1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: Wind down with Janet Kramer did I'm Heart Radio podcast? 2 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 2: Okay, so we're so different us three girls, which also 3 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 2: why I love US three. But we were just talking 4 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 2: about how I was saying, I haven't been back to 5 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 2: the guy Noo since having Roman, and from my scan 6 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 2: they saw that I've got a fibroid grown in there again. 7 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 2: And then like a few cists and so, and I 8 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 2: was saying, I guess now you have to sign on. 9 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 2: You have to go online and go through their portal, 10 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 2: and I'm just like, I just can't we just call? 11 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 2: And then Kat's like, go ahead. 12 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 3: If I have to call, I'm not doing it. I 13 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:44,200 Speaker 3: wouldn't much rather do it online. If it involves calling 14 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 3: to make an appointment, I'm not going. 15 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 4: Meanwhile, I can't wait to catch up with a friend 16 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 4: desk Hey, becky Ye, so it's been a minute. 17 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 5: How are you? I think it good? No, But I 18 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 5: could have seen Janet going either way. 19 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 2: I'm a caller. 20 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 5: I could definitely I could see either way though. 21 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 4: For you, I know why you're a caller the same 22 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 4: reason I'm a caller. 23 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,559 Speaker 5: I feel like it's not the same reason. 24 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 4: Oh you don't think what would you think is the 25 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 4: I think. 26 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 3: Your reason is because you legitimately want to call and 27 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 3: talk to Becky and find out how her day is, 28 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 3: and just not. I mean I don't either, Like you 29 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 3: don't really want to call and talk to Becky and 30 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 3: find out about her day? 31 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 4: Do you do you think you'll get in faster? 32 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 6: Have you? 33 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 5: Well that. 34 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 2: For only this situation, because I do know Becky at 35 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 2: the front door, and she's. 36 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 4: Lovely and Becky and her kids matter. 37 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 2: I don't think that's her name. 38 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 6: Is her name? 39 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 2: I don't, Yeah, But like I always every time I 40 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 2: walked in, I was like, oh, ladies, there was always yeah, Christy, 41 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 2: you know, there was always Christy. 42 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:47,119 Speaker 4: I love her. 43 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 2: So it became you know this, they were there when 44 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 2: I came in crying. There's there was a bond formed. 45 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 2: And having said that, if we really need to get in, 46 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: she'd be like, let me slide. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 47 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 2: I mean that's fair. I get that, yeah, because there's 48 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 2: appointments are just so long. But otherwise, no, it's not 49 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 2: that I just like to talk it out on the 50 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 2: phone scheduling wise, because sometimes they can maneuver things a 51 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 2: little bit. 52 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, they can be a little bit more helpful. 53 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 3: Well, and yeah, I will sometimes call for that, and 54 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 3: I do call for that appointment. I'll give that, but 55 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 3: like other things nails and stuff like that, like if 56 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 3: I have to call you to book a nail appointment, 57 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 3: I will not go to you. 58 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 4: Oh no, wow, I feel offended. And I'm not even 59 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:26,239 Speaker 4: a nail tech. 60 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:28,839 Speaker 5: I just I want to do it on the walk. 61 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 4: Oh you do it online? Oh yeah, I do that 62 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 4: now because I usually think of it after business. 63 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 3: I mean for me, it's easier, like with calendar and 64 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 3: all that versus being on the phone and like looking 65 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 3: at my I just feel like it's easier. 66 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 5: But also I don't want to talk to people. 67 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 2: I just go in and pray that Sylvia is available. 68 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 4: That's how I go tracks. 69 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 3: My person's never availab Like I have to book mine 70 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 3: out a little bit, but. 71 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 4: I do book online. But if Lily is not available, 72 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 4: I will call in the morning be like Lily, what 73 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 4: you're doing? I got to two o'clock because I care 74 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 4: about Lily. The other thing those going through a lot, 75 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 4: the guy for the kuind of cologist one. 76 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 3: I also do not want to get to know the 77 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 3: front person because I will always reschedule at least once 78 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,679 Speaker 3: I get it scheduled for a year, but my rule 79 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 3: is I can't go past a year and a half, 80 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 3: so that usually involves one or two reschedules because I 81 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 3: hate it that much. 82 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 2: Well, how my dentist has not broken up with me. 83 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 2: I have no idea, dude. 84 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: When we first started working together, she would have a 85 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 3: dentist appoint I married you. 86 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 5: Literally that would show. 87 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 3: I was like, hey, so are you ever actually going 88 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 3: to go to your dentist appointment? 89 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 2: This is friend, this is this is this is my 90 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: really bad, toxic trait. I know I can't go on 91 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 2: this day. When I'm making the appointment. 92 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 7: I actually physically know it's our people. I can't show 93 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 7: up and I can't say I'm sorry I can't go. 94 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 7: Sounds great when I know I cannot make that time 95 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 7: nor date, but yet I make it and then I 96 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 7: don't call to change it because I feel bad. 97 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 5: That's why I don't want to talk to people. 