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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject. Am I dating Cinderella? Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: When I met my new friend, it was like a

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Speaker 1: fairytale romance. I'm twenty eight and he's thirty five and

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Speaker 1: perfect for me because I prayed for an older man

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Speaker 1: but not too old. He has a photography studio and

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Speaker 1: I booked him for a Christmas photo shoot for me

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Speaker 1: and my daughter.

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Speaker 3: After the photo shoot, he.

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Speaker 1: Asked me to have dinner with him, so my daughter

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Speaker 1: and I went to dinner with him. After that, he

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Speaker 1: planned dinner dates with us every night that week. I

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Speaker 1: couldn't wait for my daughter to go to her dad's

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Speaker 1: later that week so I could spend quality time with

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Speaker 1: my new friend. He had kept telling me how good

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Speaker 1: he was in bed, and I couldn't wait to see It.

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Speaker 1: Was supposed to go down at his house, but it

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Speaker 1: was raining really badly, so he came over to my house.

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Speaker 3: We didn't waste time talking. We went straight to bed.

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Speaker 1: He had exaggerated a little bit on his skill levels,

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Speaker 1: but it was still good for an older man. Since

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Speaker 1: the weather was bad, I thought he would spend the night.

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Speaker 1: He didn't. He got up around eleven thirty and got

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Speaker 1: dressed quickly, like he was late for work or something.

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Speaker 1: I told him to call me when he got home,

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Speaker 1: but I didn't hear from him until the next day.

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Speaker 1: He said he missed me, and he asked if he

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Speaker 1: could see me. I said we could meet for dinner.

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Speaker 1: He said he wanted to pick up food and eat

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Speaker 1: at my house instead. We ate, then we had sex,

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Speaker 1: and then he told me that he needed to be

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Speaker 1: home by midnight. I told him that it was not

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Speaker 1: cute to have sex and run out. He apologized, but

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Speaker 1: said he really had to go. He has done the

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Speaker 1: four times, and I wonder what's so significant about midnight.

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Speaker 1: He told me to chill and learn to live in

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Speaker 1: the moment. What's up with this man? Am I dating Cinderella? No,

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Speaker 1: not Cinderella or Cindefella, none of those.

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Speaker 3: He's just married, that's all.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're his side piece and he has to

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Speaker 1: do you then make sure he's home before his wife

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Speaker 1: gets in. That's his curfew, that's all. He's pretty much

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Speaker 1: told you that when he said.

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Speaker 3: He had to get home by midnight. Except why didn't

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Speaker 3: you ask him why? Right then? And there? Are you

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Speaker 3: afraid to ask him these important questions? You need to

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Speaker 3: know this. You can't be scared.

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Speaker 1: That's something you definitely need to know because you are

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Speaker 1: clearly not reading between the lines here. Has that not

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Speaker 1: crossed your mind, not even once? That he could be married.

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Speaker 1: That's why he's racing home and doing all this stuff

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Speaker 1: eating at your house.

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Speaker 3: I mean the clues are there.

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Speaker 1: You want to go out, he wants food, to bring

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Speaker 1: it to the house so he won't get caught being

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Speaker 1: out with you or something. Please ask him these questions

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Speaker 1: so you can get the answers you need and move

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Speaker 1: on with your life.

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Speaker 4: Steve, Well, have you ever read a letter in with

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Speaker 4: because I mean Sureley answered the letter really adequately.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's just it's glaringly obvious to everybody that

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Speaker 4: has heard this letter.

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Speaker 2: What this situation is. But I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Some people you have to slow welcome through information because

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Speaker 4: a lot of times you want you want to believe

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Speaker 4: for your heart's sake. And I get it, I get it.

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Speaker 4: You want to believe for your heart's sakes, so you

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Speaker 4: shut your brain off from doing what it's supposed to do.

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Speaker 2: And that's like think.

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Speaker 4: A person's brain is designed to think, to absorb information

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Speaker 4: to learn. Obviously, you don't want to absorb no information

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Speaker 4: because you don't want to learn the facts.

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Speaker 2: Here.

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Speaker 4: So there's nothing we can do to help you. But

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Speaker 4: here we go. I met my new friend. It was

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Speaker 4: like a fairy tale romance. See that's all she wanted.

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Speaker 4: She wants a fairy tale romance. See just listen to

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Speaker 4: this letter, y'all. I met my new friend. It was

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Speaker 4: like a fairy tale romance. Okay, she's been wanting that

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Speaker 4: since little girl. He's twenty eight and thirty five and

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Speaker 4: perfect for me because I prayed for older man. Okay,

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Speaker 4: so now soon as you meet an older man, you

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Speaker 4: immediately begin your fairy tale romance.

