WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Love At First Like 0:00:00.050 --> 0:00:01.960 Here we are, it's Friday, and we've got a brand 0:00:01.980 --> 0:00:04.019 new episode for you. For all of those that are 0:00:04.040 --> 0:00:06.340 living in 2026, hey, it's Brooke and Jeffrey, and you've 0:00:06.370 --> 0:00:08.590 found the official Second Date Podcast. 0:00:08.610 --> 0:00:10.150 We just get so many comments. 0:00:10.700 --> 0:00:14.460 Of people from like 2022 being like, oh my God, 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:15.220 I'm finally here. 0:00:15.260 --> 0:00:17.380 I'm like, yo, you got four more years of new 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:18.480 episodes to listen to. 0:00:18.579 --> 0:00:19.299 Yes. 0:00:19.800 --> 0:00:21.060 I saw Jennifer commented. 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:22.360 I mean, it doesn't even matter if I say her 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:25.099 name because she's on an episode from years and years ago. 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:25.560 Yeah. 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:29.760 And said, this is by far the best episode ever. 0:00:29.780 --> 0:00:32.120 Still listening. I'm like, Jennifer, you got years. 0:00:32.140 --> 0:00:33.019 You got a lot to. 0:00:33.020 --> 0:00:33.479 Catch up on. 0:00:33.500 --> 0:00:35.440 But yeah, for those that are in the present, thank 0:00:35.460 --> 0:00:37.540 you so much. We got a brand new epi started 0:00:37.659 --> 0:00:38.080 right now. 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:39.690 And Jennifer, when you get here, I hope this one 0:00:39.729 --> 0:00:39.979 is good. 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:40.239 Yeah. 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:43.030 Yeah. Talk to you in eight years. 0:00:43.670 --> 0:00:45.070 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:00:45.250 --> 0:00:46.310 Second date update. 0:00:46.350 --> 0:00:50.260 We've got a guy named Chris on the show with 0:00:50.380 --> 0:00:53.620 us who reached out and in his email he said 0:00:54.020 --> 0:00:56.180 he thinks that he is in love. 0:00:56.790 --> 0:00:58.510 Cute. Wow. 0:00:58.530 --> 0:01:02.530 And apparently he actually told her that on their first date. 0:01:02.830 --> 0:01:04.630 Okay, that's a lie. So do we just end the 0:01:04.650 --> 0:01:05.370 phone call now? 0:01:05.410 --> 0:01:05.509 Yeah. 0:01:05.530 --> 0:01:07.850 Because I think we know why you're not getting a 0:01:07.890 --> 0:01:08.310 call back. 0:01:08.330 --> 0:01:10.480 I mean, if she didn't say it back, then that's 0:01:10.500 --> 0:01:13.100 a bad thing. Yeah. We have a lot of questions asked, 0:01:13.140 --> 0:01:14.440 but first let's bring them on. 0:01:14.540 --> 0:01:14.780 Chris. 0:01:15.380 --> 0:01:16.840 I guess, first of all, how does it feel to 0:01:16.900 --> 0:01:17.600 be in love? 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:22.440 Oh, my God, you guys. It is wonderful. It's enthralling. 0:01:22.540 --> 0:01:25.139 It is nerve-wracking. It's all of the above. 0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:26.280 Slow down, Chris. 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:29.640 Is this a woman that you've known for a long time, 0:01:29.700 --> 0:01:32.580 and that's why you finally came to this realization? 0:01:33.310 --> 0:01:35.670 No, I met her last week at a house party. 0:01:35.690 --> 0:01:36.290 Oh, wow. 0:01:36.370 --> 0:01:36.650 Oh, yeah. 0:01:39.380 --> 0:01:40.459 The hot spot for love. 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:43.400 How many times have you felt love at first sight? 0:01:43.420 --> 0:01:44.900 Because I feel like it's going to be a high 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:45.819 amount for you, Chris. 0:01:46.100 --> 0:01:49.600 This is my first time. First time this has ever 0:01:49.640 --> 0:01:52.520 happened to me. I usually never feel like this. 