1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. All you have to do 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: is send us a letter. We could be reading your 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 7 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. And you never know, 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: this one right here could be yours. 9 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 2: This one right here, Buckle up and hold on tight. 10 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. 11 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 3: It is Strawberry Letter. 12 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 4: Thank you nephews. Subject. 13 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: I went home early, and so did he. Dear Stephen Shirley, 14 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: my husband and I are down to one car because 15 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: he hit debris in the road after an ice storm 16 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: in our city. I hate having to be dropped off 17 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: at work because I have a flexible schedule and I 18 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: can work from home. He's in sales, so he has 19 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: to have his own transportation. Last Friday, I chose to 20 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: stay home and work, so I had sex with my 21 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: man and told him to have a great day. 22 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 4: By ten am, I got. 23 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: A call to come to the office because a client 24 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: had popped up in town. I called my husband to 25 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: get a ride but he was too far away to 26 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 1: pick me up. My boss picked me up instead. My 27 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: husband called me around one pm to see if I 28 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: made it to work, and I told him I made 29 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: it and I would need to be picked up around 30 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: five pm. We wrapped up our meeting around three point 31 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: thirty and my boss dropped me off at home. I 32 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: went down to the basement to start working on the 33 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: contract for my client. Then I heard a car in 34 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 1: the driveway, so I looked at our cameras. It was 35 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:38,320 Speaker 1: my husband getting out of my car. I could tell 36 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: he had a woman in the car, but I couldn't 37 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: see a face. 38 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 4: I stayed quiet. 39 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: In the basement so I could see if he was 40 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: going to let her come into my house. He left 41 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: her in the car while he changed his shirt, and. 42 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 4: Then left back out. 43 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: As he drove away, I called, but he didn't answer. 44 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: He texted me to see if I needed a ride. 45 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: I texted back that I was already home, and I 46 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: asked who he had in my car with him and 47 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: why was he texting me and not answering my calls. 48 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: He never responded that night. He said I was making 49 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: more out of it than it was. He said he 50 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: didn't answer my calls because he didn't want to be 51 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 1: embarrassed in front of his coworker. What if I hadn't 52 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 1: busted him, do you think he would have admitted it 53 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: to me? That would be a no. And you know 54 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: he wouldn't have. He wouldn't have admitted anything to you. 55 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: He was thinking he could get away with whatever he 56 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 1: called himself doing with the so called coworker, because you know, 57 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: he had you at Bay, you were off at work. 58 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 4: Doing your thing and everything. 59 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 1: He would check on you every now and then to 60 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 1: see if you needed a ride. But the fact that 61 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: he had your car and couldn't pick you up or 62 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: you know, just I don't know, he didn't seem like 63 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: he really I won't cared whether you got home or not. Really, 64 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: you know, it just seems kind of crazy to me. 65 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: And not only that he's in your car with another 66 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: woman that he brought to your house. All this was 67 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: dumb and it was a wrong move on his part. 68 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: You never bring another woman to your house, in your 69 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: house or any of that. That's why this whole thing 70 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: is stupid. And he was more worried about being embarrassed 71 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: in front of his coworker. That's what he's calling her 72 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: his coworker than answering your call. Why, I mean to me, 73 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: that proves that he shouldn't have had her in the 74 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: car in the first place. If he didn't want to 75 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: take your calls, why was he even with her? And 76 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: he most definitely hadn't put her shouldn't have, you know, 77 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,839 Speaker 1: put her before you being embarrassed in front of her 78 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: before your need. 79 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 4: So all of this is just wrong on his part 80 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 4: to me, Steve. 81 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 5: You know, I'm sometimes amazed at Shirley's correction. 82 00:03:56,160 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 3: She is so pro relationship, she is so pro. 83 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 5: Marriage, she is sold pro tradition, she is soap pro. 84 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 3: Integrity. 85 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 4: Okay, makes me sick. Whatever, man, whatever. 86 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 5: Und all these righteous readings of these letters. A lot 87 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 5: went on the letter. I just think the dude is stupid. Man, 88 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 5: I don't understand dudes. Man, what y'all be thinking about? Man? Now, 89 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 5: all this about who got dropped off of the house, 90 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 5: And this is irrelevant that y'all had two cars, but 91 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 5: you're down the one because he hits some debris on 92 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 5: an ice storm in your city. Don't nobody give it 93 00:04:55,000 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 5: about that. Let's start moving these stories along a little bit. Now, 94 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 5: come on, long, this irrelevant. 95 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 4: Too much information to him. 96 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 5: Nobody get this list like bad free Now that's why 97 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 5: I don't like novels and stuff. 98 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:11,239 Speaker 2: Just what is wrong? 99 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 5: And let's just find out who saying? Who is he 100 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 5: and what is he to you? It's Bill Withers. That's 101 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 5: how we wrote. So my friend, let's let's get these songs. 102 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 2: Get to it. What is all this stuff dropped off? 103 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 6: At work? 104 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 2: I got a next little schedule, he in sales. I 105 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 2: can work from home. 106 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: What we need to tell. 107 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 5: Back door and nothing here is all you need to know. 108 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 5: I chose to stay home and work. So I had 109 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:49,160 Speaker 5: sex with my man and told him to have a 110 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 5: great day. 111 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 2: Because that's really what this letter about. 112 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 5: Okay, see all this stuff about the debris in the road, 113 00:05:58,440 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 5: that all she wanted to. 114 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 2: I had sex with my man and told him have 115 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: a great thing. 116 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 5: See all the angle built up in this letter after that, 117 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 5: mm hmm. 118 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 3: He gonna pull up in this driveway, just helping. 119 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 4: This good woman. Uh huh. 120 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 3: See that's what this letter is about. 121 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 4: It was wrong for that, And. 122 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 3: So when I come back and went straightened out, this 123 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 3: is what's wrong, all right? 124 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 1: Hang on see part two of your Strawberry letter responses 125 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: coming up in twenty three minutes after the hour of 126 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: today's subject. I went home early, and so did he. 127 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening. 128 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 4: Morning show. 129 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 6: Hey, it's Carla Farroll. 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Somebody messed up, ran over some debris 142 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 5: in the street to do an ice storm in our city. 143 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 3: Oh, none of that means. 144 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 5: That I had sex with my man and told him 145 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 5: to have a great day. 146 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 2: This is what this letter. 147 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 5: Is about So after that, you got a call to 148 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 5: come into the office because a client popped up, So 149 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 5: your boss came and picked you up. 150 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 2: Now, you didn't tell us whether your boss was a. 151 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 5: Man or woman. But I'm thinking it's a man. See 152 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 5: because when we talk about who riding with who? See, 153 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 5: when you ride with a man, ain't no problem your 154 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 5: boss coming to pick your How I know where you stay? 155 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 5: How your boss know where you stay? How many times 156 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 5: he'd have been about a house while you've been working 157 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 5: from home? 158 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 2: See? 159 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 5: I turned all this on you because you finn to 160 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 5: get your up off of me, right, my boss picked 161 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 5: me up instead. My husband called me around ten to 162 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 5: see if I had made it to work, and I 163 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 5: told him, see, because you had called him to bring you, 164 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 5: but your husband was too far away and you weren't 165 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 5: gonna get there in time. So then my boss picked 166 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 5: me up up instead. My husband called me around one 167 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 5: pm and see if you made it. I told him 168 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 5: I made it. That one pm call was to make 169 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 5: show he was at work. 170 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 3: See. 171 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 5: I told him I made it and would need to 172 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 5: be picked up around five. We wrapped up our meeting. 