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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks so

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Speaker 1: much for joining us today. We are so excited to

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Speaker 1: be here. How are you doing today, Susan, I'm great.

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Speaker 2: I'm really excited about today actually, and everybody. We have

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Speaker 2: done so many great episodes. Be sure to check out

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Speaker 2: our latest. We've been having so much fue. We answer

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Speaker 2: questions and chatting with Bachelor Nation favorites from Jones season.

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Speaker 1: Oh we we not only do we today we have

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Speaker 1: a very special guest, aren't they all this Susan Very

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Speaker 1: special guests from Jones season of The Golden Bachelorette. I

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Speaker 1: won't keep you in suspense any longer. Hello, Keith, how

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Speaker 1: are you welcome?

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Speaker 3: Okay, you are special.

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Speaker 1: Let me just say if there's any question. If there's

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Speaker 1: any question, and you are special, you will find out.

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Speaker 1: If you've listened to our past episodes, we always one

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Speaker 1: of the questions we often ask is if you were

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Speaker 1: on a deserted island, who would you take with you?

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Speaker 4: You must be I mean we.

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Speaker 1: Met at Jon and Chock's engagement party, but you must

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Speaker 1: be a barrel of laughs because every guy has said

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Speaker 1: they would tay of you. If you could pick three guys,

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Speaker 1: for a dessert to be on a deserted island.

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Speaker 4: With You're one of them. So what makes you so

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Speaker 4: damn fun? Keith? What makes you so much fun?

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Speaker 5: Oh, it's just it's by One thing that I taught

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Speaker 5: my daughters as well is just have fun with life.

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Speaker 5: I mean, we're only here for a little short time.

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Speaker 5: You have a good positive attitude towards it. I have

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Speaker 5: a ton of fun. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I will say, you laugh all the time

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Speaker 1: at Jones party Jonan Chock's party. You know, I spoke

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Speaker 1: with you a little bit, but every time I looked over,

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Speaker 1: you were laughing with the group.

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Speaker 4: I mean literally you were laughing everything, even.

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Speaker 5: The wine too. Who knows, you know?

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Speaker 3: So how are you?

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Speaker 4: How are you the house life?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, your holidays were good.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I mean every year I quit giving my

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Speaker 5: kids gifts. So we go to Mexico for the last

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Speaker 5: three years. It's just a trip to my three daughters

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Speaker 5: and I we take off and uh we just get

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Speaker 5: away for a week. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Wait, so you have three daughters?

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Speaker 5: Oh three? Oh yeah, girl, Dad come on yeah yeah,

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Speaker 5: I've got twenty four, twenty two and eighteen. So yeah, wow, wow,

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Speaker 5: that's it funny.

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Speaker 3: So that's where that picture came from. Kathy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so, yeah, I was. That was one of my questions.

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Speaker 1: I was hoping you were going to say it was

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Speaker 1: at least one of your daughters.

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Speaker 4: I saw.

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Speaker 1: You know, I comb the Internet for truth. You know,

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Speaker 1: that's where all truth lives is on the internet, and

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Speaker 1: there was.

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Speaker 5: I believe everything I read.

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Speaker 1: I mean, listen, you know what I've learned from the internet.

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Speaker 1: Everyone has a perfect life except me. That is what

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Speaker 1: I wanted.

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Speaker 4: Here's the thing I want to know.

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Speaker 1: There's a picture of you, I think it was yesterday,

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Speaker 1: the day before, with four young ladies in bikinis, and

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Speaker 1: you're just yeah, alright, you remember those.

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Speaker 3: Your three daughters, daughters?

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Speaker 4: They all look very different.

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Speaker 5: Oh, it's it's amazing you have the first two like

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Speaker 5: the first one. I feel so bad. People go, oh,

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Speaker 5: you're your dad. You look just like your dad. So

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Speaker 5: I feel real hard. And then you know they're all beautiful.

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Speaker 5: But it's then my middle one got all the hype.

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Speaker 5: I mean, my ex wife was five four and so

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Speaker 5: then my third daughter is she's.

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Speaker 1: Only she's tiny, dark hair, tiny, teenyed. How tall are

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Speaker 1: you Keith six five and and so? How tall is

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Speaker 1: your oldest daughter five nine and.