98 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 4: That's exactly a parking lot to be like you, guys. 99 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 4: I just was fraudulent at the desk in there. I 100 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 4: knew I was a good to make you guys. I 101 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 4: made an appointment for Preston. I literally said to the 102 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 4: girls at the front desk to get his blood work done. 103 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 4: I said, I'm going to get a text message the 104 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 4: minute you hit enter, and that pops into his number 105 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 4: and says he has an appointment tomorrow for blood work. 106 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 4: I'm going to get a text that says why am 107 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 4: I going to get blood work? 108 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 5: Clockwork? And then I had to call and cancel it. 109 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 110 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's where you're in between us because I'm 111 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 3: the same. That's why I don't want to call and 112 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 3: talk to the person because I'm gonna feel really bad 113 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 3: calling her back when I have to reschedule it. 114 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 5: But I agree. 115 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 3: If I'm on the phone with someone, they're like, how 116 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 3: about this, And I'll say no for the first one, 117 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: so it doesn't work. Once we get to the second one, 118 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 3: I feel so bad I have to say it. I'll 119 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 3: just say yes and then I'll reschedule it later. And 120 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 3: I get off phone on I'll just reschedule this later. 121 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 2: And then I forget to reschedule them. They're calling me 122 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I know why they're calling me, So 123 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:41,919 Speaker 2: then I decline it. And now it's been and now 124 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 2: I'm six months late for the dentist because I'm afraid 125 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 2: to go. 126 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 3: Back and this is where she is more like me. 127 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 3: She's so you're right there in the middle. I am Kristin, 128 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:54,359 Speaker 3: would never know you would never actually book something that you. 129 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 4: I will rearrange that morning to make sure that the 130 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 4: third date they gave me just works because I just 131 00:04:58,960 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 4: don't want. 132 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 5: To feel so about it, right right? 133 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: Oh? 134 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 4: I really love love us too. Hey, speaking of scheduling, 135 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 4: can I toss something out as a topic for all 136 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 4: of us? 137 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 6: Yeah? 138 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 4: Please tell me about the holidays because it's already started 139 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 4: at our house. 140 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 5: Oh where will we go? And will they all? 141 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 2: No one wants to come see us? 142 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 5: So well, you wait, that's not funny what happened yet? 143 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 2: No? 144 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 5: I want to I want to go back to this. 145 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:29,799 Speaker 2: Nobody ever comes to see us for the holidays, invite anybody? Well, 146 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 2: it's always like an open door truth yours is, yeah, 147 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 2: you know. But and this year his his family in Scotland. 148 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 2: It's such a journey for them too, so they can't come, 149 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 2: which is such a bummer. But I get it, you know, 150 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 2: they don't. They were here last year, so I understand 151 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 2: that piece. But like my family, they're like, no, no 152 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 2: one ever comes. But it's fine, yes, is it i'd. 153 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 5: Wait, so you're but you're going home for Thanksgiving? 154 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 2: I am going home for Thanksgiving because I have the 155 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 2: kids this year. Yeah. Yeah, so when I have the kids, 156 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 2: we go home to Michigan. So but for Christmas, I mean, 157 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 2: it's just us. 158 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 5: What would happen if you did invite them, they wouldn't come, okay, which. 159 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 4: Is why she goes there because she knows. 160 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:11,359 Speaker 5: How are you fair? 161 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 2: Because I even asked, because I was like, oh, Mom, 162 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 2: what are you doing for Christmas? And she was like, oh, 163 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 2: we're just going to go here there. Oh yeah, and 164 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 2: it's so accurate. 165 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 4: The Michigan accent. 166 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 2: It's so good to me. 167 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, fine, I sent out. I have a toxic trait, 168 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 4: which is sending out things and thinking I'll get a response. 169 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 4: I sent out like a two weeks ago, almost a 170 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 4: everyone on a group chat, Hey guys, just checking in. 171 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 4: I want to see if anybody had any plans already 172 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 4: for Thanksgiving, because you know, hotels are like astronomical. Now 173 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 4: I don't know if anybody's hotel lately, but it's like, 174 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 4: my lord, everything. So I'm going if we're going to 175 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 4: do this and we're going to go like into Indiana, 176 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 4: I would love to book it earlier than later, just 177 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 4: so that we can like save as much as we 178 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 4: can save or whatever. And I sent it out and 179 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 4: say I would will gladly host you there, because I 180 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 4: know it's overwhelming then to host extra people and you 181 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 4: know cute little houses and you know, yeah, yeah, it's 182 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 4: got quite a collector of things, and so I know 183 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:09,559 Speaker 4: what it looks like to have little kids in that house, 184 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 4: and so I said, we can host. We're happy to 185 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 4: host at a restaurant for that portion of it to 186 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 4: make it easy on everyone there, or happy to host 187 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 4: you here, or we're happy to do nothing at all, 188 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 4: which is my secret pick and do our own thing. 189 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 4: And Preston writes back, he's like, across the room, so 190 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 4: he should write that. My mom writes back and she's like, okay, 191 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 4: I have this plan, but if it falls through, I'm good, 192 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 4: which is probably where I get it from, like the 193 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 4: wanting to like lock it in. Eight days later, I 194 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 4: do a well check on Preston's parents, like because then 195 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 4: it becomes something because I said, this feels rude to me. 196 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 4: Just send anything back. Yeah, I'm trying to just I'm 197 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 4: willing to host you here there in a. 198 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 2: Box with a fox like just yeah, rustrating, Yeah, and 199 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 2: still nothing. 200 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 4: Oh, I still have no idea what we're doing. 201 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 2: And it's see that's frustrating because you're you're you want 202 00:07:59,920 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 2: to at least planned, because you're really good at hosting 203 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 2: and planning and getting things situated. But last minute isn't 204 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 2: that a baby? 205 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 5: Yeah? 206 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 4: Like I'm like, if we're going to do a hotel. 207 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 4: His home hometown doesn't have like like hotel hotels. They 208 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 4: have like a fine hotel, but if you're going to 209 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 4: go for like four nights, you want to feel a 210 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 4: little cozier? 211 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 3: Would it be Do they just not like to make 212 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 3: decisions like would it be better? I'm just saying, would 213 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 3: it be better to say, how about this plan? This 214 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 3: is what we're going with. Does this work for you? 215 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 3: Like making that decision? 216 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 4: They did, I've done it and there we're ten years in. 217 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 4: I just tried something. 218 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 3: I'm just thinking, like, I mean, if if I were 219 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 3: to get like three or four options, I'd be like, 220 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 3: I don't really care, can you choose? You know, because 221 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 3: I don't like that kind of stuff. I don't have 222 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 3: a preference usually, So it's kind of like I want 223 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 3: someone to make the decision for me. 224 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think now we're just going to make our 225 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 4: own plan. 226 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I would do if I get it 227 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 3: out and I got nothing. Oh, I'm making my own plan. 228 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 3: Don't expect me at this point. I just had I 229 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 3: get a very sad husband. He loves to be with 230 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 3: his family on holidays, and that is something we don't 231 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 3: like align with. Yeah, I am so good with the 232 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 3: unit being. 233 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 2: The yeah that yes, yeah, we don't have the kids 234 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 2: Christmas morning, Christmas Eve, so that's it's going to be 235 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 2: a sad one. But at the same time, I'm almost 236 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:13,599 Speaker 2: okay with just us three and then welcoming yeah, you know, 237 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 2: the kiddo's and this year two. 238 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 4: But he gets really sad if if it's like Thanksgiving 239 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 4: and I'm pumped because the tablescape is cute and it's 240 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 4: just the five of us, He'll be sad if his 241 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,439 Speaker 4: parents aren't there, and so I'm trying to that and 242 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 4: I don't want to put his mom in a position 243 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 4: where she can't have all of her boys. And two 244 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 4: of her boys are there and one boy is here, 245 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:32,199 Speaker 4: so I'm like, let's I can bring it, let's bring 246 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 4: him there. Yeah, still nothing, So I just wondered where 247 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 4: y'all's did. 248 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 2: It's frustrating. 249 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 5: Does Alan get sad, Like, is he's sad his family. 250 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 2: Won't Yeah, I think he's. I think he's bummed and 251 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 2: I'm too because we don't get to see them that 252 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 2: often and we can't fly there because of we're doing 253 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 2: the green card stuff right now. He has to be 254 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 2: in the country for a certain amount of days, so, 255 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 2: you know, because we probably would have gone there knowing 256 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 2: that we didn't have the kids on the front end. 257 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 2: Oh right right, but we just we can't go anywhere, 258 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,439 Speaker 2: so kind of landlocked, which is a bummer. 259 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 4: I actually really love Allen's family and I miss them. 260 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 4: We had this like kind of real world moment when 261 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,719 Speaker 4: we were all together in Scotland. Yeah, and now I'm like, 262 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 4: I kind of want to get the house back together. 263 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 3: We can Saturday. 264 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 4: I know, she's like, are you coming in for this? 265 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 4: And I'm like, I'm not. But I love that y' 266 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 4: all know each other because we were roommates. 267 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fun. 268 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:24,079 Speaker 4: What are you guys doing or which? 269 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 5: For Thanksgiving? 270 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 3: We'll just well for everything, we'll just basically go because 271 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:28,679 Speaker 3: both of our families are here. 272 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, so we'll just go to each house. 273 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 5: Basically. 274 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 3: I think Thanksgiving. I think we're just going to go 275 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 3: to my in loss and my parents may come. 276 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 2: I cannot believe it's the holidays coming up. I was 277 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 2: starting the Christmas shopping and I'm just like, how are 278 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 2: we doing this? This is so crazy to me. Roman 279 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 2: has four teeth coming in, Like, what has happened? I know, 280 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 2: did you see him walk? Yeah? 281 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 4: I saw walk last time. But he's like pulling him. 282 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 4: I know he's without using assistant. 283 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he's like running basically now, I love him. 284 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 2: He's kicking soccer balls, sodas coming. I know, I know 285 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 2: what it's crazy. I know he's got four on the 286 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 2: top coming in. This guy's a little Botto two. I'm like, 287 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 2: this is just nuts. But things are changing, just like 288 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 2: the Christmas shows are changing. They're getting a murdery what 289 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 2: what are we calling it? A murder? 