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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 1: Crystal is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 1: She's been dating her boyfriend Bryce for over a year now.

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Speaker 1: They live together, but now she thinks something might be

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Speaker 1: going on, so we'll see if we can help her out. Hey, Crystal,

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Speaker 1: why do you think that Bryce might be cheating?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, first of all, thanks for having me. Yeah, so,

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Speaker 2: my uh my boyfriend Bryce, he goes on a lot

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Speaker 2: of business trips, right, and every time he comes back,

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Speaker 2: he comes with new clothes like that aren't like clothes

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Speaker 2: that seem like he just bought them, you know, like

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Speaker 2: they seem worn in, but clothes that don't that we

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Speaker 2: don't have it at our place, And he doesn't want

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Speaker 2: to be intimate the first few days that he's back,

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Speaker 2: which just seems like really sketchy to me. And ever

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Speaker 2: since we started dating, I knew that he would be

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Speaker 2: traveling a lot, and it wasn't really a big deal. Like,

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Speaker 2: you know, we both took our work pretty seriously. And

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Speaker 2: he travels like every other week, and sometimes it's a

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Speaker 2: couple of days and sometimes it's for the whole week.

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Speaker 2: He works in sales. I don't know if I if

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Speaker 2: I mentioned that, but yeah, and like he used to

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Speaker 2: just be so excited to see me when he got back,

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Speaker 2: and like, you know, we would always be intimate, like

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Speaker 2: he couldn't keep his hands off me, and he used

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Speaker 2: to like check in more with me while he was

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Speaker 2: on the road. And now it's like way less frequent

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Speaker 2: and I can't get a hold of him. Like it's

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Speaker 2: just there's so many seemingly red flags here.

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Speaker 3: Do you think it's like the evolution of the relationship.

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Speaker 3: You know, in the beginning, it's always like, oh, I

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Speaker 3: can't wait see you, and then it just kind of

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Speaker 3: is like, Okay, well, I trust you. We don't need

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Speaker 3: to talk every five minutes. Like is it kind of

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Speaker 3: that or do you feel like it's more than that.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's more than that. Something in my

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Speaker 2: gut tells me it's more than just like you know,

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Speaker 2: being out of the honeymoon phase.

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Speaker 1: Like, so, you guys have been together for a year

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Speaker 1: over a year. How long has this been going on?

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Speaker 2: Well, it's hard to like track exactly. I mean, he's

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Speaker 2: been traveling the whole time we've been together. But I

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Speaker 2: feel like in the last maybe six months or so

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Speaker 2: it's gotten weirder.

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Speaker 3: So back to the coming back with new clothes. Is

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Speaker 3: he a thrifter?

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Speaker 1: Huh No.

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Speaker 2: I'll even ask him like, oh, I haven't seen that

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Speaker 2: short before, like where did.

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Speaker 4: You get that?

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Speaker 2: And I'll be like, oh, yeah, you know, like he

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Speaker 2: just kind of brushes it.

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Speaker 1: If he's anything like me, he doesn't pack things or

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Speaker 1: loses things and then has to buy new stuff on

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Speaker 1: the road.

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Speaker 2: Is he like that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yes, but like again, these don't seem like new clue, Okay,

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Speaker 2: he's like Warren stuff.

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Speaker 3: I think we're all in agreement that there's a little

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Speaker 3: bit of a flag going on here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it does seem true. Yeah. Do you know where

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Speaker 1: he goes when he goes on his work trips?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I feel like most of I mean,

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Speaker 2: he's in sales, so he's like, you know, doing a

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Speaker 2: lot of like interfacing with different clients, potential clients and

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Speaker 2: things like that. So he's like all over the place.

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Speaker 1: Has he ever do you know anything about his past relationships?

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Speaker 1: Is he ever cheated before or been honest about that?

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Speaker 2: To my knowledge, he has not, Like because that would

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Speaker 2: be something that I would really be cautious of going

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Speaker 2: into if I knew that someone had a history of cheating.

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Speaker 3: Sure, everything else in your relationship is fine other than

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Speaker 3: those first couple of days when he comes back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I feel like after those few couple of

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Speaker 2: days when things are weird, like, yeah, we settle back

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Speaker 2: into a rhythm, but then he's traveling again.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, you told us what grocery store. He's a

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Speaker 1: rewards card member, so we'll do the usual and call

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Speaker 1: and pretend to be from the grocery store and tell

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Speaker 1: him that every single month, we choose one rewards card

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Speaker 1: member at random who gets free flowers delivered from our

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Speaker 1: four old apartment, and we'll see if he sends those

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Speaker 1: to you or to somebody else.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Play as I'll come back and then call him and

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Speaker 1: see if we can catch him with To Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, right in the middle of To Catch

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Speaker 1: a Cheater, if you're just joining us, Crystal is on

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Speaker 1: the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend of one

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Speaker 1: year named Bryce might be cheating. So in just a minute,

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Speaker 1: we're about to call him and pretend to be from

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Speaker 1: the grocery store where he's a rewards card member and

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Speaker 1: say that every single month, we choose one rewards card

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Speaker 1: member who gets free flowers delivered to anybody that they want.

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Speaker 1: Will seev sends them to her or to somebody else

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Speaker 1: in just a second. But first, Crystal, why don't you

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Speaker 1: refresh everybody's memory about your situation?

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So, Bryce and I live together. We've been together

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Speaker 2: for over a year and living together for the past

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Speaker 2: six or so months. And he travels a lot for

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Speaker 2: work because he works in sales, And whenever he comes

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Speaker 2: back from his trips, like he seems to have like

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Speaker 2: new clothes on or like in his bag that I

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Speaker 2: haven't seen before, and he doesn't want to be intimate

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Speaker 2: with me for like the first few days that he's back,

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Speaker 2: and it just feels really really bizarre.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and it's definite change in behavior.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Jordan calling from So I was looking

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Speaker 1: for a rewards card member named Bryce.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 1: Bryce, Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing

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Speaker 1: phone call. I'm calling to tell you congratulations here this

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Speaker 1: month's big winner.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Well, I mean, what did I a give certificate

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Speaker 4: or what what's the deal.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you aren't aware, but every single month, we choose

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Speaker 1: one Rewards Card member to say thank you very much

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Speaker 1: for being such a loyal customer and for shopping with

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Speaker 1: us by giving them free flowers delivered straight from our

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Speaker 1: floral department to anybody that they want in the entire

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Speaker 1: United States of America. You just want thirty six long

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Speaker 1: stem red roses, a box of candy, and a card

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Speaker 4: Wow, I assume that comes with a vase.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it does. Okay, if you know who you want

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Speaker 1: to send them to right now, I can take the

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Speaker 4: Actually, good, timer, I got a good I got a

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Speaker 1: Great, all right, well let's hop to it. Then if

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Speaker 1: you just the name of the person you want to

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Speaker 1: send them to, and then what you would want to

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Speaker 1: put on a card, and then I will get the address.

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Speaker 1: All right, yeah, first will be the first and last

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Speaker 1: name of the person.

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Speaker 4: Oh got you Meredith?

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Speaker 1: Anything you want to put in a card for Meredith?

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Speaker 4: Uh? Let me think, uh uh maybe like to my wife.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm sorry, I have to I have

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Speaker 2: to cut you off. I have to cut you off.

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Speaker 2: This is Crystal. I'm sorry you did you just say wife?

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Speaker 2: I'm hearing you correctly. You said Meredith is your wife.

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Speaker 1: This is actually the Jubile Show. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 1: We do a thing where we try to catch people

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Speaker 1: cheating by saying where they'll send flowers, and that is

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Speaker 1: your girlfriend, Crystal. I'm gonna go ahead and let's back out.

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Speaker 4: This is a story I'm having a you're right now, yes, how.

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Speaker 2: Can you not understand that you have a wife and

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Speaker 2: I'm your girlfriend? Are like?

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Speaker 3: Is it?

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Speaker 2: When did you get married? Was that not something you

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Speaker 4: Crystal? I'm sorry this you're I'm I'm like, this is

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Speaker 4: one thousand miles an hour. I have no idea. What's

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Speaker 4: happening in my head is spinning. I don't understand. Okay,

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Speaker 4: don't play this phone call and all sudden you're on

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Speaker 2: Here, You're you're playing dumb. Okay, you know what our

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Speaker 2: relationship is, and clearly you know that you have a wife,

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Speaker 2: and I'm asking you to explain to me when you

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Speaker 4: Oh god, Crystal, I I didn't want to have to

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Speaker 4: talk about this in this way. And I got married

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Speaker 4: five years ago, but five years ago, but I was

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Speaker 4: separated when I met you, and I had just and

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Speaker 4: I did not know what was going on in life.

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Speaker 4: And I did not know I was going to fall

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Speaker 4: constantly why.

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Speaker 1: Are you sending flowers to your wife? Then?

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Speaker 4: Because I have been spending more time in Arizona with

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Speaker 4: Meredith and I have been kind of living this this

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Speaker 4: double This sucks, dude. I can't believe this.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, this sucks for you. Hello, I'm the victim here.

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Speaker 2: Let's not let's not play the victim.

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Speaker 4: I know I did not know what was happening, and

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Speaker 4: then I need a distance from her. And then you

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Speaker 4: and I started obviously working out, which gave me like

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Speaker 2: And connecting with her. Okay, so that's where you've been

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Speaker 2: going to Arizona to be with your wife that I

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Speaker 2: didn't know existed, and that's why when you come back,

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Speaker 2: you have new clothes and you don't want to have

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Speaker 2: back at that, right, just making sure I have that right? Yes, okay, right, Well,

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Speaker 2: if this is a situation, then I'm going to send

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Speaker 2: you a bill for half of our rent for the

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Speaker 2: last eight months and you're gonna pay it, and honestly,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to block your number. I never want to

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Speaker 2: hear from you again. So yeah, thank you for showing

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Speaker 2: me who you really are. Jesus.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, Crystal, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: No, no, I don't want to hear that. That's that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: I hung up on him, Crystal, So he's gone now.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that's ridiculous. So sorry, no, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Well I guess you got your questions answered and now

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Speaker 1: you can move on and remember in your future relationships,

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Speaker 1: somebody being married and having a whole nother life is

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Speaker 1: pretty rare. So that's true. You know, I mean, obviously,

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Speaker 1: protect yourself, but try to do your best to make

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Speaker 1: this situation this situation moving forward.

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Speaker 3: It'll be hard, but yeah, yeah, and I know you

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Speaker 3: don't want to hear this, and I know you already know,

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Speaker 3: but the Internet is your best friend?

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Speaker 2: Is it?

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Speaker 3: Sometimes I wonder why people are always doing background searches.

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Speaker 1: Oh hello, that makes more sense. Well, sorry, let us

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Speaker 1: know if you need anything. Okay, I'm sorry. You have

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Speaker 1: some peace, all right, Thank you guys.

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Speaker 3: Good luck.

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Speaker 2: The Jewbile shows to catch a cheater