WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Stress Test

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<v Speaker 1>Second. It can be pretty frustrating when a first date

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't go the way that you planned. Yeah. Yeah, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like when you go to the movie theater you find

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<v Speaker 1>the tickets are all sold out. You go to the concert,

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<v Speaker 1>the band forgot their guitar. I don't think that you

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<v Speaker 1>go skydiving. They're out of parachutes, but they do have

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<v Speaker 1>a big bundle of those helium party balloons, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you give it a go. Yeah, but it's just not

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<v Speaker 1>working out the way that you hope. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be calling us after that skydiving. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what happened to one of our listeners justin not skydiving,

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<v Speaker 1>but just his date didn't go the way he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>it too, so justin welcome to the show Man. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for having me out there. But you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>say she jumped first. Yeah. Well we'll get to what

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<v Speaker 1>you did on your date in just a second, but

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<v Speaker 1>first tell us about the person that you were meeting

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<v Speaker 1>up with. Um, who, what, where, when and why? That's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, Well just who, I guess he'll altering right

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<v Speaker 1>now everything. Well, her name was Robin. She's beautiful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he has these really really sexy green eyes. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>like wow, oh yeah, that's awesome. Brook Brook has some

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<v Speaker 1>sexy green eyes over there, like little lima beans. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>what like a like a mountain dew? I see them glasses?

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<v Speaker 1>How almost compliments an insult? I get you, I get you.

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<v Speaker 1>Us green eyed girls where you know, we stick together.

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<v Speaker 1>We're rare breeds are yeah, like real green eyes, not

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<v Speaker 1>contacts or anything like what you going on? Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>wait where did you meet her? Where did you meet Robin?

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<v Speaker 1>We matched on a dating app and we decided to

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<v Speaker 1>do like a dinner date. Awesome. Okay. Was were you

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<v Speaker 1>feeling a lot of pressure going into this because it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like there's a lot of build up. Um a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, but like I try not to get too

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<v Speaker 1>nervous because I feel like on dates we all just

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<v Speaker 1>get nervous and we're trying to impress the other person,

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<v Speaker 1>but the other person is probably feeling the same. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just tried to mellow out, equal to go there,

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time, make sure everybody's comfortable. That is

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<v Speaker 1>a good it's good life lesson right there. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 1>always say be yourself. Yeah, I feel like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of times if people try too hard that yeah, ruins that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So you go to the restaurant for the date. How

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<v Speaker 1>does it go? I ended up getting there a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of minutes early, like, because I really liked this girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm always like five ten minutes late, so I

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<v Speaker 1>made sure I was there fifteen minutes early. Bro, don't

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<v Speaker 1>set that precedent. You're going to be late the restaurm

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<v Speaker 1>but get this. So I'm there about fifteen minutes early,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I get a text that she's running late.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, oh, in there, of course that's

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<v Speaker 1>how it always wear Like yeah, but you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I completely understand. So I was like, not a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>I just ordered a drink while I was waiting. I

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<v Speaker 1>finished my drink and by that time she texts me

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<v Speaker 1>again that she's still on the way. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>That here was a while, like I'll tell you, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw another couple come in after I had been there,

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<v Speaker 1>sit down, finish their meal, and leave. I think it

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<v Speaker 1>had been like at least an hour before she got there.

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<v Speaker 1>But she she did show up right, and she stayed

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<v Speaker 1>in contact. She did. She stayed in contact. She showed up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, people have rough days. I understand, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>that can be hard though, after you've been waiting like

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<v Speaker 1>cold for like an hour for them. But you I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, the restaurant staff is like oh yea,

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<v Speaker 1>and all the other couples around are looking over like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting stood up as a server. You know, this

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<v Speaker 1>guy wants to make money off this table. But you

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<v Speaker 1>can't go up and go, hey, when are you gonna

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<v Speaker 1>just call it quits and let me get another table? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't do that. So how did it go when

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<v Speaker 1>she finally did show up to the restaurant. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>was happy just to like, you know, have somebody there

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<v Speaker 1>to be with me, because I was tired to be

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<v Speaker 1>so sad to her. I'm sure I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>like make herself conscious. She's I don't know what kind

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<v Speaker 1>of day she was having. She's finally here. Let's just

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time. That's hard though, Like was she

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<v Speaker 1>super frazzled. She seemed a bit flustered. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if it was because she was late. I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to like keep digging at it or dig into it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you just want to move forward, move on. And were

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<v Speaker 1>you able to Well? I tried, but the vibe was

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<v Speaker 1>just different from before, like, I could tell this is

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<v Speaker 1>not going well, and so I was like, hey, why

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<v Speaker 1>don't I get you like a really nice cot fail.

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<v Speaker 1>When they brought it out, she gulped it down like

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<v Speaker 1>a shot was really stressed out. Yeah, that's not a

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<v Speaker 1>good look to some people. Brook speak for yourself, turn on.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you feel about it? I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>really like her. I feel like she's like the perfect

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<v Speaker 1>physical match for me. And on the text she was

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<v Speaker 1>so nice, funny and playful when charming, she just seemed

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<v Speaker 1>really distracted, like she got food, she didn't even finish

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<v Speaker 1>her food. So I don't know what was going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I just could tell, like, oh boy, this is not

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<v Speaker 1>how I wanted it to go. Okay, So how did

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<v Speaker 1>you end this date with her? So I asked if

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to just go for a walk, because I

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<v Speaker 1>loved walking when I'm stressed out and just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>air and everything. That's kind that's notful. He said that

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<v Speaker 1>she just kind of felt like she has to be

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<v Speaker 1>compressed today and wanted to go home, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a problem. Did she give any indication that

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to see you again or like retry, because

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<v Speaker 1>if it was me, I would feel really apologetic, right, like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I ruined this day. I was super late.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been totally distracted. Can you just give me a redo?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she didn't even say sorry when she came

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<v Speaker 1>in out. Man, I mean, it definitely doesn't sound like

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<v Speaker 1>you did anything wrong. It sounds like there was something

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<v Speaker 1>going on with her. But let's call her and find

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<v Speaker 1>out and we'll try and get your second day up date.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, that'd be great. All right, hold on, let's

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<v Speaker 1>take this from the woman's perspective. Okay, Like she shows

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<v Speaker 1>up an hour late, she's in a sour mood, she's

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<v Speaker 1>gulping down cocktails, barely eating, hardly even talking to the

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<v Speaker 1>sweet man sitting across the table from her. And after

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<v Speaker 1>all of that, the guy still wants to see her again.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how powerful it is to have a pair of

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<v Speaker 1>sexy green eyes. Brooke wishes that she had a real

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<v Speaker 1>pair and they weren't hiding behind those giant foreign lenses

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<v Speaker 1>that you got. Okay, listen, my eyes don't work well,

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<v Speaker 1>but they are green. Yeah, I mean according to photoshop

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<v Speaker 1>they are. But look, that's why one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>justin wants to call Robin after he waited an hour

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant for her to show up, and the

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<v Speaker 1>date never really even got off the ground once she did.

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<v Speaker 1>But those darned gorgeous asparagus green eyes, they just had

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<v Speaker 1>him wanting one more chance. Yeah, like a sexy diesel

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<v Speaker 1>gas pump. Right, you should say, like an emerald. That's class,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what everybody does. What what do you think, like

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<v Speaker 1>justin how would you describe those green eyes? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like magical, little kiwi brown on the outside. Yeah, they're exotic. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>justin the thing for me with this girl, she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>apologize after she was so late. That doesn't rub you wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>it does, But you know, just taking all the history

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<v Speaker 1>in the consideration, I thought like, maybe she's just something

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<v Speaker 1>personal happened, Like, Okay, I wouldn't mind giving it one

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<v Speaker 1>more shot. Okay, that's nice the way you've been describing her.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of times, really hot girls aren't apologetic. They're

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<v Speaker 1>used to people waiting on them. Are you worried maybe

