
Speaker 5: like a get together after, but there was like a

454
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 5: lot of people there and it was at an agency,

455
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 5: and I just went up and I was like, I

456
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,199
Speaker 5: love what you do and I'm like a fan, and

457
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,920
Speaker 5: I just if there's ever a way that I could

458
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 5: like support you or show up for you, like, please

459
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 5: let me know because I really think you're so talented.

460
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 5: And he immediately was like, I have a short film

461
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 5: I want to make.

462
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:10,159
Speaker 1: You want to be in it?

463
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,640
Speaker 5: And I was like yes, like and that was kind

464
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 5: of like how our little relationship started. Yea, And it

465
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 5: gave me so much courage after that to be like, oh, just.

466
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 1: Say it, Just say the thing. Just tell people that

467
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 1: you like what they do.

468
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 5: Like people like to hear that, and then sometimes it

469
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 5: leads to, you know, more and creative relationships and collaboration

470
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:33,880
Speaker 5: and it can be amazing.

471
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 1: Yeah.

472
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. It doesn't have to be like a

473
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 2: thirsty thing, you know. I think some people circtly it's like, right,

474
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 2: we're not thirsty, but it's like what are you doing?

475
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 2: What are you? Oh yeah, no, please just like do

476
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 2: that gross. But when it comes from a real place

477
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,920
Speaker 2: of like curiosity because you want to know what they're

478
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 2: creatively doing, you know, like what are you? What is what?

479
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 2: Where's your brain like leading you? Like what is your

480
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 2: curiosity right now? What are you working on next? Like

481
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 2: what are you doing so that I can watch it

482
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 2: when it comes out or whatever? That's specific to us,

483
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 2: but like I do think it applies to a lot

484
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 2: of people.

485
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so.

486
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 2: Okay, So I wanted to redo this thing from Forbes,

487
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 2: which listen, I don't read Forbes very much, but I

488
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 2: was like asking about holiday parties, office parties or whatever,

489
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 2: and there was this executive coach that wrote this article

490
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 2: that's called why your office holiday party is a secret

491
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 2: evaluation and possible job interview. I hate this ready, I

492
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,479
Speaker 2: think it's so yuck to be like, okay, wait this

493
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 2: quote the office holiday party serves as a covert evaluation

494
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: of employees social skills, professionalism, and ability to navigate informal settings.

495
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 2: I advise you to prepare for your holiday party in

496
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 2: the same way you would a performance review or interview.

497
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 2: Boom boo.

498
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 5: I hate that.

499
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's too far. I don't know

500
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 2: the performance review or interview needs the same like intensity.

501
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 2: I think that's so yucky because like it's also like

502
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 2: a holiday party. It's like it's you know, it's not

503
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 2: scrutinize people in casuals.

504
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 1: Can we just yeah?

505
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 2: I mean I gets people are gonna do that, but

506
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 2: just like be I hate I don't know that one.

507
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 2: That's so gross, right, It just that's gross thing that

508
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 2: like the the like like the kids say they gave me.

509
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 2: It comes from Love Island. Remember when I talked about

510
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 2: being being embarrassed that I watched Love Island. That's where

511
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 2: it came from. That's where it was from America.

512
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: I wouldn't know the origin of it without your love.

513
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 2: I love. I do think there's some some truth to

514
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 2: it a little bit, but.

515
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 5: Like, uh, well only as far as listen, if you

516
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 5: act a fool at the holiday party, yes, should you

517
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 5: be judged or like possibly evaluated. Sure, but sure, I

518
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 5: think it's gross to have that approach. I feel like

519
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:35,119
Speaker 5: holiday parties and work parties should also be just like

520
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 5: places to make connection, bonding time, team building, you know

521
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 5: all those like just a time to cut loose with

522
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 5: these people that you spend so many hours with in

523
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 5: a sensible professional way. Sure, like I said, we don't

524
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:56,439
Speaker 5: need to get stupid at.

525
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: The work party.

526
00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 2: We don't need to be ridiculous. It's not it's not

527
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 2: that kind of priorty.

528
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: We don't have to get sloppy.

529
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,199
Speaker 5: Yeah, but oh to put this like pressure of like

530
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 5: you're being scrutinized.

531
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 2: Or evaluated like a performance valuated. Yike, smim, don't do

532
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 2: that to yourself. Don't do that to yourself now, because

533
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 2: I will say that's how I used to not exactly,

534
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 2: but I would put especially in the beginning of work

535
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 2: parties for me, like when I was entering into I'm

536
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 2: a responsible adult. Now I'm getting a paycheck. Now I'm

537
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 2: going to work parties. Yeah, I would put that pressure

538
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 2: on myself. I'd be like, oh my god, they're gonna

539
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 2: like they're gonna think of me as X, Y or

540
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 2: Z or Like I remember being at a theater in

541
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 2: my early part of my career and hearing all these

542
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 2: like little whispers and stuff from other actors saying, you know,

543
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 2: you have to show up at the company bar afterwards

544
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 2: and you have to schmooze and that's how you get

545
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 2: cast and this and that, And I was like, oh,

546
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 2: that's so stressful, Like I want to go to the

547
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,679
Speaker 2: company bar to like hang out with my new friends

548
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 2: and like have some drinks and stuff I don't want to,

549
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 2: you know. And this wasn't a work party. It was

550
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 2: more of like a social situation, you know, right, And

551
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 2: it's too much pressure to think about every single move

552
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 2: you're making. You could think about some of your moves,

553
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 2: but like, I mean, like I didn't wear makeup to

554
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: that rap party.

555
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: Don't be so calculated.

556
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't wear makeup to that rap party because

557
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 2: I didn't have time. I didn't have time.

558
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,679
Speaker 1: Good, good, good.

559
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,199
Speaker 2: And I was like, uh, people are gonna know what

560
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 2: I look like. Oh, that's true, they do. They already

561
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 2: know what you look like. It's fine.

562
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 5: Well, before we wrap it up, I do have one

563
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 5: more fun thing that I wanted to read because our

564
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 5: producer isis she asked Ai how to be better at

565
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 5: work parties? And I think that this list is hilarious

566
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 5: parts of it. So the first one is beyond time. Sure,

567
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 5: I think it's debatable because I think it's okay to

568
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 5: be fashionably late to a work party.

569
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to be the first factionally late. How late though,

570
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 1: no like within the first half hour.

571
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, if it's a dinner, you need to be on time,

572
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:06,479
Speaker 2: like you can be.

573
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 5: It's a dinner, you need to be on time. We

574
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 5: both remember a dinner we were invited to that I went.

575
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 5: I didn't know it was a sit down thing, and

576
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 5: I arrived and it was very embarrassing to come into

577
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 5: the room with a big round table of people sitting down.

578
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 5: And thankfully I wasn't the last person to show up,

579
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 5: but I was a second.

580
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 2: No, you were not to show up. Yeah, it was fine.

581
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 1: It was embarrassing. Uh, dress appropriately?

582
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah that one. Yeah, I don't want to.

583
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 6: You know, ask your if you're curious about what you

584
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 6: is appropriate. Maybe you know, if if HR wouldn't appreciate

585
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 6: you wearing it to work, you probably shouldn't wear it

586
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 6: to a work party.

587
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: That's good.

588
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: Makes that's solid. Yeah. Don't bring a guest unless asked.

589
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: That's yeah.

590
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 2: I like that. I like that. I like that.

591
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: This is my favorite. Watch your guest behavior. You do

592
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: not bring that friend.

593
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 2: Snark people, Okay, Bill from accounting had six beers.

594
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: You guys, don't bring that friend. Okay, you know who

595
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: you you know who they are. Uh, snack before you go.

596
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 2: I love that one actually because I have definitely expected

597
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 2: a tree pass situation at a work party and been

598
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 2: sorely disappointed by the snacks.

599
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 5: Yes, I have definitely showed up to a work party

600
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 5: ravenous and then looked like I don't know what, attacking

601
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 5: every plate that came out or whatever, small buffet and

602
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 5: just like a stockpile of a plate and being.

603
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 2: Like maybe fine, Yeah, the stockpile is actually totally fine.

604
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 2: If people are gonna judge you for how much you

605
00:30:58,800 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: eat at a work.

606
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 5: No, I mean just more like not talking to anyone, because.

607
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 2: That's not good, just not great. That's not great in

608
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 2: search of food because I arrived starving. One time I

609
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 2: went to a fancy work party and they had trey

610
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 2: pass uh little burgers raw. They were raw. Oh yeah,

611
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 2: I had eaten half of one in the dark before

612
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 2: I realized it. I was like, this is weird. No,

613
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 2: it was bad. So eat before you go, Eat before

614
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 2: you go.

615
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 1: That's a good tip. Uh, don't gossip.

616
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 2: Next, next, next one, next one.

617
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 1: Drink responsibly.

618
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 5: We we yes, we discussed, we discussed, yes, and then

619
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 5: this one has.

620
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: A big question mark. Hold your drink in your left hand,

621
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: why so.

622
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 2: You can shake hands with your right?

623
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: Oh?

624
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 2: Is that? Why?

625
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: Is that?

626
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 2: Why?

627
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: Probably you probably just nailed it.

628
00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 2: I like to have things in both hands so that

629
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 2: i'm I don't have to shake anyone's hands. Oh yeah,

630
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 2: that's and then I can be like, oh sorry, I'm

631
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 2: holding my raw Berger.

