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Speaker 1: Now her marriage is ending. Geez, little infidelity. Maybe let's see.

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Speaker 1: So me and my wife have a five year old son.

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Speaker 1: Our group of friends is mostly couples with kids as

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Speaker 2: Meaning like do you want to break from your kids?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Like they're like, like, are you ever like hanging out?

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Speaker 2: Hopefully if you can, like afford a babysitter.

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Speaker 3: You know, alone time is always some good time.

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Speaker 1: Oh weird, This can sometime be weird. A lot of

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Speaker 1: Okay storytime, So I don't have it. So one person

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Speaker 1: in this group, Emma fake name, used to be my

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Speaker 1: in a group settings, but rarely on her own. Emma

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Speaker 1: also tends to run late. Often this will be relevant

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Speaker 1: we sometimes worry that he wouldn't really learn to share

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Speaker 2: He needs me time, and so both do that like

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Speaker 3: Hey, get on.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like whenever I'm being aggressive,

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Speaker 1: I'd get to the playground and play with him, And

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Speaker 2: Where's Mom?

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Speaker 3: Where is Morehere's mom?

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Speaker 1: Where is Where's Mom? No suit today, says Scolling. Also,

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Speaker 1: this is live shout out to everyone through Joseph Adela

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Speaker 2: Missed you.

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Speaker 3: You always hype me up.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much?

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Speaker 1: Is about Hamilton Green says, Okay, this lady is my

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Speaker 3: Guys, I thrifted this who I didn't even make it.

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Speaker 1: That's my conspiracy theory, all right. That's why let's go

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Speaker 1: Look like yeah, but you're not insecure. Oh I am,

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Speaker 1: Laura says someone cheated. Pretty darn Yarn says someone cheated.

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Speaker 1: the comments of what you think. But the entire thing

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Speaker 2: About your child that you both you.

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Speaker 1: I underestimate the fallout of this joke. A few days ago,

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Speaker 3: I can't do it again.

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Speaker 1: Situations, situations where people like their kids, I mean, but

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Speaker 3: Sorry that your kid looks alike.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe just don't have kids. They're gonna be so

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Speaker 2: So she but Emma didn't know.

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Speaker 1: fool me once, Shame on you. You I'm never gonna

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you would, oh, and that I

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Speaker 1: When I realized, I fed up. So so this traumatizing

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Speaker 1: thing that happened to Emma's husband, He's like, oh this,

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Speaker 1: Oh he's making fun of.

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Speaker 2: Me, got it.

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Speaker 3: I'd be pissed if I thought that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but then get some clarity, get some clarity, be communicative.

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Speaker 2: What I feel like, we always get these stories where

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Speaker 1: Bro okay, But if this is what breaks up your marriage.

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Speaker 3: Something's gone on.

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Speaker 1: You were never strong cheated somebody else.

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Speaker 3: So, like the chat said, somebody cheated.

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Speaker 1: Something is going beneath the surface. Like if this breaks

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Speaker 3: Honestly good, honestly good, you need to be alone to traumatized.

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Speaker 1: The Yeah, the kids deserve it most of all. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm kidding, I'm kidding. Chat takes everything I say literally.

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Speaker 1: Fancy Fish says, dude, cause a divorce by telling a joke.

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Speaker 2: I'll probably cause a divorce.

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Speaker 3: Then I feel like I feel.

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Speaker 1: Like, or have you already accidentally you even know?

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Speaker 2: Oh? No, no, no, no, you don't know of it?

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Speaker 2: No I do.

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Speaker 1: No. Do you ever think about, like how many relationships

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Speaker 1: you may have ended just by something flippantly you said?

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Speaker 3: No, you're on the hot seat?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: No, I have ever been the meet in the middle

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, I'm sure, I'm kean.

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Speaker 1: Have you been the meet in the middle.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm yeah, I don't know. I see that,

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Speaker 1: Most likely to be meet in the middle. So now

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Speaker 1: I apologize profusely. I say I didn't know, and if

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Speaker 1: said something. She tells me, I'm making excuses this is

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Speaker 1: after telling the couple of quick congratulations. I am later

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Speaker 1: told this was anything anyone could talk about at the party. Well,

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Speaker 1: at least you're causing a little bit of a fun

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Speaker 1: gossip about this party. Live in it up and now

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Speaker 1: the engaged couple are mad at me too. Emma is

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Speaker 1: am unfriended and unfollowed on everything from Emma. That joke

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Speaker 1: staaling Cell says, if a joke breaks up your relationship,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't strong enough to begin with. I agree. I

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Speaker 1: throw her under the bus, and I am totally the

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Speaker 1: and now I'm just covering my own booty to get

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Speaker 3: They don't believe him.

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Speaker 1: There's more to this story, but question is Opie the

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Speaker 2: I think Obi's the a hole. If like he knew,

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Speaker 2: that's kind of an a whole move. But if he

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Speaker 1: I feel like, how could he? How could he?

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Speaker 2: It also just sounds so fake.

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Speaker 1: It's ridiculous, absolutely ridiculous, ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: I would have loved that if someone was like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: Is not mine?

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Speaker 3: Is mine the uglier one over here?

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Speaker 1: But if you're really insecure, if you're really insecure.

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Speaker 1: they'll take it a certain way, and it's just insecure

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Speaker 1: people will make a mountain out of a mole hill.

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Speaker 2: I hain't that the truth.

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Speaker 1: But we got more, We got more. It's been a

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Speaker 1: talk to me, naughty, Orti says, But spoil alert, it gets.

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Speaker 1: And it's been a few days and some of my

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Speaker 1: which I think we're kind of in agreeance on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I feel really guilty still. I feel really guilty

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Speaker 1: I also liked her husband. I have a conspiracy theory

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Speaker 1: husband was looking for an out and has another relationship

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's a bait. That's a stretch.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's a stretch. Some okay, some you

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Speaker 1: would do that. Well, I wouldn't. Well, I wouldn't do that.

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Speaker 1: But sometimes it's like hard to break up with someone,

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Speaker 1: like if you don't want to, and like it's just

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Speaker 2: You know, Oh my gosh, I didn't even think.

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Speaker 1: dick being too big. That was the reason that she

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Speaker 3: I like how me Austen said same is toxic.

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Speaker 1: What I don't say I did this Jesus comment. Come

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Speaker 1: at me, bro, come at.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, too big. Yeah, they really didn't want

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

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00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 3: There's like, sometimes too big is too big.

443
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:48,440
Speaker 1: That's true.

444
00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 3: I wouldn't I wouldn't know.

445
00:21:56,680 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 1: Alright, So I like him. Also, we're all wearing black,

446
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 1: someone that we're all wearing black. I like Emma, and

447
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 1: I didn't want to hurt her. I also liked her husband.

448
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 1: I'd like to say that maybe he was wrong to

449
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 1: let the marriage implode like that because of a stupid joke.

450
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 1: But at the same time, I don't exactly know his

451
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 1: family drama and their history, nor the specifics of his

452
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,679
Speaker 1: relationship with Emma, so I can't really say he's wrong

453
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:34,240
Speaker 1: or over reacting. The entire thing just kind of sucks.

454
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 1: My wife sort of got my back though, got out wifey.

455
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:41,919
Speaker 1: She thinks the joke was hilarious. Hella, that's awesome, and

456
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 1: actually thinks me breaking up their marriage makes it funnier. Wtf,

457
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:48,960
Speaker 1: I got a w wife.

