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Speaker 2: Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all bay.

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Speaker 1: At all at all?

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Speaker 3: Soon given them.

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Speaker 1: Black the busy listening to.

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Speaker 2: Show.

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Speaker 3: I don't joy, Yeah, joy.

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Speaker 4: Show.

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Speaker 3: You gotta do love, you gotta turn.

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Speaker 1: You have to turn the mouth. Turn You probably got

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Speaker 1: to turn the mouth. Turn the mouth, turn the mono.

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Speaker 2: Come come on, you'll think that.

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Speaker 1: I sure will.

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Speaker 5: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on,

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Speaker 5: dig me now. One and all is Steve Harvey. Man

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Speaker 5: got a radio show. How good is God?

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Speaker 2: Huh? Think about it?

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Speaker 5: Just take a slight inventory of your own life and

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Speaker 5: say it to yourself when you get through, how good

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Speaker 5: is God? Think of all the small things all because

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Speaker 5: that's him. You breathing, that's him. You still here, that's him.

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Speaker 5: You got another chance?

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Speaker 2: That's him.

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Speaker 5: You ain't out of here. That's him. You got any

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Speaker 5: measure of health, that's him. You think it's more to

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Speaker 5: it than it really is than it already showed up

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Speaker 5: to be.

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Speaker 2: That's him. All of that.

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Speaker 6: You got, any dreams or aspirations you dream of other things.

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Speaker 2: That's him.

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Speaker 5: All that, that's him, that's him. Him, clothes you got,

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Speaker 5: that's him. Every time you eat. That's why they had

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Speaker 5: this thing called you say you're grace. That's him. See

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Speaker 5: that's him, man, that's him. It's amazing. When you take

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Speaker 5: a small inventory, you find out how big God really

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Speaker 5: is in your life. Now, the more you turn yourself

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Speaker 5: over to him, the bigger he can be for you. See,

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Speaker 5: he'll only be as big as you let him. It's

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Speaker 5: one thing about God. Now, he's a gentleman. He can

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Speaker 5: make you do anything. You know, you get too big

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Speaker 5: for him, you know, you you lose your humbleness. He

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Speaker 5: can humble you.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 5: God created man with the power of choice. We're the

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Speaker 5: only creature he created that. He gave us the total

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Speaker 5: power of choice when we mate, who we mate with.

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Speaker 5: You know everything, all of it. Man, it's a choice.

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Speaker 5: What we want to be, how much we want to make,

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Speaker 5: You know, we speak different languages. You can go learn

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Speaker 5: another language. A bear can't do nothing but be a

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Speaker 5: bear is he can't go learn how to be a fox.

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Speaker 5: Ain't gonna learn how to be an otter.

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Speaker 5: An ostrich is an ostrich Man. He can't come out

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Speaker 5: A lion eat meat. He can't eat vegetables. I don't

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Speaker 2: He just a lion. Man.

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Speaker 6: You understand this that.

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Speaker 5: God gave us. We are the one creature he created

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Speaker 5: that has total power of choice. You can make every

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Speaker 5: That's the one you can buy. You want to live

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Speaker 5: in Switzerland, go ahead. You don't like Switzerland, you can

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Speaker 1: For crime, go ahead.

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Speaker 6: That's you.

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Speaker 2: He gave you the power choice you want to do? Right?

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Speaker 6: Come on, So now look at this thing.

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Speaker 1: We are all.

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Speaker 6: The results of a series of decisions that we have made.

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Speaker 5: If we could just identify that the problem is us,

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Speaker 6: See that's the problem, y'all, it's us. It's what we do.

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Speaker 6: I threw my life down the hill.

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Speaker 5: I can't tell you how many years based on some

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Speaker 5: and I was in miserying y'all on that he ain't.

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Speaker 2: Yes to you.

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Speaker 5: When you get through, you made the decisions though, And

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Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, I'm just talking

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Speaker 2: And how do you do that? You got to have

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Speaker 6: You got to identify the problem to even begin to

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Speaker 2: But if the.

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Speaker 1: Problem ain't ever you, how you gonna solve something that

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Speaker 5: Okay, let me look at this one. If somebody say,

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Speaker 5: it this morning, bore. I'm struggling with this this boy.

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Speaker 5: But man, you go to people, you ask them why

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Speaker 5: they do so I just did. I just wasn't taking

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Speaker 5: do you understand that your life is gonna be filled

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Speaker 5: You can't.

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Speaker 1: You can't go through life. Blame it everybody. It's got

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Speaker 1: to be you.

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Speaker 2: See, you can fix you.

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Speaker 5: You can't fix nobody else if you keep getting married

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Speaker 5: and the marriages don't work. Hello, Hello, Hello?

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Speaker 1: Could it be you?

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Speaker 6: South Foundly had to sit down and just make that decision.

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Speaker 5: Ain don't need to be coming on the radio talking

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Speaker 5: about nobody else and what they did to me, and

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Speaker 5: y'all just don't know. No, no, no, man, what about

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Speaker 5: get down to you the one picked them, how about that, mister, mister,

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Speaker 5: I made a decision. The problem is usually within yourself.

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Speaker 5: Do you know that's the quickest and easy way to

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Speaker 5: fix your life. That way, you ain't got to check

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Speaker 5: hope that your local politician get their hands on it

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Speaker 5: You don't have to check into rehair. All you got

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Speaker 5: to do is decide the problem is me. I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: this or how to get to accomplishing something. But remember

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Speaker 5: this planning is important. If you fail to plan, then

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Speaker 5: please plan to fail. If you don't know how to

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Speaker 5: make a plan, let's just start with the basics. Just

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Speaker 5: make a list of what you want. Make this list

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Speaker 5: and then go to God in prayer with an open

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Speaker 5: mind and open your mind up to all the clean

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Speaker 5: opportunities that are available here. Why a lot of people

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Speaker 1: That kills me.

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Speaker 5: Man, when I hear here, I ain't doing that. I

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Speaker 5: know young comedians that come to me all in time.

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Speaker 5: I'm talking about man with you, and I say, man,

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Speaker 2: What it pays.

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Speaker 5: Well, listen to me, son, you can go make that

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Speaker 5: hard business. They ain't paying but one hundred dollars. You

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Speaker 5: and you make the hundred and you stand on that

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Speaker 5: they ain't man, they don't pay me. I ain't coming.

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Speaker 5: You ain't finna be a comedian, man, not not like

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Speaker 5: this here. A lot of people just don't want to

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Speaker 5: identify your problem today, start with the part that'sh you.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 5: Ladies and gentlemen, let's get to it. Today is the

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Speaker 5: day that the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and

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Speaker 5: be glad in it. I'm gonna tell you why, because

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Speaker 5: any other days. Yesterday gone futures is not promised. Today

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Speaker 5: your tood right. Get the two together, man, triple tease

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Speaker 5: up in here. Start with gratitude you have to, which

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Speaker 5: will immediately affect your attitude, which has a direct correlation

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Speaker 2: It's them toudes, baby, you get them together. You can

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Speaker 2: be somebody, man, that's my plan. I wnna be somebody.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna mess around somehow, some way with a little

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Speaker 2: Mess around to be somebody.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what y'all doing, I'm telling you, but

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Speaker 2: Trade gratitude, attitude, altitude. That's Steve Harll Moore shure. That's

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Speaker 5: Shirley Strawberry calling for real junior smile for the South,

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Speaker 6: Legend of Nephew Tommy Junior, Your.

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Speaker 7: Let me ask youself, man, because it's like the comes

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Speaker 7: with my nephew man, and he just he wanted. Now

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Speaker 7: it's such a microwave society today. I want the money. Now,

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Speaker 7: I want this lifestyle now, I want everything now, And

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Speaker 7: they don't understand. They're gonna have to trust this is

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Speaker 2: He just wanted me to do it for him. That's good,

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Speaker 5: No, I didn't have nobody I could even want to

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I got you, brother, But must I remind.

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Speaker 2: This right here is God is not through with you,

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach sister Takara. This is

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Speaker 9: I'm at work?

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Let me just start by by saying this. God might

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Speaker 3: You're not tithing as we expected. You know, the church

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Speaker 3: We cannot depend on you all to be the members

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Speaker 9: What you say, you say your name is.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and you work, you work under the DJ.

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Speaker 9: I'm sorry, I've never.

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Speaker 3: And Sister Takar, I got I have to be honest

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Speaker 9: Well, okay, you can't saying that. Thatsten why I don't understand, like,

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Speaker 9: I can't. I can't have to go every single week?

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Speaker 3: I mean, why are you absent so much at the church?

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Speaker 3: Explain that?

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Speaker 9: I mean, I have three kids, you know, I mean

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Speaker 9: I have two jobs. Sometimes I don't. I mean I

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Speaker 9: Two jobs because I can't afford.

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Speaker 3: You just said I got two jobs. That's what you

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Speaker 9: Are in support my kids. I mean, I can't support

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Speaker 9: can't do vote. I mean, I get when I can, let.

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Speaker 3: Me ask you something, what are you making on that

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Speaker 9: Are you? Are you really?

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Speaker 3: You? Really? You?

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Speaker 9: Really?

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what the church?

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Speaker 3: God? Is this deep?

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Speaker 9: What you're really asking me? How much I make? And

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Speaker 9: Come on, now, that's gotta be something.

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Speaker 3: This is I'm gonna say this to you again. God

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Speaker 3: do you benefit? The church?

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Speaker 9: Is that what the church is about?

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Speaker 3: This? I'm gonna say this. I'm gonna say this to you.

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Speaker 3: You let me tell you what the church is all about.

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Speaker 10: The church is and you say we done with you

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Speaker 10: again one more time?

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Speaker 1: I'm serious.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna tell you this you're talking about? Is

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Speaker 3: that what the church is about? Let me tell you

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Speaker 3: church is. But when when we have the souls that

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Speaker 3: And guess what those people that are coming in, you

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Speaker 3: know what they're doing. They're tithing, That's what they're doing.

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Speaker 3: They're tithing you, sister Takara, I'm sure your soul is crippled.

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Speaker 3: You're not coming and you're not tithing. You may give

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Speaker 9: Okay? Hold, let me get what is straight. This is

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Speaker 9: the church because I don't give enough money to the

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Speaker 9: afford to pay my bills with. So matter of fact,

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Speaker 9: I don't even know who you are. I've never met

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Speaker 9: you in my life, and I don't know what this church.

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: This church?

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Speaker 9: I hate to say it, but if that's what the

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Speaker 3: Okay, no, no, no, now, let me say something now,

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Speaker 3: you being very Unchristian like, now is the card You're

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Speaker 3: gonna watch it done? In your language? Him?

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Speaker 9: This is not Christian like?

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Speaker 3: Well, well do you do you know brother Dwane? Isn't

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 3: And my brother Dwyane is who told me to call you?

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Speaker 9: Really my brother? So well, so what is it about?

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Speaker 3: Huh? Whatever?

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Speaker 9: I don't know what is your name?

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Speaker 3: My name is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: Your brother Dwanne got me the prank phone call you.

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Speaker 2: No, mo.

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Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, yo, he's not You can't meet by

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Speaker 1: My you're looking at me.

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Speaker 10: Oh my gosh, you all right, Jerry me?

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Speaker 3: What's up? No?

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Speaker 10: No, no, oh my god, oh my god.

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Speaker 9: My heart is racing.

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Speaker 3: Tell me that's the car. What is the baddest and

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Go ahead, sir, take it.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: Thanks, nep coming up. It is as the c l O.

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Speaker 8: Cheaf Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building, ready for

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 8: It is time to ask the CLO. Our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 8: Steve Harvey is ready. And this one's from Nicole Colo.

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Speaker 8: Nicole and Raleigh writes, I'm twenty eight years old and

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Speaker 8: I reconnected with a guy that was a troublemaker when

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Speaker 1: He's been in the.

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Speaker 8: Military and he's a changed man. But I'm scared my

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Speaker 8: to my parents about him?

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Speaker 1: First?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean you can if you're serious. You know,

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Speaker 2: everybody got a pass. But that military has straightened a

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Speaker 2: That military has done some amazing things in some people's lives. Man,

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Speaker 2: I've seen it happen. So that military is given some

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Speaker 5: He might have been a trouble maker, but you know,

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Speaker 5: don't do nothing that I do. I don't do nothing

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Speaker 5: now that I did at eighteen. Nothing, No, that would

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Speaker 6: I can't do nothing.

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Speaker 1: No, why you are enrich? You are right now?

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Speaker 6: I sure somebody tell me, man, if you could go

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Speaker 6: back to twenty one, would you do it for what?

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Speaker 2: In that moment?

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Speaker 10: Don't know?

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Speaker 5: You go back then? Making him decision no longer? Yeah,

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Speaker 5: but you have money though I don't need this money.

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Speaker 5: At twenty one, I'd have blew it for show. I'd

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Speaker 8: Like a lot of winners, some of those all right?

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Speaker 8: Moving on, Moving on to Twanda and Philly, to Wanda Wrights.

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Speaker 8: I left my husband after he cheated on me with

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Speaker 1: Would I be wrong to get her fired?

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Speaker 5: Hell no?

444
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Speaker 1: What go forward?

445
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 3: Hell no?

446
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 5: I go straight to h'all with that picture? Yeah, corporate

447
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 5: headquarters of everybody to see his picture? What is the

448
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 5: nasty exchange photough, I come to your house if I

449
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 5: want to.

450
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 2: Okay, what is that?

451
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:53,880
Speaker 4: Lucky?

452
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 2: She wasn't at called a house. That's all I can here.

453
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 11: What you're not gonna do is cheat with my husband

454
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 11: and then take Pope pictures in my house.

455
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 2: Hold up, but then argue with me about it.

456
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

457
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 2: See, this is no longer an hr of fad. This

458
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 2: is we down at the police station. Now we're down

459
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 2: there filling out paperwork. We in interrogation rooms. I'm in

460
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 2: that little room that they have you in on forty

461
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 2: eight hours. Hold, I'm in that shield. Yeah, I'm trying

462
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 2: to answer questions. Can we ask you? Who is the

463
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 2: people in the background, sir, on that picture frame? Who

464
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 2: would that be? Uh? I don't know that they would.

465
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 2: Well reading, I'm down here because that's my family. Okay,

466
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 2: that's just your family that's in the in the background.

467
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:47,120
Speaker 2: That's who that is. Yeah, okay, Now who's the lady

468
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 2: in the front of the picture with you you're talking

469
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,479
Speaker 2: about what you're talking about making a little colder, make

470
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 2: it a little colder in here. A person that's on

471
00:25:56,359 --> 00:26:00,479
Speaker 2: the picture with you, sir, that's my family. So let

472
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 2: me help you out. That's my family.

473
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 5: The reason I'm down here is because my boss, who

474
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 5: was a man, was in my house.

475
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 2: With my wife and took that picture. Oh I see

476
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 2: now that why got clarity? And you're here because of

477
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 2: what sir. I'm the reason that all this yellow tape

478
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 2: was out there. What we saw the post.

479
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 1: We're moving on to Cheryl.

480
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:32,640
Speaker 2: I'm down here to clear that part up, to go detective,

481
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 2: But sir, can you explain the tape around the outside

482
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 2: of the house. Well, why is it so much? D

483
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 2: all right?

484
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: Moving on to Cheryl and Montgomery.

485
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 8: Cheryl says, I'm forty nine and my boyfriend will be

486
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 8: get this eighty soon. I have been battling his son

487
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 8: over a property his dad gifted me. I've been with

488
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 8: this man for ten years, so I'm past the gold

489
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 8: digger stage. How much grace should I show his fifty

490
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:12,120
Speaker 8: eight year old son? Before I snapped, she's forty nine,

491
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:13,640
Speaker 8: he'll be eighty soon.

492
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 2: Well, how much is it are? How much we fighting

493
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 2: over whatever it is?

494
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 6: The sun son?

495
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 2: Thank you? My daddy old and can't make these decisions.

496
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 2: Nobo and she then came up here with some rice

497
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 2: Christis and put some snap crackle pop on him, and

498
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 2: now all exaid, he ain't.

499
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 5: He ain't thinking, so I think that's where the sun

500
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 5: is at. But she been with him ten years. You

501
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 5: knew this day was coming, lady, Let's quit playing. He

502
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 5: ain't knewing that any day now hard to be up

503
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 5: on some of this property.

504
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 2: You knew that.

505
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, so ten years Steve, So she was

506
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: thirty nine and thirty nine she knew what she was

507
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: doing then, Yo, Yo, she knew what we's doing there.

508
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 5: Listen, because at a certain point you start thinking about

509
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 5: your immortality.

510
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 6: You really don't, I mean, you really do. Fifty If

511
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 6: you hit the fifty.

512
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 5: Here mark, you start going okay, because now you know

513
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 5: pretty much the chances are.

514
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 6: The road behind you is a lot longer than the

515
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 6: one in front of you.

516
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 2: You start quarter by.

517
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: Quote one more time, you got about twenty more summers.

518
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: See when you breaking down like the no.

519
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 2: On the third quarter? Buddy?

520
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 10: All right?

521
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: So should she? So should she? How much grace before

522
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: she snaps on the fifty eight year old.

523
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 6: Well you can go on to snap, but you're fin

524
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 6: to hear some stuff you ain't heard before.

525
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 5: Now, she be careful about all that snapping, because getting

526
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 5: people snap normally get snapped back, and you're finn to

527
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 5: hear some stuff what you had had not heard before.

528
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 2: So be careful about this snapping. That's my dash.

529
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 3: You.

530
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you sitting a been talking about you passed

531
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 2: the gold digger. Stay you can, you.

532
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 5: Can, You can be a gold digger longer than ten years.

533
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 5: You knew when you was with the dude what you

534
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 5: was banking on. Yeah, that's how your name got on

535
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 5: the property you was investing in. You knew this day

536
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 5: was coming. You knew it wasn't gonna be here much longer.

537
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 2: Been waiting.

538
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: Actually yeah, actually it was too long.

539
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 2: Time has taken him so long long? Ain't nobody eighty

540
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 2: investing in the stock market. I'm just gonna tell you,

541
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 2: all right, Celo, thank you, Steve Harvey Moore on The

542
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 2: show Man. Ain't nobody playing with y'all.

543
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:03,719
Speaker 5: This show, I have said thousand times, is for enlightenment, entertainment,

544
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 5: entertainment and inspiration. And entertainment is a big part of

545
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 5: this show. A lot of Loss eight listeners because you

546
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 5: don't get the joke. I'm not apologizing for nothing, and

547
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 5: I ain't preparing No, I'm sorry statement I tell Joe

548
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 5: and for living.

549
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 1: And if you didn't like to joke, tune in tomorrow.

550
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: I have others. So here's a question for you, guys.

551
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 8: Did you ever write love letters to your high school

552
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 8: sweetheart or to women period?

553
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 1: I mean, do you think the.

554
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, how.

555
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 6: I lived in segregation. You ain't wrote no letter.

556
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 5: They may stamp talking about and licked them, trying to

557
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 5: hope that this girl would want me back.

558
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 3: What'd you say?

559
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 2: You drop stuff off?

560
00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 5: I'll tell you one of the deepest things I did was,

561
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 5: I was a senior in our high school.

562
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 2: Man I wanted this girl man so bad.

563
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 5: I wrote the lyrics to Devotion by Earth, Wind and

564
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 5: Fire on a poster board, rolled it up, put it

565
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 5: in my I tucked my T shirt in my pants,

566
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 5: put it in the back of my T shirt like

567
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 5: a like a bow and arrow case, and got on

568
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 5: my bike and rode over to her house and rolled

569
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 5: um down the street till she came out on the porch.

570
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 5: And just because y'all had no way of calling her,

571
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 5: you know, so rode them down the street till she

572
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 5: came out. I got off my bike and handed it

573
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 5: to her. She unrolled it on the thing and read

574
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 5: the whole lyrics to devotion.

575
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: Oh did she cry or was she?

576
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 6: Yeah?

577
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 2: She cried, Yeah when her father came out on the

578
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 2: porch and put my softy porch, get your boat.

579
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: SOI media evil. What about your nephew?

580
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 2: Definitely? High school? Sweetheart wrote it walk to the high school.

581
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 2: Little sweet love was so brand new.

582
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: As my grandmama say. My nose was wide open.

583
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 2: If you ain't had your nose wide open, you ain't live.

584
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 7: Come on, man, no, we I'm three generations from three months.

585
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 7: That's two fun We open here texting. I mean, I

586
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 7: made cassette tape.

587
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 1: That's what I had. I had that. I listened quiet

588
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: stole Press playing Paul's for you record the song did

589
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: you Call the Dog? That's what I had to do.

590
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 2: But we love letters.

591
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: We had technoledge.

592
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 2: By this time, we was paying paper boy.

593
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all were paying a paper in it man.

594
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 2: That pony express with my bike.

595
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 1: Express.

596
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, delivered myself.

597
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 5: They on know three days and you know, mal it

598
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 5: took three days even locally, three days to get to

599
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 5: somebody's house locally. You write a letter, man, I ain't

600
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 5: gonna time for this here. I gotta ride this over there. Yeah,

601
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 5: I had pony express me in that bike.

602
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 3: Bo.

603
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 2: Man, I had I wrote it. I wrote a girl

604
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 2: a letter one time, man, and I, you know, I

605
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: just wanted her to like.