290 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 5: Mistletoe murders? 291 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:22,320 Speaker 2: Mistletoe murders. They're taking Holy Ghost to a whole other level. 292 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 2: And I'm not here for hey you and we're going 293 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 2: to have our girl, Sarah Drew. It's been a year 294 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 2: since she's been on, so let's take a break and 295 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 2: then welcome her back onto Windown. 296 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: Hi, hikay ladies and beautiful ladies, it's going to see 297 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: you again. 298 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 6: Hi. 299 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: I love you always. Just I'm like, oh, Sarah Drew 300 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 2: just coming coming on. 301 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,960 Speaker 1: I know, since we did the podcast, we've like messaged 302 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: each other and been like you got this mama, and 303 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:00,839 Speaker 1: and so. 304 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 4: I'm also like, am I not in your movie? 305 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 6: Wasn't my decisions? 306 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 5: I actually didn't get to cast it. 307 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 6: I did, I was not. I was not part of 308 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 6: the casting. Weird. 309 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 2: Even I'm always like, yeah, we're always like dming back 310 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 2: and forth now and then like the last one, I 311 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 2: was like, all right, what the fuck? I was like, 312 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 2: why was I not in this one? And I'm like 313 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 2: it's signs. Sign's fine. I still love you. 314 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 5: Just them each other recipes until you're not. I'm not excited. 315 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 4: I feel like we're just homies because you're back with us, yay, 316 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 4: and what feels like only yesterday. It was over a 317 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 4: year ago since you were on wind Down. 318 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,839 Speaker 2: I know where we like caused all the drama, so. 319 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: Much drama, so much sexy drama snl all because of you. 320 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 2: I mean I thought for sure I was like done 321 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 2: for you know, like I thought lifetime would never hire 322 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 2: me again. 323 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 6: So that was what are you talking about? It was 324 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 6: like them. 325 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 2: Texted you or like a dmy s freaking out. My god, 326 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 2: I was like, should we take this out? You know, no, 327 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 2: it's just got picked up. But you know, anything that 328 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 2: comes up headlining, I freak out. 329 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 7: Yeah. 330 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 4: But when you've made SNL, you've made it. 331 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 2: But now I mean I want to go to the other, 332 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 2: to the one you're doing now. But then you wrote 333 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 2: another steamy one for lifetime that comes out a carpenter 334 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 2: Christmas or something. 335 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 6: Carveer Christmas romance. 336 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 5: I don't know what a lot to do with wood, 337 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 5: Sarah Drew, what do you. 338 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 4: Want to do? 339 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 6: There's some hard wood, some. 340 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 4: Screwing, if you will, But the carpenter there's. 341 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:36,479 Speaker 6: One that needs to be sanded and chiseled. 342 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 2: How steamy is this one? How? How is it compared 343 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 2: to the Chris Country christ whatever that whatever? What it 344 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:48,200 Speaker 2: was like, I've been like in the Christmas and lousy 345 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 2: and it's like they're all the romance Christmas one. 346 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I mean it has a bit more steam 347 00:13:54,360 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 1: actually this time around. Really yeah, I mean give the 348 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 1: audience what they want, right. 349 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 4: I love it? 350 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 2: So, like, describe how much more steam. 351 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: Well, I can't give it all the way. There's much more. 352 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 1: There's more shirtless. There's an under the sheets scene, which 353 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: is my favorite scene of the of the entire movie. 354 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: It's so like, it's like Romeo and Juliette the Lark, 355 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: you know, the boss lerm and Romeo and Juliet kind 356 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 1: of that was the inspiration for it. It's really it's 357 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: really tender, but it's also really sexy. So yeah, I 358 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 1: mean there's just there's a lot more making out. 359 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 4: It's yeah, well, since you're already not gravitating towards the 360 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 4: Christ and Christmas, I have a question about the series. 361 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 6: What I believe. So that's the funny thing about all 362 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 6: of it. But I also like like romance too. 363 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 5: You also like I also really like Murder. 364 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 2: That's where Christen's like, we need to talk talk to 365 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 2: her because what did you say? I was like, how 366 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 2: murder in Christmas? 367 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 368 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 4: I was like, how are we marrying murdering Christmas? I 369 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 4: feel very concerned and nervous, but I trust you, so 370 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 4: I know it must be good. 371 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 6: It's so good, you guys. I'm so proud of it. 372 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: We just did a premiere of it or a screening 373 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 1: a press screening last night, and it was really fun 374 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: watching it with an audience. It's a really interesting mix 375 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 1: of two different genres that are super beloved. It kind 376 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: of has you feel a little murder, she wrote, and 377 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: Verona ka Mars. But the backdrop is this sweet, little 378 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: cozy town and my character owns a Christmas shop, so 379 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: it's all happening at Christmas time. But there there's there 380 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 1: are murders to be solved, and there's romance, and there's comedy, 381 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 1: and it's a really it's really interesting tonally because it 382 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: kind of feels like it's like Christmas Noir. 383 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 2: How many episodes or yeah, because there's it's. 384 00:15:56,800 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: Six episodes in season one, and every two episodes we 385 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 1: solve a murder, so there's a nice cliffhanger at the 386 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: end of every episode. 387 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 6: And then there's so there's. 388 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: The there are three over the course of six episodes, 389 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 1: there are three individual murders that we're solving, and then 390 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: the through line is sort of the bigger mystery, which 391 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 1: is who is this person? Who is Emily Lane, what's 392 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: her backstory, what's she running from? What's she running to? 393 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: Why does this Christmas shop owner have these ridiculously crazy 394 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 1: skills that she should not possess. Where did they come from? 395 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 1: What is she telling the truth? 396 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 6: Is she lying? So there's just a lot of really. 397 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 1: Fun intrigue throughout the whole thing, But you still get 398 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: all the cozy feelings because it's like a really wonderful, 399 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: colorful cast of characters, and it's written really well, it's 400 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 1: really clever. 401 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 6: It's a lot of fun. 402 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 2: Where did you guys film it at Toronto? Okay? Am 403 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 2: I making this up? That the kids stayed in Los Angeles? Right? Yes, 404 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 2: seest where we were like, you were having a hard 405 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 2: time because it was a it was a big chunk. 406 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 6: This year's been crazy. Yeah. 407 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:09,160 Speaker 1: My husband was gone teaching at Dartmouth for ten weeks 408 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:12,919 Speaker 1: in the winter, and then I was gone shooting for 409 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 1: ten weeks in the summer, and he's gone again teaching 410 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,880 Speaker 1: for ten weeks in the in this fall. So it's 411 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: been a really kind of wild roller coaster trying to 412 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: figure out how to stay connected. But during the summer, 413 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: the kids it was their summer break, so they came 414 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: out for like a week and a half or two 415 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: and a half weeks or somewhere around there. They get 416 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 1: they get they're over it after about a week and 417 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: a half because they don't see me unless they're visiting set. 418 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 1: But I'm working and now Micah and Hannah are very 419 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 1: interested in this industry. Especially Mike is a little filmmaker. 420 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,880 Speaker 1: He makes short films, so he was soaking up all 421 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: he was like chatting and chatting up the directors and 422 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 1: talking to VFX guys and like hanging out watching how 423 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: they're setting up the shop. So he loved all of it, 424 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 1: and he would have stayed on set probably every day, 425 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 1: but they needed to get back for their acting camp 426 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 1: that they're obsessed with. 427 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I saw that. That was cute. Yeah, we 428 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 2: were just talking offline earlier because I had just done 429 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,679 Speaker 2: like the Lifetime movie and then I got offered a 430 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,440 Speaker 2: Christmas Lifetime one. But it would I would have only 431 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 2: had a two week break, yeah, and then I would 432 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 2: have been home, and then I had I was filming 433 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 2: something else later that and I'm like, I look back 434 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 2: and I go, why didn't I do that? But then 435 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 2: I realized that the mom guilt was if obviously I 436 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 2: didn't have the kids, I would have gone and I 437 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:48,399 Speaker 2: would have filmed, But then I didn't want to be away, 438 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 2: and so it's having that kind of push and pull 439 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:52,239 Speaker 2: where now I'm like, why didn't I just do it? 440 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 2: Like the kids would have been fine. I would have, 441 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 2: you know, been gone for a month, but everyone would 442 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,440 Speaker 2: have survived. But there's this I don't know what it is, 443 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 2: and maybe I can. I feel like i'd manage it well, 444 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 2: but when I see you, I'm like, well, she went 445 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,959 Speaker 2: off and did it and the kids survived and everyone 446 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 2: was fine. But it's still in that moment. It's hard. 447 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 6: Oh, it's so hard. It's so hard. 448 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: It's so hard every time, every time I say goodbye, 449 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:15,640 Speaker 1: it's hard every time. 450 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:17,160 Speaker 6: Re Entry is really hard. 451 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 1: That's almost harder actually coming back in after I've been 452 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: gone for a long time. 453 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 6: And my husband has established. 454 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:29,240 Speaker 1: Like really good boundaries with the kids so that they 455 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 1: are helping because he's when he's gone, my parents live 456 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 1: with me, so I get so much help because I'm 457 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: in and out of town all the time. But when 458 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 1: I'm gone, it's really Peter on his own with the kids. 459 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 1: So when I'm gone, they have like a schedule of 460 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 1: which nights a week they can watch something. They know 461 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: exactly what day they're doing their laundry and folding their laundry, 462 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 1: they have to help make dinner, they have to help 463 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 1: make their lunches, like, they have so many tasks because 464 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:01,440 Speaker 1: he can't physically get it all done himself. So then 465 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 1: I come in and I want to do all the 466 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 1: stuff because I haven't been momming in that way, and 467 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 1: I want to. 468 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:09,679 Speaker 6: Like, I'll do your laundry. I want to phod, and 469 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 6: he's like, no, that's not helpful. 470 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 1: That's actually makes it more difficult for me the next 471 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 1: time you go. So we have so I have to 472 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: sort of re enter into a new energy that they've 473 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:25,199 Speaker 1: created in my absence. So there's always this sort of 474 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,160 Speaker 1: re entries I think harder. 475 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 2: I definitely feel that too, because when my kids are 476 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 2: at my exes, like they're not used to being there 477 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 2: so much, and then like when they're away from Alan 478 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 2: to like, the kids act different when they come back 479 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 2: even around to like to Alan, and so it's such 480 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 2: a I'm like, wow, I see that even on the 481 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:45,360 Speaker 2: weekends when they come back, there's like this distance for 482 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:46,719 Speaker 2: for a few days and then it's like all right, 483 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:51,160 Speaker 2: we're back into it. But for longer periods it is like, yeah. 484 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: It takes a couple of days to kind of go, okay, 485 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 1: here's our rhythm, here's our routine. Sometimes I get a 486 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 1: little punished by my kids for having been gone. There's 487 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 1: just a little en energy of I really missed you 488 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 1: and I don't like that you leave. 489 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:09,360 Speaker 6: But I feel very, very strongly whenever I leave. 490 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,679 Speaker 1: For a job, I say to the kids, I hate 491 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 1: that my work brings me away from you and creates 492 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:19,679 Speaker 1: that distance. But I love what I do so much, 493 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm living into my purpose when 494 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: I get to do this work and I'm excited. I 495 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,200 Speaker 1: love what I do. I'm excited to go do this thing. 496 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 1: I will miss you so much, and also I'm excited 497 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 1: to do this work as opposed to leaving the house 498 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,479 Speaker 1: and just being like, oh, I know, it's the worst. 499 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 6: I hate it. I can't believe I have to go. 500 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: Because if I leave to go shoot a movie with 501 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: that energy, then they're like. 502 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 6: Well, why would you go? Then? What about this negative? 503 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 6: Why would you go? 504 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: You know? And it's funny because I've heard it reflected back. 505 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:01,479 Speaker 1: My son is making movies now, and he made this. 506 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 1: He's incredible. He made this in these incredible short films. 507 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 1: He builds his own special effects, and he spends hours 508 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 1: and hours and hours teaching himself through YouTube tutorials and whatever. 509 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 1: And I was telling him over the phone, I'm just 510 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 1: so proud of you and proud of your dedication and 511 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 1: your focus and like really crafting all this stuff. And 512 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,439 Speaker 1: he says back to me, well, you know, mom, I 513 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:23,120 Speaker 1: love what I do. 514 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 2: That's so sweet. 515 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, and to be able to show my daughter that, like, 516 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: my life is bigger than just being at home, and 517 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:38,199 Speaker 1: I have this world where I get to use the 518 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 1: gifts that I believe have been given to me out 519 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 1: in the world, Like. 520 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,679 Speaker 6: It's I think it's great for her to see that. 521 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:48,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's such a good point because even when I 522 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 3: travel a little bit for work, when I kind of 523 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 3: get mom guilt, I've done the opposite. And that's such 524 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 3: a good point. I would not have thought about, like 525 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 3: I feel like if I'm like, oh, I don't really 526 00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,400 Speaker 3: feel like going, I wish I was here with you, 527 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 3: I'm excited or not excited, then that I haven't thought 528 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 3: about that how that can make them be like, then 529 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 3: why are you choosing to go if you're not excited 530 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 3: like that? 531 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: Like you think that it's saying it's so awful that 532 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 1: I'm going is gonna make them feel better, but in fact, 533 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 1: it actually makes them feel worse because then it's like, 534 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:19,360 Speaker 1: well that doesn't compute, right. 535 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 4: And my kids are getting old enough to bust my 536 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 4: husband now because he travels a ton and his re entry. 537 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,879 Speaker 4: It's interesting to hear re entry stories because we go 538 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 4: through it like every week. We're about to go through 539 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,639 Speaker 4: it again on Friday, and then we'll go through it 540 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,640 Speaker 4: again on Sunday, because it's like these little pockets. Yeah, 541 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 4: but it's so funny because he'll be like, yeah, I 542 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:37,199 Speaker 4: don't want to go, it's not gonna be fun, and 543 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:38,920 Speaker 4: then we FaceTime and he's like going down like an 544 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 4: ice loge or something, and they're like that, so it 545 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,479 Speaker 4: seems fun and I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna need him 546 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 4: to get pretty honest here because the truth my clients 547 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 4: are getting pretty smart about what you're up. 548 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:52,400 Speaker 3: To, yeah, and what you're teaching your kids, like that's 549 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,919 Speaker 3: so important, especially the girls, like you said, like to 550 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 3: show them like we love our job, we love being 551 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 3: a mother, but we also love our job and that's 552 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,640 Speaker 3: so important, so true, thank you for that. 553 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 6: Yeah. 554 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, my son also is asks me like Hey, Mom, 555 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 1: how's your day? What did you get to shoot today? 556 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 1: What was fun about it? What scene made you feel 557 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,439 Speaker 1: really alive? Like? Those are the questions he asks me 558 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,879 Speaker 1: when we get a chance to talk. And then I 559 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 1: could be I like a gush about like, oh, I 560 00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: had so much fun. Oh my gosh, there's a really 561 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 1: cool shot. And I sent him behind the scenes videos, 562 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 1: like especially if for doing VFX stuff, I'll like record myself, 563 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 1: I'll talk to the VFX guy and then I'll so 564 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: just to include him while because he's so interested in 565 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 1: it while I'm away just giving that enthusiasm for life 566 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,719 Speaker 1: in all the different shapes, in all the different places 567 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,639 Speaker 1: it takes us. I think it's just there's there's nothing 568 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 1: bad about it. It only is going to benefit them. 569 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 2: It is out right now. 570 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 5: Yes, And I'm trusting you because I really love you. 571 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 6: I'm telling you you're gonna love this show. 572 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 4: I have a lot of disconnecting my body about the 573 00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 4: show now. 574 00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 2: I think it's going to be great. 575 00:24:58,520 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 5: Oh it's right up, my Alex. 576 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a really fun twist on both of the 577 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:07,159 Speaker 1: genres and it's and it works, It really works. I 578 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 1: can't speak highly enough about it all of the cast 579 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,919 Speaker 1: is amazing, The writing is amazing. The romance is so 580 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: like it's drawn out and like a really slow burn, 581 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 1: but it's really beautiful and it's deep and grounded, and 582 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:24,159 Speaker 1: and then all the like badassory of the character and 583 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 1: her backstory is just super fun. 584 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:26,959 Speaker 6: You'll love it. You're you'll love it. 585 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: And then the hope is the next season you start 586 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 2: filming again, next season. 587 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 1: Hopefully, Yeah, that would be. Yeah, we'll see, We'll see 588 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 1: how it does, but we I hope for many more seasons. 589 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 1: We leave season one on a pretty big cliffhanger that's 590 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:41,439 Speaker 1: gonna make you go. 591 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 6: What more. 592 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 2: Favorite and what what are you writing next? Like? What 593 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 2: is what are you excited about that you're working on 594 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 2: right now in the writing space. 595 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 6: So I have a true story. 596 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: It's been an ongoing process because it's still like a 597 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 1: spec script. I have pretty sirs, but not we don't 598 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 1: have like a studio or a network or anything. So 599 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: it's really been I'm trying to find the space to 600 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 1: do it, and I'm like, it's not gonna happen until 601 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 1: mid November that I can get back to it. But 602 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 1: it's a really incredible true story about a woman who 603 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,159 Speaker 1: went through a pretty epic trauma when she was a kid, 604 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 1: and twenty years later it kind of derailed her life. 605 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:26,880 Speaker 1: And then twenty years later there's a catalyst that makes 606 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 1: her go back to the hometown and try to confront 607 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,639 Speaker 1: what happened. And it's about her healing kind of with 608 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: her younger self. And yeah, it's and it's it's a 609 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 1: really beautiful story. It's a beautiful story about forgiveness and 610 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: healing and learning to love yourself and shame. 611 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 6: It's about shame. 612 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 4: I got to tell you. That feels a little more 613 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:51,080 Speaker 4: at my alley. But I'm still in for all the 614 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,600 Speaker 4: things you do, bab It's Hallmark. It's not like we're 615 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 4: asking to watch that, you know what. 616 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 1: I mean, Well, this is not Hallmark. This would never 617 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,800 Speaker 1: be on Hallmark. This thing I'm writing, yeah. 618 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,640 Speaker 2: No, no, but I'm saying that the other one is yes, yeah, yeah, 619 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, that's that's Hallmark. I was like, that's you know, yeah, 620 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 2: that's You're You're good, very good, Sarah. Just so we're clear, 621 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:09,640 Speaker 2: I'm never good. 622 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:11,719 Speaker 4: And the one that watches Epray Love over and over 623 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,160 Speaker 4: again because I'm like, oh that feels cozy. 624 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 5: I'll just intettle right here. 625 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 6: I just want to feel cozy. 626 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, it feels fair. So you're Emily Lane in the 627 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,919 Speaker 4: series that's out now, this murder Christmas Murders. Thank you. 628 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 4: I keep doing it under missiletoe. 629 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:24,879 Speaker 6: It's a Christmas tree. 630 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 4: Okay. 631 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 5: I really enjoy that immensely. That appeals to me. 632 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 4: So you're Emily Lane and it she's the main character, 633 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,680 Speaker 4: she's the shop owner. Yeah, okay, I'm going to ask 634 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:35,680 Speaker 4: the question that Jane always asks him, stealing her question, 635 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 4: but being friends with an actress, I've now learned that 636 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 4: this matters. And so I want to know what parts 637 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 4: of you and Emily match. And that's not me question, 638 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 4: that's actually what Jane would ask if I gave her 639 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 4: the minute to do it. 640 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:53,880 Speaker 6: I think fundamentally she is. 641 00:27:55,520 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 1: A bigger over arching story is Emily's desire to fight mind. 642 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 6: Home. 643 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:06,160 Speaker 1: That's a very big kind of through line for her, 644 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,359 Speaker 1: and it comes out in lots of different ways. And 645 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:16,680 Speaker 1: I think like a home is everything to me as well. 646 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,680 Speaker 1: And I go into all these different places and when 647 00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:23,640 Speaker 1: I stay home, I say I mean my family, my kids, 648 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 1: my home, my house, and also my friends, like my 649 00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: chosen home, the place where you can be actually exactly 650 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,120 Speaker 1: who you are, and there's there's no shame and there's 651 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 1: no judgment and you can let everything out. And I 652 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: think she is in pursuit of that in a way 653 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 1: that I also am in my life. She's a really 654 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 1: really good puzzler and sluthor and I am not. 655 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 6: So that's very very different. But in that way, she's 656 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:53,440 Speaker 6: actually a lot like my mom. 657 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 1: My mom is like a huge puzzler, and she's a 658 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 1: scientist and she like her brain works in that way, 659 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 1: I and I Micah wanted to do a murder mystery 660 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 1: party for his birthday this year, and I did all 661 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 1: the costumes obviously pirate murder mystery party. 