WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Selfie Stick Rejection

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<v Speaker 1>Looking jewels. Second date up date. The girl on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second date update today thinks she might

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<v Speaker 1>not beginning a call back because she was too prepared

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<v Speaker 1>for her date. She took along something in her purse

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<v Speaker 1>that she figured could help them both out, and apparently

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<v Speaker 1>she feels like the guy got a little shocked when

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<v Speaker 1>he saw it. Oh, I feel I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>it is, but my mind is going to places that

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<v Speaker 1>are not very clean. We'll find out what it is

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<v Speaker 1>in just a second. But she's on the phone right now, Samantha,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Hey? Hey, God, she's outing really pissed almost

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<v Speaker 1>right now. You guys just knew that sound like? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>when she got her purse? Oh yeah, sure, Maybe you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna think twice now before you put things like that

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<v Speaker 1>in your purse before a date, right, could put it

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<v Speaker 1>in perspective? Could I tell you what happened? Yeah? I guess. First,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us how you met the guy you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call today? Um? Yeah, So his name's Charlie and we

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<v Speaker 1>were set up on a blind date by mutual friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh and was it like blind blind where you hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>even like stocked him on Facebook or Instagram or anything? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know his last name, so I couldn't do

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<v Speaker 1>my due diligence. Okay, okay, but you did look at

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<v Speaker 1>like every Charlie and like so many Charlie our mutual friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, who's the Charlie? I was like, and how

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<v Speaker 1>was the date with Charlie? What did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 1>We went to this bar that was kind of in

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<v Speaker 1>between us because we both live a bit of a

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<v Speaker 1>distance from each other, so we met in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>at this bar. And were you nervous going into this

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<v Speaker 1>or did you feel pretty cool? Yeah? It was my

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<v Speaker 1>first blind date. I was like, oh, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you haven't able to snoop him? And I right,

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<v Speaker 1>what if? I just what if I can't hide that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not attracted to hit like you know all these

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts you know. So were you relieved when you got

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<v Speaker 1>to the restaurant or how'd you feel? He's very cute, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like the definition of my type. He's tall, he's got

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<v Speaker 1>dark hair and green eyes and stick eyebrows that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of come up to a point that I like on guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I like, picture it Dracula what you just described. But no,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'd give him a shot. You know, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So you were pleasantly surprised with Charlie tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about your date. So we sat at the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>We're chatting or laughing. The conversation is flowing easy, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said some I can't remember what it was because

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<v Speaker 1>this is like on our second drink. He said something

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<v Speaker 1>super funny and I was like, all right, choose to that.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we clinked and I was like, whole hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>I just to commemorate this moment, can I get a picture?

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<v Speaker 1>Because what he said was just it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a perfect moment on a date. Hold on, though

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<v Speaker 1>you stopped in the middle of laughing at somebody's joke

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<v Speaker 1>to take a picture. No, the laughter had ended, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, I think I did it at the

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<v Speaker 1>right moment, you know. So that's when I lached my

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<v Speaker 1>purse and I grab myself a stick and I and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, after he said, yea, what did you do? Say?

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I grabbed my selfie stick out of my purse.

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<v Speaker 1>You brought a selfie stick with you on a first date. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's always in my purse, yeah, but then you have

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<v Speaker 1>to like attach your camera to it and then pull

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<v Speaker 1>it out. I mean, this isn't come on, You're making

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<v Speaker 1>it sound like it's like hard labor. You just pop

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<v Speaker 1>it in and hold it out. Okay, if I would

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<v Speaker 1>be off put if I was on a date with you,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so normal. No, yeah, it is. It is. I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like that's a lot for a first date

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<v Speaker 1>to put a first date picture up on Instagram. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>it's obviously you haven't dated in like a long, long

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<v Speaker 1>line time. People would do it all the time. Or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe this is like a generation gap where you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not that old. Alright, listen, I will say, Mary,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not that old. So you ended up taking

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<v Speaker 1>a picture with your selfie stick. You said in your

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<v Speaker 1>email you thought that that might be one of the

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<v Speaker 1>reasons he's not calling you back. That's the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>that stands out on the date, because like after that,

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<v Speaker 1>a group of his friends were also It's just happened

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<v Speaker 1>to be at the same bar. They came over and

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<v Speaker 1>they hello, and he introduced me, and they invited him

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<v Speaker 1>to h they were going to some other place, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was just like yeah, yeah, and so we closed

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<v Speaker 1>out and walked outside. It was gorgeous. It was absolutely gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 1>The moon was huge, it was bright, it was creating

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<v Speaker 1>this like beautiful blue backlight. I didn't take a picture. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I add that that's what we were working up too,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, hell, but it was just really romantic

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<v Speaker 1>and and just sort of magical outside and so it

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<v Speaker 1>we went out to get some there and I pointed

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<v Speaker 1>it out. I was like, wow, look at the moon.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gorgeous, Like this is this is so romantic. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a perfect, perfect moment for a first kiss. And

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't think he picked up on the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't just stand there and go yeah, yeah it

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<v Speaker 1>is sor that's exactly what he did. That is exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what he did. So I was like, okay, well maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he's a little solocially awkward. So I started like slowly yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like what are you doing? Oh oh you

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<v Speaker 1>guys shot down. So I got shy and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you have something in your shirt. I was just going

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<v Speaker 1>to get it off. I will smooth recovery. Yeah, well

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<v Speaker 1>not exactly, because he was like really, because I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were trying to kiss me and that would be weird,

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<v Speaker 1>he said that, he said, and that would be weird

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<v Speaker 1>and that would be weird. And I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to kiss you, like we're talking about you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to kiss me or something. You're dropping hands and

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<v Speaker 1>he like, he's like, because I just met you, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, of course, yeah, I just met you. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's an awkward into the date. Then was that like

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<v Speaker 1>the last little bit, So that's awkward, But like, the

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<v Speaker 1>conversation was so free flowing. It was so easy and

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<v Speaker 1>light and fun. And that's why I'm kind of disappointed

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't call me afterward. Yeah, I could see that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean selfie stick aside, it sounds like a great evening. Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how can a selfie stick, something so simple be a

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<v Speaker 1>deal breaker? I wouldn't think that would ruin things for you,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe the awkward kiss moment could have. Well, he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know that I was going in for a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>I played it off pretty well. Yeah, all right, well

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, and then call him

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second day update. Okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on rooking Jubil. In the morning, Samantha is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and she wants to call a guy named Charlie.

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<v Speaker 1>They were set up by friends. They went out to

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<v Speaker 1>a bar, had a fun time. She thinks that he

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<v Speaker 1>might have thought the selfie sticks she brought along was

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<v Speaker 1>awkward to take pictures with. And then at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day there was another awkward moment when they

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<v Speaker 1>walked outside and saw the moon, and she looked up

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<v Speaker 1>at it and was thinking, I know that he's just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna lean over right now and we're gonna make eye contacting.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, we're going to share a beautiful kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>And then in his head it was just that is

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<v Speaker 1>a nice moon up there. That show does look good.

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<v Speaker 1>It'd be really cool if you were kiss someone in

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<v Speaker 1>front of that moon. But too bad. Oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>got nobody to kiss. So it was definitely mixed signals.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't getting the right signals from her. She tried

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<v Speaker 1>to lean over for a kiss and he was like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing? And she had to play it

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<v Speaker 1>off like she was getting something off of his shirt.

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<v Speaker 1>So they parted ways and she hasn't heard from him since.

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<v Speaker 1>Bouts getting on the phone and find out why. I

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<v Speaker 1>need you to not bring up that I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss him. Please, Oh you don't want that information. Out there. No, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are killing it. I got away with it,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you? Yeah? I mean you said that you

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<v Speaker 1>played it off fine, and you said that he had

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. So I won't bring that up. I won't.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't say, hey, did you notice that she was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to kiss you when you shut her down accidentally? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do It's fun of it right now. Okay, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, all right, can I speak to Charlie please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is see Hey Charlie, how are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. What. I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>What's brook and Jewil in the Morning. What can I

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<v Speaker 1>do for you? It's a it's a radio show, a

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<v Speaker 1>morning radio show, a morning radio show. And what does

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<v Speaker 1>it have to do with me? Well, I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>today because we recently got an email about you from

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners. An email from a listener about me. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>why because they recently went out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>you and they thought you were awesome, but now you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling them back. Okay, So I know it's weird. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Well explain it to you, Charlie. I'll explain it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment on our show called the Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. That's where if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>day with somebody and then end up not calling them

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<v Speaker 1>back after they email us to see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone and find out what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>So you went out with a girl named Samantha the

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<v Speaker 1>other day. Isn't not returning the call enough? Well apparently,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's enough to let them know you're not interested,

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<v Speaker 1>but they want to know why. Wow. Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know if I want to talk about it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it would be fair to Samantha. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you're thinking about it being fair to her.

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<v Speaker 1>She is the one who wanted us to do this

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<v Speaker 1>phone call, and she also said that she's willing to

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<v Speaker 1>hear whatever the reason is. I mean, she told us

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<v Speaker 1>that she thought you guys got along great and you

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<v Speaker 1>had good chemistry. Oh good chemistry, said that as well. Well, Okay, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't say that specifically. That's how I interpreted what

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<v Speaker 1>she said about the day, like that you laughed. It

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<v Speaker 1>was easy there, It was easy to laugh. Yeah, whoa wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you think that liked? Just insult? Was that an insult? No? Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, look, I am oh, this is difficult. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not a jerk. I enjoyed meeting Shamantha. It's just obvious

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<v Speaker 1>to me that she has some drama going on in

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<v Speaker 1>her life, and I don't want to be involved in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is it obvious? I don't know what she told you. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she said that you guys got set up through friends,

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<v Speaker 1>went to a bar, took a picture there, and then

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<v Speaker 1>hung out for a little while, and that was about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Took a picture there, Okay, yeah, it was more than

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<v Speaker 1>a picture it was like a production shoot. She breaks

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<v Speaker 1>out a selfie stick, has to take a number of

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<v Speaker 1>different pictures until she finds the right one, then fans

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<v Speaker 1>more time putting effects and filters on it and whatnot.

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<v Speaker 1>I was willing to be like, all right, no, you

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<v Speaker 1>know whatever, no big dealt. But then I get home

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<v Speaker 1>and on Instagram she's got somebody else tagged, and the

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<v Speaker 1>quote is what freaked me out. She's like, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to get specifically home much. She says, sorry, Jake, looks

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<v Speaker 1>like I've moved on. No, you were part of a

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<v Speaker 1>revenge picture. I guess. So there's I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>is going on, but there's some kind of drama there,

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<v Speaker 1>and don't I don't want to be involved in it.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't not tell us that. She made it sound

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<v Speaker 1>so innocent, like she was just capturing the moment and

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<v Speaker 1>it was no big deal. I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>involved in any of her drama. I've had that stuff

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<v Speaker 1>in the past, and I'm just I am not ready

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with it. I don't want it. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably gonna really like the fact that she's on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not dramatic at all. So Samantha, what are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? She's on the phone. Yes, she's listening right now, Samantha. Yeah, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. So first, Chilie, let me just say

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<v Speaker 1>that there is absolutely no drama at all to be

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<v Speaker 1>worried about. And just to explain that post, I recently

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<v Speaker 1>got out of a relationship and my ex had done

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<v Speaker 1>that to me a few weeks ago, and um, drama free, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and and and and so I did it back. But

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<v Speaker 1>with the point is is we both shot our shots

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<v Speaker 1>off the mask at each other and it's over over

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<v Speaker 1>over all, right. If I could I listen to Cemita,

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<v Speaker 1>I really enjoyed your company, and as I said before

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<v Speaker 1>I knew you were there, absolutely beautiful girl. But I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I had been cast in this role of

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<v Speaker 1>your boyfriend. You were shooting like you were just looking

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody to stand next year in the instant brand shot. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't know. I'm I'm sorry it came off that

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<v Speaker 1>way and I made you feel that way or any

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<v Speaker 1>of that. I could not be more sorry. But the

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<v Speaker 1>truth is is I really do like you, like quite

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, and that isn't normally me. Was emotional and

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<v Speaker 1>sort of just overly excited when I had finally met

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<v Speaker 1>you and you were you So I'm hoping that this

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't kill things. Oh wow, Well that's really nice of

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<v Speaker 1>you to say, Sam, But I was just kind of like,

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell is good one on? Here? I got it? Yeah? No,

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<v Speaker 1>but like really, Sam, like what were you thinking when

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<v Speaker 1>you posted it? Were you thinking about how you liked him?

