WEBVTT - EP1342: CRAZIEST BREAKUPS on Reddit 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.520 I don't want to be with my boyfriend after he dies? 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:05.560 Am I the a hole? Sam? Listeners? What do you 0:00:05.559 --> 0:00:08.600 think he's dead? It's called death to us part and 0:00:08.640 --> 0:00:11.640 then you part? But what if you're trying to snuggle 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:15.520 in six feet under? You know, get nice and come on? 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:17.080 I don't know, I don't know. 0:00:17.320 --> 0:00:20.160 I heard that you become a wrecked after you die 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:22.520 because of like a rigor mortis. 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:24.840 Riga mortis. Yeah? Is that true? Is that true? 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:27.680 I don't know, I have I don't think. It's probably 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:28.800 not true. 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:32.920 Do you become unless you're one of us? Well maybe 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:34.360 one of us? 0:00:34.520 --> 0:00:38.640 One of us? But yeah, I heard you'd get like 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:41.120 stinky and bloated. That's all I've ever heard. Yeah, do 0:00:41.120 --> 0:00:43.200 you wait rightly? Do you become a wrecked after you die? 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:47.440 A more or less complete stage of erection of the 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:51.120 penis with discharge of urine and other fluids? 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:55.720 Wo? Bro, do I know penis is or what? Dude? 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:58.920 You really do? Yeah? I do. Let's read the story 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:00.160 for zoom and. 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:03.360 This is submitted from our slash Okop show. If you 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:04.920 want to send in your own stories, go to our 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:08.000 slash Okop show on Reddit or call four four zero 0:01:08.080 --> 0:01:10.759 five zero eight six five sixty seven and send him in. 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:14.280 But let's get into the story. This comes from Altruistic 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:18.040 Fox twenty five. They say, I, twenty three female and 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:20.840 my boyfriend twenty five male, have been together for two years. 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:23.960 Monogamy is important to both of us, and ultimately we 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:26.479 want to be married someday and have kids. He rides 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:28.840 a motorcycle and knows that there's a risk of severe 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:31.440 injury or even death every time he rides. It doesn't 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:33.679 matter how safe he is if other people are on 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:35.160 the road not being safe. 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:35.600 Fair. 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:38.120 The thing that's causing his problems is that he is 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:41.320 absolutely sure that he would remain faithful to me for 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:44.800 the rest of my life if I died, but I 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:47.080 am not willing to promise the same. 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:51.600 Who cares you're fucking dead? 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:55.080 Yeah, Like that's also why would you even bring that up? 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:59.160 It's like so unnecessary. I don't know, I don't know. 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:01.120 It seems like you're written inviting. 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:03.480 Some some weird conversations. 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:06.880 And unneeded negative energy. Dude, Like, why focus on that? 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:10.680 I don't even like, is there any culture where you 0:02:11.280 --> 0:02:13.040 can't remarry after your your. 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:16.920 I'm sure person dies someone somewhere the the the marriage 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:20.960 is an old after your partner dies, because it till 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:22.120 death do us part? 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:24.800 Death is the parting? What if? What if I want 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:27.359 to marry a ghost? What if sexual? You know what 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:28.240 I'm talking about? 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:28.560 Oh? 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:32.720 What's that movie the Ghosts that that has sex with 0:02:32.760 --> 0:02:39.960 the persons? 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:43.440 Yeah, one of those scary house. Scary house. 0:02:43.600 --> 0:02:47.680 Okay, Now, I'm still young enough to find love again 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:51.000 and have kids if he died. Now, why are you 0:02:51.120 --> 0:02:54.760 talking about? This is crazy necessary? And I think that 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:57.080 that's okay. I don't think it would be easy to 0:02:57.120 --> 0:02:59.960 fall for someone else, and he has my whole heart now, 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:03.440 But why should I promise to be by myself and 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:05.639 never have kids if he dies? 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:08.080 Am I supposed to be miserable? No? 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:11.919 This is a crazy conversation. It seems like he thinks. 