Speaker 1: Second. It can be pretty frustrating when a first date
Speaker 1: doesn't go the way that you planned. Yeah. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: like when you go to the movie theater you find
Speaker 1: the tickets are all sold out. You go to the concert,
Speaker 1: the band forgot their guitar. I don't think that you
Speaker 1: go skydiving. They're out of parachutes, but they do have
Speaker 1: a big bundle of those helium party balloons, so you know,
Speaker 1: you give it a go. Yeah, but it's just not
Speaker 1: working out the way that you hope. I don't think
Speaker 1: you're going to be calling us after that skydiving. That's
Speaker 1: what happened to one of our listeners justin not skydiving,
Speaker 1: but just his date didn't go the way he wanted
Speaker 1: it too, so justin welcome to the show Man. Hey,
Speaker 1: thank you for having me out there. But you didn't
Speaker 1: say she jumped first. Yeah. Well we'll get to what
Speaker 1: you did on your date in just a second, but
Speaker 1: first tell us about the person that you were meeting
Speaker 1: up with. Um, who, what, where, when and why? That's
Speaker 1: a lot, Well just who, I guess he'll altering right
Speaker 1: now everything. Well, her name was Robin. She's beautiful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he has these really really sexy green eyes. I mean
Speaker 1: like wow, oh yeah, that's awesome. Brook Brook has some
Speaker 1: sexy green eyes over there, like little lima beans. Oh
Speaker 1: what like a like a mountain dew? I see them glasses?
Speaker 1: How almost compliments an insult? I get you, I get you.
Speaker 1: Us green eyed girls where you know, we stick together.
Speaker 1: We're rare breeds are yeah, like real green eyes, not
Speaker 1: contacts or anything like what you going on? Okay, so
Speaker 1: wait where did you meet her? Where did you meet Robin?
Speaker 1: We matched on a dating app and we decided to
Speaker 1: do like a dinner date. Awesome. Okay. Was were you
Speaker 1: feeling a lot of pressure going into this because it
Speaker 1: sounds like there's a lot of build up. Um a
Speaker 1: little bit, but like I try not to get too
Speaker 1: nervous because I feel like on dates we all just
Speaker 1: get nervous and we're trying to impress the other person,
Speaker 1: but the other person is probably feeling the same. So
Speaker 1: I just tried to mellow out, equal to go there,
Speaker 1: have a good time, make sure everybody's comfortable. That is
Speaker 1: a good it's good life lesson right there. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: always say be yourself. Yeah, I feel like a lot
Speaker 1: of times if people try too hard that yeah, ruins that, right,
Speaker 1: So you go to the restaurant for the date. How
Speaker 1: does it go? I ended up getting there a couple
Speaker 1: of minutes early, like, because I really liked this girl,
Speaker 1: and I'm always like five ten minutes late, so I
Speaker 1: made sure I was there fifteen minutes early. Bro, don't
Speaker 1: set that precedent. You're going to be late the restaurm
Speaker 1: but get this. So I'm there about fifteen minutes early,
Speaker 1: and then I get a text that she's running late.
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, in there, of course that's
Speaker 1: how it always wear Like yeah, but you know, like
Speaker 1: I completely understand. So I was like, not a problem.
Speaker 1: I just ordered a drink while I was waiting. I
Speaker 1: finished my drink and by that time she texts me
Speaker 1: again that she's still on the way. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: That here was a while, like I'll tell you, Like,
Speaker 1: I saw another couple come in after I had been there,
Speaker 1: sit down, finish their meal, and leave. I think it
Speaker 1: had been like at least an hour before she got there.
Speaker 1: But she she did show up right, and she stayed
Speaker 1: in contact. She did. She stayed in contact. She showed up.
Speaker 1: You know, people have rough days. I understand, okay, and
Speaker 1: that can be hard though, after you've been waiting like
Speaker 1: cold for like an hour for them. But you I know,
Speaker 1: but you know, the restaurant staff is like oh yea,
Speaker 1: and all the other couples around are looking over like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're getting stood up as a server. You know, this
Speaker 1: guy wants to make money off this table. But you
Speaker 1: can't go up and go, hey, when are you gonna
Speaker 1: just call it quits and let me get another table? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can't do that. So how did it go when
Speaker 1: she finally did show up to the restaurant. Well, I
Speaker 1: was happy just to like, you know, have somebody there
Speaker 1: to be with me, because I was tired to be
Speaker 1: so sad to her. I'm sure I didn't want to
Speaker 1: like make herself conscious. She's I don't know what kind
Speaker 1: of day she was having. She's finally here. Let's just
Speaker 1: have a good time. That's hard though, Like was she
Speaker 1: super frazzled. She seemed a bit flustered. I don't know
Speaker 1: if it was because she was late. I didn't want
Speaker 1: to like keep digging at it or dig into it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you just want to move forward, move on. And were
Speaker 1: you able to Well? I tried, but the vibe was
Speaker 1: just different from before, like, I could tell this is
Speaker 1: not going well, and so I was like, hey, why
Speaker 1: don't I get you like a really nice cot fail.
Speaker 1: When they brought it out, she gulped it down like
Speaker 1: a shot was really stressed out. Yeah, that's not a
Speaker 1: good look to some people. Brook speak for yourself, turn on.
Speaker 1: How did you feel about it? I don't know. I
Speaker 1: really like her. I feel like she's like the perfect
Speaker 1: physical match for me. And on the text she was
Speaker 1: so nice, funny and playful when charming, she just seemed
Speaker 1: really distracted, like she got food, she didn't even finish
Speaker 1: her food. So I don't know what was going on.
Speaker 1: I just could tell, like, oh boy, this is not
Speaker 1: how I wanted it to go. Okay, So how did
Speaker 1: you end this date with her? So I asked if
Speaker 1: she wanted to just go for a walk, because I
Speaker 1: loved walking when I'm stressed out and just you know,
Speaker 1: air and everything. That's kind that's notful. He said that
Speaker 1: she just kind of felt like she has to be
Speaker 1: compressed today and wanted to go home, and I said,
Speaker 1: that's not a problem. Did she give any indication that
Speaker 1: she wanted to see you again or like retry, because
Speaker 1: if it was me, I would feel really apologetic, right, like, like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I ruined this day. I was super late.
Speaker 1: I've been totally distracted. Can you just give me a redo?
Speaker 1: You know, she didn't even say sorry when she came
Speaker 1: in out. Man, I mean, it definitely doesn't sound like
Speaker 1: you did anything wrong. It sounds like there was something
Speaker 1: going on with her. But let's call her and find
Speaker 1: out and we'll try and get your second day up date.
Speaker 1: All right, that'd be great. All right, hold on, let's
Speaker 1: take this from the woman's perspective. Okay, Like she shows
Speaker 1: up an hour late, she's in a sour mood, she's
Speaker 1: gulping down cocktails, barely eating, hardly even talking to the
Speaker 1: sweet man sitting across the table from her. And after
Speaker 1: all of that, the guy still wants to see her again.
Speaker 1: That's how powerful it is to have a pair of
Speaker 1: sexy green eyes. Brooke wishes that she had a real
Speaker 1: pair and they weren't hiding behind those giant foreign lenses
Speaker 1: that you got. Okay, listen, my eyes don't work well,
Speaker 1: but they are green. Yeah, I mean according to photoshop
Speaker 1: they are. But look, that's why one of our listeners,
Speaker 1: justin wants to call Robin after he waited an hour
Speaker 1: at the restaurant for her to show up, and the
Speaker 1: date never really even got off the ground once she did.
Speaker 1: But those darned gorgeous asparagus green eyes, they just had
Speaker 1: him wanting one more chance. Yeah, like a sexy diesel
Speaker 1: gas pump. Right, you should say, like an emerald. That's class,
Speaker 1: That's what everybody does. What what do you think, like
Speaker 1: justin how would you describe those green eyes? I don't know,
Speaker 1: like magical, little kiwi brown on the outside. Yeah, they're exotic. Oh,
Speaker 1: justin the thing for me with this girl, she didn't
Speaker 1: apologize after she was so late. That doesn't rub you wrong,
Speaker 1: it does, But you know, just taking all the history
Speaker 1: in the consideration, I thought like, maybe she's just something
Speaker 1: personal happened, Like, Okay, I wouldn't mind giving it one
Speaker 1: more shot. Okay, that's nice the way you've been describing her.
Speaker 1: A lot of times, really hot girls aren't apologetic. They're
Speaker 1: used to people waiting on them. Are you worried maybe
Speaker 1: this girl has like a ton of options and doesn't
Speaker 1: really care about you that much. Trying to project onto
Speaker 1: him on a positive note, try one more time? So
Speaker 1: I just need not have experience. Let's let Jose sit
Speaker 1: in the corner and yeah, we have a lot of
Speaker 1: theories justin but we're really hoping for the best year.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial Robin's phone number right now. We'll see
Speaker 1: what's going on. You ready, Yeah, all right, just picture
Speaker 1: those beautiful KeyWe eyes. Here we go. All right, let's
Speaker 1: do this. Hello. Hi, is this Robin? Yeah? Hey, my
Speaker 1: name is Jeff work on a morning radio show called
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, okay, And this
Speaker 1: is Jose. Yeah, and that is yeah, thanks Jeff. This
Speaker 1: is weirdness. This is Brooke. It sounds like you're busy, Robbin,
Speaker 1: and it is him. That is Alexus. I don't think
Speaker 1: she was asking for a roundtable introductions salted and you
Speaker 1: are now part of this thing called Brooke Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Welcome. Okay, what's going on? Did I win
Speaker 1: something or what's up? Possibly? Yeah, Well, we're doing a
Speaker 1: segment called a second date Update. Okay. The way that
Speaker 1: it works is one of our listeners reaches out to
Speaker 1: us and we call the person who they went on
Speaker 1: on a date with and has been ghosting them, and
Speaker 1: we're trying to help him figure out the reason why.
Speaker 1: So the guy you went out with recently, his name's Justin.
Speaker 1: Oh Justin. Yeah, yeah, you can just tell him I'm
Speaker 1: not interested anymore. You're not interested. Okay, you're not interested
Speaker 1: in Justin. He sounded like a really nice guy. No,
Speaker 1: I mean I've got my reasons. Okay. Well look that's okay,
Speaker 1: Like you're allowed to choose who you want to date
Speaker 1: and who you don't. But for Justin's sanity, he's trying
Speaker 1: to figure out, like what went wrong because he told
Speaker 1: us it took you a while to show up to
Speaker 1: the restaurant even I mean, yeah I did, and I
Speaker 1: do feel sad about that, Like that seems like it's
Speaker 1: more on you and it's less of what Justin did
Speaker 1: or are we Are we wrong about that? No, it's
Speaker 1: totally what he did. Oh. So, like I had some
Speaker 1: stuff to get done and so I was like running late.
Speaker 1: But also like sometimes I do this with guys I
Speaker 1: meet online, just kind of to see how they're going
Speaker 1: to react. Wait, wait, wait, the one hour late thing
Speaker 1: was a test? Is that what you're saying? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I didn't like planet ahead of time, but once
Speaker 1: I started being late, I was like, Okay, well, how
Speaker 1: is he going to react to this? You know, and
Speaker 1: dude like sat there for an hour and waited for me,
Speaker 1: Like what is that a gentleman called patience and kindness
Speaker 1: and forgiveness. No, I mean you were texting him the
Speaker 1: whole time. You kept telling him you were going to
Speaker 1: be there. You were leading them on. It's not like
Speaker 1: he sat there for an hour and hadn't heard of
Speaker 1: from you. I only texted him twice and kept saying
Speaker 1: like I'm heading there, and all he had to do
Speaker 1: he kept many options here, right, he could have rescheduled,
Speaker 1: he could have left, I mean something that Toody had
Speaker 1: a backbone. Right, So you're are you seriously saying that
Speaker 1: you're mad at Justin because he waited an hour for
Speaker 1: you to show up. No, I'm not mad at him.
Speaker 1: I just he's not the guy for me. I'm looking
Speaker 1: for somebody who's confident, who's going to stand up for himself,
Speaker 1: Like I didn't even say I'm sorry when I got there,
Speaker 1: and he's too nice. Yeah, it's just kind of pathetic.
Speaker 1: And it's just like a little puppy dog waiting for
Speaker 1: like his master to show up. I mean, yeah, I
Speaker 1: like an actual puppy, not a man who's a puppy.
Speaker 1: I okay, I understand that you want somebody who's confident.
Speaker 1: But to me, it's not that he wasn't confident, it's
Speaker 1: just that he was forgiving. Those are two separate things,
Speaker 1: and I think, like god, the world needs more of
Speaker 1: that type of attitude right now more than anything. I mean, no,
Speaker 1: spare me. I think the world needs more men who
Speaker 1: like have a backbone and our little waiting for somebody
Speaker 1: to show up. Oh well, Alice, I think it takes
Speaker 1: a lot of backbone, Robin, to be on the other
Speaker 1: line listening to this conversation the whole time and not
Speaker 1: freak out. Yeah, that's the patient That takes strength and
Speaker 1: courage because Justin's actually been there the whole time wanted
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Is that right, Justin? Yeah? This
Speaker 1: true with my point. Okay, this is my point. Come on,
Speaker 1: mister confidence, let's go show her. Robin. The reason I
Speaker 1: was waiting for you for so long was because you
Speaker 1: were late. You confirmed, and you said you were coming.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be rude. Yeah. If you want
Speaker 1: a guy who's mean to you, who's route to you, good,
Speaker 1: look I just hope you guys don't have any kids,
Speaker 1: because all they're going to create is more havoc and
Speaker 1: monsters in the world's mind. I think now you're just
Speaker 1: kind of like lashing out. So no, it's kind of out.
Speaker 1: I thought that that's what you wanted him to do. No,
Speaker 1: I wanted him to be confident and to like stand
Speaker 1: up for himself, but like not just saying stuff to
Speaker 1: piss me off or to look strong. Like. No, okay,
Speaker 1: you wanted to be confident without being told to be confident.
Speaker 1: There's like a happy balance. Yeah, it really is. It's
Speaker 1: weird and hard explain, but there is some kind of
Speaker 1: about it mean but not mean nice. Is there any
Speaker 1: way Justin can win right now, Robin? No, I mean no,
Speaker 1: it's done. I mean I hope, I hope that just
Speaker 1: like teaches him a lesson though, because girls really do
Speaker 1: want a little more confidence. But that's the thing. I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to go out with the girl. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to find a woman who's matured your confidence right there. Honestly, Robin,
Speaker 1: I I never got not confident from Justin this whole
Speaker 1: time we were talking about him. I did, really, I mean,
Speaker 1: you should hear the way that he talks about your
Speaker 1: green eyes. Honestly, I've looked at Robin's green eyes in
Speaker 1: the flesh, and you know, now I'm starting to think
Speaker 1: maybe they are contact. Oh green eye girl, did you
Speaker 1: hear that? That was a sick fern on you? Robin Old?
Speaker 1: Are you wow? I mean, do we ask at this point?
Speaker 1: I mean there's definitely some sort of fiery passion and going.
Speaker 1: I have to ask by saying you don't want to
Speaker 1: send him on a date? Then she'll say yes, do it? So, Robin,
Speaker 1: this is the time where I'm supposed to ask if
Speaker 1: you would like to go out on another date, but
Speaker 1: we don't want you to go on it. I don't
Speaker 1: think he even wants to show up to it. He
Speaker 1: wants to leave you hanging there. That's the type of guy,
Speaker 1: confident person that yet. And if you're willing to show
Speaker 1: up to that, then we'll pay for thanks for the
Speaker 1: reverse psychology. I'm still good. I will find my own date.
Speaker 1: I mean it's hard, all this testosterone in the room.
Speaker 1: It's really strong, actually, Jeffrey Jose and I'm screwed up.
Speaker 1: You know what, Robin, he should be the one that
Speaker 1: asks you yea, as the strong independent man that he is.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, go ahead, justin. Hey, Robin, I'd like to
Speaker 1: officially ask you out on a date to a restaurant
Speaker 1: that's not even open. It's been closed by the health department.
Speaker 1: But yeah, you want some food poisoning Robin. You know,
Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell is something here. I'm
Speaker 1: like back in elementary school, like what's going on? Because
Speaker 1: you're failing again. Yeah, you're creating a monster here. This
Speaker 1: is getting very unsexy. I finally agree with thank you.
Speaker 1: I told you you can say what you want, but
Speaker 1: that's another sick burn. Anytime you want, Roster, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying I'll take you up on that comedy. I just
Speaker 1: need a clown like Robin, you know, and fire me.
Speaker 1: Why am I still on this phone call? I hang up?
Speaker 1: You done not right? I feel like you would have
Speaker 1: left if you really wanted to leave, But you want
Speaker 1: to stick around. I mean the grave. It's funny. Well
Speaker 1: he stuck around for you, and you're doing the same thing.
Speaker 1: I don't know anybody agree. I guess that wasn't really
Speaker 1: great comparison. So I just burned myself in Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning,