Speaker 1: M m mmm. Hello everyone, it's your girl, Cheekies, and
Speaker 1: you've reached the voice smail box for dear Cheekies, I'm
Speaker 1: here to give you advice on anything and everything you
Speaker 1: need help with. Maybe you're going through a breakup, maybe
Speaker 1: you're having issues with your family, or maybe you need
Speaker 1: help figuring out how to balance your checkbook or how
Speaker 1: to start a business. Whatever the cases, I want to
Speaker 1: hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts and opinions,
Speaker 1: and if you're suffering from an issue or hardship, you
Speaker 1: should seek help from a qualified professional. All right, Now
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Speaker 1: the beach, Hi, Chickies, I was just listening to some
Speaker 1: of your podcasts, just started listening to them like a
Speaker 1: week ago, and I think they're so interesting, so heartwarming.
Speaker 1: There eye openers to me. I know that everybody thinks
Speaker 1: about you as being Chandvada's daughter, but to be honest,
Speaker 1: I just relate with you in many many ways. I
Speaker 1: admire that you became the mother of your brother sisters,
Speaker 1: and that you supported your mom, that you've been a
Speaker 1: strong Latina girl representing in I was just wondering if
Speaker 1: you would know of any place where I could reach
Speaker 1: out for help with my divorce. I'm having a very
Speaker 1: difficult time getting divorce and I really want to get
Speaker 1: this done. I went to the court and things are
Speaker 1: so so bad. It's expensive. I can't do it alone
Speaker 1: and I have to get an attorney. It's over four
Speaker 1: thousand dollars and I can't afford because I'm a single mother.
Speaker 1: I'm in college trying to manage my degree. Oh my goodness,
Speaker 1: Marcy Will welcome to the Chickens and Chill Family. Thank you.
Speaker 1: I'm so happy to hear that you're loving my podcast.
Speaker 1: That makes me so happy. And I'm so sorry to
Speaker 1: hear that you are going through divorce worse. I know
Speaker 1: how difficult and emotionally draining that can be and mentally
Speaker 1: draining um. And yes, everything is taking so much longer.
Speaker 1: It took me, wow, about a year and a half
Speaker 1: to get divorced, so the courts are very backed up,
Speaker 1: so it's not just your situation, and it could be expensive,
Speaker 1: So I totally get that. One thing I do want
Speaker 1: to say is I'm very proud of you. You're going
Speaker 1: to college. That's awesome. You should be very proud of yourself.
Speaker 1: And I know you're probably in a rush to get divorced.
Speaker 1: I get it. Like for me, it was like I
Speaker 1: just want to be detached and just cut that string
Speaker 1: and close that chapter of my life. So I get that.
Speaker 1: Just try to just be patient and let the court
Speaker 1: do and take its course. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: have to be honest anywhere that I can recommend for
Speaker 1: you to help or speed up the process or anything
Speaker 1: like that. That's just honestly, it's just gonna take time,
Speaker 1: and you just have to know that and just breathe
Speaker 1: through it and pray your way through it. That's what
Speaker 1: I did. And there were times where I cried and
Speaker 1: I was mad, and then I would there were times
Speaker 1: where I'm like, Okay, it's gonna be fine. So it's
Speaker 1: a rollercoaster of emotions. Just know that happened to me.
Speaker 1: And if anything, hopefully you can get some type of
Speaker 1: therapy or life coaching or something that can help you
Speaker 1: through this process. That's something that I highly recommend. It
Speaker 1: helped me out so much. Someone that you could just
Speaker 1: talk to, even a pastor going to church. Just you know,
Speaker 1: be patient more than anything. And when we ask for
Speaker 1: patients sometimes I feel like we're tested more. But I'm
Speaker 1: praying for you, Marcy, and I'm so sorry because honestly,
Speaker 1: there's not a place that I can recommend, but those
Speaker 1: are my recommendations. So hopefully do help and ASO and
Speaker 1: I hope that you know that there's a miracle and
Speaker 1: it happens a lot sooner than the court is saying. Okay,
Speaker 1: then thank you again for being a part of our family.
Speaker 1: We love you, okay. Our next question comes from Claudia.
Speaker 1: Hey Cheeks, I have literally followed you, but obsessed with you,
Speaker 1: not in a creepy way for years, I mean ever
Speaker 1: since Y's TV show came out, like Jenny was everything
Speaker 1: to me in Las Pelas, whether I'm hurt, whether and
Speaker 1: though Horno like I sing at the top of my
Speaker 1: LUNs um and now with your songs like I love it.
Speaker 1: I think you have shown everybody that you can and
Speaker 1: you will, and I think that's so bad ass. My
Speaker 1: question for you is I'm trying to build my own
Speaker 1: business in the health and beauty industry and I have
Speaker 1: very little followers. I'm Instagram based, I don't do Facebook
Speaker 1: m I try to do some work on Snapchat, but
Speaker 1: like to like grow my followers, like I've been taking
Speaker 1: an Instagram university class, but I feel like there's I'm
Speaker 1: missing something that I don't know what, Like, what have
Speaker 1: you say that works more for you to connect with
Speaker 1: people and to grow your followers? Hi, Claudia, ky so, Claudia, Claudia, Okay, well,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for all those beautiful things that
Speaker 1: you said and for loving my mommy and believe me,
Speaker 1: I'm also a huge fan. But okay, in regards to
Speaker 1: your question, look, I think that you're missing a huge
Speaker 1: audience by not doing Facebook. I think that for sure,
Speaker 1: Facebook is a great place to market and promote your business.
Speaker 1: A lot of people, a lot of people more than
Speaker 1: you know, use and are on Facebook all day long,
Speaker 1: even more so than Instagram, I feel. And you can
Speaker 1: buy ads there and you can boost your posts. So
Speaker 1: that's one. TikTok is huge. TikTok is like I think,
Speaker 1: the number one right now. So I would definitely invest
Speaker 1: in making TikTok's. It's time consuming, it's a job in
Speaker 1: itself creating TikTok's, but if you manage your time correctly
Speaker 1: and you're like, Okay, on Tuesdays, I'm gonna do nothing,
Speaker 1: but TikTok's for my business or set a day aside
Speaker 1: in time for that. That way you have some that
Speaker 1: are saved and then you can post them throughout the week.
Speaker 1: And the more consistent you are on TikTok, the high
Speaker 1: that TikTok puts you on the algorithm, you know. So
Speaker 1: that's one Instagram is good. Obviously, doing lives that's another thing.
Speaker 1: Doing lives on your Instagram. And even though you may
Speaker 1: not have a lot of followers right now, the more
Speaker 1: lives you do the better. And just posting I think
Speaker 1: more than anything consistently on TikTok. And original content that's
Speaker 1: the thing, original content. Use the app on TikTok because
Speaker 1: you know, TikTok likes that. So anyways, as far as
Speaker 1: like marketing, you said you were in health and beauty,
Speaker 1: which is good. All women love that. So make sure
Speaker 1: you are reaching out to the demographic which are women
Speaker 1: and the age range as well. So doing all those
Speaker 1: studies is very very important. So um yeah, I think
Speaker 1: that's it. I mean, hopefully that hopes. I wish you
Speaker 1: all the best in this business and this venture. You know,
Speaker 1: don't don't give up, That's all I can tell you.
Speaker 1: Just right when you feel like you want to be
Speaker 1: done is when something great is about to happen. Okay,
Speaker 1: so let's hear from Miriam. Let's get this a lottle wyoming.
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Speaker 1: that she's been married and she loves her husband and
Speaker 1: they're very happy for many years, and she just has
Speaker 1: realized that she doesn't like him to touch her like
Speaker 1: what it's time to have sex. She's just not in
Speaker 1: the mood. A lot of women we ignore our hormones
Speaker 1: and we don't understand how with age, with the air,
Speaker 1: with the things that we eat, with the things that
Speaker 1: we drink on a daily basis, our bodies change, our
Speaker 1: hormone levels change, and which doesn't allow us to lose weight,
Speaker 1: we lose hair and our sex drive. And that's as
Speaker 1: we get older and more mature. Should I say, get
Speaker 1: that checked out. Also, maybe go to an adult store,
Speaker 1: to a sex shop, get some lubrican, a vibrator. I
Speaker 1: don't know. You have to find ways to spice up
Speaker 1: your sex life if something's going on, and I think
Speaker 1: it happens in every relationship. Is just knowing this is happening.
Speaker 1: Let's find a way. And the good thing is she's asking,
Speaker 1: so that means and tells me you love him and
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Speaker 1: I help you make the right decision or at least
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