WEBVTT - Pre-Kapow!

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi ladies, Hi, how is weird? I'm not used to

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<v Speaker 1>looking at kristin this way, and you know it's a stranger.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited about my lighting today, I hope, and I

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<v Speaker 2>look like absolutely trash.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I know it's a met issue. This is going

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<v Speaker 3>to be really great or really mad.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time we get here and Kristen's sitting there real fast,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take this spot.

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<v Speaker 3>That is so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you guys, are you guys controlled the captain Schip today?

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I don't know that if anywhere I could

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<v Speaker 2>have seen the last ten minutes, I was just.

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<v Speaker 3>If this was flames.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not directors.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I can we get you guys in a two shot?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh, like on.

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<v Speaker 2>My lingo on set now, I don't know that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>googling two shot you're grabbing. I've one stand all right?

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<v Speaker 1>So do you have a day off today, Cramer?

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<v Speaker 3>No, girls, I'm on nights. I'm on five to five.

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<v Speaker 4>Man.

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<v Speaker 3>Whoa nocturn?

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<v Speaker 2>Jana, I gotta tell you it's uh, that's the hardest

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<v Speaker 2>part about all of this is the nights because my

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<v Speaker 2>body cock so I didn't get back until around four

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<v Speaker 2>thirty last night. So by the time, you know, my

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<v Speaker 2>body went to sleep because my body's like, no, you

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<v Speaker 2>should be getting up now around like five ish, even

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<v Speaker 2>though I don't get.

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<v Speaker 3>A fight, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, and so yeah, and then around eight o'clock

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, oh, gross, I'm just gonna get up.

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<v Speaker 1>So so you do that all night and then you

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<v Speaker 1>get up at eight.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yees, I know because I'm not used to that schedule,

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<v Speaker 2>and so tonight tonight's going to be difficult because when

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<v Speaker 2>we wrap the other.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to want this is not my wine

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<v Speaker 3>about it. Let's just go back.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, guys, everything's great, everything's so fun. Uh yeah, no

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<v Speaker 2>those listening. Jana's not with us in the room today.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not in the studio. She's I'm on location. She's

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<v Speaker 2>alive in the field and we're at her house, which

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<v Speaker 2>feels while she's there, I know, it feels weird. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I like this though this feels at least connected, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it like sentimental and weird that I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I do want to go over there to record. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I loved I texted the girls, and I said, hey, girls,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, if you wouldn't mind going to the house

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<v Speaker 2>to record, just because I feel like when you are

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<v Speaker 2>on when we go on Zoom's it's we never know

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<v Speaker 2>when the next when the person's going to talk, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's just you know, Catherine, I just endured the most

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<v Speaker 2>grueling conference CA. I loathe conference calls, so it's just

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<v Speaker 2>and then the best part is like when nobody talks

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<v Speaker 2>and we're like.

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<v Speaker 3>And everyone starts talking at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do it. And I was like, if we

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<v Speaker 1>have to zoom like that, like I would prefer to

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<v Speaker 1>be here because being on Zoom, I just shut up

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, I don't want to talk over people.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the same with the freaking conference call yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my gosh, let's just no one

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<v Speaker 1>talk or everyone talk at the same time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And so Kristen, so I texted you guys and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you know, thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 2>coming over to the house. And Christen's text is funny,

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<v Speaker 2>you want to tell the mem what you said. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, zero problem coming to the house, welcome the

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<v Speaker 2>quiet car ride alone.

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<v Speaker 3>I love you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the highlight of our lives these days. A thirty

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<v Speaker 1>bit car right.

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<v Speaker 3>God, it was beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>So how is how's everything with you guys? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Any any any life updates?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you?

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<v Speaker 1>I see that face? What's your life?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. I don't have one that I probably haven't

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<v Speaker 2>mentioned before. But I have got to get a grip

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<v Speaker 2>on the PMS because once a month, I'm ready to

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<v Speaker 2>burn my whole life to the ground.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's really problematic.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, it's like bad, and I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>to do. And I know, I know, like I know

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<v Speaker 2>that it's coming and and probably some of it is

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<v Speaker 2>so well validated anyways, but you just add this hormonal

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<v Speaker 2>like fire to it and I'm like, burn it all,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's bad, burn it to the ground next stakes

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<v Speaker 2>really something. So I am emotionally stable for the moment,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm excited about that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a rough few days.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I cried on my like on my trip,

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<v Speaker 1>on my period and I was just crying. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I'm on my period. I couldn't stop crying.

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<v Speaker 3>Was that for the cheercump?

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<v Speaker 1>It was the first day that we were there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>someone had said something to me that I was a

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<v Speaker 1>little sensitive too, and then like later another thing and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I just need you all to stop

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<v Speaker 1>telling me stuff. I can't handle it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just like sensitive, oh you know a friend

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<v Speaker 2>of sensitive cat.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It was someone said something about something where

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<v Speaker 1>my child was not invited and she it started to

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<v Speaker 1>trip off. It was like, hey, we're doing this, hope

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<v Speaker 1>she's not upset. And I was like, oh, okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And then fast forward to oh, someone heard that a

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<v Speaker 1>coach said this, and I was like, wait what And

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm literally just like in my room bawling. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like and I'm like, I'm on my period. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't have been that upset normally, you know, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Phone a friend, kick cat.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it was, you know, it was the first

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<v Speaker 1>one was not a misunderstanding. That was just what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>The second one was a misunderstanding because I went.

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<v Speaker 3>To the coach.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, did you say because that was all emotional.

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<v Speaker 3>What did the coach saying?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>She sent me a long sweet email. She was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not how it happened. This is what was said.

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<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah. You know, and it comes from kids

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<v Speaker 1>but it's just one of those I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>they were like, maybe you shouldn't just maybe don't email

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<v Speaker 1>the coach. I'm like, I promised I would call.

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<v Speaker 2>Just in our heart so to understand and yeah, get clarity.

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<v Speaker 1>We did talk about this though we're supposed to wait

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<v Speaker 1>forty four hours.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's what I'm saying in the in these times,

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<v Speaker 2>right around the fifth of the month, in case anybody

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<v Speaker 2>is tracking, I am like, there is no twenty four

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<v Speaker 2>hour weight period. Whoever, that really sweet girl that comes

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<v Speaker 2>in the voice in my head, that's like, you know

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing great, sweetie, keep it up. Just give them

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<v Speaker 2>a minute, be slow to speak biblically, that's what you

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<v Speaker 2>should do.

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<v Speaker 3>She gets replaced with this like.

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<v Speaker 2>Just ratchet shit, who was just ready to just burn

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<v Speaker 2>it all.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, ah, I can't get a grip on my

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<v Speaker 3>own cell. It's really well, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Really glad that you guys are having your period?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you still mamam?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like we should talk about that here?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait what we shouldn't talk about what?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>No, you haven't had a period.

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<v Speaker 3>I am thirteen days late, Danna cream need to cut

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<v Speaker 3>right now, and we have.

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<v Speaker 1>A friendship moment. Then we go back to Erin not

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<v Speaker 1>talk about this on air?

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<v Speaker 3>No, why did you take a test? Well, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think I'm pregnant. I mean, okay, we get some clarification.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what we're going through our minds either, but.

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<v Speaker 2>My way, let me just back up for a second, okay, because.

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<v Speaker 3>All the way because we know where it started.

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<v Speaker 2>So last period I was early and I bled for

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<v Speaker 2>twelve days. So now I'm thirteen days late, and so

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<v Speaker 2>my I'm about to text Nate to be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, what do you think is up? Because I

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<v Speaker 2>think because I bled for twelve days that maybe I'm

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<v Speaker 2>either skipping a period or I have no idea. But

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<v Speaker 2>there's no way I can be well, I mean there's

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<v Speaker 2>always a way, but like we don't. We're not like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't specific.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to get It's.

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<v Speaker 3>Not much.

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<v Speaker 1>Are your chice for everyone? Right now?

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<v Speaker 2>We've been so busy that I don't even think we've

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<v Speaker 2>had I mean we've we've obviously had sex, but like

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<v Speaker 2>we haven't. It's we've been so busy that I it

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<v Speaker 2>would be I don't see not as much as we

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<v Speaker 2>normally ever have. Like it's I'm barely home.

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<v Speaker 1>It just takes one time at the right time, and

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<v Speaker 1>your period was all off. But it's not like he's

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<v Speaker 1>well okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know what I mean, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, wow, wow, Hey, when it's time to have the sex.

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<v Speaker 4>Dog here.

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<v Speaker 1>You can step in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the old but that'll clare it up.

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<v Speaker 3>That's babies are made jilly wow, hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>Mud.

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<v Speaker 1>No, she's like no, because if they then you won't

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<v Speaker 1>get pregnant. That's what she's gonna tell her.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, listen, it's got to be.

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<v Speaker 1>It has to be.

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<v Speaker 2>It has to be because my period was that long,

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<v Speaker 2>because I've never had that long of a period, so

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<v Speaker 2>I must have just maybe maybe I had, like a

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<v Speaker 2>I just won't.

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<v Speaker 3>I won't this month.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't say this to scare you, but I do

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<v Speaker 2>say it is a PSA because there are a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of similar ages of us listening. The forties are a

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<v Speaker 2>very fertile time. Christen surprising, don't no, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Just letting you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think everyone needs to know this because we do

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<v Speaker 2>lose track. It's not necessarily always thirty days or twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five day or whatever you're on, and so because it

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<v Speaker 2>gets crazy, the ovulation times are off so as long

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<v Speaker 2>as you're not, that's one good one defense one. But

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<v Speaker 2>if you don't actually know what I'm saying by those sounds,

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<v Speaker 2>you do totally be fair to say that you're using

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<v Speaker 2>the pull out method method.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what that is, but.

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<v Speaker 1>There you You know you can still get pregnant that way.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like there's a pre cople that I can

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<v Speaker 2>get a girl in trouble.

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<v Speaker 3>Is this happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Can we talk about a couple of months ago though,

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<v Speaker 1>where he did not compe?

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<v Speaker 2>I love that he's turned into something you order a

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<v Speaker 2>take out?

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<v Speaker 3>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>This is what happens when we're not together often?

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<v Speaker 3>Can I take with the sign up? Scott?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait, can we just go back to the matter

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<v Speaker 2>at hand, then try to call my nerves with the

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<v Speaker 2>fact that, given that I've had a really long period, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's most likely the reason why my period hasn't come

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<v Speaker 2>the normal most very menopause.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that is the moral of the story, right, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>More likely, especially because we are using a pull out method,

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<v Speaker 2>we can call it for what it is. Because we are,

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<v Speaker 2>it seems more likely that this is very very menopausal

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<v Speaker 2>moment and less of a baby on board.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, oh boy, yes, I mean I again, I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>even think. I didn't even have it on the forefront

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<v Speaker 2>of my mind. Well, producer Hannah's in the chat. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you have a pregnancy test that we can take a

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<v Speaker 2>lot on air? Oh my gosh, you want to instacart

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<v Speaker 2>me a pregnancy test?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh huh sure and take it? Sure? Door dash me one.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, here we go, our.

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<v Speaker 1>Phones are over there. Take care of it after air.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, should we get Alan on?

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<v Speaker 1>He's probably like what it would.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so on brand for.

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<v Speaker 2>Us though, that we would take a pregnancy test for

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<v Speaker 2>our baby and then let Alan in second. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>it's not moving on. Okay anyway, Wow, well that derailed

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<v Speaker 2>really quite nicely.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So you guys, Oh no, I'm starting to get like nervous,

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<v Speaker 2>but no, I would I yeah. Anyways, okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're doing nights, you're working the night shift. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so that's the that's been the hardest part is the

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<v Speaker 2>night shifts. Everything else has been just I am obsessed

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<v Speaker 2>with this crew and Haley duff Is. She's actually probably

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<v Speaker 2>one of my favorite directors I've ever worked with. She's

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<v Speaker 2>so good. And I don't know if it's because she's

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<v Speaker 2>an actress and so she she kind of gets it,

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<v Speaker 2>and but she is just she's so so, so talented

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<v Speaker 2>and so good. So we're having a blast. But man,

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<v Speaker 2>those night shoots are killing me because I just I

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<v Speaker 2>don't I don't like sleeping during the day.

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<v Speaker 3>What kind of film is this? Are we can we

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<v Speaker 3>know anything? It is a horse It's it's like it's

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<v Speaker 3>like The Notebook, but with horses.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I really like this, Yeah, it's really. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>some of these scenes are just I sent Catherine some

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<v Speaker 2>just stunning. I mean, with the sunset coming down and

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<v Speaker 2>there's this beautiful bridge. It is it is just it

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<v Speaker 2>is such a beautiful, beautiful film. Do you kiss the

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<v Speaker 2>boys cinematically? I do? Yes, Oh just a kiss, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's a couple. It's not it's not anything rang

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<v Speaker 2>she though, it's it's it's beautiful, Like, it's so pretty.

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<v Speaker 2>Like even one of the videos that I sent Ane

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<v Speaker 2>was me. It was the scene of me kissing him,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was and there was a piece of me

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<v Speaker 2>that like wanted to send to Alan just to show

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<v Speaker 2>him how beauty.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it looks beautiful. But like I didn't obviously, but

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<v Speaker 3>it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like it's not not tasteful, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>so it's artistically beautiful how it looks with the sunset.

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<v Speaker 2>And then like at the end of the scene, like

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<v Speaker 2>these two birds like swam onto the river. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>it was like so cute, very notebook a very No,

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<v Speaker 2>We're in a boat in one of the scenes, like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm under the bridge, like it's it's just beautiful. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm having I'm having a great time. I just I

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<v Speaker 2>really missed my kids. I'm I'm on the last week,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, this this coming week, so I'm ready to

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<v Speaker 2>I'm ready to see my babies.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was wondering if you felt emotional and missing them. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, today's today's field day, so I'm struggling with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't missed one, so that one's been that's been tough.

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<v Speaker 3>Is Alan there? Yeah, and got to represent for the

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<v Speaker 3>home team so that was cool. That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and he uh he went to some of the

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<v Speaker 2>kids games and stuff too to represent. So that was

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<v Speaker 2>nice because I'm like that that's got to mean a

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<v Speaker 2>lot for the kids to see you showing up with

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<v Speaker 2>Roman and it meant a lot. It meant a lot

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<v Speaker 2>to me that he went and did that too. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 2>it's good consistency for them too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it is for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>And they come up to see you this weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yep, Mother's Day so good? Excited you guys? Excited

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<v Speaker 3>for Mother's Day?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I never plans guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to know something I started a few

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<v Speaker 2>years ago and I kept it a secret until just recently. Yep,

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<v Speaker 2>I do something called mother Monday Mother's Day. Okay, I'd

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<v Speaker 2>take a second Mother's Day for myself. So they always

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<v Speaker 2>are sweet on Mother's Day there. My family is really

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<v Speaker 2>really great about that. And sometimes I feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't maybe get the break that I kind of hoped

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<v Speaker 2>I would or something, and so so it helps me

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<v Speaker 2>to know that there's like a two day coming for me.

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<v Speaker 2>So whether I meet a friend on Monday, or I

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<v Speaker 2>just go get it like a really pretty cup of

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<v Speaker 2>tea somewhere or whatever and just go to the sauna, whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>it is just my own second Mother's Day, which I

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<v Speaker 2>think we all deserve two anyways, So Monday, Mother's Day,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I think I might just go get like a

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<v Speaker 2>really pretty coffee somewhere and so that way, whatever they

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<v Speaker 2>do Sunday, we actually have a rescheduled baseball game Sunday.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like, yeah, I don't have any expectation for it.

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<v Speaker 2>I just before it has been hijacked by family or

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<v Speaker 2>We've even had radio guys in town before on Mother's

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<v Speaker 2>Day and I've hosted them before, and it's just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like you're just like, Okay, I need something that is

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<v Speaker 2>a little redeeming. So Monday, Mother's Day, for anybody that

0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:47.800
<v Speaker 2>needs to hear that should be a thing. Well, people

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<v Speaker 2>will be listening to this on the Monday after Mother's Day.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's maybe maybe take a one day this week

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<v Speaker 2>to take time for yourself. Yeah, just get your own

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<v Speaker 2>little redemption. And in that note, let's take a break

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<v Speaker 2>and head to one. It all right, ladies, what do

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<v Speaker 2>you got? Let's hear some wine. Oh it's funny you

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<v Speaker 2>should say. This is a quick one. But people that

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<v Speaker 2>don't mute on zoom was actually on my list on

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<v Speaker 2>a list that I have for you. I can't stand

0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:28.000
<v Speaker 2>zoom etiquette. People that don't have it. It's really wild.

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<v Speaker 1>You can I hear the background while like everybody's talking.

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<v Speaker 2>We're doing a camp at school. I'm gonna I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>really just throw a couple of people under the bus, Brenda.

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<v Speaker 2>And we were doing we're doing a camp at school,

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<v Speaker 2>and so the counselors had this debrief zoom and I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>several people weren't muted. First of all, aren't they terrified

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<v Speaker 2>to not be muted? Terrified just in case?

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<v Speaker 3>Right right?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, a live mic has got all of us

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<v Speaker 2>mining our p's and ques, so except for capaw times.

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<v Speaker 2>And then it's like we get on the zoom and

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<v Speaker 2>there's like seven people that aren't muted, and every time

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<v Speaker 2>it's cutting off the speaker.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the worst. I'm like, guys, what are we doing here?

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<v Speaker 3>That was actually one of mine. Just if you're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be on zoom, just camera off, microphone off? Are you

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<v Speaker 3>even there?

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<v Speaker 2>We don't know, Brenda, but we want to not have

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<v Speaker 2>confirmation via learning about your menu for dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, M's it's little.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like the opposite of like kids now

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<v Speaker 1>they'll be on FaceTime all the time and they'll be

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<v Speaker 1>walking around the house like just on FaceTime with no

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<v Speaker 1>one and you don't know. So you're like in the

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<v Speaker 1>house being.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, hey, get to and then they'll be like on

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<v Speaker 4>the phone, I'm like, oh hey, Johnny, how's it going,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, like it drives me insane. Johnny is like,

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<v Speaker 4>dear Diary, it happens all the time, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>you have to announce when you were on FaceTime and

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<v Speaker 4>you walk into the kitchen, Hey, I might walk out

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<v Speaker 4>in my underwear.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know, right, it drives me crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I did tell Love the other day.

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<v Speaker 2>She's doing a cheer She's this is actually something I

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<v Speaker 2>want to ask you guys. It doesn't have to be today,

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<v Speaker 2>but there's a cheer group face time that's been happening.

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<v Speaker 2>And I felt the same way, and I said, when

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<v Speaker 2>this house goes live, I need to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you gotta know.

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<v Speaker 3>Because dad Dad comes out in the morning with boss

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<v Speaker 3>and a cup of coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like this day and age. I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like like one morning Nick walks out in his

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<v Speaker 1>underwear and like Emmy's friend is like it's like seven

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning and she's standing in the living room.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, oh, hey, like they just she just like

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<v Speaker 1>showed up before school and he was like, yeah, come on,

0:18:26.200 --> 0:18:28.239
<v Speaker 1>we'll walk because they can walk to school because we're

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<v Speaker 1>right across the street. So it's like you cannot have

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<v Speaker 1>people come over and not tell us well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because that kid is going to maybe tell a

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<v Speaker 2>different story to their parents.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, shoot, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Like my god, I was walking around with that's that's

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<v Speaker 3>the stuff I think about, like right, oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's terrifying. But it's always like a known around

0:18:47.280 --> 0:18:49.720
<v Speaker 1>makes you mind your peace and qu'es a little bit better. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like yelling at the family gramer you get a line.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I really don't which yeah, no, I really don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think at least I mean minus night shoots.

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<v Speaker 2>Not a big fan of alls.

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<v Speaker 1>But so I have a question about that for they

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<v Speaker 1>not since you've got night shoots for like a week

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<v Speaker 1>and then you go off of night shoots and then

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<v Speaker 1>you do night shoots again, can they not plan it

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<v Speaker 1>to where you do all night shoots in a row

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<v Speaker 1>and then come off of them.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of it has to do with locations, you know,

0:19:19.080 --> 0:19:21.960
<v Speaker 2>getting out of locations certain locations at a time, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard to do a week straight of nights, so

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<v Speaker 2>they try.

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<v Speaker 1>To do three and three, Like three three seems worse. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And then you got to keep adjusting your body.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. No, it's not I mean, it is not. It's

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<v Speaker 3>not great.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well it's also got to be tricky too. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just like I go kind of back to like

0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:43.520
<v Speaker 2>newborn phase. Rights, Like we we go on the night

0:19:43.560 --> 0:19:45.359
<v Speaker 2>shifts then, but like during the day we can like

0:19:45.960 --> 0:19:49.400
<v Speaker 2>side ponytail and be a complete train wreck and get

0:19:49.440 --> 0:19:51.720
<v Speaker 2>ourselves through the next night shift. But like, you can't

0:19:51.800 --> 0:19:54.840
<v Speaker 2>do that because you have to be stunning and on

0:19:55.040 --> 0:19:59.600
<v Speaker 2>your game and knowing your lines, and that's different. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a real next level for me. Yeah, I mean, you

0:20:04.200 --> 0:20:06.480
<v Speaker 2>know what I think, what I'm trying to do right

0:20:06.560 --> 0:20:09.600
<v Speaker 2>now is in one week, I'll be out of a job.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm trying to be grateful, even though it's hard,

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<v Speaker 2>grateful in a situation where I would normally go, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>this sucks and I hate these night shoots to go hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, in about a week, I'm gonna wish that

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<v Speaker 2>I was on something and shooting and having a job.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's fair. Sorry, I've got pregnancy on the mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so there might be four of us on the zoom,

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<v Speaker 1>but be worried about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I will say I have a justice coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Is coming, Hannah said, I have to go back on Live.

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<v Speaker 2>I I have.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not really a whine about it. It's more of

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<v Speaker 3>a conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. So, remember how last week I talked about the nanny,

0:20:50.840 --> 0:20:54.400
<v Speaker 2>but I didn't ask about that. I didn't say what happened.

0:20:55.080 --> 0:20:57.520
<v Speaker 2>And it was so interesting to me how many people

0:20:57.720 --> 0:21:02.680
<v Speaker 2>wanted to know the the full story. And I kind

0:21:02.720 --> 0:21:04.399
<v Speaker 2>of went like back and forth of even sharing it

0:21:04.520 --> 0:21:09.040
<v Speaker 2>last week and then you know, but it's like everybody

0:21:09.160 --> 0:21:12.720
<v Speaker 2>just wants to know more and more and like just

0:21:13.680 --> 0:21:16.000
<v Speaker 2>and here's the deal. I get it on one end

0:21:16.040 --> 0:21:18.320
<v Speaker 2>where it's like, hey, let warn us mom, so we

0:21:18.960 --> 0:21:20.760
<v Speaker 2>know what to look out for, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 2>get that piece of explaining for example, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>when I said about the sleepsack that I went over

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<v Speaker 2>Jason's face that wanted to like, I think those are

0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:32.359
<v Speaker 2>warning things, like you know, to tell parents, like, hey,

0:21:32.400 --> 0:21:34.680
<v Speaker 2>this is what happened with this one sleepsack. It wasn't

0:21:34.720 --> 0:21:39.240
<v Speaker 2>good in our experience. But I just wonder what is

0:21:39.320 --> 0:21:42.920
<v Speaker 2>too much to tell? And in today's size society, everybody

0:21:43.040 --> 0:21:46.120
<v Speaker 2>just wants to know more and they just I don't

0:21:46.119 --> 0:21:47.440
<v Speaker 2>know what a is y'all's thoughts on that.

0:21:48.200 --> 0:21:49.879
<v Speaker 1>I think they definitely just want to know more. And

0:21:50.040 --> 0:21:54.879
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you sharing that story really helps anyone.

0:21:55.200 --> 0:21:58.520
<v Speaker 1>It's kind of an outlier type situation, not something that

0:21:58.640 --> 0:22:01.879
<v Speaker 1>normally would probably happen. I don't think that there's a

0:22:02.560 --> 0:22:06.240
<v Speaker 1>usefulness in telling that story, and honestly, it probably just

0:22:06.400 --> 0:22:10.480
<v Speaker 1>hurts people in the in the process. Yeah, but I

0:22:10.600 --> 0:22:12.800
<v Speaker 1>agree with like sleepsac and stuff like that. But yeah,

0:22:12.800 --> 0:22:17.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just think everyone's so used to you,

0:22:17.760 --> 0:22:21.200
<v Speaker 1>especially in some cases and other people especially in giving

0:22:21.240 --> 0:22:23.560
<v Speaker 1>it all, and so when you don't give it all,

0:22:23.680 --> 0:22:26.600
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of that expectation of wait, what, like we

0:22:26.720 --> 0:22:29.520
<v Speaker 1>deserve to know the whole story, and that's not the case.

0:22:29.760 --> 0:22:32.560
<v Speaker 1>You know, you get to decide when you share more

0:22:32.600 --> 0:22:34.080
<v Speaker 1>and when you don't know.

0:22:35.119 --> 0:22:36.160
<v Speaker 3>I did feel it though.

0:22:36.520 --> 0:22:38.280
<v Speaker 2>I had a few people ask me what happened, which

0:22:38.320 --> 0:22:40.640
<v Speaker 2>I always think that's funny, like I'm gonna just yeah.

0:22:42.240 --> 0:22:46.280
<v Speaker 2>But I I watched it objectively, like I'm a listener,

0:22:46.320 --> 0:22:50.120
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, man, it is probably something I would

0:22:50.160 --> 0:22:51.000
<v Speaker 2>go like, Okay, what is it?

0:22:51.080 --> 0:22:52.640
<v Speaker 3>But I think it is worth just saying.

0:22:53.000 --> 0:22:55.240
<v Speaker 2>It's not like a safety as far as like in

0:22:55.359 --> 0:22:57.600
<v Speaker 2>the home or like a choking or like a It

0:22:57.760 --> 0:23:00.160
<v Speaker 2>isn't like cat. To Cat's point, it's just nothing mean

0:23:00.200 --> 0:23:04.400
<v Speaker 2>that it's such a one off situation that I don't

0:23:04.440 --> 0:23:08.919
<v Speaker 2>think that it is fair to share even right, unless

0:23:08.920 --> 0:23:11.320
<v Speaker 2>you want to share it. No, I mean, I think

0:23:11.359 --> 0:23:13.760
<v Speaker 2>it's one of those things where it's like I, you know,

0:23:13.880 --> 0:23:17.359
<v Speaker 2>maybe some one of her it could it could just

0:23:17.480 --> 0:23:21.760
<v Speaker 2>really hurt her. And though it could have really you know,

0:23:21.880 --> 0:23:23.600
<v Speaker 2>my mind goes to what could have happened to him

0:23:23.680 --> 0:23:29.159
<v Speaker 2>in that situation, But I just you know, yeah, I

0:23:29.520 --> 0:23:32.080
<v Speaker 2>still even though it was wrong, I still in a

0:23:32.119 --> 0:23:36.080
<v Speaker 2>way want to protect that where you know, that's it's

0:23:36.160 --> 0:23:39.760
<v Speaker 2>really embarrassing, you know what it was and not a good.