458
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 2: Dude, so the two of them get along, that's good.

459
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 1: She also loves crazy Reddit stories, so she sent me

460
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,399
Speaker 1: to post this, so at least I got that going

461
00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:01,120
Speaker 1: for me, which is nice. We got enough dates, apparently

462
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: from people in the chat. It gets crazier. It gets crazier, guys,

463
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: It gets crazier guys.

464
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 2: Find out that the husband has like twenty children.

465
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel I feel like we're gonna get

466
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 1: some We're gonna get some spookiness coming you ready.

467
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 3: People's lives are so complicated, no amazing the drama that

468
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 3: I feel like I have like a fairly undramatic life.

469
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 1: I feel like this. Yeah, I'm like, damn, I really haven't.

470
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:29,640
Speaker 2: I really I have a boring life.

471
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, honestly, like I should like start commenting on

472
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 1: people's kids more. They get some spice in my life.

473
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 3: Who do you know has kids? Right now?

474
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 1: Who do I know who has kids? Yeah?

475
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 3: Like that that you want to be like, I want

476
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:43,679
Speaker 3: to make things all right?

477
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 1: I thought, all right, So Chat doesn't think I'm being toxic.

478
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: I'm joking. I'm joking, Chat, But who do I know

479
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:50,679
Speaker 1: that as kids?

480
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 2: I nobody? Thank god, oh got them?

481
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 1: Got them? Yeah, I don't really, I don't really know

482
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 1: whoa my friend Brandon accidentally got I mean everyone. I

483
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:13,199
Speaker 1: continue to the story saying no, oh my god, you

484
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 1: were going got a new job and anyway, all.

485
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:25,439
Speaker 3: Update.

486
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: So yesterday I posted this. I am now updating you

487
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 1: because the last few hours have been a lot. It

488
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 1: turns out that when I wrote my post, I left

489
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 1: out one critical piece of context. I thought I was

490
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: a regular person living a normal life. Turns out I

491
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 1: am Chaz, a side character on the worst Gossip Girl

492
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: episode ever written. So after posting yesterday, reading replies, and

493
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: thinking it over, I decided to reach out to Emma

494
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 1: one final time. Okay, some of you thought I shouldn't

495
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: and that these were in fact not my monkeys right.

496
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 3: Not my circus, not my monkey monkeys.

497
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,159
Speaker 1: Others made me realize that Emma was probably in a

498
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: crappy situation with her husband and his family was actively

499
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 1: being gasling. So now, of note here, while as I mentioned,

500
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 1: we're not as close as we used to be, we

501
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 1: used to be very close, like, oh, p and Emma. Yeah,

502
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 1: she helped me pick out a spot and let me

503
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: borrow her car for my first date with who later

504
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: became my wife. Oh so Emma's kind of like wow,

505
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 1: she was a significant part of my support system during

506
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 1: some very rough times in my life. Also, if you

507
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 1: haven't liked the stream, freaking like that stream, we're at

508
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: two hundred and seventeen likes of five hundred. Do you

509
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 1: even want to spin that wheel? You even want to

510
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: spin that wheel? Come on, Ben, we will say that

511
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 1: if you do it. Despite everything, I still felt like

512
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 1: I cared about her and wanted to work things out.

513
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 1: This is no longer the case. See from my perspective,

514
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 1: I thought we were good friends. Then when she met

515
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: her husband, we naturally drifted apart, and then this thing

516
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: happened out of nowhere. I feel like when people get

517
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 1: relationships often drift apart. They go into a little relationship hole,

518
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 1: and then break up happens, and now they're like, Rea

519
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 1: to hang out with.

520
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 2: Everything, Yeah, you know, and then those friends are.

521
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: Like, we missed you, yeah, and we never liked him

522
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: in the first place.

523
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 3: Yes, most of the time.

524
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,160
Speaker 1: Then when she met her husband, We naturally drifted apart,

525
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: and then this thing happened out of nowhere. This is

526
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: not what it looked like from her perspective. How do

527
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: I know we'll buckle up? Because this is absolutely unhinged.

528
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 2: I have no idea what's going to happen, all right.

529
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 1: My theory is that, oh no, no, I won't maybe,

530
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 1: But my theory is that there is a whole like

531
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 1: storyline about he being this evil person that Emma and

532
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: Emma's husband has been crafting for a while to demonize Opie.

533
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 3: Oh my lord.

534
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 1: Okay, that's what I think. But we'll see, we'll see

535
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: I've been wrong before.

536
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm ready.

537
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: How do I know we'll buckle up? Because it's about

538
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: to get unhinged. So last night, before going to bed,

539
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: I text her a long, thoughtful message. I explain that

540
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 1: I do apologize for the part I played in ruining

541
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 1: your marriage, and I understand she is going through a

542
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:31,439
Speaker 1: tough time. I understand if she wants nothing more to

543
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: do with me, But if and when she wants to

544
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: talk it out, she is welcome to reach out, and

545
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: I leave the ball in her court. I show this

546
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 1: to my wife, and she is practically giddy. She tells

547
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: me there is no way this crap doesn't blow up

548
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: in my face and I should have cut my losses.

549
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 1: Like many of y'all said, m M, it's gonna blow up. Yeah,

550
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 1: But I love that, like I love that. The wife

551
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 1: is just like, do your thing, do your thing. I'm excited.

552
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 1: I'm excited for you. Oh my gosh, Emma shows up

553
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 1: at my house at seven am unannounced. I asked what

554
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 1: the f She says, she really needs to talk to me.

555
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 1: I called my wife to the door and explain this.

556
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: She sends me off with this woman because she understands

557
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,199
Speaker 1: this crap can only go poorly, and apparently she is

558
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 1: here for it and it's my own fault at this point. So,

559
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:26,919
Speaker 1: as I said, from my perspective, we were friends, we

560
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: drifted apart, right, Yeah, it was just like, oh we

561
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: just like there's no like backstory here. From her perspective,

562
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 1: oh no, for the last fifteen years, she has been

563
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: playing some weird game of four D chess or two

564
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: different games of for dchess. Apparently she had feelings for

565
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: me back in college and she was trying to nice

566
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: girl her way into a relationship with me by being

567
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 1: there for me when my dad died and when I

568
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: was struggling with being single. She always gave everything because

569
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: she just assumed I would at some point come around.

570
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 2: So Emma is just jealous.

571
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 1: Emma's jealous. Emma wanted to, Emma wanted.

572
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

573
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: Also, I feel like at some point you just got

574
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 1: to make a move, you know, I just got to

575
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:16,959
Speaker 1: go in for a smooch.

576
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 2: I mean, uh, now when now when they're both.

577
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: Married, Yeah, I mean before, like when they were friends. Yeah,

578
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: obviously not when.

579
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 3: They're no spooch first? How about you just tell the

580
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 3: person you like them first and then and then yeah, you.

581
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: Just well yeah, I mean like you're just like say like, hey,

582
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: I want to first. No, I think you.

583
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 2: Tell them and then if they want a smooch.

584
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 1: Then you smooth, Then your smooch. She always gave everything

585
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: because she just assumed I would come around. You'd think

586
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 1: that me getting married or her getting married would change that, Yeah,

587
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: and it did, just badly. Apparently her husband knew about

588
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: her feelings, which is why he always kept me at

589
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 1: a distance. No, we never drifted apart. He explicitly asked

590
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 1: her not to meet with me anymore outside of large

591
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 1: social gatherings, which is why Emma's husband was like, oh,

592
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 1: our kid looks like ope, then you probably cheated because

593
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 1: you liked him all these years.

594
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 2: Okay, this is making a lot more sense now.

595
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 3: Wow, thank you for that. I need that.

596
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 2: Wow.

597
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

598
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: Yeah that day at the pool, Yeah, that was her

599
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: sticking it to him because he was away cheating on

600
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: her or something and didn't like her hanging around me

601
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: scantily clad. So the pool day was all forty chess

602
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: to get Opita be like interested. Yeah, I feel like

603
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: she's not really like making like good movies.

604
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 3: Are not a good movie all she played. She's like,

605
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 3: all right, my queen's out there.

606
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, she's not doing like a pissant or queenscambi

607
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: uh rick, what's the I always do the My opening

608
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: movie is like the Hippopotamus. I think it's called That's

609
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 1: really good. That's a thing good the thing?

610
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my gosh. Okay.

611
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 2: So they were having marital issues. That's a little bit

612
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 2: of some issues, and this was just like digging the

613
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 2: knife even deeper.

614
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: It wasn't just that he was upset at the joke.

615
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: He was upset because apparently I was having an affair

616
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: with his wife and rubbing it in his face makes

617
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: no sense, I know, But it gets worse, It gets worse,

618
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: It gets worse, ice worse, the iceberg that thing at

619
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: the wedding, Well, at least she didn't plan that. I

620
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 1: told our friends getting engaged that I was coming. She

621
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: asked and verified this. She wasn't expecting to see me,

622
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 1: so when this all came out at the wedding like,

623
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: she wasn't actually expecting to see him, and they told

624
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: her I wouldn't be there. But once I showed up,

625
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: she decided to exploit it. She intended to have a

626
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 1: huge scene with me so that she could tell her

627
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: estranged husband and friends that I ambushed her because she

628
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 1: broke off our affair.

629
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 2: Our affair, because she's in here lying.

630
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: She's up in here.

631
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 2: Lying a lie, is a manipulative liar?

632
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: Or oh, he is making a Reddit post so he

633
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: can lie about not having the affair. Conspiracy theory even harder.

634
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 1: Let us know what you think of the chat. Apparently

635
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: we had an affair. Oh what affair is that? You ask?

636
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 1: I did too. Apparently the story some people got was

637
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 1: that she and I were having an affair and ended

638
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: and I was stalking her. Her husband left her because

639
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: he found out, so people are more inclined to believe

640
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: her just thought that that and they just thought that

641
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: was what happened and wanted nothing to do with me anymore.

642
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 1: That's why he was losing all these friends. So why

643
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: did her husband actually leave? While some of you called it,

644
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: According to her, he was cheating on her, a bunch

645
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: and overall not a nice person. She never actually cheated

646
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: on him, but used me to pretend that she did

647
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 1: without my knowledge. So she was faithful but didn't want

648
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: to be.

649
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:24,719
Speaker 3: This is all so messy for no reason.

650
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you want to hurt him, like Emma

651
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 2: wants to hurt her husband but doesn't actually have it

652
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 2: in her to cheat, Which is great, girl, great.

653
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: I mean that's the only thing that's great. Everything else

654
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: that she's done is been terrible.

655
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 3: She's dragging ope so much through the not even through

656
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 3: the muzzy, through like the core of the earth right now,

657
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 3: and he's just like wait.

658
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, Also for everyone who's just joining the stream, King

659
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 1: of Doodle says, I'm at the beginning, what's up? Also,

660
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: if anyone ever sees like stuff in the chat where

661
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: it's like Hey, like, what's going on? Please inform them

662
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 1: and uh and get them on the same page. But

663
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 1: what's happened so far? All right? Tildr Op said, Emma,

664
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: one of his friends kids looked like him. That broke up.

665
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 1: Emma and her husband's marriage broke up because apparently that

666
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: was like a sore spot in the husband's family, like

667
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: she said that before, and then it broke up a

668
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: bunch of family things with the husband. And then it

669
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 1: turns out that none of this is like true, Like

670
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 1: the marriage didn't break up because Ope saying something, and

671
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: it's because the husband was cheating, and actually Emma had

672
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: feelings for Ope for years. That's the gist. There's a

673
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: lot of context that you guys are missing, but I

674
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:40,879
Speaker 1: think that's enough.

675
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Speaker 3: Do you think it's like a little bit of like

676
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 3: revenge kinda that one obviously on the old husband that

677
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 3: was cheating, but also on Op that she was like

678
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Speaker 3: you never may.

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00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: Never, Yeah, it was unrequited love. I think potentially, I

680
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: think potentially, I think there's revenge going all around, my lord.

681
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: So so after the joke at the gathering, which may

682
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: have indeed been in poor taste, they had a huge

683
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 1: fight and he left the house. As for the thing

684
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: with his family, from what I gather, it was some

685
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: dude sleeping with his cousin's wife or some such crap.

686
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: So anyway, she tells me all this insanity and tops

687
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: it off with that My message really moved her. This

688
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:22,399
Speaker 1: is Emma saying all this Opie, and we can still

689
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Speaker 1: be friends.

690
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 2: No, I don't think you can.

691
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: Why would I want to? You're yeah crazy, Yeah.

692
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Speaker 3: You're ruining my vibe.

693
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 1: You're any my vibe just hearing about that. Yeah, the

694
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 1: reason she rushed to show up at seven am. Well,

695
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: my message made her realize I am actually the only

696
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Speaker 1: one who really cares about her, and everyone else in

697
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 1: her life is fake. No, they don't really care.

698
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:49,240
Speaker 2: She's still in love with Opie. She's in love with Opie.

699
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 2: She's been in love with Ope her whole marriage.

700
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Speaker 1: I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed, it sounds

701
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 1: like it. But now this sounds like some really manipulative

702
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: crap to me. And now I'm thinking back to a

703
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: lot of our previous interactions and a lot of them

704
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: seem like that to me. Now, Like now, op he's

705
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 1: like questioning the whole friendship. Right, I am not a

706
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 1: confrontational person. I was willing to accept that that. I

707
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: fed up. Maybe some of you were right and the

708
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: joke was in portaste and I'm a huge a hole

709
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: for making it because I thought that if he knew

710
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: the story, he would get a call, he would get

711
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: the call back, and if he didn't, I'd tell him

712
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: a funny story about his wife. I accept all that criticism,

713
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 1: but this f no, I was done. I tell her

714
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: I am done with this crap. Also, really quick for everyone,

715
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: there's more to this story. But Molly, everyone in the chat,

716
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 1: if you heard this whole story about this like counter

717
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 1: narrative that's going on in her head that she's spreading

718
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 1: to people, instant friendship breakup or would you not.

719
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:49,359
Speaker 3: Want to do a poll?

720
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, pol Paul, friendship breakup or nah? But what do

721
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: you think, Molly?

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00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 2: Probably friendship breakup. I don't know if I can be

723
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 2: friends with people who I can't trust like that, and

724
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 2: that are manipulating for you manipulated you bat essentially backstabbing me. Also,

725
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: I have a wife and kids. I don't need this drama.

726
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 2: I'm getting to the point too. I don't have a wife.

727
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:14,800
Speaker 3: I definitely don't have a wife.