606
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 5: I drove it over the house and put it in there,

607
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 5: uh uh mailbox, and I'm riding up the street and

608
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 5: then I come back down the hill just to see

609
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 5: and uh she would had reached out there and pull

610
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 5: the uh let out the mailbox, didn't even open it

611
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 5: and just tow it in half.

612
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 3: Man.

613
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: That broke my heart, man, heartbreaking.

614
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, hell yeah.

615
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 2: I had to write it on there, you know.

616
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you.

617
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 5: Know, got put it in the mailbox. Got to make

618
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 5: sure her mama, daddy don't get it, have a name

619
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 5: on it and everything. She as soon as I came

620
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 5: back down the hill, I said, Man, she reaching in

621
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 5: the mailbox to get it.

622
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 2: She pulled it out the mailbox and tow it in half.

623
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Speaker 1: Sharing. Who knew you guys were so romantic?

624
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 11: All right?

625
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: Switching gears. Now, So here's a question for the guys.

626
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 8: When you were a kid, how often did you do

627
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 8: things without adult supervision on a daily back and what

628
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 8: was it that you did.

629
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 2: Every day on supervision? What we was on that bike

630
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,399
Speaker 2: moving around that neighborhood. Boy, what are you talking about?

631
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 2: Way back in the woods? Jumping ramps, breaking windows? What

632
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: stealing wood? Building a club high white? We did it all.

633
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: What were you doing?

634
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 3: Every single day?

635
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 2: We made soccer own bikes.

636
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 7: Just kick a tennis ball to the goal all the

637
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 7: way down the street while ride the bike, ride the

638
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 7: wein't know nothing.

639
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:47,839
Speaker 2: We're just playing soccer on bikes.

640
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 7: That we were doing baseball basketball at the park where

641
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 7: I wasn't supposed to be because people over there don't

642
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 7: know how to act.

643
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 2: We was all over the neighborhood. We was doing everything.

644
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 7: Didn't nobody know where I was Between nine am and

645
00:34:58,280 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 7: five pm.

646
00:34:58,840 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 2: They didn't know where I was.

647
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 7: The street lights came, my mama did They had to

648
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 7: call houses to find it.

649
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 2: Is he over there? Tom, Come on, he ain't here.

650
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 2: It didn't know where he was.

651
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 1: That was my job was to play.

652
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 3: You had place.

653
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:20,720
Speaker 2: I have no idea what they passing the law for supervision?

654
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 5: Do you do you understand what the horror that my

655
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 5: parents would have been in had they seen what I

656
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:31,439
Speaker 5: was doing?

657
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 2: What were you up to? I was I was headed

658
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: in the wrong direction a lot of time.

659
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 5: If I had kept going down the path for burglary,

660
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 5: being e breaking and entery armed robbery. I'd probably be

661
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 5: into that. I definitely would be in the US. Oh,

662
00:35:56,440 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 5: I've set so much stuff on. Yeah, animal use I

663
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 5: being locked up for so much stuff we was doing.

664
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 5: I had a magnifying glass and burned up a whole

665
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 5: colony of ants one day, the whole wiped out in

666
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 5: entire colony of ants with magnifying man.

667
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 2: All my the stuff we used to do. Man bike

668
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 2: robbery and eight for theft and hey Man.

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Speaker 5: We used ride out to the white neighborhood and played

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Speaker 5: baseball with him because we had to. We had finally

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Speaker 5: formed a little black little league team on our street,

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Speaker 5: but we didn't have money for gloves. So we go

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Speaker 5: out to the white neighborhood and play with the white kids,

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Speaker 5: and they would give us their gloves and we would

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Speaker 5: go to the field and then give them their gloves,

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Speaker 5: and then they go out in the field. Then they

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Speaker 5: give them out they gloves and we go out in

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Speaker 5: the field, and we got to about the third inning,

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Speaker 5: and then we gave each other the signal. As soon

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Speaker 5: as they tossed us the gloves, we just headed to

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Speaker 5: the bikes and they were sitting there going, hey, what

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Speaker 5: are you guys doing.

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Speaker 2: Without no glove? Well, you know cause they just tossed

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Speaker 2: them to.

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Speaker 5: Us, and we just on the third bout, third fourth inning,

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Speaker 5: we fit in the head on over to these bikes

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Speaker 5: because we got the gloves.

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Speaker 2: He here, you guys going, what you guys do it?

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Speaker 1: Hey, come back, come back?

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Speaker 2: That ain't it ain't.

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Speaker 1: What's all right?

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Speaker 2: I'm going to go start this baseball team. We got

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Speaker 2: gloves now.

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Speaker 1: One more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This Ignorant

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Speaker 1: Time now for would you rather?

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Speaker 8: Would you rather be completely invisible for a day or

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Speaker 8: would you rather be able to fly for one day?

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Speaker 1: Completely invisible for a day, or be able to fly

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Speaker 1: for a day.

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm finla fly away. Oh just just your body flying.

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Speaker 2: Then it started raining and.

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Speaker 1: Can on thunder.

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Speaker 6: Oh lord.

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Speaker 2: Again. Now we're all gonna be invisible. No, ain't no,

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Speaker 2: ain't no plane. It's just me and I'm talking about

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Speaker 2: invisible at Chiall's house. I'm gonna go see what y'all

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Speaker 2: talking about over there.

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Speaker 8: Would you rather a spouse that is not opinionated or

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Speaker 8: would you rather a spouse that is controlling?

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Speaker 2: Strolling? I don't want controlling? Yeah, but gee, I'm a

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Speaker 2: rebelled on that I'm controlling. But I don't want to

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Speaker 2: hear your opinion all day.

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Speaker 1: I really know that is not opinionated, like a like.

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Speaker 2: Like a dorg. That's that they don't even make that

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Speaker 2: type of woman. That's an impossible. Yeah, that's an impossible statement.

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Speaker 1: That was a movie. That was a movie that mayorica.

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Speaker 8: All right, would you rather be voted class clown or

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Speaker 8: would you rather be voted most.

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Speaker 1: Likely to succeed?

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Speaker 2: That was voth for them? I know good and hell,

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Speaker 2: well I wasn't going to beat p.

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Speaker 1: Oh you didn't think so dreams back then?

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Speaker 2: Who the hell was going to vote for me? It's

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Speaker 2: most likely to succeed. I was voted most difficult. That

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Speaker 2: that was so accurate.

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Speaker 8: Yes, why do you have to carry that onto your

741
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Speaker 8: adult life? Leave that where it belongs?

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Speaker 2: The vote? That is how I am?

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Speaker 1: They voted you that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, well I really like being how I am.

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Speaker 5: I don't really see the problem. I really, I swear

746
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Speaker 5: to you. I do not see the problem.

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Speaker 3: You see it?

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Speaker 1: No, I tell you about it every day. What is

749
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Speaker 1: the problem?

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Speaker 5: But but see, look at the source of who's telling

751
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Speaker 5: me this. Y'all telling me this because I don't want

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Speaker 5: to do what y'all want me to do.

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Speaker 2: I'm true.

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Speaker 1: No that's not true. No, that's it all that. It's

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Speaker 1: what is to be done, it's we want you to do.

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Speaker 2: Y'all. Don't tell me what I need to do who

757
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Speaker 2: is not it?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes we need impratication from you.

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Speaker 8: Give us that.

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Speaker 2: A lot friendship business.

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Speaker 1: Say you've been difficult right now. That's your angile.

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Speaker 2: Round is because y'all look at my scheduling and y'all

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Speaker 2: try to fill it with what y'all want to do.

764
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Speaker 1: Now we don't. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: Time.

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Speaker 8: Now to check Steve's voicemail. If you want to leave

767
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Speaker 8: Steve a message, call him eight seven seven twenty nine Steve.

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Speaker 1: All right, So Steve. Recently we talked.

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Speaker 8: About the new dating term on the dating apps called

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Speaker 8: ethical non monogamy. You guys remember that from the other day.

771
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Speaker 8: It's a practice of having a closer sexual relationship where

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Speaker 8: both parties consent to the infidelity. In other words, I'll

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Speaker 8: tell you that I'm married and you agree to sleep

774
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Speaker 8: with me anyway, Swinging, open relationships, all that polyamory all

775
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Speaker 8: fall under the umbrella of ethical non monogamy.

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Speaker 1: So we have a caller that left a message about

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Speaker 1: our discussion on the subject. Take a listen.

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Speaker 10: So y'all are talking about ethical monogamy and call them

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Speaker 10: it cheating.

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Speaker 4: And I'm gonna let y'all know right now, you're very

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Speaker 4: much knowing your ag just.

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Speaker 10: In terms of if it don't apply, if you don't

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Speaker 10: want to do it, then don't.

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Speaker 4: But calling something cheating and changing the terms, because again,

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Speaker 4: what is Monogymy monogomy is saying with partnership, that's a monomenogamy.

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Speaker 4: You're saying that you don't want Now is it something

787
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Speaker 4: that I want to do so I get jealous?

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like sharing.

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Speaker 4: Is it something that I almostly here in clowns because

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Speaker 4: I don't want to do it? No, I understand that

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Speaker 4: it's just not for me. Y'all are very much showing

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Speaker 4: your age and insisting that something is cheating when you

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Speaker 4: are open with your partner and discussing the fact that

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Speaker 4: neither of you want to just be with one person

795
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Speaker 4: is not cheating. Not the first time I've talked something

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Speaker 4: that I don't understand, probably not gonna be the last time. Again,

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Speaker 4: being absolutely ethically nominogamous, need you're quite literally let your

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Speaker 4: partner know that we're not the only people together. You

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Speaker 4: both know that you both have that agreement.

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Speaker 3: And it works for them.

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Speaker 4: If it works for them and it doesn't work for you,

802
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Speaker 4: leave it alone. Simple that don't go call on something

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Speaker 4: cheating cheating.

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Speaker 3: This is not cheating.

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Speaker 10: Cheating is lying.

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Speaker 1: Cheating involves line. If it does not involve lighting, lying,

807
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 1: it's not cheating.

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Speaker 5: I appreciate you calling in and telling us we're showing

809
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Speaker 5: our age because well we have the age to show, yo,

810
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 5: just showing yours because you don't listen. The lady that

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Speaker 5: wrote the letter and called in did not say they

812
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Speaker 5: partner knew about it. They said that's what they were practicing.

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Speaker 5: There are sights on where married people are on the

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Speaker 5: putting it out there for the other person to partake

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Speaker 5: in them and letting them know that they're married and

816
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Speaker 5: their partner knows nothing about it. That's what the phone

817
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Speaker 5: call was about. So when you call here talking about

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Speaker 5: somebody showing they age, make sure you ain't showing yours too.

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Speaker 5: So learn to listen, because that's what it takes when

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Speaker 5: you come after me, y'all showing y'all age.

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Speaker 2: Now, look, if y'all swingers, we know what swingers is.

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Speaker 2: We was doing when this was around for your young

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Speaker 2: was born.

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Speaker 5: Have you got another company, y'all going out to the

825
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Speaker 5: club now and you want to swing?

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Speaker 4: We know what that is.

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Speaker 2: That ain't what the call was talking about, but you

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Speaker 2: didn't listen to that.

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Speaker 5: You heard the part you wanted, and now you want

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Speaker 5: to call it and be critical because we old. Old

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Speaker 5: is the goal, and maybe one day you'll have to

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Speaker 5: get older and have some this too. Sitting up in

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Speaker 5: here and I'll be listening to this stuff. And I'm sorry, ladies,

834
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Speaker 5: but you're on the back end of my work week

835
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Speaker 5: because I work with young people. That family few say

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Speaker 5: stupid sugar hundred ice teeth all to day long. And

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Speaker 5: I got to sit there because HR just riding the

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Speaker 5: corner and I gotta act like I'm okay with that

839
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Speaker 5: what I ain't.

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Speaker 6: And you done walked up.

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Speaker 2: Into the hornet's nest while the hornet was sitting outside

842
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Speaker 2: reading the paper, busting you.

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Speaker 5: All right, I can tie the young people because we old,

844
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Speaker 5: we scaping and we don't know how to look at stuff.

845
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Speaker 5: Y'all keep y'all can come up with all these new

846
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Speaker 5: titles you won't do. It's called cheat.

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Speaker 6: The hell it is man.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it's an agreement between the people who are going

849
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Speaker 8: to be cheating with it or seeing each other. They

850
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Speaker 8: didn't say anything about them their telling their partners or

851
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Speaker 8: anything like that.

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Speaker 2: Surely that's even what the call was about. She ain't

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Speaker 2: hit that though.

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Speaker 5: She all want to light us up because her dumb

855
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 5: said some relationship and some man that told her he's.

856
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Speaker 2: Saying somebody else. No, her dumb trying to be okay

857
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Speaker 2: with over what called.

858
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Speaker 1: He's just uninformed?

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Speaker 8: Coming up next, the nephew with the prank phone call

860
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Speaker 8: for today. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve

861
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Speaker 8: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes after

862
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Speaker 8: the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today, and the

863
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Speaker 8: subject is why is he in my brother's house?

864
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Speaker 1: We'll find out in just a little bit.

865
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Speaker 8: We'll get into it, but right now it is time

866
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Speaker 8: for the nephew and the prank phone call for today.

867
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 1: Next.

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Speaker 2: What you got?

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Speaker 1: So the title of the strawberry letter is why is

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Speaker 1: he in my brother's house?

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00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 3: Right?

872
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:52,479
Speaker 2: Right? Rank here? Is I left my medicine in your house?

873
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Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying. Oh kind of goes together.

874
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna you know, we don't want to have

875
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Speaker 1: a title fight.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. We have a title right,

877
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Speaker 2: I left my medicine in your house? All right? That

878
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:09,320
Speaker 2: is a cat dog if you would We're going to

879
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,359
Speaker 2: strategically dive into this one. If you're driving right now,

880
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:15,319
Speaker 2: I think you should pull over because this one right here,

881
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 2: this home running head, this classic nephew, tell me I

882
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:19,879
Speaker 2: left my medicine in your house.

883
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 3: Let's go Hello, Hello, want to say to Clarence? Yeah?

884
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Speaker 3: Is he it was this Claire? Uh hey money Sherman

885
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:31,439
Speaker 3: dog your house is the one that got broke into

886
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 3: last week?

887
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 2: Right?

888
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 3: Yeah?

889
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 10: Man, just waiting on the police to get back with me,

890
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 10: tim if they found these people or not. Man, So

891
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 10: now hold on, what's your name again of Sherman?

892
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 3: Sherman, Furman, Sherman Surman.

893
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 10: How you here about it?

894
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 3: Oh? No, you know, I stay a couple of streets.

895
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 3: So everybody in the neighborhood kind of heard that y'all

896
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 3: got broke in.

897
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 10: On damn man, everybody being kind of kind of real

898
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:56,440
Speaker 10: good around here.

899
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 3: Man.

900
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 10: It don't make no sense.

901
00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 3: Man.

902
00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 10: You go out here and work hard for stuff and

903
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,800
Speaker 10: then you know, people just do your like this.

904
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 3: Man.

905
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 10: It just I'm just glad it wasn't nobody hurt.

906
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 4: Man.

907
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 10: My wife and my son they alive, and that's you know,

908
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 10: that's the best thing.

909
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 3: Man.

910
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:14,320
Speaker 10: So you know, trying not to cousin something like this happened.

911
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 3: You know, I understand.

912
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 10: Man, you stay a couple of streets over, you say.

913
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, hey hey, let me let me let

914
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 3: me say this to you. Man. I want to say,

915
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 3: first of all, I hate what happened. You know what

916
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 3: I mean? Yeah, and uh, I do, man, you know,

917
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 3: and I'm glad you're your family and so yeah, I

918
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 3: said the man, Well, hey, man, can I just can

919
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 3: I just say this here?

920
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 9: Man?

921
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 3: Uh? And I don't really know how to say it,

922
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 3: but I was. I was with the two dudes that

923
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 3: had broken there. I was with them when they did that.

924
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 10: Okay, you did you just say you was with them

925
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 10: that broken my house?

926
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 3: Oh so you broken my house? Saying no, saying see,

927
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 3: that's why I'm to see them claims. That's what I'm

928
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 3: I'm calling you, trying to tell you. I was trying

929
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,879
Speaker 3: to talk them out of it. You know what I'm saying, Well,

930
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 3: what the cathic?

931
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 10: Because they did this.

932
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 3: I couldn't talk them out of it. But you know

933
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 3: I was who I wasn't in there taking nothing, That's

934
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 3: what I'm saying.

935
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 10: Okay, okay, okay, Well who was in the ittation?

936
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 3: Then? And I can't. I can't be doing I can't

937
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 3: do that. I can't see I ain't trying to get

938
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 3: in the middle of that.

939
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 10: No, no, no, you can't do that. You just called

940
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 10: my phone. Oh you can tell me who broke in here?

941
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,400
Speaker 3: You was one of them? You I was worsting with you.

942
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 3: That That ain't that. That ain't even the reason why

943
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 3: I called. Man, I don't give it for the reason

944
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 3: you called me.

945
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 10: You called me broken up?

946
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 3: Who who was with you? Who was with you?

947
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 4: Man?

948
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 10: I'm matter of fact, what street you stay on.

949
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 3: The Let me say this to you, man. This reason

950
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 3: why I called ain't when we was in there and

951
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 3: then they started screaming and hollering at each other and

952
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 3: then saying we got to hear him get out, you know,

953
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 3: like I say, I was in there run to talk

954
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 3: them out of that.

955
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 10: I don't give it.

956
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 3: If you tried to talk them into it.

957
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 10: You walk into my broken my mind, you.

958
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 3: My dancing to call me. Okay, but listen, man, listen, listen.

959
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 3: Listen to me, man, I'm listening to you for me.

960
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 3: While I was in there, man, and and you know

961
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,359
Speaker 3: they was we was getting out of there in a hurry.

962
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:27,240
Speaker 3: I actually left my uh my pills fell out my pocket,

963
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 3: my bottle of pills and my medicine, and I don't

964
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 3: I don't got no more refills on it, man, And

965
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:34,320
Speaker 3: I need my medicine. That's why I'm calling you to

966
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 3: see if you don't man me coming back over there

967
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 3: to get my fee. They don't give them.

968
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 10: How about your medicine? Who gives us? I tell you

969
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 10: what I tell you can ask me about some medicine.

970
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 3: I was just caught up in a bad situation. Man.

971
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 10: I swear to God, if I see you over, I

972
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,800
Speaker 10: swear to God, I'm gonna beat yours. I'm gonna beat you.

973
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 10: You better be glad my sun wouldn't at my house.

974
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 3: Man. Listen, man, I'm not trying to get you. Have

975
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 3: no problems with nobody. I just need my medicine.

976
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 10: Man, kill noticing you got problems with me.

977
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 3: But I don't have no more reals on that medicine.

978
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 3: I need my medicine. I get sick. I tell you

979
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 3: what I tell you what Come, Come get your medicine.

980
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 10: You know exactly where I said. I'm gonna have to

981
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 10: get the front door open. You ain't got to break

982
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 10: in this time. Come get your medicine. I said, what

983
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,760
Speaker 10: a god gonna need more than just that a medicine.

984
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 10: I'm gonna put some on your I said, why are

985
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 10: you downing and out on me?

986
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 3: Man? And I'm the one that was in there trying

987
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 3: to talk them out of it.

988
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,840
Speaker 10: She was with them because that's the point, that's what

989
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 10: bring them to telling them to help you. Come get

990
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 10: your medicine.

991
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 3: All I want to do is get my medicine and

992
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 3: be through with this. That's all I'm trying to say

993
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 3: to you. I ain't trying to start no trouble with you.

994
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 3: Start no trouble. You go catch the lucky. I'm house,

995
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:55,800
Speaker 3: you know what.

996
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 10: I tell you what I all this, You know, I

997
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 10: tell you what, Come get the medicine. Come come, come,

998
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 10: get the medicine right now. I'm in what what street

999
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 10: you stay on? I bring it to you.

1000
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 3: Man. I'm not finna go back and forth arguing with you. Man.

1001
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 3: I'm finna come over there and give my medicine. And man,

1002
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 3: you're gonna be through with each other.

1003
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 10: You ain't got to go back and for I tell

1004
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:21,279
Speaker 10: you what. Come on over here, get your medicine right now.

1005
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,439
Speaker 10: This even if you're gonna need some more medicine. They're

1006
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 10: gonna come break in my from houses. You bo can't

1007
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 10: tell my I take care of my wife.

1008
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 3: And my kids in this house. I understand that. And

1009
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 3: I will not be back in your arm if not

1010
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 3: get my medic.

1011
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 10: I'm gonna is you hollering at no, I tell you

1012
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 10: what you no, no, no, no, you ain't gonna be

1013
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 10: back in my house. After you get your medicine, You're

1014
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,839
Speaker 10: gonna have a permanent new residence. I swear to God,

1015
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 10: you're gonna be living in the cemeteries.

1016
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 3: I got one of your friends under before.

1017
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 10: I get over there, and I man, say that on

1018
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 10: your way over heres going.

1019
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,399
Speaker 3: There here, I'm on my way now. I won't say

1020
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 3: I need to say it, say want say it. This

1021
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 3: that's my talent from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. You

1022
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:17,040
Speaker 3: just got pranked by your sister. Bring hello? Who is this?

1023
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 4: Hey?

1024
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 3: Man? Hey class? This nephew telling me man from the

1025
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,800
Speaker 3: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your sister Bree got me to

1026
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 3: prank you. Man boy you you oh, you say too

1027
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 3: so much. I don't believe this, she said. Man, they

1028
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 3: broke in my brother house. He needed spirits lip, he said,

1029
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 3: come on call him and get it. You know what.

1030
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 10: You ma, you're a well who.

1031
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:51,040
Speaker 3: Oh man, what are y'all wrong for? This is oh man,

1032
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 3: hey man, he man, ask you something. What is what

1033
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:56,800
Speaker 3: is the baddest radio show in the land.

1034
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 10: It is the Steve Harvey More On and show. Listen,

1035
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 10: bro hey, and if the that that broke in my

1036
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 10: house is listening, you come back over here. If you

1037
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 10: left your medicine, come on, come back and get it.

1038
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 10: I'm at home right now.

1039
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 3: If they listen, then come on back over the mouth.

1040
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 10: Yeah right right now.

1041
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 3: Bring boy, y'all roll that.

1042
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:21,520
Speaker 2: Tell me I don't know nobody better than me. I

1043
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 2: hate to say, you know what I mean? I am

1044
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,760
Speaker 2: the I am the I am the the Steph Curry

1045
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:30,840
Speaker 2: lebron of Price. When you leave your medicine in somebody

1046
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 2: house that y'all broke into, come on, man, come on

1047
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:36,359
Speaker 2: and you call back for your mess.

1048
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 1: That's genius.

1049
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 2: You was with them, blankety banks, what they got the

1050
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 2: nerve a call?

1051
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 1: Boy?

1052
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 3: Boy?

1053
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 1: You are really a dumb criminal? Yeah yeah, yeah? What

1054
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: are you robbing people?

1055
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 2: And you're sick for any right right right, But let's

1056
00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 2: not let me go through any more complications. You know

1057
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 2: what I'm saying understanding, so oyo stuff, I got that,

1058
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 2: But help me out here with my medicine, all right,

1059
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 2: do me a solid.

1060
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 1: Heart wow.

1061
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 8: Thanking if you coming up next Strawberry letter, the subject

1062
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:19,759
Speaker 8: is why is he in my brother's house?

1063
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:23,680
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Speaker 8: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time

1077
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:24,760
Speaker 8: now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice

1078
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 8: on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please submit your

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Speaker 8: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

1081
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 8: going to read this one right here, right now, and

1082
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:37,640
Speaker 8: you never.

1083
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Speaker 1: Know, it could be yours.

1084
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.

1085
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Speaker 2: Be guided for you. Here it is strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew.

1087
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Speaker 8: Subject, why is he in my brother's house? Dear Stephen Shirley.

1088
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 8: I'm writing for my brother because he is too upset

1089
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 8: to do it for himself. My brother is thirty eight

1090
00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:00,520
Speaker 8: and his wife is thirty five, and she has planned

1091
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 8: a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends and a

1092
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 8: guy that has been her friend since they were eighteen

1093
00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 8: years old. This guy was married before and he has

1094
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 8: one child. Now he's no longer dating women. He told

1095
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 8: my brother that he is a great new man in

1096
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 8: his life, but he keeps him away from his friends

1097
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 8: because it is not serious yet. My brother told this

1098
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 8: guy it's imperative that he meet the boyfriend.

1099
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 1: And here's why.

1100
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 8: My sister in law is always with this guy, and

1101
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 8: my brother thinks she's cheating on him right in his face. Now,

1102
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 8: the guy is going on vacation with his wife, so

1103
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 8: my brother got really skeptical.

1104
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 1: But that's not the biggest issue.

1105
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 8: We need to know how far another man is allowed

1106
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 8: up in another man's house. Last week, my brother came

1107
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,080
Speaker 8: home and this man was sitting in a shirt and

1108
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 8: shorts on the patio. His wife was sleeping on the couch.

1109
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 8: The guy said they had gone running in the neighborhood

1110
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 8: and he jumped in the shower while she took a nap.

1111
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 8: The biggest issue is that he took a shower in

1112
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 8: my brother's bathroom. My brother uses the upstairs bathroom so

1113
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 8: his wife can have the primary bathroom all to herself.

1114
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 8: There is a shower downstairs in the other guest room,

1115
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 8: but this guy went upstairs and used my brother's shower.

1116
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 8: My brother feels that this guy is way too comfortable

1117
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 8: in his house and it's his wife's fault for letting

1118
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 8: him do it. I agree with my brother and his

1119
00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 8: wife needs to be checked and this guy should not

1120
00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 8: go on vacation with her. What if his boyfriend doesn't

1121
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 8: even exist. I am trying to stay out of it,

1122
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 8: so I need your advice on how my brother should

1123
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 8: handle this situation.

1124
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:45,000
Speaker 1: Okay, sis.

1125
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 8: It just sounds like someone might get hurt in this situation.

1126
00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 8: I don't know, I just feel that in my spirit somehow.

1127
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 3: Huh.

1128
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 2: I have a question, Yeah, did a lady write this

1129
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 2: letter or a guy?

1130
00:58:57,480 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 8: A sister wrote the letter for her brother because her

1131
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 8: brother's too upset to write it. And I was just

1132
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 8: going to get to that, Steve. It's confusing. This letter

1133
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 8: is really confusing. But from what I gather, the wife

1134
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 8: you guys suspect is cheating on her husband your brother

1135
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 8: with the guy who she said is gay to throw

1136
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 8: everyone off. That's kind of what she's trying to say here.

1137
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 8: And not only is your brother mad about the cheating

1138
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:28,680
Speaker 8: he thinks that he thinks is going on, he really

1139
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 8: is angry that the guy is in his house using

1140
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 8: his shower and acting like it's okay because his wife

1141
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 8: gave him permission, especially when there are other bathrooms in

1142
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 8: the house. You're also asking for yourself and your brother,

1143
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 8: how far should another man be allowed in a man's house?

1144
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:49,800
Speaker 8: And I'm going to tell you right now you shouldn't

1145
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 8: even have to ask that question because at your house

1146
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 8: it's simple. You set the rules. It's a respect thing.

1147
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 8: I don't care who it is. If you don't want

1148
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 8: him in there, he shouldn't be in there, is that

1149
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 8: I mean? And your wife, his wife, your sister in

1150
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 8: law should know better. She should never let another man

1151
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 8: or anyone disrespect the household, especially your husband's things, your

1152
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 8: husband's bathroom. She's wrong for this. I think it's just

1153
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 8: a matter of time before the truth about her and

1154
01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:22,480
Speaker 8: her so called gay best friend comes out. So tell

1155
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 8: her you're you're going on the trip too, and that

1156
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 8: it'll be nice time for the two of you to

1157
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 8: reconnect and have some fun. That's what the husband should say.

1158
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:34,800
Speaker 8: See how she reacts. If she protests just a little

1159
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 8: too much, that then you'll know that your instincts are

1160
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 8: right and you can deal with her accordingly. But all

1161
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 8: signs are pointing to she's cheating with this guy, the

1162
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 8: so called gay friend of hers. I mean, he has

1163
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 8: too much leeway in the house, all of that. It's

1164
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:55,480
Speaker 8: just too much. It's way too much, Steve, And it's

1165
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:56,360
Speaker 8: very confusing.

1166
01:00:56,480 --> 01:01:00,240
Speaker 1: I know that you know what is it? Yeah, it is.

1167
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 2: I'm so confused here.

1168
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 1: It is very confused.

1169
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:06,080
Speaker 5: Because let me read this letter with y'all and let

1170
01:01:06,160 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 5: me just go as I'm feeling this letter. Okay, we

1171
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 5: may not ever even get to the end. Why is

1172
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 5: he in my brother's house? I'm confused with I'm the girl.

1173
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 5: Let me just Stephen Shirley. I'm writing for my brother

1174
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 5: because he is too upset to do it for himself. Well,

1175
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 5: as we go through this letter, we gonna find out

1176
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 5: that your brother is incapable of doing several things for himself,

1177
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 5: not only write this letter, but he's too upset to

1178
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:42,240
Speaker 5: do it for himself. Okay, you've been calling this little

1179
01:01:42,280 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 5: boy my brother thirty eight, his wife thirty five. She's

1180
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 5: playing a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends and

1181
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 5: a guy that has been her friends since they was

1182
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 5: eighteen years old. How many times have I got to

1183
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:59,959
Speaker 5: tell y'all about these male friends that y'all keep thinking

1184
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:01,360
Speaker 5: and just want to be your friend?

1185
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 2: How many times we got to go over there?

1186
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 5: How many letters do we need for y'all to get

1187
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 5: off this trick trail and quit thinking this merry go

1188
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 5: round don't come around. I'm so sick of y'all. This

1189
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 5: guy was married before, he has one child. Now he's

1190
01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:28,080
Speaker 5: no longer dating women. Hello, Now I've heard of this,

1191
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:34,440
Speaker 5: You've seen it in famous people. A purpose person starts

1192
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 5: living their truth later on in life. That's allowable, that's doable.

1193
01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 5: That's fine.

1194
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 10: But now.

1195
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 2: I don't know at what point.

1196
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 5: He decided he no longer dating women because you was

1197
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:55,480
Speaker 5: making kids a minute ago, so there had to be

1198
01:02:55,600 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 5: some type of.

1199
01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 2: Oh girl.

1200
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:02,360
Speaker 8: At coming up in twenty three minutes to have me

1201
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 8: our k Well, have you spot coming up today's strawberry letter?

1202
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 1: Why is he in my brother's house? We'll be back

1203
01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:13,919
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1204
01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:23,200
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1215
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Speaker 8: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

1216
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 8: The subject why is he in my brother's house?

1217
01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 5: This letter is beyond ridiculous, y'all. I ain't even touched

1218
01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:17,120
Speaker 5: on any points, so let me try to do it quick.

1219
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 5: Why is he in my brother's house? I'm writing for

1220
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:23,760
Speaker 5: my brother because he's too upset to do it for himself.

1221
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:27,440
Speaker 5: Your brother too upset to write, He too upset to

1222
01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 5: do a lot of.

1223
01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 2: Things in this letter. Let's get to it.

1224
01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 3: Yep.

1225
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:32,640
Speaker 2: My brother thirty eight is wife thirty five.

1226
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 5: She's playing a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends

1227
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:36,560
Speaker 5: and a guy that's been her friends since they were

1228
01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 5: eighteen years old. I'd have told y'all about these opposite

1229
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 5: six friends. I have told y'all about this, but y'all

1230
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 5: don't believe me. So this is another Strawberry letter to

1231
01:04:49,120 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 5: help you understand. This guy was married before, he has

1232
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 5: one child. Now he's no longer dating women, but he's

1233
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 5: still friends, which your wife though he don't date women

1234
01:05:03,800 --> 01:05:04,120
Speaker 5: no more.

