Speaker 1: Okay, we just need to apologize right now for taking
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Speaker 3: Second date update on a first date if you're a woman,
Speaker 3: where's the safest place to meet a guy for the
Speaker 3: first time?
Speaker 1: Public?
Speaker 3: Lots of people, public, it's too general. Anywhere a rest
Speaker 3: I've crossed off a few suggestions Jose gave earlier. Dark Web. No,
Speaker 3: although it does provide good anonymity on the web, not
Speaker 3: a full dark Maybe a children in a place Yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: children's toy store where the security guard can see you.
Speaker 3: Safe fun.
Speaker 1: I think they're all closed, aren't they?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 3: Maybe I know Alexis doesn't feel comfortable giving guys her apartments,
Speaker 3: so she always gives them the address to Brooks House. Yeah,
Speaker 3: meets them there. It's really get lost in that help.
Speaker 1: Yeah, nobody wants to steal anything from me. And I
Speaker 1: want to have that gutter guy ended up in my house. Yeah.
Speaker 3: One of our listeners, Davis, said he met his data
Speaker 3: at a place that he never expected he would. So
Speaker 3: let's learn more about it. Davis, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: What's this girl's name?
Speaker 5: First of all, Hey, so her name is Ashley Ale?
Speaker 3: And where did Ashley want to meet you?
Speaker 5: So we were going to go out and she asked
Speaker 5: me to give her a ride, which I thought was
Speaker 5: really interesting. That doesn't usually happen.
Speaker 1: Step to not safest things to do on a date.
Speaker 1: And had you met in person before? Or is this
Speaker 1: meet up off the apps?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 5: This is off an app.
Speaker 3: In a car.
Speaker 1: Just never do that ever. Yeah, I mean honestly.
Speaker 3: Davis, I trust you immediately, so you can come to
Speaker 3: the radio station whatever you want. How long were you
Speaker 3: guys talking before the date happened?
Speaker 5: So we only talked once and it was on the phone,
Speaker 5: but it was for like three.
Speaker 1: Hours, so I mean you obviously were vibing and you
Speaker 1: were clicking.
Speaker 3: Like for three hours. You got to have a good
Speaker 3: connection with something.
Speaker 1: But it was there a reason why she wanted you
Speaker 1: to pick her up?
Speaker 5: You know, she didn't mention, She just asked if I
Speaker 5: could pick her up, and I thought, okay, that's fine.
Speaker 3: So she gave you an address and this turned out
Speaker 3: to be the actual place that she really lived. Yeah,
Speaker 3: why wouldn't it be gotcha, you could get a different
Speaker 3: That's what I would do.
Speaker 1: But what was it like when you showed up at
Speaker 1: her house and it and you got her?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it was great. So it was a
Speaker 5: house and she has a roommate, but her roommate was
Speaker 5: out for the night, so you know, I said, hey, yeah,
Speaker 5: let's why don't we, you know, head out, we'll go
Speaker 5: and she said, well, first do you want to drink? Like,
Speaker 5: I can give you a tour?
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, okay, oh wow, she's inviting
Speaker 3: you inside immediately, and.
Speaker 5: Yeah, how can I say no? So after the tour,
Speaker 5: we just sat on the porch and just started talking
Speaker 5: and that turned into like longer and longer and didn't
Speaker 5: even end up going out.
Speaker 1: It's just like it's just like your phone call from
Speaker 1: the first time met, Like you just get lost in
Speaker 1: conversation together. That's such a great sign. What'd you guys
Speaker 1: like connect over?
Speaker 5: We connected over a lot of stuff. We have like
Speaker 5: a very similar sense of humor. We like a lot
Speaker 5: of similar things, like similar movies and shows and things
Speaker 5: like that.
Speaker 3: Did anything weird happen, well, okay, not.
Speaker 5: I don't know if it was weird, like, okay, So
Speaker 5: we were on the front porch. We had a few
Speaker 5: drinks throughout the time that we were there, so I
Speaker 5: kept going in and out to get the drinks and
Speaker 5: come back out with them. And she has a dog
Speaker 5: named nuggett really cute. Yeah. Yeah, but she kept warning me,
Speaker 5: you know, hey, like just make sure you're mindful of
Speaker 5: shutting the door because you know he'll run away if
Speaker 5: he gets out. Yeah. So after a few drinks, kind
Speaker 5: of forgot that she had a dog for a little bit,
Speaker 5: so I did leave the door crack while I was
Speaker 5: handing her drink, and Nugget almost got out. He was
Speaker 5: like half way out the door, and I had this
Speaker 5: sort of yeah, I had to dive to grab him.
Speaker 5: I did. I got him. Yeah. But then after that
Speaker 5: it was getting dark. I said, why don't we put
Speaker 5: on the light? Do you have a light out here?
Speaker 5: And she said, well, I would, but it's sort of
Speaker 5: broken and it's too high for me to change. And
Speaker 5: I said, oh, well that's not that high. I can
Speaker 5: reach that. So I reached up and I changed the
Speaker 5: light and she said, oh, you know, there's really nice
Speaker 5: for you to do. I appreciate that. And I said,
Speaker 5: oh yeah, I'm a little handy a little.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it was a little handy by changing the light bulb,
Speaker 1: that's handy.
Speaker 3: And changed a light bulb. That's something that's useful that
Speaker 3: you do around the house.
Speaker 1: That is handy. Anybody can change a light bulbs. You
Speaker 1: get your hands like skill, and you know how.
Speaker 3: You have to twist it one way and then twisted
Speaker 3: back the other. Sometimes a dog we gotta do.
Speaker 1: I understand it's handy where you grew up, David.
Speaker 3: She doesn't consider you handy man, not for that.
Speaker 5: You know what I did? Fixture burner too?
Speaker 3: Oh what burner? Wait a minute, that is handy her burner.
Speaker 5: Phone, I hope not the burner on her kitchen stove.
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, that's handy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3: You screwed in a gas pipe this time, which is
Speaker 3: way more different.
Speaker 1: That's romantic.
Speaker 3: Does sound like you help her talk for a few hours.
Speaker 3: You may just be a really best friend.
Speaker 1: Now, or maybe she's not getting back to you because
Speaker 1: there's co two boyson in her house. You didn't do
Speaker 1: it right, I hope not.
Speaker 3: Was there any romance like any kissing action or.
Speaker 5: We did kiss a little bit at the end of
Speaker 5: the night before I left. Okayromantically Indie, Well, she's romantically
Speaker 5: into me. Why is it she answering my text now? Rude?
Speaker 6: She should be excited to text you if anything, should
Speaker 6: be like, oh my god, Okay, wait thirty minutes before
Speaker 6: you text them back?
Speaker 5: Totally So I thought it was something's wrong with her.
Speaker 3: Bro, No way, it's you. Yeah, we'll find out what
Speaker 3: her problem is. Too handy even we don't know the word.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's handsy.
Speaker 3: Well Brook would consider that a perk.
Speaker 1: Everybody has a different opinion.
Speaker 3: Jeff, let's figure this out. We're gonna call Ashley for you,
Speaker 3: get you a second date update right after this hold
Speaker 3: on second date update. Most other radio shows try to
Speaker 3: lift up their listeners praise them for doing nice things
Speaker 3: and good deeds on a first date. Yeah, that's not
Speaker 3: really our style. We like to downplay your positive traits
Speaker 3: and good deeds and will even insult your handy skills
Speaker 3: because we're trying to help you to realize your own flaws.
Speaker 1: Why are you so stuck on this change in the
Speaker 1: light bulb is not handy, Jeff, and double.
Speaker 3: Down about caring. Real love isn't about support, It's about
Speaker 3: flaw finding, and our listener, Davis appreciates that, right, Davis,
Speaker 3: I guess so.
Speaker 4: Yes.
Speaker 3: Now, Brooke wrote down fifteen other shortcomings that she noticed
Speaker 3: during the day.
Speaker 1: She's super nice and helped her out.
Speaker 3: Too nice. You are so impossible some days, Davis. She's
Speaker 3: calling you impossible. Oh it's hard to tell something exhausting. Yeah, well,
Speaker 3: it's possible that he did exhaust her because Davis was
Speaker 3: with her at her house for many, many hours, drinking
Speaker 3: out on her front porch.
Speaker 1: So cute though, Like, I can't believe she's not calling
Speaker 1: you back.
Speaker 5: Same.
Speaker 3: I'm hoping that the reason that she's not calling you
Speaker 3: back is that her dog just got and she's been
Speaker 3: out looking for it. If anything, she probably needs your
Speaker 3: help to track him down.
Speaker 1: Not a good alternative, that's your positivity job.
Speaker 3: We're here to help her in her time of need.
Speaker 3: That's a good thing. Let's dialar and see where she's
Speaker 3: at and if she needs a little assistance, here we go.
Speaker 3: Hopefully she picks up. Hello, Hey, is this Ashley?
Speaker 4: Yes, it is, who says.
Speaker 3: Hey, we're a radio show. We just wanted to know
Speaker 3: is nugget. There is nugget safe. What your dog?
Speaker 1: Your dog nugget that has the cutest name ever? Good
Speaker 1: Jaba naming your dog.
Speaker 4: Thanks. I don't know how you know my dog's name, but.
Speaker 3: We heard it from a listener to our show that
Speaker 3: you met up with for a date recently. His name's Davis.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, I don't really I don't really remember Davis.
Speaker 4: I yeah, I don't know. I just I kind of
Speaker 4: hang out with a lot of people.
Speaker 6: So it came to your house.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you just like a week ago.
Speaker 2: A week ago.
Speaker 3: Yeah, according to him, you guys met on a dating app.
Speaker 3: You asked him to come pick you up for a date,
Speaker 3: and then he ended up just staying there drinking with
Speaker 3: you on your front porch, which you know.
Speaker 1: We were actually shocked that you were so trusting of
Speaker 1: him so quickly. I mean, because it's just a guy
Speaker 1: you met on the internet.
Speaker 4: Does he have dark hair? I think he was wearing
Speaker 4: a gray shirt.
Speaker 3: We don't, we've never seen him, but that does sound
Speaker 3: like him. Yeah, good old gray shirt. He sounded very
Speaker 3: gray shirt and dark hair. Over there so many dates.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's impressive you're fitting that many in a week.
Speaker 1: How could you not remember someone like that you spent
Speaker 1: hours with?
Speaker 4: Well, to be honest, I mean that's kind of like
Speaker 4: just how I use the dating apps. I've been doing
Speaker 4: this for a while.
Speaker 3: What wit what you invite people over and talk to
Speaker 3: them and then let them leave. That's called a date apps?
Speaker 5: Were drinking anyone?
Speaker 1: But it feels like he didn't even know his name
Speaker 1: while he was at your house.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I've been using dating apps for over a year now,
Speaker 4: and when I started, I was looking for a relationship.
Speaker 4: But wait, I don't I don't really know if that's
Speaker 4: where I'm at anymore.
Speaker 1: What do you mean? Like you you just you don't
Speaker 1: want to see anybody seriously, or like why go out
Speaker 1: on the date to begin with?
Speaker 6: If that, I just I saw like too many people
Speaker 6: just want to mess around, you know, And after a
Speaker 6: while it just really kind of, I don't know, mess
Speaker 6: with my head.
Speaker 4: So I just decided.
Speaker 5: Screw it.
Speaker 6: I'm just gonna be in my free handyman phase.
Speaker 3: What free handyman? So you do admit he's handy?
Speaker 2: I mean, well, so I'll set up a meeting with
Speaker 2: the guy and they will end up fixing stuff from him?
Speaker 6: Like him?
Speaker 1: How do you even know they're handy when you meet him.
Speaker 5: On the app stuff?
Speaker 2: I mean, come on, all guys like to think they're handy,
Speaker 2: whether they.
Speaker 4: Really are not.
Speaker 1: So much time think that he was handed with a
Speaker 1: light bulb, so I'll screw.
Speaker 3: Any light bulb in this studio, watch me.
Speaker 1: That's so messed up. You're just using these people. You
Speaker 1: spend hours with them and kiss them.
Speaker 5: All for that.
Speaker 2: Sucks good guys still out.
Speaker 4: I mean, look, I'll have him back over if something
Speaker 4: else goes wrong in the house.
Speaker 3: But what about it, Like he's he thought that he
Speaker 3: was going over there to have like a genuine connection
Speaker 3: with you.
Speaker 1: And honestly, if you are pretty, you could probably just
Speaker 1: put on the apps just looking for a handyman, and
Speaker 1: guys would still volunteer to do that. A landlord exactly.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the landlord takes forever to solve things. And look,
Speaker 4: if I put just looking for a handyman on an app,
Speaker 4: people are going to show up thinking that it's like
Speaker 4: an X rated request.
Speaker 3: That's got sure just looking for a pizza guy.
Speaker 1: That's so messed up. He's gonna be hurt.
Speaker 3: Is he going to be her? We don't know the
Speaker 3: only way to find out is if we actually just
Speaker 3: talk to him, because he just happens to be on
Speaker 3: the other line right now waiting to jump in on
Speaker 3: this conversation.
Speaker 1: Oh god, he heard everything?
Speaker 6: Is he there? Listen before he jumpson.
Speaker 4: I'm just I'm still trying to figure out which guy
Speaker 4: he is because I had to come over in the
Speaker 4: same weekend you.
Speaker 6: Did.
Speaker 4: He I just did he recalk the bathtub or.
Speaker 3: Hear anything about any recall fixed? Unless we missed that
Speaker 3: part of the story, the word yeah, Hey, I'm here.
Speaker 5: Whow Actually, I think you're confused. I'm trying to date
Speaker 5: for love, and I'm looking for someone who wants the same.
Speaker 4: Well, I really love that he fixed my stove.
