1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:02,279 Speaker 1: The second date update. 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 2: Any dating app that you log into, there's all these 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 2: acronyms that you have to know for what you're looking for. 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know, like l t R long term relationship. 5 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 2: There's dt R define the relationship f w B Friends 6 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 2: with Baked Goods. 7 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 3: But that's what I. 8 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 4: Benefit. 9 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 1: BOK has so many FWBs. 10 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I did notice that. 11 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 5: You know how much I love. 12 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 2: But what happens when somebody reaches out to us and 13 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 2: they're not really sure what they want exactly. They just 14 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 2: want to see him again. That's what Thomas says. He's 15 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 2: hoping for a j w S just want. 16 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 5: To see I don't like that. 17 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 4: I don't I don't like Well that's. 18 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 2: What Thomas wants. So you guys have to get over it. 19 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show, Thomas. 20 00:00:56,600 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 3: Hey guys, Hey, so I take it you don't use 21 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 3: JWS on your dating profile right already. 22 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 6: I had never heard that one until you just did it. 23 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,759 Speaker 2: Okay, I think we're making dating history right now. 24 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: So tell us about the girl that you JWS. 25 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 4: It's going to catch. 26 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 6: So I went out to a bar with a bunch 27 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 6: of friends, and you know, at a bar and there's 28 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 6: like your crew and then another crew and another crew 29 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 6: and another crew. We sort of all knew each other, 30 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 6: but like not close friends. 31 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 5: That makes sense, But I like that. 32 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 2: Sometimes you're like, oh, dude, this is so and so 33 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 2: I used to work with him and. 34 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 4: His friend now. 35 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,839 Speaker 5: And I hate it when I'm like, and I don't 36 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 5: remember your name. 37 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, you're right. 38 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:43,960 Speaker 1: So you didn't meet on a dating app. You meant 39 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: I r L Okay, you do. 40 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 4: You don't sound cool, that's what you think cool? 41 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 5: That means in real life? I know, I just. 42 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 2: Don't use you know some people away anyway, tell us 43 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 2: about the girl that you met iral. 44 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 6: So this in real life girl that I met. It 45 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 6: was kind of cool. I had a friend from another 46 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 6: group come over and she was like, hey, there's a 47 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 6: girl over there. She's really interested in you. And she's like, 48 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 6: you did you really go over talk to her? 49 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 5: Okay? Good wing woman moved there? 50 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, well done, wing woman. Right. So she points me 51 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 6: over to Chelsea and I go over to Chelsea and 52 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 6: I'm talking to her and conversation is it's clunky at best, 53 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 6: it's that really great conversation, you know. 54 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: Why do you say though? What made it not a 55 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: great conversation? 56 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 6: Just the questions from both sides were very dumb because 57 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 6: we were kind of nervous. Oh, do you like music? 58 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 6: And she's like, yeah, I like music. And then she's like, do. 59 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: You like food? 60 00:02:56,320 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 6: And I'm like, yeah, food's good, man. 61 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 4: I've written a whole joke about this. 62 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: It's so true. 63 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 5: But it's probably that this girl. 64 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 3: I mean, usually in my experience with girl groups, right like, 65 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 3: if you're going to send somebody over to talk to 66 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 3: a dude, it's because you're shy. 67 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 2: She's shy and just trying to find generic middle ground, right, yeah, 68 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 2: kind of food. 69 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 4: Okay, let's pivot to this. 70 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 5: She was like they didn't get there. 71 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:26,399 Speaker 6: Though, Yeah, we live so so she was like, let's 72 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 6: grab a drink. So we did, okay, and that smooth 73 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 6: things out. It was it was pretty good. And then 74 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 6: we finished the one and she's like, can we go 75 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 6: back to your place? 76 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 3: One b No, it's always a shy girls. It's always 77 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 3: you got to watch out for a girl. 78 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think you're did you like food? Comment? Really, 79 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: let's get out of. 80 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 6: Here, food operator, What could I say? 81 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: Well done? Okay, okay, so you guys leave the bar. 82 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, we grabbed an uber. We went back to my place. 83 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 5: What do you take it in your head? Are you 84 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 5: like stoked? Are you nervous? Where are you at? 85 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 6: I was sort of like, okay, well I guess this 86 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 6: is this is happening. So we get back to my place. 