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<v Speaker 1>this girl has like a ton of options and doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>really care about you that much. Trying to project onto

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<v Speaker 1>him on a positive note, try one more time? So

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<v Speaker 1>I just need not have experience. Let's let Jose sit

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<v Speaker 1>in the corner and yeah, we have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>theories justin but we're really hoping for the best year.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial Robin's phone number right now. We'll see

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on. You ready, Yeah, all right, just picture

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<v Speaker 1>those beautiful KeyWe eyes. Here we go. All right, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do this. Hello. Hi, is this Robin? Yeah? Hey, my

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<v Speaker 1>name is Jeff work on a morning radio show called

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, okay, And this

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<v Speaker 1>is Jose. Yeah, and that is yeah, thanks Jeff. This

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<v Speaker 1>is weirdness. This is Brooke. It sounds like you're busy, Robbin,

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<v Speaker 1>and it is him. That is Alexus. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>she was asking for a roundtable introductions salted and you

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<v Speaker 1>are now part of this thing called Brooke Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Welcome. Okay, what's going on? Did I win

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<v Speaker 1>something or what's up? Possibly? Yeah, Well, we're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>segment called a second date Update. Okay. The way that

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<v Speaker 1>it works is one of our listeners reaches out to

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<v Speaker 1>us and we call the person who they went on

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with and has been ghosting them, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're trying to help him figure out the reason why.

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<v Speaker 1>So the guy you went out with recently, his name's Justin.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Justin. Yeah, yeah, you can just tell him I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not interested anymore. You're not interested. Okay, you're not interested

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<v Speaker 1>in Justin. He sounded like a really nice guy. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've got my reasons. Okay. Well look that's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're allowed to choose who you want to date

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<v Speaker 1>and who you don't. But for Justin's sanity, he's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out, like what went wrong because he told

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<v Speaker 1>us it took you a while to show up to

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant even I mean, yeah I did, and I

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<v Speaker 1>do feel sad about that, Like that seems like it's

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<v Speaker 1>more on you and it's less of what Justin did

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<v Speaker 1>or are we Are we wrong about that? No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>totally what he did. Oh. So, like I had some

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<v Speaker 1>stuff to get done and so I was like running late.

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<v Speaker 1>But also like sometimes I do this with guys I

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<v Speaker 1>meet online, just kind of to see how they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to react. Wait, wait, wait, the one hour late thing

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<v Speaker 1>was a test? Is that what you're saying? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I didn't like planet ahead of time, but once

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<v Speaker 1>I started being late, I was like, Okay, well, how

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<v Speaker 1>is he going to react to this? You know, and

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<v Speaker 1>dude like sat there for an hour and waited for me,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what is that a gentleman called patience and kindness

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<v Speaker 1>and forgiveness. No, I mean you were texting him the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. You kept telling him you were going to

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<v Speaker 1>be there. You were leading them on. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>he sat there for an hour and hadn't heard of

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<v Speaker 1>from you. I only texted him twice and kept saying

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm heading there, and all he had to do

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<v Speaker 1>he kept many options here, right, he could have rescheduled,

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<v Speaker 1>he could have left, I mean something that Toody had

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<v Speaker 1>a backbone. Right, So you're are you seriously saying that

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<v Speaker 1>you're mad at Justin because he waited an hour for

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<v Speaker 1>you to show up. No, I'm not mad at him.

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<v Speaker 1>I just he's not the guy for me. I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody who's confident, who's going to stand up for himself,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't even say I'm sorry when I got there,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's too nice. Yeah, it's just kind of pathetic.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just like a little puppy dog waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>like his master to show up. I mean, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>like an actual puppy, not a man who's a puppy.

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<v Speaker 1>I okay, I understand that you want somebody who's confident.