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Speaker 2: Now, if you twenty eight and he thirty five. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to.

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Speaker 4: Break this two news to you, but that ain't really

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Speaker 4: no older man. That's just another dude. Because women and

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Speaker 4: men mature differently. Women is a known fact. This is

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Speaker 4: not me talking. Women mature more quickly and rapidly than

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Speaker 4: men because they have to, because somewhere in eighteen years

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Speaker 4: they start experiencing these little girl moments.

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Speaker 2: That has to grow them up a little bit quicker.

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Speaker 4: They have to start working around a certain time and

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Speaker 4: all this hit and they had to prepare theirself, so

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Speaker 4: they mature quicker than boys, and they have to think

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Speaker 4: about what they're doing and what happens, and you know,

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Speaker 4: reproduction and the boys were just done for a long time.

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Speaker 4: So he's got a photography studio. In that studio, you

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Speaker 4: booked it for a Christmas photo shoot, you and your daughter.

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Speaker 4: After the photo shoot, they asked you and your daughter

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Speaker 4: to dinner. They went, and after that he's playing dinner

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Speaker 4: day for us every night that week. Ain't that nice?

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Speaker 4: This is a fairy tale romance. He loves you and

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Speaker 4: the baby. So I couldn't wait for my daughter to

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Speaker 4: go to her dad's later that week, so I could

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Speaker 4: Sperien some quality time with my new friends, and he

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Speaker 4: had been telling me how good he was in bed.

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Speaker 4: I could not wait to see. It was supposed to

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Speaker 4: go down at his house, but it was raining really bad,

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Speaker 4: so he came over to my house. All right, Now,

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Speaker 4: hold up right there, unless he's days in a refrigerator box,

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Speaker 4: I don't really know what that damn rain got to

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Speaker 4: do with it. Now, if you stay under the bridge,

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Speaker 4: you know in your roof is a refrigerator box or tarp,

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Speaker 4: then I understand you know you ain't you know?

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Speaker 2: Okay, but I don't know how. But it raining really bad.

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Speaker 2: So we came. We didn't waste no time talking. We

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Speaker 2: went straight to bed.

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Speaker 4: He had exaggerated a little bit on his skill level,

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Speaker 4: but it was still good for older man. I ain't

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Speaker 4: gonna tell you no more thirty five. That ain't no

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Speaker 4: older man. Don't he know for bedroom skills at thirty five?

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Speaker 3: Hang on, Steve, coming up for twenty five minutes.

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Speaker 2: Still bringing it that when you give a credit.

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Speaker 1: Twenty three minutes after the out, we'll have part two

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Speaker 1: of your response Today's Strawberry letter subject at my dating Cinderella.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: Steve Hardy Morning Show. Come on, Steve. Let's recap today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject is am I dating Cinderella.

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Speaker 4: Well, this lady that metus what she claims as a romance,

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Speaker 4: a fairy tale romance. So what she didne did was

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Speaker 4: she didne got with this guy that she meant that

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Speaker 4: he's older than her. He's thirty five, she's twenty eight.

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Speaker 4: He said, that's she had been praying for an older man.

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Speaker 4: He not really older. Thirty five and twenty eight, that's

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Speaker 4: seven years. That's just another dude you done met. Now,

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Speaker 4: y'all didn't got together.

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Speaker 2: Y'all went over.

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Speaker 4: You went to a photography studio with your daughter doing

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Speaker 4: a Christmas photo shoot. He took the picture. The me

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Speaker 4: asked y'all to dinner. You and your daughter, y'all went

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Speaker 4: out to dinner, had a nice time. Then he's just

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Speaker 4: playing to dinner date for y'all every night that week. Okay, cool,

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Speaker 4: that's worth. Then you couldn't wait for her, your daughter

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Speaker 4: to go to a daddy house this weekend because so

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Speaker 4: you could spend some quality time with your new friend.

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Speaker 4: And he had been bragging about how good he was

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Speaker 4: in bed. Now, I don't know at what part of

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Speaker 4: the dinner when you and the daughter where he was

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Speaker 4: letting you know how good he was. I showed would

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Speaker 4: have liked to have been at the table when he

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Speaker 4: was sliding that past. Oh baby, you like to wear

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Speaker 4: your steak done. Yeah, I really know how to do steak. Huh,

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Speaker 4: you feel me? He ain't want some baked cookies or

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Speaker 4: when it comes to bacon, that's what I do. I

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Speaker 4: likes to bake that cookie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I'm just assuming this is the conversation he had

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Speaker 4: to have at dinner with you and the daughter to

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Speaker 4: let you know how good he was in bed.

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Speaker 2: You couldn't wait. Well you got there, now, y'all.

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Speaker 4: Was supposed to go down at your house, but it

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Speaker 4: rained real bad, so he had to stay at home.

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Speaker 4: He had we well it had to he was coming

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Speaker 4: to he was He was supposed to be at his house,

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Speaker 4: but it rained real bad, so he came over to

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Speaker 4: your house. Now, like I said, unless he stay under

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Speaker 4: the bridge in a refrigerator box. I don't know what

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Speaker 4: the hell they got to do with it. But you

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Speaker 4: didn't see that. It's okay. So now then you said

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Speaker 4: he exaggerated a little bit how good he was in bed,

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Speaker 4: but it was still good and and and she said,

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Speaker 4: and he was, he said, but it was still good

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Speaker 4: for an older man.

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Speaker 2: Let me explain.

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Speaker 4: You posted still be good at thirty five. As a

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Speaker 4: matter of fact, you're starting to come into your own.

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Speaker 4: You don't really get this sex thing down as a man.

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Speaker 4: To you're in the forties. You got to help, you know,

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Speaker 4: disappointed a couple of people before, you know, you had

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Speaker 4: to have found out that you ain't what all you

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Speaker 4: thought you was a couple of times. You know, to

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Speaker 4: get your game up, you got to be in your forties.

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Speaker 4: He was pretty good for an old man at thirty five, lady.

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Speaker 4: If that's what you're thinking, oh, you're in trouble now.

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Speaker 4: If he was seventy and you was telling me this,

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Speaker 4: I'd be clapping for the dude. But he thirty five.

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Speaker 4: He posted still be good. You don't get you don't

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Speaker 4: get you're getting no credit for being thirty five. He

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Speaker 4: can still gold.

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Speaker 2: That's no good anyway.

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Speaker 4: He got up and he got about eleven thirty, and

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Speaker 4: he got dressed quickly, like he was late for work

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Speaker 4: or something. I told him to call me when he

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Speaker 4: got home, but I ain't hear from him till next day.

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Speaker 4: He said he missed me and asked him he could

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Speaker 4: see me again. I said we could meet for dinner.

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Speaker 4: He said he wanted to pick up the food and

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Speaker 4: eat at my house instead. We ate, then we had sex.

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Speaker 4: Then he told me he needed to be home by midnight.

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Speaker 4: I told him that's not cute to have sex and

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Speaker 4: run out. He apologized, but said I really got to go.

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Speaker 4: I don't give a damn bout what you think is cute.

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Speaker 4: I got to skip my ass to the house.

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Speaker 2: He was done.

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Speaker 4: He has done this four times, and I wonder what

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Speaker 4: is so significant about midnight. He told me to chill

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Speaker 4: this man and my dating a Cinderella. Well, you're not

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Speaker 4: dating a Cinderella. You're not dating to send a fella.

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Speaker 4: You're dating somebody else's fella. That's all it is.

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Speaker 2: He You ain't dating Cinderella, You're dating somebody else's fella.

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Speaker 4: He got to be at that house by twelve because

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Speaker 4: she know what time the studio closed, and he booked

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Speaker 4: is from the house. Why are you sitting up here

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Speaker 4: talking about what's up with this man? Am I dating

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Speaker 4: a Cinderella?

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Speaker 2: No, she's young you.

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Speaker 4: Maybe you don't need no older man. Matter of fact,

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Speaker 4: you twenty eight. You need to start dating a twenty

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Speaker 4: one year old you need That's what you need to do.

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Speaker 4: Once she got up in the thirties. I don't know

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Speaker 4: what man in his thirties and don't don't come with

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Speaker 4: with nothing or what man don't have a history by

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Speaker 4: he got chilled, if he got a wife, he got

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Speaker 4: a family, he got a livy in lover.

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Speaker 2: You need to find out where his kids stay.

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Speaker 4: You ain't asking no question because you were so content

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Speaker 4: on saying you met your fairy tale romance and he

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Speaker 4: was what you prayed for.

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Speaker 2: He was older. Just because you pray for something don't

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Speaker 2: mean as God descending.

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Speaker 1: It to you.

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Speaker 2: See, you gotta ask some questions.

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Speaker 4: God.

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Speaker 2: You can always meet the older man. Hell, that ain't hard.

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Speaker 2: Why that's hard? You can meet the older man, that's easy.

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Speaker 2: But you want an older man that's available for you?

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Speaker 4: Right? You didn't get none of that information, sister, You

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Speaker 4: not You haven't asked one relevant question because you were

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Speaker 4: too busy and join your fairy tale romance. And this

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Speaker 4: older man that you had prayed for that God sent

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Speaker 4: to you. Only thing was God didn't send him to you.

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Speaker 4: You just call it's a deadly men and older man. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: several women.

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Speaker 2: Have met that same man, all right.

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