WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Breakfast Hater

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<v Speaker 1>Second d of date. Is it a bad sign if

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<v Speaker 1>you get into a big disagreement during a first date? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>most of the times. Maybe if you think about it

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<v Speaker 1>this way, couples argue about stuff all the time, right,

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<v Speaker 1>been together forever, so it might be good practice for

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<v Speaker 1>when you do finally make it official. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>know how the arguments are going to go. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>really the last It's like, make the honeymoon phase last

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<v Speaker 1>as long as possible. That huge argument happens and they're like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is okay, we're gonna agree to disagree on this one.

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<v Speaker 1>And one of our listeners, Derek, said he got into

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<v Speaker 1>a weird disagreement with his date. We're going to find

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<v Speaker 1>out what happened in just a minute. But first, Derek,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show. Hi, thanks for having I've never

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<v Speaker 1>done this before, so yeah, yeah you would remember. So

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get to what happened with your argument. But first,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us the name of the girl that you wrote did?

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<v Speaker 1>What was her names in it? Okay? Where did you meet? Casey?

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<v Speaker 1>We met on an online dating site. I'll just leave

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<v Speaker 1>it at that. And I'm not going to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what one that's pretty normal, I mean, was there something

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<v Speaker 1>that stuck out about her. She's really cute and I

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<v Speaker 1>just got out of her relationship and she ended an

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<v Speaker 1>engagement just you know, like four months ago. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>kind of bonded over that a lot. Get over someone

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<v Speaker 1>by getting under that. It's an interesting thing to be

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to person. You just like, you know, you're both

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<v Speaker 1>on the rebound. You probably have the same ideas of

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<v Speaker 1>what you want. Okay, it's interesting, Like what what did

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<v Speaker 1>you like about her? Is that she's just ended an engagement.

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<v Speaker 1>That's strange. Someone I could talk, say to trade horror

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<v Speaker 1>stories that you know, significant others and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>She just got it. Okay. So you know, we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth and we plan to go out and

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<v Speaker 1>just grab coffee. Okay, right, Okay, So we're walking into

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<v Speaker 1>the coffee shop and we passed this Brunts restaurant that

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<v Speaker 1>apparently she absolutely loves. Oh nice, Like she stopped in

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<v Speaker 1>her tracks and she goes, oh my god, I love brunch.

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<v Speaker 1>She love everything about it. And I had to tell

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<v Speaker 1>her like, hey, listen, I'm not much of a breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>guy at all. Like that's a kiss of death. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you say something like that? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>married my husband, and I didn't find out until five

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<v Speaker 1>years into the marriage that he hated breakfast It probably

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<v Speaker 1>not probably we thought the whole thing. Yikes. What did

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<v Speaker 1>she say? She's like, well, what is it? Is it

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<v Speaker 1>because it's early in the morning, And I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. It's mainly because I just don't like

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast options. What I married one of you. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>weirdest thing to me, really strange. So you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>I told her that, she almost fell over. And then

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<v Speaker 1>she goes, Okay, well, I'm gonna list some breakfast foods

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<v Speaker 1>and I want you to rank them one to ten.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you think about pancakes? And I'm like, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>like a two? He goes waffles two. I'm just being honest,

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<v Speaker 1>Like French toast is like a one. You don't like

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<v Speaker 1>It's bread and maple syrup and sugar. It's delicious. Ironically,

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<v Speaker 1>he was the two girls in the room favorite meals

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<v Speaker 1>and shut up? Is there anything that you ranked Hie

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<v Speaker 1>out of any the breakfast foods? Like water? You know

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<v Speaker 1>I did rank something in eight? Okay, oh yeah, trancheros.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go. I gotta be eggs, just eggs. What breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>food gets the nod. I'm kind of a health nut,

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<v Speaker 1>so just plain old meal. Oh my god, Okay, are

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<v Speaker 1>you being serious? Are you just lying because keep up

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<v Speaker 1>this health facade. No, I'm not trying to make you

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<v Speaker 1>mad and not trying to make her mad. And she said,

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<v Speaker 1>you just haven't had good breakfast food. So she made

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<v Speaker 1>me go into the front tread. Yeah, you're basically a

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<v Speaker 1>married couple at this point where it's like, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we'll go to this place again breakfast. I have

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<v Speaker 1>to know what did you order when you went to

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<v Speaker 1>brunch a pair? Well, what did I order? Or what

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<v Speaker 1>did she order for me? Because those are two different things.

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<v Speaker 1>What'd she get? Well? It was kind of embarrassing because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're in the restaurant and she tells the

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<v Speaker 1>server I'm not into breakfast, so do your best, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she brings like all these like a sampler kind

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<v Speaker 1>of tray and she just ordered sides everything. That's awful, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>That's yeah telling me if I go into a restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>say I'm not a breakfast person, they're going to bring

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<v Speaker 1>me a sampler. I don't think that sucks though, that

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<v Speaker 1>like she's trying to embarrass you. But being like, hey, everyone,

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<v Speaker 1>he hates breakfast too, Let's see how much she hates it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like she was just being fun and funny, like

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<v Speaker 1>he wouldn't want to call her back if she was

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<v Speaker 1>out to just humiliate him, right, Like, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>she was making a fun event of it. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you enjoy your breakfast sampler? So first I said, look,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to order all this. I'm probably not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna like it. And then so sh orders everything anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>and I give it a couple bites and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, these are just not that good. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of twos, you know. So I just ordered what

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to order, which was two bowls of just

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<v Speaker 1>plain oatmeal two. Oh. Go up. It totally fills you up.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys enjoy the date? Yes? Aside from the food,

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<v Speaker 1>how did how was your connection? Everything's actually going pretty great.

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<v Speaker 1>We're having a great time. We're talking about families, and

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<v Speaker 1>she told me that like her mom especially makes a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal about birthdays and that her birthday's coming up.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was kind of cool. So I thought, maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like a birthday or something we can kind

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<v Speaker 1>of do. So you like birthdays, I got. Okay, at

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<v Speaker 1>least you guys have something in common. You could be

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that's like, oh birthdays. They don't really do

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<v Speaker 1>it for me, okay, but it's nice to you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are able to connect. How did the date end? So

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<v Speaker 1>we shared a hug and then we were texting a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit after that, and then you just stopped completely

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<v Speaker 1>really so, I don't know, maybe to talk to her

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<v Speaker 1>friends and they said like, hey, he does like breakfast,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like cut this guy off or whatever. But no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's actually a thing. I know from

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<v Speaker 1>the reaction that we got in this room. You guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm married a guy who doesn't like breakfast, and you

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<v Speaker 1>still hate him for it. It just means more food

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Jeffrey. Okay, well, let's see what this girl's thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna play a song. We'll come back. We'll call

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<v Speaker 1>Casey for you and try and get your second date update. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on mate. There are millions of people

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<v Speaker 1>listening all over the country right now who are throwing

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<v Speaker 1>their blueberry muffins at the radio in anger, pouring hot

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<v Speaker 1>syrup over their smart devices. In total disgust, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, guys, slow down. Okay, we don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>this is the problem yet. I know everybody in studios

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<v Speaker 1>angry that Derek doesn't like breakfas his food, but we

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if that's why his date, Casey isn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back. That's true, we all are like, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>not official because if you missed the first part of

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update, we're on the phone with Derek

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<v Speaker 1>and he mentioned to his date that he doesn't really

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy eating breakfast food and so she forced him to

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<v Speaker 1>eat a bunch of them at a restaurant that she

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<v Speaker 1>really likes. Well, that's what happened. She shouldn't force him.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like he had his hands tied and she

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<v Speaker 1>was like boon feeding. Now, okay, she just publicly shamed

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<v Speaker 1>him while he ate stuff. You are so defensive of him. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that's This is exactly what happened. But

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<v Speaker 1>they ended it on a high note. They had a hug,

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<v Speaker 1>a few nice conversations after all the breakfast drama. Now, Derek,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you mentioned a lot of foods that she

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<v Speaker 1>made you try, but you never mentioned if you put

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<v Speaker 1>a sausage in your mouth, because that's one of my favorites.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever get some sausage sausage? Patty? Pat? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're different than the lengths, like a two maybe a

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<v Speaker 1>three thing. Have you ever thought like? I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that brunch is necessarily a personality type, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>being a person who only eats plain oatmeal may actually

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<v Speaker 1>being maybe she just found you kind of bland. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can see that. I'll drink a bloody Mary. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you did well. Let's let's just call Casey before it.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook gets so angry she walks out of student. It's

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<v Speaker 1>really upsetting here. We're gonna dial Casey's number now and

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna try and get your your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ready? Okay? Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello. Hi

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<v Speaker 1>is this Casey? Yeah? Who's calling? Hey Casey? My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jeffrey from the show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing? Who is this again? The name is Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Where I'm a I'm on a morning radio show? Okay, Hi, okay, Casey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're all here him barely on a morning radio show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if you couldn't tell those are my really mean co hosts.

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<v Speaker 1>We belittle me all day co host Casey there, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still here. Yeah, you see, you don't have to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with every day Casey. It's just ridiculous. So I'm calling you.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment on our show called a second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. Have you ever heard of that before? No? Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it works like this. If you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with someone, and afterwards, if that person isn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back, you can email our show and we'll reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to them for you to help you figure out

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why. Okay, interesting, yep. And recently you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with a guy named Derek. Yes, I did. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So Derek has emailed us because apparently you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>a nice time and you were texting after your date,

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<v Speaker 1>but you've ghosted him lately and he isn't really sure why. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's gonna work out him and

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<v Speaker 1>I was it. He talked to you guys. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>told us about your date and he mentioned a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of it centered around breakfast food, which we were stunned

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<v Speaker 1>as well. He told us that he didn't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he told you about that. Yeah, isn't that crazy? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's surprising. There's not a lot of people like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but there are people that genuinely don't enjoy breakfast food. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>like breaks which we talked about. Yeah, I mean, but

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is is it sounds like you turned it

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<v Speaker 1>into like a fun date thing where you could see

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<v Speaker 1>if you could change his mind. Yeah. I really couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>believe it. So I just thought for fun, we were

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<v Speaker 1>walking past my favorite brunch thought. So when I found

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<v Speaker 1>a few things off the menu that he could sample

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<v Speaker 1>and he just would rather have a plain oatmeal, he said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean I kind of thought that was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a big breakfast brunch person. My friends and I

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<v Speaker 1>do that almost every week. We love Sunday brunch. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's something you have to have in common with your partner, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you have your people already that will brunch with you, right.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, I would like him to be a

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<v Speaker 1>part of that. He's going to be a part of

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<v Speaker 1>my life. And you know, at first, I didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>it was that big of a deal. But when I

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<v Speaker 1>did speak to my friends about it afterwards, they were

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<v Speaker 1>very shocked, and they were kind of upset that I

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<v Speaker 1>was with a guy that didn't really like breakfast food. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I researched it and it just sounds a

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<v Speaker 1>little crazy. I'll admit this, but I found a relationship expert.

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<v Speaker 1>He's had a PhD. He writes. Okay, this is on

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<v Speaker 1>the internet, though, let's yeah. Brooks already putting up walls

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<v Speaker 1>before she even knows what the relationship expert says. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't trust him. Sounds like a hoax to me. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the one thing that he had mentioned was that. And again,

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<v Speaker 1>I know this sounds a little bit crazy. I know

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a major dietary restriction, but he mentioned if

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<v Speaker 1>someone does have a major dietary restriction, sometimes it just

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't work out in a relationship. In a relationship, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is different than like being having to be

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<v Speaker 1>gluten free or something, and you love bread. I don't know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually worse because he just doesn't like it. So,

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<v Speaker 1>like five years from now, I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>singing across from him and upset at him and wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to dump that bowl of oatmeal on its head. Yeah. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you liked everything about him except for his taste in food.

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought it was weird. Maybe it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>a red flag. I don't know, and then later on

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<v Speaker 1>I might find out some more weird things. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a gateway to weirdness away. I mean, Casey, do

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<v Speaker 1>you think would it be considered weird if say Derek

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<v Speaker 1>was on the other line listening this whole time and

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk to you, would that be weird? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's gonna be weird. Yeah is he Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's there. Time to say hi? Yeah, it's time to

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<v Speaker 1>say hi. Just because we have different food taste, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's no grounds for not seeing someone. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think having different food tastes to make a relationship better,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to have a diverse sort of taste profile

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<v Speaker 1>than the other person. Otherwise that he's really boring. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm sitting here drinking mimosas and having all

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<v Speaker 1>this fun food and my friend enjoying myself and you're

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<v Speaker 1>just sitting there eating your plane oatmeal. That look. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you're talking about like a relationship expert online, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure I can go and dig up some relationship expert

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<v Speaker 1>that will say the exact opposite. That's true. Online you

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<v Speaker 1>can find any argument link. I swear I can find

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<v Speaker 1>a link. That's his potation. And here's the thing, just

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<v Speaker 1>because you think his oatmeal sucks all right, like he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>He's actually enjoying himself still when he's out to breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Yeah. Yeah, what if I said I won't

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<v Speaker 1>date you because you don't like oatmeal. It's the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, oatmeal is just one food, but there's so

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<v Speaker 1>many options you just don't like any of it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you can look at this as an opportunity to

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<v Speaker 1>change him. No, yeah, that's a good challenge. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>good women level challenge like that. You know you can.

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<v Speaker 1>You can slip some breakfast food secretly into his meals

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<v Speaker 1>so he doesn't know until he eventually starts to like him.

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<v Speaker 1>Get out of here, and we're not changing people. We

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<v Speaker 1>could try it. What about a BLT. I mean that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of on the verge of yeah, what are you saying?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, Derek? Are you up for that?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm up for a lucitive change. I'm not up for

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<v Speaker 1>being changed by a woman. Yeah that's okay, in case

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to do it secretly so that he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't notice. I don't even know if I want to

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<v Speaker 1>see him again. Oh my gosh, give him one more chance,

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<v Speaker 1>go to dinner with him. Maybe you guys who like dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>are you serious? This is gonna be really hard. One

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't like dinner, one doesn't like breakfast. Mabe. We'll send

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<v Speaker 1>you guys out on a day and you guys can

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<v Speaker 1>have lunch together. Okay, a snack. Okay, what if you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll pay for a snack for you too, to share.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys can both nibble on the ends of a

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<v Speaker 1>Quaker oats bar so you can meet in the middle.

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<v Speaker 1>That's for me. I mean, I know, case for your

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<v Speaker 1>birthday is coming up and you wanted to do something.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you got there. That was really sweet. That

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<v Speaker 1>was really nice, Casey. I'm not a monster, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a monster. You are. What do you say, Casey,

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<v Speaker 1>give another chance. We'll give it another shot. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I am. I didn't see turning this way. I'm very Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy. I don't know. I feel like you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are just saying this to get us off the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're never going to talk to each other again.

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<v Speaker 1>That might be a possibility. Brooke and Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning