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Speaker 1: in the Mornings. Second Date Update. I've been on a

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Speaker 1: too well. We'll find out why in just a second,

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Speaker 1: but first let's talk to him. His name is Ian Ian.

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Speaker 1: How are you. I'm doing quite well. Thank you? How

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Speaker 1: the second date update today. So I read your email

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Speaker 1: Ali Ali? And where did you meet Ali? We met

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Speaker 1: how how did you meet her? At a local bar.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sorry, I probably should have said that as well. So, yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's your first initial thought in minus Oh, if they

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Speaker 1: that's a very clinical description of your surprise. Well, I mean,

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Speaker 1: And what was a surprise. Well, so I went on

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Speaker 1: it's remarkably easy to find. Actually, if you can find

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Speaker 1: It's probably one of the most creative things I've ever

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