WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Family Tree Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jubil in the Mornings, five Brook and Jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Mornings. Second Date Update. I've been on a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of first dates where during the entire date I

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<v Speaker 1>have to remind myself what her name is. But the

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<v Speaker 1>guy on the phone for today's second date update went

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<v Speaker 1>above and beyond what he needed to do to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that he knew his date, maybe even a little

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<v Speaker 1>too well. We'll find out why in just a second,

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<v Speaker 1>but first let's talk to him. His name is Ian Ian.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you. I'm doing quite well. Thank you? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? I'm not too bad? Thank you for doing

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update today. So I read your email

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<v Speaker 1>and the amount of effort that you put in to

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<v Speaker 1>this first date is very impressive to me. Well, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, before we get to what happened, let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>about your date first. What's her name? Her name is

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<v Speaker 1>Ali Ali? And where did you meet Ali? We met

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<v Speaker 1>at a local bar. Um just at a local bar. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how how did you meet her? At a local bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, sorry, I probably should have said that as well. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was putting songs into the jukebox at the at

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<v Speaker 1>the bar, and I had a few credits left over,

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<v Speaker 1>but there were no more songs that I would have

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<v Speaker 1>to hear, so I asked the nearby pretty girl if

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<v Speaker 1>she had any song requests that I could play for her,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we just kind of struck up a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>from there. Do you actually played her song? Oh? Of course, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I would. I would have rather been like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a terrible suggestion, whatever, but hey, what's your name? Love?

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<v Speaker 1>That's your first initial thought in minus Oh, if they

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<v Speaker 1>get married, that will be their first dance song. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>probably not. She had to play pour some Sugar on Me. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be an amazing first dance. So we exchange

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<v Speaker 1>numbers names obviously as well, and she said it would

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<v Speaker 1>be okay if I asked her out some time. So

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<v Speaker 1>what did you guys actually do when you went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. Well, I had put together a picnic

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<v Speaker 1>spread with just a few snacks, and I had made

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<v Speaker 1>a little surprise for her. And I'm glad that we've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten to this part because that's the thing that I

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<v Speaker 1>read in your email that was very interesting to me.

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<v Speaker 1>If this is the surprise you're talking about, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he knows what women want, picnics with wine and

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<v Speaker 1>food and then even a thoughtful gift or whatever your

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<v Speaker 1>talking into your the surprise. And then we can see

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<v Speaker 1>if you think this is romantic, because honestly, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be romantic or it could be a little strange.

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<v Speaker 1>But tell us what you did. I actually think it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's very romantic. It's it's certainly it's certainly unique.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it'll stick in her mind. Um, so that's good. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a very clinical description of your surprise. Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I know what I'm bringing to the table

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<v Speaker 1>as it were. All right, all right, I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And what was a surprise. Well, so I went on

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<v Speaker 1>the computer. I did a lot of research, and I

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<v Speaker 1>put together and printed out a rather extensive family tree,

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<v Speaker 1>a family tree whose family tree for her, for for

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<v Speaker 1>Alice and for ali wait of her family. Yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>it's remarkably easy to find. Actually, if you can find

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<v Speaker 1>their Facebook page, if they have marked any of their relatives,

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<v Speaker 1>their mom or a sister or anything. It's pretty easy

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out the whole timeline. I went back for Alice,

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<v Speaker 1>and I went back. I believe it was six or

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<v Speaker 1>seven generations. Wow, very interesting stuff. Did she seem interested

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<v Speaker 1>in it? She seemed very interested in it. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like she thought it was very cool. Are you sure?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, a girl you met at a bar shows

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<v Speaker 1>up to a park with basically a complete stranger and

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<v Speaker 1>he has the whole history of her entire bloodline. That's weird, man.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she did seem a little bit taken aback

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<v Speaker 1>at first, but yeah, well, once I started pointing out

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<v Speaker 1>some of the more interesting features of her timeline, she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed to get more into it. She had a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>famous great great I think three great. I think four

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<v Speaker 1>generations backs are great great? Did you just it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you just pulled up the family tree in front

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<v Speaker 1>of you. Did you just, Yeah, I've got it pulled