1235
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 2: But he didn't cut your wife out.

1236
01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 5: He told my brother that he has a great new

1237
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 5: man in his life, but he keeps him away from

1238
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:17,800
Speaker 5: his friends because it is not serious yet.

1239
01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:22,440
Speaker 2: Man, what First of all, if you are my wife's

1240
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:27,600
Speaker 2: friend me and you ain't that cool you telling me

1241
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 2: about a new man you got, but you don't bring

1242
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:33,680
Speaker 2: him a round your friends yet because it ain't that serious.

1243
01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 5: Wait a minute, we ain't all discovered the news yet

1244
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 5: that you don't date women no more.

1245
01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 2: So then you ain't brought him around your friends because

1246
01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 2: you don't know if it's serious yet.

1247
01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 5: Have you told your new friend that you don't date

1248
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 5: women no more? Or maybe you've been running in this

1249
01:05:53,760 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 5: circle the whole time. I don't know what's happening right here,

1250
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 5: but because of hr, I'm not gonna come in. I'm

1251
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 5: just gonna try to keep moving. Okay, then my brother,

1252
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:10,560
Speaker 5: your brother told this guy's imperative that he meet the

1253
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:15,440
Speaker 5: boyfriend and his Why what, man, I don't give a

1254
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 5: what you doing.

1255
01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 2: I ain't gotta meet your boyfriend. But here's why.

1256
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 5: Though my sister in law is always with this guy

1257
01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 5: that to stop liking women and date me in now

1258
01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:32,440
Speaker 5: and got a child and used to be married. My

1259
01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 5: sister in law is always with this guy, and my

1260
01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:37,560
Speaker 5: brother in law thinks he's cheating on him right in

1261
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 5: his faith. Hold on, so your brother thinks that his

1262
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:45,439
Speaker 5: wife is cheating with the guy that don't don't date

1263
01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 5: women no more. That then came up to him and

1264
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 5: now he wants to meet this guy's new guy, but

1265
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 5: he'd have told him, and he don't wanted to meet

1266
01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 5: yet because he don't know if it sees that pair

1267
01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:57,960
Speaker 5: missed me with this this ain't or why is that

1268
01:06:58,040 --> 01:07:01,560
Speaker 5: whipping not started yet? Because I'm trying to figure out

1269
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 5: if I think my wife is cheating with a man

1270
01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 5: and then he come up in my face and strike

1271
01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:09,160
Speaker 5: up any conversation. I want to meet this new guy, Well,

1272
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 5: it ain't serious yet, so I ain't gonna bring her man.

1273
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 5: Please pop dead in your jaw, dead in your jaw.

1274
01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 5: Now the guy is going on vacation with his wife.

1275
01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 5: So my brother got real skeptical. But that's not the

1276
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:33,280
Speaker 5: biggest issue. What is more, We need to know how

1277
01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:36,400
Speaker 5: far another man is allowed up in another man's house.

1278
01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 5: Wait a minute, he need to know how you ain't

1279
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 5: allowed in my house, not how far you ain't. You

1280
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 5: can't knock on the door, ring the dotveil you can't

1281
01:07:48,680 --> 01:07:51,440
Speaker 5: call my house. I wish I would come home and

1282
01:07:51,520 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 5: you in it. Oh, pardon, I can't take you know

1283
01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:58,200
Speaker 5: all right, let's go. Last week, my brother came home

1284
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 5: and this man was sitting in the show and shorts

1285
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 5: on the patio.

1286
01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 2: His wife was sleep on the couch. Knocked out, privy,

1287
01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:10,600
Speaker 2: that's when she sleep on the couch, knocked out. The

1288
01:08:10,720 --> 01:08:13,480
Speaker 2: guy said they had gone running in the neighborhood and

1289
01:08:13,600 --> 01:08:16,080
Speaker 2: he jumped in the shower while she took a nap.

1290
01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 2: What right, I'm a hold of dog.

1291
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:24,280
Speaker 5: You so cool and comfortable. You and my wife went running,

1292
01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:30,280
Speaker 5: took a shower in my house. In my house, this

1293
01:08:30,400 --> 01:08:32,640
Speaker 5: ain't our house no more. See when it comes to

1294
01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 5: a man, the man, no, it's the other man's house.

1295
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:38,920
Speaker 5: You I don't care what the wife say. You already

1296
01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 5: know you need to check with this man.

1297
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:44,240
Speaker 2: The biggest issue is that he took a shower in

1298
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 2: my brother's bathroom. Hold a dog, you're in my room? Oh,

1299
01:08:49,960 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 2: my brother uses.

1300
01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:53,040
Speaker 5: The upstairs bathroom so his wife can have the primary

1301
01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:55,760
Speaker 5: bathroom all to itself. There's a shower downstairs in the

1302
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 5: other guest room. But this guy went upstairs and used

1303
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:01,479
Speaker 5: my brother's shower. He ain't what I'm staying because that's

1304
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 5: where the bedroom at. Might as well go around the corner.

1305
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 5: Why you think she downstairs knocked out on the count?

1306
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:10,680
Speaker 5: Right man, I'm in you whooping so much right now

1307
01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:12,640
Speaker 5: you can't count it.

1308
01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 2: Just getting whooped everybody that got something the.

1309
01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:18,000
Speaker 1: Lawn board and got something on the way in, the milkman,

1310
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:19,519
Speaker 1: the mailman, car.

1311
01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:22,600
Speaker 2: Repair dude and got whooping. You don'et got that whoopie for?

1312
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:24,479
Speaker 2: Right man? He don't even have no more.

1313
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:28,000
Speaker 5: My brother feels that this guy is way too comfortable

1314
01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:30,240
Speaker 5: in his house and his wife's fought for letting him

1315
01:09:30,280 --> 01:09:33,160
Speaker 5: do it. No, dog is your fault because you letting

1316
01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:35,080
Speaker 5: him do it. You let this man come up in

1317
01:09:35,200 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 5: your house and sit around and you ain't at the house.

1318
01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:39,200
Speaker 5: Oh man, this ain't on your wife, This on you.

1319
01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:41,880
Speaker 5: You being disrespected on so many levels. This is an

1320
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 5: ignorant letter.

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Speaker 2: Should I agree with my brother and his wife needs

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Speaker 2: to be checked and this guy should not go on

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Speaker 2: vacation with her. What is his boyfriend doesn't exist. I'm

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01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:52,640
Speaker 2: trying to stay out of it, so I need your

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Speaker 2: advice on ho my brothers to handle this situation.

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Speaker 6: Your brother need to start woming somebody.

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Speaker 1: All right, Thank you, Steve.

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Speaker 8: What is the weirdest place? What is the weirdest place

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Speaker 8: You've ever done it? We'll save Steve for last.

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Speaker 7: But you oh, yeah, I tell you crazy place. I

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01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:18,160
Speaker 7: had six in the hood in the back room with

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01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:24,720
Speaker 7: roaches everywhere. Oh god, you didn't nobody move.

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Speaker 1: They just looking at tennis.

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Speaker 7: Baby, roaches, bro am I doing it?

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Speaker 1: But was it good though?

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Speaker 3: No, not nothing.

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Speaker 1: I got to go.

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Speaker 2: All right, have you come on?

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Speaker 1: We're saving Steve for last What you got fifty yard line?

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Speaker 2: Texas A and m right there.

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Speaker 1: Baby, watching the Aggie game again on the turf.

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Speaker 2: Baby, he again sneak out.

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Speaker 1: All right, mister Harvey, you're up go eggs.

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Speaker 2: The beach under the bleachers.

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Speaker 1: This is too much.

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Speaker 5: List at an ice skating rink one time in college.

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Speaker 5: That's skating rink with ice skates on. No, no, no,

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Speaker 5: lady and coach down on the ice and put my

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Speaker 5: foot up against the board and pushed.

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Speaker 1: Off across the ice.

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Speaker 2: Once I slid out there, it was messed up. I

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01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:48,000
Speaker 2: was trying to get back. Was hard? Oh man, man, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Track to the barn, the barn, the barn, the barn.

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Speaker 5: Why do you hear you in the country. You you

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Speaker 5: live in the country, and you don't have sex in

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Speaker 5: the barn where you've been having at. Ain't no hotel,

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Speaker 5: ain't no hotels.

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Speaker 2: In the country. The bard is the hotel.

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Speaker 3: His hate.

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Speaker 5: But looks tell something about that, hay, though, you really

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01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:20,640
Speaker 5: need a blanket with that hate, straight hate it.

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01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:24,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I made that mistake.

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Speaker 1: That ain't good.

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Speaker 2: You think that saying is rough? Were all is hail? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's been a long run for you going out. I'm

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Speaker 2: purely house now house in the hotel.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, ain't no more outside. No, they't got cameras everywhere

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01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:50,880
Speaker 5: now elevated. That's over with, haven done a while.

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01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:51,760
Speaker 2: Party was going on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wait what.

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Speaker 6: Party?

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01:13:57,720 --> 01:13:58,320
Speaker 2: Restaurant?

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01:13:58,640 --> 01:13:59,440
Speaker 3: A restaurant?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, guys, Let's go on and on. Sounds like

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01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:05,920
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:12,639
Speaker 8: All right, Steve, Lisa and Laurel Maryland says, I work

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01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:15,519
Speaker 8: as a dispatcher and on Fridays we do a potluck lunch,

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01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:18,760
Speaker 8: or we'll order pizza or a deli sandwich tray. My

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01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 8: coworker always chips in the same amount of money that

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01:14:22,040 --> 01:14:24,679
Speaker 8: we all chip in, but she takes way more food

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01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:27,559
Speaker 8: than we do. She always fixes her husband a play

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01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:30,720
Speaker 8: of pizza or sandwiches to take home with her, and

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01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:33,000
Speaker 8: many of us in the office think the leftover should

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01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:35,559
Speaker 8: be divided amongst us, or she should chip in more

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01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:37,479
Speaker 8: if we're feeding her husband?

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01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:39,320
Speaker 1: What do you think needs to happen here?

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01:14:39,880 --> 01:14:41,600
Speaker 2: I think y'all need to stop having it.

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01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:48,640
Speaker 4: Food, you know what.

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01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 1: Listen?

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01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:52,160
Speaker 2: Why is bringing food to the office and then you

1407
01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:54,240
Speaker 2: want it back? What you take it down there?

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01:14:54,320 --> 01:14:54,360
Speaker 3: For?

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01:14:54,960 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 5: If I take food down to the office and everybody

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01:14:57,640 --> 01:15:00,360
Speaker 5: picking in it, you think I won't take an back

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01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:03,760
Speaker 5: to my house, not to me, not after everybody has

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01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,000
Speaker 5: been in that. See, I don't understand people like that.

