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Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna go in right here, right now.

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Speaker 1: This is Eyes up Here, and you're listening and watching

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Speaker 1: and listening to us on the Creative Control podcast network

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Speaker 1: that you didn't know by now. My name is Chad

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Speaker 1: and every single week I've joined here in the Eyes

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Speaker 1: up Here recording Studio by Queen of Extreme Rancy. I

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Speaker 1: think this reporting studio is located in the bottom level.

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Speaker 2: Of the Queen Fast so.

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Speaker 1: That's where our double secret location is currently. Uh. We've

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Speaker 1: got a lot to talk about today. It's been a

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Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago on a little hiatus of our

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Speaker 3: But uh, I'm prepared to turn the floor over to

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Speaker 3: you because you have had a absolutely, very very sad

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Speaker 2: I feel for you.

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Speaker 1: My thoughts have been with you. We've talked a lot

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Speaker 1: get text. But how are you doing now that I

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Speaker 1: get to see you in person?

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Speaker 2: Thank you. I'm tired. It's the first hard word that

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Speaker 2: comes through my mind is being tired. Uh, just emotionally, physically,

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Speaker 2: like mentally, I'm exhausted. For those of you who don't

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Speaker 2: know what I'm talking about, my mom My mom passed

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Speaker 2: away last Friday, August eighteenth, so you know, two weeks

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Speaker 2: prior to that, she had been going downhill. And those

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Speaker 2: who listened to this show or or follow me on

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Speaker 2: social media, you guys know my journey, my family's journey

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Speaker 2: with my mom. You know, when my dad and my

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Speaker 2: sister had passed away, they died four days apart from

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Speaker 2: had asked me to take care of my mother and

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Speaker 2: I said I would, and I just got married. You know,

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Speaker 2: my husband and I never had that honeymoon period where

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Speaker 2: you can just be alone and enjoy each other and

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Speaker 2: stuff like that. We took my mom in because she

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Speaker 2: my dad did everything. So you know, I felt like

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Speaker 2: God blessed my husband for doing it, because who wants

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Speaker 2: But you know, that was fourteen years ago, and I

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Speaker 2: she was losing her eyesight, she couldn't hear very well.

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Speaker 2: Forty two steaks in my freezer, just gonna get a

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Speaker 2: So in a way, like my mom brought me a

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Speaker 2: upper and lower they can do it at the same.

431
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 1: Time broadcasting live for the podcast.

432
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,360
Speaker 2: Perhaps should I live stream when I.

433
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 1: Get right on your face when they put the thing in.

434
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 2: Jesus, I'm getting that. I'm getting blood work done to check,

435
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: you know, check everything's good. Then I have to go

436
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 2: to the gynecologist, going to get my whuha checked, Gonna

437
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 2: go get my boobies checked for a mammogram, and then

438
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 2: I then the dentist, and then I should be up

439
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 2: to date for the year. I'm getting it all done. Man,

440
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 2: you gotta take care of yourself, and I got little

441
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: ones to look after, so you know, we gotta we

442
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 2: gotta get it done.

443
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: But man, get it done. What a what a couple

444
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: of weeks. So I've been sitting here waiting for you paras.

445
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:54,959
Speaker 2: Last week, I just I couldn't mustard it. It was

446
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 2: just it was too much, you know, it was I

447
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 2: just I was just sitting I got about seventy i'd

448
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 2: say seventy percent of her room done. I cleared out

449
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 2: every drawer, every inch of her closet. I donated over

450
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 2: I think it was like five bags to Purple Heart. Yeah,

451
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 2: and her old suitcases because they were old. She still

452
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 2: used them, God bless her. But it's we weren't going

453
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 2: to use.

454
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: Were they like the hard plastic one, like are the

455
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,439
Speaker 1: hard like the hard the plastic, you know what I mean,

456
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 1: Like those hard big ones like that with the big

457
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: handle on the side, like.

458
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 2: They had a handle and this the old fashion, like

459
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 2: it looked like leather, but I don't know if it

460
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 2: was leather.

461
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: I know exactly the ones you're talking about. We're pulling

462
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: them out of my grandma's house.

463
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, she still used it once she went away, so

464
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 2: I donated. I said, well, if they don't want it,

465
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 2: they could just throw it out. But man, she had

466
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: like old clothes and old linens, and I mean, I

467
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 2: just I got rid of a bunch. I said to myself.

468
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 2: She was a hoarder, and not a hoarder of junk.

469
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 2: She was a hoarder of Like I found my dad's

470
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 2: old credit cards. Wow, that have been expired for years

471
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 2: because my dad's been gone forever. So there were papers

472
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: she kept papers from like the teens, like twenty thirteen.

473
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 2: Like I was shredding, shredding papers, and there were the

474
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 2: one suitcase was full of papers, and I said, what

475
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 2: the hell is it? Like I literally sat there and

476
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 2: at first I couldn't find the shredder. So I was

477
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 2: ripping stuff up manually, and I probably didn't have to

478
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 2: because they were so old, but in my mind, I'm like, oh,

479
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 2: somebody finds this and steals identity or you know, if

480
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 2: my name's on this. I want to get rid of everything,

481
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 2: you know, And good lord, it took me forever to

482
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 2: get rid of all these papers. And then like her

483
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 2: drawers had every birthday, anniversary, greeting cards, like she just

484
00:29:56,280 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 2: kept everything, and I, you know, looking through things, you're

485
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 2: finding old pictures. It was just really emotional and I

486
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 2: had to stop myself, Like I literally two days ago,

487
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 2: I said, okay, I need a break. I'm walking out.

488
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 2: It's just it's empty. But there's still little things here

489
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 2: and there that I have to go in and I

490
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 2: have to wash down the furniture. But that's there. I

491
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 2: have plenty of time. I just I'm especially now with

492
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,719
Speaker 2: him in the hospital. I just needed a break, you know.

493
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 2: So I just trying to juggle stuff. And the kids

494
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 2: are still doing work, so I'm still doing work with them,

495
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 2: and ugh, it's it just never ends, you know. I'm

496
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 2: doing the best I can.

