Speaker 1: So people have been talking about Nicole Kidman and that
Speaker 1: she looked strange at the Oscars. What pressure this life is?
Speaker 1: What pressure these awards shows are? I mean they make
Speaker 1: they can make your business, They can get you fashion deals.
Speaker 1: You go out there, you spend all this time. You
Speaker 1: gears are gone to Coole Kidman, who I think is
Speaker 1: perfect in so many ways. She got had like that
Speaker 1: flashback or whatever you call it from like the white powder,
Speaker 1: the HD powder under the eyes. And I have been
Speaker 1: there where I've gone, and I've tried, and I've had makeup,
Speaker 1: but it's not been like the most expensive makeup like
Speaker 1: a glad person. And then I get there and I
Speaker 1: look like shit and I regret it or I have
Speaker 1: done my own makeup and then I feel like shit,
Speaker 1: I would you know? So you try to elevate it
Speaker 1: and even still everybody does everything right and you get
Speaker 1: there and then there's a hair stuck in your face
Speaker 1: or your sleeve wasn't the way, and it's just what
Speaker 1: a pressure? So anyway, and also the Internet is starting
Speaker 1: to tell me how to feel about something. So I
Speaker 1: did a take on TikTok about Hugh Grant, who I
Speaker 1: used to serve at a restaurant called Cloth Futee on
Speaker 1: Sunset Boulevard in la and he was always friendly, but
Speaker 1: a little reserved, a little cold. I think he's like that.
Speaker 1: So all over the internet they were talking about him
Speaker 1: being rude to Ashley Graham. But when I first saw
Speaker 1: the interview, my first instinct of that one question, not
Speaker 1: the whole thing, that Ashley Graham wasn't that informed, she
Speaker 1: wasn't asking good question, she wasn't doing a great job
Speaker 1: as an interviewer. So that was like my first thought,
Speaker 1: wasn't the Hugh Grant was rude? I did hear the
Speaker 1: overall interview, and yes, he was reserved in cold, but
Speaker 1: if you listen to what he was saying, he was
Speaker 1: being very literal in his answers, like yes no, or
Speaker 1: that he didn't give do or any favors. Don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong, and she was rying, but she didn't do
Speaker 1: him any favors because he is a little bit of
Speaker 1: a curmudgeon and he is that kind of reserved brit
Speaker 1: And so in my comments, it was right down the middle.
Speaker 1: Some people were like he was a dick, he was
Speaker 1: rudy knows he's not a red carpet that's Piers Morgan's take,
Speaker 1: which was shocking, and then other people were like she
Speaker 1: was a terrible interview when the questions were terrible, which
Speaker 1: I also agree with. But the point I'm trying to
Speaker 1: make is that I just saw the clip and made
Speaker 1: my own decision of what I thought. Then the internet speaks,
Speaker 1: and now you're thinking what the internet thinks, like you're
Speaker 1: supposed to think what everybody else thinks, meaning they're skewing you,
Speaker 1: which is crazy when it's time for elections and voting,
Speaker 1: because what people are saying, we'll skew you to think
Speaker 1: something to then go vote. So TikTok is becoming this
Speaker 1: kind of news delivery system, citizen journalism. They're calling it,
Speaker 1: where I'm thinking that somebody was rude, that I don't
Speaker 1: necessarily think it was rude, And everybody went crazy on
Speaker 1: Hugh Grant for being terse and direct and not doing
Speaker 1: Ashley Remedy favors. But he didn't, like I said, and
Speaker 1: my Grant, take her top off, tell to fuck herself.
Speaker 1: He he was Q Grant, He kind of was who
Speaker 1: he is. So I first saw Nicole Kidman looking a
Speaker 1: little alien like and turning and putting her leg out
Speaker 1: in the dress. I thought the dress was gorgeous. I
Speaker 1: thought she was gorgeous, and I got and everybody the
Speaker 1: internet has spoken now and that she looks crazy and
Speaker 1: she must have been on something. And I only saw
Speaker 1: one clip of her turning her head and it was weird,
Speaker 1: Like it was like, but isn't everybody weird. That's not
Speaker 1: a red carpet. You're like so awkwardly trying to get
Speaker 1: them to get the best shot, so you'll make weird
Speaker 1: moves and purse your lips and do things. And he
Speaker 1: seemed like he was madly in love with her. And
Speaker 1: everyone's talking about the way Keith Urban looks at her.
Speaker 1: And so then it turns and now on the world
Speaker 1: specific she's on something and she's crazy. And my friend
Speaker 1: was on the phone and she was like, did you
Speaker 1: see Nicole Kidman. I'm like, yeah, why, And she's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, she looks so old, like I didn't
Speaker 1: think she looked old, Like I don't know what did
Speaker 1: Nicole Kimman do wrong? I just want to understand, like,
Speaker 1: what did she do wrong? She's had surgery, like everybody's
Speaker 1: so lentless. Mindy Kaling is wearing a sexy dress, and
Speaker 1: she's lost weight, but not evidently in the way that
Speaker 1: everybody wanted her to lose weight. If in fact she
Speaker 1: did ozempic, that doesn't align with the people who probably
Speaker 1: called her overweight and trolled her that wanted her to
Speaker 1: lose weight, but she didn't get the memo about exactly
Speaker 1: how they wanted her to lose weight. So everyone's mad
Speaker 1: at her now, But the means by which she chose
Speaker 1: to lose weight and who cares? And it's not her
Speaker 1: responsibility to do things in the way that people want
Speaker 1: her to do it in it's not her responsibility because
Speaker 1: she didn't sign a contract with these people, and she's
Speaker 1: not their family member, like because if Mindy Kaling does
Speaker 1: something wrong or says something inappropriate, they're going to cancel
Speaker 1: her because they're not family members, so they don't she
Speaker 1: doesn't owe it to them. And then where's the line
Speaker 1: of transparency. Are the Kardashian's supposed to not edit out
Speaker 1: a bone in their bodies and edit a child into
Speaker 1: their pictures? Like that feels like a line. Are they
Speaker 1: allowed to like do some filtering and you know, do
Speaker 1: that stuff. I guess everything doesn't have to be perfectly pure.
Speaker 1: I guess that ship has sailed because everyone's wearing makeup
Speaker 1: and we get botox and surgery and lasers and all
Speaker 1: that stuff. So like, where's the line? And you have
Speaker 1: to tell everybody every single thing? Am I supposed to
Speaker 1: go to the dermatologist and get botox in my jaw
Speaker 1: and in my forehead or if I do fill or
Speaker 1: if I want to plump my lips? Am I supposed
Speaker 1: to tell everybody everything? I was supposed to make a
Speaker 1: big phone call and an announcement because who wants that?
Speaker 1: You don't want that for your kids, You don't want that,
Speaker 1: you don't want to be the spokesperson of it. I
Speaker 1: just think there's a line, Like there's a place between
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian and her family taking body parts and bones
Speaker 1: and their ankles and hands looking distorted and editing children
Speaker 1: into photos and Paulina who will never do anything from
Speaker 1: plastic surgery and who will never post a filter picture
Speaker 1: in her life and is totally out there. There could
Speaker 1: be a middle ground, right, you know? I know housewives,
Speaker 1: And if I take a picture on my phone of
Speaker 1: myself and the housewives, we don't look the same as
Speaker 1: if they take a picture of us, and they post
Speaker 1: it or send it to me. We don't look the same.
Speaker 1: Some one's filtering. So sometimes I wonder, like, wouldn't I
Speaker 1: be so much more successful if I filtered everything? Like
Speaker 1: why don't you use a filter? Just say yeah, I
Speaker 1: filtered it. Who cares? You're gonna like my bathing suit
Speaker 1: pictures much more if they're filtered. You're gonna like my
Speaker 1: hot out at night pictures. If I look perfect, that's
Speaker 1: when people like. So it's hard to drive the balance.
Speaker 1: But I don't think a Dell or mindycaling need to
Speaker 1: lose weight in a way that people approve of, like
Speaker 1: she doesn't. They don't owe them that and whatever. However,
Speaker 1: Kyle lost her weight if she stopped drinking and she
Speaker 1: works out two hours a day, and like she said,
Speaker 1: she doesn't take those empics, so take her a face value,
Speaker 1: and maybe you think she took the other stuff. And
Speaker 1: it seems like it's bothering you because it feels to
Speaker 1: you like a short cut when it seems like she's
Speaker 1: working out hours a day. But even if it was
Speaker 1: a shortcut, what the fuck would it have to do
Speaker 1: with you? You can go lose weight, you have access
Speaker 1: to lose weight. You have access to it being a
Speaker 1: short cut. You can read articles on reducing sugar and
Speaker 1: carbs and drinking and calories in and calories out. Everyone's
Speaker 1: fucking mad because they're probably jealous. It's annoying. Wow, if
Speaker 1: Kyle looks great now, or you know Mindy Kaling abandoned
Speaker 1: you because you feel like you identify with her more,
Speaker 1: or Adele because you felt like she was one of you,
Speaker 1: Like you figure out your own shit. Mindy Kaling lost
Speaker 1: way for herself. Kyle lost way for herself, and she's
Speaker 1: on TV and she wants to pose and flax and
Speaker 1: that's her own body and her own business. And Adele
Speaker 1: and anybody else lost waiter did what the fuck they
Speaker 1: wanted for themselves. They don't owe you an explanation for everything.
Speaker 1: There's a level of transparency of like amount of fucking
Speaker 1: you know, bold faced liar. But everybody isn't owe you
Speaker 1: minute to minute when they have sex with their husband,
Speaker 1: when they're being cheated on or cheating what their fucking
Speaker 1: bank account is. So like, where's the line of sharing
Speaker 1: everything and transparency? Where is that line? What's going on
Speaker 1: with the sexy leg competition at Awards shows like remember
Speaker 1: Angelina Jolie awkwardly stuck her you know, sinewy tone the
Speaker 1: leg out and that was like that was like made
Speaker 1: fun of in the Internet sensation. Well, Halle Berry's doing it,
Speaker 1: Nicole Kidman's doing it. Like you know, you just like
Speaker 1: get a slit, stick your leg out and you're guaranteed
Speaker 1: to be talked about. The pictures are gonna run like
Speaker 1: what is going on with the weirdo? Like for sexy Leg,
Speaker 1: I'm wearing a skirt that has a slit. Next week,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna sexy leg competition. It