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Speaker 3: Wow, it's like my daughters.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and your wife was five yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you're one of those people that can I just

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Speaker 1: say your ex wife because I'm five eight your ex wife.

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Speaker 4: I would have walked behind.

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Speaker 1: And said that bitch, she stole a tall guy from

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Speaker 1: the rest of us.

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Speaker 3: I loved your height when we met. I love a

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Speaker 5: Well, I crack up. I mean I probably screwed up

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Speaker 5: when I met all the bachelors from you know, Gen

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Speaker 5: season or from Joey and I look at him and

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Speaker 5: the first thing out of my mouth is, you guys

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Speaker 3: Did they not grow yet?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'll tell you that.

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Speaker 1: I was going to say, but you know what, you

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Speaker 1: don't when you're watching the show, you don't see it

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Speaker 1: because everyone's tall, right, But most a lot of men

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Speaker 1: in Hollywood shows and stuff are actually relatively short.

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Speaker 4: But you guys were so tall.

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Speaker 3: How tall was Pascal?

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Speaker 2: He wasn't as tall as he's.

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Speaker 5: Probably five ten probably No. Yeah. When we had our

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Speaker 5: group picture, though, Jordan was in the back row and

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Speaker 5: then they asked him to move to the second row.

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Speaker 5: He's like, he's six two, and he's like, I'm always

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Speaker 5: if you're shorts, you're short six.

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Speaker 4: So so tell us. You know, we're in the new year.

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Speaker 4: What it mean to you?

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Speaker 1: What changes are you making? I personally don't make resolutions,

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Speaker 1: but you know what do you?

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Speaker 5: I don't make resolutions. I tried to make resolutions quote unquote, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: reservations are the best. You know, good good meal, good

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Speaker 5: glass of wine, that's where I go. Yeah. Now I've

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Speaker 5: just tried to again. Just it's just to upon myself,

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Speaker 5: you know, more than anything. The the show last year,

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Speaker 5: all the guys, we've all talked about it. It was

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Speaker 5: like therapy. It saved me two hundred bucks an hour. Uh,

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Speaker 5: by just being with all these guys.

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Speaker 2: Same ditto, because you you get to know yourself and

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Speaker 2: who you are.

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Speaker 4: What's the thing you learned, Keith? What do you know

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Speaker 3: Perfect? Then I wouldn't change it.

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Speaker 4: Then that's what the internet told me.

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Speaker 5: He told me not to change, but it did. But

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Speaker 5: it helped me to change as well. So again I

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Speaker 5: have a big personality. You know, you guys met me right, yeah, yeah, us,

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Speaker 5: and we can we can control a reno problem. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: the thing I used to hide behind my personality and

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Speaker 5: I would, you know, in my relationships, you know, finding love, whatever,

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Speaker 5: I'd always hide behind it. And what I've learned is

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Speaker 5: don't how.

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Speaker 3: Do you mean hide behind it? What do you mean

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Speaker 5: Was almost a shield, like a guard to protect, to protect,

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Speaker 5: to protect my heart and heck with it that I've

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Speaker 5: always been one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just because we're lovable.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but wait, I have a question. I have a question.

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Speaker 1: All three of us clearly are big personalities. That's those

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Speaker 1: about time.

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Speaker 5: We're going to talk over each other this whole.

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Speaker 4: That's right, and I do it daily.

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Speaker 1: But here's the question, Keith, do you find because Susan

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Speaker 1: and I have talked about this, you know, we're very

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Speaker 1: good friends. We've talked about together and we've talked about

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Speaker 1: on the podcast, the fact that we are both big personalities.

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Speaker 1: It takes a special person to see through the big

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Speaker 1: We are lovely, warm human beings. Do you find that

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Speaker 1: in your dating life?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 4: But but and are you dating?

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Speaker 5: I'm going to add a caveat on top of that,

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Speaker 5: is that I need to also show more of that

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Speaker 5: side without being scared of showing that portion of me,

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Speaker 5: you know, in the private moments and the one on

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Speaker 3: And not be funny. You mean, is that what you're saying,

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Speaker 3: and be more serious.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, instead of instead of always making light of y. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: actually show you know what I'm matching vulnerable side.

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Speaker 4: So are you have you been doing that?