728
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 2: I don't know a husband or kids or anything. But

729
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 2: when I do, if I do, like, I don't.

730
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Speaker 1: Want that drama. No, not at all. I feel like

731
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: I feel like, does people create drama when their lives

732
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: are boring?

733
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Speaker 3: That look? Okay, it's a little whack. It looks a

734
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 3: little whack. Let me fix it.

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Speaker 1: Let me fix it? Yeah, can you fix it?

736
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 3: I can fix it?

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00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, hell yeah, brand said Witch the Bee. Sarah

738
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: Andrey says break up and block. Kimberly Eshelman says friendship, breakup,

739
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: Blondes Redhead says break up. Everyone's saying one, which I

740
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: believe was breakup. There we go nice keon. Kathleen Poland says,

741
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 1: kick her to the curb. I don't think anyone's saying nah,

742
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: we got thirteen votes in already.

743
00:37:58,440 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 2: Time to let it go.

744
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 3: We don't need that energy. You drag my name through

745
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 3: the mud. You make me seems really like a like

746
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 3: a piece of crab. Yeah yeah, and you want to

747
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 3: be friends?

748
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:13,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, no way, no way, move on, no way.

749
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 3: Done.

750
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 1: But we got more to this story more, but that's

751
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 1: f no. I was done. I tell her I am

752
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: done with her crap. She can get back to her husband,

753
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: leave her husband, keep any friends she wants. Because I

754
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 1: am thinn done, I can forgive a lot, but she

755
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 1: is basically not communicated with me. For over fifteen years,

756
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,800
Speaker 1: I was telling her everything about my life and my feelings,

757
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: and I was absolutely appalled by just how much of

758
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 1: a one way street it turned out to be. I

759
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 1: feel like I didn't really know her. Maybe I played

760
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 1: a role in that too. Maybe I was self centered

761
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 1: or selfish and didn't consider her emotions or her signs.

762
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, And you know what, at this point,

763
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: I don't think it matters. She lied to me so much,

764
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 1: she lied to so many people so much. I just

765
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: don't care anymore. I don't think there's anything left to

766
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 1: this friendship to fix.

767
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 3: Good job.

768
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like putting the foot down. Yeahs, say

769
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 1: what the cheeseburger? I see your freaking no, what are

770
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: you talking about? Are you really trying to stick in

771
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:22,280
Speaker 1: this friendship? Explain yourself trying to stick it out? Explain yourself?

772
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 3: You know, maybe if she was like really really really

773
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 3: hot Kean, Nah, you stick my name?

774
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 1: What do you mean you guys?

775
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 3: If they were really really really hot Molly.

776
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I.

777
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: Don't think there's anything left to this friendship to fix.

778
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: We're kidding, guys, chat.

779
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 3: We are getting, We are getting in the worst part.

780
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: I just gave you this huge update, and I genuinely

781
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: don't know how much of it is true. Maybe she

782
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,280
Speaker 1: was completely honest with me. Maybe she lied about every everything,

783
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: and we're still playing forty chess. Who knows? I certainly don't,

784
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 1: And that, more than anything, is why this friendship is over,

785
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:12,399
Speaker 1: because even if I could forgive everything, I can never

786
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: really trust her facts. But you know what you can

787
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: always trust is that will go live every weekday, three

788
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 1: pm PST, right here on YouTube freaking Tapper profile. Come

789
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 1: on in here. So that's that. There will probably not

790
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: be any more updates because this was meant to be

791
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: a lighthearted boast and it turned out into a total

792
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: cluster f And I'm just so tired and sad. I'm

793
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 1: sorry if this was I wasn't as readable or as

794
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: coherent as my previous posts. This just happened, and I

795
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 1: am exhausted. My wife has been very supportive, though I

796
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 1: assume at some point I'm doing well earned I told

797
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 1: you sos. She knows there wasn't an affair, and certainly

798
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 1: no stalking w wife. She's been great the whole time. Yeah,

799
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: and most of my friends probably know that too. I

800
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: may try reaching out to some others because well, I

801
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,400
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe they were told even worse things about me.

802
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 1: But I am just done with this and now I

803
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,840
Speaker 1: am going to spend what's left of this weekend with

804
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: my family and try to put this crap behind me.

805
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: Thank you all for reading and your advice.

806
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 2: I love that. I love it.

807
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 3: Op.

808
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's where I've got to get back to your

809
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 2: family and yeah, the drama behind Yeah, and.

810
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: Like I feel like it's just I feel like this

811
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 1: is uh. I feel like this is this is a

812
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 1: friend that needed to be dropped, and it's good that

813
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: there's god exposed because like, who knows what this person

814
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:34,439
Speaker 1: would have done if they just kept in your kept

815
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:37,720
Speaker 1: being in your life, break.

816
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:37,720
Speaker 3: Up your own marriage.

817
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly. I mean.

818
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 3: It's crazy that it took all this time. She's like,

819
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 3: oh now my plan has set into motion. Yeah, this

820
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 3: long and this is all I needed. Crazy.

821
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,439
Speaker 1: Next one? What's the next one? Reading?

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00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 3: I think it's going to be nine nine six, So

823
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 3: let me get.

824
00:41:57,520 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: That READYSS one.

825
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 2: That should be the next one, said Sam and ken

826
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 2: On make it right with your cakes.

827
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 1: All right, let's see is it? Are you sure? Nine

828
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 1: nine six?

829
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:12,280
Speaker 3: It should be yea one one.

830
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 1: Let's read some donos. Also, we are at three hundred likes,

831
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: almost out of five hundred, yet we have almost one

832
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Speaker 1: thousand people in the stream. Why aren't you liking the stream?

833
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: Do you even want to spin that wheel? But let's

834
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: read some donos? Can you hit the donos for me?

835
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Speaker 1: Let's start with YouTube YouTube, Yeah, youtubes? Make that thinke that?

836
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Speaker 1: There we go? Okay, scroll up, scroll up? What do

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Speaker 1: I did just finish court. People stole from my mom's

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864
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Speaker 1: You set your mom up to be arrested or the people.

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Speaker 2: People who stole. I hope she didn't set up her

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Speaker 2: mom to be a.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be not great, but I'm glad you

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Speaker 1: and I'm so happy for it. Thanks for joining live

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Speaker 1: donation from vics mix ten bucks. Talk to some of

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Speaker 1: my high schoolers today and told them about y'all. Hopefully

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Speaker 1: they are hurt. They are here and Miss B will

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Speaker 1: see you tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: Shout out to Miss B.

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Speaker 1: Do your homework kids, And I think that is all

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Speaker 1: the donos on the.

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Speaker 3: This is a new mega right, Uh yeah, that was

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Speaker 3: just one, but it was a three It was a

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Speaker 1: It was a three K.

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Speaker 3: So I think it's a new one. So I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: let me.

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Speaker 1: Also, someone said, are you going to be reading uh

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Speaker 1: the uh crazy d MS or text today? No, that's

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00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: gonna be a special episode coming up. So uh that's

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Speaker 1: that's uh, that's coming, that's coming to sim all right.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to read that?

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Speaker 1: No? Just the volume button?

894
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Speaker 3: Got it?

895
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: Do you want to click it?

896
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 3: Do you want to read that? I know you read that, Sam,

897
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 3: but do you want to read that actual member?

898
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and say she I thinks for being a

899
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Speaker 1: member for eight months, you'd be reading the crazy DM

900
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: or text today. No, that's coming up. Yes, yeah, is

901
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Speaker 1: I hold it with like.

902
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 3: Beautiful? All right, y'all, ollie you are ready? Oh whatever?

903
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 1: Thanks for everyone in the donos. We got fourteen minutes

904
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 1: something crazy happens.

905
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 2: All right, y'all were ready?

906
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 1: Yeah already.

907
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 2: My son's girlfriend made an inappropriate joke when we met her,

908
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:32,399
Speaker 2: so I kicked her out.

909
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: Must have been some just I want to hear the joke.

910
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:38,799
Speaker 2: Okay, all right. So my husband fifty eight male and

911
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 2: I fifty six female, recently met my son's twenty four

912
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 2: male girlfriend for the first time. He's been crazy about her.

913
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 2: Apparently they've been dating for a year before he decided

914
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 2: to have her meet us officially, a pretty long time.

915
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:55,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I have introduced my parents the girlfriend,

916
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 1: like no, like three months and usually three months that

917
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: too suit. Well, it's because I live in LA and

918
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: it's like easy, we'll probably see them. I feel like

919
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: a boyfriend, like the boyfriend girlfriend dinner happens like three

920
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:10,720
Speaker 1: to six months.

921
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Speaker 2: Then usually I see that actually I do by the way.

922
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Speaker 2: This comes from Throwaway Underscore Underscore four to six seven

923
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 2: on the Okay Storytime separated it. So what he's told

924
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 2: us about her all seems great. She just got her degree,

925
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:26,240
Speaker 2: was enjoying her job, family oriented, et cetera. I'm honestly

926
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 2: just glad he's happy with her. My husband and I

927
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 2: don't think he's ever been this into someone before. So

928
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 2: I feel pretty bad about what I did.

929
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, we know the feeling.

930
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:38,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, last weekend he brought her over for dinner, and

931
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:40,839
Speaker 2: by now we'd been anticipating meeting her. With how much

932
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 2: our son has been gushing about her.

933
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 1: I love that word goshing.

934
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 2: How perfect she is, that she's the one in his words.

935
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 2: Whoa they ring the doorbell, We open the door. She

936
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 2: looks exactly like her pictures, which is a great start. Yeah,

937
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:56,800
Speaker 2: great start that she's not a catfish.

938
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Speaker 1: Also, wait, are the parents checking out the pictures? And

939
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Speaker 1: I was like, I hope she's as hot as the picture.

940
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 2: I feel like my parents stock everyone i'm dating like.

941
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Speaker 3: The picture I show I show my parents like if

942
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 3: I'm oh, I'm this is the girl I'm seeing, Like.

943
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Speaker 1: I show my parents' pictures too. But I don't like.

944
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 1: They've never commented like, damn, she doesn't look like her pictures.

945
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:20,799
Speaker 2: That would be like.

946
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 1: That'd be crazy, suck, that'd be crazy. But they've also

947
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,720
Speaker 1: never commented like, oh, she looks exactly like her pictures.

948
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 3: That is a weird comment.

949
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: It's a weird comment for a parent to make, like.

950
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 3: Does does Yeah, kids does not bring like, oh, this

951
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:34,879
Speaker 3: is what she looks like and it's entirely different.

952
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, kids bought catfishes before.

953
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god, so she looks exactly like her pictures,

954
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 2: which is a great start. My son is grinning ear

955
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 2: to ear another great start. We invite them in. She

956
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 2: accepts my hug and a firm handshake from my husband,

957
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 2: and then she opens her mouth.

958
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Speaker 1: Wow.

959
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:52,399
Speaker 3: I kind of.

960
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 2: Read the sentence.

961
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:55,399
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh no, she opens her mouth.

962
00:48:56,200 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 2: I'm the one your son puts his uh yeah appendage

963
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Speaker 2: in appendagen. I'm the one your son puts his appendage

964
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Speaker 2: in to be frank.

965
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 1: Also, we were censoring ourselves.

966
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,240
Speaker 2: It's the P word, it's the peer word, to be frank.

967
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 2: I was appalled. Ah, I expected my husband to laugh.

968
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Speaker 2: Both he and my son are jokesters, and as annoying

969
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 2: as it can be, I love it, but this was

970
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 2: just too much for me. Maybe I'm reserved. But of

971
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Speaker 2: all things, of all things she could have shared about

972
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Speaker 2: my son, she told us that, Oh my god, I

973
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 2: really would say that. That that is I'm a jokester.

974
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Speaker 2: I am a jokester. But you're meeting the parents for

975
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 2: the first time. That's that's not the impression.

976
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 3: You want to make.

977
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 2: Oh for one, look at my face, and my husband

978
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,760
Speaker 2: knew how much I disapproved. Maybe I let my expect

979
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 2: expectations get too high and it's unfair to have them.

980
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 2: But I reiterate. Of all things to say to her

981
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 2: boyfriend's parents, whom she'd never met, she chose that my

982
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 2: son was amused it first, but then he noticed my reaction.

983
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 2: But when he noticed my reaction, his face dropped. I

984
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 2: felt like he'd sold me the full package. Funny choice

985
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 2: of word. I felt like he'd sold me the full package.

986
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 2: And you think he'd always been looking for in a girlfriend.

987
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 2: I was too disturbed by the visual it put in

988
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 2: my head, and it translated into anger. I told her

989
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 2: to get.

990
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 3: It, to get out.

991
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 2: I told her to get out, and I wanted to

992
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 2: say more about how girls it made me feel, but

993
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 2: I fortunately left it at that. My son didn't want

994
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 2: to go, insisting I give her another chance, but I

995
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 2: was too fed up and uncomfortable by this point.

996
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 1: I think, Okay, it's really pausing really quick. It's a

997
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 1: wild thing to say that, like, hey, I'm the girl

998
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 1: that your son puts his appendagen. But uh, I wouldn't

999
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: if I was a parent, I don't know if I

1000
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: would kick the person out. I would probably have like

1001
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: a silent discussion with my son afterwards, like dude, are

1002
00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:59,080
Speaker 1: you sure about this girl? That was kind of wild?

1003
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you have to like stick it

1004
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 2: out and.

1005
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:11,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, out we are done.

1006
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 2: Grew me into that, but I, uh, yeah, you know

1007
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like I feel like I'm with you.

1008
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:19,760
Speaker 2: You have to you have to stick it out and

1009
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,360
Speaker 2: uh and just make it through and like that. After

1010
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 2: you'd be like, hey, we really didn't like.

1011
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 1: That, because, like you know, in reality, it's not it's

1012
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 1: not like really like she's not hurting anyone, she's not

1013
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 1: saying any slurs. She just made a terrible she just

1014
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 1: made a terrible.

1015
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:33,439
Speaker 2: Terrible time.

1016
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 3: Guys, we're going thirty more minutes, let's go.

1017
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, I also saw a big dono from Christin

1018
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 1: Foyle hat we'll read all the other donuts in a

1019
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: sack bite.

1020
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 2: Amazing. Uh so, mom said, I was too fed up

1021
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 2: and uncomfortable by this point. Even my husband, who's enjoyed

1022
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 2: his fair share of raunchy jokes, wouldn't let up. They left,

1023
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 2: and I immediately felt guilty. This was something my son

1024
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 2: had really looked forward to, and I feel like I

1025
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 2: took that away over a dumb joke. I tried calling

1026
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 2: to apologize, but he hasn't responded. My husband thinks she's

1027
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 2: the one who should apologize. I'm considering giving her another chance.