Speaker 1: Actually, you had a connection with him. Maybe you're just
Speaker 1: jaded from being hurt, you know.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's true, and I'm sorry you feel bad.
Speaker 2: I mean, I you were nice to talk to.
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm happy to hang out again with you
Speaker 4: at my place if.
Speaker 3: He fixes something else for you, like only.
Speaker 2: If you wants to.
Speaker 3: That's good.
Speaker 1: Wow, what an offer?
Speaker 3: How could anyone pass that up?
Speaker 4: I Mean, the good news is I've already got a
Speaker 4: guy who's really good with plumbing, so I'll never ask
Speaker 4: you to do any plumbing.
Speaker 3: Oh there's a different guy, not.
Speaker 1: Many plumbing issues. Well, it's hard to find a good plumber.
Speaker 5: I just feel so taken advantage of right now. I
Speaker 5: really thought we had a real connection, and it looks
Speaker 5: like you have this kind of connection with a lot
Speaker 5: of people.
Speaker 2: Oh, David, I'm really far you feel that way.
Speaker 3: It's Davis with an as Davis.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you kissed him still? Or is that
Speaker 1: the tip?
Speaker 4: You know? He did a nice thing for me. What's
Speaker 4: wrong with a little harmless everything?
Speaker 1: When he thinks bye Ryan wherever.
Speaker 4: Your name was? Again? Like, I'm sorry if he was
Speaker 4: confused about things, but I just know where I am
Speaker 4: at in my life. I'm in this handyman phase.
Speaker 1: You didn't tell him that.
Speaker 2: Ye, Well, now he knows that he'd like to come
Speaker 2: over again, I'd be open to it.
Speaker 1: There is no way David still wants to hang out
Speaker 1: with her on buy some one and.
Speaker 3: Go build her a deck, bro, if you'll e her
Speaker 3: go get Never underestimate the shallowness of a guy. You
Speaker 3: never know what he's gonna say if it means scoring
Speaker 3: another date with the cute girl. So that's true. Davis,
Speaker 3: remember how pretty Ashley was, and.
Speaker 4: I think I hear a noise in my ceiling fans.
Speaker 3: Another opportunity to demonstrate your manly handliness for her.
Speaker 1: Pays you and kisses.
Speaker 5: What do you think, Davis, My handiness is deserved for
Speaker 5: someone who loves me.
Speaker 1: That that should be a bubber sticker.
Speaker 3: Well, thank you for being on the show with us, David,
Speaker 3: and good luck, good luck with all your handy dating
Speaker 3: life stuff in the future. Okay, thank you and Ashley.
Speaker 3: I know a couple guys on our textboard at seven
Speaker 3: eight five nine two say they will be available at
Speaker 3: a moment's notice to come and fix your ceiling fan
Speaker 3: or whatever you got going on.
Speaker 1: Do you have no dignity left? No?
Speaker 5: God?
Speaker 3: She kisses at the end of the day. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: kiss somebody's.
Speaker 1: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: I wasn't kidding. We really were getting text at seventy
Speaker 3: five to nine two from many gentlemen who would not
Speaker 3: mind helping Ashley with her household problems. Dude, but we're man.
Speaker 3: We want to feel useful.
Speaker 1: We like pretty women, have some respect, get paid for it.
Speaker 3: At least that's the thing you have to think about,
Speaker 3: Like I know we were saying earlier that having a
Speaker 3: stranger who you just met on the internet come over
Speaker 3: to your house for a date is kind of sketchy,
Speaker 3: But how is that any different than finding a random
Speaker 3: handyman on the internet and hiring him to come out
Speaker 3: to your house.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jeff, I don't. I don't have those guys come
Speaker 1: to my house when I'm home alone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, well, you literally make sure.
Speaker 1: That someone else is there, that's what women do, and
Speaker 1: like make sure you know their name.
Speaker 3: Maybe just saying either way, it's a random dude that
Speaker 3: you're inviting over to your house. But at least Ashley's
Speaker 3: plan was economical because she got free work done.
Speaker 1: I don't know, she can't change her own light bulb.
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm disappointed in her as a human.
Speaker 1: Was just off.
Speaker 3: Yeah, don't know how many people I've paid to come
Speaker 3: out and change my light bulbs for me, and I
Speaker 3: pay them. She's just given all the women of the
Speaker 3: world a great life happening. You just a house, and
Speaker 3: you're paying people to change your life.
Speaker 1: Pay me next time.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know if you guys are
Speaker 3: handyman certified. Do I need to see the check mark
Speaker 3: next to your name. If I'm gonna believe you're going
Speaker 3: to fix my stuff. But if you ever want help
Speaker 3: with your dating life, we're not certified at all for
Speaker 3: that will help. We'll step in and give it our
Speaker 3: best try. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.