497
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: So you know, well you did job.

498
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, and again I appreciate. Yeah, my

499
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 2: Mom's always going to be with me, just like my

500
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: dad and my sister. But I appreciate everybody reaching out

501
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: and shout out to caregivers, because God bless you all.

502
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 2: It is such a tedious job, but it's done with

503
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 2: love and you will realize after they pass just how

504
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 2: special you guys are and that you were to your

505
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 2: loved ones. So I don't regret a day of it.

506
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 2: And I just hope she knows how much I love her.

507
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: I think she does, absolutely, Yeah, without a doubt.

508
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. So, But a lot's happened, you know, especially the

509
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 2: last couple of days. We've lost two greats in the

510
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 2: business as well. Terry Funk, who I knew very well

511
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 2: and worked with several times. Bray Wyatt, thirty six years old,

512
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:57,479
Speaker 2: dies of a heart attack due to COVID complications. My god,

513
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 2: what is happening in this world? Terry had been sick

514
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 2: for a long time. I knew, you know, we knew

515
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 2: it was coming, we just didn't know when. But Bray,

516
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 2: that came out of left field for me. Now, I

517
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 2: never met the guy, but tremendous talent, and I heard

518
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 2: he's one of the nicest people you could ever meet.

519
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:23,719
Speaker 2: So my heartbreaks for that family. He's got little ones,

520
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 2: thirty six.

521
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: Got incredible thirty six. Yeah, complications from COVID apparently that

522
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: led to this heart issue to come to light. He

523
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 1: had been off TV since I round the Royal Rumble

524
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: and was about to be medically cleared to come back.

525
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: But again, a guy that I would say online has

526
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 1: received scrutiny by fans that don't like that style of

527
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: you know, the supernatural and some of the vignettes and

528
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: some of the things that they did, but by his

529
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: peers just absolutely revered. And every single thing that I'm

530
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 1: reading about him and from what I've known from people

531
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: that were with him in developmental just again, like you said,

532
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 1: the sweetest, nicest guy, very funny, always kind of in

533
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 1: a light, happy mood. I mean, some of these tribuas

534
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: they are coming in are just absolutely heartbreaking. And you know,

535
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: we'll talk about Terry Funk in a minute, but talk

536
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: about you know, polar opposites in terms of you know,

537
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 1: somebody who had yes, the sickness and then this one

538
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 1: to come out of left field was just oh Man,

539
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: just crippled the wrestling community over the last couple of days.

540
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that the tweet from Hunter you know, Triple H

541
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 2: was just very vague, and then I saw I think

542
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 2: it was Sean Ross sap about the heart attack. You know,

543
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 2: thirty six years old, you're not supposed to be having

544
00:33:55,040 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 2: heart attacks. What is going on? So many young people

545
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 2: are just dropping like flies now and it's all heart related,

546
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 2: which is scary to me. I just I don't know, man,

547
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 2: it's this is heartbreaking, you know, and and it's it's

548
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:20,320
Speaker 2: terrible when you have young children, and he had young children,

549
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 2: very young children. God, I I couldn't. I just couldn't imagine.

550
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 2: My heart goes out to that family. It's it's a

551
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 2: it's a terrible thing. You know. I'm not, I'm not

552
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 2: the biggest w w E fan out there, but the

553
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:40,240
Speaker 2: stuff that I have seen of him was so unique

554
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:45,280
Speaker 2: and so different, and he just played that character so well.

555
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 2: And man, it's so sad, so sad to see, uh,

556
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 2: this happened to such a young person.

557
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, we talked about some of the stuff that he's

558
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 1: we ever talked about like him directly. A lot of times.

559
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: We talked about what the bray Wyatt character did for

560
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,359
Speaker 1: like the Alexa Bliss character and how it added that

561
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: really creepy dimension to her, which you know, I mean,

562
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 1: I wonder if they'll have that continue at some point

563
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: or if that's now going to be written out forever.

564
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: I mean, just again, it's not it wasn't everybody's cup

565
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: of tea. But when somebody like that, that's so creative.

566
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: The sad part was as they weren't hampering it a lot,

567
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: and there was a lot of starting and stopping, and

568
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,959
Speaker 1: people had talked about over the last year so kind

569
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 1: of some mental health issues he might have had that

570
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: led to departures, because remember he had stepped away if

571
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 1: your call for a little while and came back just

572
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 1: really late last year. And this is just like it

573
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:53,280
Speaker 1: just it's it's so just incredibly sad for the family

574
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 1: and for the business too, because this guy had so

575
00:35:55,960 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 1: many different thoughts that I don't think anybody could to

576
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 1: put on paper except for that mind. And just now

577
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 1: you know, fortunately that's that is just thirty six years old,

578
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: is way too young, but also too oddly enough, you know.

579
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 1: Brodie Lee was another member of the Wyatt family and storyline,

580
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: but also had some issues, possibly stemming from the COVID

581
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 1: sickness that he had that led to another thing coming

582
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: to light and then him passing away tragically as well.

583
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 1: I mean, these two guys were a stick of Steve's

584
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: at one.

585
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:33,319
Speaker 2: Point said very sad and you mentioned like it's you know,

586
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 2: it's not for everybody. Not everybody embraced the character. Well,

587
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 2: guess what, it was different. It was fresh, it was

588
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 2: something new, you know. Not everybody needs to do the

589
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 2: same exact thing in the business, and that's that's why

590
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 2: it's so refreshing when somebody comes up with a character

591
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 2: that is out of the ordinary, and even if it's

592
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 2: not like something you dig, you have to admit it

593
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 2: was super creative, you know. And he did it well

594
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 2: and it wasn't the norm, and kudos to him for

595
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 2: doing something like that, thinking outside of the box and

596
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 2: trying to bring something different to the screen that people

597
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 2: could enjoy. You know. I thought that the character was

598
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:25,919
Speaker 2: brilliant and it was just something that we had never

599
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 2: seen before. Really. I mean, we've talked about WWF being

600
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 2: super cartoony at one point and just being like a

601
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 2: Saturday morning cartoon because the characters were just ridiculous. Some

602
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 2: might say this was cartoony. I don't feel like it

603
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 2: fits into that category because it was so unique and

604
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 2: so different from the rest of what anybody else was doing,

605
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 2: and I just thought it was, you know, a brilliant

606
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 2: take on you know, just tapping what this guy could do,

607
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 2: tapping his town. And it's a shame because I feel

608
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 2: like if if he would have came back, we would

609
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 2: have seen stuff that we probably never seen before, like

610
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 2: his wheels this whole time have probably been turning. Because

611
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 2: if you're an entertainer in the business and you know

612
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 2: you're going to make a comeback, that's all you think about.

613
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 2: You think about what can I do to top what

614
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,240
Speaker 2: I did last? What am I going to do now

615
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 2: to you know, make people talk about me or make

616
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:29,919
Speaker 2: the internet pop. And I'm sure he had a bunch

617
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 2: of stuff in the brain that he was gonna just unleash.

618
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 2: And it's so so very sad for the business, yes,

619
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 2: but more so for his family and for those young

620
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:45,879
Speaker 2: children that he left behind. So devastating news on that part.

621
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: Very sad, absolutely, and they broke the news earlier this morning.

622
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 1: They have scrapped creative plans for SmackDown, and I believe

623
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: they'll be doing a tribute to Bray Wyatt for the

624
00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: entire duration. So that's uh, you know that, and that's

625
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:05,280
Speaker 1: that's how you know the the magnification of a loss

626
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 1: in WWE world is when they scraped the creative and

627
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,800
Speaker 1: they give you the treatment of the full tribute. And

628
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: that's I'm glad they're doing that. Yeah, that's really awesome.

629
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 2: And also they're selling bray Whitet merchandise and all one

630
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 2: hundred percent of the proceeds is going to Jojo, who

631
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 2: was his girlfriend and the children, which is a class move.

632
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 2: So I find that very admirable as well and good

633
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 2: on WWE's part.

634
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 1: So I saw this funny story right back posted earlier,

635
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: just saying you know, he had posted something very heartfelt yesterday,

636
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: but he shared a funny story because everybody always said

637
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 1: Bray Whitt was very light and very funny and like

638
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 1: to keep people laughing. He said, randomly before live events,

639
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: Bray would come come find me on occasion to warm

640
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,240
Speaker 1: up and we would do this drill back and forth

641
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 1: under hooks while bumping chest repeatedly until he was ready

642
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 1: to go. He would always try to get me to

643
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: break character when we were working with random things in

644
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: the ring. Once we locked up, he told me that

645
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 1: I had perfect nipples and started tussling around the ring

646
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: with me. I never had a bad moment with him.

647
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: I always remember laughing with him from f c W

648
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 1: until the day I left.

649
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 2: That's cute.

650
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 1: Right back has perfect nipples. That's the thing I learned today.

651
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 2: Here you go, So this uh the Smack Show? Is

652
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 2: it also going to include Terry Funk?

653
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: Well, I that's that is uh to be seen. Uh

654
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: you know that to me? I I got said that

655
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 1: text the other morning, but excuse me the other afternoon

656
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: about Terry Funk And I mean that was he's been sick.

657
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: He had been I think in some sort of you

658
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 1: know home at some point living I couldn't get the

659
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 1: name of my head and uh, you know, suffering from

660
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 1: was it dementia showing your Alzheimer's.

661
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if it was early signs of it.

662
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 2: I'm not really sure. I just the updates I always

663
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 2: got was he's not doing that. Well that's what I've

664
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,720
Speaker 2: heard for years. Yeah you know, I'm just likeugh, okay,

665
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:17,280
Speaker 2: so I don't know, but you know, you know it's coming,

666
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 2: but when it comes, it's like, oh my gosh, you

667
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like I knew my mom was

668
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,919
Speaker 2: eminent it was coming, but when it happens, your heart

669
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 2: breaks because you don't want it to happen. So that's

670
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 2: the same with Terry, Like we all knew it was

671
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 2: gonna come. But you know he was only seventy nine.

672
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 2: And people might say, well, seventy nine's old. Uh. You know,

673
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 2: people are living longer these days. And if you have

674
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 2: your health, you have everything. Money doesn't mean anything. Fame

675
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 2: doesn't mean anything. Your health and your family. Those are

676
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:56,399
Speaker 2: the two most important things in life. Family health, that's it.

677
00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 2: And if you have those two things, you're a millionaire

678
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 2: in my opinion. You know, And because you know, money

679
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 2: doesn't make you live longer. Fame doesn't make you live longer.

680
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 2: It doesn't hug you at night, it doesn't tell you

681
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 2: I love you, So screw that. Give me my family,

682
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,879
Speaker 2: give me my health. That's what I want, and that's

683
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 2: what I pray for. And so you know, at seventy

684
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 2: nine years old, you could still have another good ten

685
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 2: fifteen years. And I watched a video the other day

686
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 2: the lady not the oldest lady in the world, she

687
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 2: was ninety six years old, and it was it was

688
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,319
Speaker 2: a guy who just had a baby. It was a

689
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 2: day old baby and the grandmother of the baby and

690
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 2: the grandmother, or maybe she was the great grandmother. But

691
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 2: she walked right in the room at the hospital and

692
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:48,240
Speaker 2: she was playing with the big so vibrant at ninety

693
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 2: six years old. And I said, my god, I would

694
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 2: love to live that long if I could be like that,

695
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, like if I had my

696
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:01,879
Speaker 2: wits about me, and I'm I can walk and I'm

697
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 2: semi healthy. God bless her. She looked great and she's

698
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 2: playing with the baby and she's like dancing with the baby.

699
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:11,879
Speaker 2: I'm just like, she's ninety six years old. People are

700
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 2: living longer, yeah these days, So seventy nine, it's up there,

701
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 2: but it's not super old.

702
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 1: Right, you know.

703
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 2: So it's sad. You know. I loved Terry. I've worked

704
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 2: with Terry so many times. And I told you the

705
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 2: hardest slap across my face I've ever taken, ever, Yes

706
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:37,879
Speaker 2: you have, that was Terry, you know what I mean.