662 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 6: Half of the guests were adults. 663 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 1: This is this is my son, and everybody fully committed. 664 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 6: But I was like, I just want to host. I 665 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 6: just want to make sure everybody's okay. 666 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to play a role. I don't want 667 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: to figure out who killed the person. So she's she's 668 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 1: very different. I think she's also really empathetic, and I'm 669 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 1: I'm I'm an EmPATH as well. 670 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,280 Speaker 4: My love, those are beautiful things to have in common 671 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 4: with her. Yeah, we did a murder mystery here for 672 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,040 Speaker 4: Jani's fortieth and I saw pictures. 673 00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 6: Y'all looked amazing. 674 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 4: We were so confused. 675 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, no one won, did they know? 676 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 6: No one solve it. 677 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 2: I don't think anyone solved it. I think that group did, 678 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 2: did they? 679 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 4: I think it was tricky because there was a couple 680 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 4: of the guy like the people that led it also 681 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 4: played double characters, but in our brains they played triple 682 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,320 Speaker 4: characters because we just met them, so we were going used 683 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 4: what was super confusing. 684 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I find the whole thing super confusing. But Micah 685 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: invited his like three best friends who are all theater kids, 686 00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 1: with their families who are all theater people, and so 687 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 1: everybody fully like showed up in character and break character 688 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 1: and were committed to discovering the truth, playing scenes in 689 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 1: various corners of the house. 690 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,240 Speaker 6: I was like, I can't do this. 691 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:35,640 Speaker 5: That's fantastic, that's amazing. We had a lot of fun 692 00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 5: doing it. We just all got it wrong. 693 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: It was fun to actually figured it out on our end. 694 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 1: He was he was the he was the one that 695 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 1: figured it out. 696 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 3: It was fun to see the people that actually like 697 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 3: went into acting mode, which was not you. 698 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 2: No, I shy away from it, like I'm like, wait, 699 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 2: you got to give. 700 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 6: Me a script, give me a script. 701 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 2: I'm just you really didn't, but you were so cute. No, 702 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 2: just something like I'd rather just like watch everybody have fun. 703 00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 2: Like that's my thing, you know, because whenever we go anywhere, 704 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 2: you know, Jolie, butig want to show ride this or 705 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 2: do that. I'm like, I just want to see everybody 706 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 2: have fun, Like everyone go, I'll take the photos and 707 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 2: I'll you know, I just I just wanted to be 708 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 2: a part of it. 709 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 6: I love. That's very much my vibe too, That's I 710 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 6: love that part. 711 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think everybody have a good time. But Janna 712 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 4: is so sleuthy that I thought for sure she would 713 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 4: figure it out. 714 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,760 Speaker 2: No, No, are you a sloop? I don't think so, 715 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 2: But who knows. But you said earlier that when we've 716 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 2: talked about this too, you're you're really, you know, big 717 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 2: on your faith and you're public about that. Where in 718 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 2: your life does your faith get tested the most? 719 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 1: I think that the It's the biggest thing that's sort 720 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,600 Speaker 1: of been with me since I started in this career, 721 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: which is allowing the industry and people's opinion of me 722 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 1: or how fancy or famous I am to begin to 723 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 1: define me and I to fy my worth. And I 724 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:07,160 Speaker 1: think that's the hardest thing, to be able to fully 725 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 1: live into the truth and reality that I am fundamentally 726 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 1: beloved and belong and and have. My identity is rooted 727 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 1: in being a child of God and being a mother, 728 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 1: in being a wife, and being a friend. 729 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 6: Daughter and sister. 730 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 1: So I my battle and the way that my faith 731 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: is tested is just in the remembering, the remembering of 732 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 1: who I am and who what my identity is and 733 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: what it's grounded in. That's I think the hardest thing, 734 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 1: and I struggle with it all the time. And I 735 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 1: have times where I'm like, I just feel so loved 736 00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 1: and known and seen and it's wonderful. 737 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 6: And then I have other times where I'm like, ah. 738 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 1: I feel so useless and worthless and nobody likes me, 739 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: and and I forget it's it's them, it's the Remember 740 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 1: I love. 741 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 2: That, Sarah. I always thank you for coming on, always 742 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 2: bringing your truth. And and we're so excited. I am. 743 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 2: I am very excited to watch this because yeah. 744 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 5: I'm cautiously it'll be the first one. 745 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 2: And you're gonna love it too. 746 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 5: I believe you. 747 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 2: You're going to watch these series on a Hallmark Plus. 748 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 2: Sarah Drew, you're the best. Thank you friend, thank you. 749 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,400 Speaker 6: Good to see so good to see you guys. 750 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 4: Bye, talk too soon.