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Speaker 5: I have been dating more yet.

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Speaker 3: I can't every person from that.

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Speaker 4: So let me guess. Have you had a lot of

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Speaker 4: women reach out to through DMS?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah, but I've only gone out with one woman

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Speaker 5: through the DMS. It's uh. I just think it's so

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Speaker 5: to try to meet somebody through that. It's I've never

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Speaker 5: done the apps. I'm not really comfortable with it. It's

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Speaker 5: more through networking people that I know, people that have

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Speaker 5: reached out to me saying, hey, I know somebody, or

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Speaker 5: I've had people reach out to me that have said,

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Speaker 5: you know, I'm friends with this Person's.

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Speaker 2: How we want to do that, Kathy, I think every

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Speaker 2: person we come in contact.

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Speaker 3: With, do you have an older brother, do you have

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Speaker 1: So I just want to step back from minute Keith

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Speaker 1: and ask you you.

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Speaker 4: You raised your daughter's correct.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, for the last well since since my oldest one

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Speaker 4: Years old and you had you had them full time, Yes,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that to me, we have a lot

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that that is.

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Speaker 5: You know, this is one thing. By the way, thank

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Speaker 5: you very much for the compliment that I get a

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Speaker 5: lot of that compliment that it's really weird, because I

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Speaker 5: shouldn't say weird. Single moms don't get the same compliments

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Speaker 5: that I get because you're expected to do it and

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Speaker 5: we're not. And it's sort of as a bad on

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Speaker 5: the guys. It's like, hold it. Men aren't going to

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Speaker 5: step up and raise their kids. No, I think they would,

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Speaker 5: but we're not expected to were the mom. I have

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Speaker 5: It's hard.

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Speaker 2: It's hard as a balance. You have to do the

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Speaker 2: balance because you have to take care of yourself as well.

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Speaker 2: It's not easy. Well, raising kids isn't easy. I don't

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Speaker 2: care if there's three people in it.

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Speaker 4: I mean the hardest part for me was.

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Speaker 5: The empathy part. I mean, if within a mom dad

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Speaker 5: relationship there's there's one person with that empathy, it gives

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Speaker 5: you the hug listens, and then there's the fixer. And

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Speaker 5: I always used to be the fixer, but now I

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Speaker 5: have to do both. Now I have to listen first.

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Speaker 5: And then.

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Speaker 4: How do they come to you for dating advice?

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Speaker 5: Dating advice? No, but we talk about who they're dating. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I know I go to them for dating advice. A.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, are you dating someone, Keith? Are you dating one woman?

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Speaker 1: Or you're just dating around us?

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Speaker 5: Dating right now? Yeah, we'll see where things go. It's

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Speaker 3: You have you seen one woman more than once? Is

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Speaker 3: that dating?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 3: What is dating around like?

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Speaker 5: Because I don't even like using the word around because

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Speaker 5: it just sounds so fridolished. It does it's not so. No,

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Speaker 4: Are you are you too?

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Speaker 3: Just let her know we're coming. That's all.

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Speaker 3: She went to go get the rose, and she got

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Speaker 3: Yes, this is Did you just feel so special?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's so. So how did you get on

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Speaker 4: I applied. I applied. We know on our show.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there was some guys that their daughters had applied

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, three years I forgot all about it

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Speaker 1: Bill, I'm doing this, have you, hey, Susan than to

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Speaker 1: Have you noticed that Keith mentions a lot about popping

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Speaker 1: bottles of wine? You are God, Yeah, You're all kind

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I had a little more notice.

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Speaker 5: Feel about the application in November. Didn't hear from them

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, So I want to know now

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Speaker 4: What are you looking for?

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Speaker 3: What are you looking at?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what are you looking for?

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Speaker 5: I mean that's when you see that that's the first

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Speaker 3: Ever been on a dating site? Did you ever have

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Speaker 5: Once? I was sitting around in my little logo. There's

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Speaker 3: You never know, you know, well.

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Speaker 2: In fact, you don't see that smile and that twinkle

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Speaker 4: Okay, you what a smart man you are?

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Speaker 3: I like.

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Speaker 1: But but Keith, I have a question, because again Susan

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Speaker 4: A woman who.

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Speaker 5: That that is what has helped me from the show

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Speaker 5: don't don't get that jealous I think, I don't know

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Speaker 5: if it's a jealousy or something about you know, you

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Speaker 2: How was it getting to know all the men like

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Speaker 3: It was just so emotional.

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Speaker 5: and she was an instigator of helping put it Just.

447
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Speaker 3: Tell her to put it on silent.

448
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:22,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, no, you can leave the group. You can leave. Oh,

449
00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 4: that's funny.

450
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 5: That's me. That show. That was my favorite taping show

451
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 5: at all because all the kids and all the families.

452
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,600
Speaker 5: It was beautiful, you know, and I and I love

453
00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 5: all the guys, all twenty of us that run the show.

454
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,920
Speaker 5: Don't get me wrong, but I've got my course.

455
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Speaker 4: Six and that was where I was.

456
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Speaker 1: That's where I was. No, No, that's where my next question.

457
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 1: But I didn't want to interrupt because I'm so prone

458
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Speaker 1: to do that. You're on a deserted island, Keith. Besides

459
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:52,120
Speaker 1: Susan and me? Juiot, you get three choice?

460
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Speaker 4: What are you taken?

461
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 5: Oh? Jordan, Dan and Mark are probably the three that

462
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Speaker 5: I that I those are the we you know again,

463
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Speaker 5: you know, hey, all you other guys that are listening

464
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:04,560
Speaker 5: out there, I don't.

465
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Speaker 4: I mean Jordan's said you.

466
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, No, Jordan and I are type.

467
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Speaker 4: That's what I said.

468
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Speaker 5: The first day we were on there, somebody I think

469
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,280
Speaker 5: it was great, goes do you guys know each other?

470
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Speaker 4: And it was just and are you? Are you? And

471
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 4: Jordan's so Susan and I are very different.

472
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Speaker 1: I mean we look different, we act like we are

473
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Speaker 1: night and day on so many things.

474
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Speaker 4: But we would walk on hot calls.

475
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Speaker 1: For each other's are you and Jordans different?

476
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Speaker 4: Or are you very similar?

477
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Speaker 5: I think we ever, it's it's just a collage or

478
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Speaker 5: mix of everything.

479
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Speaker 2: I mean, we give the personalities metch and get along,

480
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Speaker 2: get each other.

481
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll throw it out like Dan is a lot

482
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Speaker 5: more quiet and yes it's fun. Yeah. And uh and

483
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:56,119
Speaker 5: then you know Mark, we were in we were a

484
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Speaker 5: group and somebody asked me to go give me something.

485
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Speaker 5: I was at the Chalk's parties but he came up

486
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,199
Speaker 5: and they were talking to Mark and Keith. Give me

487
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Speaker 5: something bad to say about Mark.

488
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Speaker 3: I didn't think of anything.

489
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Speaker 5: I did. The only thing. He's a soft talker. That's

490
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Speaker 5: the first thing. It's like, Mark, you speak up.

491
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Speaker 2: But yes, I feel like Mark has come out of

492
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Speaker 2: his shell a little bit.

493
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Speaker 4: Have you seen her?

494
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Speaker 1: Have you seen him with a few a few little questions.

495
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: Inquiring minds want to know. I met Mark and his girlfriend.

496
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 1: They seem Barbara. They seem very happy.

497
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Speaker 5: Oh and she's so sweet. She is really nice. And

498
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Speaker 5: I called him on It was right before New Year's

499
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 5: I called him and they were in Uh, they were

500
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Speaker 5: doing the big family get together and everybody meet and

501
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 5: Barbara took the phone from Mark and we started talking.

502
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Speaker 5: I mean, she's just so easy to talk to.

503
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Speaker 4: She was how and how did they meet? Didn't didn't

504
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Speaker 4: she reach out to him? On to him?

505
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Speaker 3: This is what I'm talking about. Kathy and men our age,

506
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,679
Speaker 3: don't go on social media. I'm women too, and women

507
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 3: aren't shy anymore.

508
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Speaker 5: I'm not going to say. I just I've got some

509
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 5: buddies that have tried to get me on and they're

510
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 5: sixty two years old. They're back. You know, I went

511
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Speaker 5: to Purdue University.

512
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Speaker 3: It's most my day a sixty two years old.

513
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 5: Just all right, I'll blow it out all my buds

514
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 5: out there, you know, if you're ag give me a call.

515
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 5: So they you know, but they're own sites like they

516
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 5: when they travel on work or whatever they're they're on

517
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 5: a site even to date in that area.

518
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 3: So yeah, tender all over.

519
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Speaker 5: I just don't get it. I just don't do it.

520
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 4: What what's your age range that you'll date, Keith?

521
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:47,679
Speaker 5: Wow? Uh, let's say I'm sixty two fifty to the

522
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 5: high end is up in the air, because I would

523
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Speaker 5: if I have to throw a number, I'll throw sixty five.

524
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 5: But again, I try not to throw agento it. It's

525
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 5: a matter of maturity. It's a matter of do we

526
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Speaker 5: get along. It's there's a lot of things that yeah.

527
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 3: I'm sixty seven.

528
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, Susan, Yeah, all right, so we do.

529
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going back on Instagram and Facebook where the

530
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Speaker 1: truth lives. Okay, we do fan questions, Keith, and we're

531
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Speaker 1: gonna that's what nature people write in. I'm going to

532
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 1: read a question. Uh, you're going to help us answer it.

533
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,880
Speaker 1: If you're willing to do that.

534
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, here we go.

535
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 5: So my big joke is my big joke is, so

536
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 5: I was on with Joe and Serena and they're like, hey,

537
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 5: we're gonna ask you questions. And this is right after Jens.

538
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 5: Yeah after, and like, do I have a choice? And

539
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 5: so you asked me a question? I like to have

540
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Speaker 5: a choice.

541
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Speaker 4: Yeah. No, But this this we want. This will not torture.

542
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 4: This is fine.

543
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: This is from Nina and she says, Hi, ladies, I

544
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 1: love your podcast, and I'm really hoping you see this.

545
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 4: I could so use your advice.

546
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: My husband and I are officially ready to file for

547
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 1: divorce and we need to tell our kids how do

548
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: we do this. We have two teenagers and our youngest

549
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: is ten. For context, we're splitting up because of an

550
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Speaker 1: infidelity on my husband's part about a year ago that

551
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 1: we just haven't been able to bounce back from. I

552
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 1: don't want to make the kids hate their dad, but

553
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: I really do want to be honest with them. They

554
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 1: have no idea that our marriage has been having issues,

555
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 1: so this will come as a shock. Love you, ladies,

556
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Go Keith go.

557
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 5: Dads are more resilient than you think when I got

558
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Speaker 5: divorced and I went to my kids, they were like, why,

559
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 5: you know, they knew things weren't good, and they asked

560
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 5: me why I didn't do it sooner. But the kids

561
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 5: are very and so kids are more aware than you

562
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 5: probably think. Number one. Number two is just be honest.

563
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Speaker 5: Don't treat them as kids.

564
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Speaker 4: So you would tell a ten year old that your father, No.

565
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Speaker 5: I wouldn't use the word cheated or anything. We have

566
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 5: our there's a way to talk about the differences that

567
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 5: you have that you're growing apart. You know, the love

568
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 5: isn't there anymore. I think there's a bigger picture that

569
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 5: you talk about. If you delve into the details, then

570
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 5: you're you know, you can talk to your Yeah, don't

571
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 5: don't try to talk mean about anyone. It's just situation, right.

572
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 3: People make mistakes.

573
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Speaker 2: But but my feeling as I read it, I'm thinking

574
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Speaker 2: they got to break it to a lot of times

575
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 2: they blame the mom. Mom don't want to be married anymore,

576
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 2: And it's not just mom. That's something that's caused that.

577
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 5: Well, that's and I would think that it's what did

578
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 5: dad do? See it's from the guide point of view,

579
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 5: But either way, take take blame out of it. It's

580
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 5: just by the way it takes two to tango. Yep,

581
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 5: the infidelity happened. And I'm sorry, Nina, but you you

582
00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 5: and your husband just can't make it talk to communicating

583
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 5: in some way or stop growing together in some way,

584
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 5: and that's the infidelity happened. But there's something behind the

585
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 5: foundation that started it.

586
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 1: I just my parents were divorced when I was six,

587
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 1: and they didn't.

588
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 2: Come to you and tell you that they were splitting

589
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 2: or did you just notice that that lived somewhere else.

590
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 4: I mean it was a show.

591
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 5: That's a that's a different time back then too. Again,

592
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 5: now you know, with everybody talks more and is more

593
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,679
Speaker 5: open with kids, I had to treat my daughters older

594
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 5: than they were being a single dad. I'm still traveling

595
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,239
Speaker 5: for work. Although work was really nice to me on

596
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 5: my travels.

597
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 4: Kept for them. Who kept them when you were working?

598
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 5: I got a h There was a gal that I

599
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 5: had just come and stay at the house with and

600
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Speaker 5: make sure they got to school. She worked ca So

601
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 5: you know, I had a whole village helping them. I

602
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 5: had a whole villy helping me out.

603
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 3: So yeah, because you're good people.

604
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 5: Thank you. We all aren no. That's what and that's

605
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 5: what I would recommend. Also is is you know, just

606
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 5: be there for him. It's gonna be tough times. They're

607
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 5: not going to understand it, and so you're gonna have

608
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 5: to You're you're gonna have to wait.

609
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 2: What about when they question you, They're going to ask questions, right.

610
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 5: But again, just it's bigger pictures. Don't don't get into

611
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 5: the blame gam Once you get into the blame game, then.

612
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 3: You yeah, because you're.

613
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 5: Going to blame him. And then he's gonna go your

614
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 5: mom said what because the kids will tell him? And

615
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 5: then he said, your mom did this? The only thing

616
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 5: is this your mom did No, it's not about who

617
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 5: did what to who.

618
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: Were But wait, let me say, let me ask a

619
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Speaker 1: question because I remember I don't remember Susan, but Keith,

620
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Speaker 1: when you said, you know, telling your kids you fall

621
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Speaker 1: out of love. I don't know if my parents said that,

622
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: but I remember feeling if they don't love each other,

623
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: are they going to stop loving me?

624
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,239
Speaker 4: Uh? And and that was growing up, that was an

625
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 4: always and is your for me?

626
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: My parents? Do they love me? A lot of other

627
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: things were going on, but that I just don't know.

628
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what. I think the age matters,

629
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: but but you wouldn't want I wouldn't.

630
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Speaker 3: It might be a little easier as they're older.

631
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Speaker 5: I mean, my my youngest was six when I told

632
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 5: her that's young.

633
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's how old I was. And then, uh, you know,

634
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 4: and I was the younger.

635
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 5: The other one. The other one to Nina is I

636
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 5: don't know. You know the things you don't know? You

637
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 5: know this. It's a simple question. But even though there's infidelity,

638
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 5: I kind of doubt there's that they have a common

639
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 5: bond that they consider. But if they if they're there

640
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 5: for the kids and can sit in the same room

641
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 5: and tell them together and do it nicely.

642
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 2: I agree down as a family. Yes, And this has

643
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 2: nothing to do with you. We love you and we're

644
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 2: going to work this out.

645
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 4: That's exactly well, I'm depressed. I want to go on

646
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 4: to a one game. Now. This is depressing.

647
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're going to have some fun teeth and this

648
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 3: is about getting to know Okay, okay, so before we let.

649
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 1: You go, we want to play little game well which

650
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 1: you laugh before you say this, We're going to ask you.

651
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 4: Something because we laugh a lot. Keith, nothing more nothing

652
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 4: lest we laugh a lot.

653
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 2: And this is so our listeners can get to know

654
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 2: what we know. Okay, Cal, Okay, Kath, you want to

655
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: read the first one.

656
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 4: Okay, Keith, here we go.

657
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Speaker 1: What is a favorite memory you have from when you

658
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 1: were a teenager?

659
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 5: Teenager? I guess so nineteen eighteen nineteen. I'm going to

660
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 5: go in that until later because you know, high school

661
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 5: was nice, but my core friend group came out of

662
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 5: college and it was probably joining my fraternity and meeting

663
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 5: the guys. I mean, we just.

664
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 4: Had our fortieth Where did you go to college?

665
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Speaker 5: Purdue? And as a fine delta data there my.

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Speaker 1: Husband was fa Yeah, the stud by the stud So

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Speaker 1: like I even told Jordan or some of the guys,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 5: Even so, we just had our fortieth reunion in Manhattan

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Speaker 5: Beach and fifteen out of twenty five guys show up.

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Speaker 5: I mean, we're still typing to this day.

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Speaker 3: That's your favorite memory, all right?

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Speaker 5: And my favorite memory is my friends ships that I made,

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Speaker 5: you know, right when I joined the fraternity.

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Speaker 4: I love it, all right.

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Speaker 3: What would yours?

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Speaker 4: We're moving on, I don't want to talk about it.

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Speaker 1: What would what would the title of your autobiography be Keith.

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Speaker 5: I love my life. I love my perfect and that's

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Speaker 5: my buddies give me a hard time, not a hard time.

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Speaker 5: They just, you know, get a couple of glasses of

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Speaker 5: wine in, maybe a bottle ended, and all of a sudden,

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Speaker 5: I'm going to go.

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Speaker 2: I love Okay, if you could bring back any fashion

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Speaker 2: trend or old slang, what would it be?

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Speaker 5: I like the bell Bottom, the whole freaking.

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Speaker 4: Their back the program. They're back already. I know.

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Speaker 5: I've got my I've got my jogger pants and stuff

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Speaker 5: like that, and I'm like, you know, dude, let's get

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Speaker 5: some boot cuts out there.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's something you've always wanted to do and just

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Speaker 2: haven't done it yet.

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Speaker 5: What was Let's see, there's a lot of things I

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Speaker 5: want to do. I want to go play golf at Augusta.

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Speaker 4: That's not I've been to a. I've been to the

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Speaker 4: golf tournament there.

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Speaker 3: It's we're head into the beach this month.

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Speaker 4: It's going, yeah, are you going to be there?

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Speaker 5: I'll be there.

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Speaker 4: Do you play? Are you a good golfer?

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Speaker 5: I'm trying. I just got out this week. I played

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Speaker 5: on Tuesday, hit balls, Thursday play.

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Speaker 4: What's your handicap.

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Speaker 5: Well it's ten to seven right now.

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Speaker 3: I don't even have a top golf yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Wait great, wait, wait we're we got to wrap here

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Speaker 1: on a second but important things.

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Speaker 4: You have a ten handicap?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yea feel you're my partner.

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Speaker 4: You're my because I.

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Speaker 1: Drive a long ball. But I drive a long ball,

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Speaker 1: so we can count my drives. Yes, and then you're

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Speaker 1: shipping and putting.

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Speaker 5: We got this, yeah, yeah, no, because I play old

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Speaker 5: man golf. I so when I was fifty, I tried

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Speaker 5: out for I mean things that I want to do,

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Speaker 5: so I always wanted to get on ESPN. So when

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Speaker 5: I was fifty, I tried out for the long drive

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Speaker 5: competition and I was one round of way. I was

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Speaker 5: hitting the ball like three eighty at the time.

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Speaker 3: Let me do the drive.

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Speaker 5: Now I'm terrible. I'm like, I only did it two third.

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Speaker 3: You know I can't even do that.

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Speaker 4: Well, I was going to say my best drive.

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Speaker 1: My longest drive was to ten, So I guess that

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Speaker 1: I said my best drive, so one time.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you know what, Keith. First of all, it went

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Speaker 4: so fast. We loved, we love it. We cannot wait

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Speaker 4: to see you. We will see you soon. Unfortunately, that's

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Speaker 4: going to do it.

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Speaker 1: We're crying for this episode of Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.

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Speaker 1: Thank you Keith for joining us, for giving the great advice,

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Speaker 1: for sharing those important moments in your life.

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Speaker 2: And be sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we

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Speaker 2: have great new episodes coming out every week.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to miss.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't, and please we keep reminding you submit

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Speaker 1: your questions to us. All you have to do is

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Speaker 1: go to bachelornation dot com, slash Golden Hour, or dm

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Speaker 1: us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. And while you're

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Speaker 1: there you can DM Susan and me as well.

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Speaker 4: Just if you have the.

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Speaker 2: Time, listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the

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Speaker 2: iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to your podcast.

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Speaker 3: Thanks, we'll see you soon.

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Speaker 4: Have a great week, everybody,