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Speaker 2: I feel like we hear this a lot from our

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Speaker 2: match with forty women, send out forty messages and never

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Speaker 1: Any of that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, how many times can you write suck girl

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Speaker 4: That is so disappointing, Jeff, It's a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of letters to type.

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Speaker 5: Or do what I do.

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Speaker 1: It's a bunch of games to be super Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Obviously it's easy to blame Brook for this because we

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Speaker 2: all know if she was still single and on the

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Speaker 2: dating app, she'd be messaging back every dude who even

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Speaker 2: glanced at her profile.

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Speaker 4: I've been a problem, honest to God.

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Speaker 3: Would not have had time for a full time job

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Speaker 3: if the dating apps had been around when I was single.

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Speaker 2: Because she is a charity dater and a generous one,

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Speaker 2: that is correct. Apparently there's another option out there for

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Speaker 2: single men to conce that's even better than the apps,

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Speaker 2: and that's where our listener Caleb is at right now.

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Speaker 1: So Caleb, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hey, thank you guys.

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Speaker 4: Wait, like is as in it's a physical place?

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Speaker 1: Not really sure?

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Speaker 2: He just said he found another option and alternative to

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Speaker 2: the dating apps that he likes even better. So, Caleb,

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Speaker 2: I really am interested to find out what you're doing

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, a little bit of backstory is I started

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Speaker 5: off on dating apps, and yeah, it is a real

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Speaker 5: challenge for guys. I heard like one percent of guys

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Speaker 5: match with anybody.

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Speaker 4: What only one percent of men get matches?

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Speaker 1: Wow, it's higher than I would have thought. So that's still.

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Speaker 4: That's pretty wild.

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Speaker 5: Whether or not it is true, I have to cly

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Speaker 5: that's my experience. So I realized, Okay, I just got

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Speaker 5: couple of weeks ago, I found this TV on craig list.

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Speaker 5: Looked like it was in a really good shape.

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Speaker 4: Okay, and I bought it, and you bought a TV.

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Speaker 5: Yep, you needed to. He cleaned up, took it home.

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Speaker 5: Turned out it was an Arby's digital Menuh.

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Speaker 1: I've seen this happen.

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Speaker 4: Wait what, I don't get it.

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Speaker 6: So you know when they print like the when you

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Speaker 6: go into an Arby's and the menu is on a

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Speaker 6: flat screen. After like six years, they just sell them

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Speaker 6: and they get rid of them because they're old.

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Speaker 4: They're not actually TV screens.

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Speaker 3: They're like they can only show the Arby's menus.

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Speaker 1: It's oh, they look like an RB's menu.

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Speaker 3: It's so no matter what you're watching, you can still

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Speaker 4: The over the top of it.

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Speaker 2: Can you still smell the RBS that seeped into the

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Speaker 1: Guy, I just want to number two so bad right now?

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Speaker 4: Armies need screensavers.

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Speaker 6: No, but most restaurants, like like Jbox, that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: You just sell them.

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Speaker 4: So you actually now you're watching Arby's.

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Speaker 5: The heck I am. I tried to contacting the guy

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Speaker 5: again because I wanted to get my money back. He

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Speaker 5: completely blocked me. Of course. Yeah, so I was so

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Speaker 5: pissed I decided to take this thing. I didn't even

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Speaker 5: to the dump what belonged? Okay, while it was there,

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Speaker 5: it turns out there's this lovely young woman right there

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Speaker 4: Your big hack is to meet women at the dock.

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Speaker 5: Look at you can't argue with the results.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, it's a good dating hack.

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Speaker 2: I guess meeting women. I'm assuming she's just visiting the dump,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a order.

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Speaker 5: No, no, she was quite lovely good Okay.

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Speaker 4: Okay, how do you strike up a conversation with her?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: Man, nice garbage?

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Speaker 5: Actually, she asked me, why are you throwing away his

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Speaker 4: When my mom goes to the dump, she often brings

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Speaker 4: stuff home, a free for all. Anything you want that.

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Speaker 6: People love it, People like literally go her.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you like gave her your old TV.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, I wasn't gonna let anybody have that. Once

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Speaker 5: she asked about it, that was my opening to tell

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Speaker 5: her the story. Yes, she thought was just completely hilarious.

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Speaker 4: Did you love a woman who will laugh at your pain?

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Speaker 5: Right? Then? She also needed some help, so then I

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Speaker 4: Wait, is the dumb the only date because then you

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Speaker 5: Yeah? No, not at all. No, No, I got her

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Speaker 5: Well, if we went to Rvy's, I'm gonna known exactly

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Speaker 5: what I wanted.

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Speaker 1: Where'd you go?

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Speaker 5: We went out, just pour a couple of drinks and

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, she is so cool. She Yeah, she's

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you mean that you can go out

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Speaker 6: Sounds like you have a roofle of dolls and you're like.

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Speaker 4: So you had a great time.

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Speaker 5: Oh we did. Oh my goodness, she cleaned up so nice.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I will say, if you're attracted to a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like it's the first woman that he's

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Speaker 3: So it does sound like the hermit that it's a pretty.

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Speaker 5: Low bar you can say, Oh you want. All I'm

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Speaker 5: rid of something, and I managed to get a cute

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Speaker 5: woman's phone number. So okay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you thought that there would be another hangout

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Speaker 5: I really thought. Also, I mean, it's not like the

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, yeah, we want to step in and help

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Speaker 1: We'll come back.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna call this garbage gal and see if we

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Speaker 2: can get her to agree Landscale Queen, whatever it is, well,

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Speaker 1: Right after this thank you second date update.

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Speaker 2: You know, Caleb was just on with us telling us

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Speaker 2: how hard of a time he's been having matching online

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Speaker 2: go well today, I do have an alternative option for him.

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Speaker 2: Oh you do, because I saw a news article where

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Speaker 2: South Korea is offering foreign men thirty six thousand dollars

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Speaker 4: You'll get the money after the marriage or.

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Speaker 2: The money plus they'll give you all the used rb

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Speaker 4: I actually believe that. Oh my god, that sounds so good.

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Speaker 2: But before Caleb considers moving continents, he did meet a

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Speaker 2: woman here in real life, and Brookie, you're probably the

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Speaker 2: best person to say how it happened, since your parents

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Speaker 2: conceived you at the dump, so tell his story.

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Speaker 4: Did we call that the Dufort mall where I'm from. No,

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Speaker 4: they met at the dump. That's kind of the end

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Speaker 4: of the story there. I don't know what did you

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Speaker 4: want me to add to it?

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Speaker 1: You romanticized it so well, Brooke, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean she was hauling stuff, he was

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Speaker 3: hauling stuff. They're both throwing things into the big pile.

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Speaker 2: The bottom line is he was able to turn that

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Speaker 2: meet up into a first date officially, but after that

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Speaker 2: she's been kind of avoidant.

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Speaker 1: And Caleb, did we miss anything?

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Speaker 2: There was that romantic enough for you?

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Speaker 5: I felt like it was a little more romantic, but

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Speaker 5: yeah you okay, did.

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Speaker 3: You reach over and take the smudge dirt off of

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Speaker 2: Because yeah, wait a second, that's not dirty.

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Speaker 1: No, this is getting more romantic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, here, guys, let's just call Rebecca for you keep going, yeah,

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Speaker 2: because we could go all day with this.

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to dial your number right now, Thank

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Speaker 1: you very much. Okay, shut up and let me talk.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Rebecca?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, hi?

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Speaker 2: Uh, my name is jeff from a radio show called

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: I got it done there.

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Speaker 8: Oh, I don't know, but that sounds okay. I guess wow.

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Speaker 6: That's exactly the best description of the Okay, who is here?

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Speaker 1: Good morning, we've all been wanting to talk to you.

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Speaker 8: Well, I don't like to be on public.

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Speaker 1: Radio, but you know this isn't public radio. Brook listens

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Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely commercial radio.

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Speaker 2: We're doing a segment here, Rebecca. It's called a second

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Speaker 2: Date Update, and we're trying to help out one of

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Speaker 2: our listeners reconnect with you after you've gone out once before.

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Speaker 1: His name is Caleb.

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Speaker 8: Uh Caleb.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Yes, I'm dying to hear your like meet cute story.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're pretty sure we know the story, Brooke, because I.

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Speaker 3: Know we know the story, but I want to hear

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Speaker 3: Like that's so unexpected.

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Speaker 8: I actually really like him. He seems so interesting and.

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Speaker 3: Okay when you're at the Dumper, when you guys were

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Speaker 3: at drinks, he was so interesting, like.

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Speaker 7: Both places at the dump, I mean, he seems interesting.

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Speaker 7: And then I was like, I don't really go out

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Speaker 1: But well that's refreshing, thank god.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I bet there's a lot of them though, but.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's just back things up for you, Rebecca, because

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Speaker 2: here's what we know from Caleb. He told us the

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Speaker 2: story and said, you two met at the dump, you

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Speaker 2: had a connection there, talked about us, TVs and whatnot,

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Speaker 2: and then he ended up asking you out and you

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Speaker 2: went out for drinks and had a nice time together.

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Speaker 1: That we did okay.

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Speaker 3: He said he was so impressed with how cool we were. Like,

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Speaker 3: I thought that was a really nice compliment.

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Speaker 8: That is really nice, and like I was like that

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Speaker 8: at first too.

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Speaker 2: I totally was okay, So clearly something has changed, at

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Speaker 2: least on your end since your meetup. Could you maybe

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Speaker 2: help us understand what that would be so we could

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Speaker 2: pass the information to him because he's totally confused.

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Speaker 8: So after my date with Caleb the next day, and

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Speaker 8: I see Caleb?

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Speaker 2: Okay, his profile came up.

