WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Experiment Gone Wrong

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<v Speaker 1>The second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Any dating app that you log into, there's all these

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<v Speaker 2>acronyms that you have to know for what you're looking for.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you know, like l t R long term relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>There's dt R define the relationship f w B Friends

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<v Speaker 2>with Baked Goods.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's what I.

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<v Speaker 4>Benefit.

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<v Speaker 1>BOK has so many FWBs.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I did notice that.

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<v Speaker 5>You know how much I love.

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<v Speaker 2>But what happens when somebody reaches out to us and

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<v Speaker 2>they're not really sure what they want exactly. They just

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<v Speaker 2>want to see him again. That's what Thomas says. He's

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<v Speaker 2>hoping for a j w S just want.

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<v Speaker 5>To see I don't like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't I don't like Well that's.

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<v Speaker 2>What Thomas wants. So you guys have to get over it.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show, Thomas.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey guys, Hey, so I take it you don't use

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<v Speaker 3>JWS on your dating profile right already.

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<v Speaker 6>I had never heard that one until you just did it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I think we're making dating history right now.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about the girl that you JWS.

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<v Speaker 4>It's going to catch.

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<v Speaker 6>So I went out to a bar with a bunch

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<v Speaker 6>of friends, and you know, at a bar and there's

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<v Speaker 6>like your crew and then another crew and another crew

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<v Speaker 6>and another crew. We sort of all knew each other,

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<v Speaker 6>but like not close friends.

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<v Speaker 5>That makes sense, But I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you're like, oh, dude, this is so and so

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<v Speaker 2>I used to work with him and.

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<v Speaker 4>His friend now.

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<v Speaker 5>And I hate it when I'm like, and I don't

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<v Speaker 5>remember your name.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't meet on a dating app. You meant

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<v Speaker 1>I r L Okay, you do.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't sound cool, that's what you think cool?

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<v Speaker 5>That means in real life? I know, I just.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't use you know some people away anyway, tell us

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<v Speaker 2>about the girl that you met iral.

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<v Speaker 6>So this in real life girl that I met. It

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<v Speaker 6>was kind of cool. I had a friend from another

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<v Speaker 6>group come over and she was like, hey, there's a

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<v Speaker 6>girl over there. She's really interested in you. And she's like,

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<v Speaker 6>you did you really go over talk to her?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? Good wing woman moved there?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well done, wing woman. Right. So she points me

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<v Speaker 6>over to Chelsea and I go over to Chelsea and

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<v Speaker 6>I'm talking to her and conversation is it's clunky at best,

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<v Speaker 6>it's that really great conversation, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you say though? What made it not a

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<v Speaker 1>great conversation?

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<v Speaker 6>Just the questions from both sides were very dumb because

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<v Speaker 6>we were kind of nervous. Oh, do you like music?

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<v Speaker 6>And she's like, yeah, I like music. And then she's like, do.

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<v Speaker 1>You like food?

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm like, yeah, food's good, man.

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<v Speaker 4>I've written a whole joke about this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so true.

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<v Speaker 5>But it's probably that this girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, usually in my experience with girl groups, right like,

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<v Speaker 3>if you're going to send somebody over to talk to

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<v Speaker 3>a dude, it's because you're shy.

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<v Speaker 2>She's shy and just trying to find generic middle ground, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>kind of food.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, let's pivot to this.

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<v Speaker 5>She was like they didn't get there.

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<v Speaker 6>Though, Yeah, we live so so she was like, let's

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<v Speaker 6>grab a drink. So we did, okay, and that smooth

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<v Speaker 6>things out. It was it was pretty good. And then

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<v Speaker 6>we finished the one and she's like, can we go

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<v Speaker 6>back to your place?

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<v Speaker 3>One b No, it's always a shy girls. It's always

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<v Speaker 3>you got to watch out for a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think you're did you like food? Comment? Really,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get out of.

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<v Speaker 6>Here, food operator, What could I say?

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<v Speaker 1>Well done? Okay, okay, so you guys leave the bar.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we grabbed an uber. We went back to my place.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you take it in your head? Are you

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<v Speaker 5>like stoked? Are you nervous? Where are you at?

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<v Speaker 6>I was sort of like, okay, well I guess this

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<v Speaker 6>is this is happening. So we get back to my place.

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<v Speaker 6>I opened the door and my god, this lady she's

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<v Speaker 6>going at me like a movie level makeout. We're knocking

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<v Speaker 6>stuff off the wall, knock it was. It was insane.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 6>And then all of a sudden she just was like,

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<v Speaker 6>oh sorry, I can't do this, and I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>well we don't have to if you want to hang

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<v Speaker 6>out by all means, it's just chill. And she apologized, apologize,

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<v Speaker 6>grabbed a coat and left.

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<v Speaker 2>What Yeah, that's so weird that she would turn it

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<v Speaker 2>on like so hot and then he fled the cold.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, completely off. So I texted her like the next day,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, hey, you know, how are you like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>the conversation went back to cloaks.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I'm sure like when she left, originally you're

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<v Speaker 2>probably thinking, Okay, she's gonna be our b.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, fml yeah really.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good one. I know you guys are getting

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<v Speaker 1>into this. I know, you say you don't like it,

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<v Speaker 1>but you kind of like it.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe she like was Actually you know how girls say,

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<v Speaker 3>women will say, oh, I'm not one of those type

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<v Speaker 3>of girls.

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<v Speaker 5>Like maybe she really wasn't you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like maybe we could speculate forever on the maybes. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>get a definite answer. We're gonna play a song, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>come back, we'll call it Chelsea, and we'll try and

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<v Speaker 2>get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's great. All right here second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>One of our listeners had a hookup that sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>it lasted about thirty seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be there.

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<v Speaker 2>It's ten seconds longer than my average. Oh but the

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<v Speaker 2>difference here is afterwards, my partners usually hang around for

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<v Speaker 2>an average of two minutes. Thomas's date, though, she was

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<v Speaker 2>out the door instantly.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh man.

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<v Speaker 2>Now she stopped the hookup right as it started, basically

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<v Speaker 2>and said, look, I'm sorry, I just can't do this.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta go, which is weird because she's the one

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<v Speaker 2>who insisted that they go back to his place.

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<v Speaker 5>Originally, she initiated all of it.

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<v Speaker 4>To go back.

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<v Speaker 2>So now Thomas is just really confused, and we're committed

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<v Speaker 2>to helping him out. In fact, Brooke is even willing

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<v Speaker 2>to finish the hookup.

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<v Speaker 1>With you, Thomas. Look at that. Brooke, wait a step

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<v Speaker 1>up for our listeners. Good job.

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<v Speaker 5>Is it going to be another minute or how long?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I'm up for whatever you want.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, maybe that's the problem. We need to play a

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<v Speaker 3>little hard to get in this game. I don't like

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<v Speaker 3>reflecting on this.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think? Why do you think she left?

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly, I don't know. She seemed really good, gung ho

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<v Speaker 6>and everything was great?

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<v Speaker 2>Then is gung ho the word?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it wasn't like you had bad breath or something,

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<v Speaker 3>right Like, I'm just thinking.

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<v Speaker 5>Like something may have turned her.

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<v Speaker 4>I would almost hope it's something simple like that, so

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<v Speaker 4>he could be like, oh, next time, all.

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<v Speaker 5>That's true something you know? Yeah, you can't fix it

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<v Speaker 5>unless you know, I guess do you have bad breath?

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<v Speaker 4>Bro Do you know?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm pretty sure I don't go to the dentist every

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<v Speaker 6>six months? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's more than it's a lot. All right, Well, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just give her a call.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll see what she has to say if she answers.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm at dal Chelsea's number right now. You ready yep,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, here we go. Hello, Hey, I'm looking for Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 7>This is Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Chelsea. My name is jeff from the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>I Hi, Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>Chelsea, and that's Jose.

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<v Speaker 7>That's Alexis I canna help you.

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<v Speaker 2>We're doing a segment on our show called a second

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<v Speaker 2>Date Update. That's where we help our listeners reconnect with

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<v Speaker 2>someone after what they thought was a really good date.

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<v Speaker 2>And so you you met a guy out the other night.

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<v Speaker 2>His name was Thomas.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Would you say about Thomas?

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<v Speaker 7>I just said, oh geez, I thought it.

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<v Speaker 3>Was like, oh boy, oh jeez, okay, oh boy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure what to take from that yet.

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<v Speaker 2>But Thomas told us about the night that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>spent together, and it sounded pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>Good, exciting, very exciting, a little bit of a short night,

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<v Speaker 1>but it sounded yea.

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<v Speaker 2>And so he's a little bit confused about how things

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<v Speaker 2>ended and why exactly, because it sounds like you took

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<v Speaker 2>off from his apartment pretty quick.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow, this is so awkward, what the heck?

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<v Speaker 2>But also got to think it's pretty awkward to leave

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<v Speaker 2>a makeout like halfway through, and now you know, days later,

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<v Speaker 2>you're still not responding to him, and so he just

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<v Speaker 2>has a bunch of questions and doesn't know where to

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<v Speaker 2>get the answers.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, okay, yeah, well I really liked him and stuff,

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<v Speaker 7>but he said, like, while we were kissing and stuff,

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<v Speaker 7>he said, oh, I so want.

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<v Speaker 1>To date you, and I want to date you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I want to date you, and just like sort

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<v Speaker 7>of slapped me back to reality.

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<v Speaker 1>No, sorry, are you not looking to date right now?

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<v Speaker 4>You're trying to be like, oh, I can't wait for

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<v Speaker 4>us to get married.

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<v Speaker 5>It is kind of weird thing to say mid makeouts

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<v Speaker 5>on your first handout.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, now it's like a commitment.

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<v Speaker 3>If they follow through, it's like a bar thing. Were

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<v Speaker 3>you just like looking for the one night stand?

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<v Speaker 4>Which is fine?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe the word it came out weird. I think he

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<v Speaker 2>just meant he was having a good time and he

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't wait to go out.

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<v Speaker 1>With you, like very officially.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't say anything though during that Maybe she doesn't want

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<v Speaker 3>future plans.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, Well I just felt bad because I got

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<v Speaker 7>the impression that he kind of liked me, and like,

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<v Speaker 7>the truth of the matter is I totally have a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh gosh, wait.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, you're cheating on your boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, if you want to look at it that way,

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<v Speaker 7>But how I.

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<v Speaker 5>Would your boyfriend look at it that way?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not sure? Is it's like an open relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, here's the thing. I feel like he might understand,

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<v Speaker 7>because really it was for his benefit. We've been together

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<v Speaker 7>for several years now, and like I felt like I

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<v Speaker 7>needed to jush up the situation a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I do, but keep going.

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<v Speaker 7>So I was just gonna, like, you know, go and

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<v Speaker 7>hook up. And she was, you know, she was good

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<v Speaker 7>with fresh, with new money, bring it back, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>And so.

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<v Speaker 3>Into boring stuff right now, and you needed new ideas.

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<v Speaker 7>Is that where you Yeah, pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm getting the idea.

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<v Speaker 2>So, Chelsea, you were interested in Thomas just from a

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<v Speaker 2>purely physical standpoint to see what you could learn from him,

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<v Speaker 2>But when he started mentioning dating, then it crossed the line.

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<v Speaker 6>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It's interesting because like talking to Thomas on the phone,

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<v Speaker 3>he wouldn't probably be my go to tutor.

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<v Speaker 1>That is extremely rude. It's extremely rude, especially because.

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<v Speaker 4>He's listening to this right now.

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<v Speaker 2>And heard that, and he heard everything that Chelsea said

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<v Speaker 2>because Chelsea, you know Thomas has been there.

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<v Speaker 7>That's okay. I kind of like it's good that he

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<v Speaker 7>hears this because I I did not know how to

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<v Speaker 7>say it at the time, and like I didn't know

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<v Speaker 7>how to responded.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, Thomas, go ahead say hello.

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<v Speaker 6>Chel you're a total.

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<v Speaker 1>Or was that a suggestion for a love.

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<v Speaker 4>Stuff?

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<v Speaker 6>No, I'm not gonna know. I'm not gonna help you

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<v Speaker 6>cheat on some dude because then I'm the atol. No,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't care what your side is. You need to

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<v Speaker 6>tell people that you need to figure that on your own,

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<v Speaker 6>but you don't use me for ruin. No, those are valid.

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<v Speaker 2>But she didn't technically go all the way through with it.

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<v Speaker 5>It doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, so you'd be totally fine if your girlfriend made

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<v Speaker 6>out with some dude and then came home. I was like,

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't well, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't know if she came home with a cool new

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<v Speaker 2>skill because of it. I'm not going thank you, sir,

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<v Speaker 2>bring him over.

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<v Speaker 1>What else I could learn?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, look it, I'm you know.

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<v Speaker 6>You.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotta be careful here. We're a family friendly show.

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<v Speaker 7>Rein it in If you wanted to find out what

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<v Speaker 7>happened here it is. We don't even be calling me name.

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<v Speaker 5>You need to apologize for that one.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, but you said you wouldn't be a good tutor.

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<v Speaker 1>The first time she's telling somebody that, like, whatever, keep going.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's the thing, Chelsea, Why don't you just open with

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<v Speaker 3>that with any dude at the bar. If you walked

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<v Speaker 3>up to a hot guy at a bar and you said, hey, listen,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want anything tonight except for this, because this

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<v Speaker 3>is what I want to learn. I think you could

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<v Speaker 3>teach me some new things you're telling me. A dude

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't turn that Like you could find eight other guys

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<v Speaker 3>though that would say yes, eight other guys that would

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<v Speaker 3>say yes, Like why not lead with the truth.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't hate that idea. You might be right, guy

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<v Speaker 7>has morals or standards.

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<v Speaker 4>Some dudes are like, cool, this is the best scenario.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, it sounds like Jose's trying to volunteer

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<v Speaker 2>to help you out.

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<v Speaker 4>I will cheat.

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<v Speaker 1>You have morals and standards.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I've never cheated in my life, never will have.

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<v Speaker 5>Relationships are so complicated these days.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, no, it's not that complicated not to cheat on

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<v Speaker 6>your boyfriend or girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not hard.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels like you two have a lot of things

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<v Speaker 2>to say to each other.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't have anything. Maybe that would be a.

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<v Speaker 2>Good thing to say when you guys are looking at

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<v Speaker 2>each other face to face over a dinner. Perhaps, no,

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<v Speaker 2>not a dinner because we can't make it a date.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe like lunch.

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<v Speaker 7>I think I'm done with this person because he just

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<v Speaker 7>called me and you can't really step back from that.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, no, no, hold on. I just said the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, and is turning me on when he uses

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<v Speaker 1>that languorge.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's not gonna work for this phone call you

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, stop it can be clustered rookie Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning. We just got done talking about it in studio,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just want all the listeners to know we

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<v Speaker 2>have banned Thomas from ever appearing on this show again.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, dude, I understand he was upset, but you just

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<v Speaker 3>can't go that low.

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<v Speaker 5>B It's too low.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the first number that we've ever actually added to

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<v Speaker 2>the show blacklist. But look, he crossed the line. So

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<v Speaker 2>sorry to any listeners that heard that.

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<v Speaker 1>And an even.

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<v Speaker 2>Bigger apology to our editor who has to use more

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<v Speaker 2>bleeps than we've ever probably.

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<v Speaker 1>Had to use before. Ed Yeah, get to click in,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>But look, that type of language is absolutely not tolerated

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<v Speaker 2>here unless we know for sure the microphones are off.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's all the time. Excuse me, all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>No language like that. I just want to make that

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<v Speaker 1>very clear. Yeah right, but not even sad that we

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<v Speaker 1>get him a second day. He didn't deserve it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean the whole thing was kind of screwed

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<v Speaker 3>up from the beginning, it really Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean she's not greatly innocent either, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>he took the care.

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<v Speaker 1>He really did.

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<v Speaker 2>So look, if there's anybody out there with a clean mouth, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Or semi clean, I mean we go a little dirty's

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<v Speaker 5>not mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, please email our show and we can call the

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<v Speaker 2>person who isn't calling you.

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<v Speaker 5>Then Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,