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:15.040 So he says that if I were to remarry after 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:18.799 he dies, he couldn't spend the afterlife with another man's woman, 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:24.200 that I would be cheating. This is the dumbest If 0:03:24.240 --> 0:03:26.480 they break up over this, this is the dumbest breakup 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:28.840 I've ever heard. Oh boy, will you It's like the 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:31.760 equaval like will you love me if I'm a worm? 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:36.800 But he asked who I'd be buried next to if 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:42.560 I married another man like this really quick fucking red 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:46.800 flag if I've ever seen or heard one go Like, 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:50.360 come on, bro stop it. He asked if I would 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:53.440 be married next to my first husband or my second 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:55.040 husband both. 0:03:56.000 --> 0:04:01.720 Yeah, right in the middle of bull Tower. I told 0:04:01.800 --> 0:04:05.240 him that in marriage vows it says till death do 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:07.880 us part. That's all I've been saying. But he says 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:11.600 he wants it to be forever. I love him very much. 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:17.080 He's extremely loyal, protective and brave. But I think loyal right, 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:21.400 But I think he's going overboard with this. So am 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:23.880 I the a hole. We have a quick juicy update 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:28.080 coming up. The No, this is the weirdest request I've 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:32.320 ever heard. Right, weirdest request I've ever heard, just so insane, 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:36.000 like how could you like? And again, why invite this 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:39.960 negativity in your relationship when it's the most unnecessary thing ever? 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:43.320 I also wonder if this is like a conversation couples 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.560 like Riley Riley on from the religious folk in your 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:47.200 of the Woods? 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:48.880 Is this the thing? I mean? 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:52.080 I have had this conversation with my ex before, and 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:54.760 she would like our relationships. She would have liked our 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:58.640 relationship as like the couple up, like you know, like 0:04:58.640 --> 0:04:59.800 like we grow all together. 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:03.760 We don't remember that. He's just assuming. But he was 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:06.080 like ninety when she died. 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:08.520 Yeah, yeah, but I think she was like, I don't 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.360 want you to be with anyone else after I die. 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:15.480 Yeah, sure, if you're like eighty five or ninety or 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.560 dying anyway. But if I feel like the rule is 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:21.080 like if you can still get a natural erection, like 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:23.680 you can like' let's have a child or have a, 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:24.920 child just run. 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:26.080 IT i, mean, look. 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:29.719 Even if you're fifty years, old you still gotta maybe 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:31.640 another fifty years ahead of. 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:36.279 You why not have have a, party be? Happy so 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:39.200 onto the juicy, Up, nate let's get that. 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:43.240 Juice we've talked about love and what our expectations of 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:46.080 each other. Are we know that if we're really going 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:48.080 to get married in the, future we both need to 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:50.960 be on the same page about that in our vision 0:05:51.120 --> 0:05:51.440 for the. 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:53.480 FUTURE i ultimately. 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.880 Explained to him that as we grow older, together we 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:58.680 become more entwined and in love with each. Other he 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:02.359 could never be Replace maybe that's all he needed to. 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:06.320 Hear he, says he understands now he loves me, too 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:10.000 and all is, Well i'm still raising the red. 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:17.200 Flag let it be, alome, wholesome. Wholesome, no, no, no no. 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:21.120 NO i THINK i think they just kind of routed around, 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:22.560 it LIKE i DON'T i don't know if you really 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:25.960 like it felt like it felt like they didn't talk about. 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:27.760 The, thing you. KNOW i, AGREE i. 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:31.000 AGREE i think that the the red flag is it 0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:32.960 was about to be a big old, pimple you, know 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:35.680 but it just he just puts some some some concealer on. 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:39.080 It, YEAH I i feel like it's a little it feels. 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:43.560 Possessive it feels very possessive in the weirdest, way the 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:45.840 weirdest you, know like it's one thing to be, like 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:47.960 don't my goal, friend and then it's like another thing 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:51.440 to be, LIKE i want you to dedicate yourself even 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:53.240 in my, death to my. 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:54.880 MEMORY i can. 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:57.640 SEE i can see, it like LIKE i imagine IF 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.560 i bought this conversation with my, girlfriend she'd be, like 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:00.320 that makes me. 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:01.560 SAD i don't want to think about. 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:04.000 It SO i understand it being, like oh, man the 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:06.080 thought of your partner moving on if you passed, Away 0:07:06.120 --> 0:07:08.320 like it's not a fun thing to think, about but. 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:11.720 Ultimately it's, like how COULD i expect you to do? 0:07:11.760 --> 0:07:14.360 That so If naima died, tomorrow how long are you? 0:07:14.360 --> 0:07:19.960 Waiting we are not playing this game, today ladies and. GENTLEMEN, 0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:24.160 ok let's get to that next. 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:27.520 Start let's do actually before how long would you wait 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:31.120 until you did another person if your significant other? 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:33.800 Died? Answer SO i don't have to put your answers 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:36.960 in the comments Because john is bitching out on. Us 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:38.200 let's get to this next. 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:41.520 Story my boyfriend refused to buy me, pads SO i 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:42.120 broke up with. 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:46.520 Him AM i? Wrong you? Know how about did you need? 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:49.560 THEM i mean probably pretty? BAD i mean it's. 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:51.880 It's usually if you're, like, YO i need you to 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:53.880 get me, pads it's never, like, OH i could easily 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:55.520 get them, myself because then you just Would. 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:58.760 Yo it's you're probably dealing with that one scene In 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:01.600 The shining where the elevator doors open and the blood 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:02.440 just rushes. 0:08:02.520 --> 0:08:06.080 Out, yeah scary of. Music, SEE i love, that you 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:06.520 know the? 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:09.400 MUSIC i. DO i actually have seen that. 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:13.200 Movie john has seen very few, movies But i'm. Glad 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:17.040 i'm GLAD i have that. One sadly, ambitious SAYS i 0:08:17.080 --> 0:08:19.560 twenty three female moved in with my boyfriend twenty four 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:22.040 male of two years a couple of months. Ago we 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:25.640 haven't had any problems before this. Argument things have been 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:28.080 going pretty well. ANYWAYS a couple of days, AGO i 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:30.600 got my. Period it came, early AND i ran out of. 0:08:30.600 --> 0:08:34.000 PADS i couldn't leave to buy some BECAUSE i bleed 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:36.960 pretty heavily AND i would have bled through my. Pants 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:39.440 SO i asked my boyfriend if he could buy pads 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:41.760 for me from the drug store because it was. Late 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:46.760 he immediately was, like, no, no, no, which, honestly if 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:48.680 this isn't the orange peel theory in. 0:08:48.880 --> 0:08:53.160 ACTION i don't. Know back to the first, STORY i 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:55.400 mean that. One that one's kind of big, though that's 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:56.360 a big. One it's. 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:59.440 Medium, yeah it's more than an orange. Peel it's not 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:02.079 tying when she right, Right so you're saying she has 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:05.439 every right to say, no he's just too. 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:07.679 Big of an. Ass do you know too big of an? 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:11.600 Ass do you know how many pad runs THAT i 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:16.360 have had to? Make how? Many john? Many that's how many? Numbers? Man, 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:18.000 YEAH i won't give him to. 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:22.640 YOU i was shocked BECAUSE i really wasn't expecting THAT 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:25.880 i asked him. Why he said he didn't want the 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:30.960 cashier to see him buying. Pads oh, god, Forget oh god. 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:34.920 Forbid the cashier thinks you're a good. Boyfriend that's the 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:39.120 only bob you're going to give. Off, Exactly, yeah you 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:44.320 know enough for, me, right Swear i'm using. 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:44.400 It. 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:51.679 Photographertice at this, POINT i started laughing because that was. 0:09:51.760 --> 0:10:01.120 Hilarious he wasn't joking, though he wasn't king. Though he 0:10:01.240 --> 0:10:04.200 just glared at. ME i told him the cashier would 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:07.680 obviously know it wasn't for. Him plus the cashier would 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:11.640 definitely not care what he was. Buying he still. REFUSED 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:13.360 i told him that he could go to the self 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:17.080 checkout machine if he was so, insecure but he said. 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:18.760 That he didn't want. Anyone oh my. 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:21.360 God he said he didn't want anyone to see him 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:24.720 with the pads because they'd think he was a. Tranny 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:29.679 oh oh my, god, dude bro, okay that's this. 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:38.880 Guy oh not, shit. FRIEND i see what are the 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:39.160 two you? 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:44.360 SEE i, see, uh one that he doesn't want to 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:46.640 go to the store and like be, seen like not 0:10:46.720 --> 0:10:49.320 not do some sort of active. Kindness ye, actually NOW 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:53.080 i see three. Transphobic. Two what's the third? One it's 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:57.080 but it's a fucking, secure insecure, dude insecure three, fla 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:01.240 it's three strikes three. BREAKUP i told him that he 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:05.440 was childish and that his masculinity was really fragile if 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:07.600 he couldn't even buy pads. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:07.800 For his own. 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:12.000 GIRLFRIEND i literally have tampons in my. Bathroom my mane 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:14.800 is ready to. Go, okay, GENTLEMEN i am. Ready he 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:18.719 has them like their. Trophies, yeah it's mainly for the butt, 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:25.480 chegging but wow o, kidding, okidding it's for my female friends. 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:30.160 Friends he got mad and went. OUT i had to 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:34.200 bunch up toilet paper as a makeshift, pad wear black 0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:37.160 pants in a long, cardigan and go to buy pads. 0:11:37.200 --> 0:11:40.920 Myself my boyfriend had been ignoring me ever. Since i've 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:42.160 been thinking that MAYBE. 0:11:41.880 --> 0:11:44.400 I might have pushed it too. Far you pushed it too? 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:47.240 Far, No so AM i the asshole for telling my 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:51.240 boyfriend that his masculinity was fragile after he refused to 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:52.400 buy pads for. 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:53.960 ME i want to know from you. Guys put your 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:56.120 answers in the, Comments But, john what do you? Think 0:11:56.360 --> 0:12:02.319 can we answer together in? Harmony? Not we should have prepared. 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:11.880 More it's a live, podcast, yeah live from our, room but. 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:13.600 There is a juicy juicy. Update oh. 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:17.160 Okay first, off thank you for all your, awards replies and. 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:20.239 Stories they all mean so much to. ME i confronted 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:23.040 my boyfriend an hour. Ago good hope he's thrown. 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:24.559 Down. Yeah we sat. 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:26.160 Down together AND i told him THAT i didn't like 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:29.199 how he acted about buying pads for. Me he said 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:31.200 that he didn't feel like he had to and THAT 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:34.679 i could have held it in and drove to the 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:38.080 drug start to get the bads by. Hisself it's not 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:41.720 a dookie my guy for. Thread Flag man does not 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:45.880 know where the clitters, says foresure to think that women 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:51.800 can hold in their period bud or actually fuck swomen about, 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:55.640 okay because you. Can you can't like kind of push 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:59.560 out come, right you shout. Period it's not like you 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:02.120 can like really hold it. In maybe cost you. It you, 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:06.280 can you can definitely push it, out queafing that's trapped. 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:07.640 Air that's not. 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:11.000 RIGHTLY i THINK i think we might have to defer 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:14.240 to the ninety percent, women incredible women that are watching the. 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:17.840 SHOW i don't feel push can you hold can you 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:21.319 hold it? IN i genuinely don't. KNOW i would assume. 