707
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 2: And out there he was a maniac, but when you

708
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:44,399
Speaker 2: got him in the back, soft spoken, sweetest man you'll

709
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 2: ever meet. And I loved him. He was like a

710
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 2: father figure to so many of us, you know, not

711
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 2: to mention the goat of wrestling. I mean, tell me

712
00:43:56,719 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 2: who's better than Terry Funk. Not nothing.

713
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 1: I can't really tell you many. No, that's how many people.

714
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 2: Can even compare to what Terry did for this business.

715
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: A guy that went from a like, you know, technically

716
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:15,879
Speaker 1: sound wrestler NWA champion of the seventies eighties to this

717
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 1: completely contrasting style reinventing himself, inspiring a generation of people,

718
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: and helping a company grow in the nineties.

719
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the.

720
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: Complete opposite style that he had. I mean it just

721
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: he was incredible.

722
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 2: He was amazing, And you know, I'm I'm one of

723
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 2: the people who actually got to go to the ranch

724
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:39,760
Speaker 2: in Armadillo and see his family.

725
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: And Amarillo, not Armada, Ardillo, Armadillo.

726
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,280
Speaker 2: What the hell am I talking about? Yeah, Amarillo. Sorry,

727
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 2: I got to go there and I got to see

728
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 2: his home and be with his family and just you know,

729
00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 2: know him on a different level besides just the wrestler

730
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 2: Terry Funk, you know what I mean. And that's special

731
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 2: to me because not many people can say they got

732
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 2: to do something like that. Awesome to work with, but

733
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 2: just a very very sweet and humble individual. Never came

734
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:24,479
Speaker 2: off as you know, larger than life, just the kind

735
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 2: of like a good old boy, just loving what he

736
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 2: did and taking pride in his work. And you know,

737
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 2: good family man. You know, Vicky was a doll. His wife,

738
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 2: his daughters were great. Just it's just sad, you know,

739
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 2: it's it's again. We knew it was coming, but it's

740
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:48,479
Speaker 2: just it's sad when it actually happens. So gosh, rest

741
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 2: in peace. I loved him, he was he was a

742
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 2: great man.

743
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. I posted the clip the day he passed of

744
00:45:55,080 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 1: the night you bit his ear hallowing a championship attempt

745
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:04,760
Speaker 1: there by the franchise take the title from the Funker.

746
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:09,399
Speaker 1: But when you did have to interact with Funk, did

747
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: you take did you turn it up a little bit more?

748
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: Because you knew he was going to turn it up too,

749
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,280
Speaker 1: and it was gonna make it look that much better

750
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:19,359
Speaker 1: because when you jump on him, I mean, he's feverishly

751
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:22,359
Speaker 1: going after you just as hard as you're going after him.

752
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, you go over stuff in the

753
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 2: back obviously sometimes, you know, sometimes because like I said,

754
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 2: that slap wasn't supposed to be included that evening. That

755
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 2: was just a spur of the moment thing. But like

756
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:41,319
Speaker 2: I remember on the we were on the outside and

757
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 2: when he when we I didn't realize, like we were

758
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 2: rolling in the ring and he we're under the rope.

759
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 2: He rolls on top of me, and I'm like flatten

760
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 2: like a pancake, and I'm like, okay, I need to

761
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 2: just hold on to this guy because I wasn't sure, like,

762
00:46:58,040 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 2: you know, am I taking a beal? Is he going

763
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 2: to throw me? Like? What is what is happening here?

764
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 2: I don't even know. All I know is I'm supposed

765
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 2: to bite his ear like Holyfield and Tyson, you know,

766
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 2: because that was what we were going for. And I

767
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 2: don't even know if I knew he was gonna gig

768
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 2: his ear. I can't. I don't even I don't even

769
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 2: know how I'm a I don't think I I think

770
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 2: he gigged. He had to have, but I don't know

771
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 2: when that happened, because all I know when I got

772
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:36,399
Speaker 2: off him, I was covered in blood. And I told

773
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 2: that story my mother was living. She was so and

774
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 2: I get it. I understand that. You know, she doesn't

775
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 2: know any of these people, and God knows what you

776
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 2: know they're carrying in their bodies. I don't know what

777
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 2: illnesses people have, and so I didn't want to be

778
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 2: near blood. But the reaction of the crowd when I

779
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 2: turned around, I'll never forget the hard camera. I turned

780
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 2: around and I had all that and the faces were

781
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 2: just like oh and I was like and I looked down,

782
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh God, I got blood all over me.

783
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 2: Like this is gross, you know what I mean. I didn't.

784
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 2: I don't think I turned it up because I've always

785
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 2: been one who tried to make it as real as possible,

786
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: and I'm just reacting off of what my opponent or

787
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 2: my counterpart is doing at the time. So like with Terry,

788
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 2: he was so like full of rage and like you

789
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 2: like literally scare to him when you're in the ring.

790
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 2: Like I've heard stories about guys that he used to

791
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 2: do things that they never expected, things that were never

792
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 2: called in the back. He would just add spots and

793
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 2: like you just go with it because it's Terry Funk,

794
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. But for me, like the

795
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 2: slap across the face, the throwing me over the top

796
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 2: rope to the floor, Like I don't think that part aired,

797
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 2: but that was like I I'm laying there thinking like

798
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,880
Speaker 2: where the hell did that come? From like that wasn't

799
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:16,320
Speaker 2: disgusted in the back, but that was Terry and people

800
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 2: popped for it and it looked great and I didn't

801
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 2: get hurt. I was okay, thank god. You know, maybe

802
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 2: if I got hurt, I'd feel a different way. But

803
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 2: it worked, you know, and that he just man, he

804
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,959
Speaker 2: turned into a different person. But then we get into back,

805
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 2: oh forazing was not okay, oh thank you, and he

806
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 2: would hug me and it was just good old Terry.

807
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 2: You know, that's just the way he was. So you know,

808
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 2: I didn't suffer his wrath many times, but I remember

809
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 2: when I did because it was something that I will

810
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 2: never forget. And I'm privileged to say I got to

811
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 2: work with him.

812
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you guys were on the Terry Funk Retirement

813
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 1: Show in ninety seven, the the big one at Armadillo,

814
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 1: Texas outside of uh instead of the Double Cross Ranch,

815
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 1: it'll be the Single Shot Ranch in Armadillo.

816
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 2: Barbecue and a hodown and it was great. It was

817
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:14,479
Speaker 2: a lot of fun.

818
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 1: And he always considered Shane to be his best opponent

819
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 1: in the E. CW era because obviously they had such

820
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 1: a big history. But I honestly feel like, like you

821
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: two were such a good foil for that character of

822
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 1: the conquering hero, you know, the the legend, the guy

823
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: who was there. But when he won the title, Okay,

824
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: it's like he won the title and it was Terry.

825
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: This is like it was like almost like seemed like

826
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 1: a present to Terry Funk for all his accomplishments and

827
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 1: fun for ECW. Is that what the locker room feeling was,

828
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: is Terry Funk atting the because he didn't have it

829
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 1: that long, but for him getting the belt around the

830
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 1: time you guys are going on pay per view? Is

831
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: that something that the locker room feels some pride in

832
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: is that this guy's helped us so much at this

833
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: point he deserves to lead us for this short term,

834
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 1: knowing it's not going to be this long, exhausted run.

835
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 1: But you guys all felt all in the same page

836
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: that he was the right guy.

837
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. I I remember like when he won it, and

838
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 2: I believe when he came in the back, everybody like

839
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 2: gave him a standing ovation and people were going up

840
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,759
Speaker 2: to and shaking his hand and congratulating him. You know,

841
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 2: he deserved it, And I feel like, uh, you know,

842
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 2: being able to say Terry Funk was an ECW champion.

843
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 2: I think it gave the belt a lot of credibility

844
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:42,280
Speaker 2: because he had done so much, you know, all over

845
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:46,760
Speaker 2: the territories and for other companies, and it just made

846
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:51,240
Speaker 2: sense at that point to let Terry carry the company,

847
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 2: whether it be you know, for a short time or

848
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 2: a long time. And at that point we knew that

849
00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 2: it wasn't going to be forever, by I think it

850
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:04,439
Speaker 2: was the right thing to do, and I think Terry

851
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 2: took a lot of pride in that, and any interview

852
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 2: that I see that Terry ever did, I think he

853
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 2: always says like his best time in the business was

854
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:20,919
Speaker 2: e CW. Like I remember hearing that several times, and

855
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 2: and that makes me feel good, you know, because you

856
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 2: take pride in your work. But I've always said ECW

857
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 2: is something special, and I could say un till the

858
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 2: cows come home, but you hear other people say it

859
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 2: as well. And if you hear Terry Funk say it,

860
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 2: oh man, that is a very high accolade, you know.

861
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:42,440
Speaker 2: And we loved having him there, absolutely loved it, and

862
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 2: I think he brought more credibility to our company and

863
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 2: we were better for having him with us.

864
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:52,840
Speaker 1: He actually holds it from April to August.

865
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 2: So yeah, not a bad run.

866
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:58,439
Speaker 1: That's not a bad run at all for Funk. And look,

867
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: every article that I've read so ECW is basically in

868
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:05,879
Speaker 1: the first paragraph because it was such a defining thing

869
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,799
Speaker 1: for his reinvention. And then you know, it sucked when

870
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: he left. ECW went to WCW round ninety nine to

871
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 1: two thousand when everybody was starting to really get sucked up,

872
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 1: and they tried to do the hardcore stuff with him

873
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:21,080
Speaker 1: there and it just it didn't work. But you just

874
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 1: knew he became the embodiment of ECW because if you

875
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 1: guys were the and I hate always say the misfit

876
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 1: toys or the you know, that's so lame to say that.

877
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: A guy like Terry Funk, who basically had you know,

878
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: promoters on the edge of their heels all the time,

879
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:43,879
Speaker 1: and Vince McMahon specifically, he had basically in the palm

880
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:47,720
Speaker 1: of his hand. He was so perfect for ECW because

881
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:51,840
Speaker 1: he was the embodiment of that misfit because this is

882
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,799
Speaker 1: the guy who was at the NWA champion on top

883
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 1: of the world in Japan. You know, the legend he was.

884
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 1: But he wanted to stay in ECW, and that was

885
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 1: what was so cool and made ECW really stand out,

886
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: I think along the mainstream fans that didn't really know

887
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 1: what ECW was right.

888
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 2: And again, you can't follow him for leaving because at

889
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 2: this point, what was he like, fifty four fifty five

890
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 2: years old?

891
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was up there at that point, we.

892
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 2: Were getting up there. But you got to think at

893
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 2: that age, like how many more runs do I have? Now?

894
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 2: We know Terry had eighty seven more runs now, but

895
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:32,320
Speaker 2: go for the money. I never faulted anyone for leaving

896
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 2: for green or pastures. You know, if it was just

897
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 2: work related, I think Terry would have stayed. If he

898
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 2: could have got the same money that WCW was offering him,

899
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,319
Speaker 2: he definitely would have stayed with us, right, but they

900
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 2: were throwing money left and right to people. So I

901
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 2: don't blame anyone for jump and ship Like, there's no

902
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 2: not an ount to me. Can can say, well, that

903
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 2: guy's an asshole because he left. No, he's smart because

904
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 2: he has a family. And if you're making x amount

905
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 2: here but can make triple here, what's the obvious choice. Yeah,

906
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 2: the wrestling might be shitty, but you got to get

907
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 2: paid because how much longer can you actually do this?

908
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:15,799
Speaker 2: For some people it could be a year. For Terry Funk,

909
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 2: it could be thirty.

910
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: So you know it was Yeah.

911
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 2: And it depends. He retired more times than than I've

912
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 2: actually been on this earth. But you know, God bless him.

913
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,799
Speaker 2: He's done so much for the wrestling business and we

914
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:33,480
Speaker 2: have lost a true hero in this sport. So rest

915
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:37,239
Speaker 2: easy to Terry Funk and also to Bray Wyatt. Two

916
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:37,800
Speaker 2: good ones.

