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Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

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Speaker 1: you letter. I don't know for some reason, I love

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Speaker 1: this subject. Whose is it? Uh? Dear Stephen Shirley. This

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Speaker 1: past Valentine's Day started out as the most amazing day

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Speaker 1: with the man of my dreams. We planned to go

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Speaker 1: out to dinner, so after work I went to his

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Speaker 1: he walked through the door, we got busy quick and

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Speaker 1: wild style. Afterwards, we pulled ourselves together and went out

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Speaker 1: to dinner. He gave me the bottle of perfume that

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Speaker 1: I had always wanted, so the night was going great.

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Speaker 1: After dinner, we went back to his condo and had

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Speaker 1: some drinks, listen to some music, and ended up getting

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Speaker 1: intimate again. The love making was so intense and passionate

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Speaker 1: this time until he abruptly jumped up and yelled, what

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Speaker 1: did you say? It took me a couple of seconds

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Speaker 1: and then I realized, Oh, my goodness, I just whispered

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Speaker 1: my ex's name. How did this happen? I've been divorced

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Speaker 1: for ten years and I have no contact whatsoever with

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Speaker 1: my ex. My man looked at me with this hurt angry,

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Speaker 1: disgusted look and left the bedroom. This is the second

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Speaker 1: time it's happened. I did the same thing a few

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Speaker 1: years ago. He eventually forgave me the first time and

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Speaker 1: we got back on track. But this time, I don't

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Speaker 1: think it's going to be that's going to happen. I've

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Speaker 1: apologized over and over, but we've only spoken twice since then.

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Speaker 1: I'm so mad at myself. I'm heartbroken and confused. What

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Speaker 1: is wrong with me? Do you think he will forgive

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Speaker 1: me again? Or is it best to just leave it

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Speaker 1: alone and walk away? By the way, we're in our

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Speaker 1: mid fifties, both divorced, and we've been together for the

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Speaker 1: past seven years. I don't want to lose him. Please help. Wow,

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Speaker 1: what a way to mess up for a really good evening, girl?

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Speaker 1: What were you thinking? Uh? I mean, I can I

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Speaker 1: can hear breathe. You guys had a great night. You

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Speaker 1: say this is a man of your dreams. You guys

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Speaker 1: have been together for seven years, you've been divorced for ten.

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Speaker 1: Where did this come from? I mean, did you have

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Speaker 1: too much to drink? Were you drunk? You know? Maybe

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Speaker 1: you can blame it on that, but yeah, this is

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Speaker 1: this is kind of crazy. And you you heard his ego.

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Speaker 1: You know, not just one time. This is a second

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Speaker 1: time you've done that. How do you think he's supposed

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Speaker 1: to feel? Uh? It makes him think. I guess from

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Speaker 1: a man's point of view that you're thinking during the

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Speaker 1: most intimate time, not about him, but about your ex.

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Speaker 1: And that's not cool. I don't know how you did that.

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Speaker 1: You slipped up really badly. He forgave you the second time.

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Speaker 1: The first time, I mean eventually, I don't know if

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Speaker 1: he's gonna forgive you this time. I don't know. It

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Speaker 1: depends on you, know, how you make it up to him,

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Speaker 1: if he allows you to make it up to him.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that you should just leave and walk

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Speaker 1: away without you know, doing everything you can. But you're

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Speaker 1: in your mid fifties, you're both divorced. I mean, it

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Speaker 1: sounds like you have a good thing going. You just

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Speaker 1: messed it up. You're just gonna have to I don't know, really,

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Speaker 1: you know, plead and appeal your case to him. Maybe

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Speaker 1: he'll forgive you a second time. I don't know, Steve, Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't need to. How much time I got? How

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Speaker 1: many minutes have you got? Plenty of time. Go ahead,

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Speaker 1: because I could do this three minutes. I can get

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Speaker 1: all this seen in one time. Come on, let's just

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Speaker 1: let me explain something to you. What happened was has

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Speaker 1: happened to a lot of men before. But the title

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Speaker 1: of the letter is whose is it? So obviously he

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Speaker 1: asked a question in the middle of the session. Who

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Speaker 1: m is it? And he said it because he knew

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Speaker 1: he would put me in work. He had had this thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh moaned this round to y'all back. You walk in

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Speaker 1: the door is passionate? All hailed and broke blues. Then

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Speaker 1: times to do this because I forgot. I got to

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Speaker 1: set up. What the hell happened? Y'all came in the

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Speaker 1: room tad at each other. The anticipation was incredible. He

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Speaker 1: gave your perfume that you always wanted. Y'all will walk

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Speaker 1: through the dough. Y'all got busy, she says in her life,

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Speaker 1: quick and lost. Lord, you know what wild style is this?

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Speaker 1: that hold the mallet and butcher knife. It broke. You

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Speaker 1: know where the hell hell why is the kitchen chill outside?

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Speaker 1: He just got three now? Yeah, and who told the

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Speaker 1: hot water handle off? The speech? That's pretty wild. Stop.

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Speaker 1: All the cushions on the couch is wet. Come. You

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Speaker 1: can't explain none of it. And it's a crack in

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Speaker 1: the fireplace don't work no more. It just popped off.

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Speaker 1: This is quick and wild style. When you're in there,

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Speaker 1: you can't explain nothing. People coming on. What is only

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Speaker 1: knee prints in this car? Girl? Is your knees bleeding?

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Speaker 1: He got a zipper print on his cheek. That's how

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Speaker 1: wild it got open there. Now, when I come back,

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Speaker 1: I'm explain to you. Right in the middle of this

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Speaker 1: wild style. While he was performing at his high level

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Speaker 1: ever before, he asked to prove very real question, whose

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Speaker 1: is it? There's a word missing in there, but we

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Speaker 1: all know what he meant. You said, whose is it?

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Speaker 1: When I come back, we will go down the list

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Speaker 1: of things you could have said, and then a list

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Speaker 1: of things that you probably said. Right after this all

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Speaker 1: hell breaks loop. Come on, let's get to part two

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Speaker 1: of your response to today's Strawberry letter subject whose is It?

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Speaker 1: You had some lists? Yeah, Tommy, yes, sir. Now for

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Speaker 1: the first time, I'm gonna play the role of her. Hum,

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Speaker 1: Tommy's not gonna be okay, I want you to do Tommy,

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Speaker 1: it's say whose is it? Then this first list. It's

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Speaker 1: because she said something wrong, because in the letter she

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Speaker 1: said the Tyler letters, whose is it? In the middle

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Speaker 1: of the letters, she said, he jumped up and said,

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Speaker 1: what did you say? So now after he jumped up

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Speaker 1: and said to avoid the what did you say? Let

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Speaker 1: me give you, ladies, a list of things that you

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Speaker 1: can say if you're unsure of whose it is? Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: So Tommy, go ahead, whose is it? Oh? Show see

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Speaker 1: that's easy? Like a bear? That's all right. He sounded

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Speaker 1: like a bear. Whose is it? Who is you? Daddy?

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Speaker 1: Here's your daddy. You're not a good girl. How you

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Speaker 1: gotta be? I'm just trying to save your mannage. Whose

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Speaker 1: is it? Big down? Any of these would have worked?

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Speaker 1: Whose is it. Look at me? Whose is it? Who

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Speaker 1: you think? Whose is it? You better know it? All

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Speaker 1: of those would have worked. One more, Thomas, Whose is it?

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Speaker 1: That's my favorite? Now those are a list of things

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Speaker 1: that you can use to keep yourself out of trouble,

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Speaker 1: that would keep a man engaged, working hard, giving his all.

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Speaker 1: Now here's what you can say when he asked you, now,

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Speaker 1: his name is Nathaniel. Name is naa? My name? It's Nathaniel.

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Speaker 1: It's quick name. I forgot that. That's on driving like, so,

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Speaker 1: come on, Tommy, whose is it? Oh? Harold? What? What? What?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what that baby? Was wrong? What I say? Huh? Missing?

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Speaker 1: You have to be calling me? Harroy me? I said,

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Speaker 1: Nathan you no, no, no, you said hair Nathaniel? Why

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Speaker 1: would I come? Okay, go again, let's go. Come on baby,

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Speaker 1: look at me? Who's is it? Oh? What you're doing?

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Speaker 1: What's your name? Did you say? Go ahead? And time

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Speaker 1: to do it again? All right? Baby? Whose is it? Okay? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you that time you gotta go. What

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Speaker 1: did you say you got to keep doing that? What

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Speaker 1: did you just say? What did you say? Do it again? You?

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Speaker 1: Go ahead? Whose is it? Baby? I don't know. What

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Speaker 1: did you say? You're doing good? You don't know. Come on, baby,

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Speaker 1: whose is it? Baby? Maybe? I said? Whose is it's configured?

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Speaker 1: Why are you asking me? Yeah? What what's you talking about? You?

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Speaker 1: I asked you? Whose is it? Last one? Oh? Baby? Baby?

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Speaker 1: Whose is it? What did you say? What did you last? One? Time?

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Speaker 1: Talk to me? Baby? Talk to me baby? Whose is it? Baby?

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Speaker 1: Whose is it? What your name is? They thank you?

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Speaker 1: My name? They thank you? I'm busy. I that's what

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Speaker 1: do you mean? Fill it in? Yeah? It was classic

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Speaker 1: a fun Steven oh Man, who was your face? Thank

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Speaker 1: you for let me be the word? Sorry? That just cover?

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Speaker 1: Tell me so? He was really into it. Got a

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Speaker 1: part I didn't turn Yeah, reading hard. It's just a

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Speaker 1: reenactment to me. But he got that part down. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: put your shirt back on the shirt. We don't know

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Speaker 1: you like that? All right? Listen, we gotta get out

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Speaker 1: of here. Guys. You can email us your instagram us

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Speaker 1: your thought on today's Strawberry letter at my Girl, Shirley.

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