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:24.160 NOT i would assume you LIKE i would assume it's 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:26.480 like a leaky, bucket like all, right you, know like 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:29.440 when your ship's going down and you're, like oh, shit 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:31.560 it's leaking and you kind of have to like take 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.800 the water out of the sinking. Ship so it's like 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:39.600 it's like there's there's there's drip and the ship is, 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:41.600 sinking but you can kind of like take the bucket 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:42.320 to keep it, in you. 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:47.160 Know so women's it was a leaky. Bucket yes you 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:47.960 didn't get, it. 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:51.400 But you cannot hold in your, period not even a little. 0:13:51.400 --> 0:13:53.360 BIT i you know WHAT i want to. 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:56.120 Ask, you, guys you can't. 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:58.520 You have any methods and can you? Squeeze but more, 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:02.000 importantly can you squeeze it anything? Out, okay here's a technical. 0:14:02.040 --> 0:14:03.199 TIME i don't want to. KNOW i don't want to. 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:04.320 KNOW i don't want to. 0:14:04.320 --> 0:14:06.800 KNOW i want them to tell, us educate, us indicate. 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:13.199 Us please don't our sex education have. Failed first, off 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.000 thank you for all your. Awards it means so much to. 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:17.760 Me, Okay so we went back and. Forth SO i 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:18.320 just dropped. 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:20.360 IT i asked, him like most of you mentioned what 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:23.040 would happen when we have kids and he'd have to 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:26.240 take care of me and buy me nipple, cream take 0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:28.480 me to the, washroom et. Cetera he said THAT i 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:30.800 would not need those things BECAUSE i should be able 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:32.120 to do them on my. 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:34.840 Own after giving, BIRTH i want those guy to go 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:37.479 through the you, know like the baby or the. Simulator, 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:39.400 yeah that's when he Needs that'd be. Classic he said 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:41.800 that there wasn't anything hard about using the bathroom and 0:14:41.840 --> 0:14:43.600 the only REASON i need help IF i was a. 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:47.360 Cripple THEN i asked him about the tranny. Comment he 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:50.720 said that he didn't understand why people would want to 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:53.560 change the gender they were born. In that basically cemented 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:55.760 everything for. ME i felt betrayed and. 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:58.640 HUMILIATED i can't BELIEVE i spent two years of my 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:00.800 life with a guy who holds these fe AND i 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:03.520 can't BELIEVE i was too oblivious to. IT i just 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:07.120 feel so. DUMB i told him that we need to break. 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:09.160 Up he cussed at me and told me THAT i 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:12.960 was exaggerating and THAT i was being a. Bitch way 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:15.520 to win over her affection, ROAD i told him THAT 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:17.760 i would send him my half of this month's. Rent 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:19.800 we lived, together but it was his, apartment so we 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.840 would split the. Bill THEN i packed my, bags drove 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:25.320 to my parents out without saying another. Word i'm going 0:15:25.360 --> 0:15:27.520 to be staying with my parents UNTIL i swort myself. 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:30.120 Out i'm feeling really down right now BECAUSE i really 0:15:30.200 --> 0:15:33.400 did love, him BUT i also feel relieved. Again thank 0:15:33.440 --> 0:15:37.160 you for all the help and sending me encouraging. MESSAGES 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:41.040 i appreciate it. ALL i got a question for you. 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:45.440 Guys put it in the, Comments but Did op dodge a? Bullet? 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:47.120 Yeah she did you dodge? 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:47.240 That? 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:48.600 Bully? Queen you dodged? 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:48.760 It? 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:51.800 That? What so many red? Flags so? Many so we 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:54.320 lost Count? 0:15:57.640 --> 0:16:00.560 Ah, yeah this guy is absolutely not, it you, know 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:03.160 and again we're we're broken records at this? 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:04.720 Point was there any? 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:07.640 Signs come, on you have to see them, before, mom, 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:08.680 right look at? 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:13.720 It it just? Right but you know what is also? 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:17.280 Obvious what the fact that this episode is not? Over 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:19.920 And john's got another juicy story for. 0:16:20.000 --> 0:16:21.120 Us i'm gonna give it to. 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:24.440 You my girlfriend wants to hide that my moms are? 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:28.520 Gay SHOULD i stay or SHOULD i? Go everyone Watching? 0:16:28.560 --> 0:16:30.760 Sam Should OPI's stay or should they? 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.200 Go? Wait can you say that one? More. Time, yes 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:34.320 who wants to? 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:38.080 What my girlfriend wants to hide that my moms are. 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:40.760 GAY i, mean it sounds like she doesn't accept your. 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:43.240 Family so that's like a pretty hard thing to get. 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:47.520 Through So i'm gonna get checked the. Hip we're gonna 0:16:47.520 --> 0:16:50.840 shoot from the. Hip i'm gonna, say, uh walk, away walk, 0:16:50.880 --> 0:16:54.000 away just like your girlfriend was walking away from your two. 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:58.560 Moms, damn just like, that just like. That let's get 0:16:58.560 --> 0:16:59.240 into it and find. 0:16:59.280 --> 0:17:04.639 Out so throw away ra Help lost, Says i'm seventeen 0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:07.280 AND i started going out with my girlfriends seven months. 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:10.120 Ago we were already chatting before school and we went 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:14.320 online AND i asked her out. Afterwards so her parents 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.359 want to meet mine when it's safe to do that 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:19.639 and have dinner at their. House i'm cool with having the, 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:22.440 dinner and my moms are, Too but my girlfriend told 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:24.400 me that her parents don't know THAT i have two, 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:27.080 moms and she doesn't want them to know because while 0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:31.560 they're not raging, homophobes they don't like. That she just 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:34.639 says it will make them feel weird and uncomfortable and 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:38.200 asked if only one of my moms could. 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:40.520 Go big yike. 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:43.200 What blug? 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:47.040 BUG i don't, KNOW i just don't see WHY i 0:17:47.080 --> 0:17:47.439 got a. 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:52.600 Lie if we stayed, together obviously they will find out exactly, 0:17:53.320 --> 0:17:56.000 Literally and also that. 0:17:55.920 --> 0:17:58.120 Would be mean to my moms for one of them 0:17:58.119 --> 0:18:00.800 to not go the freaking. 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:05.280 Lutely i've never been embarrassed about it or, weird SO 0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:06.920 i don't see why it even. 0:18:07.160 --> 0:18:11.280 Matters and also it's, like, ope significant other is making 0:18:11.320 --> 0:18:15.400 them feel embarrassed or, not maybe not maybe not making 0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:18.880 them feel, embarrassed but like it's it's kind of crazy 0:18:18.920 --> 0:18:21.520 that this person that should be one of the closest 0:18:21.560 --> 0:18:25.240 people in op's life is shunning something. 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:26.440 That everyone else can has kind of. 0:18:26.480 --> 0:18:29.760 Accepted it's maybe not that isbarrassed, embarrassed but kind of 0:18:29.800 --> 0:18:32.840 like breaking the glass of, like oh SHOULD i be embarrassed? 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:33.639 Exactly which is. 0:18:34.080 --> 0:18:37.119 Awful my girlfriend has been pissed at me ever, since 0:18:37.560 --> 0:18:39.640 and she just tells me to do, it so it's 0:18:39.640 --> 0:18:41.040 not uncomfortable for her. 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:45.520 Parents what about? Parents? Ever, yeah ever stopped to think about. 0:18:45.560 --> 0:18:48.760 That even my friends are saying that it's not a 0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:51.399 big deal and it's not Like i'll get grounded for 0:18:51.480 --> 0:18:52.919 asking my moms to do. 0:18:52.840 --> 0:18:54.960 This when they get. 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:57.639 Grounded but your parents would probably be, LIKE i feel 0:18:57.640 --> 0:18:59.679 like you feel weird about it because it's it is 0:18:59.840 --> 0:19:03.320 a bad. Ask your parents would probably be, like are. 0:19:03.160 --> 0:19:04.200 You sure this is someone you want to? 0:19:04.240 --> 0:19:06.879 Date, yeah and probably be so, hurt like, wow my 0:19:06.960 --> 0:19:08.000 own child like. 0:19:08.160 --> 0:19:10.240 Almost doesn't accept. Us. Yeah. 0:19:10.280 --> 0:19:13.800 Crazy i'm caught in the middle here BECAUSE i don't 0:19:13.840 --> 0:19:16.280 want to lie about my mom's or exclude one of. 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:19.439 Them but everyone is acting LIKE i am being the 0:19:19.560 --> 0:19:21.320 a hole for not doing. 0:19:21.359 --> 0:19:22.400 This we have. 0:19:22.400 --> 0:19:27.640 A juicy update we're about to get into But sam 0:19:27.960 --> 0:19:31.159 red flag red, breakup break, up, yeah, Breakup. YEAH i 0:19:31.200 --> 0:19:34.119 mean it's it's such A it's like that because like, 0:19:34.359 --> 0:19:38.040 one the ASK yep is no, Good but the fact 0:19:38.040 --> 0:19:40.600 that it's coming from like the, family it's gonna be 0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:42.159 a really hard thing to root. ADD i think it 0:19:42.280 --> 0:19:45.840 just shows a difference of values that might be too 0:19:46.000 --> 0:19:47.560 large of a bridge to go. 0:19:47.640 --> 0:19:49.399 Over you could just what do you good do is 0:19:49.480 --> 0:19:51.200 just say, like, hey this is kind of a deal 0:19:51.240 --> 0:19:53.320