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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than excited.

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Speaker 2: Tell me these are the radio blogs on the Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: It's like we're writing in our diaries, except we say

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Speaker 2: to them a loud We call it blogs.

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Speaker 1: Kaylin's got one.

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Speaker 3: Go, thank you, dear blog. So I think that my

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Speaker 3: little sister is embarrassed of us, her family and the

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Speaker 3: reason I see this, and I've never like felt this

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Speaker 3: way before.

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Speaker 4: I mean, obviously everyone's.

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Speaker 3: Like embarrassed, but I saw a side of her that

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Speaker 4: And I think I told you guys this it happened.

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Speaker 3: A little bit ago, but I don't know if I

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Speaker 3: talked about it.

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Speaker 4: After it happened.

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Speaker 3: So we had reached a new level in her relationship

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Speaker 3: she has. By the way, my sister is, if you're

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Speaker 3: a new friend, she is in college. She's a senior

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Speaker 3: and her boyfriend is a grade older. And so he's

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Speaker 3: already living here in the workforce, like being a human.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Does he does he have like his own place

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Speaker 2: or are we still are we like fred elevated?

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Speaker 4: So it is a little Freddy, But he does have

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Speaker 4: his own place.

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Speaker 3: He weirdly lives in a building I used to live in,

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Speaker 3: and he lives like ten minutes from me.

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Speaker 2: So there like a Saturday is for the boys flag

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Speaker 2: on the wall. I'm trying to paint the picture.

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Speaker 3: There there there are some boys that live there, and

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Speaker 3: it was very funny. I forgot this is like sidetracking.

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Speaker 3: But when I went over there to drink one time

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Speaker 3: and I brought I think I brought a fifth or something,

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Speaker 3: and I forgot, like how hard times were at that age,

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Speaker 3: like where you know you probably couldn't afford like certain

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Speaker 3: and and all these boys were surrounding.

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Speaker 4: Me like can I get a pull of your tequila?

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Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, like you guys get in here?

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Speaker 1: Are there empty bottles above the cabinets?

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Speaker 4: No, they don't have that dank goodness?

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank goodness.

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Speaker 3: And I will say a green flag about him is

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Speaker 3: that his parents live in the suburbs here and he

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Speaker 3: goes home like almost every weekend.

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Speaker 1: Which sorry, I was just trying to paint. I wanted

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Speaker 1: to I wanted to mad, what what this?

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Speaker 2: Because often times, like first year out of college is

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Speaker 2: really just one it's one year extended survival right right right,

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Speaker 2: And we're still you know, like beer helping ugly people

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Speaker 2: get laid. Since you know, eighteen four posters on the wall.

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Speaker 2: Still no like Scarface.

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Speaker 4: You know, girls were over here and the boys were

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Speaker 4: over here. It was really cute until we got like tipsy.

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Speaker 4: I was like, okay, what are we doing?

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Speaker 3: I don't know anyways, So yes, I think so I

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Speaker 3: told you guys off the air that we were reaching

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Speaker 3: a new level in the relationship and our the families

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Speaker 3: were to meet each other, okay, which I think happens

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Speaker 3: in any relationship. Like it's really weird, Like when I

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Speaker 3: think about mine, the time came for the parents to

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Speaker 4: And it always made me a.

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Speaker 3: Little bit nervous too, now that I'm reflecting on it,

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Speaker 3: because it's like, what are you guys talking about? But

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Speaker 3: there's a point where it needs to happen. So we

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Speaker 3: had this dinner. We went to Lascarola. Our friend Armando

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Speaker 3: owns it. He's a friend of the show, and I

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Speaker 3: was a little worried about that as well. But they

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Speaker 3: picked it. Okay, they picked it. I did not pick it.

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Speaker 3: So we get there and his parents drove in from

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Speaker 3: the suburbs. My parents drove like five hours to come

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Speaker 3: from Michigan. So this dinner was like we're doing this dinner. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 3: Bella's boy friend got really ill before the dinner, like

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Speaker 3: really bad flu could not go. So we're like, okay, well,

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Speaker 3: you know we should still go because everybody drove, it's planned,

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Speaker 3: YadA YadA, But it really sucks that he couldn't be there.