0:23:39.760 --> 0:23:44.080
<v Speaker 1>So well, And I think people can make mistakes. That

0:23:44.160 --> 0:23:46.600
<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean that she did not deserve the outcome that

0:23:46.720 --> 0:23:49.080
<v Speaker 1>came to her. Like I think we have consequences for

0:23:49.160 --> 0:23:51.720
<v Speaker 1>our mistakes. But she's allowed to make a mistake and

0:23:51.840 --> 0:23:54.639
<v Speaker 1>not be humiliated by it and not be and not

0:23:55.320 --> 0:23:57.399
<v Speaker 1>have people reach out to her. You just never know,

0:23:57.720 --> 0:24:00.240
<v Speaker 1>like people could start attacking her and that's not it. Okay,

0:24:00.480 --> 0:24:02.920
<v Speaker 1>that's not what you want out of the no situation.

0:24:03.119 --> 0:24:04.879
<v Speaker 1>It's getting tricky. We even kind of.

0:24:05.119 --> 0:24:08.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I texted this to y'all or

0:24:08.040 --> 0:24:11.040
<v Speaker 2>if I started to, but it is tricky because the

0:24:11.119 --> 0:24:13.960
<v Speaker 2>three of us are so authentically sharing our life experiences

0:24:14.040 --> 0:24:16.440
<v Speaker 2>right now that are resonating very deeply, which is really

0:24:16.480 --> 0:24:20.639
<v Speaker 2>cool to me. But there is like this weird middle

0:24:20.680 --> 0:24:23.560
<v Speaker 2>ground where we're trying to like protect people, like share

0:24:23.640 --> 0:24:27.960
<v Speaker 2>funny stories and want to share our life experiences without

0:24:28.000 --> 0:24:30.920
<v Speaker 2>like throwing someone under the bus. And you know, like

0:24:31.760 --> 0:24:33.680
<v Speaker 2>I had I had something the other day that I

0:24:33.800 --> 0:24:36.920
<v Speaker 2>was like, this would be incredible, but I have to

0:24:36.960 --> 0:24:39.200
<v Speaker 2>also be mindful, like who I am married to, and

0:24:39.280 --> 0:24:41.680
<v Speaker 2>he is in the spotlight some way somewhat, so like, well,

0:24:41.720 --> 0:24:43.960
<v Speaker 2>it is probably just a very it's a laughable We

0:24:44.040 --> 0:24:46.160
<v Speaker 2>would all, I already know, we'd all agree it would

0:24:46.200 --> 0:24:48.840
<v Speaker 2>be hysterical, and many people would resonate on the husband front,

0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:53.840
<v Speaker 2>like I'm also protected protective in a way. So it's

0:24:53.880 --> 0:24:55.720
<v Speaker 2>interesting you should say that because I really have been

0:24:55.760 --> 0:24:58.320
<v Speaker 2>thinking lately, like how do I how do I bring

0:24:58.400 --> 0:25:00.280
<v Speaker 2>some of these situations up but then protect to the

0:25:00.320 --> 0:25:02.159
<v Speaker 2>people in my life that they might be about, or

0:25:02.320 --> 0:25:04.639
<v Speaker 2>just get a cast to characters so that we can

0:25:04.680 --> 0:25:07.280
<v Speaker 2>all relate and laugh and move on without making anybody

0:25:07.320 --> 0:25:09.640
<v Speaker 2>have hurt feelings, right exactly.

0:25:10.160 --> 0:25:10.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's tricky.

0:25:10.880 --> 0:25:12.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm working on that too well.

0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:14.440
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like that too, because I tell a

0:25:14.480 --> 0:25:16.640
<v Speaker 1>lot of like kids, you know, stuff about my kids,

0:25:16.680 --> 0:25:18.920
<v Speaker 1>and there's a lot I hold back on. But I'm

0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:22.120
<v Speaker 1>usually pretty good at, you know, you know, saying hey,

0:25:22.200 --> 0:25:24.240
<v Speaker 1>I talked about this, I talked about this, you know whatever,

0:25:24.400 --> 0:25:26.680
<v Speaker 1>And I do make sure. There are times I text

0:25:26.720 --> 0:25:29.120
<v Speaker 1>the producers so people know and I say, I don't

0:25:29.240 --> 0:25:31.520
<v Speaker 1>want what I talked about on there as a clip

0:25:31.600 --> 0:25:35.200
<v Speaker 1>on social media, because even though my daughter's aware I

0:25:35.280 --> 0:25:37.120
<v Speaker 1>talked about this, or my son's aware that I talked

0:25:37.160 --> 0:25:40.600
<v Speaker 1>about this, he doesn't want or she doesn't want their

0:25:40.720 --> 0:25:43.560
<v Speaker 1>friends to necessarily see it on social media. So I

0:25:43.600 --> 0:25:46.439
<v Speaker 1>think there's a protection mechanism there as well, like they

0:25:46.520 --> 0:25:48.639
<v Speaker 1>don't care that I talked about it. But kids can

0:25:48.680 --> 0:25:51.320
<v Speaker 1>be mean, so if it becomes something on social media,

0:25:51.880 --> 0:25:53.600
<v Speaker 1>they'll share it and send it to them and they'll

0:25:53.640 --> 0:25:57.680
<v Speaker 1>say things, So you just have to find ways sometimes

0:25:57.760 --> 0:25:59.320
<v Speaker 1>if they're I mean, I you know, I make sure

0:25:59.359 --> 0:26:02.280
<v Speaker 1>that they're okay with usually what everything that I share.

0:26:02.440 --> 0:26:03.639
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, it's tricky.

0:26:03.720 --> 0:26:05.800
<v Speaker 1>It is it's very tricky, but I agree. I think

0:26:05.840 --> 0:26:07.760
<v Speaker 1>that you did the right thing in this situation, and

0:26:08.000 --> 0:26:11.680
<v Speaker 1>just you know, that's something that's between y'all. And but

0:26:11.800 --> 0:26:16.560
<v Speaker 1>speaking of have you figured it out anymore? Okay?

0:26:17.760 --> 0:26:19.800
<v Speaker 3>Are we on the help front? We don't.

0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:23.160
<v Speaker 2>We have we have Sarah who's been helping a few

0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:26.480
<v Speaker 2>hours when you know, Allan needs at the home and stuff.

0:26:26.560 --> 0:26:29.359
<v Speaker 2>But now we haven't found anyone that and it's like,

0:26:29.440 --> 0:26:31.080
<v Speaker 2>I want to meet the person, you know, so I'm here.

0:26:31.160 --> 0:26:33.159
<v Speaker 3>It's just so hard. So hopefully when I get back

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:35.560
<v Speaker 3>from Lexington, we'll we'll figure it out. Yeah.

0:26:36.960 --> 0:26:40.119
<v Speaker 2>Dancing with the Star of Sharna Burgess reveals controversial decision

0:26:40.119 --> 0:26:42.680
<v Speaker 2>about baby number two with Brian Austin green So. She

0:26:42.920 --> 0:26:47.760
<v Speaker 2>said on her podcast that she thinks they're going to

0:26:47.840 --> 0:26:50.560
<v Speaker 2>make what some consider a controversial choice. She wants to

0:26:50.600 --> 0:26:52.879
<v Speaker 2>have a girl, so she wants to do gender selection

0:26:53.240 --> 0:26:58.679
<v Speaker 2>via IVF. Ladies, what are your thoughts? I know, Katherine,

0:26:58.680 --> 0:26:59.960
<v Speaker 2>I want to go. I want to go to Catherine first.

0:27:00.200 --> 0:27:01.120
<v Speaker 1>Do I go to me first?

0:27:01.320 --> 0:27:01.480
<v Speaker 2>I do?

0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:06.280
<v Speaker 3>Oh, you're wearing your gender reveal sweater, so it's yeah.

0:27:07.320 --> 0:27:10.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean no, I'm not no, I'm not a fan

0:27:11.080 --> 0:27:14.040
<v Speaker 1>to each their own. I don't love it. I didn't

0:27:14.040 --> 0:27:16.479
<v Speaker 1>know it's a thing, if I'm being honest, I mean,

0:27:16.520 --> 0:27:19.199
<v Speaker 1>I guess I realized it could be, but I never

0:27:19.280 --> 0:27:19.960
<v Speaker 1>really thought about it.

0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:23.040
<v Speaker 2>Like for example, when you like, when I did IVF

0:27:23.320 --> 0:27:27.680
<v Speaker 2>I had, I knew that I had two boys. So

0:27:27.960 --> 0:27:30.000
<v Speaker 2>those were the one that those were the genders. And

0:27:30.359 --> 0:27:32.480
<v Speaker 2>you can you can choose to know what the gender is,

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:34.040
<v Speaker 2>or you can choose to not know what the gender

0:27:34.160 --> 0:27:37.119
<v Speaker 2>is and just you know, put whatever one in. So

0:27:37.240 --> 0:27:39.240
<v Speaker 2>I knew that when I lost the one, it lost

0:27:39.280 --> 0:27:42.840
<v Speaker 2>a boy, and the other one was also a boy.

0:27:43.480 --> 0:27:49.919
<v Speaker 2>And so but if there was if we had you know, Jolie,

0:27:49.960 --> 0:27:51.880
<v Speaker 2>and it was you know, a girl or a boy

0:27:51.920 --> 0:27:55.280
<v Speaker 2>and a boy, like I'd be like, well I would.

0:27:55.200 --> 0:27:55.840
<v Speaker 3>Like a boy, you know.

0:27:56.000 --> 0:27:57.960
<v Speaker 2>But that's just what you have with that, And that's

0:27:58.000 --> 0:28:00.920
<v Speaker 2>the piece of the science where it's that is where

0:28:00.960 --> 0:28:02.440
<v Speaker 2>it does get controversial, you know.

0:28:02.720 --> 0:28:06.240
<v Speaker 3>And I think, you know, looking.

0:28:06.119 --> 0:28:09.639
<v Speaker 2>Back, I probably if I was to do it again,

0:28:09.800 --> 0:28:11.920
<v Speaker 2>I would probably just I wouldn't want to know and

0:28:12.000 --> 0:28:13.119
<v Speaker 2>I would just put in.

0:28:13.320 --> 0:28:16.760
<v Speaker 3>But also I mean, I also don't I see why.

0:28:17.720 --> 0:28:18.080
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:28:18.280 --> 0:28:21.200
<v Speaker 1>It's it's tough, it's that's a tough one. Its just

0:28:21.480 --> 0:28:24.040
<v Speaker 1>and I get it's science. I understand all of that.

0:28:24.200 --> 0:28:28.080
<v Speaker 1>And at the end of the day, my argument would be, well,

0:28:29.119 --> 0:28:31.159
<v Speaker 1>the same thing could be said for IVF in general.

0:28:31.440 --> 0:28:31.600
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:28:31.880 --> 0:28:35.200
<v Speaker 1>So it's it's hard. I think that it's a slippery slope,

0:28:35.800 --> 0:28:37.720
<v Speaker 1>and I think that we have to be careful.

0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:39.480
<v Speaker 3>Right because like, what are you doing with the other embryos?

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:40.240
<v Speaker 2>What do you do?

0:28:40.400 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Also, we start picking all these genders, what's going to

0:28:44.040 --> 0:28:48.760
<v Speaker 1>happen to natural like recreation, you know, Like again that's

0:28:48.800 --> 0:28:51.520
<v Speaker 1>getting bigger and more, you know whatever. But like if

0:28:51.560 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 1>we get to a point where everybody's picking if they

0:28:53.480 --> 0:28:56.640
<v Speaker 1>have a boy or girl, that could just be that

0:28:56.800 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 1>could get that could get tricky, you know. But I

0:29:00.960 --> 0:29:03.200
<v Speaker 1>don't know, that's a really hard one. I understand if

0:29:03.240 --> 0:29:05.320
<v Speaker 1>you had a boy sitting there and you wanted a boy, Okay,

0:29:05.360 --> 0:29:06.120
<v Speaker 1>let's put the boy in.

0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:09.080
<v Speaker 3>Because if you're not picking someone is.

0:29:10.600 --> 0:29:13.080
<v Speaker 1>Right like ill girl with That's what I'm saying. So

0:29:13.200 --> 0:29:15.400
<v Speaker 1>like my argument is like, let's lead that, let's lead

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:18.480
<v Speaker 1>that up to God obviously, but within vitro already you're

0:29:18.520 --> 0:29:20.560
<v Speaker 1>not I mean, that's essentially making a baby.

0:29:22.320 --> 0:29:24.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know what I'm saying, the doctor could pick.

0:29:26.160 --> 0:29:28.720
<v Speaker 2>Does the doctor pick? I mean, it's already like made

0:29:28.920 --> 0:29:30.720
<v Speaker 2>boy or girl? Yeah, right, do they know what we're

0:29:30.800 --> 0:29:31.160
<v Speaker 2>putting in?

0:29:31.640 --> 0:29:32.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean I guess they would. Yeah.

0:29:33.000 --> 0:29:38.240
<v Speaker 2>We have friends that picked both times, and so I

0:29:38.280 --> 0:29:41.800
<v Speaker 2>don't know, and they're both just such beautiful, fun kids.

0:29:42.000 --> 0:29:45.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I just never It's there's a lot that

0:29:45.680 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 2>goes into this process. I think people who've never walked

0:29:49.080 --> 0:29:52.040
<v Speaker 2>it don't know. Like I've worked a lot in this

0:29:52.160 --> 0:29:55.600
<v Speaker 2>space with a lot of moms, and there's this really

0:29:56.920 --> 0:29:59.560
<v Speaker 2>tricky to navigate. What do you do with the embryos

0:29:59.600 --> 0:30:03.400
<v Speaker 2>that you never for you know, moved over and so

0:30:03.600 --> 0:30:06.680
<v Speaker 2>like I have, you know, really dear friends of mine there,

0:30:06.720 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 2>Like I still have two babies in my eyes, I

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:10.680
<v Speaker 2>still have two babies there. What do I do with

0:30:10.760 --> 0:30:14.800
<v Speaker 2>my babies? That's a really it's like a really heavy

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:17.760
<v Speaker 2>decision for a mom. Yeah, I mean I can't imagine.

0:30:17.800 --> 0:30:20.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean, we had used all our embryos. If I

0:30:20.440 --> 0:30:22.440
<v Speaker 2>knew that their embryos left, I mean, that would be

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:25.080
<v Speaker 2>so hard hard, It's really hard.

0:30:25.680 --> 0:30:27.240
<v Speaker 1>Well, we were just talking about that. I was talking

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:29.280
<v Speaker 1>about some other friends about this. The other day, someone

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 1>had an embryo that you know they can sit there

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:32.600
<v Speaker 1>for That was thirty.

0:30:32.440 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 3>Years yeah, oh wow, And I thought it was like ten.

0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 1>Or fifteen or I don't know, but it was. It

0:30:38.000 --> 0:30:41.000
<v Speaker 1>was a long time. I think it's until you stop

0:30:41.120 --> 0:30:43.360
<v Speaker 1>paying for it, like you can pay for it to

0:30:43.440 --> 0:30:48.480
<v Speaker 1>stay there. Wow, that'd be hard, which is bizarre, right, Yeah?

0:30:48.520 --> 0:30:50.680
<v Speaker 2>What would you guys do if you were in that situation,

0:30:51.720 --> 0:30:53.920
<v Speaker 2>Like if I could choose, or if you had, if

0:30:53.960 --> 0:30:55.080
<v Speaker 2>you had an embryo.

0:30:56.440 --> 0:30:58.080
<v Speaker 3>Last over from in vitro.

0:30:58.360 --> 0:31:02.080
<v Speaker 1>I would probably have adopted it out, Like.

0:31:02.160 --> 0:31:04.920
<v Speaker 3>How could do that? And then but then would you

0:31:04.960 --> 0:31:06.040
<v Speaker 3>have tried to find the baby?

0:31:07.080 --> 0:31:10.160
<v Speaker 1>Well, you try it. I think the same rules for

0:31:10.240 --> 0:31:13.960
<v Speaker 1>adoption apply in that situation. I actually had a friend

0:31:14.000 --> 0:31:17.200
<v Speaker 1>who did that, who adopted an embryo. I think you

0:31:17.280 --> 0:31:19.440
<v Speaker 1>can do an open adoption or closed it. I think

0:31:19.480 --> 0:31:22.960
<v Speaker 1>all that still applies for that. So if I was

0:31:23.080 --> 0:31:25.400
<v Speaker 1>for sure done, did not want any more children, and

0:31:25.440 --> 0:31:27.760
<v Speaker 1>there's an embryo there, I would adopt it out, and

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:32.520
<v Speaker 1>probably if Nick was on board, I probably would have

0:31:32.560 --> 0:31:37.200
<v Speaker 1>done open adoption to where we could yeah, like know

0:31:37.440 --> 0:31:38.560
<v Speaker 1>and see and all that.

0:31:39.480 --> 0:31:42.920
<v Speaker 2>I could not do that, guys, I mean I hate Yeah,

0:31:43.000 --> 0:31:45.720
<v Speaker 2>it's a different honest, I sometimes forget that we're recording

0:31:45.760 --> 0:31:47.080
<v Speaker 2>in a way that I'm like, oh, who's going to

0:31:47.120 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 2>come at me? But I I don't know. I don't

0:31:50.120 --> 0:31:52.080
<v Speaker 2>know that I could do that. I don't know I

0:31:52.840 --> 0:31:55.800
<v Speaker 2>have there's no mby for this decision for me at all,

0:31:55.880 --> 0:31:58.160
<v Speaker 2>because the women who I know that are in this position,

0:31:58.280 --> 0:32:01.080
<v Speaker 2>it's so heavy on their heart. And and two of

0:32:01.160 --> 0:32:04.280
<v Speaker 2>the women that I know quite literally couldn't carry that

0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:07.320
<v Speaker 2>baby even if they wanted to go back in. And

0:32:07.480 --> 0:32:10.480
<v Speaker 2>so that's just so it's just so emotional. Oh yeah,

0:32:10.560 --> 0:32:12.840
<v Speaker 2>for sure, I don't and I don't think if I

0:32:13.040 --> 0:32:14.320
<v Speaker 2>could do the adoption piece.

0:32:14.600 --> 0:32:21.000
<v Speaker 3>I I don't know. I don't know. It's an impossible decision.

0:32:21.000 --> 0:32:22.800
<v Speaker 1>It's a hard decision. Yeah, sure, I mean, and I

0:32:22.840 --> 0:32:24.600
<v Speaker 1>can't say for sure because I'm not in that position.

0:32:24.800 --> 0:32:27.120
<v Speaker 1>But I know you're seeing confident about it. Well, I knew,

0:32:27.200 --> 0:32:29.000
<v Speaker 1>just like if Nick was on board, I'm like, God,

0:32:29.000 --> 0:32:31.920
<v Speaker 1>I even thought about what preston. It's only because I

0:32:32.080 --> 0:32:34.920
<v Speaker 1>knew someone who adopted an embryo that I've thought about

0:32:34.960 --> 0:32:35.520
<v Speaker 1>this before.

0:32:35.720 --> 0:32:37.000
<v Speaker 3>It's special, yeah, and a.

0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:40.360
<v Speaker 2>Gift that is truly the gift of a lifetime.

0:32:40.440 --> 0:32:43.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I you know, I I don't know that

0:32:43.280 --> 0:32:46.000
<v Speaker 1>I would be This sounds terrible like if if if

0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:47.840
<v Speaker 1>that was an ad option, to adopt it out and

0:32:47.960 --> 0:32:50.040
<v Speaker 1>it was like, Okay, you've got embryos sitting there and

0:32:50.440 --> 0:32:53.400
<v Speaker 1>we're done having children. This just has to like go away.

0:32:53.600 --> 0:32:58.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't necessarily feel like, oh my god, I just

0:32:58.480 --> 0:33:01.120
<v Speaker 1>like my baby's just gone, like I killed my baby,

0:33:01.200 --> 0:33:01.760
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean.

0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:02.720
<v Speaker 3>Like, I don't know.

0:33:04.280 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 1>That gets real philosophical. I don't know how I would.

0:33:06.920 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't necessarily feel like I did something wrong not

0:33:10.840 --> 0:33:13.040
<v Speaker 1>adopting it out right, right, I just know that that

0:33:13.120 --> 0:33:16.760
<v Speaker 1>would be a blessing to someone sure that could use that.

0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:18.280
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's just so much.

0:33:18.280 --> 0:33:20.720
<v Speaker 1>That's tricky. That's yeah, that's that's deep. But hey, for

0:33:20.800 --> 0:33:22.920
<v Speaker 1>all the boys that he's got, i'd guess I don't

0:33:22.920 --> 0:33:24.080
<v Speaker 1>blame her for wanting a girl.

0:33:24.560 --> 0:33:26.200
<v Speaker 3>I mean, imagine a little one of her.

0:33:27.600 --> 0:33:27.800
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:33:29.080 --> 0:33:31.280
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean no, no, you know that's that's a

0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:33.480
<v Speaker 3>tough one. But I totally get it.

0:33:46.040 --> 0:33:49.280
<v Speaker 2>Ladies, there's a real Housewives of Rhode Island coming, Catherine.

0:33:49.320 --> 0:33:51.520
<v Speaker 1>Do you know that I knew there was? Is it

0:33:51.640 --> 0:33:52.160
<v Speaker 1>Rhode Island?

0:33:52.640 --> 0:33:55.880
<v Speaker 2>It's Rhode Island. It's coming abro to a new franchise addition,

0:33:56.160 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 2>which I think Rhode Island is so beautiful.

0:34:00.440 --> 0:34:01.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that would be kind.

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:04.000
<v Speaker 2>And there's something like it's not Hampton's, but it's kind

0:34:04.040 --> 0:34:07.200
<v Speaker 2>of upscale, right. Yeah.

0:34:07.240 --> 0:34:09.080
<v Speaker 1>For some reason, I was thinking there was a Paris

0:34:09.160 --> 0:34:10.319
<v Speaker 1>one coming. Did I make that up?

0:34:11.800 --> 0:34:14.040
<v Speaker 3>Or maybe it was like still Nashville.

0:34:14.400 --> 0:34:15.320
<v Speaker 1>Still know Nashville.

0:34:15.400 --> 0:34:15.719
<v Speaker 3>I think.

0:34:15.800 --> 0:34:17.880
<v Speaker 2>Actually, I'm really surprised. I know they've tried it a

0:34:17.920 --> 0:34:20.279
<v Speaker 2>million times, but I'm still surprised there isn't one.

0:34:20.920 --> 0:34:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I think they could do one if they stop trying

0:34:23.680 --> 0:34:27.320
<v Speaker 1>to get all these like country wives one thousands, go

0:34:27.560 --> 0:34:31.000
<v Speaker 1>get the people that live down like and live in

0:34:31.080 --> 0:34:34.440
<v Speaker 1>that house down there, that's just like the freaking surgeon's

0:34:34.480 --> 0:34:35.759
<v Speaker 1>wife or something like one.

0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:39.719
<v Speaker 2>Try thousand percent every time they try to recruit the

0:34:39.760 --> 0:34:40.319
<v Speaker 2>country wives.

0:34:40.480 --> 0:34:43.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's not what. I don't know. It just doesn't work.

0:34:43.280 --> 0:34:43.759
<v Speaker 1>For some reason.

0:34:43.800 --> 0:34:45.719
<v Speaker 2>They can have on the country wife, you know, like

0:34:46.200 --> 0:34:49.040
<v Speaker 2>get put one of them on there, like, uh, what's

0:34:49.080 --> 0:34:51.160
<v Speaker 2>his face? Luke Brian's wife, Like she'd be great, she'd

0:34:51.200 --> 0:34:51.560
<v Speaker 2>be funny.

0:34:52.280 --> 0:34:54.800
<v Speaker 1>The rest it's just then you mix them all in

0:34:54.960 --> 0:34:57.279
<v Speaker 1>and just make them like oh yeah, I'd watch it,

0:34:57.360 --> 0:34:58.920
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I don't know why it keeps failing.

0:35:00.000 --> 0:35:02.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean, put Pam on there with you know, like

0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:08.040
<v Speaker 2>it would be be so good, there would be amazing. Hey, ladies,

0:35:08.120 --> 0:35:10.919
<v Speaker 2>love listening to the podcast all the way in Australia. Jane,

0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:12.200
<v Speaker 2>I've loved decent s wander Hill.

0:35:12.280 --> 0:35:12.560
<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

0:35:12.880 --> 0:35:17.000
<v Speaker 2>My family life has been disrupted recently. My stepsister has

0:35:17.040 --> 0:35:20.759
<v Speaker 2>said some truly horrible things about my mom, her stepmom

0:35:21.040 --> 0:35:23.719
<v Speaker 2>of thirty one years. The things she has said are

0:35:23.800 --> 0:35:26.160
<v Speaker 2>so upsetting and go against all that I know and

0:35:26.280 --> 0:35:28.880
<v Speaker 2>believe and remember about our childhood. She is refusing to

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:31.920
<v Speaker 2>speak to or see her, and I'm left feeling like

0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:34.760
<v Speaker 2>piggy in the middle. I do not believe these accusations,

0:35:35.239 --> 0:35:38.320
<v Speaker 2>but I don't want to dismiss my stepsister's feelings. But

0:35:38.480 --> 0:35:41.320
<v Speaker 2>she is acting like nothing is wrong around me, and

0:35:41.400 --> 0:35:43.880
<v Speaker 2>I feel horrible for my mom and stepdad, who are

0:35:44.160 --> 0:35:46.480
<v Speaker 2>reeling from what she has said. Do I let them

0:35:46.520 --> 0:35:48.480
<v Speaker 2>sort it out themselves or tell my sister I don't

0:35:48.560 --> 0:35:49.879
<v Speaker 2>like the way she has treated my mom.

0:35:50.000 --> 0:35:53.640
<v Speaker 3>Thank you and would love your thoughts, ladies.

0:35:54.040 --> 0:35:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I think kind of all of the above, I think

0:35:56.719 --> 0:36:01.120
<v Speaker 1>that you can tell her that you I don't necessarily

0:36:01.480 --> 0:36:04.320
<v Speaker 1>love what she's saying or how she's treating them, but

0:36:04.440 --> 0:36:09.000
<v Speaker 1>I think she has to remember that people remember things differently.

0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 1>You know, you can live in the same household and

0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:15.359
<v Speaker 1>come out feeling two completely different ways about the way

0:36:15.440 --> 0:36:18.200
<v Speaker 1>you grew up. And it sounds like maybe that's what's

0:36:18.239 --> 0:36:20.520
<v Speaker 1>happening a little bit. But I think you can say,

0:36:20.640 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 1>I understand you remember this differently than I remember this,

0:36:23.840 --> 0:36:26.719
<v Speaker 1>or mom remembers this or Dad remembers this, but it

0:36:26.840 --> 0:36:30.319
<v Speaker 1>doesn't invalidate your feelings. You have your feelings and y'all

0:36:30.360 --> 0:36:35.120
<v Speaker 1>need to sort that out, but also and maybe not

0:36:35.320 --> 0:36:38.640
<v Speaker 1>treat them so terribly. And let's just y'all need to

0:36:38.680 --> 0:36:40.279
<v Speaker 1>sit down and work it out and then stay out

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:40.440
<v Speaker 1>of it.

0:36:40.600 --> 0:36:41.080
<v Speaker 3>That's what I.

0:36:42.560 --> 0:36:44.759
<v Speaker 1>After that, after you said your peace, let them figure

0:36:44.800 --> 0:36:45.800
<v Speaker 1>it out. That's my opinion.

0:36:46.719 --> 0:36:49.080
<v Speaker 2>To piggyback off of that, I'll just say I have

0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:54.120
<v Speaker 2>not many people know this because I don't share this often,

0:36:55.600 --> 0:37:01.799
<v Speaker 2>not because I'm like I have, not because I don't

0:37:01.880 --> 0:37:04.120
<v Speaker 2>want to. But I have two half sisters. I'm not

0:37:04.320 --> 0:37:07.800
<v Speaker 2>really close with them just because they were I was

0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:11.600
<v Speaker 2>nineteen eighteen, nineteen twenty somewhere around there when they were

0:37:11.680 --> 0:37:13.800
<v Speaker 2>born and I was already living in Los Angeles, and

0:37:13.920 --> 0:37:17.719
<v Speaker 2>so my experience with my dad is wildly different from

0:37:17.840 --> 0:37:21.640
<v Speaker 2>their experience, you know, with their dad, you know, and

0:37:21.719 --> 0:37:24.799
<v Speaker 2>how I've handled certain things are are different, and they

0:37:25.480 --> 0:37:29.480
<v Speaker 2>they probably are confuse why I've said certain things about

0:37:29.840 --> 0:37:32.759
<v Speaker 2>their dad, But also it was my experience and it

0:37:32.840 --> 0:37:37.080
<v Speaker 2>wasn't theirs, you know, So I think there's worlds where

0:37:38.320 --> 0:37:39.560
<v Speaker 2>they can be different, and.

0:37:41.680 --> 0:37:44.800
<v Speaker 3>They like, I had to how do I say this?

0:37:44.960 --> 0:37:47.040
<v Speaker 2>Like if if my two half sisters came to me

0:37:47.080 --> 0:37:48.920
<v Speaker 2>and they were like, stop talking bad about dad, I'd

0:37:48.920 --> 0:37:52.279
<v Speaker 2>be like, you have no idea? Like what? So I

0:37:52.480 --> 0:37:57.239
<v Speaker 2>had to sort it through almost myself, you know. Yeah,

0:37:57.280 --> 0:38:01.520
<v Speaker 2>it's tricky. I was trying to think. I I had

0:38:01.560 --> 0:38:03.919
<v Speaker 2>to take my own emotion out of it, as she's

0:38:04.239 --> 0:38:07.560
<v Speaker 2>as you were, as I was listening, because I'm someone

0:38:07.640 --> 0:38:11.440
<v Speaker 2>that has craved family to protect me so much that

0:38:11.640 --> 0:38:15.000
<v Speaker 2>part of me is going I love the idea of

0:38:15.080 --> 0:38:16.560
<v Speaker 2>someone coming in and saying like, I don't like the

0:38:16.560 --> 0:38:20.239
<v Speaker 2>way you're treating this person, because I don't ever have

0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:23.160
<v Speaker 2>that in my own world. So like literally ever, and

0:38:23.320 --> 0:38:25.719
<v Speaker 2>it's like the gas lighting comes and the shaming and

0:38:25.760 --> 0:38:27.400
<v Speaker 2>you're like, Okay, I that shouldn't even spoken up in

0:38:27.400 --> 0:38:29.839
<v Speaker 2>the first place. So it's like exhausting, and so I don't.

0:38:30.760 --> 0:38:33.359
<v Speaker 2>Part of me thinks it's really wonderful to have someone

0:38:33.440 --> 0:38:34.920
<v Speaker 2>say like I don't like the way you spoke to

0:38:35.000 --> 0:38:37.640
<v Speaker 2>her or what you've said about my mom, And then

0:38:37.719 --> 0:38:40.680
<v Speaker 2>the other part of me is like, everyone's experience is

0:38:40.760 --> 0:38:42.399
<v Speaker 2>so different. My brother and I are twenty one months

0:38:42.440 --> 0:38:46.040
<v Speaker 2>apart and you, so we grew up very close in

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:48.640
<v Speaker 2>age in the same house, and what he tolerates and

0:38:48.719 --> 0:38:52.399
<v Speaker 2>what I tolerate are just completely different. So it really

0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:55.480
<v Speaker 2>is up to like the level of healing and the

0:38:55.560 --> 0:38:57.680
<v Speaker 2>level of work, and you know what, are people even

0:38:57.719 --> 0:39:00.040
<v Speaker 2>willing to hear? Is another thing because I think I

0:39:00.040 --> 0:39:02.279
<v Speaker 2>think you can say a lot of things to a

0:39:02.320 --> 0:39:04.000
<v Speaker 2>lot of people, but if they're not in a position

0:39:04.080 --> 0:39:05.879
<v Speaker 2>that's helpy enough to even hear it, then that could

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:09.280
<v Speaker 2>just be a big waste your energy. Too right, tricky,

0:39:09.680 --> 0:39:12.600
<v Speaker 2>And I always go back to too there must be

0:39:12.960 --> 0:39:15.160
<v Speaker 2>it's I know it's hard for certain people to hear

0:39:15.280 --> 0:39:19.520
<v Speaker 2>things about their parent that isn't in their experience, but

0:39:19.640 --> 0:39:23.480
<v Speaker 2>I also think to lean into maybe talking to your

0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:26.759
<v Speaker 2>stepsister and going what what is your elect to help

0:39:26.800 --> 0:39:29.160
<v Speaker 2>me understand what your experience is and lean into them

0:39:29.880 --> 0:39:32.279
<v Speaker 2>to maybe help them that way, instead of being like,

0:39:32.320 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 2>don't talk about them and be like, why do you

0:39:34.120 --> 0:39:36.160
<v Speaker 2>feel this way? Like what happened that maybe I don't

0:39:36.200 --> 0:39:39.320
<v Speaker 2>know about, you know, to have that, for you to

0:39:39.560 --> 0:39:41.719
<v Speaker 2>have that experience or for you to say those things,

0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:44.040
<v Speaker 2>you know. So I'm like, I don't think someone just

0:39:44.120 --> 0:39:48.240
<v Speaker 2>starts treating someone or saying things if something didn't happen

0:39:48.560 --> 0:39:50.360
<v Speaker 2>or there wasn't or they had an experience.

0:39:50.440 --> 0:39:51.080
<v Speaker 3>Do you know what I mean?

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeahah, I mean there's something has happened for her to

0:39:54.920 --> 0:39:59.279
<v Speaker 1>feel that way exactly, And whether that you agree or

0:39:59.320 --> 0:40:03.040
<v Speaker 1>disagree with the situation, she still feels that way. And

0:40:03.160 --> 0:40:04.520
<v Speaker 1>so I think that that has to be heard.

0:40:05.160 --> 0:40:10.280
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Hannah, how far out is the test front desk?

0:40:11.239 --> 0:40:14.719
<v Speaker 3>I said the president, don't worry. So wait, we'll wait.

0:40:15.200 --> 0:40:15.960
<v Speaker 1>I'll be right back.

0:40:16.239 --> 0:40:20.600
<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's in a bag. It's under Hannah's name.

0:40:21.040 --> 0:40:23.759
<v Speaker 1>Oh how did that happen so fast?

0:40:23.800 --> 0:40:24.720
<v Speaker 3>Hannah is my girl.

0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:26.640
<v Speaker 1>I love how she just we're just gonna keep talking

0:40:26.640 --> 0:40:29.040
<v Speaker 1>while she's not here. I love how she came on

0:40:29.160 --> 0:40:31.200
<v Speaker 1>to say that her period was thirteen days late and

0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:34.920
<v Speaker 1>did not think that we would think.

0:40:35.239 --> 0:40:37.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tell her I'm gonna tell a story about

0:40:37.560 --> 0:40:40.840
<v Speaker 2>a friend because she's now public and she's told the story.

0:40:40.960 --> 0:40:43.560
<v Speaker 3>But my friend Cassie Kelly is pregnant and she's done.

0:40:43.719 --> 0:40:44.120
<v Speaker 3>I saw that.

0:40:44.280 --> 0:40:45.600
<v Speaker 1>That's so exciting.

0:40:46.480 --> 0:40:50.000
<v Speaker 2>She wrote to me when she first found out, and

0:40:50.120 --> 0:40:52.239
<v Speaker 2>she was like, Kristen, I just thought I was on perimenopause.

0:40:52.280 --> 0:40:54.360
<v Speaker 2>And she now sends to shared that on her Instagram.

0:40:54.400 --> 0:40:55.919
<v Speaker 2>So that's why I feel comfortable telling the story.

0:40:56.000 --> 0:40:56.799
<v Speaker 3>But bless her.

0:40:57.080 --> 0:40:58.959
<v Speaker 2>She's like, I'm forty two and she's like, I didn't

0:40:59.000 --> 0:41:01.760
<v Speaker 2>It didn't even cross my mind. I mean, they had trouble.

0:41:01.840 --> 0:41:04.040
<v Speaker 2>She's also shared this, so you know, it was not

0:41:04.200 --> 0:41:06.640
<v Speaker 2>easy to get ward. They're very handsome nine year old

0:41:06.760 --> 0:41:09.919
<v Speaker 2>and so he's now nine and she's like, oh, for sure.

0:41:10.560 --> 0:41:13.439
<v Speaker 2>Trainer was the one that was like, have you thought

0:41:13.480 --> 0:41:14.360
<v Speaker 2>that he could be pregnant?

0:41:14.440 --> 0:41:15.840
<v Speaker 3>She was like no, I just wow.

0:41:15.920 --> 0:41:17.319
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't register with people.

0:41:17.680 --> 0:41:21.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it's wild, especially with Cramer because she had

0:41:21.080 --> 0:41:23.000
<v Speaker 2>this baby. She's still going to get her pregnancy test

0:41:23.000 --> 0:41:25.680
<v Speaker 2>from the front desk. She had her last baby in

0:41:25.960 --> 0:41:28.640
<v Speaker 2>the forties. At forties, right, you know, but for me, like,

0:41:28.760 --> 0:41:30.600
<v Speaker 2>it's not off my radar because we just had one

0:41:30.640 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 2>at forty one, right, So I'm like, yeah, and I

0:41:32.320 --> 0:41:34.719
<v Speaker 2>could see where it would be for Cassie for sure,

0:41:34.800 --> 0:41:37.400
<v Speaker 2>oh yeah, because it's like but even for Janet kind

0:41:37.440 --> 0:41:39.080
<v Speaker 2>of was off for a second too, because she had

0:41:39.160 --> 0:41:42.319
<v Speaker 2>trouble with like they used yeah, you know, to get

0:41:42.400 --> 0:41:45.000
<v Speaker 2>Jolie and Jason. It wasn't easy, and so she thought, well,

0:41:45.040 --> 0:41:47.319
<v Speaker 2>there's no way that we would be such and then

0:41:47.400 --> 0:41:49.480
<v Speaker 2>there's just sweet Roman, man, he's just so meant to be.

0:41:49.880 --> 0:41:50.480
<v Speaker 3>You made a way.

0:41:51.560 --> 0:41:53.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm dying that she's about to take this test right now.

0:41:53.960 --> 0:41:55.120
<v Speaker 3>It's thirteen days.

0:41:56.360 --> 0:41:59.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean, if I'm thirteen days late, if i'm one day,

0:42:00.040 --> 0:42:03.120
<v Speaker 2>two days, I'm testing, and I've gotta be I don't

0:42:03.160 --> 0:42:04.799
<v Speaker 2>mean this to be mean great.

0:42:04.840 --> 0:42:06.799
<v Speaker 3>I'm glad you're back because this includes you're talking about.

0:42:06.840 --> 0:42:08.719
<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't be taking a test with you guys first.

0:42:08.760 --> 0:42:09.880
<v Speaker 3>This is what I really like about you.

0:42:11.000 --> 0:42:11.560
<v Speaker 1>She's doing it.

0:42:11.719 --> 0:42:13.600
<v Speaker 3>I can't be you know what I mean, that's totally

0:42:13.719 --> 0:42:15.399
<v Speaker 3>not sure. But we're gonna find out together.

0:42:15.440 --> 0:42:20.719
<v Speaker 1>Literally thirteen days I didn't even think about. That's what

0:42:20.840 --> 0:42:24.040
<v Speaker 1>we're laughing about. The fact that the thought never crossed

0:42:24.080 --> 0:42:26.920
<v Speaker 1>your mind? And my immediate response was was should we

0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:28.680
<v Speaker 1>be talking about this right now? And you're like, yeah,

0:42:28.719 --> 0:42:32.319
<v Speaker 1>what's the problem. I'm like, duh, what do you mean? Okay,

0:42:32.360 --> 0:42:34.600
<v Speaker 1>go pee on that stick. We got a couple of minutes.

0:42:34.680 --> 0:42:36.000
<v Speaker 3>Let's go. We can kill three minutes.

0:42:36.120 --> 0:42:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Alan's going to die?

0:42:37.600 --> 0:42:38.840
<v Speaker 3>Do you want to FaceTime Alan?

0:42:38.920 --> 0:42:39.319
<v Speaker 1>In the meaning?

0:42:39.400 --> 0:42:39.440
<v Speaker 5>No?

0:42:39.760 --> 0:42:41.160
<v Speaker 1>No, No, he's gonta find out later.

0:42:41.200 --> 0:42:46.480
<v Speaker 3>Okay, pee right back, get up. She's our number one girl.

0:42:48.640 --> 0:42:51.279
<v Speaker 2>What would happen if this is going to be the

0:42:51.360 --> 0:42:54.040
<v Speaker 2>most epic podcast of all time? If this chick is

0:42:54.680 --> 0:42:57.960
<v Speaker 2>we all find out together? Who's calling Allen?

0:42:58.040 --> 0:42:58.840
<v Speaker 4>What will we do?

0:42:59.280 --> 0:43:01.879
<v Speaker 1>He's down stairs? How would we walk down while she's

0:43:01.920 --> 0:43:02.920
<v Speaker 1>there and keep it?

0:43:03.680 --> 0:43:06.439
<v Speaker 3>We wouldn't. We would hole up here in this little

0:43:06.520 --> 0:43:08.640
<v Speaker 3>tree house back and we would just wait.

0:43:09.440 --> 0:43:12.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, make him listen to the podcast to

0:43:12.160 --> 0:43:15.920
<v Speaker 1>find out we're This is so creamer.

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<v Speaker 3>There's no way I would do this with you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>First never.

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<v Speaker 3>She actually got mad at me the other day.

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<v Speaker 2>She got mad at me the other day because because

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't tell you guys right away about the baby.

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<v Speaker 1>What baby?

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<v Speaker 3>The last baby? Lying girl?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I was like is there another baby?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't take it.

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<v Speaker 3>No baby, No, so opposite that I'm raging out so nobody.

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<v Speaker 1>It would be really fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Where I get nervous when you say that if we.

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<v Speaker 5>Did a podcast just me and you without her, like

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<v Speaker 5>we're doing this and just talk about her like she's God,

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<v Speaker 5>she's already back three minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a timer on?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it a timer fascinate? Accurate?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, it's asked inaccurate. I can't handle this. This

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<v Speaker 1>is making you tell us if it actually.

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<v Speaker 3>Says yeah, no, I will.

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<v Speaker 1>We were just about how we wouldn't be able to

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<v Speaker 1>walk downstairs because Alan is here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm not going would be so awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, we would just hold up here. We could

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<v Speaker 2>door dash, we could do whatever, but we're not going

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<v Speaker 2>down it.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, while you were gone, we decided we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>do a podcast without you one day.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just gonna talk about it, but we keep telling

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<v Speaker 2>stories about you while you're not here, while you walk away.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. You got re mad at me because

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<v Speaker 2>you were like, yeah, and you didn't even tell me

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<v Speaker 2>about your secret baby.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was like, what secret baby? We have

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<v Speaker 1>another baby? No baby?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Okay, okay, no, stop.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the other thing I can't take about her.

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<v Speaker 2>She's gonna she's really good at acting. People need to

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<v Speaker 2>This should be an audition tape.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. I can't take this. I don't like this

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<v Speaker 1>at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait a minute, you guys, we've got your two

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<v Speaker 2>minutes and I'm gonna need you to turn that thing.

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<v Speaker 3>You know when you like see the like faint line,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't Can you turn it? Danna, Janna? This is

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<v Speaker 3>such a bad idea. This is a perfect idea. Tell

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<v Speaker 3>us what you're seeing.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Like, she's like really looking, so it's not no, because.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's not, you don't have to really look, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, I see a faint line. This is how

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<v Speaker 2>Romans started with a fat yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you turn the damn thing? Hold on, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>get close to.

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<v Speaker 3>We all need our reader. We shouldn't be having babies.

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<v Speaker 3>You see the faint line. Oh, it's going to be

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<v Speaker 3>a it would be a whoa whoa. No wait, wait

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<v Speaker 3>where do we look the tiny box or the big

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<v Speaker 3>box on the big box.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't see it here. I'm not pregnant. Okay, this

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<v Speaker 2>just turned into a whole different podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not pregnant. No, now, I don't see it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw the tiny box and the tiny box plus

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<v Speaker 2>the big box, and I'm like, oh, boy, are you

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to combine the two because.

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<v Speaker 1>We might have we might have to really even think

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<v Speaker 1>we're good if.

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<v Speaker 3>You combine the things. Yeah, we're good, We'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 3>We're good. Okay, right, we'll talk to you guys next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, can I get some closure?

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<v Speaker 2>Bye?

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<v Speaker 3>The cold stop doesn't work for me right after the

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<v Speaker 3>negative bregnancy doesn't bumble that down. I'm gonna go until then.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone, if you don't want to get pregnant, you should

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<v Speaker 2>keep your umpows to yourself, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Bye guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye,