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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. How you doing, Michael, Oh, I'm

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Speaker 2: pretty darn good.

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Speaker 3: I have a little issue I need your guys help with.

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Speaker 1: Right right, So it's about data. I have your email here.

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Speaker 1: You met on a dating app, You went out for dinner.

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Speaker 2: What happened? Tell us about the date and where you

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Speaker 2: guys stand.

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Speaker 3: I mean the date itself I thought was great. We

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Speaker 3: I mean we went to a place for you to

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Speaker 3: get the drinks. They had really good music, awesome food,

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Speaker 3: and I honestly I thought she was having fun. And

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Speaker 3: I'm super attracted to her and I hope to see

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Speaker 3: her again, but I have heard nothing from her, Like

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Speaker 3: I think it's been about a week. I checked it

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Speaker 3: and called her and now I feel like kind of

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Speaker 3: pushing it too much. But it's drive me crazy because

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Speaker 3: she's super hot and I don't know what I did.

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Speaker 1: This guy, Michael wants to know what happened, why he's

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Speaker 1: been ghosted after her first eight that he thought went

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Speaker 1: really well. They all think it went really well until

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Speaker 1: we get to this phase.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, Dana, Oh, Yes, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Friend Show in the morning radio

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Speaker 1: show and I'm sorry to bother it, but I do

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Speaker 1: have to tell you that we are on the radio

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Speaker 1: right now and I would need your permission to continue

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Speaker 1: with the call.

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Speaker 2: Said, okay, if we chat for just a little bit. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: thank you.

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Speaker 1: And again I'm sorry to intrude, but we're calling on

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Speaker 1: behalf of a guy named Michael who reached out to us.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember meeting Michael through a dating app? You

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Speaker 1: guys went on a date. Yeah, okay, Well he's curious why,

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Speaker 1: you know, after the date, he's reached out a couple

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Speaker 1: of times. He says, you haven't responded at all. He

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Speaker 1: liked you, he was attracted to you, he thought the

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Speaker 1: day was successful, and he wants to see you again.

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Speaker 1: You haven't responded. So where we come in. We're trying

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Speaker 1: to kind of figure out why.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So he.

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Speaker 4: Seriously can't figure out why I wouldn't go out with

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Speaker 4: him again.

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Speaker 2: He seriously cannot figure this out. Apparently, what happened?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 4: He seemed like a really normal guy, really wonderful. We've

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Speaker 4: chatted for a while, we talked on the phone, but

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Speaker 4: his idea of a really great night was taking me

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Speaker 4: to a strip club for dinner.

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Speaker 2: He took you to a strip club.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so this was like after dinner he thought like, hey,

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Speaker 1: let's go have a good time at the strip club.

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Speaker 4: No, the dinner was at the strip club.

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Speaker 2: Is the venue that he chose.

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Speaker 4: Yes, he chose a strip club, which I thought was

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Speaker 4: a joke at first and then slowly realized he was

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Speaker 4: very serious and his idea have a great date.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, let me just Michael's here, Dana. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: I forgot to mention Michael's on the phone. Michael, Dana,

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Speaker 1: you know each other, Michael. Strip club.

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Speaker 3: It's I mean, yeah, part of it is a strip club,

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Speaker 3: but they have like the best music and strip star foods.

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Speaker 3: I mean we had lobster. Like listen to good music

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Speaker 3: or just a good.

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Speaker 2: It's a strip club, dude, I thought, so, can't be serious.

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Speaker 1: You thought that because they have five four that you

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Speaker 1: say four star food and because they have lobster, and

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Speaker 1: because they play good music, you thought that that was okay,

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Speaker 1: and that sort of negated the fact that there were

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Speaker 1: half naked women dancing around on a day that your

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Speaker 1: line of things.

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, data like I thought you were having

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Speaker 3: a good time. This is like I mean it's just

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm the whole day. It was super expensive

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Speaker 3: because I'm not even counting my left dead tell me,

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Speaker 3: like draft that's cash on a first date, like I

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Speaker 3: was trying to show you though, I.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh wow, you know this is a reflection on you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, I have no problem with with strip clubs.

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Speaker 1: I don't go to them. I mean really, but so

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Speaker 1: maybe after you guys are dating for a while, you're

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Speaker 1: like having a good time, You're like, oh that you know,

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Speaker 1: let's go party and you go to this place. Fine,

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Speaker 1: if that's what you're into. But on a first date,

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Speaker 1: you don't see how that's a reflection on you. Michael.

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Speaker 1: You don't see how that maybe isn't putting the best

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Speaker 1: foot forward.

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Speaker 3: I honestly thought I was putting the best foot forward

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Speaker 3: because that place is not cheap, and I thought you

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Speaker 3: were having anywhere anywhere you want to go in the

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Speaker 3: city that I can get a reservation, I am happy

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Speaker 3: to take you. Like now that I understand that's not

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Speaker 3: your idea of fun, I honestly thought you were having

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Speaker 3: a good time.

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Speaker 4: If you if you have to have someone tell you

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Speaker 4: that's not a good idea for a date, like there's

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Speaker 4: honestly never going to be a possibility between the two

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Speaker 4: of us.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I just tell you that a week ago, Dana.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry to bother and good luck to you with

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Speaker 1: dating absord or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Michael.

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Speaker 1: I maybe you'll find somebody who that they think that's

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Speaker 1: a great first date idea, And if so, then I

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Speaker 1: hope you have a ring in your pocket you should

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Speaker 1: propost to them, because I think most people are probably

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Speaker 1: not going to tell you that the first date is

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Speaker 1: grounds for that kind of place.

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Speaker 3: Well, if that person's listening to the show, like let

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Speaker 3: me know