917
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 1: Absolutely, So before we wrap up and we get to

918
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 1: the the outro, one more topic I want to bring you.

919
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 1: I know, you know it's a we've been a little

920
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:57,720
Speaker 1: heavy on the you know, the on the death tone

921
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 1: right now for the but got it. Yeah, we got

922
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: to kind of stay in that depressive zone a little

923
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 1: bit and we have to talk about what happened, and

924
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 1: that is somebody you're very familiar with. Former WWE star

925
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 1: Tammy Sitch, faces twenty five years in prison after no

926
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 1: contest plea to dui causing death charge. Were you able

927
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 1: to follow this story as it was going on, because

928
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 1: you know, it's been going on for so long, but

929
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:30,839
Speaker 1: this has been the latest in the craziness that's been

930
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: this horrible death of the guy that was killed in

931
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 1: his car. Unfortunately.

932
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was getting text messages you know, you know

933
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 2: when something breaks, like all the boys text each other

934
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 2: and blah blah blah. So yeah, I was informed about this. Now,

935
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 2: no contest compared to not guilty or guilty plea? What

936
00:56:54,320 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 2: is the difference between the two terms? Is no contest

937
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 2: emitting your guilt?

938
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 1: Exact?

939
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 2: I didn't really look anything up. I don't know if

940
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 2: no contest is like a plea to get less time.

941
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: Or Okay, so pleading no contest means that you will

942
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 1: be convicted of the crime. However, you get to avoid

943
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: a lengthy trial.

944
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:25,960
Speaker 2: Oh so it just skips the trial? Yes, what in

945
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 2: a plea of guilty just skip the trial as well? Like,

946
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 2: what's the difference in being guilty and being no contest?

947
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 1: I would have to say, we might want to contact

948
00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 1: the law firm of Stephn p Newt.

949
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 2: I don't understand what that means. But anyway, heartbreaking news.

950
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 2: You know, everybody can shit on Tammy as much as

951
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 2: she wants or as much as they want. Rather, I

952
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:53,520
Speaker 2: this hurts my heart to see this happening. Like, I

953
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 2: don't know how many times I have to say this

954
00:57:55,840 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 2: like disappointment, sadness. I never wanted to see her like this,

955
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like Jesus, I was praying

956
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 2: that she got herself together after the last one, like

957
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 2: we talked and you know, could start over again. When

958
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 2: we went to restle Kate. I mean, she was wonderful.

959
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 2: I can't even express how much fun we had that weekend.

960
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 2: It was. It was great. And then just everything happened

961
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 2: after that and that it breaks my heart, you know,

962
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 2: But you make your own choices. I've said that a

963
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 2: million times, like you have to deal with the consequences.

964
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 2: And unfortunately, this is where we're at with her, so

965
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 2: very very sad. I feel. I feel more people are

966
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 2: commenting on the way she looks rather than the actual crime.

967
00:58:56,440 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 2: It's just sad. It's sad. I know, it's just sad,

968
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 2: and that's all I can say about it.

969
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 1: And that is a very superficial thing, you know, for

970
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: people to comment on the look. If we could flip

971
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 1: the mirror around and show a lot of people that

972
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:17,360
Speaker 1: are commenting, I'm sure they wouldn't look any bit better.

973
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 1: But you got to realize where the present state is

974
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 1: of where she's at. And unfortunately this is probably beginning

975
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:30,439
Speaker 1: to really take a toll, you know, in a way

976
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: that it couldn't because again I referenced, you know, when

977
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 1: we had her on for the full length interview, which

978
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 1: people have asked me to release that full interview, which

979
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 1: we didn't because it was only available for the full

980
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 1: on Patreon. I think I might do that for our

981
00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 1: members first, and if you want to grab it, you

982
00:59:50,200 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 1: might have to grab a membership. I hate to plug

983
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 1: the YouTube membership there. But that interview is so telling

984
00:59:56,360 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 1: in a lot of ways because it seemed like somebody

985
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:03,920
Speaker 1: who thought they were bulletproof in a lot of ways,

986
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:09,439
Speaker 1: and this image that we see now does not. And

987
01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 1: that's where it finally seems like it's sinking in that

988
01:00:13,840 --> 01:00:17,439
Speaker 1: oh shit, you know, my number's up.

989
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 2: It's like maybe she's just giving up at this point,

990
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. You know, I can't imagine

991
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 2: what's running through her head, like because good lord, you know,

992
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 2: you to spend even a day in jail is terrifying

993
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 2: to me, But to have to maybe spend a quarter

994
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 2: of a century she would get out at seventy five

995
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 2: years old, like your whole life is ruined. You know

996
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 2: that that's crippling. I couldn't even imagine it. And I

997
01:00:55,400 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 2: know I stress eat and I can't imagine in jail

998
01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 2: that you're getting good food. It's probably all carbs, you

999
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 2: know what I mean, it's probably just a lot of

1000
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 2: breads and like starches, I would imagine. I feel like,

1001
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:15,919
Speaker 2: you know, the people who are making fun of her weight,

1002
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 2: it's just I don't know, that's ha. I mean, you know,

1003
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 2: and and a lot of people are saying, well, she

1004
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 2: deserves it. She's this type of person, She's that type

1005
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 2: of you know, you can you can have your own opinion,

1006
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:32,320
Speaker 2: do you think what you want? I know, she was

1007
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 2: my dear friend for years. I'm not pleased this outcome.

1008
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:41,040
Speaker 2: You know, I don't condone drunk driving one hundred percent.

1009
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 2: I'm going to say that right off the bat. I'm

1010
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:47,200
Speaker 2: not condoning what she did at all. But it hurts

1011
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 2: me to see that this did happen to her and

1012
01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 2: it got this far. And that's that's pretty much it.

1013
01:01:56,440 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 2: You know, I don't even I can't even imagine, like

1014
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 2: it's it's sickening how far this is gone over how

1015
01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 2: many years, Like it's it's just sad, It's very sad.

1016
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 2: You know, so curious to see what the judge thinks.

1017
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 2: Do they take into account, you know, her past record.

1018
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 2: Does it all add up? Or is it just you know,

1019
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:32,000
Speaker 2: the recent stuff that happened with the gentleman who passed away.

1020
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know how any of this

1021
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 2: stuff works.

1022
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 1: I think if they went to the trial, the past

1023
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:43,480
Speaker 1: record would have been really the main focus, because if

1024
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 1: the maximum sentence is twenty five years, I mean, and

1025
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 1: they started pulling out left and right all these different

1026
01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: examples of you know what, when, why, and how these

1027
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 1: things have happened over the years, I think she would

1028
01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 1: have without a doubt gotten the maximum. But now that

1029
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 1: it's no, you know, no contest, I don't know how

1030
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 1: that's going to work. But I mean, how do you

1031
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:06,920
Speaker 1: not think that somebody with that kind of background, or

1032
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:13,320
Speaker 1: the history that the duys and and all the substance

1033
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 1: abuse issues could eventually play into a release and something

1034
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:21,280
Speaker 1: happening again. Just because you say, hey, you can't drive,

1035
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 1: your licenses are vote doesn't mean somebody's not going to

1036
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:26,919
Speaker 1: get in a car and drive again. So that's where

1037
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 1: I think that the maximum is within field goal range.

1038
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 2: I guess time will tell when when is the.

1039
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 1: I don't think it says explicitly when the sentencing is,

1040
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 1: but it just says that. I mean, I would assume

1041
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 1: it's coming rather quick. The first thing I had seen

1042
01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:52,600
Speaker 1: about it was early August that it was starting to talk,

1043
01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 1: and then here we were last week where they came

1044
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 1: at it again.

1045
01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 2: So I saw November for something.

1046
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 1: Is it the one? The article I have up doesn't

1047
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 1: have that in it.

1048
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 2: Okay, I could be wrong, but it's just a terrible,

1049
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 2: terrible outcome, you know. I I'm not going to sit

1050
01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 2: here and ship on her. Uh, just very Uh. I'm

1051
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 2: disgusted that it came this far because that's not the Tammy,

1052
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:27,200
Speaker 2: I know, you know what I mean, that's this is

1053
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 2: just not her and it's it's just this this overall,

1054
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:35,920
Speaker 2: I feel for God, the man who died terrible, his

1055
01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 2: family terrible, you know, it's it's it's a sick, sickening situation,

1056
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:42,360
Speaker 2: just horrible.

1057
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 1: We'll continue to follow it and the next updates that

1058
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 1: come will discuss as they are released, but for the

1059
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 1: time being, that's that's the end of the story for

1060
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:59,440
Speaker 1: the moment. Yeah, so moving on, I think that's it.

1061
01:04:59,800 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 1: I'm is there anything that we can bring up that

1062
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 1: doesn't have a you know, depressing undertone at the end

1063
01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 1: of it. Do we have something well, we can close

1064
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 1: on light.

1065
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 2: We could talk about our YouTube channel and how we

1066
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 2: finally hit the eight thousand subscribers on our route to

1067
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 2: ten thousand. And if you're watching right now or listening

1068
01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 2: to this broadcast, you could go over to ECWD for

1069
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 2: Francine and hit that subscribe button. It's free and we

1070
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:35,720
Speaker 2: would love to have you on board. We're slowly climbing

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Speaker 2: the mountains.

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Speaker 1: Slowly, we're gonna get the video I put up the

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Speaker 1: other day of you and Shelley talking about fake Easy

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Speaker 1: Dub under let me tell you something that fake Easy

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01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 1: Dub might not have been a great experience, but god

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01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:54,680
Speaker 1: damn do people love hearing about it. So that's thatison.

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01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 1: That was like an instant like win response with the

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01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 1: way people were commenting on how much you guys got

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01:06:00,600 --> 01:06:02,919
Speaker 1: cheated at a time you guys should have been used better.

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01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:05,320
Speaker 1: I mean, it was like clockwork, how fast it was

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01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 1: coming in. I just always laugh at how short the

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01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 1: time was, but how much people love to hear about it.

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01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 2: We could have had magic together Shelley and I and

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01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:18,320
Speaker 2: it's a shame it was cut short, and I blamed

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01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:21,919
Speaker 2: Boss Bahony for that, because you know, if it wasn't

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01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 2: for that damn drug test, we would have kept going

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01:06:25,200 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 2: and maybe something cool could have happened. But she was

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01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 2: fun to work with for the short amount of time

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Speaker 2: that I did work with her, And the best part

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01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 2: about that whole feud was we still talk to this

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01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 2: day and we're still very good friends. And that's a

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01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 2: plus for me. And I'm glad that that happened. But

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01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 2: what could have been? I mean, man, you know that

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01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 2: that spot that would have been an awesome spot to do,

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01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,440
Speaker 2: and Undertaker was all for it, and he was like, yeah,

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01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 2: it sounds great, and then they were like absolutely not

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01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 2: and we were like what so, uh, you know, if

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01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 2: you haven't seen it, go back and watch that video

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01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 2: because it's it's kind of interesting. You know. We hated

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01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 2: the fakey seedub, but something magical could have happened that

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01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 2: night and it just didn't, you know. And the one

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Speaker 2: night my foot got cut open, did I mention.

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01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:23,680
Speaker 1: That, No, you didn't know? You mentioned the parfa and

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Speaker 1: the bad belly, Yes.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, taking me to McDonald's, uh, eating two parfas.

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01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 2: That was terrible. But I cut my foot open. It

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01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:39,960
Speaker 2: was when I was wearing the red dress that the

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01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:43,240
Speaker 2: and I go to climb in the ring and Shelley

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01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:47,000
Speaker 2: holds my leg. I cut. I sliced my foot on something.

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Speaker 2: And I remember coming in the back because I didn't

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01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 2: have any shoes on and my foot was all bloody

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01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:56,840
Speaker 2: and uh right away, oh medic, medics. They whisked me

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01:07:56,920 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 2: to the chair. They sit me down there clean. What

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01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 2: tough one.