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:54.920 Yeah, okay. Your first time falling in love this week, 0:01:55.260 --> 0:01:55.700 at least. 0:01:56.560 --> 0:01:57.400 I believe him. 0:01:57.440 --> 0:01:59.420 Paint the picture for us. How do you meet this 0:01:59.890 --> 0:02:01.370 incredible woman at this house party? 0:02:01.430 --> 0:02:03.130 Your soulmate. Jeff, just say it. 0:02:03.310 --> 0:02:06.290 Well, I was at my buddy's house party. He was 0:02:06.390 --> 0:02:10.550 throwing a 30th birthday bash, and I see this girl 0:02:10.590 --> 0:02:13.830 across the room, and I was out of my body. 0:02:13.889 --> 0:02:15.570 It was like an out-of-body experience. 0:02:15.750 --> 0:02:17.470 Okay, you were doing drugs. We know. I was going 0:02:17.490 --> 0:02:17.910 to say. 0:02:18.370 --> 0:02:19.230 No, no. 0:02:19.910 --> 0:02:21.710 This was early, early in the night. 0:02:21.730 --> 0:02:24.450 Yeah, before I started doing drugs. Oh, okay. 0:02:25.450 --> 0:02:27.950 So wait, did you immediately go up to her, or 0:02:28.030 --> 0:02:28.630 what did you do? 0:02:29.230 --> 0:02:31.549 Without even flinching. I looked at her. I said, hey, 0:02:31.570 --> 0:02:33.150 can I buy you a drink? I didn't even know 0:02:33.169 --> 0:02:33.790 what I was saying. 0:02:33.810 --> 0:02:34.850 I thought you were going to say I love you 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:38.240 right there. Buy you a drink at a house party. 0:02:38.260 --> 0:02:39.120 Your buddy's charging? 0:02:39.700 --> 0:02:42.320 No, as she said, she goes, the drinks are free. 0:02:42.340 --> 0:02:44.100 I go, so can I buy you a free drink? 0:02:44.139 --> 0:02:46.360 She goes, I already got one. And I go, okay, 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:48.840 what's your name? And she tells me Carrie. And I 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:50.810 was like, oh, my God, that's great. 0:02:53.410 --> 0:02:56.850 Did you sound like you're smiling ear to ear right now? 0:02:56.990 --> 0:02:58.030 Okay. 0:02:58.370 --> 0:03:01.470 Carrie. So we start to chat and we were talking 0:03:01.490 --> 0:03:05.390 about all sorts of things. And long story short, I 0:03:05.410 --> 0:03:07.429 guess it was like a couple hours later and her 0:03:07.450 --> 0:03:11.080 and a friend had to leave. So I give her 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:13.519 my phone, she puts her number in my phone, and 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:15.760 I texted her the next day to see if she 0:03:15.780 --> 0:03:17.740 wanted to grab dinner. She said yes. 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:20.750 Okay. 0:03:20.910 --> 0:03:23.190 Can I just ask, are you nervous at all? Like, 0:03:23.230 --> 0:03:23.830 how are you feeling? 0:03:24.550 --> 0:03:26.490 Yeah, I was very nervous. 0:03:26.669 --> 0:03:27.450 Okay. 0:03:27.550 --> 0:03:32.290 Because this girl is out of my league. Anyways, I 0:03:32.310 --> 0:03:33.990 take her to this nice little Mexican place. 0:03:34.090 --> 0:03:35.570 It's cute. It's chic. 0:03:35.770 --> 0:03:38.920 I just imagine you sitting there, like, completely pitted out. Like, 0:03:38.940 --> 0:03:42.340 just profusely sweating from being too excited, too nervous, too 0:03:42.460 --> 0:03:43.000 all the things. 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:44.620 And salsa's pretty hot, huh? 0:03:44.660 --> 0:03:46.240 Yeah, exactly what I'm saying. 0:03:47.820 --> 0:03:52.720 Well, I doubled up on the deodorant. I absolutely was 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:55.160 prepared for this because I'm a sweater. 0:03:57.210 --> 0:03:58.890 You know, Brooke. 0:03:58.930 --> 0:04:00.590 Just the way he talks. 0:04:00.990 --> 0:04:02.910 So they sat us by the window. 0:04:02.930 --> 0:04:04.330 She is gorgeous. 