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01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:09,120
Speaker 5: Listen to me, man, stop participating in the pot. Look,

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01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:11,400
Speaker 5: if you don't want to just leave it when you

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01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:14,719
Speaker 5: take your dish, just take your dish. That's your donation

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01:15:14,880 --> 01:15:17,160
Speaker 5: to the partner. You can't possibly want to take it

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01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:17,760
Speaker 5: back home.

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01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 2: Who do that?

1419
01:15:19,040 --> 01:15:20,840
Speaker 1: Well? No, though, that's the point.

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01:15:20,920 --> 01:15:24,000
Speaker 2: They do well, see, But you ain't got to be

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01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:24,639
Speaker 2: one of them.

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01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:27,760
Speaker 5: If I'm supposed to bring a pan of rolls, and

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01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:29,800
Speaker 5: I bring a pan of rolls and they need all

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01:15:29,880 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 5: of them, but twelve of the rolls, I don't want

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01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:32,719
Speaker 5: them twelve.

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01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:37,160
Speaker 1: But that's you, Steve. Well, they feel like who she asked?

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01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:41,720
Speaker 1: I know, but that's your experience. They still want to

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01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:43,760
Speaker 1: take it home. But you're telling I can't.

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01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 5: I can't tell you to think in a way that

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01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:49,720
Speaker 5: I don't think you know what I'm saying. And I'm

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01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:52,479
Speaker 5: sorry you think if they think that's some rich boy

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01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 5: attitude and stuff. But I've been that way at all

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01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:57,760
Speaker 5: levels of my life. Once I take something down there

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01:15:57,760 --> 01:15:59,920
Speaker 5: and everybody pick on it, that's your.

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01:16:01,400 --> 01:16:02,320
Speaker 2: You can't touch it.

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01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:05,400
Speaker 5: No, you can't touch nothing belonged to me, and then

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01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 5: expect me to still want it.

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01:16:07,880 --> 01:16:08,040
Speaker 2: Man.

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01:16:08,080 --> 01:16:10,760
Speaker 5: I was eating with a dude of a lawyer and

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01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:13,920
Speaker 5: we were at Toile restaurant and we ordered the duck.

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01:16:14,040 --> 01:16:15,599
Speaker 2: I was gonna get the duck by myself.

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01:16:15,680 --> 01:16:17,720
Speaker 5: Didn nobody want nothing, he said, I eat it with

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01:16:17,800 --> 01:16:19,880
Speaker 5: you because they only bring you one whole duck. I

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01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:21,599
Speaker 5: was just gonna eat what I want and then leave

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01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:26,280
Speaker 5: it alone. This dude had his chopstick. He would take

1446
01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:29,760
Speaker 5: reach on with chopstick with a piece of duck, dip

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01:16:29,840 --> 01:16:31,760
Speaker 5: it in the sauce, put it in his mouth. Then

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01:16:31,840 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 5: with the same chopstick, he'll move a piece of duck

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01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:38,519
Speaker 5: out the way and pick another piece of duck. Yo, dude, yo,

1450
01:16:38,840 --> 01:16:45,080
Speaker 5: what you're doing? Yeah see now, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:49,759
Speaker 2: Yeah. And you can't watch everybody at the office. Somebody

1452
01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 2: then touched it. That's just me.

1453
01:16:52,400 --> 01:16:55,759
Speaker 1: I was gonna ask a question. Go ahead, you gotta ask, Okay.

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01:16:55,880 --> 01:17:00,800
Speaker 11: So if I ordered, like a platter of sandwiches, right, someway, right,

1455
01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:03,280
Speaker 11: and I bring I go get them myself.

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01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 1: I go get the sandwiches, and I bring them to

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01:17:05,160 --> 01:17:06,040
Speaker 1: work for y'all.

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01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 11: And then I open the container for the for the sandwiches,

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01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:13,920
Speaker 11: and I pull a few of the sandwiches out to

1460
01:17:14,080 --> 01:17:17,840
Speaker 11: the side or to bring home to Tosh or for

1461
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:19,799
Speaker 11: me to eat later for Tasha.

1462
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:21,840
Speaker 1: Something wrong with that.

1463
01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:24,160
Speaker 5: No, I'm just kissing there. It is something wrong with that,

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01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:27,280
Speaker 5: because get a sandwich, yeah.

1465
01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:35,360
Speaker 2: His own, Yeah, thank you? You know the office, and

1466
01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:42,439
Speaker 2: then Tosh sandwich don't work down here? Down here, don't

1467
01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:46,920
Speaker 2: work down and work the bank.

1468
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:51,880
Speaker 1: Example, I just asked the question the baint you see

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01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 1: how the cargo.

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01:17:54,680 --> 01:17:57,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, now if the bank don't work, Tosh eating down now,

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01:17:57,280 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 5: what does he finish?

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01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:01,880
Speaker 2: Come over here? Eat my last time?

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01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 8: I buy y'all some subways, like Steve said, then cancel

1474
01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:07,960
Speaker 8: the potluck.

1475
01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:08,760
Speaker 9: I guess.

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01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:11,840
Speaker 1: We can't have any more fight.

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01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:15,400
Speaker 2: I want to justice s mo leg.

1478
01:18:17,479 --> 01:18:25,200
Speaker 1: From subway. All right, I try. So you're just saying huh,

1479
01:18:25,280 --> 01:18:27,000
Speaker 1: Who's Who's the Who's the chief?

1480
01:18:27,080 --> 01:18:29,400
Speaker 2: Skape that our group though on this show, who's the chief?

1481
01:18:32,439 --> 01:18:33,679
Speaker 1: Who don't want to spend the money?

1482
01:18:39,800 --> 01:18:41,520
Speaker 2: Ain't going to buy no sandwiches.

1483
01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:43,720
Speaker 1: I just wanted to pick something to mess with me.

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01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:46,600
Speaker 1: All Right, we gotta go.

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01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:49,439
Speaker 8: Coming up in twenty minutes after we'll have more of

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Speaker 8: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:51,320
Speaker 1: Right after this.

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Speaker 8: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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Speaker 8: So guys, forget the mosquito this summer. Our most intrusive

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Speaker 8: your hand. A new study shows that smartphones have evolved

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Speaker 8: from help from helpful tools into digital freeloaders, sucking up

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Speaker 8: your time, your attention, and your data to the benefit

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Speaker 8: of tech companies and advertisers. Your phone thrives while you

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Speaker 8: sleep loosely, while they lose. You lose focus, you lose time,

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Speaker 8: you lose privacy, all of that. So next time you're

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Speaker 8: scrolling at two am, just remember that your phone might

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01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:39,559
Speaker 8: be using you more than you using it. You guys throwso,

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Speaker 8: so do you scroll on social media when you should

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Speaker 8: be sleeping or doing something else?

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Speaker 1: Are you on your phones? That much? Yeah two am?

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Speaker 1: What about yeah?

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01:19:57,040 --> 01:20:03,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, and then my phone go to sleep.

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Speaker 8: All right, so you're not scrolling on social media when

1505
01:20:16,400 --> 01:20:18,160
Speaker 8: you should be sleep or doing something else.

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Speaker 1: That's the question, man, mom.

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Speaker 2: Battery yet, I'm.

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Speaker 1: So you can't just have your age night staying. You

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Speaker 1: just can't have the hunt.

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Speaker 2: Way over there.

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Speaker 1: More coming up. We'll play around it. Would you rather?

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Speaker 1: Time now for would you rather?

1522
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Speaker 8: Would you rather be completely invisible for a day or

1523
01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:25,040
Speaker 8: would you rather be able to fly for one day?

1524
01:21:25,200 --> 01:21:27,920
Speaker 8: Completely invisible for a day or be able to fly

1525
01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:28,599
Speaker 8: for a day.

1526
01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:35,840
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm finna bevisi I fly Way you're talking about ever?

1527
01:21:36,439 --> 01:21:41,560
Speaker 2: Oh here, just just your body flying death. No no,

1528
01:21:42,240 --> 01:21:43,880
Speaker 2: then it started raining and can on.

1529
01:21:45,360 --> 01:21:45,679
Speaker 1: Thunder.

1530
01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:46,760
Speaker 6: Oh lord.

1531
01:21:49,560 --> 01:21:51,600
Speaker 2: Again. Now we are going to be invisible.

1532
01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:54,160
Speaker 1: No, ain't no, ain't no plane.

1533
01:21:54,200 --> 01:21:57,760
Speaker 2: It's just me and I'm talking about invisible at child's house.

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01:21:58,080 --> 01:21:59,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go see what y'all talking about over there.

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01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:06,680
Speaker 8: Would you rather a spouse that is not opinionated or

1536
01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:08,880
Speaker 8: would you rather a spouse that is controlling?

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01:22:10,000 --> 01:22:13,840
Speaker 2: Controlling? I don't want controlling, Yeah, but gee, I'm a

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01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 2: rebelled on that I'm controlling, but I don't want to

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Speaker 2: hear your opinion.

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01:22:17,840 --> 01:22:21,559
Speaker 1: All I really know that is not opinionated, like a like.

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Speaker 2: Like a dog. That's that They don't even make that

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01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:32,519
Speaker 2: type woman too. Whatever. That's an impossible that's an impossible statement.

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01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:33,519
Speaker 2: That was a movie.

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Speaker 1: That was a movie, Yeah, America, all right?

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Speaker 8: Would you rather be voted class clown or would you

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01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:44,559
Speaker 8: rather be voted most likely to succeed?

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Speaker 2: That was both for them? I know good and hell

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01:22:49,479 --> 01:22:50,720
Speaker 2: well I wouldn't gonna be b.

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Speaker 1: Oh you didn't think so? The dreams back then, Who

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Speaker 1: the hell.

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01:22:56,640 --> 01:22:59,679
Speaker 2: Was going to vote for me? It's most likely to succeed?

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01:23:01,439 --> 01:23:05,759
Speaker 2: I was voted most difficult. What that that was so accurate?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, why do you have to carry that on too

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01:23:08,760 --> 01:23:11,639
Speaker 8: your adult life? Leave that where it belongs.

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01:23:13,320 --> 01:23:17,720
Speaker 2: That's what's the voting. This is how I am. They

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01:23:17,800 --> 01:23:18,360
Speaker 2: voted you that.

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01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:21,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, well I really like being how I am.

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01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:24,200
Speaker 5: I don't really see the problems. I really, I swear

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01:23:24,280 --> 01:23:25,799
Speaker 5: to you, I do not see the problem.

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01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:26,960
Speaker 3: You see it?

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01:23:28,040 --> 01:23:30,600
Speaker 1: No, we tell you about it every day. What is

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01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:31,040
Speaker 1: the problem?

