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Speaker 2: Hate Cheeky's, just make some advice in regards to relationships.
Speaker 2: Right now, I'm with a man who looked through my
Speaker 2: watch and found an old conversation between me and an
Speaker 2: ex coworker that I used to hook up with, indicating
Speaker 2: that he was going to come over but he didn't.
Speaker 2: And my current guy, he's not my boyfriend because of it.
Speaker 2: But we've been trying to work through it. I've been
Speaker 2: showing him that there was nothing there. It was simply
Speaker 2: just a moment of sure, why not mind you? The
Speaker 2: moment that my ex coworker sent me that message. Me
Speaker 2: and this guy, we'll call him Mark, we're not together.
Speaker 2: He actually left me, and yes, I didn't tell him
Speaker 2: precisely who this person was that was going to come over,
Speaker 2: so to him, he took it as I was protecting him.
Speaker 2: But now I've just been showing him that I want
Speaker 2: to be with him, you know, just being very submissive
Speaker 2: to him, and I feel like he still has reservations.
Speaker 2: He told me that if I left my job, he
Speaker 2: would consider the relationship again. I've left, and he's still
Speaker 2: kind of on the fence about things.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, usually I like to know your guys's names,
Speaker 1: but now I know why you probably didn't share your name,
Speaker 1: which I'm going to respect. I have the saying, and
Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys have heard it before. It's like
Speaker 1: a you know, I think it's like a very Mexican saying,
Speaker 1: which means if it wasn't in your year, it shouldn't
Speaker 1: affect you. And yes, you guys were together before, and
Speaker 1: it sounds like to me you guys were on a
Speaker 1: break when you were planning on messing around with your coworker.
Speaker 1: But you guys were on a break, So I feel
Speaker 1: like if you guys are on a break, anything is game.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm pretty sure we don't know. Maybe he
Speaker 1: was doing his thing, he just didn't get caught, you know,
Speaker 1: and you did, which is fine, okay, But I think
Speaker 1: it's fair game because you guys weren't together. Now, if
Speaker 1: he has the reservations, I can understand that. I think
Speaker 1: if you've already apologized and you keep saying that this
Speaker 1: person is your ex co worker, which means you guys
Speaker 1: aren't working together any so it shouldn't be a problem.
Speaker 1: So I just feel like it's good that you are
Speaker 1: showing this guy that you really like him, that you
Speaker 1: love him, that you want to be with him, and
Speaker 1: it's good. It's okay to be submissive. I just want
Speaker 1: to give you some advice, as a friend, as a
Speaker 1: big sister, as whatever you want to call me. Don't
Speaker 1: overextend yourself, Like if you've already apologized, if you've already
Speaker 1: shown and you no longer work with this person, like
Speaker 1: he has nothing to worry about. And it's concerning me
Speaker 1: a little bit because if he's prolonging this and extending
Speaker 1: it more than he needs to, it's like, okay, are
Speaker 1: you hiding something? Or are you using this as an excuse.
Speaker 1: If you really care about this person, then fine, like
Speaker 1: keep trying, but also don't lose yourself and your self
Speaker 1: esteeming your self value in trying to prove to him
Speaker 1: who you are. He should know who you are. And again,
Speaker 1: you guys weren't together, So even if it would have happened,
Speaker 1: because you said it didn't happen, like, it's still none
Speaker 1: of his business because you guys weren't together, and that's
Speaker 1: just the truth, Like, it isn't your business what he
Speaker 1: did while you you guys weren't together. But I'm hoping
Speaker 1: that this gives you a little bit of clarity and
Speaker 1: that you're not feeling guilty because in reality, babe, you
Speaker 1: didn't do anything wrong. You guys weren't together, you were
Speaker 1: taking a break, And I think it's just moving forward.
Speaker 1: As long as he knows who you are and that
Speaker 1: you're not going to do that while you guys are together,
Speaker 1: and neither is he, I think you guy should be fine.
Speaker 1: So I'm really hoping it works out and he can
Speaker 1: put that to the side and continue with you because
Speaker 1: you seem like a very nice, intelligent woman. But yeah,
Speaker 1: just just be careful be careful with over extending yourself.