0:04:04.490 --> 0:04:06.130 And they wanted everybody to see. 0:04:06.430 --> 0:04:09.029 Oh, you think they just put you guys there so 0:04:09.110 --> 0:04:12.130 everybody thinks, ooh, attractive people. I didn't know that's how 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:14.160 you get the window. What did you and Carrie talk about? 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:17.880 It was just such good vibes. And we got to 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:20.740 know each other. And I found out that her life 0:04:20.860 --> 0:04:23.260 goal is to visit all of the countries. 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:23.780 In the world. 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:25.640 There's like 195 or something like that. 0:04:25.779 --> 0:04:26.760 That's awesome. 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:28.760 And I go, look, I might want to take you. 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:30.640 And she goes, I might just let you. 0:04:31.900 --> 0:04:35.290 Take you to all of the countries. Around the world? 0:04:35.850 --> 0:04:38.729 Again, I do not know. I don't really. I travel 0:04:38.770 --> 0:04:39.969 a little bit. Not much. 0:04:39.990 --> 0:04:41.950 But that is such a romantic thing to say. I 0:04:41.990 --> 0:04:43.770 think it's exactly what you should have said. 0:04:43.850 --> 0:04:44.529 It's perfect. 0:04:44.550 --> 0:04:44.630 Yeah. 0:04:45.400 --> 0:04:48.100 And she said the right response. Yeah. I mean, if 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:49.820 anybody offered to take me around the world, I'd let 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:51.020 them too. Yeah. 0:04:51.100 --> 0:04:52.060 I don't have to love you. 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:55.260 You guys, it's a good response. It's flirty. 0:04:55.440 --> 0:04:55.820 It's fun. 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:56.500 No, it was flirty. 0:04:56.560 --> 0:04:57.230 Sure, yeah. 0:04:57.250 --> 0:04:59.690 Okay, so it sounds like the vibes are happening. How 0:04:59.710 --> 0:05:00.470 did the date end? 0:05:01.330 --> 0:05:03.070 On the way to the car, she let me hold 0:05:03.130 --> 0:05:03.630 her hand. 0:05:03.650 --> 0:05:05.990 Cute. Oh. 0:05:06.010 --> 0:05:06.089 Okay. 0:05:06.230 --> 0:05:07.510 Which hand? 0:05:08.050 --> 0:05:10.250 That doesn't matter, Jeff. 0:05:10.510 --> 0:05:13.390 Okay, so that's really good. Was there a kiss maybe? 0:05:14.089 --> 0:05:17.390 Yeah, hands down, best kiss of my life. It was 0:05:17.490 --> 0:05:18.410 so perfect. 0:05:18.470 --> 0:05:19.150 Wow. 0:05:19.270 --> 0:05:21.230 And that's when it happened. That's when it slipped out. 0:05:21.310 --> 0:05:24.050 It just was so natural. That's when I said, I 0:05:24.089 --> 0:05:24.450 love you. 0:05:24.470 --> 0:05:26.630 Oh, my God. Oh, no. 0:05:26.860 --> 0:05:27.539 Oh, God. 0:05:27.570 --> 0:05:29.599 When you said it slipped out, I thought something else. 0:05:30.220 --> 0:05:30.360 Oh. 0:05:30.680 --> 0:05:32.380 Okay. No, no, no. 0:05:32.420 --> 0:05:32.800 Wait. 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:34.400 Immediately after. 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:36.140 Immediately after, yep. 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:37.740 Oh, my God. Oh, God. 0:05:37.980 --> 0:05:39.640 What did she say? Yeah, that's what I want to know. 0:05:40.130 --> 0:05:42.570 She said, wow, thank you. 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:42.739 Oh, okay. 0:05:42.750 --> 0:05:46.780 I can't tell if that's good or not. 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:49.900 I mean, it could be her just being polite or 0:05:50.060 --> 0:05:53.169 totally blown away and floored by it. Well, thank you 0:05:53.270 --> 0:05:56.910 is a very polite response to anything. Probably polite. 0:05:56.930 --> 0:05:59.690 Well, what do you, I mean, it's such an awkward moment, right? 0:05:59.730 --> 0:06:02.480 Like, did it change the feeling of what was happening 0:06:02.510 --> 0:06:03.080 between you two? 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:07.100 For me, no. I immediately apologized. I knew I jumped 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:10.220 the gun, and she kind of comforted me. She said, 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:12.000 it's okay. You're in your feelings. 0:06:12.620 --> 0:06:14.510 And you're just like, this is why I love you. 0:06:14.860 --> 0:06:16.880 Patted you on the head. I know you don't mean that. 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:17.619 Okay. 0:06:17.820 --> 0:06:20.140 I mean, but that's good in a relationship, right? 0:06:20.230 --> 0:06:23.330 Like, you want somebody who is really a lot of feelings, 0:06:23.370 --> 0:06:25.610 and then somebody who's like, okay, let's slow it down, buddy. 0:06:25.630 --> 0:06:26.589 Yeah. 0:06:26.710 --> 0:06:29.170 You know? It's nice knowing you have all the power. Like, 0:06:29.210 --> 0:06:30.909 this person likes me more than I like them. 0:06:31.170 --> 0:06:32.350 Oh, for the girl. 0:06:32.370 --> 0:06:36.250 Yeah, for her. power dynamics so what's happened since. 0:06:36.089 --> 0:06:40.190 Then since then i i said i'm super excited to 0:06:40.230 --> 0:06:42.390 see you again and that's where we. 0:06:42.290 --> 0:06:46.020 Left it you wait have you texted or called or anything. 0:06:46.160 --> 0:06:48.840 Yeah yeah i texted her i called her and i 0:06:48.860 --> 0:06:51.159 was like when would you like to get together again 0:06:51.180 --> 0:06:53.339 and it's been five days. 0:06:53.860 --> 0:06:54.580 Oh, nothing. 0:06:54.940 --> 0:06:55.400 Oh, man. 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:57.360 Have you texted her a photo of the plane ticket 0:06:57.380 --> 0:06:59.620 to all the different countries that you're going to take 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:00.339 her to? 0:07:01.100 --> 0:07:02.740 I have not. I didn't want to jump the gun 0:07:02.779 --> 0:07:03.120 too much. 0:07:03.500 --> 0:07:03.900 All right. 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:07.120 Well, you got some time. Hop on Expedia. Get those tickets. 0:07:07.140 --> 0:07:08.100 And then when we come back. 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:08.779 Pay the extra. 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:11.380 Make sure they're refundable. Yeah, good point. Because when we 0:07:11.420 --> 0:07:13.380 come back, we'll call Carrie and tell her the good 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:16.160 news and hopefully get her agree to go out with 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:18.880 you one more time when we do your second date update. 0:07:19.260 --> 0:07:22.550 I love you immediately edition right after this. 0:07:22.810 --> 0:07:25.770 Thanks, guys. I love how he's not fazed by that. 0:07:26.230 --> 0:07:26.670 Hold on, man. 0:07:26.790 --> 0:07:28.330 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:07:28.390 --> 0:07:29.670 Second date update. 0:07:31.370 --> 0:07:34.930 A first kiss followed by an immediate I love you. 0:07:34.950 --> 0:07:38.510 Then tagged on with a oops, sorry, I said that. 0:07:38.530 --> 0:07:42.380 It just kind of slipped out. That was how Chris's 0:07:42.620 --> 0:07:46.120 first date with Carrie ended after they ate together at 0:07:46.160 --> 0:07:47.200 a Mexican restaurant. 0:07:47.300 --> 0:07:49.820 I mean, it's so sweet that you just couldn't keep 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:52.600 it in. Like, I felt that way with my husband, but. 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:54.710 It was like months later that I said it. 0:07:54.760 --> 0:07:55.160 Really? 0:07:55.220 --> 0:07:56.380 And you said it first, didn't you? 0:07:56.400 --> 0:07:58.020 Yeah, it was the only time I ever said it first. 0:07:58.300 --> 0:08:02.140 But the problem is, even though she was receptive to 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:05.390 his I love you, she hasn't, I mean, she said thanks. 0:08:05.710 --> 0:08:06.130 Okay. 0:08:06.150 --> 0:08:09.310 So it wasn't a total shutdown. She hasn't been calling 0:08:09.350 --> 0:08:13.429 him back in the days afterwards. So Chris has enlisted 0:08:13.510 --> 0:08:16.080 our help to try and figure out what's going on. 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:18.740 Is she still interested or did he scare her off? 0:08:18.810 --> 0:08:19.750 Yeah. 0:08:20.010 --> 0:08:21.250 Chris, how you feeling, man? 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:24.420 I'm feeling a little nervous, a little good, pretty excited, 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:26.160 a little sweaty. Okay, though. 0:08:26.180 --> 0:08:28.320 Don't get too excited. 0:08:28.340 --> 0:08:29.400 We know what happens when. 0:08:29.300 --> 0:08:29.900 You do that. 0:08:30.020 --> 0:08:32.520 I'm sorry. He's a man that feels, Alexis, okay? Just 0:08:32.540 --> 0:08:33.700 let him be in his moment. 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:36.300 I feel like nervous and sweaty and gassy is just 0:08:36.340 --> 0:08:37.600 his natural state of being. 0:08:38.700 --> 0:08:40.520 I mean, that's the thing about this one, though. There 0:08:40.610 --> 0:08:43.490 is a lot on the line. Because usually it's like, oh, 0:08:43.610 --> 0:08:46.950 one day, who cares? But you are already very invested. 0:08:46.970 --> 0:08:48.030 Very invested. 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:51.800 You sound it. 0:08:51.980 --> 0:08:52.480 Yeah. 0:08:52.700 --> 0:08:54.199 I think the more that we talk about it, the 0:08:54.220 --> 0:08:56.690 more nervous you get. So let's just get right to it. 0:08:56.720 --> 0:08:58.679 I'm going to dial Carrie's phone number. We'll see if 0:08:58.730 --> 0:09:03.130 she answers. Here we go. 0:09:05.309 --> 0:09:08.369 Hello. 0:09:08.929 --> 0:09:09.650 Hey, is this Carrie? 0:09:11.150 --> 0:09:11.579 Yes. 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:13.719 Hey, Carrie, this is a radio show called Brooke and 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:14.520 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:16.980 Okay. 0:09:17.260 --> 0:09:17.980 Exciting. 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:19.059 Good morning, Carrie. 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:20.900 I am so excited to talk to Carrie. 0:09:21.040 --> 0:09:22.000 Yeah. 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:24.340 We're all very excited to talk to you because we've 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:28.540 heard about your dating style from one of our listeners 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:29.730 named Chris. 0:09:30.660 --> 0:09:31.490 I would go with life. 0:09:31.670 --> 0:09:32.089 Yeah. 0:09:32.150 --> 0:09:32.870 Are you nervous? 0:09:33.090 --> 0:09:35.929 I'm nervous because I know a lot's on the line here. Well, 0:09:35.950 --> 0:09:38.230 that's smart to let her correct you. Sorry. 0:09:38.290 --> 0:09:38.490 Yeah. 0:09:38.890 --> 0:09:40.650 We heard you went out with a guy named Chris recently. 0:09:40.670 --> 0:09:41.130 Yeah. 0:09:41.150 --> 0:09:42.790 Yeah. 0:09:43.429 --> 0:09:43.870 Yeah. 0:09:44.970 --> 0:09:47.920 Sorry, this is probably a lot for you right now. 0:09:47.940 --> 0:09:49.400 This is a segment that we do. It's called the 0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:52.700 Second Date Update. We're trying to help Chris figure out 0:09:52.740 --> 0:09:55.350 if there's a reason why after you two hung out, 0:09:55.790 --> 0:09:57.330 there hasn't been a second meetup. 0:09:58.809 --> 0:09:59.270 I don't know. 0:09:59.290 --> 0:10:01.910 I don't really. think Chris is that worried about it. 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:05.730 So what are you talking about? The same Chris we're 0:10:05.750 --> 0:10:06.310 talking about. 0:10:06.630 --> 0:10:09.470 He's like sweaty about it. Why came out weird? 0:10:09.490 --> 0:10:09.970 Sorry. 0:10:09.990 --> 0:10:11.209 Why do you have that attitude? 0:10:11.230 --> 0:10:12.670 I don't know. 0:10:12.690 --> 0:10:12.890 Sorry. 0:10:12.929 --> 0:10:17.050 This is so weird that we're doing this. 0:10:17.309 --> 0:10:19.429 Are you saying that you don't think Chris is interested 0:10:19.500 --> 0:10:19.680 in you? 0:10:20.610 --> 0:10:22.830 I mean, I thought he was, honestly. 0:10:22.850 --> 0:10:24.860 I thought he was really into me, actually. 0:10:24.880 --> 0:10:24.970 Yeah. 0:10:25.290 --> 0:10:29.060 And I was, like, kind of flattered because I was like, oh, 0:10:29.100 --> 0:10:30.500 he really, really. 0:10:30.300 --> 0:10:32.420 Likes me, and that's obviously a good thing. 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:32.520 Yeah. 0:10:33.780 --> 0:10:34.540 Yeah. 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:36.840 Some of the words that he told you may have 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:38.380 implied a stronger feeling. 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:39.059 Yeah. 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:42.500 Yeah, I mean, well, okay, I guess he told you? 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:43.740 He told us about it, yeah. 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:45.480 Yeah, you can talk about it. Oh, my God, relive 0:10:45.500 --> 0:10:46.880 the moment. I want to hear from your side. 0:10:48.210 --> 0:10:51.510 OK, it was a really good kiss. And then he said, 0:10:52.250 --> 0:10:55.949 I love you. And I was just I don't know, 0:10:55.970 --> 0:10:57.589 that took me back a little bit. But I did 0:10:57.610 --> 0:10:59.650 think it was just like a heat of the moment 0:10:59.670 --> 0:11:00.250 kind of thing. 0:11:00.530 --> 0:11:03.630 OK, so it wasn't it wasn't a red flag or. 0:11:04.110 --> 0:11:05.740 It wasn't a deal breaker. 0:11:05.750 --> 0:11:07.120 It was a little awkward. 0:11:07.660 --> 0:11:10.380 OK, OK. But you said, like, I don't know if 0:11:10.420 --> 0:11:13.179 he really is all that hurt that I'm not calling him. Like, 0:11:13.220 --> 0:11:14.000 what made you say that? 0:11:15.710 --> 0:11:19.250 Well, I had told my friend about him and that 0:11:19.270 --> 0:11:22.689 I was actually kind of into him. And I told 0:11:22.730 --> 0:11:25.070 him about the Mexican restaurant that we. 0:11:24.990 --> 0:11:25.530 Went on a date. 0:11:25.550 --> 0:11:27.010 I was like, oh, yeah, we went to that one. 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:28.720 We were driving past it. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:30.400 So I was like, yeah, that one. And she's like, oh. 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:35.180 And as we're going by, we look in and we 0:11:35.220 --> 0:11:38.500 literally see him through the window at a table with 0:11:38.580 --> 0:11:40.560 another girl the next day. 0:11:40.590 --> 0:11:40.670 What? 0:11:42.500 --> 0:11:45.180 Wait, that's a lot of assumptions. How do you know 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:46.770 they're not just friends? How do you know it's not 0:11:46.790 --> 0:11:47.349 his sister? 0:11:47.370 --> 0:11:50.450 He's friends with other girls? That's a red flag. 0:11:50.490 --> 0:11:53.239 How do you know it's not a co-worker, you know? 0:11:53.260 --> 0:11:55.620 He was literally feeding her food. 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:59.620 Okay, maybe so. even though I'd never feed my sister? 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:01.550 I know, but if you're like, hey, can I have 0:12:01.590 --> 0:12:02.150 a bite of that? 0:12:02.230 --> 0:12:04.310 And then it's already on your fork, maybe it wasn't 0:12:04.350 --> 0:12:05.790 a sensual thing, it was just more like. 0:12:05.710 --> 0:12:09.050 A shove it in somebody's mouth. This is such a stretch. 0:12:09.150 --> 0:12:12.840 Or maybe he was on a date that was already 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:14.600 scheduled before he met you. 0:12:14.620 --> 0:12:17.040 Oh, he was just going through the motions. Bottom line 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:19.200 is we didn't know that. We had not heard about 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:21.420 any other woman from Chris when we talked to him, 0:12:21.460 --> 0:12:21.819 at least. 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:23.510 We thought he was zoned in on you. 0:12:23.570 --> 0:12:25.949 But I really think we should probably ask him about it. 0:12:25.970 --> 0:12:26.230 Yes. 0:12:26.510 --> 0:12:28.510 And the great thing that you don't know, Carrie, is 0:12:28.550 --> 0:12:31.630 that Chris is already on the phone right now listening 0:12:31.710 --> 0:12:32.330 on the other line. 0:12:32.470 --> 0:12:34.340 Ready to spoon feed us the answer. 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:36.000 Oh, my God. Or a chip with salsa on it. 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:37.100 Whatever it was. 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:37.340 Okay. 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:37.620 Chris? 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:44.069 Hi, Terry. Hi, y'all. Yeah. 0:12:44.330 --> 0:12:47.450 Okay, Chris, clear stuff up. Who was this other woman 0:12:47.490 --> 0:12:48.109 that you were with? 0:12:48.130 --> 0:12:50.240 I just went out on a date. It was another 0:12:50.300 --> 0:12:50.959 first date. 0:12:51.540 --> 0:12:51.610 Oh. 0:12:52.220 --> 0:12:53.240 But hold on. 0:12:53.540 --> 0:12:54.079 Okay. 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:57.120 Why is that bad, though? It's only bad because he 0:12:57.179 --> 0:13:00.970 just said I love you to Carrie a couple days ago, 0:13:01.000 --> 0:13:02.370 and then you're going on another date. 0:13:02.380 --> 0:13:04.890 But Carrie didn't say it back. Did she text him back? 0:13:04.910 --> 0:13:06.270 She didn't text him back that day either. 0:13:06.309 --> 0:13:06.630 Oh, wait. 0:13:06.670 --> 0:13:08.069 Alexis has a boyfriend. 0:13:08.090 --> 0:13:08.170 Sure. 0:13:08.690 --> 0:13:10.350 And just because I went on a date with another 0:13:10.570 --> 0:13:13.990 girl doesn't mean I don't... What I said, I meant. 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:18.700 I don't mind saying it. I love you, Carrie. I 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:20.020 feel that way. 0:13:20.100 --> 0:13:26.090 I think it's good. What? Hold on. Let her respond 0:13:26.110 --> 0:13:27.770 to the second I love you. Or anything. 0:13:27.809 --> 0:13:28.010 Carrie. 0:13:31.350 --> 0:13:34.030 What am I even supposed to say to you? 0:13:34.050 --> 0:13:36.100 We went on one date. You've now told me you 0:13:36.130 --> 0:13:40.600 love me twice, once on the radio, and you went. 0:13:40.540 --> 0:13:42.699 On another date immediately after. 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:45.590 So I don't know, man. You sound kind of insane. 0:13:46.809 --> 0:13:49.530 I'm not insane. I went out on a date with her, 0:13:49.670 --> 0:13:53.310 and I'm scheduled to go out on another date with her. Okay, but, hey, listen. 0:13:53.650 --> 0:13:56.059 Listen, I think this is good, Carrie. 0:13:56.100 --> 0:13:58.520 This means that he's a man that feels he knows 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:00.220 that he loves you, but he's not too clingy. 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:02.830 Because he's still got other options. 0:14:02.910 --> 0:14:04.309 Yeah, he's building a roster. 0:14:04.330 --> 0:14:06.890 I don't think that's what that means. 0:14:07.630 --> 0:14:09.340 Maybe did you tell the other girl that you loved her? 0:14:10.059 --> 0:14:11.800 I didn't say I love her. I said I really, 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:15.120 really liked her. And the biggest difference, though, is she 0:14:15.179 --> 0:14:15.840 calls me back. 0:14:16.620 --> 0:14:16.690 Wow. 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:18.560