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01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:08,360
Speaker 1: But yeah, no, you did not tell that one. You

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01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:08,840
Speaker 1: didn't share.

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01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:11,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that just came to my mind. But that blood

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01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:15,040
Speaker 2: all over and I must have cut myself on a

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01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 2: when something under the ring or just something. I don't

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Speaker 2: know what it was, or maybe Shelley bit me with

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01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:21,800
Speaker 2: her vampire vampires.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say that.

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Speaker 2: And I gigged. I don't know, but uh, you know,

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Speaker 2: we we could have had something special. But at least

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Speaker 2: we you know, we got to know each other better

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01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:34,960
Speaker 2: and now we're friends, which is great.

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01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:38,479
Speaker 1: Absolutely, I shouldn't take that. I gotta take this down.

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Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta pull this one off. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: need something a little more. There we go. Uh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's about it now. Besides that, you know, on the

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01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 1: Chad Stars and just been crazy busy and uh really

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01:08:56,720 --> 01:09:03,160
Speaker 1: working my tail off for the and wanting to continue

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01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:05,760
Speaker 1: to see it grow. So all, all's good on my

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01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:09,680
Speaker 1: end for now, but that could change when we got

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Speaker 1: off this call.

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01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:14,840
Speaker 2: Okay, well keep me tested, okay.

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01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well speak of that YouTube channel. Head

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01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 1: on over to YouTube dot com slash ecwdba Francine, subscribe,

1139
01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 1: hit the membership. We're gonna go live soon. Join us

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01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 1: for that. We do some live uploads or excuse me,

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01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:31,600
Speaker 1: live to tape uploads for the members when we do

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01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 1: our live recordings. Guests coming. But again, digging into the archive,

1143
01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:39,840
Speaker 1: you know that damn archive just it's endless. It's just

1144
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:42,639
Speaker 1: like this tunnel that keeps going down and down and down.

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01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:45,400
Speaker 1: We're freaking awesome.

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01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 2: I love it.

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01:09:46,640 --> 01:09:50,400
Speaker 1: I can't get enough. So finding the different, you know,

1148
01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:56,599
Speaker 1: topics to discuss and relive. I will keep adding them,

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01:09:56,920 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 1: even though people think that they're brand new, which is great,

1150
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 1: you know, but if they look, what is your different

1151
01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:05,800
Speaker 1: house behind me? It's a different house.

1152
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 2: Who cares that? Let them think it's new.

1153
01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 1: I went gray very badly over that couple of years.

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01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:18,400
Speaker 1: I see some of those from twenty nineteen twenty twenty.

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01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:22,600
Speaker 1: Oh man, I had some a lot darker hair just

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01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:23,000
Speaker 1: for men.

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01:10:23,080 --> 01:10:25,439
Speaker 2: If you want to sponsor my podcast, I'd be more

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01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:26,280
Speaker 2: than willing to talk.

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01:10:26,439 --> 01:10:29,280
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, the sideburns are all white. But oh

1160
01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 1: I used it when I went to the wedding. I

1161
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:33,000
Speaker 1: was I was almost jet black.

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01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:37,720
Speaker 2: Look at you. Wow. Okay, it just goes away. It

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01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:41,120
Speaker 2: just goes away. Where can they follow you on social media?

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01:10:41,560 --> 01:10:45,200
Speaker 1: Follow me at chad i NB on Twitter, at IBU

1165
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:49,680
Speaker 1: Exclusives on Instagram. Go to get my Go on YouTube.

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01:10:50,439 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 1: New episode I think just dropped this past week audio only,

1167
01:10:55,360 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 1: but subscribe to Get My Go and you know, just

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01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:01,559
Speaker 1: the bookmark IB Exclusives. Dock Oh, the drinks on Doug

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01:11:01,680 --> 01:11:07,640
Speaker 1: shirt is coming. The graphic has been made. Okay, I

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01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:10,000
Speaker 1: mean does it. He doesn't listen to jerk, but he

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01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:13,200
Speaker 1: will be getting that for his birthday as a great,

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01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:16,760
Speaker 1: big surprise. I'm telling you, I don't know how many

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01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:18,840
Speaker 1: people are gonna buy it, but I don't care. It's

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01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:23,600
Speaker 1: maybe two if his friends buy it. If one of

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01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:28,000
Speaker 1: his friends buy it because they know his very generous nature, win.

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01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:31,479
Speaker 2: Win win, okay, well, royalties for the Chad st I

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01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:33,040
Speaker 2: know if I get a free one. I'll wear it.

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01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:33,599
Speaker 2: I'm not pad.

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01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:35,599
Speaker 1: We'll get Yes, you will get a free Wathers. There's

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01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 1: a short list of the freebies already. Uh, and you're

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01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:38,760
Speaker 1: you're on it.

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01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:43,200
Speaker 2: I'll put it over for you. New channel alert. I

1183
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:47,880
Speaker 2: told my buddy I would plug it. Shane Douglas has

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01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:51,599
Speaker 2: a new channel right now. It's called Shane Douglas Official.

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01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 2: I don't think they're keeping that name. They're trying to

1186
01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 2: toss around some names. But uh, if you can go

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01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:04,400
Speaker 2: look up Shane Douglas Official on uh YouTube killing it already.

1188
01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:09,840
Speaker 2: James from w s I is involved and uh, they're

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01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 2: they're doing some good stuff over there, so give him

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01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 2: a sub. And uh, but you have to give me

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01:12:16,000 --> 01:12:21,439
Speaker 2: a sub first, Yes, first subt oh.

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01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:23,320
Speaker 1: I saw breaking news to go along with that channel.

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01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:25,280
Speaker 1: I have been told that I am the best looking

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01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:29,120
Speaker 1: podcast partner that Shane ever had. Just just James, just

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01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:31,000
Speaker 1: so James knows, Yeah, who told you that?

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01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:31,160
Speaker 2: You?

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01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:34,360
Speaker 1: I told that to Shane and he agreed.

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01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:38,240
Speaker 2: Oh okay, very good. Okay. And across the board on

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Speaker 2: social media you can find me at E C W

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Speaker 2: D ver Francine. And with that, that is a wrap