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Speaker 4: What it's weird? I feel like you just matched.

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Speaker 2: And then you're like, hey, yeah, if anything, it could

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Speaker 1: That he popped up for you.

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Speaker 4: Even the algorithm wants you to be together.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: I thought it was so great because then I would

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Speaker 8: and the more I read about him, it's just like

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Speaker 6: He just doesn't boring answers, you.

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Speaker 8: Know, the branded answers like I go to the gym.

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Speaker 4: I think, But why would that matter?

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Speaker 2: I said, You've already gone out with him, you know

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Speaker 3: So and it also explains why he was having such

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Speaker 4: He is a terrible profile.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't watch anyone that does serious answers me.

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Speaker 5: My profile is not horrible.

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Speaker 2: Oh osy, Okay, Well Caleb was supposed to wait, but

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Speaker 2: I guess I need to tell you, Rebecca that that's

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Speaker 1: He's been listening to this conversation.

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Speaker 4: What a not boring thing to do?

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Speaker 1: He's assertive.

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Speaker 8: Wow, you know sorry, I'm just I don't understand.

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Speaker 5: How are you worried about my profile when we went

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Speaker 8: Your boring profile. It just stuck with me.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, what was the most boring part of it?

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Speaker 1: Like we probably shouldn't recap it.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think we want to bring back up.

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Speaker 8: So branded it was like the same thing, like that

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's like a generic thing that

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Speaker 1: I'm just hot.

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, I'm still here. Everyone's talking about my crappy profile.

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Speaker 3: I I don't think you should take offense to it,

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Speaker 3: Like my husband has like this one really cute guy

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Speaker 4: He's awesome, and maybe that's you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean I've heard of people like not wanting to

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Speaker 2: but not after it. You should know him by this point, Rebecca,

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Speaker 2: Like you've hung out with him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Were you bored when you hung out?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's funny, that's funny.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, see the disconnect, right, you know.

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Speaker 8: It's just the last thing that stuck with me. It

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Speaker 2: It's burned in like the RB's menu on that TV screen.

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Speaker 1: Just can't get rid of it.

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Speaker 6: You're perfect for each other if you.

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Speaker 1: Don't even know it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean we need to step back where I

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Speaker 2: think we're jumping in too much. Let's re establish the

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Speaker 2: connection that you two had with each other. Caleb, talk

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Speaker 5: Rebecca, this is so backwards for the way this kind

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Speaker 5: of thing always happened. We met in person, we were together,

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Speaker 5: was see my profile and decide you don't want to

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Speaker 5: see me. Come on, sweetie, Come on Rebecca.

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Speaker 2: Oh God, did you say sweetye a lot inside of

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Speaker 2: your profile.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for my sweetie side because of them.

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Speaker 2: All Right, we're running out of time here, so at

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Speaker 2: this point I just have to offer Rebecca, we'll send

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Speaker 2: you out one more time with Caleb and we'll pay

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Speaker 4: God, I'm having such a hard time.

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Speaker 2: Just don't look at his profile before you answer. Just

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Speaker 8: I can't get over it. I just can't.

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Speaker 5: Are you serious?

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Speaker 4: That is so funny?

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Speaker 5: The dating app? Screw me. I didn't even meet you

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Speaker 4: Think you need to go delete that profile.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to live at the dump from now,

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Speaker 2: But don't forget South Korea. Wants you six thousand dollars

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Speaker 3: Time us in your pictures of Arby's in South Korea,

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Speaker 3: because I want to see what.

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Speaker 4: They have on the menu.

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Speaker 5: You know, I know you guys are joking, but I

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Speaker 5: am seriously considering it.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: How many people do you think heard this and went

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Speaker 2: right onto their dating profiles and started making alterations to

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Speaker 4: Caused it took it off.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you make it sound sexier.

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Speaker 2: I don't work out. I'm a professional calorie and sin raider.

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Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, that would be more attractive.

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Speaker 1: I already said that on my bio. It's called foodies.

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Speaker 6: I say big foodie.

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Speaker 2: I mean, who would have thought to me, cute at

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Speaker 2: a city dump would not work out?

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Speaker 4: I actually did. I actually thought that this was going

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Speaker 1: Really yeah, dump and now I want to go fun.

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Speaker 4: But the smell is overwhelmed.

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Speaker 3: Why Yeah, you're never going to know what that person

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Speaker 3: smells like until you get.

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Speaker 4: It out of that.

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Speaker 2: That could work to your benefit, though, Maybe do like

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Speaker 2: a little speed dating event at a city dump.

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Speaker 1: Alexis organized walk.

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Speaker 4: I'll just stay in the trunk of my car.

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Speaker 1: But I get it.

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Speaker 2: The dating world can feel like you're in a dump,

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Speaker 2: So if you want some help getting pulled out of it,

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Speaker 2: email the show. We'll call the person who's not calling

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Speaker 7: Jeffery Brooking, Jeffrey in the Morning,