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<v Speaker 1>up right now. It's just on my computer. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that is so. Who is the great grandfather? You didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get to that point. Oh he was. He was a

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<v Speaker 1>prospector at a goldmine, one of the first out in California. Wow, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty cool. Cool, cool, guys, there's one cool thing

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<v Speaker 1>about what this guy did. Interesting. No, it's like stocking

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<v Speaker 1>on a whole nother level stalker. It's not as if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm out in a tree in front of her apartment.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, one of the things we talked about when

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<v Speaker 1>we were at the bar was that I'm very into genealogy.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a subscription to ancestry dot. You know, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the hobby of mine. And she thought it was cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought I would I would make her a gift.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know where the stalker is

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<v Speaker 1>coming in. So it's not like you did the family

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<v Speaker 1>tree thing completely out of the blue. She knew that

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<v Speaker 1>this was a passion of yours. Yes, yes, absolutely, Okay, No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>if you say your hobby is photography and you show

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<v Speaker 1>up with pictures of her, that's strange. Okay. If you

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<v Speaker 1>would talked to her and said, hey, would you want

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<v Speaker 1>me to research your family and she said yes, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's a whole different story, well then that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>takes away the surprise aspect that, yes, it does, it

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<v Speaker 1>would be I think it would be at least interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you spend the whole time going over her family?

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<v Speaker 1>Tree or did you do other things? The tree was

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<v Speaker 1>the largest part of the conversation. It was sitting right there,

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<v Speaker 1>and frankly, I spent a lot of time on it

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<v Speaker 1>and knew learned a lot of things about her history

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<v Speaker 1>that I wanted to share with her. You took so

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<v Speaker 1>many chances on that, like she could have a family

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<v Speaker 1>that she hates or an uncle that's imprisoned. And for

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<v Speaker 1>all you know, I'm actually ninety nine point nine percent

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<v Speaker 1>certain she does not have an uncle in prison. I

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<v Speaker 1>would know. I went through her history. That's true. You

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<v Speaker 1>did the research and you know all about her. How

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<v Speaker 1>did the date end? What was the last thing you

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<v Speaker 1>guys said to each other? So I drove her home

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<v Speaker 1>and as we pulled up to her place, she said

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<v Speaker 1>that was the most unique first date she'd ever been on.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I said I would call her, and she

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<v Speaker 1>said she was looking forward to it. And then she

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<v Speaker 1>said that she was going to put the family tree

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<v Speaker 1>up on her wall, maybe in a nice frame. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So it sounds like she did like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Then if she wants to put it on her wall, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why she would say she did like

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<v Speaker 1>it so many times, that's true. Maybe I'm just totally

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<v Speaker 1>different than she is. Well, we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on, don't go anywhere brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Second date update. Welcome back to the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. If you're wondering why I'm starting it with

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<v Speaker 1>Sister Sledge, we are family. That's because of what Ian

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<v Speaker 1>did for his first date with a girl named Ali.

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<v Speaker 1>It's probably one of the most creative things I've ever

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<v Speaker 1>heard anybody do for a first date. Definitely the most

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<v Speaker 1>work I've heard a lot of people put into a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. He actually made her a family tree. You

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<v Speaker 1>got her name from Facebook, found from her family members

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<v Speaker 1>went online. I guess he's a big enthusiast of this

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<v Speaker 1>kind of thing. He does it for all his friends

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<v Speaker 1>and family and stuff like that for Christmas and gifts,

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<v Speaker 1>and he decided he was going to make her a gift,

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<v Speaker 1>a family tree for their first date. He thinks that

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<v Speaker 1>she was impressed by it and really liked it. But

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<v Speaker 1>now she's not calling him back. So we're gonna see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can get her on the phone and find

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<v Speaker 1>out why. Ian, is that one of your favorite songs

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<v Speaker 1>by the way. Yeah, it's fine. Yeah, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to apologize. Okay, I think I went in a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit hard on you on your surprise. That's okay. You

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<v Speaker 1>you you called me a stalker, but that's I mean

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<v Speaker 1>my reaction. Had I received an information about myself from

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<v Speaker 1>someone I didn't know, but maybe she liked it, but

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<v Speaker 1>also be prepared that she didn't. Okay, well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>again I am. I am hoping she did like it,

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<v Speaker 1>but she she is not calling me back, so you

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<v Speaker 1>might be onto something there. Well we'll figure out why

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Okay, I'm gonna dial her phone number. Thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome. Here we go. Hello, Hi, it was looking

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<v Speaker 1>for Ali. This is hey Ali. How are you? My

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<v Speaker 1>name is Jebil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what that is? Uh? I assume some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of business. I guess it is kind of a business.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's actually a radio show. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so what is this about. This is about a guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you know. He's a friend of the show, and

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<v Speaker 1>he actually emailed us hoping that we could get you

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone because you're not calling him back after

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<v Speaker 1>your first date Are you serious? Yeah, his name is Ian,

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<v Speaker 1>So Ian emailed us saying that he thought he had

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<v Speaker 1>a wonderful first date with you, but ever since then,

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<v Speaker 1>he's tried to get a hold of you, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>not responding to his text messages or phone calls. So

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<v Speaker 1>he thought maybe we could get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and find out if something went wrong on your date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really weird. I know, it's a segment we do

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<v Speaker 1>on our show all the time. So he emailed us,

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<v Speaker 1>and now I'm asking you the question, did you like

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<v Speaker 1>your date with Ian? It was? It was interesting. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel that ative to use. What did you want me

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you? I mean, how about this, I'll tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what he told us. Okay, okay. He said that

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<v Speaker 1>he met you at a bar and then went out

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<v Speaker 1>for a picnic, and at your picnic, he presented you

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<v Speaker 1>with a huge family history thing that he had made

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<v Speaker 1>from some website or something. Yes, that's correct. Yes? Did

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<v Speaker 1>that Did that freak you out? That would have freaked

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<v Speaker 1>me out. Well, it took me by surprise for sure. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I had never met anybody who has gone to such

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<v Speaker 1>great length to impress me. Maybe. Yeah, Well, he said

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys had talked about it, and you knew

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<v Speaker 1>that he was into this kind of thing. Oh I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wasn't expecting, I guess, on the first date

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<v Speaker 1>for him to whip out my full entire family, like

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<v Speaker 1>not even just my grandparents, like my great grandparents. And

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<v Speaker 1>then beyond you know what I'm saying, I like to

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<v Speaker 1>bring up genealogy as a hobby and then to troll

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<v Speaker 1>your Facebook page to find out who your great great

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<v Speaker 1>great great great great grandfather is is a big leap.

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<v Speaker 1>It at least impressive to you. I mean, he did

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of research. Obviously he liked you. Yes, that

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<v Speaker 1>part is very impressive because I'm sure that took a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of time. But then that's also creepy because now

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<v Speaker 1>he has a lot of my family's information. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a weird line because you know, he told us about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I went back and forth. I was like, is

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<v Speaker 1>it creepy or is it a nice thing from a

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<v Speaker 1>guy who's just really into finding out people's family histories. Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of agree with you, but I went back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth, is this impressive or is this weird? But

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<v Speaker 1>then it just got like straight up weird. It got

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<v Speaker 1>stranger after your surprise. Oh yeah. So after our picnic

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<v Speaker 1>where he presented me with the family tree, we start

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<v Speaker 1>walking down this hill and then he's like to surprise, Like, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what is this surprise? And he's like, this is the

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<v Speaker 1>oldest cemetery in the state, Like cool, awesome. Then he said,

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<v Speaker 1>look over there, over there is where your great grandparents

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<v Speaker 1>are buried. What okay, he took me to the burial

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<v Speaker 1>side of your family. Oh that's not even There's one

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<v Speaker 1>more layer of weird to this. Then he whipped out cheesecake, like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's finish our picnic at my great grandparents graves. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean he knows nothing about your feelings

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<v Speaker 1>on death or if you knew these people were right? No, yea.

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<v Speaker 1>And he basically was like, let's spend time with your

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<v Speaker 1>great grandparents. So did you stand there and eat cheesecake

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<v Speaker 1>in front of your great grandparents grave? I woofed that

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<v Speaker 1>cheesecake down and got the hell out of there. That

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<v Speaker 1>is the best visual I've ever heard of it my

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<v Speaker 1>whole life. Did you guys, did you guys talk during it?

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<v Speaker 1>Or oh no, I was eating so fast? What was

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<v Speaker 1>his reasoning for wanting you to be He wanted me

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<v Speaker 1>to know about my history and spend time with them.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you learn anything new from eating cheesecake at your

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<v Speaker 1>great grandparents grave? He told me a couple of facts

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<v Speaker 1>about them. But in my mind, I'm like, just finished

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<v Speaker 1>the cake, just this, sheethecake, and let's go. So I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I just have a quick thing to say here. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>oh all right, I was helping you would wait, yea,

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<v Speaker 1>what is going on? Ali? That's Ian. He's actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? I mean that he was

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone the whole time, listening and he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. He was supposed to wait until

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<v Speaker 1>I brought him into the conversation, but he just couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>help himself. I guess I'm sorry that I jumped in.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I couldn't help myself. I feel like Ali's

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<v Speaker 1>missing something that's kind of just inherently cool about the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that she has distant relatives, not not even distant relatives,

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<v Speaker 1>direct line relatives that live right right in town. I myself,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go to Scotland to have this same

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<v Speaker 1>experience as being able to see the gravestones of my

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<v Speaker 1>great great grandparents that's I mean, that's that's and and

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<v Speaker 1>I just cut you off for a second. I do

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<v Speaker 1>think that's really cool. I mean that is awesome, and

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<v Speaker 1>that would be a really sweet, romantic thing. But you

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<v Speaker 1>just met me. Can't we talk about that and get

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<v Speaker 1>to that point, like, I don't know, three years from now,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean three years from now, that's a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>There could be a whole other generation and they have

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<v Speaker 1>to redo the family tree. Okay, well, at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that you can stop working on my family tree. Yeah, Ali,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did you have fun with him outside of

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of strange research he did into your history?

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<v Speaker 1>I could have maybe dealt with the family tree thing,

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<v Speaker 1>because that was pretty impressive. But then taking somebody to

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<v Speaker 1>a cemetery on a first date, I mean, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>know that you don't really understand how she's not fully

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<v Speaker 1>impressed by the family true thing, But taking somebody to

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<v Speaker 1>a grave site on a first date, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>anyone's blowing this very out of proportion. The grandparents finding

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<v Speaker 1>the grandparents is actually pretty easy. But the main setup,

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<v Speaker 1>the name, the main research was going into the family tree.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what at the time, I think that's what we

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<v Speaker 1>should focus on. That's the part you're trying to like, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to focus on we need to focus on

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<v Speaker 1>taking somebody to a grave site on a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter who it is. Yeah, why okay? What if

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<v Speaker 1>I put it this way? An? What if I say, like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you spent too much time investing on where Ali

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<v Speaker 1>came from instead of who she is right now? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Ali doesn't even know who she is. If she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know her path, you know, then I come into her

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<v Speaker 1>life and I can help her figure it out. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you kidding? I think you need to wait and find

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<v Speaker 1>out some more about me first, but at this point

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<v Speaker 1>it's not going to happen. What a wonderful lead into

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<v Speaker 1>my question, Ali, would you like Ian to learn more

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<v Speaker 1>about you and go out on a second date with him?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it now? No how no breaks

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<v Speaker 1>me out? Then he insultd me. No, sorry, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean to insult you. That was certainly not my intention.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like if we could go out again and

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<v Speaker 1>just start from fresh, that would be good, And I

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<v Speaker 1>will tell you there is an extra incentive if you

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<v Speaker 1>have another date with me. I found out some pretty

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<v Speaker 1>interesting things about a great aunt of yours. Doesn't care.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, I don't care, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go to her great either, Okay, I can just

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<v Speaker 1>I can just email you the information in those thinks.

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<v Speaker 1>She has a Wikipedia page. She was. Wow, Well, Ali,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for talking to us about your day. Thank you. Yeah, Ian,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry you didn't get a second date. But maybe

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<v Speaker 1>this is a lesson learned. Yeah, I guess so. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and what's that lesson? Don't ask people out on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. They're going to be ungrateful about research you do.

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<v Speaker 1>Broken jewel in the morning,