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<v Speaker 1>Or were you just thinking about getting back at your eye?

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly I was. I was like two drinks in rounding

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<v Speaker 1>the third and having fun. And I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>made me think this is a good time to do

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<v Speaker 1>this or that I should at all? Right, Because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think what you said is really nice, but it

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<v Speaker 1>is a red flag if you're on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and your two drinks in and the first thought

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<v Speaker 1>is your ex, right right? Well, no, okay, just in

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<v Speaker 1>my defense, the first thought wasn't my ex. The first

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<v Speaker 1>thought was what he said was super funny, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to remember this moment. And I took the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>But then when I started running it to the filters

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<v Speaker 1>and saw how good it turned out, thought revenge. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I get that. I mean, I've been there.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand, but you gotta understand it comes off as

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<v Speaker 1>a little crazy, right, Charlie totally crazy, And it just

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<v Speaker 1>seems like she's got this thing where she's got to

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<v Speaker 1>let everybody know, including Jake, that she's going out with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else. I don't need this man, I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need Jake. All of a sudden contract that

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<v Speaker 1>who knows. I don't know how things ended, but all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden I go home. Here I am, and

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<v Speaker 1>her Instagram with a quote that says, sorry, Jake, looked

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<v Speaker 1>like I've moved on. Well, I will say, Charlie, you

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<v Speaker 1>should be flattered, though, because no girl would post that

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<v Speaker 1>if you were ugly, you're obviously in operade from Jake,

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<v Speaker 1>because that is the only reason she would text and

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<v Speaker 1>tag Jake. And that the picture really did come out

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<v Speaker 1>really great in spite of it all. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>it was stupid to me to write that caption, and

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<v Speaker 1>I really hope that I'm not entirely judged by one stupid,

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<v Speaker 1>buzz bad caption. Let's find out, Charlie. Would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with Samantha on another date? We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Will you go out with her again?

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<v Speaker 1>Can it be social media free? Oh? Of course? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, Yeah, I believe. I don't know. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not so sure. I trust you. Well, give me,

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<v Speaker 1>give me a chance to build back the trust. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can actually trust her because if she

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<v Speaker 1>was going to call us and put all this on

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<v Speaker 1>the air and if her ex heard, she looks pretty

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<v Speaker 1>pathetic right now. So she's just risking a lot for

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<v Speaker 1>this day. I'm thank you. Do you think, Charlie? You

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<v Speaker 1>know what? I think it's worth one more date. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it. Yay. So that's sweet? All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>congratulations you two, and hey, Samantha on this date, if

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<v Speaker 1>you actually do try to lean in for a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>It might actually happen. You were to say anything, say

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<v Speaker 1>what I just thought maybe you guys could share a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Broken jewel in the morning text in it's seven to eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five nine two and says any that anybody that posts

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<v Speaker 1>a I'm so over you picture on Instagram or any

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<v Speaker 1>social media is proof that they're not over anything. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a jewel in the morning. If you missed a day.

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<v Speaker 1>A second day update, Samantha wanted to call a dude

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<v Speaker 1>named Charlie. They went on on a date. She had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time, was wondering why he wasn't calling back.

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<v Speaker 1>Well on that date, they took a picture and later

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<v Speaker 1>on he went home and saw it on Instagram. He

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<v Speaker 1>was tagged in it, but so was her ex boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>saying look at me, I'm moving on. And he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with her again because he's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird. I don't want to get wrapped up in

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<v Speaker 1>all this drama. But they worked it out. You know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's probably still worried a little bit. And like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>he's hotter than the boyfriend, so he's got that going

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<v Speaker 1>for him. True. You know, you never got to post

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<v Speaker 1>a picture with somebody uglier and say hey, I moved on. No,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not. At the end of it, they did agree

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<v Speaker 1>to go out again, and she promised that she won't

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<v Speaker 1>do that anymore, and she's over her boyfriend, so we'll

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<v Speaker 1>see where they wind up. Remember, if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update I have to do is

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<v Speaker 1>email the show and we will call the person who

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back.