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. Okay, so thank you for your
Speaker 1: question and I'm hoping everything works out alrighty guys, Our
Speaker 1: next question comes from Jennifer Hi Cheeky's.
Speaker 3: So my question is just like, come on, Lases, go
Speaker 3: on bravery to keep going despite the backlash from your family,
Speaker 3: Like I'm very close to my grandma, so it really
Speaker 3: would hurt me like comases, but uh, but I keep
Speaker 3: going w just with you and your siblings stios, especially
Speaker 3: in the media, like towards the media or tweets or whatever.
Speaker 3: And you know, I hate that. I hate that la
Speaker 3: especially on Facebook or talk squad with other people. So
Speaker 3: you know, for your heart to be okayo gozes Briquet
Speaker 3: as you know, in our culture really pushes to like
Speaker 3: family bond.
Speaker 1: Well, Jennifer, I love your question. Is the Miram's modifi.
Speaker 1: It has been very difficult, and I think it's come
Speaker 1: with maturity, with time, with healing, with therapy, with understanding
Speaker 1: that yes, because in our culture we are taught toxic loyalty,
Speaker 1: which means you have to be loyal to this person
Speaker 1: because you guys are bonded by blood and you know,
Speaker 1: blood is thicker than water and all this stuff. And yes,
Speaker 1: but also I have the choice to choose my family.
Speaker 1: I have the choice to say I'm going to stay
Speaker 1: away from this person because they don't make me feel peace,
Speaker 1: because they make me more sad than happy, and and
Speaker 1: and that came with with time. For a long time,
Speaker 1: I thought, well, I have to be okay with my grandma,
Speaker 1: with all my family, because they're my family. So it
Speaker 1: just takes time. It takes time, erro. It does make
Speaker 1: me sad. I wish things were different, but I'm okay
Speaker 1: with the way things are. Like I have come to
Speaker 1: terms with I possibly will never ever have another Christmas
Speaker 1: with my extended family, and I'm okay with that. My
Speaker 1: family are my siblings, and as long as they're okay,
Speaker 1: and as long as as a unit we are breaking
Speaker 1: generational curses and make sure that our children and the
Speaker 1: children of our children don't continue this cycle, I'm okay
Speaker 1: with that. Honest. I'm very honest. Maybe if you would
Speaker 1: have asked me this, I don't know a few months ago,
Speaker 1: I would be like, Oh, I still miss them, but
Speaker 1: I've gone through so much therapy, I read so much.
Speaker 1: I like to grow and learn that. I can tell
Speaker 1: you I'm at peace, and I've gone to the point
Speaker 1: where I don't necessarily miss anybody that has hurt me.
Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's because I've been through
Speaker 1: a lot of shit, but I'm just like I wish
Speaker 1: them well and sometimes a lot of the times, I
Speaker 1: pray for my grandma because I love my grandma and
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful with her that she taught me so
Speaker 1: many things. Ila kiro mucho I and I pray for
Speaker 1: her and I hope that she's well. But I'm not
Speaker 1: okay with certain things that she has done. And she
Speaker 1: has said about my siblings even about myself that I'm
Speaker 1: just like, well, nimooen there that that's how she is.
Speaker 1: I have to understand that that's how she is, and
Speaker 1: that's okay, and I have the choice to excuse myself
Speaker 1: from all of that. I don't have to entertain that anymore.
Speaker 1: I don't and I'm not going to because it's not
Speaker 1: good for my heart. So it takes a while. It
Speaker 1: takes a while, but I am happy, and I think
Speaker 1: all my siblings are closer than we ever have been.
Speaker 1: It was, that's all it is. So I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think it's just a lot of prayer.
Speaker 3: Girl.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of prayer and understanding and letting people
Speaker 1: be who they are, and that's it. Thank you for
Speaker 1: your question, Jennifer. Okay, guys, let's hear from louis a.
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Speaker 1: guys so much. Thank you guys, thank you so much.
Speaker 2: Luis.
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, So what Louis is asking is to sum
Speaker 1: it all up, is how important are your fans to you,
Speaker 1: to your career? Is it really what you show on Instagram?
Speaker 1: Because I feel it, but I really want to hear
Speaker 1: it from you. So I said yes, absolutely, Like I'm
Speaker 1: not just the type of person to just say it.
Speaker 1: I feel it. I live it. Everyone that's around me
Speaker 1: knows how important my boss bees are to me, and
Speaker 1: they have been since I saw my mom, you know,
Speaker 1: growing her career, and they would ask for a picture
Speaker 1: and I would never get upset because I knew these
Speaker 1: people are feeding us, They're keeping a roof over our head.
Speaker 1: And that's how I feel now more than ever. It's
Speaker 1: like I will take my time, and I will never
Speaker 1: say no to a picture. I've said it once, and
Speaker 1: I'll never say it because I didn't like how it
Speaker 1: made me feel. But I really do appreciate the time invested,
Speaker 1: the energy invested, the hugs that kisses that you guys
Speaker 1: have no idea. It's like there's a team that sustains
Speaker 1: an artists and there's also the fan base, and that's
Speaker 1: what sustains in artists. You guys are part of the foundation,
Speaker 1: and I don't take that lightly. So that's basically what
Speaker 1: Lose's question was. In my response, I just wanted to
Speaker 1: kind of clear that up. So thank you, thank you,
Speaker 1: Thank you. The azumbis Okay, guys, so we have another question,
Speaker 1: and it's from another anonymous listener. Let's hear it. What
Speaker 1: is the secret of having a beautiful smile like yours
Speaker 1: and fresh breath all the time? Wow? Thank you anonymous listener.
Speaker 1: That's one of the things that I really like about myself.
Speaker 1: You guys, I like my smile. Okay, I'm assuming that
Speaker 1: we've been very close to each other because you have
Speaker 1: smelled my breath. I mean, I don't know if you've
Speaker 1: gone to my meat and greets or what, but thank you.
Speaker 1: I pride myself in that. The secret to it is
Speaker 1: I brush my teeth morning at night. Sometimes I brush
Speaker 1: it like after I have too much coffee. I brush
Speaker 1: my tongue, you know. I think that's important. And I
Speaker 1: also have a toothbrush that has like a floss in
Speaker 1: it as well. But it's important you guys, to brush
Speaker 1: your teeth. Oh, and have a good tummy health. So
Speaker 1: if you have good tummy health, you won't have bad breath.
Speaker 1: So and then well, to keep my teeth white, I
Speaker 1: use high smile And I'm not trying to promote them.
Speaker 1: It's just it's what I use. You guys, I winen
Speaker 1: them at least once a week with the strips and
Speaker 1: sometimes I like they have like this purple serum. It's
Speaker 1: like a purple shampoo for your teeth. And I use
Speaker 1: that especially because I've been drinking like a little bit
Speaker 1: more coffee than I used to, Like years ago, I
Speaker 1: didn't drink coffee. Now like I drink a little more coffee.
Speaker 1: And you know, certain things, certain food stain our teeth.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, And I go to the dentist,
Speaker 1: you guys, every like six months. I go and get
Speaker 1: my checkups. It's important to get your deep cleaning all
Speaker 1: that stuff. That's one thing that I take care of
Speaker 1: is my mouth because a lot of diseases start in
Speaker 1: the mouth, you guys, so take care of your mouth.
Speaker 1: If you have a little MOI last something that's hurting you,
Speaker 1: a little cavity, like, go get it fixed because that
Speaker 1: shit will turn into like a root canal. And that's
Speaker 1: just it's just a whole other thing. So anyways, your
Speaker 1: sister here Cheeks is telling you go to the dentist
Speaker 1: please every six months. It just will change your life,
Speaker 1: all right. So oh oh, thank you, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: I have a yeah, el Johnny just reminded me I
Speaker 1: have an appointing tomorrow at twelve thirty with my dentists.
Speaker 1: So anyways, I love your guys's questions. Thank you so
Speaker 1: much for submitting them and letting me give you advice.
Speaker 1: You guys, I hope you will have an awesome week
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