1028
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:10,440
Speaker 1: But before I.

1029
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:12,360
Speaker 2: Do, was I the a hole?

1030
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 1: Oh?

1031
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 3: And we do have some relevant comments.

1032
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:17,800
Speaker 1: I've kind of been in this situation before.

1033
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:18,759
Speaker 2: Oh what did you say?

1034
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 1: I said?

1035
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:19,360
Speaker 4: Some?

1036
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 1: What did you say?

1037
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:20,959
Speaker 4: Sam?

1038
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 3: What did you say?

1039
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 2: I have a chat? Don't you want to know what

1040
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 2: Sam said?

1041
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: Let's it before I give my okay story time? Yeah,

1042
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 1: I think I wouldn't say. I would think it was

1043
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 1: like a little bit too harsh. So it's like a

1044
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 1: whole ish on the mom, but also wild thing to say,

1045
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: wild thing to say on on the girlfriends.

1046
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 2: The first thing through the door, the first thing through

1047
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 2: the door you hear is an inappropriate joke of your

1048
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 2: son's pr rivate partner.

1049
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's a little bit.

1050
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 2: And alluding to them having spicy sleep.

1051
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 1: That's a little bit wild. That's a little bit.

1052
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 3: It wasn't even eluding, which is straight up.

1053
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:01,720
Speaker 1: We're boning, but even saying like we're boning would be better.

1054
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 1: But it's like he sticks his in me.

1055
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, Sam, your turn.

1056
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:09,839
Speaker 1: Should I maybe I'll save it for after.

1057
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:12,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna stick around.

1058
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: I say it for after the story. It was just

1059
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 1: just also, don't judge me because I I've learned to

1060
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 1: I've learned to, like be a little bit more tactful

1061
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 1: in the things I say.

1062
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,160
Speaker 2: I'm so happy for you, really happy for you.

1063
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:28,320
Speaker 1: Journey.

1064
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god, So got a couple of relevant comments.

1065
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 2: Is it possible your son told her to say that

1066
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 2: this honestly wouldn't surprise me. But I'm not gonna lie.

1067
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:39,359
Speaker 2: I'd be disappointed in him. Yeah, that's not something he'd

1068
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 2: ever say in front of me directly because he knows

1069
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 2: I'm not a fan of any personal jokes of that nature.

1070
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 2: So to make his girlfriend say it wouldn't be very

1071
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,880
Speaker 2: good and I'd hope that that is I'd hope that

1072
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 2: if that is the case, that he makes it up

1073
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 2: to her somehow. I'll try to reach out again to

1074
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 2: let him know we can try again. That possibility makes

1075
00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 2: me feel a thousand times worse. Did she even try

1076
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 2: to apologize or was she nervous? I honestly, what are

1077
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 2: you having at what.

1078
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 1: People are saying that I said?

1079
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 2: I said, God Child, Orange.

1080
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 1: So sorry, I'm not gonna read the comment anymore for

1081
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:18,279
Speaker 1: a little bit.

1082
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:24,280
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, now I'm into this, okay, Oh my lord?

1083
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,279
Speaker 2: Did she even try to apologize or was she nervous?

1084
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 2: I honestly don't think I gave her enough time to

1085
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 2: react properly, and I regret that things could have gone

1086
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:34,879
Speaker 2: a lot smoother if I had. She was just sort

1087
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 2: of frozen in shock, and she kept looking at my

1088
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 2: son to try to convince me not to kick her out.

1089
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 2: I guess she wasn't sure what else she could say

1090
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:44,839
Speaker 2: at that point. It's hard to say for sure, because

1091
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,399
Speaker 2: I don't know her that well yet, but I think

1092
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 2: she was anxious too much to real nervous.

1093
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,320
Speaker 1: Probably nervous, and you say wild things when you're nervous.

1094
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 2: Exactly, too anxious to realize what she said was in

1095
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 2: approaching forgive it, forgive, forgive it, So if she was embarrassed,

1096
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 2: I couldn't tell. I also don't think I gave her

1097
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 2: much of a chance since it all happened so fast.

1098
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 2: I'll try to reach out to my son about it.

1099
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 2: Has your husband been making any raunchy jokes leading up

1100
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 2: to her visit, something like can't wait to meet the

1101
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:13,799
Speaker 2: person you're sleeping with?

1102
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: Oh? God, ew weird?

1103
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:23,320
Speaker 2: My dad ever said that I would kill him. I

1104
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 2: would bury him in the backyard.

1105
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 3: Sorry, little iNTS.

1106
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:30,919
Speaker 2: But that's disturbing. I can honestly say no, I've never

1107
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,840
Speaker 2: heard my husband say that he's raunchy. Yes, but not

1108
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 2: when it comes to our kids. Good, Okay, we got

1109
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:40,919
Speaker 2: a little bit more, I agree, Obi says.

1110
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 3: I agree.

1111
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 2: I should have been more patient about it. I think

1112
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:45,879
Speaker 2: if we were to try to try again, things would

1113
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,360
Speaker 2: go much smoother, and hopefully we can laugh about this

1114
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 2: later down the line and leave it at that. I

1115
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 2: wish I took this approach without making too many excuses

1116
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 2: for myself. I can say I got too caught in

1117
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 2: the heat of the moment. I'd love to give her

1118
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 2: another chance, just as long as I'm not given any

1119
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 2: more graphic visuals, especially at dinner. Yeah, we're about to

1120
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 2: eat and then you're thinking about your son's appendage going

1121
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:10,239
Speaker 2: deep into somebody you.

1122
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: Know, But it could be a shallow, shallow adage. You're

1123
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 1: so right, but no, but the parents are like not

1124
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 1: my boy.

1125
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:24,919
Speaker 2: Dad's like I've seen it many times. Sorry, that was weird.

1126
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 2: I hope she's willing to try again. He's not forcing

1127
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:32,719
Speaker 2: me to give her another chance. I want a do over.

1128
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 2: I think we all deserve it. I don't think she'll

1129
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 2: make another joke like that again. Can you try texting

1130
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 2: or contacting her directly? I would love that approach, but I,

1131
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 2: unfortunately don't have any way of contacting her except through

1132
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 2: my son. He said he'll give me a call when

1133
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:48,480
Speaker 2: he gets the chance, so surely by the end of

1134
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 2: the week. I can't imagine how badly I made her

1135
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 2: feel about this, and I regret it. What else we

1136
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 2: got a few heavily downvoted comments on you should just

1137
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 2: be more spicy sleep positive, not gonna lie. I think

1138
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 2: this took an extreme turn. I'm not at all against

1139
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,320
Speaker 2: spicy sleep, inclusivity, positivity or whatever.

1140
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: It is.

1141
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 2: I'm well aware it's human nature and that my son

1142
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 2: has spicy sleep with his big appendage. I know it's normal.

1143
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 2: But I'm entitled to my ignorance about the details. Yes

1144
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 2: you are.

1145
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't need to go into the details.

1146
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 2: Parents don't need to know those.

1147
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1148
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: What what is the most that you've talked to your

1149
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: parents about your sex?

1150
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:27,240
Speaker 3: Samuel?

1151
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't.

1152
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 1: I don't too soon.

1153
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't go into I don't go into that.

1154
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 1: You do know?

1155
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 3: Okay? Good, that would be.

1156
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 1: You don't.

1157
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't time on the cork. Yes you do.

1158
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 3: You told them about the butt thing, but thing, the

1159
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 3: glass thing.

1160
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 1: You said that you did butt stuff in front of

1161
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 1: your parents. When did I say that? Although you did,

1162
00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:57,959
Speaker 1: I didn't say that.

1163
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 3: Was Riley dreaming about the I thought you did. I

1164
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 3: think Riley was dreaming about this guy.

1165
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 1: No, I didn't say that. I didn't tell my mom

1166
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:06,920
Speaker 1: I had a threesome.

1167
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 2: Okay, but you told your mommy had a three yeah, and.

1168
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:13,200
Speaker 1: She was like, you shouldn't do that. That's gross.

1169
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 2: No, I don't tell like I will mention if I'm

1170
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,520
Speaker 2: dating someone or how I feel about them, or whatever

1171
00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 2: it may be. But my spicy sleep life is my

1172
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 2: spicy sleep.

1173
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel generally I'm pretty open, but like my

1174
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 1: parents don't want to hear about that.

1175
00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:29,560
Speaker 2: No, and I don't want them to hear that no.

1176
00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 2: Uh so Obi says they've already been dating a year,

1177
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 2: but I'd be surprised if they weren't having spicy sleep.

1178
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 2: That doesn't warrant her saying it, though, And we have

1179
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 2: an edit. Okay, I think Op's super valid in all

1180
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 2: of this, and like it's nice. Opie feels bad, Mom

1181
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 2: feels bad.

1182
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that. I don't think anyone's like doing

1183
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,600
Speaker 1: anything malicious. No, you know, but I think it's just

1184
00:58:57,640 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 1: a bunch of like weird social futpaus.

1185
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 2: This chat is hilarious, right, No, Oh my god, his toes,

1186
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 2: his butt, his threesome.

1187
00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 1: Wow, excuse me? No docksing Sam's secrets in the chat?

1188
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 3: Why?

1189
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys know everything. You guys know everything, Dewey.

1190
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 2: I'm gonna need a little recap after this, Okay, edit

1191
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:22,920
Speaker 2: sometime in the next couple of days. Sometimes in the

1192
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 2: sometime in the next couple of days, I should clear

1193
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:28,720
Speaker 2: some things up. My husband had no part in my reaction.

1194
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 2: I did the kicking out, not him. I don't want

1195
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 2: him taking the fall for this. He said she should apologize,

1196
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 2: but I'm not in expecting an apology. Sorry for the confusion.

1197
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 2: My son lives in a nearby state and it can

1198
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 2: take about an hour to get back to where we live.

1199
00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 2: He also hasn't dated anyone seriously for a while, maybe

1200
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 2: a couple of years. He told us before that he

1201
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 2: wouldn't bring anyone home unless he's sure he wants a

1202
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 2: future with her.

1203
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 3: We've been I would.

1204
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:56,840
Speaker 2: Want a future with someone who made that joke. We've

1205
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 2: been asking to meet her ever since he told this

1206
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,640
Speaker 2: about her, but wanted to be ready. The comment about

1207
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 2: her looking like her picture shows my age.

1208
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 3: Sorry for that.

1209
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 2: He's only shown as her photos she sent him, as

1210
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 2: he apparently didn't have any of them together. He hates

1211
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:14,600
Speaker 2: taking pictures, and apparently she's always teasing him about it.

1212
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 3: I don't think he'd.

1213
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 2: Ever lie about who she is, but it's just a

1214
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 2: parental concern I've sub consciously had. I felt the same

1215
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 2: way about my daughter's then boyfriend when we first met him.

1216
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 2: I don't have any criteria that either of my kids

1217
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 2: spouses need to meet. I just hope my kids are

1218
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 2: happy with them.

1219
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 1: That's awesome, right, mom, seems great?

1220
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:39,440
Speaker 2: Really, just off God, It's just it's a weird comment

1221
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 2: and maybe it felt a little disrespectful.

1222
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, storytime, tiny, okay storytime. This is not the

1223
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:46,520
Speaker 1: big okay story time, but with the same person.

1224
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 2: Ok.

1225
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 1: I once posted a picture with an X of us camping.

1226
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:55,200
Speaker 1: We were just like like, we were standing outside, fully clothed.

1227
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 1: There's a tent behind us. We're like, oh, we're camping.

1228
01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 1: The apparently the dad was like, I'm going said something

1229
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 1: like I'm going to like punch the crap out of

1230
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 1: you for flaunting that you're hooking up with my daughter online,

1231
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:12,920
Speaker 1: nothing about anything, just saying we went camping.

1232
01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 3: They were like, the spicy sleep in that tent is going.

1233
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: Crazy, and it did. But I did say something about it.

1234
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 3: Whoa, and it did.

1235
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:22,960
Speaker 4: Yo.

1236
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 1: See I feel like that is crazy, that's crazy. That's

1237
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:28,680
Speaker 1: crazy the way that was received. Yeah, but this is like,

1238
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 1: this is John.

1239
01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 2: It's Jill. What I meant by her being the full package,

1240
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 2: I love how to use this little package.

1241
01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 3: She knows what, she knows, what she's doing.

1242
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:39,920
Speaker 2: What I meant by her being the full package was

1243
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 2: indicative of what he's told us about her. As his parents,

1244
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:45,720
Speaker 2: we have a good idea of are you living indicative?

1245
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 3: Riley whispered it to my ears.

1246
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 2: As as his parents, we have a good idea of

1247
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:57,000
Speaker 2: what he looks for in a partner, and she checked

1248
01:01:57,000 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 2: off everything based on what we've been told and top

1249
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:03,360
Speaker 2: of everything. Aside from what she said, her appearance was

1250
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 2: how she presented it to be. Again, we aren't strict

1251
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 2: about appearances. It's just a relief to have met someone

1252
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 2: for the first time and they look like what you'd expected.

1253
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 2: My husband said that I was worried about secondhand cat fishing.

1254
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:19,960
Speaker 2: If that's even a thing long, I guess it shows

1255
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 2: how anxious I was about this. Also, thank you for

1256
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 2: your comments and rewards. I've had a few people reach

1257
01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 2: out to me personally too. Thank you for that, and

1258
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 2: regardless of where you stand, I appreciate it. I personally

1259
01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 2: think everyone needs some room for improvement here. But I've

1260
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 2: done my part to make amends, and I'm waiting on

1261
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:38,440
Speaker 2: my son to call me. I'll be sure to give

1262
01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:40,840
Speaker 2: an update about how it goes. Oh, and we do

1263
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 2: have an update.

1264
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 1: I think the sun is going to be pretty mad.

1265
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: I feel like you may have damaged the relationship with

1266
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 1: your son a little.

1267
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:48,440
Speaker 2: Bit embarrass me.

1268
01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's like and it's like, it's not like

1269
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 1: what the girlfriend did is like it's definitely weird. But

1270
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 1: I just feel like you can't do I feel like

1271
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 1: kicking the the son and the daughter out, especially after

1272
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:06,000
Speaker 1: how excited he was to meet, is going to damage

1273
01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 1: the relationship a little bit.

1274
01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 2: It's just not a great impression. How do you come

1275
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 2: back from that? It's so awkward.

1276
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 1: Well, I think you would maybe invite them back. Yeah,

1277
01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, and then just say like, let's not

1278
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:17,160
Speaker 1: talk about penises.

1279
01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that. Just get it out of the way.

1280
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 3: All right. We have an update. Guys.

1281
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 2: How many weeks later is this one and a half

1282
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 2: weeks later? Okay, thanks for reaching out everyone. My son

1283
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 2: got in touch with me, his girlfriend agreed to try again.

1284
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 1: Go okay.

1285
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 2: We all met at a restaurant my son and his

1286
01:03:37,160 --> 01:03:39,120
Speaker 2: girlfriend chose. And the first thing.

1287
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 3: She said is what.

1288
01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 2: Was an apology for what?

1289
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 3: I know?

1290
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 2: I was like, should I just put something in there.

1291
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 1: Your son?

1292
01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:52,360
Speaker 3: It was so funny. If she's like double down.

1293
01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 2: See that, I'd be like married.

1294
01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 1: And here's the video.

1295
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:03,640
Speaker 2: Never ever ever do that.

1296
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:04,160
Speaker 3: That's Sam.

1297
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 1: I'm not that open of a book.

1298
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 2: God please Sam, Sam.

1299
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 1: Someone Someone's like, somebody asked me to do it. No, no,

1300
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:20,120
Speaker 1: So someone asked me to jokingly do an only fans

1301
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I feel like you guys would find

1302
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 1: out if I did that.

1303
01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 3: They weren't asking jokingly.

1304
01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 2: I would say, I, you know, years ago I thought

1305
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 2: about starting an only fan Yeah. Yeah, And I was

1306
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:32,960
Speaker 2: gonna wear a ski mask in twerk and call myself

1307
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:37,200
Speaker 2: the booty Bandit. And I never did it. I never capitalized.

1308
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:39,080
Speaker 1: Feel like that would have gone gone crazy and I.

1309
01:04:39,040 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 2: Would have gone, yeah, I'd gone crazy. Maybe one day.

1310
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 1: Bandits still at large.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, So we all we Riley?

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Speaker 3: You got Riley.

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Speaker 1: So we all met.

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Speaker 2: We all met at a restaurant my son and his

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Speaker 2: girlfriend chose, and the first thing she said was an

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Speaker 2: apology for what she said. By the way, you don't

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Speaker 2: need to apologize to us. You can just join us

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Speaker 2: live on YouTube every weekday at three pm PST. Just

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Speaker 2: tap our profile. I apologize for my reaction. We hugged.

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Speaker 2: It was nice. She then explained how my son had

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Speaker 2: convinced her a joke like that would land well, and

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Speaker 2: that she wouldn't have said it if she didn't think

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Speaker 2: we'd like it.

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Speaker 3: So they were right.

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Speaker 1: They were in goots. They were in, which honestly is

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Speaker 1: even harder green flag for the girlfriend that is yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like willing to do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's like babe at work. According to my son,

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Speaker 2: she was reluctant to open with any jokes at all,

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Speaker 2: but they came up with that one together on the

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Speaker 2: way over. They need new writers. You guys were right.

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Speaker 2: She's a really sweet girl. She's actually very mature too.

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Speaker 2: I see why my son likes her so much, and

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Speaker 2: my husband and I really like her. Told our son

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Speaker 2: to bring her when he visits. We look forward to

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Speaker 2: seeing them again. Overall, I'm glad we could start over

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Speaker 2: on the right foot this time. Thanks everyone for your input,

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Speaker 2: and that is the end of our story.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that it ended well. We could get through

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Speaker 1: the weird comment and the chat totally called it that

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Speaker 1: the chad did. The chat called it that it was

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Speaker 1: like the son's idea.

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad it worked out. I'm glad that. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're all on the same page and everybody apologized.

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Speaker 3: This is called growth. It is called growth, growth, and

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Speaker 3: we love to see it.

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Speaker 2: I think now Chad is ready for Sam's big Okay storytime.

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Speaker 1: It's not that big, but but but it's it's it's

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Speaker 1: well sized. So so I was super in love with

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Speaker 1: this girl. Oh and she was she was gradual, she

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Speaker 1: was graduating. She was a year older than I was

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Speaker 1: graduating college. And she had this big graduation party with

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Speaker 1: like all of her like family and friends celebrate and

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Speaker 1: like it was like, got this like really nice house

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Speaker 1: in the hills by a bunch of people, and I

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Speaker 1: want to do something really nice for her. And she

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Speaker 1: had never been to Vegas and we were like had

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Speaker 1: talked about it, and so I'm like, okay, like I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna get tickets to Vegas. I'm gonna get us a

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Speaker 1: place to stay. I'm gonna like like really like surprise

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Speaker 1: her and get her something nice. And like I was,

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Speaker 1: I was tutoring for money, but I had like no

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Speaker 1: money at that point, so like springing on even like

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Speaker 1: tickets to Vegas was like it was expensive and I

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Speaker 1: would but I'm like, I'm like I love the strong

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Speaker 1: wing to do for it, right, yeah, And so uh

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Speaker 1: like where we're like everyone's like like uh, like her

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Speaker 1: dad like makes a speech or something, and then it's

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Speaker 1: kind of like doing like like it's the speech mode,

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Speaker 1: and like I'm gonna like I wrote a whole thing

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Speaker 1: of like what she meant to me and how much

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Speaker 1: she's taught me about the world and like what I

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Speaker 1: admire about her, this whole long speech basically pouring myself

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Speaker 1: like out to her, and everyone's like, oh, that's so sweet, right,

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Speaker 1: And then I'm like and just like to you, how

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Speaker 1: much like you know, uh might be a gamble, but

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Speaker 1: I got his tickets to Vegas and a hotel room

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Speaker 1: to spend not and you're just like saying like, oh,

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Speaker 1: like I got his tickets to Vegas in a place

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Speaker 1: to stay.

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Speaker 2: That's not that bad.

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Speaker 1: But then her mom and dad were and I thought,

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Speaker 1: I like had a great speech, and everyone was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: that was like really really nice. That her mom and

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Speaker 1: dad were pissed at me and were like, I can't

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Speaker 1: believe you announced to all of the your like all

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Speaker 1: of our friends and family spicy sleep with our daughter,

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Speaker 1: and just like ricking destroyed me and I was crying.

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Speaker 1: I was so in that moment. Uh well yeah, I

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Speaker 1: like started tearing up. And then I went like away,

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Speaker 1: I like cry because like I was just because it

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Speaker 1: was It was like the juxtaposition of like trying to

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Speaker 1: do what I thought was like the nicest thing that

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Speaker 1: I could do for someone I cared about, and then

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Speaker 1: delivering it poorly and then just like one thing that

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Speaker 1: I said in a way that I wasn't even thinking

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Speaker 1: was wrong, just like like just got wrecked. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: her her parents were pretty rough to deal with.

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Speaker 3: What did she say, We're going to Vegas?

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Speaker 1: I can't. I ended up canceling tickets to Vegas.

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Speaker 2: Did you guys break up after that?

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Speaker 1: No, we didn't break up then, but we did break

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Speaker 1: up with them. Wow. Yeah, what a bummer, Such a bummer,

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Speaker 1: Such a bummer.

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Speaker 3: Don't worry saying we can go to Vegas together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, I want to see those cakes. But and

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Speaker 1: Meolsen says without the same person who had the aggressive dad.

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Speaker 1: It was but that happened after that moment. Whoa Yeah,