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Speaker 1: the one thing that he had mentioned was that. And again,

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Speaker 1: it's actually worse because he just doesn't like it. So,

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Speaker 1: to dump that bowl of oatmeal on its head. Yeah. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I just thought it was weird. Maybe it's just like

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Speaker 1: I might find out some more weird things. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a gateway to weirdness away. I mean, Casey, do

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Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be weird. Yeah is he Yeah,

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Speaker 1: say hi. Just because we have different food taste, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think having different food tastes to make a relationship better,

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Speaker 1: if you're talking about like a relationship expert online, I'm

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Speaker 1: sure I can go and dig up some relationship expert

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Speaker 1: that will say the exact opposite. That's true. Online you

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Speaker 1: a link. That's his potation. And here's the thing, just

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Speaker 1: because you think his oatmeal sucks all right, like he doesn't.

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Speaker 1: He's actually enjoying himself still when he's out to breakfast

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Speaker 1: with you. Yeah. Yeah, what if I said I won't

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Speaker 1: I mean, oatmeal is just one food, but there's so

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Speaker 1: change him. No, yeah, that's a good challenge. It's a

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Speaker 1: good women level challenge like that. You know you can.

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Speaker 1: You can slip some breakfast food secretly into his meals

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Speaker 1: Get out of here, and we're not changing people. We

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Speaker 1: could try it. What about a BLT. I mean that's

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Speaker 1: kind of on the verge of yeah, what are you saying?

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Speaker 1: What do you think, Derek? Are you up for that?

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Speaker 1: I'm up for a lucitive change. I'm not up for

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Speaker 1: being changed by a woman. Yeah that's okay, in case

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Speaker 1: go to dinner with him. Maybe you guys who like dinner,

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Speaker 1: doesn't like dinner, one doesn't like breakfast. Mabe. We'll send

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for a snack for you too, to share.

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Speaker 1: You guys can both nibble on the ends of a

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Speaker 1: That's for me. I mean, I know, case for your

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Speaker 1: I mean, you got there. That was really sweet. That

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Speaker 1: was really nice, Casey. I'm not a monster, he said,

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Speaker 1: I'm not a monster. You are. What do you say, Casey,

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Speaker 1: give another chance. We'll give it another shot. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: I am. I didn't see turning this way. I'm very Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm happy. I don't know. I feel like you guys

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Speaker 1: and then you're never going to talk to each other again.

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Speaker 1: That might be a possibility. Brooke and Jeffrey in the

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Speaker 1: morning