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Speaker 1: if we get your second date update. Hello, Hi, can

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Speaker 1: I speak to Greg? Please speaking? Hey Greg? How are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: guess I'm just like, why didn't you say anything? You

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Speaker 1: I'm not a psychopath who's going to try and sleep

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Speaker 1: with your father. I didn't know what private questions to

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Speaker 1: ask you about that. You've just said it so causually

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Speaker 1: it totally shocked me. Okay, first of all, you've definitely

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Speaker 1: And second of all, never having met someone doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: it as bad. I don't think you're a bad person.

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Speaker 1: I just just honestly not the lifestyle that I'm into.

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Speaker 1: And I'm sorry I wasn't up problem with you about

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Speaker 1: pat appabate? Chelsea? Do you always bring it up in

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Speaker 1: that manner on first dates? Not necessarily, but at the

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Speaker 1: same time, I think it's better than like bringing it

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Speaker 1: have all these assumptions. Yeah, like you guys are out

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Speaker 1: then that way if they do freak out, then I

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Speaker 1: haven't gotten like, yeah, that's a good way to do

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Speaker 1: it until you guys are like a couple of months

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Speaker 1: and you're like, Okay, it's finally time to meet my friends.

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Speaker 1: Oh and by the way, you're gonna have to have

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Speaker 1: sex with all my friends, right, But again, you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: ask you Well, it's just ignorance. I don't think any

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Speaker 1: of us really understand the swinging lifestyle. I've never been

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Speaker 1: a part of it. It's always interested me. I think

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Speaker 1: it's really cool. Yeah you're willing to do that, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know anything about it, so that's just what

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Speaker 1: I assume. I think what's surprising to me is that

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Speaker 1: potential reason why he's not calling you back. Well, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I guess it didn't because he didn't really have a

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Speaker 1: that you've said it on the first date, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I couldn't let it go. I mean, I think

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Speaker 1: anything else. It's about the fact that you're not like,

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Speaker 1: we have to do this and you have to sleep

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Speaker 1: with these people. But you're like, Okay, well do we

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Speaker 1: want to meet an augamist right now? Sure? Do we

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Speaker 1: want to swing right now? Sure? Do you want to

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Speaker 1: go on a date with someone else right now? Sure?

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Speaker 1: Like twenty years from now, when you're bored with the

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Speaker 1: sex with your current partner. That doesn't mean you have

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Speaker 1: to break up. It means you have other options. Greg,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask you a question, and I'm gonna beg

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Speaker 1: you to say yes to this. Okay, would you like

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Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Chelsea? I will

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Speaker 1: pay for it? Yeah? Um, you know you know what, honestly,

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Speaker 1: minded and I would like to go on a second date.

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Speaker 1: I would awesome, really actually very surprised if you just

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Speaker 1: said that. Yeah, Chelsea, are you cool with going out

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Speaker 1: on another date with Greg? Maybe tell him a little

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Speaker 1: bit more about your lifestyle so we can understand it more. Sure,

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Speaker 1: it's only to help spread the gospel of consensual non monogamy,

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Speaker 1: essential non monogamy. Like that, it does? All right, well, awesome,

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Speaker 1: let's send you guys out again. All right, it's great.

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Speaker 1: I got this great restaurant you go to. You put

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Speaker 1: your keys at the door in a bowl broken jupil

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Speaker 1: in the morning. Maybe