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Speaker 1: and if you're suffering from an issue or hardship, you

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Speaker 1: the beach, Hi, Chickies, I was just listening to some

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Speaker 1: of your podcasts, just started listening to them like a

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Speaker 1: There eye openers to me. I know that everybody thinks

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Speaker 1: I just relate with you in many many ways. I

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Speaker 1: Marcy Will welcome to the Chickens and Chill Family. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy to hear that you're loving my podcast.

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Speaker 1: That makes me so happy. And I'm so sorry to

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Speaker 1: We love you, okay. Our next question comes from Claudia.

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Speaker 1: Hey Cheeks, I have literally followed you, but obsessed with you,

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