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<v Speaker 1>Misspelling with Tory spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Okay, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>here at my public storage that I have four units

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<v Speaker 1>at because I have a long history of stuff. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I have stuff in these units. I'm not a order

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a collector. That's my story and sticking to it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I have stuff here from literally from my childhood,

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<v Speaker 1>my stuff from my dad. I have memorabilia from nine

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<v Speaker 1>to two to zero. I have wardrobe from the nineties,

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<v Speaker 1>like everything you were recreating. I have the og stuff here,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have all my kids memories. I have everything

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<v Speaker 1>from like my eighteen year marriage, everything until well, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess a year ago when we had to like escape

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<v Speaker 1>the house with mold and everything was put into storage.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, didn't have the money to pay for the units,

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<v Speaker 1>so they actually what happens is I never knew this

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<v Speaker 1>before because I chose not to know it. My brain

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't accept the knowledge that if you don't pay, it

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<v Speaker 1>like goes into lean and then they cut your locks

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<v Speaker 1>off put their own locks on, then you can't get

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<v Speaker 1>back into it, and then eventually it goes up for auction.

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<v Speaker 1>So a very kind human stopped it from going up

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<v Speaker 1>for auction. Months before last and now, yeah, I have

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<v Speaker 1>friends helping me to get back into some of the

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<v Speaker 1>units right now. So I want to give a special

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<v Speaker 1>thank you to my friend Amy Sugarman for stepping up.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, I always say like it it

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<v Speaker 1>pays off eventually to be a good person, and eventually

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<v Speaker 1>good people get helped, you know, when they need it.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's a really amazing human for stepping in, and

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<v Speaker 1>she paid for two of the units to help me

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<v Speaker 1>get my stuff out. But here we are. So we

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<v Speaker 1>got a locksmith to come out here and we're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we have to do this quick. Didn't anticipate that, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said I can be here in twenty months. He

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<v Speaker 1>was here in twenty minutes. He came up and had

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<v Speaker 1>to By the time we pulled up, he was back

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<v Speaker 1>in his car and we're like, hey, what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, oh, I just had the wrong tool. I

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<v Speaker 1>will be back. I was like, oh, okay, I think

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<v Speaker 1>all these locks are the same with public storage, if

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you know. But anyway, my producer Lorraine went

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<v Speaker 1>down to find him and he was gone, car's gone.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't find him. So she called the company and

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<v Speaker 1>the company said I'm really sorry. He's a great locksmith,

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<v Speaker 1>but he got sorry sorry, what is the wording? He

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't work well in crowds. He doesn't work well with

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<v Speaker 1>a crowd. In front of a crowd, people watching. So uh,

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<v Speaker 1>there's three of us here, and it's like, wait, they're

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<v Speaker 1>just like helping me get stuff out and everything. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, hey, you know, performance anxiety comes in

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<v Speaker 1>many forms. We know that he got like lock fright.

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<v Speaker 1>You know us actors get stage fright. He got lock fright. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gone. So we had all these plans, and when

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<v Speaker 1>you're in tories world, nothing is easy. You get you

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<v Speaker 1>get roadblocks, and then you move on. So we're sitting

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<v Speaker 1>in it's very cold, right, it's very cold. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>look for their heads up. Last time I was here,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a cockroach. It was the size of a

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<v Speaker 1>small dog. Oh I'm not kidding. I was like, good

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<v Speaker 1>for you that you've kept yourself alive and found some

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<v Speaker 1>stuff in here, probably from my unit. Who knows there's

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<v Speaker 1>probably fucking old food in there. Yeah, so here we are.

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<v Speaker 1>We plan to do this podcast inside the unit. Were

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<v Speaker 1>going through. Someone's here, Okay, someone's coming, so hold please Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I told him that's what I had to do over

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<v Speaker 2>the phone. I just he was already there.

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<v Speaker 1>He just had to finish. Well, sometimes when you have

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<v Speaker 1>a foreman anxiety, I can't finish, so you know, these

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<v Speaker 1>things happen. Wow. So the owner of the company just came,

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<v Speaker 1>very nice man, he apologized. So, I guess what do

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<v Speaker 1>you say his name was? We'll just call him Bob

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<v Speaker 1>for the sake of privacy, Bob Aari had it drilled.

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<v Speaker 1>He just got nervous in front of all three of us.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh, anyway, Jeremy, Jeremy just came and picked the

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<v Speaker 1>and got a sence. So we're in.

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<v Speaker 3>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Mother. I knew this was going to be the case.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the thing. It was a crap. Shoot you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>There's four units. Didn't know what was in any of them.

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<v Speaker 1>We can only do two right now because Amy helped

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<v Speaker 1>me out with two. Shoot, you guys. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>this is anything that I actually need. Oh a travel

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<v Speaker 1>bad good. Don't need that. It's all dean stuff. You guys.

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<v Speaker 1>We fucked up, you guys. Wrong unit, wrong unit, wrong unit,

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<v Speaker 1>great nothing, Oh my god. No, there's some artwork of

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<v Speaker 1>mine in a mirror here that I love. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think this is most of dean stuff. I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sad right now. I just wanted to get

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<v Speaker 1>like my memorabilia and my kids stuff, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>nothing that we need.

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<v Speaker 2>For fucking shit. Oh my god, talk about getting screwed,

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<v Speaker 2>Like what the fuck? I still sort up a box

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<v Speaker 2>of screws you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Oh good h professional spot and stain remover.

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<v Speaker 1>So thanks my friend Amy. We paid for two units,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, those two units again will come up if

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<v Speaker 1>we don't clear them out, and if I don't pay

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<v Speaker 1>for the other two units. I mean literally, our whole

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<v Speaker 1>lives are in these units, and I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be honest, like, for a long time Dean wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to clear these out and he was right, and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>we got to pare down and we don't need all

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff. And sometimes stuff is just stuff. But for me,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't just stuff, even small things. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>part of it was my story, it was my journey,

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<v Speaker 1>every little thing. He would say, I put too much

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<v Speaker 1>emotional attachment on inanimate objects, but I I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to let go of stuff that you work

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<v Speaker 1>so hard to create, like I created this life, I

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<v Speaker 1>really did, and they're all memories. And to just get

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<v Speaker 1>rid of everything just felt like it was it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It felt to me like part of me didn't exist.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just erasing something, and so I couldn't let go.

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<v Speaker 1>But now I'm ready to let go of a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff. Well because I do, because I can't pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. But since since Dean and I split, and

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<v Speaker 1>since my life has changed so radically, it is a

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<v Speaker 1>whole fresh start, and I do there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>things I want to hold on to. And when I

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<v Speaker 1>go through this, my best friend justices this with me

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, and she'll be like, do you need this?

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<v Speaker 1>Do this? Do you want it? And I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll keep that. I'll keep that. And then she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't need it, and I was like, okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>it's left in my own devices. I will keep everything

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<v Speaker 1>because everything has a place. I'm holding on to my past.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're finding crap right now in this one.

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<v Speaker 1>There's four units and there's some things here, but a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of it. This sounds so silly, like it's really silly,

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<v Speaker 1>but it like that mirror back there, like it's probably

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<v Speaker 1>worth nothing now, but like at the time, it was

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<v Speaker 1>really expensive and it was from Europe, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>just I worked really hard and I made my own

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<v Speaker 1>way and made my own money, and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>representation of this life I lead that people still in comments, right, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, get a job, Like get a job. I

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<v Speaker 1>have fifty Like I'm fucking struggling, man, Like I have

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<v Speaker 1>five kids to pay for in LA And a part

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<v Speaker 1>of me is like, you know, I was raised a

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<v Speaker 1>certain way and I can't forget that, and it's what

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<v Speaker 1>I knew, and it's like I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 1>I would like in it too, But like you are

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<v Speaker 1>raised a certain way and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh but just as I don't know acclimate,

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<v Speaker 1>here's your new life and it's very radically different, and

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<v Speaker 1>just go for it. So there's some things that are

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<v Speaker 1>still ingrained in me. You know, I lived in a

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<v Speaker 1>fifty six thousand square foot house. You guys, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>all relative. I understand. I don't want sympathy, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I was taught, or wasn't taught how to function

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<v Speaker 1>in the real world. You know, that's the reality. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing the best I can. It was fight or flight,

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<v Speaker 1>like I got out there, and then, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>went from my parents having this huge life to Nino

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<v Speaker 1>two ono and I, you know, my dad gave me

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<v Speaker 1>that life, and I'm grateful, but I created that life

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<v Speaker 1>beyond that, you know, And it just shows them in

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<v Speaker 1>your hand at something you just then it's what you

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<v Speaker 1>make of it. And I made something big of it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I went for it, and I created ten years

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<v Speaker 1>of an amazing character with that show, and then went

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<v Speaker 1>on to do a lot of hard work and create

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things. And I think people don't even

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want credit. I've never wanted fucking credit. But

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<v Speaker 1>people don't acknowledge that. And I read in comments all

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<v Speaker 1>the time people are like, get job, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>and people will even write, oh, she's doing a project.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh did her dad make that? I'm like, my dad

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<v Speaker 1>passed away seventeen years ago. No, this project is mine.

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<v Speaker 1>I created it, I produced it, I'm making it. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to tell you something that's not going to be shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not good with money. I suck with money. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know how to write a check till I

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<v Speaker 1>was in my forties. I had never been inside a

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<v Speaker 1>bank till I was in my forties. I just saw

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<v Speaker 1>them in movies. I love a good heist film. In

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<v Speaker 1>my twenties, you know, and I've written about it in

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<v Speaker 1>my books. You know, I had an endless stream of money.

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<v Speaker 1>I worked my butt off for it. You know. I worked,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, five days a week. We would film seventeen

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<v Speaker 1>hour days sometimes, but I would spend it as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as it came in. I would spend it. And I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't understand. And I remember, like Ian Searing telling me, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you doing? You got to invest, like you

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<v Speaker 1>need to buy a house. You're making all this money,

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<v Speaker 1>how come no investment. I didn't understand what it meant.

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<v Speaker 1>All my co stars in Nintima were making investments, they

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<v Speaker 1>were buying properties, they were being smart about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. And I had no guidance at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no guidance. So I was really good at

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<v Speaker 1>collecting beanie babies though they're in here somewhere. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>have like every single one, even slother super rare. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is the first step. May first we lose all

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<v Speaker 1>of this again. So I gotta get all of this

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<v Speaker 1>out of here. Because again I'll just lose it again. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a hoarder. You guys. Hi, my name's Torrian. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a hoarder. There I said it real. I always tell

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<v Speaker 1>people I'm not a hoarder. I'm a collector. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what was interesting is, for the first time in forever,

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<v Speaker 1>when we left the house that had mold, we had

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<v Speaker 1>to go to an Airbnb and it's all clean and

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<v Speaker 1>it's all beautiful, and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I can breathe. And I was like, why can I breathe?

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<v Speaker 1>I can breathe because I don't have oh my shit

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<v Speaker 1>falling on top of me like it's you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>walk into other people's houses and they're pristine, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just make a joke like, oh, you're a neat freak.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm like the opposite. I'm messy. But I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>just messy. I'm cluttered. I'm cluttered. I'd lead a very

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<v Speaker 1>cluttered life. Hey, they say creatives are often very cluttered

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<v Speaker 1>and they thrive not just in chaos and clutter. But hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I can turn over a new leaf because I can't

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<v Speaker 1>afford a new locker here. So I would like to change.

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to start to paar, damn. I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to clean up my life for my kids because

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<v Speaker 1>they deserve better. What I got the worst dress list?