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01:23:31,120 --> 01:23:33,479
Speaker 5: But but see, look at the source of who's telling

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01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:36,240
Speaker 5: me this? Y'all telling me this because I don't want

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01:23:36,320 --> 01:23:37,760
Speaker 5: to do what y'all want me to do.

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01:23:38,680 --> 01:23:40,800
Speaker 2: I'm true. No, that's not true.

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01:23:41,439 --> 01:23:45,160
Speaker 1: No, that's it all that, it's what needs to be done.

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01:23:45,320 --> 01:23:47,120
Speaker 1: It's none we want you to do.

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01:23:47,280 --> 01:23:49,920
Speaker 2: Y'all don't tell me what I need to do.

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01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:54,400
Speaker 1: Who is not it? Well, sometimes we need impredication from you.

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Speaker 3: Give us that.

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01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:01,719
Speaker 2: Outship business.

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01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:11,240
Speaker 1: You've been difficult right now, that's your adual round.

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Speaker 5: And this is because y'all look at my scheduling and

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01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:17,120
Speaker 5: y'all try to fill it with what y'all now.

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01:24:17,160 --> 01:24:20,360
Speaker 8: We don't coming up last break of the day and

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01:24:20,479 --> 01:24:23,519
Speaker 8: some closing from the one and only mister Difficult himself.

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this. Hey, this is John Legend. Hi,

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Speaker 5: All right, you know something, these are my closure remarks today.

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Speaker 5: I've discovered a lot over the years, and there are

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Speaker 5: some things you can make it without in this world.

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Speaker 2: It really is.

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01:26:14,680 --> 01:26:20,479
Speaker 5: I really didn't understand how significant certain relationships were. But

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01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:22,400
Speaker 5: I'm old enough now and a lot of you are

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01:26:22,520 --> 01:26:24,400
Speaker 5: where you can relate to what I'm about to say.

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01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:29,479
Speaker 5: You can live your life. You can lose some really

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01:26:29,560 --> 01:26:35,320
Speaker 5: really important things in your life and survive. And all

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01:26:35,400 --> 01:26:38,240
Speaker 5: of us know that feeling of losing someone that you

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01:26:38,479 --> 01:26:42,479
Speaker 5: cared deeply about, whether you lose them because you all

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01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:46,240
Speaker 5: just were separate ways, or you lose them because they passed.

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01:26:47,160 --> 01:26:50,840
Speaker 5: But we know the pain of losing someone you love dearly.

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01:26:51,720 --> 01:26:55,479
Speaker 5: And I've discovered something in my life. The greatest loss

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01:26:55,520 --> 01:26:59,680
Speaker 5: I ever had was my mother. It was an un

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01:27:00,080 --> 01:27:04,120
Speaker 5: bearable pain for me. I had never experienced anything like it,

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01:27:05,600 --> 01:27:08,200
Speaker 5: and haven't experienced anything like it since then. When I

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01:27:08,320 --> 01:27:12,160
Speaker 5: lost my father, that was a pain. My mother's pain

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01:27:12,400 --> 01:27:16,920
Speaker 5: was first, though, and it was just excruciating. I didn't

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Speaker 5: know what to do. I've lost my father, and then

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01:27:22,160 --> 01:27:26,680
Speaker 5: I lost my oldest brother. That one really hurt me

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01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:29,479
Speaker 5: in a different way because he had taught me everything.

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01:27:30,439 --> 01:27:32,280
Speaker 5: He taught me how to drive, he taught me how

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01:27:32,320 --> 01:27:35,200
Speaker 5: to ride a bike, because he did stuff because he

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01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:38,320
Speaker 5: was so much older than me that my father allowed

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Speaker 5: him to do. My father taught me how to drive,

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01:27:40,960 --> 01:27:44,639
Speaker 5: but my brother taught me how to you know, pimp drive.

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01:27:46,360 --> 01:27:48,000
Speaker 5: But he taught me how to ride a bike. He

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01:27:48,080 --> 01:27:50,640
Speaker 5: taught me how to talk to girls, taught me how

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01:27:50,680 --> 01:27:55,519
Speaker 5: to save money. So that loss was tragic. And I've

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01:27:55,600 --> 01:27:57,479
Speaker 5: lost a lot of things in this way, and I've

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01:27:57,600 --> 01:28:03,560
Speaker 5: learned to live life without all of them. But the

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01:28:03,680 --> 01:28:09,240
Speaker 5: one thing that you cannot live your life without, and

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01:28:09,400 --> 01:28:13,240
Speaker 5: that is a friend. You can lose your mother, you

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01:28:13,320 --> 01:28:16,320
Speaker 5: can lose your brother, you can lose your father, you

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01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:20,720
Speaker 5: can lose your job, you can lose your wife, you

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01:28:20,800 --> 01:28:26,400
Speaker 5: can lose your husband who and these things can be debilitating,

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01:28:28,000 --> 01:28:31,160
Speaker 5: and you can live in this world without them. But

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01:28:31,720 --> 01:28:36,040
Speaker 5: you cannot live in this world without a friend. You know,

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01:28:36,520 --> 01:28:39,559
Speaker 5: the Bible says a friend is often closer than even

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01:28:39,640 --> 01:28:44,080
Speaker 5: a brother, because see, your friends you pick and choose.

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01:28:45,400 --> 01:28:48,240
Speaker 5: Your family is just your family. Now, I love my brothers,

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01:28:48,320 --> 01:28:55,439
Speaker 5: dearly man, flaws and all, I loved them, but losing

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Speaker 5: a friend. I've lost some really dear friends.

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Speaker 2: Wan Hull.

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01:29:02,800 --> 01:29:05,479
Speaker 5: Was a truly great friend of mine that I lost.

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01:29:06,360 --> 01:29:11,479
Speaker 5: Greg Calhoun out of Montgomery was the last, well not

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01:29:11,600 --> 01:29:13,840
Speaker 5: the last friend, but a great friend that I lost.

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01:29:13,880 --> 01:29:16,840
Speaker 5: He was my best friend. And then I lost my

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01:29:16,960 --> 01:29:21,280
Speaker 5: dear friend Flip Bass, who was a founder of our

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01:29:21,439 --> 01:29:26,320
Speaker 5: chapter at Kent State. And losing them three men right there,

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01:29:26,400 --> 01:29:29,200
Speaker 5: man was really really rough because they were dear to me.

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01:29:30,880 --> 01:29:33,280
Speaker 5: But I thank God for the friendships that I do have,

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01:29:33,520 --> 01:29:38,639
Speaker 5: because there is something to it, man, to have a friend.

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01:29:39,120 --> 01:29:40,920
Speaker 5: I look at all that I have. I look at

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01:29:40,960 --> 01:29:45,000
Speaker 5: the awards and the accomplishments and plaques and all this

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01:29:45,080 --> 01:29:48,040
Speaker 5: stuff I have. But you know what I value more

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01:29:48,120 --> 01:29:50,599
Speaker 5: than all of those awards that I've gotten and everything.

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01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:57,439
Speaker 5: I value friendship more than that, because friendships give a return,

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01:29:57,640 --> 01:30:02,760
Speaker 5: a constant return. Somebody you can share your thoughts with man,

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01:30:02,880 --> 01:30:05,720
Speaker 5: Somebody that you can be yourself with, Somebody that you

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01:30:05,800 --> 01:30:08,160
Speaker 5: can sit around and they don't judge you. Somebody that

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01:30:08,280 --> 01:30:10,080
Speaker 5: you can be around and they allow you to be

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01:30:10,800 --> 01:30:15,920
Speaker 5: just exactly who you are, however and whenever and however

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01:30:16,040 --> 01:30:18,960
Speaker 5: you want to present yourself at that time, and you

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01:30:19,120 --> 01:30:23,200
Speaker 5: need that man, because if you think about your work relationships,

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01:30:23,600 --> 01:30:25,320
Speaker 5: you have to put on to come to work.

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01:30:25,439 --> 01:30:26,560
Speaker 2: Oftentimes we do.

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01:30:27,320 --> 01:30:28,880
Speaker 5: We got to get up in the morning, no matter

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01:30:28,920 --> 01:30:30,920
Speaker 5: how we feel, and we got to put on a

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01:30:30,960 --> 01:30:32,960
Speaker 5: happy face because we morn and drive people.

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01:30:33,680 --> 01:30:34,960
Speaker 2: We've got to get up.

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01:30:34,960 --> 01:30:38,600
Speaker 5: And put on that we okay today face because we

1678
01:30:38,760 --> 01:30:42,800
Speaker 5: are responsible for millions and millions of people's attitude on

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01:30:42,880 --> 01:30:46,320
Speaker 5: the way to work. We morn and drive people in

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01:30:46,439 --> 01:30:49,920
Speaker 5: some days we don't feel like driving all morning, but

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01:30:50,040 --> 01:30:51,360
Speaker 5: we got to come up in here. We got to

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01:30:51,400 --> 01:30:53,600
Speaker 5: be a certain way you at work, man, you have

1683
01:30:53,680 --> 01:30:55,360
Speaker 5: to put on ass. You got to put on a

1684
01:30:55,439 --> 01:30:57,880
Speaker 5: different mask to go to work. You know, you got

1685
01:30:57,920 --> 01:31:00,479
Speaker 5: to fake the funk in front of them people. You know,

1686
01:31:00,600 --> 01:31:02,639
Speaker 5: when you get in your department, you got to put

1687
01:31:02,680 --> 01:31:07,639
Speaker 5: on that I'm the cheerful employee mask when you don't

1688
01:31:07,680 --> 01:31:09,920
Speaker 5: be feeling them at all. You got to go to

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01:31:10,040 --> 01:31:11,560
Speaker 5: lunch with them and sit next to him in the

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01:31:11,640 --> 01:31:14,720
Speaker 5: cafeteria and pretend that they are right when you when

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01:31:14,760 --> 01:31:18,000
Speaker 5: they really ain't even your type of people. That's why

1692
01:31:18,040 --> 01:31:19,720
Speaker 5: you can't wait to get off so you can just

1693
01:31:19,840 --> 01:31:22,640
Speaker 5: go be yourself again, because at work you can't. So

1694
01:31:22,760 --> 01:31:25,519
Speaker 5: if you have a friend, or several friends, or a

1695
01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:29,280
Speaker 5: few where you can sit around and be your natural self,

1696
01:31:30,120 --> 01:31:35,439
Speaker 5: that's valuable. Man Cherish your friendships because when you lose them,

1697
01:31:35,640 --> 01:31:38,640
Speaker 5: it's not a good day. Somebody once told me that

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01:31:38,840 --> 01:31:45,160
Speaker 5: friendship is essential to the soul. I think that's the truth.

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Speaker 1: Stout.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, y'all have a great day. Y'all talk to God.

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01:31:54,080 --> 01:31:54,920
Speaker 2: He loved to hear from you.

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