87 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 6: I opened the door and my god, this lady she's 88 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 6: going at me like a movie level makeout. We're knocking 89 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 6: stuff off the wall, knock it was. It was insane. 90 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 5: Oh my god. 91 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 6: And then all of a sudden she just was like, 92 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 6: oh sorry, I can't do this, and I'm like, okay, 93 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 6: well we don't have to if you want to hang 94 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 6: out by all means, it's just chill. And she apologized, apologize, 95 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 6: grabbed a coat and left. 96 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 2: What Yeah, that's so weird that she would turn it 97 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 2: on like so hot and then he fled the cold. 98 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:53,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, completely off. So I texted her like the next day, 99 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 6: I'm like, hey, you know, how are you like, I mean, 100 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 6: the conversation went back to cloaks. 101 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm sure like when she left, originally you're 102 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 2: probably thinking, Okay, she's gonna be our b. 103 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:06,799 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. 104 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 5: Okay, fml yeah really. 105 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: That's a good one. I know you guys are getting 106 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: into this. I know, you say you don't like it, 107 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: but you kind of like it. 108 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 3: Maybe she like was Actually you know how girls say, 109 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,840 Speaker 3: women will say, oh, I'm not one of those type 110 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 3: of girls. 111 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 5: Like maybe she really wasn't you know what I mean? 112 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 2: Like maybe we could speculate forever on the maybes. Let's 113 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: get a definite answer. We're gonna play a song, we'll 114 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:40,720 Speaker 2: come back, we'll call it Chelsea, and we'll try and 115 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 2: get your second date update. 116 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 1: Okay, that's great. All right here second date update. 117 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 2: One of our listeners had a hookup that sounds like 118 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 2: it lasted about thirty seconds. 119 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 1: We'll be there. 120 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 2: It's ten seconds longer than my average. Oh but the 121 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 2: difference here is afterwards, my partners usually hang around for 122 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 2: an average of two minutes. Thomas's date, though, she was 123 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 2: out the door instantly. 124 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 4: Oh man. 125 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 2: Now she stopped the hookup right as it started, basically 126 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 2: and said, look, I'm sorry, I just can't do this. 127 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 2: I gotta go, which is weird because she's the one 128 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 2: who insisted that they go back to his place. 129 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 5: Originally, she initiated all of it. 130 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 4: To go back. 131 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 2: So now Thomas is just really confused, and we're committed 132 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:31,559 Speaker 2: to helping him out. In fact, Brooke is even willing 133 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 2: to finish the hookup. 134 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,679 Speaker 1: With you, Thomas. Look at that. Brooke, wait a step 135 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,679 Speaker 1: up for our listeners. Good job. 136 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 5: Is it going to be another minute or how long? 137 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 6: Yeah? I'm up for whatever you want. 138 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 3: Okay, maybe that's the problem. We need to play a 139 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 3: little hard to get in this game. I don't like 140 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 3: reflecting on this. 141 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 5: What do you think? Why do you think she left? 142 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 6: Honestly, I don't know. She seemed really good, gung ho 143 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 6: and everything was great? 144 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 2: Then is gung ho the word? 145 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 3: I mean, it wasn't like you had bad breath or something, 146 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 3: right Like, I'm just thinking. 147 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 5: Like something may have turned her. 148 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 4: I would almost hope it's something simple like that, so 149 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 4: he could be like, oh, next time, all. 150 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 5: That's true something you know? Yeah, you can't fix it 151 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 5: unless you know, I guess do you have bad breath? 152 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 4: Bro Do you know? 153 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 6: I'm pretty sure I don't go to the dentist every 154 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 6: six months? You know? 155 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:32,559 Speaker 1: Okay, that's more than it's a lot. All right, Well, uh, 156 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: let's just give her a call. 157 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 2: We'll see what she has to say if she answers. 158 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 2: So I'm at dal Chelsea's number right now. You ready yep, 159 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 2: all right, here we go. Hello, Hey, I'm looking for Chelsea. 160 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 7: This is Chelsea. 161 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: Hey Chelsea. My name is jeff from the radio show 162 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 163 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 7: I Hi, Hi. 164 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 3: Chelsea, and that's Jose. 165 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 7: That's Alexis I canna help you. 166 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 2: We're doing a segment on our show called a second 167 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 2: Date Update. That's where we help our listeners reconnect with 168 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 2: someone after what they thought was a really good date. 169 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 2: And so you you met a guy out the other night. 170 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 2: His name was Thomas. 