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<v Speaker 1>Do I seem faith? Oh in touch cool Tori spelling

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<v Speaker 1>slash worst cool. This crop top and low slung pants

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<v Speaker 1>looks like something she would wear out shopping. Not on

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<v Speaker 1>a red carpet. Well it was a yellow carpet. But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, so here's what happened. We the current

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<v Speaker 1>airbnb we are in because we are not in a

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<v Speaker 1>permanent house since mold, we've gone from airbnb to airbnb,

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<v Speaker 1>not an RB Airbnb. I said, m A clear, McLear?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh And and yeah, we don't know how, but somebody

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<v Speaker 1>like literally put our address out in the press, which

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<v Speaker 1>you know, everyone's like, oh, what's the big deal? And

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, not paying fifteen thousand dollars a month,

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<v Speaker 1>just saying that, I want to make that clear. But whatever

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<v Speaker 1>they picked up what that house usually runs for? Lovely

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<v Speaker 1>house by the way, anyway, love the house. It's great house.

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<v Speaker 1>But the addresses out there, it's right in the street.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody drives by it. There's press sitting on the street.

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<v Speaker 1>Twenty four to seven. The kids and I have to

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<v Speaker 1>like literally creep into the car to get somewhere because

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<v Speaker 1>they followed my kids and I to school and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just it's not ideal. So when the news

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<v Speaker 1>was breaking of the divorce, I didn't want the kids

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<v Speaker 1>to have to, on top of everything else, go through

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<v Speaker 1>news cruise and stuff sitting on the street. So we

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<v Speaker 1>left the house and when stayed at the Warners Center

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<v Speaker 1>maryon Woodland Hills, which shout out to them. They've always

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<v Speaker 1>been amazing when we're going through mole during last summer

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<v Speaker 1>we stayed there. Anyway, I had my out there that

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<v Speaker 1>was amazing and styled and it was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>such I was going to crush that yellow carpet like

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to get not just best dressed like

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I was going to win the night. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was white. It was symbolic of like new beginnings

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<v Speaker 1>and rebirth and I was so proud. And anyway, got

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<v Speaker 1>to the Roosevelt Hotel to do glam and that's where

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<v Speaker 1>everyone from my heart was staying and getting ready, and

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<v Speaker 1>walked across the street to the awards and doing glam.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything's on point. I should have known something was going

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<v Speaker 1>to go wrong because in my life when I plan,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't happen. I'm a last minute person and if

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do it last minute, it's just how I thrive.

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<v Speaker 1>It never works out. And then I was glammed. I

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<v Speaker 1>was already hair on point, makeup on point, yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>then all of a sudden, we were like, okay, let's

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<v Speaker 1>get the outfit out and looked through the bags because

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<v Speaker 1>we had moved everything from the Marriott that morning, and

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<v Speaker 1>the only bag that didn't make it was the bag

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<v Speaker 1>with my outfit and my jewelbery. So the outfit was

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<v Speaker 1>just gone and I had nothing else. I literally was

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<v Speaker 1>in sweats, and immediately I was like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna have to borrow an outfit.

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<v Speaker 1>And I looked at my hairstylist, Kim, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>like your pants. I love your pants and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, really okay, And I said I'm so sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to take your pants right now, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have underwear on and I was like nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen before. We got to take him off,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I was like, okay, what top am I

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<v Speaker 1>putting with this? And literally my daughter Stella was like

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<v Speaker 1>anything I have, mom, you can borrow. So it took

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<v Speaker 1>her like tank top, brawlt off her, put it on myself,

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<v Speaker 1>put it on the pants, and we had it out

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<v Speaker 1>the door, and there, folks, you have I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>guess what one would call worse dress. I call it

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<v Speaker 1>how to make something work in a pinch. Literally, My

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<v Speaker 1>producer went next door and Rachel from you know, from Scandabal,

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<v Speaker 1>she offered an outfit, which I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a really kind human. So see there's two storre

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<v Speaker 1>wait so see, there's two sides, three sides, many sides

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<v Speaker 1>to every story and scandal. There you go. But unfortunately

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god, okay, sounds good, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like I think I have a pants suit

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<v Speaker 1>in the car, but then she didn't, So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, okay, anyone, everyone here, we are in my room.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's offering me their outfit? And I literally took off

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<v Speaker 1>my hairstylist kin's pants, my daughter Sella's tank top, put

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<v Speaker 1>it all on, headed out the door without a moment

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<v Speaker 1>to even think about it. And I'm not bummed at

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<v Speaker 1>the outfit. The outfit was super cute? Is it was? It?

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<v Speaker 1>Red carpet. Well, iheart's yellow carpet worthy. No, but and

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<v Speaker 1>that's the only thing is I was like, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>know when I step onto this carpet tonight, everyone's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh wait. But there's like a great story

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<v Speaker 1>and I always have a fun story. But it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the moment to tell it. But here I am. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>so it all worked out and tell it on my

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<v Speaker 1>podcast There It Is, Land It Down.

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<v Speaker 3>Litlberty told me that you weren't super five thousand percent

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<v Speaker 3>invested in the outfit. I don't think you've sabotaged it

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<v Speaker 3>on purpose, But do you think there's something inside of

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<v Speaker 3>you that didn't want to wear it and was like,

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<v Speaker 3>we're going to make this go awry?

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<v Speaker 1>No? I actually do not think that because while at

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<v Speaker 1>first so anyway, I'm a fashionista, I can call myself

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<v Speaker 1>that whatever, h I One thing I know is fashion,

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<v Speaker 1>and like stylus, over the years, I always had input

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like, I've had a stylist say to me once.

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<v Speaker 1>It was someone I used to be friends with, so

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<v Speaker 1>he could have said it. It wasn't like talking out of school,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, you know, all my other clients just

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<v Speaker 1>let me dress them, and I was like, because I

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<v Speaker 1>have good taste and I have input, Like that's weird,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I just love fashion. It's something I'm into.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a big part of my life and my amazing

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<v Speaker 1>iHeart team. We were all kind of on it together,

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<v Speaker 1>like picking my outfit and like, this is a new beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>We want something very amy kep referencing Jennifer Aniston and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, okay, And then literally the day

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<v Speaker 1>before I was like, I gotta be honest with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I love Jennifer Aniston with all my heart and soul,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think her style is plain Jane. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be vanilla like I like to make a statement.

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<v Speaker 1>But we compromised, and actually the outfit I fell in

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<v Speaker 1>love with, and I was not just on board with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know what, my iHeart family. They

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<v Speaker 1>made a great call, like it was kind of very me. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to tell you about it because you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna see it. I'm gonna wear it again. We're holding

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<v Speaker 1>on to that sucker because we have it. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was white and it was lacy, and it was very

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<v Speaker 1>Donna Martin meets Tory present day. By the way, I

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<v Speaker 1>never wear white. I gotta tell you one time in

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<v Speaker 1>my twenties, I was smoking weed and I got paranoid

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<v Speaker 1>and I had white overalls on. And I'll never forget

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<v Speaker 1>this because there used to be it was called Nancy's,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think it was like a do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>remember this. It was in the valley, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like everything was like diet it was before, like it

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<v Speaker 1>was before everyone was like gluten free. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>one of those gluten free restaurants. But this is like

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<v Speaker 1>in literally the late nineties didn't exist. And we went

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<v Speaker 1>there and my friend and I were like, oh, it's

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<v Speaker 1>so funny, like let's order one of everything because it's

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<v Speaker 1>all fat free, like it doesn't matter. And we were

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<v Speaker 1>super high and I got paranoid and while he was ordering,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Ooh, the room's spinning. Something's happening. And

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<v Speaker 1>I went into the bathroom and they had to call him. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>He came in and I was on the ground hugging

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<v Speaker 1>the toilet and I just remember saying, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>please don't let me die in these white overalls because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure I've dirtied them now, and like that's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>look terrible. I'm like in like soiled like overalls, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on a dirty floor and he was like tea and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hey, I'm gonna die. He's like, You're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna die, You're just high. And sure enough, I

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<v Speaker 1>was just high. From that moment on, I never wore

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<v Speaker 1>white again in public, So maybe maybe that's why I

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<v Speaker 1>somehow self sabotaged it. Clearly, there's more here than meets

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<v Speaker 1>the eye. I mean literally, you guys fine, I've said it,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on record saying it. I'm a order and and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to change though. People don't change right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I love great expectations the movie That's why I named

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<v Speaker 1>my son Finn. Gwyneth Paltrow says people don't change