632
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 5: I know, in this post COVID world, I find it

633
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 5: very like, are we back to shaking hands. I've also

634
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 5: learned as an adult that, uh, when I was younger,

635
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 5: I just used to hug everyone without asking you.

636
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's such a Latin thing, right, So

637
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 2: I just used to hug people and.

638
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I've like kissed people on the cheek

639
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 5: without asking you because it's very Latin as well, and

640
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 5: like and then I, yeah, I have had to be like, oh,

641
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 5: well that makes some people very uncomfortable and like just

642
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 5: because it's my culture, like they shouldn't have to be

643
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 5: on physically uncomfortable because this is how I greet people.

644
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really real. You can't you can't.

645
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

646
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've gotten better about asking, you know, or waiting

647
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 5: to see you know that like awkward moment where you're

648
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 5: both you both go in for it and then you're like,

649
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 5: oh no, do they like hugs? And then I just

650
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 5: go I'm a hugger. I like hugs and then the

651
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 5: other person goes me too, and then you do it.

652
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 2: Oh that's nice.

653
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 5: But yeah, but are we shaking hands? Are we back

654
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 5: to shaking hands? Because remember during COVID when like nobody

655
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 5: was shaking hands. Are we back to shaking hands?

656
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 2: I think you can, Like, I think it's okay to say, like,

657
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 2: you know, what I do is oh I just sneezed,

658
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 2: or like, oh I just I just ate a burger,

659
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 2: so I'm not shaking hands, or like I do that

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Speaker 2: a lot. I'll be and it's usually pretty honest. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I just you know X y Z.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, but you're you're smart to have like yeah,

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Speaker 5: you're both your hands occupied.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like to have them because I don't love

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Speaker 2: a shake hands situation. I do like a hug, but

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Speaker 2: I try to wait until the end of the conversation

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Speaker 2: to see if I feel comfortable enough approaching huh. So

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Speaker 2: in the beginning, I'll just like smile and be like, hi,

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Speaker 2: it's so good to see you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that kind of thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, more better.

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Speaker 2: I feel I feel. Listen, I'm gonna ask you, do

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Speaker 2: you feel more better about work parties after this? Discussion.

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Speaker 5: I do feel more better about work parties because I

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Speaker 5: got some real hot.

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Speaker 1: Tips from you, and I'm oh.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: I feel like they're a little less nerve wracking for me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, after this conversation, do you.

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Speaker 2: Feel more better about work? So glad? Yeah, I feel

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Speaker 2: I mean, weirdly, I feel like the stuff that I

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Speaker 2: was doing was just to manage my own anxiety. So

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Speaker 2: it's nice to hear that it might be helpful to you.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: It's nice to hear that because like I was just going, like,

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Speaker 2: how can I not be in my head this entire

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Speaker 2: experience and like actually be present? What can I do

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Speaker 2: to be present? You know? So it's nice to hear

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Speaker 2: that it's helpful.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, you were like very proactive about it, as

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Speaker 5: opposed to I've just been like floating through them, trying

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Speaker 5: to survive.

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Speaker 2: Trying to break it down, to break it down into

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Speaker 2: little bitty pieces so I can crack the code. I

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Speaker 2: like it.

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Speaker 1: I like it.

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Speaker 2: They're good to tack code. So yeah, Well, we would

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Speaker 2: love to hear about your work parties because we'll be

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Speaker 2: roll honest, like, this is a very specific kind of

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Speaker 2: work that we do, so we want to know, like

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Speaker 2: is your work party super different? Is it like really

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Speaker 2: really casual? Is do the things that we talked about

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Speaker 2: apply to your you know, maybe corporate maybe non corporate job?

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Speaker 2: Like also like did freelancers get together and have work

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Speaker 2: parties or such as a social party? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Let us know, Let us know and we'll see you

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Speaker 1: next week.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bye, guys, Bye, More Better. Do you have something

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Speaker 2: you'd like to be more better at that you want

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Speaker 2: us to talk about in a future episode?

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Speaker 5: Can you relate to our struggles or have you tried

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Speaker 5: one of our tips and tricks?

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Speaker 2: Shoot us your thoughts and ideas at Morebetter pod at

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Speaker 2: gmail dot com and include a voice note if you

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Speaker 2: with Stephanie Melissa is a production from WV Sound and

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Speaker 2: iHeartMedia's My Kuntura podcast network, hosted by Me, Steffie Beatrice,

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Speaker 2: and Melissa Fumero. More Better is produced by Isis Madrid,

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Speaker 2: Leo Clem, and Sophie Spencer Zaebos. Our executive producers are

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Speaker 2: Wilmer Valderrama and Leo Clem at w V Sound. This

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Speaker 2: episode was edited by Isis Madrid and engineered by Sean

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Speaker 2: Tracy and features original music by Madison Davenport and Hello Boy.

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