Speaker 1: Second d of date. Is it a bad sign if
Speaker 1: you get into a big disagreement during a first date? Yes,
Speaker 1: most of the times. Maybe if you think about it
Speaker 1: this way, couples argue about stuff all the time, right,
Speaker 1: been together forever, so it might be good practice for
Speaker 1: when you do finally make it official. You want to
Speaker 1: know how the arguments are going to go. That's not
Speaker 1: really the last It's like, make the honeymoon phase last
Speaker 1: as long as possible. That huge argument happens and they're like, wow,
Speaker 1: this is okay, we're gonna agree to disagree on this one.
Speaker 1: And one of our listeners, Derek, said he got into
Speaker 1: a weird disagreement with his date. We're going to find
Speaker 1: out what happened in just a minute. But first, Derek,
Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Hi, thanks for having I've never
Speaker 1: done this before, so yeah, yeah you would remember. So
Speaker 1: we'll get to what happened with your argument. But first,
Speaker 1: tell us the name of the girl that you wrote did?
Speaker 1: What was her names in it? Okay? Where did you meet? Casey?
Speaker 1: We met on an online dating site. I'll just leave
Speaker 1: it at that. And I'm not going to tell you
Speaker 1: what one that's pretty normal, I mean, was there something
Speaker 1: that stuck out about her. She's really cute and I
Speaker 1: just got out of her relationship and she ended an
Speaker 1: engagement just you know, like four months ago. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: kind of bonded over that a lot. Get over someone
Speaker 1: by getting under that. It's an interesting thing to be
Speaker 1: attracted to person. You just like, you know, you're both
Speaker 1: on the rebound. You probably have the same ideas of
Speaker 1: what you want. Okay, it's interesting, Like what what did
Speaker 1: you like about her? Is that she's just ended an engagement.
Speaker 1: That's strange. Someone I could talk, say to trade horror
Speaker 1: stories that you know, significant others and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: She just got it. Okay. So you know, we're talking
Speaker 1: back and forth and we plan to go out and
Speaker 1: just grab coffee. Okay, right, Okay, So we're walking into
Speaker 1: the coffee shop and we passed this Brunts restaurant that
Speaker 1: apparently she absolutely loves. Oh nice, Like she stopped in
Speaker 1: her tracks and she goes, oh my god, I love brunch.
Speaker 1: She love everything about it. And I had to tell
Speaker 1: her like, hey, listen, I'm not much of a breakfast
Speaker 1: guy at all. Like that's a kiss of death. Man,
Speaker 1: Why would you say something like that? I mean, I
Speaker 1: married my husband, and I didn't find out until five
Speaker 1: years into the marriage that he hated breakfast It probably
Speaker 1: not probably we thought the whole thing. Yikes. What did
Speaker 1: she say? She's like, well, what is it? Is it
Speaker 1: because it's early in the morning, And I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: not at all. It's mainly because I just don't like
Speaker 1: breakfast options. What I married one of you. It's the
Speaker 1: weirdest thing to me, really strange. So you know, when
Speaker 1: I told her that, she almost fell over. And then
Speaker 1: she goes, Okay, well, I'm gonna list some breakfast foods
Speaker 1: and I want you to rank them one to ten.
Speaker 1: How do you think about pancakes? And I'm like, ah,
Speaker 1: like a two? He goes waffles two. I'm just being honest,
Speaker 1: Like French toast is like a one. You don't like
Speaker 1: It's bread and maple syrup and sugar. It's delicious. Ironically,
Speaker 1: he was the two girls in the room favorite meals
Speaker 1: and shut up? Is there anything that you ranked Hie
Speaker 1: out of any the breakfast foods? Like water? You know
Speaker 1: I did rank something in eight? Okay, oh yeah, trancheros.
Speaker 1: Let's go. I gotta be eggs, just eggs. What breakfast
Speaker 1: food gets the nod. I'm kind of a health nut,
Speaker 1: so just plain old meal. Oh my god, Okay, are
Speaker 1: you being serious? Are you just lying because keep up
Speaker 1: this health facade. No, I'm not trying to make you
Speaker 1: mad and not trying to make her mad. And she said,
Speaker 1: you just haven't had good breakfast food. So she made
Speaker 1: me go into the front tread. Yeah, you're basically a
Speaker 1: married couple at this point where it's like, Okay, I
Speaker 1: guess we'll go to this place again breakfast. I have
Speaker 1: to know what did you order when you went to
Speaker 1: brunch a pair? Well, what did I order? Or what
Speaker 1: did she order for me? Because those are two different things.
Speaker 1: What'd she get? Well? It was kind of embarrassing because
Speaker 1: you know, we're in the restaurant and she tells the
Speaker 1: server I'm not into breakfast, so do your best, and
Speaker 1: then she brings like all these like a sampler kind
Speaker 1: of tray and she just ordered sides everything. That's awful, dude.
Speaker 1: That's yeah telling me if I go into a restaurant,
Speaker 1: say I'm not a breakfast person, they're going to bring
Speaker 1: me a sampler. I don't think that sucks though, that
Speaker 1: like she's trying to embarrass you. But being like, hey, everyone,
Speaker 1: he hates breakfast too, Let's see how much she hates it.
Speaker 1: Sounds like she was just being fun and funny, like
Speaker 1: he wouldn't want to call her back if she was
Speaker 1: out to just humiliate him, right, Like, it sounds like
Speaker 1: she was making a fun event of it. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: how did you enjoy your breakfast sampler? So first I said, look,
Speaker 1: you don't have to order all this. I'm probably not
Speaker 1: gonna like it. And then so sh orders everything anyway,
Speaker 1: and I give it a couple bites and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, these are just not that good. There's a
Speaker 1: lot of twos, you know. So I just ordered what
Speaker 1: I wanted to order, which was two bowls of just
Speaker 1: plain oatmeal two. Oh. Go up. It totally fills you up.
Speaker 1: Did you guys enjoy the date? Yes? Aside from the food,
Speaker 1: how did how was your connection? Everything's actually going pretty great.
Speaker 1: We're having a great time. We're talking about families, and
Speaker 1: she told me that like her mom especially makes a
Speaker 1: big deal about birthdays and that her birthday's coming up.
Speaker 1: So that was kind of cool. So I thought, maybe,
Speaker 1: you know, like a birthday or something we can kind
Speaker 1: of do. So you like birthdays, I got. Okay, at
Speaker 1: least you guys have something in common. You could be
Speaker 1: the guy that's like, oh birthdays. They don't really do
Speaker 1: it for me, okay, but it's nice to you guys
Speaker 1: are able to connect. How did the date end? So
Speaker 1: we shared a hug and then we were texting a
Speaker 1: little bit after that, and then you just stopped completely
Speaker 1: really so, I don't know, maybe to talk to her
Speaker 1: friends and they said like, hey, he does like breakfast,
Speaker 1: you know, like cut this guy off or whatever. But no,
Speaker 1: I don't think that's actually a thing. I know from
Speaker 1: the reaction that we got in this room. You guys,
Speaker 1: I'm married a guy who doesn't like breakfast, and you
Speaker 1: still hate him for it. It just means more food
Speaker 1: for me. Jeffrey. Okay, well, let's see what this girl's thinking.
Speaker 1: We're gonna play a song. We'll come back. We'll call
Speaker 1: Casey for you and try and get your second date update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hold on mate. There are millions of people
Speaker 1: listening all over the country right now who are throwing
Speaker 1: their blueberry muffins at the radio in anger, pouring hot
Speaker 1: syrup over their smart devices. In total disgust, and I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, guys, slow down. Okay, we don't know that
Speaker 1: this is the problem yet. I know everybody in studios
Speaker 1: angry that Derek doesn't like breakfas his food, but we
Speaker 1: don't know if that's why his date, Casey isn't calling
Speaker 1: him back. That's true, we all are like, but it's
Speaker 1: not official because if you missed the first part of
Speaker 1: the second date update, we're on the phone with Derek
Speaker 1: and he mentioned to his date that he doesn't really
Speaker 1: enjoy eating breakfast food and so she forced him to
Speaker 1: eat a bunch of them at a restaurant that she
Speaker 1: really likes. Well, that's what happened. She shouldn't force him.
Speaker 1: It's not like he had his hands tied and she
Speaker 1: was like boon feeding. Now, okay, she just publicly shamed
Speaker 1: him while he ate stuff. You are so defensive of him. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know that's This is exactly what happened. But
Speaker 1: they ended it on a high note. They had a hug,
Speaker 1: a few nice conversations after all the breakfast drama. Now, Derek,
Speaker 1: I know you mentioned a lot of foods that she
Speaker 1: made you try, but you never mentioned if you put
Speaker 1: a sausage in your mouth, because that's one of my favorites.
Speaker 1: Did you ever get some sausage sausage? Patty? Pat? Okay,
Speaker 1: you're different than the lengths, like a two maybe a
Speaker 1: three thing. Have you ever thought like? I don't think
Speaker 1: that brunch is necessarily a personality type, but I think
Speaker 1: being a person who only eats plain oatmeal may actually
Speaker 1: being maybe she just found you kind of bland. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can see that. I'll drink a bloody Mary. Oh
Speaker 1: you did well. Let's let's just call Casey before it.
Speaker 1: Brook gets so angry she walks out of student. It's
Speaker 1: really upsetting here. We're gonna dial Casey's number now and
Speaker 1: we're gonna try and get your your second date update.
Speaker 1: You're ready? Okay? Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello. Hi
Speaker 1: is this Casey? Yeah? Who's calling? Hey Casey? My name
Speaker 1: is Jeffrey from the show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: How you doing? Who is this again? The name is Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: Where I'm a I'm on a morning radio show? Okay, Hi, okay, Casey,
Speaker 1: we're all here him barely on a morning radio show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you couldn't tell those are my really mean co hosts.
Speaker 1: We belittle me all day co host Casey there, I'm
Speaker 1: still here. Yeah, you see, you don't have to deal
Speaker 1: with every day Casey. It's just ridiculous. So I'm calling you.
Speaker 1: We do a segment on our show called a second
Speaker 1: Date Update. Have you ever heard of that before? No? Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: it works like this. If you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with someone, and afterwards, if that person isn't calling
Speaker 1: you back, you can email our show and we'll reach
Speaker 1: out to them for you to help you figure out
Speaker 1: the reason why. Okay, interesting, yep. And recently you went
Speaker 1: out with a guy named Derek. Yes, I did. Okay,
Speaker 1: So Derek has emailed us because apparently you guys had
Speaker 1: a nice time and you were texting after your date,
Speaker 1: but you've ghosted him lately and he isn't really sure why. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's gonna work out him and
Speaker 1: I was it. He talked to you guys. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: told us about your date and he mentioned a lot
Speaker 1: of it centered around breakfast food, which we were stunned
Speaker 1: as well. He told us that he didn't like it.
Speaker 1: You know, he told you about that. Yeah, isn't that crazy? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's surprising. There's not a lot of people like that,
Speaker 1: but there are people that genuinely don't enjoy breakfast food. Yes,
Speaker 1: like breaks which we talked about. Yeah, I mean, but
Speaker 1: the thing is is it sounds like you turned it
Speaker 1: into like a fun date thing where you could see
Speaker 1: if you could change his mind. Yeah. I really couldn't
Speaker 1: believe it. So I just thought for fun, we were
Speaker 1: walking past my favorite brunch thought. So when I found
Speaker 1: a few things off the menu that he could sample
Speaker 1: and he just would rather have a plain oatmeal, he said, yeah,
Speaker 1: And I mean I kind of thought that was weird.
Speaker 1: I'm a big breakfast brunch person. My friends and I
Speaker 1: do that almost every week. We love Sunday brunch. But
Speaker 1: that's something you have to have in common with your partner, right,
Speaker 1: Like you have your people already that will brunch with you, right.
Speaker 1: But I mean, I would like him to be a
Speaker 1: part of that. He's going to be a part of
Speaker 1: my life. And you know, at first, I didn't think
Speaker 1: it was that big of a deal. But when I
Speaker 1: did speak to my friends about it afterwards, they were
Speaker 1: very shocked, and they were kind of upset that I
Speaker 1: was with a guy that didn't really like breakfast food. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then I researched it and it just sounds a
Speaker 1: little crazy. I'll admit this, but I found a relationship expert.
Speaker 1: He's had a PhD. He writes. Okay, this is on
Speaker 1: the internet, though, let's yeah. Brooks already putting up walls
Speaker 1: before she even knows what the relationship expert says. She's like,
Speaker 1: I don't trust him. Sounds like a hoax to me. Well,
Speaker 1: the one thing that he had mentioned was that. And again,
Speaker 1: I know this sounds a little bit crazy. I know
Speaker 1: it's not a major dietary restriction, but he mentioned if
Speaker 1: someone does have a major dietary restriction, sometimes it just
Speaker 1: doesn't work out in a relationship. In a relationship, yeah,
Speaker 1: but this is different than like being having to be
Speaker 1: gluten free or something, and you love bread. I don't know. Well,
Speaker 1: it's actually worse because he just doesn't like it. So,
Speaker 1: like five years from now, I don't want to be
Speaker 1: singing across from him and upset at him and wanting
Speaker 1: to dump that bowl of oatmeal on its head. Yeah. Wow,
Speaker 1: you liked everything about him except for his taste in food.
Speaker 1: I just thought it was weird. Maybe it's just like
Speaker 1: a red flag. I don't know, and then later on
Speaker 1: I might find out some more weird things. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a gateway to weirdness away. I mean, Casey, do
Speaker 1: you think would it be considered weird if say Derek
Speaker 1: was on the other line listening this whole time and
Speaker 1: wanted to talk to you, would that be weird? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be weird. Yeah is he Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's there. Time to say hi? Yeah, it's time to
Speaker 1: say hi. Just because we have different food taste, I mean,
Speaker 1: that's no grounds for not seeing someone. And you know,
Speaker 1: I think having different food tastes to make a relationship better,
Speaker 1: you know, to have a diverse sort of taste profile
Speaker 1: than the other person. Otherwise that he's really boring. I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm sitting here drinking mimosas and having all
Speaker 1: this fun food and my friend enjoying myself and you're
Speaker 1: just sitting there eating your plane oatmeal. That look. And
Speaker 1: if you're talking about like a relationship expert online, I'm
Speaker 1: sure I can go and dig up some relationship expert
Speaker 1: that will say the exact opposite. That's true. Online you
Speaker 1: can find any argument link. I swear I can find
Speaker 1: a link. That's his potation. And here's the thing, just
Speaker 1: because you think his oatmeal sucks all right, like he doesn't.
Speaker 1: He's actually enjoying himself still when he's out to breakfast
Speaker 1: with you. Yeah. Yeah, what if I said I won't
Speaker 1: date you because you don't like oatmeal. It's the same thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, oatmeal is just one food, but there's so
Speaker 1: many options you just don't like any of it. Well,
Speaker 1: maybe you can look at this as an opportunity to
Speaker 1: change him. No, yeah, that's a good challenge. It's a
Speaker 1: good women level challenge like that. You know you can.
Speaker 1: You can slip some breakfast food secretly into his meals
Speaker 1: so he doesn't know until he eventually starts to like him.
Speaker 1: Get out of here, and we're not changing people. We
Speaker 1: could try it. What about a BLT. I mean that's
Speaker 1: kind of on the verge of yeah, what are you saying?
Speaker 1: What do you think, Derek? Are you up for that?
Speaker 1: I'm up for a lucitive change. I'm not up for
Speaker 1: being changed by a woman. Yeah that's okay, in case
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do it secretly so that he
Speaker 1: doesn't notice. I don't even know if I want to
Speaker 1: see him again. Oh my gosh, give him one more chance,
Speaker 1: go to dinner with him. Maybe you guys who like dinner,
Speaker 1: are you serious? This is gonna be really hard. One
Speaker 1: doesn't like dinner, one doesn't like breakfast. Mabe. We'll send
Speaker 1: you guys out on a day and you guys can
Speaker 1: have lunch together. Okay, a snack. Okay, what if you guys,
Speaker 1: We'll pay for a snack for you too, to share.
Speaker 1: You guys can both nibble on the ends of a
Speaker 1: Quaker oats bar so you can meet in the middle.
Speaker 1: That's for me. I mean, I know, case for your
Speaker 1: birthday is coming up and you wanted to do something.
Speaker 1: I mean, you got there. That was really sweet. That
Speaker 1: was really nice, Casey. I'm not a monster, he said,
Speaker 1: I'm not a monster. You are. What do you say, Casey,
Speaker 1: give another chance. We'll give it another shot. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: I am. I didn't see turning this way. I'm very Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm happy. I don't know. I feel like you guys
Speaker 1: are just saying this to get us off the phone,
Speaker 1: and then you're never going to talk to each other again.
Speaker 1: That might be a possibility. Brooke and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 1: morning