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Speaker 3: But I look over at my sister and we're waiting

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Speaker 4: I'm like, what's going on? And she's like, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I just really wish he was here.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, what do you think we're gonna say to

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Speaker 3: his parents or his family? Like? She was very kind

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Speaker 3: of worried that we were going to embarrass her, and

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Speaker 3: so I may have amped up the embarrassment a.

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Speaker 4: Little bit because I had to hazer.

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Speaker 3: But yes, Armando also brought over shots, which made quite

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Speaker 4: But I think it went okay.

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Speaker 3: I just I did not understand why, Like, we're your people, girl,

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Speaker 3: why are you so stressed about this?

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Speaker 1: I would have been stressed too.

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Speaker 5: He's not there to like handle his parents. She because

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Speaker 5: it hurt, like, Okay, I can handle my family and

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Speaker 5: my sister Candle his family is you know whatever, But

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Speaker 5: the fact that he wasn't there, she has to represent

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Speaker 5: them as a couple with both families signs I would

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Speaker 2: Like he wasn't going to save her from that, Like

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Speaker 2: I guess he could have been her like comfort blanket,

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Speaker 2: But I mean, yeah, like if we go to dinner

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Speaker 2: with my parents, my parents are wild cards easy as

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Speaker 2: I don't I really don't know what they're going to say,

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Speaker 2: either one of them. I really don't know. So so

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Speaker 2: for me, there's nothing my partner can do about that.

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Speaker 2: So I would be nervous in general, just my introducing

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Speaker 2: my family to another family, because as much as I

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Speaker 2: love them, I also understand that, you know, they're getting

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Speaker 2: to a certain point in their lives where they really

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Speaker 2: And maybe that's not as pc as it should be,

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Speaker 2: you know, from meeting a new group of people. And

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Speaker 2: I'm very proud of them and grateful for them, But

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Speaker 2: you know, my mom's a boom. You know, she's kind

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Speaker 2: of in that phase of life.

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Speaker 1: Where I did there's no filter, right, yeah, and she

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Speaker 1: just doesn't care and she has earned it. But that

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Speaker 1: doesn't mean that I would say the same things. Right.

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Speaker 3: There were a couple of moments and I will not

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Speaker 3: say who or what side, but we were like testing,

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Speaker 3: like can I say this, like where's the line with

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Speaker 3: you guys? And it kind of like broke down the walls,

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Speaker 3: like someone's like you cool with this and we're like yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I think it went well.

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Speaker 3: We will see. Obviously, she still needs to graduate. She's

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Speaker 3: trying to move here, and.

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Speaker 2: No one broke up with anybody, so that's good. You

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Speaker 2: know everyone's still together, right.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, that's true.

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Speaker 3: But she she shot me a look a couple of

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Speaker 3: times and I said, this is only because you were

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Speaker 3: shaking so embarrassed, Like I'm also here for you.

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Speaker 1: What's funny?

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Speaker 2: Because I told Armando to give you guys hell, like

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Speaker 2: I said, keep the shots coming. We were texting throughout

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Speaker 2: that whole dinner. Did you He's like, yeah, your people

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Speaker 2: are here. I'm like, keep the booze flowing. Did not?

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Speaker 1: And I wish he's a liar. I love.

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Speaker 3: He gave around, yes, and he gave some amazing food,

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Speaker 3: but yeah, he didn't keep it going. And maybe Bella

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Speaker 3: needed it more than anybody. So they are still together.

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Speaker 3: I just had never seen that side, and so yeah,

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Speaker 3: she was, she was, she was stressed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, THO was just that stressful stuff when you

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Speaker 2: got it, when the when the families have to come together,

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Speaker 2: and then you don't really know is he gonna be

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Speaker 2: oil and water is gonna be Are they gonna be

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Speaker 2: best friends? Are they gonna wind up being closer than

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Speaker 2: I am? You know, they're gonna like them better. Are

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Speaker 2: they gonna wind up being friends forever? Even after we

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Speaker 2: break up? And then this person's never leaving my life.

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Speaker 2: I've got excees that still reach out to my mom

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Speaker 2: because my mom was so nice to them, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: stop being nice to them.

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Speaker 4: No, I still talk to some excess moms.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you know.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if their sons love that, right, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: maybe they do, maybe they don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure. It doesn't bother me.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like, mom, you know, stop that, but stop

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