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Speaker 2: Is your girl lex p And it's your girl dra

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Speaker 2: and the cold and you are tuned in to another

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Speaker 2: episode of poor Mind.

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Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thought. We are on

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Speaker 1: a road with the solo episode. We are we kicking

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Speaker 1: a year off right to a good story. Y'all ask

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Speaker 1: and we delve.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we deliver. You know what, I had to pull

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Speaker 2: our old faith for today?

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Speaker 1: What's the old faith? You notice outfit? This is old

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Speaker 1: faith for y'all.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all this is like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: a long time.

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Speaker 3: I guess until you just said something and I just

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Speaker 3: thought about it, I didn't even realize that is your

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Speaker 3: own Okay, y'all got.

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Speaker 2: You through a life. Let me tell y'all something.

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Speaker 1: It healed it down.

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Speaker 2: I don't know obviously, y'all don't know me in real life.

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Speaker 2: But one thing about me is I find something that

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Speaker 2: I like fits me, I'm going.

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Speaker 1: To wear it forever. Lucky.

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Speaker 2: I can't find this to know whether colors or I

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Speaker 2: don't remember where I got it from.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, remember that green dress?

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Speaker 2: What green?

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Speaker 3: Remember you had that dress that I used to hate

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Speaker 3: the time of your ex hated too.

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Speaker 1: No, it was my night dress.

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Speaker 2: It was orange and blue with orange and it was orange.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I could remember it was.

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Speaker 3: I hated that dress, and you knew I hated it.

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Speaker 3: You used to wear it on purpose.

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Speaker 2: It was this little dress, y'all. It was so comfy

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Speaker 2: and it made my body look so cute. So I

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Speaker 2: Dre and my ex hated he'd be like, oh you

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Speaker 2: got that dress?

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Speaker 1: Yes, hey, but yes.

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Speaker 2: One thing about me is like when I like something,

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm not more so like that now because

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Speaker 2: so I used to wear this outfit down to the ground,

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Speaker 2: so I had to freakinget back.

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Speaker 1: What good time.

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Speaker 3: We love a little pin stripe, you know, it's real classy.

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Speaker 1: I love me a little pine striped soup.

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Speaker 2: And the good thing about this too is like this

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Speaker 2: in this motherfumer you do, I've seen it in actually,

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Speaker 2: girl I would wear this to work and leave work.

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Speaker 1: And go straight to the club.

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Speaker 3: Hey, a move little the outfit that you could use

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Speaker 3: for different purposes.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, but you know what's crazy speaking of

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Speaker 2: we're gonna get back to I know we always get

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Speaker 2: off topic.

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Speaker 1: But I do you believe like.

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Speaker 2: If you post a picture in an outfit, you can't

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Speaker 3: No, I feel like I'm not gonna post another picture

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Speaker 3: any big facts, but.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear it again. We buy clothes to wear it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I understand why people think you can't keep re

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Speaker 3: wearing stuff like I'm not gonna just wear something one

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Speaker 1: Like every day stuff.

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Speaker 3: There's just like one color, don't really have no writing

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Speaker 1: You can wear that a lot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Now, certain things you can't keep wearing, Like I

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Speaker 2: This has been in my closet for a year and

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Speaker 2: All right, now, you got your rest.

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Speaker 3: Because I feel like sometimes when you wear stuff that's

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Speaker 2: That girl with them, Remember we're not gonna say her name.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, fakes. But I think shoes is a little

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Speaker 3: bit different too. Though, no, she has a probable song.

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Speaker 3: It's one hundred degrees in Atlanta. I know who you're

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Speaker 2: But you know what, I don't buy trendy shoes. I

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Speaker 1: Five hundred dollars are over.

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Speaker 2: I want my money's words, Like I buy classic pieces

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Speaker 2: that are that's gonna last forever. Oh I didn't even

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Speaker 2: Who cares whatever, But if you got on your outfit

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Speaker 2: that you got on your profile picture, I'm gonna judge

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Speaker 1: I got on a bikini. You don't worry. Don't worry, don't.

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Speaker 3: Worry, you say, but now for real, No back to

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Speaker 3: them moods, though I know them.

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Speaker 1: Book seems to be high, was small, was probably.

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Speaker 1: I had a little hole at the toe.

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Speaker 3: My yeezies when I start working out anymore, the little

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Speaker 2: Yes, I do remember that hog because your man was

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Speaker 4: He was.

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Speaker 3: He was making fun of me and would not buy

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Speaker 3: me no more snack you wanted.

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Speaker 1: Everything else went. He drew the line at some hundred

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Speaker 2: Okay, nigga, you shown her now.

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Speaker 1: But it was because of my nails, because of my toenail.

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Speaker 1: It's supposed to start poking at. I do like a

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Speaker 3: I don't like no little short. I feel like y'r

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Speaker 1: To be tall.

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Speaker 2: I'm here nigga to be painted.

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Speaker 1: Everybody needs to see everybody needs to see it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, So we have something that we're gonna

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Speaker 3: And before we do that, Before we do that, we

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Speaker 3: we have a new little segment. We're gonna introduce what

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Speaker 3: we gonna call it. Maybe we should let them name me,

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Speaker 3: gonna have a new segment where we're gonna be like

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Speaker 3: reading tweets from Twitter about poor minds. So if y'all

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Speaker 1: From my bab from YouTube.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So one said y'all be riding for LS and

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Speaker 2: I love to order some, but they don't ship to

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Speaker 2: Olivia Simmons two for six one. Well you heard them

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Speaker 2: the pod. Y'all make sure y'all try it. Tell them

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Speaker 2: If they don't have LS cream, y'all, make sure y'all

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Speaker 3: You can always request it if they don't have any

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Speaker 1: He might even pull.

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Speaker 3: All right, that's how hospitable he is. Okay, but okay,

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Speaker 3: So the second one says, whenever when I tell you,

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Speaker 3: poor minds is consistent. They missed one week, not even

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Speaker 1: I just think it's become like habit.

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Speaker 3: We can't leave our We've been doing it for so

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Speaker 1: And we and we do take breaks.

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Speaker 2: I think everybody deserves a break, but we also prepare

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Speaker 2: so we got y'all period. Okay, Well, we're gonna skip

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Speaker 2: around some because it's yeah, it says. I love the

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Speaker 2: karaoke segments, Dre you ate this song and Lex held

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Speaker 2: you Down. I can't wait to see what this new

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Speaker 2: year has in store for Poor Minds and the Poor crew.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm not gonna lie either, y'all.

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Speaker 2: This year, we are definitely focused on growing our channel,

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Speaker 2: getting more views and all that good stuff.

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Speaker 1: So I'm excited for the new year too. I am so.

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Speaker 2: All right, what else?

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Speaker 3: I just feel like y'all desire for more subscribers, and

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Speaker 3: that's why I just told y'all as to subscribe because

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Speaker 3: I agree Star Jackson seeks nine ze roo sa period.

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Speaker 2: Oh I didn't shine my grad. The one who read

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Speaker 2: the one before was kill omisy I hope I said

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Speaker 2: Jonathan Grant nine four eight six.

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Speaker 1: So thank y'all so much for the comments.

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Speaker 2: And don't y'all be careful when y'all comment negative ship

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Speaker 2: stop being. We don't start the new year off with positivity.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Tod tell us what we're drinking, so you know,

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Speaker 3: the still new year. We're still doing some mocktails going

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Speaker 3: on here, and again I'm keeping y'all with less sugar.

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Speaker 1: Oh y'all know how I go down the wrong.

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Speaker 2: Apple pie?

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Speaker 3: I don't really be eating that much. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 2: he finished his plate. He started going like this, m M,

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Speaker 3: Day would have been over because I know you ain't

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Speaker 2: He started doing like this.

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Speaker 2: Now he had money. It wasn't like no, he wasn't no, Like.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like bring back ediquide, like my table man. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Was literally like wiping the plate and going like this,

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Speaker 1: Just order to go play or more or two.

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Speaker 2: When you licked the plate, are you start picking up

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Speaker 2: crumbs off your plate? Is that supposed to like make

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Speaker 2: pick up this little crumb, you're like, Okay, that's what

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Speaker 2: I needed. Now I'm fool.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't. I don't think so.

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Speaker 3: I think people more so will do that because whatever

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Speaker 3: just like, let me go here. She's raid. But I

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Speaker 1: That's too motherfucking hard.

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Speaker 3: You ain't got no class, no decor room, so what.

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Speaker 2: Are this is solely off subject again, what have you

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Speaker 2: ever been on a day with somebody who had like

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Speaker 2: You felt like, oh, my god, like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: Not really, No, I've never been on a date with

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Speaker 3: somebody who didn't know like that you was supposed to

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Speaker 3: use your forking night.

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Speaker 1: They didn't know how to how to use it properly.

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Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, they be knowing to put

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Speaker 3: the napkin on your left Yeah, I've never really been

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Speaker 3: on a date with somebody. One of my friends did

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Speaker 3: that he put his napkin in his shirt. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, are you a child? You gonna waste

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Speaker 3: your food on your clothes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: If you put a napkin in your shirt, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: think something wrong.

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Speaker 1: How would you feel if he was their Juicy Crab though?

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Speaker 1: Would you be okay?

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Speaker 2: If no?

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Speaker 1: I would not be okay if you were a bier,

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Speaker 1: because like.

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Speaker 3: I'm a crab is like more of that where I

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Speaker 3: think he's more acceptable to wear a bill, Yeah, because

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Speaker 3: that's why they have him for people.

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Speaker 1: To wear him.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, if you go to Juicy Crab, you need

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Speaker 2: to know how to eat and get in there and

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Speaker 2: keep it clean. When I leave Juicy Crab, I'm not

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Speaker 2: stain on me, not a sting.

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Speaker 3: But everybody is not that coordinated, and I would prefer

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Speaker 3: for especially if this is like the first stop.

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Speaker 1: I don't think.

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Speaker 2: I don't stop because where the fuck y'all going?

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Speaker 1: Smell like crab, leg and garlic butter.

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Speaker 3: Be we going somewhere, y'all, girl, we ain't want to party.

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Speaker 1: I wish you.

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Speaker 2: Would step in the curb smelling like sausage and bored.

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Speaker 3: Hey, I'm going to the club, but like that could

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Speaker 3: be the first stop of the night.

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Speaker 1: You know, heaven if you mean thinking when you leave

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Speaker 1: Juicy Crab, When you leave Juicy.

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Speaker 2: Crab, you got garlic and onion smell on your hands.

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Speaker 1: First of all, some people wear gloves.

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Speaker 3: I don't. Some people wear gloves, so that could not

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Speaker 3: be an option. Number two. If you go and wash

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Speaker 3: your hands, your hands should still not stink. And if

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Speaker 3: you're cleaning under your nails and sheet your nails in

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Speaker 3: your hands should not stink.

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Speaker 2: Every week they're gonna I'm not saying stink, but they're

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Speaker 2: gonna still have that that scent on there unless you're

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Speaker 2: like really scrubbing with like lemons and doing all that,

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Speaker 2: like you really gotta scrub your hands to get that scrub.

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Speaker 1: I don't now, I feel like, no, because are you eating?

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I disagree because I have definitely went to Juicy Crab

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Speaker 3: and he went somewhere afterwards in my hands.

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Speaker 1: Then I smell like crab.

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Speaker 2: Just give a shrimp tail, bob.

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Speaker 3: No, it's nice, It's definitely nice. I don't think that.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like if you hygienic and you clean

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Speaker 3: under your nails and stuff, I.

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Speaker 2: Just it's not about being hygienic or nice about like

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Speaker 2: that's that smell just stays on you.

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Speaker 1: It don't it do it? Really don't.

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Speaker 2: But I'll say this though, if I go to Juicy

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Speaker 2: Crab with a nigga he put gloves on, that's a ek.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't care.

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Speaker 2: I don't like that. You need to get in.

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Speaker 1: Now the fuck?

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Speaker 2: Oh now you want to wear a rubber.

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Speaker 1: But he's still getting he's still getting in there. He

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Speaker 1: just you know, don't want it.

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Speaker 2: You know, he ain't never cared about putting the covering

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Speaker 2: and protect the ship until we get the Juicy Crab.

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Speaker 2: Don't start now. No, I want you.

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Speaker 1: I want somebody to know what they're doing.

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Speaker 2: I don't like that man, let's get in the raw raw.

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Speaker 2: I like a nigga that eat his crabs raw.

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Speaker 1: I don't even already here. You can eat how you like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just feel like I like a professional seafood bag.

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Speaker 2: I like a real eater. Don't use gloves or bibbs.

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Speaker 1: That's true. He got to be a.

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Speaker 2: Speak for yourself down. Or I'll say one more thing

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Speaker 2: if I if we go and eat sushi and you

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Speaker 2: use your hands or try.

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Speaker 1: To use a ford to eat sushi, that's like an eck.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna like stop talking to you, but that's

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Speaker 2: definitely an ick.

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Speaker 1: Hands. Yes, work. No, everybody don't know how to use

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Speaker 1: shop steeds. I don't feel like niggas be thinking they

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Speaker 1: know how to use chopsticks, and they ass don't be

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Speaker 1: knowing how to use the mouse either. Just because you're

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Speaker 1: picking it up, do not mean you using I would.

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Speaker 2: Rather you at least try or give an effort or

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Speaker 2: you know, we can learn together. We can, we can

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Speaker 2: get on, we can make a fun topic out of

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Speaker 2: it and talk about it and laugh about it. But

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Speaker 2: I would rather you try and or ask me or

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Speaker 2: be like, oh well, I'm finna get on like that's fun.

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Speaker 2: That's something funny. But at least try don't be like

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Speaker 2: I ain't just trying that shit I am, and like

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Speaker 2: picking it up with your.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, picking it up with your hands is a little extra.

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Speaker 1: But but the.

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Speaker 3: Crazy thing is honestly, and a lot of like Asian

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Speaker 1: They don't, Yes, that's why they have like hand rolls

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Speaker 1: and st Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean the places I go, they be always

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Speaker 2: handing me the little chopstick.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, they have like hand rolls and all of

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Speaker 3: this buff that people actually eat.

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Speaker 2: Well, I know it's like some dishes, you know that

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Speaker 2: a lot of countries. You know, it's crazy though, I

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Speaker 2: that I'm thinking about it, because I know it's a

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Speaker 2: lot of food in like in India that they eat

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Speaker 2: with Indias Yeah, and it do like it's some Nigerian

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Speaker 2: foods like you cannot use utensils with it just don't

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Speaker 2: taste the same, you know how like you drink and

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Speaker 2: drinking and taste different.

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Speaker 1: That's what I.

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Speaker 3: Feel like, Linger on your hands and stuff, linger on

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Speaker 3: your clothes. Nigerian food may be using all the spices

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Speaker 3: and stuff. Oh my god, but it lingers on your clothes.

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Speaker 2: It definitely does onions. You know, I love a little onion. Okay, man,

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Speaker 3: First topic, I really want to talk about, the past

452
00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:53,320
Speaker 3: does not matter.

453
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Speaker 1: How do you think that the past doesn't matter?

454
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Speaker 3: I've been listening to this audio book lately for like

455
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Speaker 3: probably like the past few days, and in the book,

456
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Speaker 3: the author was basically just saying, like, the past doesn't matter.

457
00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,240
Speaker 3: It's an excuse that people use to not reach their

458
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Speaker 3: potential or it so hold them back because they don't

459
00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:13,880
Speaker 3: have courage to be the person that they really want

460
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Speaker 3: to be. So they like to say that past traumas

461
00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:19,639
Speaker 3: and things that happened in their past is what's affecting them,

462
00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:22,040
Speaker 3: you know, accomplishing the things that they want to accomplish,

463
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Speaker 3: are being a person that they want to be.

464
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Speaker 1: I kind of agree with.

465
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Speaker 3: That to a certain extent, but of course I would

466
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Speaker 3: like to know, yo, bu, I don't agree with that.

467
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Speaker 3: I don't think that it doesn't completely matter. Like I

468
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Speaker 3: don't think the past doesn't completely matter, but I definitely

469
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Speaker 3: think a lot of the time people use like past

470
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Speaker 3: experiences and stuff as an excuse for why they can't

471
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Speaker 3: accomplish certain things.

472
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Speaker 2: The reason that or I disagree is because I think

473
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Speaker 2: a lot of times the past does matter, because a

474
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Speaker 2: lot of times people's past has traumatized them in the

475
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Speaker 2: way that they don't even have the mental capabil abilities

476
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Speaker 2: to you know, do the things that they want to do.

477
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

478
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Speaker 2: Like, for example, this is just an example, and it

479
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,879
Speaker 2: might be an extreme example, like say somebody has something

480
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 2: happen to them traumatizing to where they don't feel comfortable

481
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 2: like going outside or something because something happened with them,

482
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Speaker 2: you know, they were abused or anything like that, so

483
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Speaker 2: they want to work from home. They only feel safe

484
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Speaker 2: at certain environments and things like that. So sometimes things

485
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Speaker 2: happen to people to where they just don't have the

486
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Speaker 2: capability of even trying to get out and do do things.

487
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Speaker 1: So that's why I say it.

488
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Speaker 3: Depends it's that you said that, because in the book

489
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Speaker 3: they actually use that as an example, and an author

490
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Speaker 3: was saying, like, that's some bullshit.

491
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Speaker 1: You've staying in the house because that's what.

492
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Speaker 3: You want to do, I mean, and I agree, like

493
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Speaker 3: you always have choices. You do have choices, you know,

494
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Speaker 3: So I think that you always have a choice to

495
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Speaker 3: choose to move forward and get past things and get

496
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Speaker 3: over things. Not to say that it's going to be easier,

497
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Speaker 3: not to say that you'll ever completely be over a situation,

498
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Speaker 3: especially if something traumatic like abuse happened to you, right,

499
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Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, I think that

500
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Speaker 3: you always have a choice in how you choose to

501
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Speaker 3: deal with the things that happen to you.

502
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, But I also think too that so I.

503
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Speaker 3: Think staying in the house, that's just something that you're

504
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Speaker 3: doing to because you feel like that's helping you cope

505
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Speaker 3: with it.

506
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Speaker 1: But in reality, I mean, it's not changing anything.

507
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Speaker 2: I agree with that, it's not helpful, it doesn't change anything.

508
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Speaker 2: But I do feel like strong minded people and strong

509
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Speaker 2: willed people we need to stop thinking that everybody has

510
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Speaker 2: the same thought process as us.

511
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Speaker 3: I don't think that. I don't think that at all.

512
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Speaker 3: I think everybody thinks. Everybody handles things differently. But at

513
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Speaker 3: the same time, if you're using that as an excuse

514
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Speaker 3: or as a crutch for why you can't reach your

515
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 3: potential or do the things that you want to do,

516
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Speaker 3: then you have to realize, like, it really don't have

517
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Speaker 3: to be that though. You could be a completely different

518
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Speaker 3: outcome because you can always wake up every day and

519
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Speaker 3: decide what you want to do differently.

520
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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I look from it as a

521
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Speaker 2: point of view of like people who deal with.

522
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Speaker 1: Depression, But that's different.

523
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Speaker 2: How is that different?

524
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Speaker 1: That's a medical diagnosis.

525
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Speaker 2: I mean, but somebody being traumatized can do something to

526
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Speaker 2: your brain that is something medical going on, but a

527
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 2: lot of kind of chemical and balance up there.

528
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not a doctor.

529
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Speaker 3: It could, but I think that it's a difference. A

530
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Speaker 3: lot of people walk around whenever they said or whenever

531
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Speaker 3: they going through shit, they'd be like, oh, I'm depressed.

532
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Speaker 1: Oh I'm depressed. You're not really depressed.

533
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Speaker 3: Like people who deal with who have been diagnosed with

534
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Speaker 3: clinical depression. It's a complete difference from somebody who just said,

535
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Speaker 3: who going through some shit.

536
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Speaker 2: I mean, I think there's levels of depression, though.

537
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 3: I think it is absolutely levels of depression, but it's

538
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Speaker 3: it's still a difference. Like if I'm going through something

539
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Speaker 3: and say I go get an evaluation from a therapist

540
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 3: or whatever, and they're like, well, you're not depressed. You

541
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Speaker 3: just said about a current situation that's going on in

542
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Speaker 3: y'all life. That's completely different from somebody who truly suffers

543
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Speaker 3: from clinical depression, where it's like debilitating for them. They

544
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Speaker 3: cannot go on with they like they cannot cope with

545
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 3: shit because they really really it's like a chemical imbalance.

546
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Speaker 2: But some people do have functional depression too, so it's.

547
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Speaker 1: Like like they may look but steel real.

548
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 3: Like if you're if you're diagnosed with any type of depression,

549
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 3: then you're diagnosed with it. It doesn't matter whether it's

550
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 3: functional or not. You're still being diagnosed with depression.

551
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Speaker 2: Right but I'm saying all that to say that is

552
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 2: still affecting how they view things, how they move in

553
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Speaker 2: with their life. So that's why I say the past

554
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 2: does affect somebody because maybe these people that are staying

555
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 2: in the house, maybe they're dealing with depression.

556
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Speaker 1: So that's why I say a lot.

557
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Speaker 2: Of times we don't know what's going on with people,

558
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 2: Like it's easier for somebody who has a positive outlook

559
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 2: on the world. They feel like, you know what, I'm

560
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 2: gonna conquer this shit, I'm gonna get it. We don't

561
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Speaker 2: understand like a serious chemical imbounce. Like I say this

562
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Speaker 2: all the time, but depression isn't always caused by something

563
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Speaker 2: that happened to you. People who really have clinical depression,

564
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Speaker 2: like a lot of the time they don't even know

565
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Speaker 2: what causes e.

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Speaker 1: I'm agree.

567
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Speaker 2: I feel like because I talk about this all the time,

568
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Speaker 2: like me dealing with like seasonal depression.

569
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Speaker 1: I don't even know what.

570
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Speaker 2: Seasonal depression was was until I got older and I

571
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 2: starting on the therapy and I was like, oh, okay,

572
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,159
Speaker 2: this is what is and I realized, okay, bitch, you're

573
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 2: just happier when the sun is out. I don't know

574
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 2: why when the sun goes down, bitch, I get say it.

575
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 2: Even when I was younger, I didn't even like the

576
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 2: sun setting because it just made me feel some type

577
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Speaker 2: of way. Of course I didn't know what that meant.

578
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,880
Speaker 2: But I say all that to say, it's like some

579
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 2: people really maybe these people that he's talking about that

580
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 2: are like in the house because they don't maybe they

581
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 2: don't even realize that they're dealing with something that's a

582
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,160
Speaker 2: little deeper than just like something traumatic.

583
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 1: I just feel like sometimes.

584
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 2: We just need to give people a little bit of

585
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 2: a grace because just like we don't understand how their

586
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 2: mind works that they want to be in the house

587
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 2: and not reach their goals and I try, they don't

588
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 2: understand how my mind works where we can like, okay,

589
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 2: let's turn this shit on, let's go, let's get it,

590
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,880
Speaker 2: because just like us, like when you when your dad

591
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:51,919
Speaker 2: passed and you were able to literally go record the

592
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Speaker 2: next day, people probably thought the.

593
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Speaker 1: Same day, what the fuck is wrong with her? Right?

594
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Speaker 2: They don't understand how your mind works like that. They

595
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Speaker 2: probably that you, like, this bitch is crazy, you know

596
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

597
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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I get what you're saying. Like that's fair.

598
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Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, it's not about

599
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 3: having grace for people, because I don't not have grace

600
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Speaker 3: for people that are going through things or people they

601
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Speaker 3: handle things different than me. I think that in the book,

602
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 3: all he was saying is that, like, you have choices,

603
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Speaker 3: and to me, that's all it boils down to. It's

604
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Speaker 3: not about not having grace for people. Yeah, I think

605
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 3: some people choose to. Like again, some people really have

606
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 3: clinical depression in different medical issues and different things going

607
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Speaker 3: on in their head, like schizophrenia, bipolar, just a whole

608
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 3: bunch of different medical conditions that you have CT.

609
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Speaker 2: We aren't talking to normal.

610
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Speaker 3: Facts, but a lot of people really have like real

611
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 3: shit going on that prohibits them from being able to

612
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Speaker 3: live life normally. But then I think some people really

613
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 3: just use a lot of shit that has happened to

614
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Speaker 3: them as a cruage.

615
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Speaker 2: Let me ask you this. I feel like just like

616
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Speaker 2: because like I said, I think the past does matter.

617
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Speaker 2: So just like, the past can affect somebody negatively to

618
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 2: hinder their dreams and stuff, But I feel like your

619
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 2: past made you who you are, so why can your

620
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 2: past affects you to be a positive person and a

621
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Speaker 2: go getter. But somebody's past can't affect them to be like.

622
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Speaker 3: I don't feel like that though, because I feel like

623
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 3: I don't have fucked up shit happened in my past too.

624
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 3: Everybody has, but I didn't let that stop me from

625
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Speaker 3: becoming the person that I am.

626
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Speaker 1: So you could look at it like that as well. Yeah,

627
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Speaker 1: it's not like my life have been peachy the whole

628
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,919
Speaker 1: thirty two years. No, your life hasn't been peachy.

629
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Speaker 2: But I will say from somebody who knows you and

630
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 2: even me myself, like we've all been through shit, but

631
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: we were dealt some pretty fucking good cards in life.

632
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Speaker 3: I disagree. I think that we worked to get to

633
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Speaker 3: where we are.

634
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Speaker 2: No, when I'm saying that, I'm saying like, we never

635
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 2: had to deal with homelessness, We never had to deal

636
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Speaker 2: with wondering where our next meal came from, we never

637
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,439
Speaker 2: had to deal with a lot of things that a

638
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Speaker 2: lot of people like we just didn't have a hard

639
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 2: life growing.

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Speaker 3: And it's a lot of people who have dealt with

641
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 3: those things too and they still became successful.

642
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is.

643
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 2: True, But like I said, I think there's two there's

644
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,199
Speaker 2: just two different sides. Some people were wired different. Some

645
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 2: people are just wired different. I don't know where.

646
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Speaker 3: I don't even think it's a wired different thing, though,

647
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 3: because I think you could change your mindset. It's so

648
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 3: many times I see interviews or I see things online

649
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 3: what people would be talking about, like, oh, at one

650
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 3: point I used to be lazy.

651
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: At one point I had no drive, I was a.

652
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Speaker 3: Procrastinator, and then one day I just decided, like, I'm

653
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 3: not gonna be like this anymore. And it didn't happen overnight,

654
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 3: but I took the steps to get to where I'm

655
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Speaker 3: trying to go. I think anybody can change I Okay,

656
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 3: you know what, I agree, And I think some people

657
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Speaker 3: choose to be victims of a circumstance.

658
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can agree to a certain extent.

659
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Speaker 2: But sometimes I feel like some people just really they

660
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Speaker 2: just don't have the resources and they just don't have But.

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Speaker 3: A lot of people don't have the resources and they

662
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Speaker 3: still made something that's really.

663
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Speaker 2: A small percentage, though it's not a lot of people

664
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Speaker 2: with that.

665
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Speaker 1: Glory so that time.

666
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Speaker 3: But I sometimes feel like it might be a bigger

667
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 3: person each if people change their mindset.

668
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,479
Speaker 2: But I'll say this, when I think about people who

669
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 2: are poor, you can't just wake up and be like,

670
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm gonna work. I'm gonna work my

671
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 2: ass off, and I'm gonna work my ass out of poverty.

672
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 3: It's literally like not that easy. Everybody can't do it,

673
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 3: for sure.

674
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 1: We know that.

675
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 3: That's why it's way more people who are who don't

676
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 3: make that much money than people that do. It's obviously

677
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 3: not easy to do, but at the same time, nobody

678
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 3: can tell me that it's impossible because a lot of

679
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 3: people have are like still a lot of people.

680
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: Have done it.

681
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of people have done it, but maybe

682
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 3: not in comparison to like the world population.

683
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Speaker 2: But those a lot are an anomaly.

684
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Speaker 1: Though that's fair.

685
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 2: It's not like I don't know some people. I don't

686
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 2: want to say like, oh, they blessed or that they're lucky,

687
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 2: because I do believe in hard work. I know that

688
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: I'm here and at the end of the day, like

689
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 2: I always talk about, oh I had three dollars, did

690
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 2: definitely have three dollars, but I was surrounded by people

691
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Speaker 2: like if I had resources, some people just really don't

692
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Speaker 2: a lot of times. And these people who are making

693
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Speaker 2: it out of you know, being poor, they they met

694
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Speaker 2: somebody or they connected to somebody. So it's like, you know,

695
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Speaker 2: they were able to put themselves in a position to

696
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Speaker 2: have resources. A lot of people don't even have that.

697
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 2: They don't even have that capability of Some people got

698
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,479
Speaker 2: the gift of gap. They don't have nothing in their

699
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,239
Speaker 2: bank account. They don't have nothing, but they know what.

700
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 2: They finessed their ways in these room and they made

701
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Speaker 2: shit happen something. And so what about the people who

702
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 2: just don't have none of that, you know what I'm saying, Like,

703
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 2: they don't have nothing.

704
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 1: Nobody don't have. I disagree.

705
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Speaker 3: I just I feel like it maybe because I believe

706
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 3: in God and stuff. I just feel like God. I

707
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 3: feel like God has put something in everybody. Everybody got something,

708
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 3: so you might have you have something, you just haven't

709
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,239
Speaker 3: tapped into what the something is.

710
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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean but.

711
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Speaker 6: Something God didn't make all coaches equal.

712
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 3: Now that's something I'm telling you, but I'm not recommended.

713
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: That's what you use. But but at the end of

714
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 1: the day, but it ain't get you here though. Let

715
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 1: me clarify that. Let me clarify that. Okay, Jesus Christ,

716
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Speaker 1: But no, I don't know, like at the end of

717
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: the day.

718
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Speaker 3: I do feel like I think that should be happening

719
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 3: to you and your past, and it be fucked up

720
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 3: for sure, But how you choose to deal with it

721
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 3: is all up to you, it really is.

722
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 2: I do believe that how you choose to deal with

723
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 2: it is up to you.

724
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 3: But you can't use it as an excuse to like,

725
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 3: for why you not where you want to be?

726
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm not where you want to be.

727
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: Probably necessarily an excuse. I think sometimes shit is just

728
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 2: it is what it is, what you mean, Like, sometimes

729
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 2: there are people who work hard, who aren't lazy, who

730
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 2: get up every day, and they're about those people don't

731
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 2: so but I'm saying, you say, somebody can like work themselves.

732
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Speaker 3: You're talking about the past. What does your past have

733
00:31:59,040 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 3: to do with you working?

734
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 2: Because I'm saying, like somebody who grew up in a

735
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 2: poor family, right, or somebody who you know grew up

736
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 2: in a broken home who don't have much and you

737
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 2: know when they turn right as soon as they turn

738
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 2: fifteen sixteen, they had to get a job. So they're

739
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 2: just in this cycle of taking care of the household,

740
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 2: Like when would they really and you know they might

741
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 2: look up because we all know how time flies. They

742
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 2: may wake up every day working hard as hell, getting

743
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 2: up at the Krakodon, working they twelve hours a day,

744
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 2: and then they look up one day and they thirty Okay,

745
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 2: because that's how life really be happening. And so it's

746
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 2: like they're not lazy.

747
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 1: They're not.

748
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 2: They're just a product of their past and their circumstances.

749
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 2: So it's like, yeah, these people, they may not be successful,

750
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 2: they may to be depressed, they may not be where

751
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 2: they want to be. But I wouldn't necessarily say that

752
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 2: they're making excuse or they're like these.

753
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: But those people don't.

754
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 3: They don't fall in the category I'm talking about because

755
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 3: they're not making any excuse.

756
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, but I'm saying, you can have a

757
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: conversation with this person.

758
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 2: He'd be like, yeah, I wanted to be a ce oh,

759
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 2: or I wanted to be a rapper. I wanted to

760
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 2: be an actor, but I can't do it because I

761
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 2: have to work twelve hours a day to provide for

762
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:06,239
Speaker 2: my fan.

763
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,479
Speaker 3: But if you see them working hard, then they're not

764
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 3: making any excuse.

765
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Speaker 1: I mean, but that you could technically say that's an excuse.

766
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 3: You You really can't, though, because I feel like some

767
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 3: people really put the work in and age.

768
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: It just does not happen for them.

769
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 3: Just because you don't become successful, they don't mean that

770
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 3: you wasn't trying.

771
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 2: Right, I mean, yeah, I guess I could say that.

772
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 3: But I think that that's still not using your past

773
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 3: as an excuse. Like you could have been somebody who

774
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 3: has to leave your house at sixteen years out, fifteen

775
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 3: years or fifteen years old and start working. You could

776
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 3: have used that as an excuse to be a bum,

777
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 3: but you still been working hard. So the fact that

778
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 3: you haven't excelled in whatever career path you're trying to

779
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 3: be in, it doesn't mean that you're making any excuse.

780
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 3: It just hasn't happened for you. Maybe it's just not

781
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 3: in the cards for you.

782
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess I feel like the past death. I

783
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: feel like we got ob tract of, like the passport.

784
00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 2: Well, well, I'll say this, I do feel like the

785
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 2: past affects your future and who you are in this moment.

786
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 2: I do feel like that, But I do agree with

787
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 2: you on the part on you have the choice on

788
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 2: how you move forward.

789
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 4: Now.

790
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: I do say that, like.

791
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 2: I feel like every decision that I made in my

792
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 2: life is why I ended up here. But I do

793
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 2: feel like I was born into a quote unquote soft life,

794
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 2: so things were easier for me. I'm not gonna sit

795
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 2: up here and act like I mean, I'm not gonna lie.

796
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 2: Shit was hard when I moved to Atlanta. I don't

797
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: cover that up. I told the story about how I

798
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 2: had to sleep in my car a lot of times,

799
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 2: like that shit was hard. When I even think about

800
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 2: it, it makes me like cringe, like because I can never

801
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 2: go through that shit again. But I did that shit

802
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 2: because of my ego as well.

803
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I ain't know you was sleeping in cor

804
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: right Like.

805
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:47,839
Speaker 2: I did that shit because I didn't want to call

806
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 2: my mom. I didn't want to call my sister. I

807
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 2: got tired. I'm like, you know what, I'm gonna make

808
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 2: this shit happen for myself. So, you know, different people,

809
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 2: different stories, but you know, let us know what y'all think,

810
00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 2: and it kind of.

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836
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Speaker 2: topic y'all know I love to talk about a little love,

837
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 2: a little we love. So is it difficult to differentiate

838
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 2: love and infatuation? Now? I wanted to talk about this

839
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,479
Speaker 2: because I actually had a conversation with my best friend

840
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 2: Killa the other day and she has this video pens

841
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 2: on her Twitter, and she was like, you know, it's

842
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:29,280
Speaker 2: crazy to me that.

843
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: People take so.

844
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 2: Long to fall in love. And you know, when you

845
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 2: buy a dog, you're expected to love that dog that

846
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 2: same day. You know, when you have a baby, the

847
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: dad is expected. Hey, I just met this little nigga,

848
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 2: but I'm expected to love him right then and there.

849
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 1: Whatever xyz.

850
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 2: She was like, so, why is it whenever you date

851
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 2: somebody and y'all are vibing, why can't it be like, Okay,

852
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 2: I love this person. I may not be like deep

853
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 2: in love, but I can have love for somebody. But

854
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, the reason I feel like back like, I

855
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 2: agree with it to a certain extent, But then again,

856
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 2: I kind of don't because because infatuation and love can

857
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:09,760
Speaker 2: look exactly alike to me from my experience, Because everybody

858
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 2: knows I'm a lover girl. I love relationships. I'm never

859
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 2: gonna stop having a man. If mean this man don't

860
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 2: work out, I will be in a relationship tomorrow.

861
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: Watch yourself, hole ass nigga.

862
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:22,880
Speaker 2: Right, Okay, So, but one thing that I have learned

863
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:26,280
Speaker 2: that I am working on moving forward in my relationships

864
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 2: is like knowing the difference. Because when you first meet somebody,

865
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 2: that honeymoon stage is like, oh my god, I can't

866
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 2: get enough of this nigga. He's perfect, he's this, she's this,

867
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 2: she's that, y'all want to spend every waking day. But

868
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 2: like once you get to that like six month mark,

869
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 2: that's when shit start, y'all start getting comfortable, and then

870
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 2: you start noticing little things that maybe you do like

871
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 2: even more or maybe that you don't like. So to me,

872
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 2: like I use my sister and my brother in law

873
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 2: for this example, because they always look like they're in

874
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 2: a fucking honeymoon babe. So it's like that infatuation that

875
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 2: she had for him turned into love was like it

876
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:02,839
Speaker 2: was the same thing for me. She was like, I

877
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 2: feel the same way about him from the first date

878
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 2: we went on till now, but I just I feel

879
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 2: it more. It's more intense. So that's why I feel

880
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 2: like sometimes people I don't blame them. They'd be like, damn,

881
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 2: I really thought this was the one. Because infatuation in

882
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 2: love really looks the same because when you really love somebody,

883
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 2: you are infatuated with them. You are. Now, when you're

884
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 2: infatuated with somebody, you don't love them necessarily, but when

885
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 2: you love somebody, you're infatuated with them. So when people

886
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 2: get that shit, if you, I don't even blame your homegirl.

887
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't know, like, I don't feel like

888
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 3: because what you were saying, and Killer was saying, I

889
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:40,280
Speaker 3: feel like you can you really say you love somebody

890
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 3: though when you first meet them.

891
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 2: You meet your baby, and you love them. You don't

892
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 2: even know that.

893
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: But that's different.

894
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 3: Though you carried him for nine months, you don't know him. No,

895
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,879
Speaker 3: it don't matter that you don't know him. I think

896
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 3: it's just the attachment of the fact that he grew

897
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 3: inside of you for seeing money. Okay, but even with

898
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 3: the dad, maybe the dad didn't carry him, but you

899
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,240
Speaker 3: still knew that that was your child in there growing

900
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 3: for all of these times.

901
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: Okay.

902
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 2: But if you have a baby, I'm expected to love

903
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 2: your baby, right you nice?

904
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 1: I mean that's gonna be that would be nice.

905
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like, but I feel like that's the

906
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 3: problem sometimes with people, like they be putting too much,

907
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 3: too many expectations on people, Like I wouldn't necessarily I

908
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 3: will hope you will love my baby, but yeah, I

909
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 3: will hope you because.

910
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 1: You're my friend.

911
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,320
Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, like, I wouldn't

912
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 3: necessarily put that expectation on you because this is my child, right,

913
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 3: the only person that's really expected to love him or

914
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 3: heart is me in the day.

915
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, Okay, that's fair, that's fair. Yeah, but I

916
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: don't know.

917
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 3: I feel like loving people when you first meet them,

918
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 3: to me, that shit always been a scam. Like I

919
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 3: don't think you could love somebody when you first meet

920
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 3: them because you don't even know them, right, But I

921
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 3: think you love whatever version of them you think you know, right,

922
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,919
Speaker 3: because people what we always say, people always put forward

923
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 3: they represented when you first meet them. So if you

924
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 3: give it a little motherfucking time that you really get

925
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 3: to notice Nigga, the real him gonna come out, and

926
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 3: then then you can say whether or not you love

927
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 3: somebody once you really know them for who they are,

928
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 3: the good, the bad, the ugly.

929
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 2: So let me ask you this because you've been with

930
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 2: the same person for a while now a while. Now, Wow,

931
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 2: do you feel like whenever you first met him you

932
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 2: were a representative or were you really yourself?

933
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 1: Not just really myself?

934
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 3: But I think that that's another thing too that you

935
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 3: have to think about, how did the relationship start. If

936
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 3: a relationship start off with you being friends with somebody first,

937
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 3: then I feel like when you're friends with somebody, it's

938
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 3: not a lot of expectation r R. It's well not

939
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say it's not a lot of expectation.

940
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 3: It's not the same expectation. It's once you start dating

941
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 3: the part, so y'all start, I feel like you're more

942
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 3: free to be yourself, Like I was completely one hundred

943
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 3: percent myself because number one, I was never thinking about

944
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 3: dating you, So I'm just being myself. It's just some

945
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 3: shit that ended up happening, you know what I mean.

946
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 3: But I think that a lot of the time when

947
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 3: people get into situations off the rip, like you meet

948
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 3: somebody for the first time and then y'all decide that

949
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:07,839
Speaker 3: you're gonna go on a date right then and there,

950
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 3: I think people automatically be having in their head Okay,

951
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 3: this is t who I'm gonna show them. Yeah, and

952
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:14,760
Speaker 3: you know, to be honest and even to be fair

953
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 3: with going back to what you just asked me, I

954
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 3: feel like when I was friends with the person that

955
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 3: i'm dating, like it's a lot of size of me

956
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 3: that they had never seen either because you're my friend,

957
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 3: versus once you start dating me, Yeah, you ain't seen

958
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:32,840
Speaker 3: a lot of sides of me. So then once you

959
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 3: start dating somebody and y'all get to a more intimate level,

960
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 3: then it might be some shit about you that they like, Oh,

961
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 3: I ain't even know you had that problem. I ain't

962
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 3: even though you was like that, and we done dealt

963
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 3: with that too.

964
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:43,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that is true.

965
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 3: But I guess for me, that's why you know you

966
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 3: love somebody though, when you can still put up with

967
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 3: the parts that maybe you didn't know about are the

968
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 3: parts that you're not so fond of, and you like,

969
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 3: you know what, I'm still gonna try to stick it

970
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 3: out with you.

971
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 2: I think for me the problem is I'm not gonna

972
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 2: asky y'all, I don't have a representative I you do, no,

973
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 2: let me tell you what it is. You know, when

974
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 2: I say I don't have a representative. I mean like this,

975
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:14,320
Speaker 2: when I meet somebody, I apple good. When I meet somebody,

976
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 2: I am who I am now. Have I dated somebody

977
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 2: and they tried to change me and mold me into

978
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 2: what they wanted me to be, and I try to

979
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 2: do that, Yes, but I can't. I cannot contain this personality.

980
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 2: I can't hide who I am. So I am who

981
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 2: I am now when I get mad or when I'm upset,

982
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 2: I don't really turn into like, Okay, yes I do.

983
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 2: I'll say this though, but that's not to me. That's

984
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 2: not a representative. You just haven't seen that side of me.

985
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 3: Like you said, it's a representative too, because I feel

986
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 3: like in the beginning of a situation, I can honestly

987
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 3: say I didn't talk to I didn't been dating somebody,

988
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 3: and in the beginning they pieced me off, but I

989
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 3: still thought about how I wanted to.

990
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,320
Speaker 1: React while in a dating stage.

991
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 3: But then once you, my nigga, once we together, I

992
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 3: don't know, you really gonna see how I really feel

993
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 3: about sheep.

994
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 2: Well, you notice one thing about me that I have

995
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 2: noticed is I have a certain This goes back to

996
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 2: what I talked about with my anger issues and I'm

997
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 2: working on this in therapy and I'm starting to identify

998
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 2: my triggers. So for me, it was things that guys

999
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 2: that I was dating in the past they would do,

1000
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 2: especially one of my exes, he knew, he knew how

1001
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 2: to trigger me, and he would constantly do that. So

1002
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 2: that's what would cause me to blow up because I

1003
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 2: was like thinking about it, and I'm thinking about another

1004
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 2: like when I used to day Throwback Babe. I never

1005
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:43,280
Speaker 2: used to blow up on Throwback Babe. Never did because

1006
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 2: he had a good communication style that I could get with,

1007
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So I think also the

1008
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:53,280
Speaker 2: thing about love and infatuation too, is like when everybody

1009
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 2: has a bad side or a side that they don't like,

1010
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,760
Speaker 2: but when you're with somebody who was loving and carrying

1011
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 2: and y'all see each other and y'all understand each other,

1012
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,399
Speaker 2: not even gonna bring that nasty, ugly It's not gonna

1013
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 2: be perfect all the time, but they're not even gonna bring.

1014
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: That side out of you.

1015
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 3: To be honest, do you feel like you can control

1016
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 3: your anger though? Because they because the book that I'm

1017
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 3: reading talking about that too, like how anger isn't like

1018
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:17,800
Speaker 3: a real emotion. You know, it isn't like a reason

1019
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 3: to necessarily react the way that you're reacting. The reason

1020
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 3: that you're reacting that way is because you want to

1021
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 3: make the other.

1022
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: Persons to meet.

1023
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 2: Yep, I a thousand percent agree.

1024
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 3: And you could you could very much have like a

1025
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 3: similar outcome in letting them know how you feel by

1026
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:36,879
Speaker 3: just using your words and not raising your voice.

1027
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 1: And I'm younger, one hundred thousand percent agreed.

1028
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,799
Speaker 3: But do you think that that will actually make the

1029
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 3: person respect you?

1030
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 1: Though?

1031
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 2: I think that a person is gonna respect you when

1032
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 2: you communicate properly. I think I have a better chance

1033
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 2: of a person respecting me when I'm talking to them

1034
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 2: like this versus being the owners rah rah rash it.

1035
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 3: But I think that's why people do it though, because

1036
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 3: they think, like, if I'm on that rah rah rashi

1037
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 3: and you gonna feel me and you're gonna respect.

1038
00:44:59,880 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 2: No, that's gonna make a nigga be like this bitch tripping.

1039
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 2: Let me go to my other bitch. I'm gonna tell

1040
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 2: y'all the other day, my nigga made me mad. I

1041
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 2: was so mad, and I was like, see, I was

1042
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 2: you know that old that old lex Amos came out

1043
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 2: and I said, I said, you know what. I said, Hey, babe,

1044
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:15,359
Speaker 2: I need to hang up the phone for a minute

1045
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna call you back. So I hung up

1046
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 2: the phone, I did my little exercise at my therapist

1047
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 2: sold me to do, and I called him back and

1048
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 2: we had a great conversation.

1049
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: Did you tell him what you was upset about us?

1050
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 2: Yes? Literally, it was like the way when we have

1051
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 2: disagreements is like it's very strange for me because I'm like, okay,

1052
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 2: I can do this, Like okay, you know, thank you

1053
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 2: tip for my cloup. Because I'm like, because I was

1054
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:41,399
Speaker 2: about to go in, I'm like, ooh, this nigga got me. Oh,

1055
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 2: I was finna go in. I was practicing what I'm

1056
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 2: finna say. I'm like, yeah, he finna feel me. He's

1057
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 2: finn feel this. And I was like, you know what,

1058
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 2: let me not do this. Let me not and I

1059
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 2: was like, hey, let me call you back. I called

1060
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 2: myself down. I called him back and it was good

1061
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 2: and I'm like, Okay, I can do this because I

1062
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,399
Speaker 2: can't control him. I can't control anybody. I can only

1063
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 2: control myself. And one thing that I'm learning as well

1064
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:08,760
Speaker 2: is You're going to be depressed, miserable, hate everything around

1065
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 2: you if you continuously try to control other people. I

1066
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:16,320
Speaker 2: cannot make Drea cannot make me happy. My man can't

1067
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 2: make me happy, my sister can't make me happy. They

1068
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 2: can contribute to that, but I have to choose to

1069
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 2: wake up and be happy and how. I can't control

1070
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 2: what y'all do. I can only control how I react

1071
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 2: at moving forward, you know, or respond. So we got

1072
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 2: a off topic again.

1073
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was asking you about anger.

1074
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 2: But yeah, I do feel like it's not a representative.

1075
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 2: It's just a side of me that it's there. But

1076
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 2: if you're a true friend, you're not even gonna bring

1077
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 2: You don't bring out that side of me. I used

1078
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:46,479
Speaker 2: to be going off on my friends all the time.

1079
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 1: You don't bring like really bro.

1080
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 2: Me and my friend Lindsey from high school, we used

1081
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 2: to get in bad fights. We actually got in a

1082
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:53,840
Speaker 2: fist fight before.

1083
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 3: But that's different, though, friend, Because you talking now, you're

1084
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 3: talking about like high school and stuff. I think too

1085
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:01,760
Speaker 3: that has a lot to do with you just maturing

1086
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 3: and be coming in the door.

1087
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:03,879
Speaker 1: Yeah that is true.

1088
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 3: But the whole time I've known you, I've never really

1089
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,760
Speaker 3: known you to like spaz on your friends.

1090
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 2: No, I spas on my friends before. One of my

1091
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:15,720
Speaker 2: old friends I used to be cool with. We spas

1092
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 2: on each other before a few times. Actually it was

1093
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:21,400
Speaker 2: like two friends up. But they just used to bring.

1094
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 1: That bring it out of you.

1095
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 3: And I definitely think different people bring different sides out

1096
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 3: of you.

1097
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: But I also do.

1098
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 3: Feel like you don't even gotta be aside because getting

1099
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:34,320
Speaker 3: so angry to the point that you feel like you

1100
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 3: gotta spas on people that you letting somebody control your

1101
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 3: ners get facts.

1102
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:39,719
Speaker 1: And I be.

1103
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 3: Feeling like that's something that I've had to work on

1104
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 3: other years too, because one thing about me, I'm a

1105
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 3: spas on everybody friend, nigga, mama, this, bard of this,

1106
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 3: God damn it, everybody can it everybody. But it's like,

1107
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 3: now that I'm older, I don't really be going off

1108
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 3: on people like that for real, y'all.

1109
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 1: I really don't.

1110
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:07,399
Speaker 2: Like I just knew Yill, yeah, I know to bother

1111
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 2: you be like Lex, this ain't need and we talk

1112
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 2: about you be like mm hm, I'm like okay, friend,

1113
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, and then we move on and that'd be it.

1114
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 2: The all me would have been, like you beach and

1115
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 2: you beach, you beach, you beat and you threw my

1116
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 2: wig out the window.

1117
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 1: I didn't think, y'all we got the window. It's actually

1118
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 1: still in that box.

1119
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god, we're we're not talking about this wig

1120
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 2: no more.

1121
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 3: I told you I'm keeping that wig forever because when

1122
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 3: we get real, real rich, it's successful.

1123
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 1: I'm an auctionel that.

1124
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 2: Crusty, dusty ass.

1125
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 1: Week that's what you talking to, tell you? Emmy nominated

1126
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 1: lix he.

1127
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 2: Now, that's what I'm talking about.

1128
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 1: The hall on eBay.

1129
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 2: Okay, listen, So back to the topic at hand. It's

1130
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 2: very to me personally, I believe it's very difficult to

1131
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 2: differentiate love and infatuation because I see a lot of stories,

1132
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 2: Like I'm sorry, I do believe in love. Love is

1133
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 2: very real to me. A lot of people be like, oh,

1134
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:00,720
Speaker 2: love isn't real. It's just a temporary feeling. What because

1135
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,720
Speaker 2: when you love anybody, it's not gonna be there forever

1136
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 2: because people die, people move away. But I'm like, I

1137
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 2: don't care if somebody dies, Like I still look, I'm

1138
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 2: not gonna just stop loving my mom because she's not here.

1139
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: No, that don't make no sense. Love is very real.

1140
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 2: But I think the reason that it's hard for people

1141
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 2: to explain what love is because love looks different for everybody,

1142
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 2: Like you can't think about this, y'all. You can explain everything.

1143
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 2: Everything is explainable. I can explain what this hair is

1144
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 2: made out of. I can explain what my skin is

1145
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 2: made out of. I can explain what this paper is

1146
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 2: made out of. You can explain space, you can explain time.

1147
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 2: Love is the only thing that we really cannot You

1148
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 2: can explain what anger is, what sadness means. Love is

1149
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 2: the only like emotion or thing in this world that

1150
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:48,359
Speaker 2: we really we can't really explain it.

1151
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: It looks different for everybody.

1152
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 2: So yes, love is hard to differentiate between infatuation because hey,

1153
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 2: sometimes you go on the first day and you might

1154
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 2: leave home and be like, man, I really I think

1155
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 2: I love this nigga, and y'all may be together forever.

1156
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: You see stories like that A lot that is true.

1157
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 4: Now.

1158
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:08,799
Speaker 2: On the other hand, it does happen where you're like, oh,

1159
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:10,759
Speaker 2: I think I love this nigga. That don't work out.

1160
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 2: But I don't think that should stop you from believing that, Like, yeah,

1161
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 2: you can meet somebody like love at first sight.

1162
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: I truly believe that it can happen for some people.

1163
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 3: I think it's infatuation that turned into love.

1164
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, for sure.

1165
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 3: Like you said, like, I don't think that you love

1166
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 3: somebody the day that you meet.

1167
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 2: Them, well, well, let me not say like get deep

1168
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:32,439
Speaker 2: in love.

1169
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that you like them.

1170
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 3: I think that you're infatuated, and then I think over

1171
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 3: time it turns into love.

1172
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 1: That's why a lot of.

1173
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 3: The time you hear those stories about people who meet

1174
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 3: each other and they be like, oh my god, I

1175
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 3: just knew this was the one, and then they end

1176
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 3: up staying together. But I don't necessarily think that it's

1177
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 3: because to me, the first day you meet somebody, you

1178
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,840
Speaker 3: don't know the ins and outs of that person.

1179
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 1: But when I say love somebody.

1180
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 3: Until you can accept them one hundred percent, are Yeah,

1181
00:50:58,880 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 3: I agree.

1182
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:02,720
Speaker 2: But I do. I think that you can be talking

1183
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 2: to somebody for like, if you talk to somebody for like,

1184
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 2: say like y'all only been together for like two months,

1185
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 2: and you and this person spent a lot of time together,

1186
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 2: y'all are talking a lot. Even on my last relationship

1187
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 2: I was in up now, I know it was more

1188
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:21,320
Speaker 2: infatuation and it wasn't real love. But I was able

1189
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 2: to recognize my feelings and live in that moment, and

1190
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 2: I realized was I in love with him?

1191
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 1: No? But did I have love for him? Absolutely?

1192
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 2: Like I had love for that person, you know, like

1193
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 2: the evatuation turned into love, but we weren't in love.

1194
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 2: So that's what I mean. Like, I do believe like

1195
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 2: you can be with somebody for a month or two.

1196
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 2: I'm not saying you gotta be deep in love, but

1197
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 2: I like, damn, I got love with this nigga, Like

1198
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 2: I really you know, Like I'm not saying we're gonna

1199
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:45,720
Speaker 2: be like I love you. I love you too, babe,

1200
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 2: But it's like, yeah, you can we can recognize. To me,

1201
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,959
Speaker 2: love is not love is deep, but love can also

1202
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:54,439
Speaker 2: be very on the surface level. Like I love things

1203
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 2: about you. I love to spend time with you. I

1204
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 2: love to be around you because it makes me feel good.

1205
00:51:58,440 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1206
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 3: Love is a Yeah, it's a big it's a large

1207
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 3: stre but I also think, yeah, it's the difference between

1208
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 3: being in love with somebody though in having love for people,

1209
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 3: I feel like I have love for a lot of people.

1210
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, have not been in love with a lot of right,

1211
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 1: and I can agree with that.

1212
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 2: I can honestly say, like I always say this, I've

1213
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 2: loved a lot of people. But I can say I

1214
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 2: have been in love twice in my life, like in love.

1215
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 2: You know, I always say you fall in love three times,

1216
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 2: maybe like the first love, the like the big heartbreak,

1217
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 2: and then like your final life. Yeah, I'm on my

1218
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 2: third one.

1219
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 1: I got to my last shot, third strike. I'm off

1220
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: my third strike. So let us know what y'all think.

1221
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 2: Is it difficult to differentiate love and infatuation?

1222
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:48,919
Speaker 1: That's actually an interesting topic. That is okay, y'all, It's

1223
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 1: time to get into the bow bow bow bow. So

1224
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 1: for today, I am the bad topic.

1225
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 2: We haven't done this in a while, and I love

1226
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 2: doing this because I always feel like I learn cool things.

1227
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 2: So we're gonna do random sex facts today.

1228
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 1: I love me a little random sex man.

1229
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 2: I feel like I'll be finding out interesting things. Okay,

1230
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 2: so go ahead read a few Forest drew.

1231
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 3: Okay, So the first sex fact, and I thought this

1232
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 3: was very interesting. He said, women who went to college

1233
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 3: are more likely to enjoy receiving and giving oral sex.

1234
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 2: And I wonder why, maybe because like you're always on

1235
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 2: the go, so you just need a quick lick lick

1236
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:37,960
Speaker 2: before you go to class, Like, hey, can I borrow.

1237
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: Your skin, Trine, It's gonna help me with my taste.

1238
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 1: A little head, little head, little pretest head they make up.

1239
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like you don't have I

1240
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 2: just look at it like you don't have a lot

1241
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:46,839
Speaker 2: of time.

1242
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 1: Like in college, I was very busy. I was busy,

1243
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: like between like my extracurricular activities actually going to school work.

1244
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't have time for a full blown session.

1245
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 1: Now no, and I can see.

1246
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 3: How do you know they could keep you, that could

1247
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 3: keep you a little stress. You know you were releasing

1248
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 3: some endorsement.

1249
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't suck a little dig on the way

1250
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 2: to lunch.

1251
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 1: On the way to lane. Yeah, like I'll stopped by.

1252
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:10,000
Speaker 2: Real quick, give your little head before I eat my

1253
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:10,760
Speaker 2: tuna sandwich.

1254
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 1: Not the I will hope. I will hope before sucking

1255
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 1: old dick after the juicy crab. Though, Oh I don't

1256
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: be doing that either, because you be it's like to me,

1257
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: after you eat juicy crab. Maybe it's just me, but

1258
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 1: like I be she Oh my god, it's sad. You

1259
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: could still taste it for like hours later.

1260
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:30,359
Speaker 2: Remember that time abou ate juicy crab before I came

1261
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 2: here and I kept burping garlic.

1262
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: You was so mad because I don't know, we just

1263
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 1: do something and it just be stuck in trying to escape.

1264
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:38,319
Speaker 2: You look so mad.

1265
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 1: You was like land because it was sucking.

1266
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love.

1267
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 2: Me some garlic and his baby. Okay, I thought this

1268
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 2: fact was interesting. Married people are more likely to masturbate

1269
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:52,880
Speaker 2: than people living alone.

1270
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 1: Now that's crazy because the.

1271
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 2: Way I be beating my shit up, if you masturbates

1272
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 2: more than me, you are sick.

1273
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 3: What's that post said? I know your ghosts be mad.

1274
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:03,839
Speaker 3: I know they be mad.

1275
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:08,839
Speaker 1: They'd be like, fuck, I'm scared of bitch. I'll be

1276
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: scared of him. Boo. Here's here we go again. Oh

1277
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: it's a hunter house in there. All right, But now

1278
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:21,360
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1279
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:24,320
Speaker 3: I think that is crazy because I just would assown

1280
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 3: that married people have six like often.

1281
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 1: Well, that ain't necessarily true either.

1282
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,720
Speaker 2: Well. I saw there's this show on Showtime. It's called

1283
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:37,399
Speaker 2: Couples Therapy. It is so interesting, y'all. It's like they

1284
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 2: show actual couples therapy and it's just really good because

1285
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 2: you see the different things that people go through and

1286
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:45,839
Speaker 2: how we all kind of low key have the same

1287
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 2: problems and relationships. But it was this one couple. This guy,

1288
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 2: he was literally like, I just don't want to have

1289
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 2: He was like, I love my wife. It's not like

1290
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:54,920
Speaker 2: I'm not attracted to her.

1291
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 1: He was like, but I would just.

1292
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,840
Speaker 2: Rather go master Like he would literally get home from work,

1293
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 2: go take a shower, masturbate, eat dinner, and go to bed.

1294
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:05,319
Speaker 2: He just like did not want to have sex. He

1295
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 2: was horny, obviously, because if you're beating your meat, you're

1296
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 2: a horny.

1297
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1298
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 2: He was just something about it, like he just didn't

1299
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 2: want to have sex with her. He They just could

1300
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 2: not pinpoint what it was.

1301
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:18,040
Speaker 3: Maybe he just wasn't really like that physically attracted, but he.

1302
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 2: Said that wasn't it. But you know what, I think

1303
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 2: sometimes and I can't speak for married people because I'm

1304
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 2: not married, obviously, but I think sometimes people get tired

1305
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 2: of having sex with the same person. And I don't know,

1306
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 2: I enjoy having sex with the same person, Like I

1307
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 2: actually like like to have sex with one person because

1308
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:38,240
Speaker 2: that we can get real motherfucking nancy.

1309
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I guess it's partner.

1310
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:42,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, so, but I guess it does get different once

1311
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 2: you reach that twenty year mark and things like that,

1312
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:46,439
Speaker 2: things get a little different.

1313
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, I thought that fact was a little interesting.

1314
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:55,799
Speaker 3: What you got, Okay, So I have women get erections too,

1315
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:57,319
Speaker 3: So basically you got like.

1316
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 1: A micro penie.

1317
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:00,200
Speaker 2: I know that my klid always had.

1318
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:05,360
Speaker 1: We know, why would you say that we be seeing me?

1319
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 2: But I knew that too, because you know, when they

1320
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:11,840
Speaker 2: do the trans surgery, they basically like pull the clatorus

1321
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 2: out and make it into like a penis. But I've

1322
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 2: seen some women, like in different ports, like some women

1323
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:18,880
Speaker 2: be having a long claturist.

1324
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,000
Speaker 1: They do, you'd be like a little baby.

1325
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, so imagine that they actually operated on it and

1326
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 2: pulled it all the way.

1327
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: At I still think you be a baby.

1328
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 2: D I don't know. I've never seen one. If any

1329
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 2: of y'all are training, there no peatures. I want to

1330
00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 2: see what's wrong. They send us pictures of everything else.

1331
00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 2: I have seen some crazy shit. Send it deep. Yeah,

1332
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 2: if you're trends and you have a penis, like you're

1333
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 2: a trans man, I would like to see your penis.

1334
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 2: I'm not kidding. So if y'all could send us that, thanks,

1335
00:57:47,480 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 2: for research events, for research purposes only. Well, here's the

1336
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 2: penis y'all asked for.

1337
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay.

1338
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 2: So this is very interesting to me because I don't know,

1339
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 2: we've talked about this a little bit before. It says

1340
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 2: approximately seventy of people in the United States admit to

1341
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 2: fantasizing about this about group sex at some point in

1342
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 2: their life, and only more than fifty percent of people

1343
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 2: actually follow through. So a lot of y'all want to

1344
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 2: have group sex. So when I think of group sex,

1345
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 2: I'm not thinking of a threesome. I'm thinking of like

1346
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 2: a group of people. I mean, three is technically a

1347
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 2: group though, right, three is a group, So maybe they

1348
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,080
Speaker 2: do count threesomes as that.

1349
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 1: That's what I think. I think anything more than two

1350
00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: people that's a group.

1351
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that counts. It's crazy because on how Mainus

1352
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 2: the other day they were talking about threesomes and they

1353
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 2: were saying, like, if you have a threesome in the daytime,

1354
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 2: you're extremely horny.

1355
00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 1: I think if you have a threesome period, I agree.

1356
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 2: But I do feel like, if you on your lunch break,

1357
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 2: why are two people Like, why are y'all all in

1358
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 2: the vicinity fucking that's a little they all that's crazy

1359
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 2: like y'all supposed to be. It's supposed to be a

1360
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 2: I feel like threems are like a fun activity, like

1361
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 2: y'all been drinking. Y'all outside after the club type sheet.

1362
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 2: Why are y'all having three sims when the sun is

1363
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:19,919
Speaker 2: still out?

1364
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:22,240
Speaker 3: If you've ever had a three someome on your lunch break,

1365
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 3: please write us and send us your testimony.

1366
00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 1: Don't know, I want to know about it.

1367
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 2: I don't. You're horny as fuck and you need to

1368
00:59:30,080 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 2: be ja.

1369
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 1: So you never played with yourself during your lunch break?

1370
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 2: No, but you have.

1371
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 1: I sure need.

1372
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:36,400
Speaker 2: You need to be arrested.

1373
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: I definitely I couldn't wait for my break.

1374
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:44,800
Speaker 2: She was like, I'm gonna be an hour and a

1375
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:48,439
Speaker 2: half today.

1376
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 1: Definitely definitely placed that little lipstick.

1377
00:59:57,680 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 6: Person.

1378
00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: Nobody knew you A horrible person. Okay, I got one more?

1379
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 2: Okay, okay.

1380
01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 3: They're between five hundred and one thousand dicks per year

1381
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 3: due to auto erotic affixation.

1382
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 2: I believe that what's that guy's name? I wasn't killed,

1383
01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 2: but phyxiation my bad. He actually hung himself in the

1384
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 2: closet because he was like he used to like to

1385
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 2: hang hisself for like, oh, and he died and he

1386
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 2: ended up actually really hanging.

1387
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 3: Himself damn while he was crazy. Bro, I would be

1388
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 3: so embarrassed. I get him, though, because I like to

1389
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:27,120
Speaker 3: get choked.

1390
01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 1: A little bit.

1391
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:30,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but imagine like you like niggas, find your body

1392
01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 2: with a butt plug and that motherfucker and the.

1393
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:39,920
Speaker 1: Lights still, the music in the background, wow, the.

1394
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:47,800
Speaker 2: Genuine playing in the background, the wild bottles on the floor,

1395
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 2: and you dead. But because you just busting menut.

1396
01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 1: Oh, life is crazy. Now, that's crazy. Bro. If I

1397
01:00:58,120 --> 01:00:59,400
Speaker 1: ain't sexy's crazy.

1398
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 2: If I have my butt plugging, bro, just leave it in,

1399
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 2: Just leave it in, just bear me with it.

1400
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 1: You better take it out?

1401
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 2: What for word?

1402
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 1: What do you mean for wa get out for what?

1403
01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 3: I don't want to be buried with a butt bro

1404
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 3: in my booty hall Like I.

1405
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 2: Don't want my family to know. I don't want the.

1406
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 1: Autopsy.

1407
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 2: I don't need all that.

1408
01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 3: But I always be wondering out like what man.

1409
01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 1: Like when you die, like when you go to heaven?

1410
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 2: Like do you go as he's like, I'll be wondering it.

1411
01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 2: So like, imagine you died with.

1412
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 1: A butt plug in your booty.

1413
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 6: Like naked? Do you know I supposed to be up here?

1414
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 2: All?

1415
01:01:57,280 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 1: For real? I really do be wondering it, like you

1416
01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: do you do you come as he is?

1417
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 2: I don't know, I get I think I always imagine

1418
01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 2: they have like white robes on or something, right.

1419
01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 3: Oh like the yeah, But I just always wonder, like,

1420
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 3: however you look when you die?

1421
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 1: Is that like how you're gonna look for eternity? Well?

1422
01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 1: I heard that too, like do we not have? Are

1423
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 1: we just little souls floating around? And you don't look like?

1424
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 2: I don't like that. I need to see who talking

1425
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 2: to me? Bitch? Because who is you? Baby? I'm beefed

1426
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 2: up with something like it's some of my ops up there, bitch.

1427
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 1: I don't want my kids mommy girl fucked. You are stupidest.

1428
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 2: I don't need to be talking to my ops because hey,

1429
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:43,480
Speaker 2: this beef forever, bitch stupid?

1430
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:47,520
Speaker 1: So why about why?

1431
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 3: I actually know somebody who like her boyfriend died while

1432
01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 3: they was fucking on top of her.

1433
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 1: He had like a hard and had Yeah what does

1434
01:02:56,120 --> 01:03:00,920
Speaker 1: she do? Laid there like he was a big nigga.

1435
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 2: She couldn't move. How did he she know he was done?

1436
01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:06,360
Speaker 2: Or she thought he was busting nut.

1437
01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 1: I think that.

1438
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:08,919
Speaker 2: Those noises might sound or something.

1439
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think she thought that he was bussing in

1440
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 3: that and then he just collapsed, so she probably thought

1441
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 3: he was so she probably thought he was tired, so

1442
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:20,320
Speaker 3: she feelized that Nigga wasn't breathing. She probably thought too,

1443
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 3: it's the diephol.

1444
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 1: She thought. She at this nigga sleeping hard girl. Yes,

1445
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: so she had to call the ambulances. It's nice.

1446
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 3: She had to call an ambulance though, and then they

1447
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:38,560
Speaker 3: had to come and get him off of her because he.

1448
01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 1: Was like too big. She couldn't move him, so she

1449
01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 1: was stuck under him.

1450
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 3: Yes, she was stuck under him for like a good

1451
01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:49,000
Speaker 3: thirty minutie. Oh my god, what's his dramatic traumatic?

1452
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: Huh?

1453
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 2: Probably I would have been kissing on him one last time.

1454
01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: All right, you are?

1455
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:01,959
Speaker 3: But ass like, I'm like, that shit is so crazy.

1456
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 3: I don't know what I would do with something like.

1457
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 1: That happened to me.

1458
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:06,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a little traumatizing because if he was still

1459
01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:08,160
Speaker 2: inside of her, you got like a deaddy in you.

1460
01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:09,640
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1461
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:12,720
Speaker 2: That's a good bucket list though, A little.

1462
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:13,960
Speaker 1: Ghost it girl.

1463
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 2: Street. Okay, so those are our sex facts today, If

1464
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:22,400
Speaker 2: y'all have any random sex facts that y'a would like to.

1465
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 1: Share with us, I to play with these ladies.

1466
01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 2: We love it. So now it's time to get into.

1467
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 1: Dubble dub bow Bow Bow bow. Okay, y'all.

1468
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 2: So y'all know I dropped my sex playlist, so I'm

1469
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 2: just still doing. I love a good sex playlist, you

1470
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 2: freaking so. One of my songs on the sex playlist

1471
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 2: is called can You by Carrie. I just love a

1472
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 2: good sex song Carrie K A R R. I so yeah,

1473
01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 2: it's really good song. I feel like, I think we

1474
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 2: just need to get back to love making. People don't

1475
01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:08,560
Speaker 2: make love to music no more. They really don't. Everybody

1476
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:10,000
Speaker 2: just get in there. They want to get in and

1477
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 2: get out. We need to take our time. And I

1478
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 2: know that people talking about, oh, bring R and B

1479
01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 2: back and all this stuff because like we need to

1480
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 2: bring back love songs. I agree, but I think we

1481
01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 2: need to make start making sensual sex songs again. This

1482
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 2: is a very like my playlist is a very sensual.

1483
01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 1: It's a it's a love making playlist. It's not a playlist.

1484
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 2: It's like I'm finena make love to my lady Corn,

1485
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 2: you feel me.

1486
01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 1: What you got I have? I don't give a fuck?

1487
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 1: By T Chris Brown? What's that song? I like that

1488
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:48,000
Speaker 1: song too? And you know I love T. Grisly. Yes,

1489
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:53,240
Speaker 1: did you see his new video? Is dancing his ass?

1490
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,480
Speaker 2: Oh no, that nigga is getting his Chris Brown on

1491
01:05:55,560 --> 01:06:00,920
Speaker 2: for real? They didn't sing, I had no he ate

1492
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 2: it up seriously.

1493
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:03,920
Speaker 1: I was like, what they have him doing?

1494
01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 2: Full blown choreography.

1495
01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 1: Bro, we needs to have him come on the shower.

1496
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:09,920
Speaker 2: Literally, he was eating, he looked good, dancing like he

1497
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:12,040
Speaker 2: didn't look And That's what I'm talking about.

1498
01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 1: We need to bring back entertainers.

1499
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 2: I want to be entertained, like I love the fact

1500
01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:18,640
Speaker 2: that offset me dancing on stage. We need to bring

1501
01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 2: back up one to two, a eight count, a boom cat.

1502
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 1: Y'all want to just see him?

1503
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:25,479
Speaker 2: No, I'm tired of But that's what Remember little baby

1504
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 2: when he revamped his show and he brought tayon the

1505
01:06:27,600 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 2: Taylor on, he was doing a little boom cac himself.

1506
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:32,200
Speaker 1: What about right wave road wave?

1507
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 2: He'd be jumping off the house.

1508
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:36,880
Speaker 1: He a giving us. But that's a little one too.

1509
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:39,960
Speaker 1: I was entertained the first time I seen it, and

1510
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:46,840
Speaker 1: if I would have been there in person like rock now,

1511
01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 1: that's entertaining. That's what you call some fucking entertainments to

1512
01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 1: wave road waves.

1513
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 2: I'm not like I don't listen to his music all

1514
01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 2: the time. I'm already sad enough as it is. Bitch

1515
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:03,160
Speaker 2: said that that just took me over the edge.

1516
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 1: That he took him too. That was a production. He

1517
01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:11,000
Speaker 1: went over the edge. Bro get your ass off that

1518
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:12,440
Speaker 1: goddamn house, my nigga.

1519
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 3: That ship that is, but that's entertained that it really is.

1520
01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:18,600
Speaker 3: I really was not trying to be funny. Like if

1521
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 3: I would have went to a concert and he did that,

1522
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 3: I was not expected it. I would have been thoroughly

1523
01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:23,840
Speaker 3: in the tag nog.

1524
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:26,479
Speaker 2: That ship is crazy. But I do think like people

1525
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 2: need to be stop being afraid to dance and entertain

1526
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:32,400
Speaker 2: on stage everybody, not everybody is meant to just stand

1527
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:34,600
Speaker 2: there with some mic I just you know, give a

1528
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 2: performance like, no, we want to be entertained, like could

1529
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 2: do a little hipsway a little who's the rapper that

1530
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 2: used to that Nelly used to dance? He did, Yes,

1531
01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:44,919
Speaker 2: I went to Nelly concert. He used to have Nelly

1532
01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 2: used to have some fire dancers too. He but he

1533
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 2: used to Yes, he used to be like doing a

1534
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:52,120
Speaker 2: little not like breaking it down, but hit a little

1535
01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:53,439
Speaker 2: one too. You know what I'm saying.

1536
01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 1: T Paint be dancing. No, T Pain do be this?

1537
01:07:56,360 --> 01:08:01,960
Speaker 1: He be popping? Yeo he do he be heating it? Yeah?

1538
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:03,920
Speaker 1: Like EMC hammer that.

1539
01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 2: Brother was dancing.

1540
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:05,520
Speaker 1: Okay.

1541
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 2: Niggas used to say they would pass out of his

1542
01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:10,720
Speaker 2: rehearsal straight up a poem set.

1543
01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 1: I'm not about to play with you.

1544
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:14,960
Speaker 2: He was fine in that video.

1545
01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 1: He was fine. Theday he was okay. So those are

1546
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 1: our bops of the week.

1547
01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 2: Do you have an item of the week?

1548
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:23,080
Speaker 1: I do, but I lift you.

1549
01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:25,160
Speaker 2: Oh it's okay because I want to talk about my item.

1550
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:26,639
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So obviously y'all.

1551
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Speaker 2: I got a new hairstyle this week, and I have

1552
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Speaker 2: to shout out my girl because I have been going

1553
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 2: to her for the longest to get my hair done.

1554
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:36,879
Speaker 2: She's super professional. And I know one thing. In Atlanta,

1555
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Speaker 2: a lot of times people have problems going to their

1556
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Speaker 2: hairstyles because they have all these rules and they don't

1557
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Speaker 2: even want to wash your hair. They don't want to

1558
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Speaker 2: do nothing. They just want you. They want you to

1559
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Speaker 2: show up ready to go, damn with your hair already braided.

1560
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:51,599
Speaker 2: So I have been going to Rich Look Hair since

1561
01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:54,439
Speaker 2: like twenty seventeen, twenty eighteen. She's the only person I

1562
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:57,360
Speaker 2: let do my sow INDs, you know, all that good stuff.

1563
01:08:57,400 --> 01:09:00,559
Speaker 2: So I actually got some hair, some new hair from her.

1564
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:04,599
Speaker 2: It's called the I think it's the luxe hair looks curl,

1565
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 2: but this is some new hair she has, and y'all,

1566
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 2: it is so easy to manage.

1567
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 1: Because it's pretty. It looks like like a deep way.

1568
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:13,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like it's really fucking pretty and it's so

1569
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,000
Speaker 2: easy to manage. She's like, I'm not gonna lie. The

1570
01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:16,679
Speaker 2: other night, I fell asleep with I'll put my little

1571
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:18,519
Speaker 2: bonnet on and doing a little two strand twist out.

1572
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:20,000
Speaker 2: And y'all know how curly hair can get. But I

1573
01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:22,680
Speaker 2: woke up and it was still soft, like I can

1574
01:09:22,800 --> 01:09:24,519
Speaker 2: run my fingers through it. All I gotta do is

1575
01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:27,479
Speaker 2: put water on it, a little moos, a little bio oil,

1576
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:29,760
Speaker 2: and I'll be out the door. Because I feel like

1577
01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 2: with straight hair, you know you gotta curl it every day.

1578
01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 2: You gotta do this, are you'd be looking crazy And

1579
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 2: sometimes curly hair can be high maintenance too, because you

1580
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:39,840
Speaker 2: gotta brush it and do all this. But this hair

1581
01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:42,760
Speaker 2: is so soft and it's super manageable, so y'all make

1582
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:45,679
Speaker 2: sure y'all hit up Rich Look Hair. It's at Rich

1583
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:48,720
Speaker 2: Look Hair on Instagram. Her name is Dedie. She does

1584
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Speaker 2: fire soew ins and she's actually licensed, so she gonna

1585
01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 2: wash your hair, do all that stuff. Like I literally

1586
01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 2: be showing it. I will literally take my braids out

1587
01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 2: and just show up to d D. I'm like, girl,

1588
01:09:57,720 --> 01:09:58,960
Speaker 2: help me out, you my girl, I got you.

1589
01:09:59,200 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 3: That's the only type of hair stylist I like, though,

1590
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 3: y'all don't want to have to show up and already.

1591
01:10:03,520 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 1: Have done all the work, all the work, like what

1592
01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:07,360
Speaker 1: are you here for? What am I paying?

1593
01:10:07,960 --> 01:10:09,559
Speaker 2: Why am I paying you? And that's another thing too,

1594
01:10:09,680 --> 01:10:13,679
Speaker 2: like her prices are not like crazy, Like I don't

1595
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 2: like people that they want to charge you twenty dollars

1596
01:10:16,520 --> 01:10:20,360
Speaker 2: for a curl for a cut, like why are you at?

1597
01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:23,160
Speaker 2: It should all be included together. I think that is

1598
01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:27,040
Speaker 2: so weird when people do their their websites like priceless.

1599
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:28,839
Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I'm saying, So shout.

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Speaker 1: Out to d D.

1601
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1602
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Speaker 2: right in the call, and I got some really good

1603
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1604
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Speaker 3: So now it's time to get into our favorite segment

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Speaker 3: of the week, which is pour your heart out. So

1624
01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:39,960
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1629
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Speaker 3: y'all some crazy shit over the years.

1630
01:11:55,760 --> 01:12:00,920
Speaker 1: So yes, let's get into question number one. Hey, Andre

1631
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:02,280
Speaker 1: and the call with three e's.

1632
01:12:02,840 --> 01:12:05,160
Speaker 3: This might be long, but I need some advice on

1633
01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:07,800
Speaker 3: traveling by myself. I don't have a boo and my

1634
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 3: friends are never travel ready, but I love being outside

1635
01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:13,479
Speaker 3: and exploring new places that I have never been. My

1636
01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:16,760
Speaker 3: only issue is traveling far decencies by myself. I really

1637
01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 3: want to see most of the world's playgrounds, but I

1638
01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:21,360
Speaker 3: don't know. I feel like traveling by myself makes me

1639
01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:24,120
Speaker 3: such an easy target to get kidnapped or worse. Not

1640
01:12:24,280 --> 01:12:27,240
Speaker 3: to make it dark, but realistically, anything can happen. I

1641
01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:29,800
Speaker 3: just graduated from graduate school and I have a pretty

1642
01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 3: good job, and so as y'all can imagine, I'm more

1643
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:34,120
Speaker 3: than ready to start taking flights.

1644
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:36,880
Speaker 1: Laughing my ass off, what should I do? Love y'all?

1645
01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:39,960
Speaker 2: That apple was juicy.

1646
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:42,559
Speaker 1: It was so good. Time I need another one.

1647
01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:46,720
Speaker 2: So let me just say this. I haven't traveled alone yet.

1648
01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:49,400
Speaker 2: That's something that's actually on my list, so I don't

1649
01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 2: I can't properly answer this for you. I'm sorry because

1650
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:54,720
Speaker 2: I've never traveled alone, because that's something I fear as well.

1651
01:12:55,520 --> 01:12:58,679
Speaker 2: I would say, damn, I wish I don't follow her anymore.

1652
01:13:00,280 --> 01:13:02,839
Speaker 2: Your best bet is to find people like on TikTok

1653
01:13:02,880 --> 01:13:05,599
Speaker 2: and social media that travel alone because they give you tips.

1654
01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:08,160
Speaker 2: I don't feel comfortable giving you tips to tell you

1655
01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:10,479
Speaker 2: how because every time I travel, I travel with Killer,

1656
01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:13,360
Speaker 2: I'm with Drea, I'm always with someone. I'm never going

1657
01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 2: on a trip alone. So I will say your best

1658
01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 2: bet is to follow people and engage with people who

1659
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 2: travel alone more so you can get tips from them

1660
01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:25,200
Speaker 2: so they can show you you know exactly what to

1661
01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 2: do and how to stay safe and things like that.

1662
01:13:27,880 --> 01:13:31,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I've troubled by myself one time I went

1663
01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:33,240
Speaker 3: to Columbia by myself.

1664
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:36,960
Speaker 2: I did when I got my BBL. But I'm going

1665
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:37,800
Speaker 2: to count that well.

1666
01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:40,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you was out of commission though, like you

1667
01:13:40,360 --> 01:13:43,360
Speaker 3: couldn't do nothing, so you weren't really going nowhere. But

1668
01:13:44,280 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 3: when I went to Columbia to get my teeth done,

1669
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:48,479
Speaker 3: I was there for like three or four days, and

1670
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:51,040
Speaker 3: I was by myself, and like I was like walking around,

1671
01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:53,280
Speaker 3: but I will stay. If you want trouble by yourself,

1672
01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 3: you have to stay in the tourist friendly area.

1673
01:13:56,000 --> 01:13:56,760
Speaker 1: Like that's the key.

1674
01:13:57,080 --> 01:13:58,559
Speaker 3: It was a lot of different things that I could

1675
01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 3: have tried, indeed while I was out there, but I

1676
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:03,080
Speaker 3: chose to stay in the areas that were tourists friendly.

1677
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:05,720
Speaker 3: So like I stayed, you know, not that far from

1678
01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:08,600
Speaker 3: my hotel and stuff. And I think it's cool, Like

1679
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:10,759
Speaker 3: I think it's good to trouble by yourself. I actually

1680
01:14:10,800 --> 01:14:13,120
Speaker 3: want to do more solo trips. That's not for like,

1681
01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:15,360
Speaker 3: you know, because obviously I was getting my teeth done,

1682
01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:17,479
Speaker 3: so I didn't really get to enjoy myself that much

1683
01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:20,040
Speaker 3: because it wasn't so much of a leisure trip. But

1684
01:14:21,120 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 3: I definitely want to start going on more trips by

1685
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:25,120
Speaker 3: myself this year. Why are you looking like that?

1686
01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:29,760
Speaker 1: It is I'm usually a green apple type of girl. Really,

1687
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:33,599
Speaker 1: I like, is this honey crisp? I like honey apples.

1688
01:14:33,680 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 3: But yeah, but anyways, yeah, I definitely think it's not

1689
01:14:37,280 --> 01:14:40,200
Speaker 3: anything wrong with traveling by yourself. You just have to

1690
01:14:40,240 --> 01:14:42,479
Speaker 3: be smart, like girl, I wouldn't being like, of course,

1691
01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:44,280
Speaker 3: you want to talk to people and be nice and

1692
01:14:44,320 --> 01:14:46,120
Speaker 3: be friendly, because I was even talking to people when

1693
01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:47,479
Speaker 3: I was like at the mall and stuff when I

1694
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:51,040
Speaker 3: was in Columbia. But you just got to be smart

1695
01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:53,880
Speaker 3: about the conversations and don't be too friendly, you know,

1696
01:14:54,080 --> 01:14:57,280
Speaker 3: just use your discernment. If you got a good instinct

1697
01:14:57,280 --> 01:14:59,760
Speaker 3: about something, go with your good instinct. And I think

1698
01:14:59,800 --> 01:15:01,400
Speaker 3: you be straight and have a good time, because I

1699
01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:03,559
Speaker 3: know a few people who you know, have troubled by

1700
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:05,719
Speaker 3: themselves and they always have a good time.

1701
01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:10,120
Speaker 2: I me that was good advice, all right. Question number two, Hey,

1702
01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:12,400
Speaker 2: Dre and Lex. I'm actually new to you all, and

1703
01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:15,280
Speaker 2: I have been been watching y'all episodes. It's always good

1704
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:17,360
Speaker 2: last and great advice. So I was wondering if y'all

1705
01:15:17,360 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 2: could help me. I'm a twenty four year old female

1706
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:22,000
Speaker 2: and my daughter's dad is thirty one. We got together

1707
01:15:22,040 --> 01:15:24,240
Speaker 2: when I was twenty one. We recently broke up and

1708
01:15:24,320 --> 01:15:26,880
Speaker 2: we still live in the same apartment together. Some nights

1709
01:15:26,920 --> 01:15:28,920
Speaker 2: he doesn't come home and I would prefer for him

1710
01:15:28,960 --> 01:15:30,840
Speaker 2: to just move out if he won't be here every day.

1711
01:15:31,160 --> 01:15:32,960
Speaker 2: When I approach him about it, he just says he

1712
01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 2: doesn't have to come home every night because we aren't

1713
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 2: together anymore. I just want to know. Am I being

1714
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:40,000
Speaker 2: extra by thinking I'm being disrespected? Should I not feel

1715
01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 2: some type of way because we broke up? Thanks and events. Well,

1716
01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:50,720
Speaker 2: I'll say this technically, he's right technically, But if y'all

1717
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:54,240
Speaker 2: broke up and you feel uncomfortable, y'all need to go.

1718
01:15:54,320 --> 01:15:54,960
Speaker 1: Y'all separate ways.

1719
01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:56,200
Speaker 2: Y'all need to get out of the house if y'all

1720
01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:59,240
Speaker 2: aren't trying to work on yours relationship, because obviously, to me,

1721
01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:01,599
Speaker 2: if we're still living together and you outside and you're

1722
01:16:01,640 --> 01:16:04,880
Speaker 2: not coming home, we obviously not working on our relationship

1723
01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:07,560
Speaker 2: because you obviously doing your thing. Girl, let him. You

1724
01:16:07,640 --> 01:16:10,160
Speaker 2: cannot control people. Girl, let him do. Let that man go.

1725
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:12,560
Speaker 2: Stop caring about what he's doing, because you know what,

1726
01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 2: as soon as you stop caring, that's when niggas want

1727
01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:17,080
Speaker 2: to spend the block and act right. But he's already

1728
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:19,519
Speaker 2: disrespecting you. Because I feel like, even though we're not together,

1729
01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:23,360
Speaker 2: you can still be respectful of my feeling. Right, we

1730
01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:26,919
Speaker 2: have a child together, we're living together, it's all about respecting.

1731
01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:30,000
Speaker 2: He's showing you like he's being disrespectful to me, you

1732
01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:32,600
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Even though y'all aren't technically.

1733
01:16:32,240 --> 01:16:33,480
Speaker 1: Together, it's disrespectful.

1734
01:16:33,800 --> 01:16:34,519
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know.

1735
01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:37,320
Speaker 3: I don't really think it's disrespectful if they're not together, though,

1736
01:16:37,680 --> 01:16:40,280
Speaker 3: but if we're living together, and obviously it seems like

1737
01:16:40,320 --> 01:16:43,200
Speaker 3: it's afresh, like it's a fresh breakup. Yeah, I mean,

1738
01:16:43,280 --> 01:16:44,880
Speaker 3: but if you broke if you and a person I

1739
01:16:44,960 --> 01:16:47,280
Speaker 3: broke up, then to me, like y'all essentially roommates.

1740
01:16:47,320 --> 01:16:48,839
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, that's true.

1741
01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:50,760
Speaker 2: But it's easier if it's out of sight, out of mind.

1742
01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:52,840
Speaker 2: But I gotta hear you coming home at three am,

1743
01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:54,599
Speaker 2: or you not coming home.

1744
01:16:54,640 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 1: For like two three days. Obviously you probably would have

1745
01:16:57,080 --> 01:16:58,879
Speaker 1: been or something. I mean probably.

1746
01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:01,040
Speaker 3: But that's why I think when people break up, they

1747
01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:04,280
Speaker 3: shouldn't be living together. No more like why somebody need

1748
01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 3: to move out somebody you and y'all, either you and

1749
01:17:07,400 --> 01:17:10,320
Speaker 3: your baby or him somebody, But that's.

1750
01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:13,240
Speaker 1: Whut him and the baby?

1751
01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:17,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, why she and the baby gotta move out? Grown up?

1752
01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 1: Anyways, I feel like somebody gotta go, you know.

1753
01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:22,920
Speaker 3: And at the end of the day too, you didn't

1754
01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:25,400
Speaker 3: say what y'all financial situation is like if you know

1755
01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:27,479
Speaker 3: y'all are splitting rent or if he paying the rent.

1756
01:17:27,640 --> 01:17:29,080
Speaker 3: But you know a lot of the time when niggas

1757
01:17:29,120 --> 01:17:30,560
Speaker 3: be paying rent and they think they could just do

1758
01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:32,639
Speaker 3: what they want. So if he paying all of these,

1759
01:17:32,680 --> 01:17:34,759
Speaker 3: he probably just be feeling like, shit, we not together

1760
01:17:34,880 --> 01:17:37,080
Speaker 3: no more. I could do what I want, and I'm

1761
01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:39,600
Speaker 3: not saying it it's okay, but at the end of

1762
01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:43,720
Speaker 3: the day, y'all aren't together anymore. So if you feel disrespected,

1763
01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:45,280
Speaker 3: you feel like it's something that you can't deal with,

1764
01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 3: I would just eliminate myself from the situation, I agree,

1765
01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:51,639
Speaker 3: and just focused on co parenting and raising our child

1766
01:17:51,720 --> 01:17:52,680
Speaker 3: to get their stuff.

1767
01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:55,320
Speaker 2: Right because I feel like, and if you can't leave,

1768
01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:57,360
Speaker 2: if it's like a financial thing and y'all are splitting

1769
01:17:57,400 --> 01:17:59,840
Speaker 2: the bills, whatch I understand? Because life is expensive, right,

1770
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:06,720
Speaker 2: I would just you gotta focus and not let that

1771
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:09,200
Speaker 2: shit distract you. You gotta get over him, try not

1772
01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 2: to pay attention to it. Don't react because that's what essentially,

1773
01:18:12,479 --> 01:18:14,799
Speaker 2: that's kind of what men want. Sometimes they want a reaction.

1774
01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:16,600
Speaker 2: They want to see how far they can push you

1775
01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:19,559
Speaker 2: to the edge. So don't react, focus on your child,

1776
01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:22,080
Speaker 2: focus on you know, your job, whatever you have going on,

1777
01:18:22,600 --> 01:18:25,160
Speaker 2: and work on getting out of the situation, work on

1778
01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:28,400
Speaker 2: getting out of that apartment. I agree, all right, So

1779
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 2: anything else we have to add on. Oh, do we

1780
01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:33,679
Speaker 2: have a voicemail? All right, So y'all make sure y'all

1781
01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:35,840
Speaker 2: send us the voicemail. This can be Look, this is

1782
01:18:35,920 --> 01:18:38,840
Speaker 2: not the advice line, Okay, y'all are giving us, you know,

1783
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:41,439
Speaker 2: a good little review of the show. What y'all think

1784
01:18:41,479 --> 01:18:43,400
Speaker 2: about as things that we can add on, just a

1785
01:18:43,439 --> 01:18:45,679
Speaker 2: little things to you know, get stuff off your chest

1786
01:18:45,760 --> 01:18:46,240
Speaker 2: a little bit.

1787
01:18:46,400 --> 01:18:46,679
Speaker 1: Okay.

1788
01:18:47,320 --> 01:18:49,040
Speaker 2: So the number is going to be at the bottom

1789
01:18:49,080 --> 01:18:51,080
Speaker 2: of the screen. So y'all make sure y'all call in

1790
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:52,719
Speaker 2: and leave us a voicemail.

1791
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:57,200
Speaker 5: Okay, Hey, y'all, it's me. Y'all can't look at me

1792
01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:01,240
Speaker 5: on Instagram the nick okay anyway, But no, I'm mad

1793
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:03,320
Speaker 5: because I was messing with this dude. I had met him,

1794
01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:06,599
Speaker 5: like them all or whatever. It's been like three months, Maggie,

1795
01:19:06,640 --> 01:19:08,360
Speaker 5: three four months. He was chilling. We were on a

1796
01:19:08,400 --> 01:19:10,840
Speaker 5: few days, he was cool, just getting a loan. But

1797
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:14,040
Speaker 5: next thing I know, we stopped talking for a few days.

1798
01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:16,280
Speaker 5: I check in, like, okay, what's going on you?

1799
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:16,719
Speaker 2: Okay?

1800
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:19,000
Speaker 5: I need to take back saying he in jail.

1801
01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:21,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, he in jail? Oh okay.

1802
01:19:22,120 --> 01:19:24,960
Speaker 5: But then the next day I see here in my Instagram.

1803
01:19:25,560 --> 01:19:28,759
Speaker 5: I'm watching my story here and my Instagram story views,

1804
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:31,120
Speaker 5: so I'm like, is he in jail? Or is he

1805
01:19:31,240 --> 01:19:33,040
Speaker 5: just not trying to miss me no more? Because what's

1806
01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 5: going on? But yeah, like, I just feel like that's

1807
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:37,720
Speaker 5: so weird, because if you're not trying to mess me

1808
01:19:37,840 --> 01:19:41,120
Speaker 5: for real, say that, be it already and let me

1809
01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:46,160
Speaker 5: know bookie, because that's just the weird Bye bye girl.

1810
01:19:46,600 --> 01:19:51,360
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, but and he ain't said

1811
01:19:51,360 --> 01:19:53,439
Speaker 1: anything but about it.

1812
01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:55,040
Speaker 2: You shouldn't be wonet to fuck with a nigga that's

1813
01:19:55,080 --> 01:19:56,439
Speaker 2: going in and out of jail anyway.

1814
01:19:57,000 --> 01:19:58,640
Speaker 1: So that was your red flag. Did y'all get out

1815
01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:01,240
Speaker 1: of jail free card? He had a tik. I don't

1816
01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:04,600
Speaker 1: give a damn it to be doing all that.

1817
01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:08,640
Speaker 2: Ship we are. Yeah, she said she was. What did

1818
01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:09,040
Speaker 2: she said her?

1819
01:20:09,320 --> 01:20:10,880
Speaker 1: I don't think so, but she sound kind of you.

1820
01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:13,559
Speaker 2: Yeah she did sound young, but yeah, but we're trying

1821
01:20:13,560 --> 01:20:15,640
Speaker 2: to create good habits for the girls. We went through that,

1822
01:20:15,760 --> 01:20:17,639
Speaker 2: so the girls don't have to go through that, okay.

1823
01:20:17,840 --> 01:20:19,200
Speaker 1: So I don't know, Girl, I feel like it's a

1824
01:20:19,200 --> 01:20:20,479
Speaker 1: little bit about it. He could have been in jail.

1825
01:20:21,360 --> 01:20:23,000
Speaker 2: I've been to jail for one day and was out

1826
01:20:23,040 --> 01:20:26,960
Speaker 2: the next day watching people's story too, So I believe

1827
01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:27,640
Speaker 2: it I was.

1828
01:20:27,880 --> 01:20:28,280
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1829
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:29,800
Speaker 2: I remember you went to jail.

1830
01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:32,840
Speaker 3: We talked about these numerous times. I think they remember, dude,

1831
01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:34,719
Speaker 3: because I went to jail like three times.

1832
01:20:34,960 --> 01:20:37,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, But the last song was the worst time

1833
01:20:38,200 --> 01:20:40,680
Speaker 2: all times was the worst time because that last time

1834
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:41,959
Speaker 2: you actually had to stay overnight.

1835
01:20:42,360 --> 01:20:47,160
Speaker 1: I did have to stay overnight, locked up, y'all.

1836
01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:47,880
Speaker 2: I was in a hall.

1837
01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:49,200
Speaker 1: I was in a still.

1838
01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:51,839
Speaker 2: I have no blanket.

1839
01:20:51,880 --> 01:20:55,800
Speaker 1: I was sleeping on the concrete. I ain't going I

1840
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:58,600
Speaker 1: didn't even really go to sleep. I couldn't even go

1841
01:20:58,680 --> 01:21:01,080
Speaker 1: to sleep, uncomfortable.

1842
01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:02,240
Speaker 2: That was wild.

1843
01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:06,200
Speaker 1: It was crazy as fuck. Like it was so crazy.

1844
01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:07,720
Speaker 1: I just can't believe that that has to be.

1845
01:21:07,880 --> 01:21:10,200
Speaker 2: But back to the girl, I will say this to me,

1846
01:21:10,439 --> 01:21:12,519
Speaker 2: three or four months, when you're dealing with somebody, it's

1847
01:21:12,520 --> 01:21:15,080
Speaker 2: still too early to be unsure about how somebody feels

1848
01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:18,040
Speaker 2: about you. You should not like y'all still supposed to

1849
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:21,160
Speaker 2: be in the honeymoon stage. So if you only three

1850
01:21:21,280 --> 01:21:24,479
Speaker 2: four months in, for three four months into a situation

1851
01:21:24,640 --> 01:21:26,160
Speaker 2: and you're like, I don't know how they feel about me,

1852
01:21:26,600 --> 01:21:29,200
Speaker 2: that's how they feel about you. A man that really

1853
01:21:29,280 --> 01:21:30,840
Speaker 2: wants you and likes you, he is not gonna have

1854
01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:31,400
Speaker 2: you guessing on.

1855
01:21:31,439 --> 01:21:32,200
Speaker 1: How he feels about you.

1856
01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 2: That's how I truly feel like, especially at the three

1857
01:21:35,439 --> 01:21:37,479
Speaker 2: four month mark, you know what I'm saying, Like I

1858
01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:40,040
Speaker 2: get it, and maybe y'all are like years into it

1859
01:21:40,080 --> 01:21:42,400
Speaker 2: and maybe you don't feel loved, and you know, people

1860
01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:45,120
Speaker 2: because sometimes people forget to show their partner love because

1861
01:21:45,120 --> 01:21:47,800
Speaker 2: it's so comfortable. But three four months in, girl, he's

1862
01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:49,960
Speaker 2: supposed to still be head over heels for you. So

1863
01:21:50,400 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 2: I think that's your answer right there.

1864
01:21:53,439 --> 01:21:56,000
Speaker 1: Agreed. So yes, y'all, thank y'all for watching.

1865
01:21:56,080 --> 01:21:58,559
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1869
01:22:08,080 --> 01:22:09,640
Speaker 3: and make sure y'all subscribe.

1870
01:22:10,040 --> 01:22:10,840
Speaker 2: See you'll next week.

1871
01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:23,320
Speaker 3: Started out talking right here, putting it down like a motherfucking.

1872
01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:27,439
Speaker 1: Mac selling candy. Y'all up in my ear. She want

1873
01:22:27,520 --> 01:22:30,600
Speaker 1: to be down like the d's on a lap so

1874
01:22:30,880 --> 01:22:34,280
Speaker 1: dancing in the club. Her dimits look like rainbow. She

1875
01:22:34,439 --> 01:22:35,400
Speaker 1: grinding on my d.

1876
01:22:36,000 --> 01:22:39,439
Speaker 3: She looking for the podog hop up being at AMG

1877
01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:42,640
Speaker 3: and D in the Weston. She put in moves on me.

1878
01:22:42,920 --> 01:22:47,200
Speaker 3: Could have Swatshattis or wrestler talking all that shit. Soon

1879
01:22:47,320 --> 01:22:50,400
Speaker 3: as I now, I gotta talking like.

1880
01:22:50,600 --> 01:23:06,560
Speaker 7: This in a fossel better in a foss bey n

1881
01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:15,439
Speaker 7: FA set up, n FA set up.

1882
01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:23,519
Speaker 1: By I kind of that up. She's telling all our homies.

1883
01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:25,120
Speaker 2: I don't no real deal.

1884
01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:28,760
Speaker 1: Every time she live crib try to be coming right back.

1885
01:23:29,320 --> 01:23:33,080
Speaker 3: She's talking dirty all up in my ear, and I'm

1886
01:23:33,120 --> 01:23:36,720
Speaker 3: fee putt this dog right on the king. I was,

1887
01:23:36,840 --> 01:23:39,360
Speaker 3: you're gonna show you off, But then you got that

1888
01:23:39,520 --> 01:23:43,839
Speaker 3: Lita going last night of acting like she didn't remember

1889
01:23:43,880 --> 01:23:45,240
Speaker 3: I hopped up in the lemon.

1890
01:23:45,360 --> 01:23:46,960
Speaker 1: I'm being to defend my title.

1891
01:23:47,080 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 2: Fender. Push your ass up, Ben and tell me which

1892
01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:50,479
Speaker 2: way would you like it?

1893
01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:50,920
Speaker 4: Talking?

1894
01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:52,080
Speaker 2: You know that ship.

1895
01:23:52,800 --> 01:23:58,680
Speaker 1: Soon as I now, I gotta talking like set up

1896
01:24:00,880 --> 01:24:16,080
Speaker 1: by baby. Oh that was good, she said, It feels

1897
01:24:16,200 --> 01:24:17,760
Speaker 1: like her very firstime.

1898
01:24:18,680 --> 01:24:21,879
Speaker 2: She said, it feels like her very first time.

1899
01:24:22,320 --> 01:24:26,200
Speaker 1: Grindy grinding, grindy baby.

1900
01:24:26,160 --> 01:24:33,400
Speaker 2: Grinding, grinded, grind grinded, grinded, grinded baby.

1901
01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:44,040
Speaker 4: Oh oh oh, all right, was no.

1902
01:24:44,160 --> 01:24:47,320
Speaker 1: Fun baby, you was having you a who shout to

1903
01:24:47,400 --> 01:24:48,439
Speaker 1: the dream bir