171 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 7: Oh, okay, okay. 172 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 5: Would you say about Thomas? 173 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 7: I just said, oh geez, I thought it. 174 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 3: Was like, oh boy, oh jeez, okay, oh boy. 175 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,319 Speaker 1: I'm not sure what to take from that yet. 176 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 2: But Thomas told us about the night that you guys 177 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 2: spent together, and it sounded pretty. 178 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: Good, exciting, very exciting, a little bit of a short night, 179 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: but it sounded yea. 180 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 2: And so he's a little bit confused about how things 181 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 2: ended and why exactly, because it sounds like you took 182 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 2: off from his apartment pretty quick. 183 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 7: Wow, this is so awkward, what the heck? 184 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: But also got to think it's pretty awkward to leave 185 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:10,559 Speaker 2: a makeout like halfway through, and now you know, days later, 186 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 2: you're still not responding to him, and so he just 187 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 2: has a bunch of questions and doesn't know where to 188 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:15,959 Speaker 2: get the answers. 189 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 7: Okay, okay, yeah, well I really liked him and stuff, 190 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 7: but he said, like, while we were kissing and stuff, 191 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 7: he said, oh, I so want. 192 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: To date you, and I want to date you. 193 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,199 Speaker 7: Yeah, I want to date you, and just like sort 194 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 7: of slapped me back to reality. 195 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: No, sorry, are you not looking to date right now? 196 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 4: You're trying to be like, oh, I can't wait for 197 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 4: us to get married. 198 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 5: It is kind of weird thing to say mid makeouts 199 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 5: on your first handout. 200 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, now it's like a commitment. 201 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 3: If they follow through, it's like a bar thing. Were 202 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,959 Speaker 3: you just like looking for the one night stand? 203 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 4: Which is fine? 204 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 2: Maybe the word it came out weird. I think he 205 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:02,439 Speaker 2: just meant he was having a good time and he 206 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 2: couldn't wait to go out. 207 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: With you, like very officially. 208 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 3: Don't say anything though during that Maybe she doesn't want 209 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 3: future plans. 210 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, Well I just felt bad because I got 211 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 7: the impression that he kind of liked me, and like, 212 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:19,719 Speaker 7: the truth of the matter is I totally have a boyfriend. 213 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 3: Oh oh gosh, wait. 214 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 5: Wait, you're cheating on your boyfriend. 215 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 7: I mean, if you want to look at it that way, 216 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 7: But how I. 217 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 5: Would your boyfriend look at it that way? 218 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 7: I'm not sure. 219 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:41,079 Speaker 1: You're not sure? Is it's like an open relationship. 220 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 7: Well, here's the thing. I feel like he might understand, 221 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 7: because really it was for his benefit. We've been together 222 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 7: for several years now, and like I felt like I 223 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 7: needed to jush up the situation a little bit. 224 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:57,559 Speaker 5: Okay, I don't understand. 225 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 4: I think I do, but keep going. 226 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 7: So I was just gonna, like, you know, go and 227 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 7: hook up. And she was, you know, she was good 228 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 7: with fresh, with new money, bring it back, you know. 229 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 6: And so. 230 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 3: Into boring stuff right now, and you needed new ideas. 231 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 7: Is that where you Yeah, pretty much. 232 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: I think I'm getting the idea. 233 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 2: So, Chelsea, you were interested in Thomas just from a 234 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 2: purely physical standpoint to see what you could learn from him, 235 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 2: But when he started mentioning dating, then it crossed the line. 236 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 6: Right. 237 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. 238 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:35,199 Speaker 3: It's interesting because like talking to Thomas on the phone, 239 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 3: he wouldn't probably be my go to tutor. 240 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: That is extremely rude. It's extremely rude, especially because. 241 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 4: He's listening to this right now. 242 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 2: And heard that, and he heard everything that Chelsea said 243 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 2: because Chelsea, you know Thomas has been there. 244 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 7: That's okay. I kind of like it's good that he 245 00:11:58,320 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 7: hears this because I I did not know how to 246 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:01,839 Speaker 7: say it at the time, and like I didn't know 247 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 7: how to responded. 248 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: All right, Well, Thomas, go ahead say hello. 249 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:08,679 Speaker 6: Chel you're a total. 250 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 1: Or was that a suggestion for a love. 251 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 4: Stuff? 252 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 6: No, I'm not gonna know. I'm not gonna help you 253 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 6: cheat on some dude because then I'm the atol. No, 254 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:28,719 Speaker 6: I don't care what your side is. You need to 255 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 6: tell people that you need to figure that on your own, 256 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:37,680 Speaker 6: but you don't use me for ruin. No, those are valid. 257 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 2: But she didn't technically go all the way through with it. 258 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 5: It doesn't matter. 259 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 6: Well, so you'd be totally fine if your girlfriend made 260 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 6: out with some dude and then came home. I was like, 261 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:50,079 Speaker 6: I didn't well, I. 262 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 2: Don't know if she came home with a cool new 263 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 2: skill because of it. I'm not going thank you, sir, 264 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 2: bring him over. 265 00:12:58,920 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 1: What else I could learn? 266 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 7: Okay, look it, I'm you know. 267 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 6: You. 268 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 1: Gotta be careful here. We're a family friendly show. 269 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 7: Rein it in If you wanted to find out what 270 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 7: happened here it is. We don't even be calling me name. 271 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 5: You need to apologize for that one. 272 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 3: I think, but you said you wouldn't be a good tutor. 273 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: The first time she's telling somebody that, like, whatever, keep going. 274 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 3: Here's the thing, Chelsea, Why don't you just open with 275 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 3: that with any dude at the bar. If you walked 276 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 3: up to a hot guy at a bar and you said, hey, listen, 277 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 3: I don't want anything tonight except for this, because this 278 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:39,439 Speaker 3: is what I want to learn. I think you could 279 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 3: teach me some new things you're telling me. A dude 280 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 3: wouldn't turn that Like you could find eight other guys 281 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 3: though that would say yes, eight other guys that would 282 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 3: say yes, Like why not lead with the truth. 283 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 7: I don't hate that idea. You might be right, guy 284 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:57,199 Speaker 7: has morals or standards. 285 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 4: Some dudes are like, cool, this is the best scenario. 286 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it sounds like Jose's trying to volunteer 287 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 2: to help you out. 288 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 4: I will cheat. 289 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: You have morals and standards. 290 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:10,079 Speaker 4: Oh, I've never cheated in my life, never will have. 291 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,679 Speaker 5: Relationships are so complicated these days. 292 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, no, it's not that complicated not to cheat on 293 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 6: your boyfriend or girlfriend. 294 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 4: It's not hard. 295 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 2: It feels like you two have a lot of things 296 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 2: to say to each other. 297 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 6: I don't have anything. Maybe that would be a. 298 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 2: Good thing to say when you guys are looking at 299 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 2: each other face to face over a dinner. Perhaps, no, 300 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 2: not a dinner because we can't make it a date. 301 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 5: Maybe like lunch. 302 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 7: I think I'm done with this person because he just 303 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 7: called me and you can't really step back from that. 304 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, hold on. I just said the truth. 305 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 1: You know, and is turning me on when he uses 306 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: that languorge. 307 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 2: But that's not gonna work for this phone call you 308 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 2: you guys, stop it can be clustered rookie Jeffrey in 309 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 2: the morning. We just got done talking about it in studio, 310 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 2: and I just want all the listeners to know we 311 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 2: have banned Thomas from ever appearing on this show again. 312 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I understand he was upset, but you just 313 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 3: can't go that low. 314 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 5: B It's too low. 315 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 2: It's the first number that we've ever actually added to 316 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 2: the show blacklist. But look, he crossed the line. So 317 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 2: sorry to any listeners that heard that. 318 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 1: And an even. 319 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 2: Bigger apology to our editor who has to use more 320 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 2: bleeps than we've ever probably. 321 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: Had to use before. Ed Yeah, get to click in, 322 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: yeah a lot. 323 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 2: But look, that type of language is absolutely not tolerated 324 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 2: here unless we know for sure the microphones are off. 325 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 1: Yeah it's all the time. Excuse me, all the time. 326 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: No language like that. I just want to make that 327 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: very clear. Yeah right, but not even sad that we 328 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 1: get him a second day. He didn't deserve it. 329 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean the whole thing was kind of screwed 330 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 3: up from the beginning, it really Yeah. 331 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean she's not greatly innocent either, but yeah, 332 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 4: he took the care. 333 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: He really did. 334 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 2: So look, if there's anybody out there with a clean mouth, yeah. 335 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 5: Or semi clean, I mean we go a little dirty's 336 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 5: not mean. 337 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 2: Yes, please email our show and we can call the 338 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 2: person who isn't calling you. 339 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 5: Then Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,