173 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 5: Around three thirty, my boss dropped me off at home. Oh, 174 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 5: he brought you back. 175 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 2: Yay. 176 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 5: But see, you knew at three point thirty, though, that 177 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 5: you ain't had time for your boss, because you knew 178 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 5: at five. You had told your husband you was gonna 179 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 5: wrap around five and he was supposed to come get you. 180 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 5: So you wrapped your meeting at three thirty, and then 181 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 5: your boss dropped you off at home again. But he 182 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 5: couldn't come in today because Pubby could be right around 183 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:50,839 Speaker 5: the cone. I went down to the basement to start 184 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 5: working on the contract for my client. 185 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 3: Oh, so it's the basement. 186 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:57,119 Speaker 1: Humh. 187 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 5: Then I heard the car the driveway, so I looked 188 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 5: out cameras. It was my husband getting out of my car. 189 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 4: Uh. 190 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 5: After we'd have had sex this morning in with my body. 191 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 5: Now he in my car. I could tell he had 192 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 5: a woman in a car, but I couldn't see her face. 193 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 5: I stayed quiet in the basement so I could see 194 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 5: if he was gonna let her come into my house, 195 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 5: because we both can't be having people up in this house, 196 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 5: because we don't know if your boss had never been 197 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 5: in the house while he dropping you up and picking 198 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 5: your act though, see what I'm saying, he left her 199 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 5: in the car while he changed his shirt and then 200 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 5: he left back out as he drove away, I called, 201 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 5: but he didn't anounce. This is the only smart thing 202 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 5: he did. Why he bought this helper to the house? 203 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 3: I do now. 204 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 2: He texted me to see if I needed a ride. 205 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 5: I text back that I was already home, and I 206 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 5: asked who he had in my car with him, and 207 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 5: why was he texting me and not answering my call. 208 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 5: He never responded. That was another brilliant move. But this 209 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 5: is too late. After the fact. You hadn't took the 210 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 5: help to the driveway, you wouldn't have had to explain this. 211 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 5: But you no, you cannot answer that phone that night, 212 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 5: he said, I was making more out of it than 213 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 5: it was. He said he did not answer my call 214 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 5: because he didn't want to be embarrassed in front of 215 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 5: his coworker. And that's the truth. That's the only piece 216 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 5: of truth in this letter from you all him to me, 217 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 5: because see, once you accused me of her what he 218 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 5: dropped you off? 219 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 2: He picked you up. 220 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 5: Well, holl long, wait, how you get to call your 221 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 5: boss because y'all have been having two cars now all 222 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 5: of a sudden, when you need a ride, here he 223 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 5: come and modin happy to get over here. Now, I 224 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 5: was with my coworker, co worker. Shirley says, it's his 225 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 5: soul called co worker. I believe it to be his 226 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 5: co worker, But I don't believe he should have brought 227 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 5: her to the house. 228 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 2: I believe that's your boss. But why at your boss. 229 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 5: At my house? And why is you going out there 230 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 5: getting in this man's car? You know how to make 231 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 5: me look to the neighbors. 232 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 4: The problem is the husband and the cowork. 233 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 5: Now you see what I'm saying about the problem is 234 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 5: gonna be about this boss man up in my house. 235 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 2: That's what it is fit to be. 236 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,959 Speaker 5: And then she says, what if I hadn't busted him, 237 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 5: do you think he would have admitted it to me? 238 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:23,839 Speaker 2: Admit what? 239 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 3: No? 240 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 2: Are you crazy? 241 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 4: You never admit a shower? 242 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 2: Admit what? 243 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 4: You never tell the truth? 244 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:45,559 Speaker 5: The truth? Would I admit? I tell the truth a 245 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 5: lot of times I'm not admitting you to see, especially 246 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 5: for black men, because admit is a shorter word for 247 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 5: admission of guilt, and that guilt fit to do. 248 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 4: So Lance the phone when I call all of that. 249 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 3: All right. 250 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 4: With her? Bass, No, you do not? She how did you. 251 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 2: Get that out? Of the letter and I don't know 252 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 2: why y'all don't. 253 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 4: See because en pick her up, all right. 254 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:20,839 Speaker 1: Please leave your comments on Today's Letter on Instagram, at 255 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast 256 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: on demand you're 257 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:26,960 Speaker 4: Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show