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<v Speaker 1>But to me, it's not that he wasn't confident, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just that he was forgiving. Those are two separate things,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think, like god, the world needs more of

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<v Speaker 1>that type of attitude right now more than anything. I mean, no,

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<v Speaker 1>spare me. I think the world needs more men who

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<v Speaker 1>like have a backbone and our little waiting for somebody

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<v Speaker 1>to show up. Oh well, Alice, I think it takes

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of backbone, Robin, to be on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening to this conversation the whole time and not

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<v Speaker 1>freak out. Yeah, that's the patient That takes strength and

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<v Speaker 1>courage because Justin's actually been there the whole time wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Is that right, Justin? Yeah? This

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<v Speaker 1>true with my point. Okay, this is my point. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>mister confidence, let's go show her. Robin. The reason I

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<v Speaker 1>was waiting for you for so long was because you

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<v Speaker 1>were late. You confirmed, and you said you were coming.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be rude. Yeah. If you want

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who's mean to you, who's route to you, good,

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<v Speaker 1>look I just hope you guys don't have any kids,

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<v Speaker 1>because all they're going to create is more havoc and

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<v Speaker 1>monsters in the world's mind. I think now you're just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like lashing out. So no, it's kind of out.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that that's what you wanted him to do. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted him to be confident and to like stand

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<v Speaker 1>up for himself, but like not just saying stuff to

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<v Speaker 1>piss me off or to look strong. Like. No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to be confident without being told to be confident.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like a happy balance. Yeah, it really is. It's

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<v Speaker 1>weird and hard explain, but there is some kind of

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<v Speaker 1>about it mean but not mean nice. Is there any

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<v Speaker 1>way Justin can win right now, Robin? No, I mean no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's done. I mean I hope, I hope that just

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<v Speaker 1>like teaches him a lesson though, because girls really do

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<v Speaker 1>want a little more confidence. But that's the thing. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to go out with the girl. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to find a woman who's matured your confidence right there. Honestly, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>I I never got not confident from Justin this whole

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<v Speaker 1>time we were talking about him. I did, really, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you should hear the way that he talks about your

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<v Speaker 1>green eyes. Honestly, I've looked at Robin's green eyes in

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<v Speaker 1>the flesh, and you know, now I'm starting to think

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<v Speaker 1>maybe they are contact. Oh green eye girl, did you

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<v Speaker 1>hear that? That was a sick fern on you? Robin Old?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you wow? I mean, do we ask at this point?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there's definitely some sort of fiery passion and going.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to ask by saying you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>send him on a date? Then she'll say yes, do it? So, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the time where I'm supposed to ask if

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<v Speaker 1>you would like to go out on another date, but

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<v Speaker 1>we don't want you to go on it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think he even wants to show up to it. He

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<v Speaker 1>wants to leave you hanging there. That's the type of guy,

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<v Speaker 1>confident person that yet. And if you're willing to show

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<v Speaker 1>up to that, then we'll pay for thanks for the

0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:28.160
<v Speaker 1>reverse psychology. I'm still good. I will find my own date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's hard, all this testosterone in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really strong, actually, Jeffrey Jose and I'm screwed up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, Robin, he should be the one that

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<v Speaker 1>asks you yea, as the strong independent man that he is.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead, go ahead, justin. Hey, Robin, I'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>officially ask you out on a date to a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>that's not even open. It's been closed by the health department.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, you want some food poisoning Robin. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the hell is something here. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like back in elementary school, like what's going on? Because

0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:12.040
<v Speaker 1>you're failing again. Yeah, you're creating a monster here. This

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<v Speaker 1>is getting very unsexy. I finally agree with thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you you can say what you want, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's another sick burn. Anytime you want, Roster, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying I'll take you up on that comedy. I just

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<v Speaker 1>need a clown like Robin, you know, and fire me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why am I still on this phone call? I hang up?

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<v Speaker 1>You done not right? I feel like you would have

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<v Speaker 1>left if you really wanted to leave, But you want

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<v Speaker 1>to stick around. I mean the grave. It's funny. Well

0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:52.600
<v Speaker 1>he stuck around for you, and you're doing the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know anybody agree. I guess that wasn't really

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<v Speaker 1>great comparison. So I just burned myself in Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning,