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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hi ladies, Hi, how is weird? I'm not used to

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Speaker 1: looking at kristin this way, and you know it's a stranger.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited about my lighting today, I hope, and I

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Speaker 2: look like absolutely trash.

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Speaker 3: Then I know it's a met issue. This is going

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Speaker 3: to be really great or really mad.

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Speaker 1: Every time we get here and Kristen's sitting there real fast,

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Speaker 1: I'll take this spot.

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Speaker 3: That is so funny.

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Speaker 2: No, you guys, are you guys controlled the captain Schip today?

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Speaker 2: I know, I don't know that if anywhere I could

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Speaker 2: have seen the last ten minutes, I was just.

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Speaker 3: If this was flames.

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Speaker 1: We're not directors.

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Speaker 3: Can I can we get you guys in a two shot?

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, like on.

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Speaker 2: My lingo on set now, I don't know that I'm

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Speaker 2: googling two shot you're grabbing. I've one stand all right?

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Speaker 1: So do you have a day off today, Cramer?

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Speaker 3: No, girls, I'm on nights. I'm on five to five.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 3: Whoa nocturn?

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Speaker 2: Jana, I gotta tell you it's uh, that's the hardest

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Speaker 2: part about all of this is the nights because my

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Speaker 2: body cock so I didn't get back until around four

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Speaker 2: thirty last night. So by the time, you know, my

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Speaker 2: body went to sleep because my body's like, no, you

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Speaker 2: should be getting up now around like five ish, even

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Speaker 2: though I don't get.

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Speaker 3: A fight, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, and so yeah, and then around eight o'clock

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Speaker 2: it's like, oh, gross, I'm just gonna get up.

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Speaker 1: So so you do that all night and then you

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Speaker 1: get up at eight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yees, I know because I'm not used to that schedule,

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Speaker 2: and so tonight tonight's going to be difficult because when

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Speaker 2: we wrap the other.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to want this is not my wine

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Speaker 3: about it. Let's just go back.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, everything's great, everything's so fun. Uh yeah, no

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Speaker 2: those listening. Jana's not with us in the room today.

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Speaker 2: She's not in the studio. She's I'm on location. She's

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Speaker 2: alive in the field and we're at her house, which

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Speaker 2: feels while she's there, I know, it feels weird. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I like this though this feels at least connected, you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 2: Is it like sentimental and weird that I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I do want to go over there to record. No,

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Speaker 2: I loved I texted the girls, and I said, hey, girls,

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Speaker 2: you know, if you wouldn't mind going to the house

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Speaker 2: to record, just because I feel like when you are

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Speaker 2: on when we go on Zoom's it's we never know

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Speaker 2: when the next when the person's going to talk, and

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Speaker 2: it's just you know, Catherine, I just endured the most

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Speaker 2: grueling conference CA. I loathe conference calls, so it's just

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Speaker 2: and then the best part is like when nobody talks

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Speaker 2: and we're like.

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Speaker 3: And everyone starts talking at the same time.

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Speaker 1: I can't do it. And I was like, if we

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Speaker 1: have to zoom like that, like I would prefer to

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Speaker 1: be here because being on Zoom, I just shut up

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Speaker 1: because I'm like, I don't want to talk over people.

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Speaker 1: And that's the same with the freaking conference call yesterday.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, let's just no one

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And so Kristen, so I texted you guys and

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Speaker 2: I was like, you know, thank you so much for

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Speaker 2: coming over to the house. And Christen's text is funny,

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Speaker 2: you want to tell the mem what you said. I

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Speaker 2: was like, zero problem coming to the house, welcome the

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Speaker 2: quiet car ride alone.

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Speaker 3: I love you so much.

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Speaker 1: That's the highlight of our lives these days. A thirty

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Speaker 1: bit car right.

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Speaker 3: God, it was beautiful.

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Speaker 2: So how is how's everything with you guys? What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Any any any life updates?

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Speaker 4: Do you?

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Speaker 1: I see that face? What's your life?

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't have one that I probably haven't

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Speaker 2: mentioned before. But I have got to get a grip

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Speaker 2: on the PMS because once a month, I'm ready to

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Speaker 2: burn my whole life to the ground.

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Speaker 3: And it's really problematic.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, it's like bad, and I don't know what

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Speaker 2: to do. And I know, I know, like I know

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Speaker 2: that it's coming and and probably some of it is

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Speaker 2: so well validated anyways, but you just add this hormonal

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Speaker 2: like fire to it and I'm like, burn it all,

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Speaker 2: like it's bad, burn it to the ground next stakes

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Speaker 2: really something. So I am emotionally stable for the moment,

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Speaker 2: and I'm excited about that.

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Speaker 3: It's been a rough few days.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I cried on my like on my trip,

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Speaker 1: on my period and I was just crying. I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm on my period. I couldn't stop crying.

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Speaker 3: Was that for the cheercump?

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Speaker 1: It was the first day that we were there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: someone had said something to me that I was a

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Speaker 1: little sensitive too, and then like later another thing and

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Speaker 1: I was like, I just need you all to stop

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Speaker 1: telling me stuff. I can't handle it.

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Speaker 2: And I just like sensitive, oh you know a friend

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Speaker 2: of sensitive cat.

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Speaker 1: You know. It was someone said something about something where

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Speaker 1: my child was not invited and she it started to

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Speaker 1: trip off. It was like, hey, we're doing this, hope

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Speaker 1: she's not upset. And I was like, oh, okay, cool.

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Speaker 1: And then fast forward to oh, someone heard that a

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Speaker 1: coach said this, and I was like, wait what And

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Speaker 1: so I'm literally just like in my room bawling. I'm

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Speaker 1: like and I'm like, I'm on my period. I know,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't have been that upset normally, you know, like.

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Speaker 3: Phone a friend, kick cat.

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Speaker 1: It's just it was, you know, it was the first

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Speaker 1: one was not a misunderstanding. That was just what it was.

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Speaker 1: The second one was a misunderstanding because I went.

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Speaker 3: To the coach.

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Speaker 1: I was like, did you say because that was all emotional.

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Speaker 3: What did the coach saying?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: She sent me a long sweet email. She was like,

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Speaker 1: that's not how it happened. This is what was said.

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Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. You know, and it comes from kids

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Speaker 1: but it's just one of those I was just like,

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Speaker 1: they were like, maybe you shouldn't just maybe don't email

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Speaker 1: the coach. I'm like, I promised I would call.

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Speaker 2: Just in our heart so to understand and yeah, get clarity.

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Speaker 1: We did talk about this though we're supposed to wait

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Speaker 1: forty four hours.

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Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying in the in these times,

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Speaker 2: right around the fifth of the month, in case anybody

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Speaker 2: is tracking, I am like, there is no twenty four

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Speaker 2: hour weight period. Whoever, that really sweet girl that comes

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Speaker 2: in the voice in my head, that's like, you know

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Speaker 2: you're doing great, sweetie, keep it up. Just give them

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Speaker 2: a minute, be slow to speak biblically, that's what you

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Speaker 3: She gets replaced with this like.

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Speaker 2: Just ratchet shit, who was just ready to just burn

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Speaker 3: I'm like, ah, I can't get a grip on my

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Speaker 3: own cell. It's really well, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Really glad that you guys are having your period?

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Speaker 3: Are you still mamam?

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like we should talk about that here?

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Speaker 3: Wait what we shouldn't talk about what?

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Speaker 4: Wait?

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Speaker 1: No, you haven't had a period.

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Speaker 3: I am thirteen days late, Danna cream need to cut

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Speaker 3: right now, and we have.

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Speaker 1: A friendship moment. Then we go back to Erin not

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Speaker 1: talk about this on air?

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Speaker 3: No, why did you take a test? Well, I don't

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Speaker 3: think I'm pregnant. I mean, okay, we get some clarification.

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Speaker 3: That's what we're going through our minds either, but.

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Speaker 2: My way, let me just back up for a second, okay, because.

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Speaker 3: All the way because we know where it started.

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Speaker 2: So last period I was early and I bled for

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Speaker 2: twelve days. So now I'm thirteen days late, and so

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Speaker 2: my I'm about to text Nate to be like, hey,

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Speaker 2: you know, what do you think is up? Because I

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Speaker 2: think because I bled for twelve days that maybe I'm

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Speaker 2: either skipping a period or I have no idea. But

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Speaker 2: there's no way I can be well, I mean there's

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Speaker 2: always a way, but like we don't. We're not like

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Speaker 2: I don't specific.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to get It's.

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Speaker 3: Not much.

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Speaker 1: Are your chice for everyone? Right now?

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Speaker 2: We've been so busy that I don't even think we've

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Speaker 2: had I mean we've we've obviously had sex, but like

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Speaker 2: we haven't. It's we've been so busy that I it

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Speaker 1: It just takes one time at the right time, and

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Speaker 1: your period was all off. But it's not like he's

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Speaker 1: well okay.

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Speaker 3: And you know what I mean, like.

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Speaker 2: Wow, wow, wow, Hey, when it's time to have the sex.

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Speaker 4: Dog here.

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Speaker 1: You can step in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the old but that'll clare it up.

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Speaker 3: That's babies are made jilly wow, hilarious.

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Speaker 2: Mud.

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Speaker 1: No, she's like no, because if they then you won't

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Speaker 1: get pregnant. That's what she's gonna tell her.

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Speaker 3: Okay, listen, it's got to be.

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Speaker 1: It has to be.

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Speaker 2: It has to be because my period was that long,

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Speaker 2: because I've never had that long of a period, so

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Speaker 2: I must have just maybe maybe I had, like a

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Speaker 2: I just won't.

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Speaker 3: I won't this month.

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Speaker 2: I don't say this to scare you, but I do

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Speaker 2: say it is a PSA because there are a lot

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Speaker 2: of similar ages of us listening. The forties are a

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Speaker 2: very fertile time. Christen surprising, don't no, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Just letting you know.

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Speaker 2: I think everyone needs to know this because we do

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Speaker 2: lose track. It's not necessarily always thirty days or twenty

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Speaker 2: gets crazy, the ovulation times are off so as long

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Speaker 2: as you're not, that's one good one defense one. But

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Speaker 2: if you don't actually know what I'm saying by those sounds,

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Speaker 2: you do totally be fair to say that you're using

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Speaker 2: the pull out method method.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what that is, but.

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Speaker 1: There you You know you can still get pregnant that way.

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Speaker 3: Right, I know.

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Speaker 2: But it's like there's a pre cople that I can

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Speaker 2: get a girl in trouble.

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Speaker 3: Is this happening?

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Speaker 1: Can we talk about a couple of months ago though,

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Speaker 1: where he did not compe?

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Speaker 2: I love that he's turned into something you order a

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Speaker 2: take out?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: This is what happens when we're not together often?

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Speaker 3: Can I take with the sign up? Scott?

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, can we just go back to the matter

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Speaker 3: Right, Yep, Mother's Day so good? Excited you guys? Excited

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Speaker 2: So let's maybe maybe take a one day this week

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Speaker 3: That was actually one of mine. Just if you're gonna

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Speaker 2: We don't know, Brenda, but we want to not have

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Speaker 3: Like my god, I was walking around with that's that's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's terrifying. But it's always like a known around

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Speaker 1: but be worried about it.

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00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,040
Speaker 3: I will say I have a justice coming.

442
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:41,880
Speaker 1: Is coming, Hannah said, I have to go back on Live.

443
00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:44,960
Speaker 2: I I have.

444
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:46,920
Speaker 3: It's not really a whine about it. It's more of

445
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 3: a conversation.

446
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,399
Speaker 2: Right. So, remember how last week I talked about the nanny,

447
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:54,400
Speaker 2: but I didn't ask about that. I didn't say what happened.

448
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 2: And it was so interesting to me how many people

449
00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:02,680
Speaker 2: wanted to know the the full story. And I kind

450
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 2: of went like back and forth of even sharing it

451
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 2: last week and then you know, but it's like everybody

452
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 2: just wants to know more and more and like just

453
00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 2: and here's the deal. I get it on one end

454
00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 2: where it's like, hey, let warn us mom, so we

455
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 2: know what to look out for, you know, like I

456
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:25,560
Speaker 2: get that piece of explaining for example, you know, like

457
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 2: when I said about the sleepsack that I went over

458
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:30,520
Speaker 2: Jason's face that wanted to like, I think those are

459
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,359
Speaker 2: warning things, like you know, to tell parents, like, hey,

460
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,680
Speaker 2: this is what happened with this one sleepsack. It wasn't

461
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:39,240
Speaker 2: good in our experience. But I just wonder what is

462
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 2: too much to tell? And in today's size society, everybody

463
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:46,120
Speaker 2: just wants to know more and they just I don't

464
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 2: know what a is y'all's thoughts on that.

465
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 1: I think they definitely just want to know more. And

466
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 1: I don't think you sharing that story really helps anyone.

467
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 1: It's kind of an outlier type situation, not something that

468
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,879
Speaker 1: normally would probably happen. I don't think that there's a

469
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 1: usefulness in telling that story, and honestly, it probably just

470
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 1: hurts people in the in the process. Yeah, but I

471
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: agree with like sleepsac and stuff like that. But yeah,

472
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I just think everyone's so used to you,

473
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:21,200
Speaker 1: especially in some cases and other people especially in giving

474
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 1: it all, and so when you don't give it all,

475
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: it's kind of that expectation of wait, what, like we

476
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: deserve to know the whole story, and that's not the case.

477
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 1: You know, you get to decide when you share more

478
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 1: and when you don't know.

479
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 3: I did feel it though.

480
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 2: I had a few people ask me what happened, which

481
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,640
Speaker 2: I always think that's funny, like I'm gonna just yeah.

482
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 2: But I I watched it objectively, like I'm a listener,

483
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:50,120
Speaker 2: and I'm like, man, it is probably something I would

484
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 2: go like, Okay, what is it?

485
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:52,640
Speaker 3: But I think it is worth just saying.

486
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 2: It's not like a safety as far as like in

487
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 2: the home or like a choking or like a It

488
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,160
Speaker 2: isn't like cat. To Cat's point, it's just nothing mean

489
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 2: that it's such a one off situation that I don't

490
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:08,919
Speaker 2: think that it is fair to share even right, unless

491
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 2: you want to share it. No, I mean, I think

492
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 2: it's one of those things where it's like I, you know,

493
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 2: maybe some one of her it could it could just

494
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: really hurt her. And though it could have really you know,

495
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 2: my mind goes to what could have happened to him

496
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 2: in that situation, But I just you know, yeah, I

497
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 2: still even though it was wrong, I still in a

498
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 2: way want to protect that where you know, that's it's

499
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 2: really embarrassing, you know what it was and not a good.

500
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 1: So well, And I think people can make mistakes. That

501
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that she did not deserve the outcome that

502
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 1: came to her. Like I think we have consequences for

503
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: our mistakes. But she's allowed to make a mistake and

504
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: not be humiliated by it and not be and not

505
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: have people reach out to her. You just never know,

506
00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,240
Speaker 1: like people could start attacking her and that's not it. Okay,

507
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: that's not what you want out of the no situation.

508
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 1: It's getting tricky. We even kind of.

509
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if I texted this to y'all or

510
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 2: if I started to, but it is tricky because the

511
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 2: three of us are so authentically sharing our life experiences

512
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 2: right now that are resonating very deeply, which is really

513
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 2: cool to me. But there is like this weird middle

514
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 2: ground where we're trying to like protect people, like share

515
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 2: funny stories and want to share our life experiences without

516
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 2: like throwing someone under the bus. And you know, like

517
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 2: I had I had something the other day that I

518
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 2: was like, this would be incredible, but I have to

519
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 2: also be mindful, like who I am married to, and

520
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 2: he is in the spotlight some way somewhat, so like, well,

521
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 2: it is probably just a very it's a laughable We

522
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 2: would all, I already know, we'd all agree it would

523
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 2: be hysterical, and many people would resonate on the husband front,

524
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 2: like I'm also protected protective in a way. So it's

525
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 2: interesting you should say that because I really have been

526
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 2: thinking lately, like how do I how do I bring

527
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 2: some of these situations up but then protect to the

528
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,159
Speaker 2: people in my life that they might be about, or

529
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 2: just get a cast to characters so that we can

530
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 2: all relate and laugh and move on without making anybody

531
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,640
Speaker 2: have hurt feelings, right exactly.

532
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's tricky.

533
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 3: I'm working on that too well.

534
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 1: And I feel like that too, because I tell a

535
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 1: lot of like kids, you know, stuff about my kids,

536
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 1: and there's a lot I hold back on. But I'm

537
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 1: usually pretty good at, you know, you know, saying hey,

538
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 1: I talked about this, I talked about this, you know whatever,

539
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 1: And I do make sure. There are times I text

540
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,120
Speaker 1: the producers so people know and I say, I don't

541
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 1: want what I talked about on there as a clip

542
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 1: on social media, because even though my daughter's aware I

543
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,120
Speaker 1: talked about this, or my son's aware that I talked

544
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 1: about this, he doesn't want or she doesn't want their

545
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: friends to necessarily see it on social media. So I

546
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 1: think there's a protection mechanism there as well, like they

547
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 1: don't care that I talked about it. But kids can

548
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: be mean, so if it becomes something on social media,

549
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 1: they'll share it and send it to them and they'll

550
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 1: say things, So you just have to find ways sometimes

551
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: if they're I mean, I you know, I make sure

552
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 1: that they're okay with usually what everything that I share.

553
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 3: But yeah, it's tricky.

554
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: It is it's very tricky, but I agree. I think

555
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 1: that you did the right thing in this situation, and

556
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 1: just you know, that's something that's between y'all. And but

557
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: speaking of have you figured it out anymore? Okay?

558
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 3: Are we on the help front? We don't.

559
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 2: We have we have Sarah who's been helping a few

560
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 2: hours when you know, Allan needs at the home and stuff.

561
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 2: But now we haven't found anyone that and it's like,

562
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 2: I want to meet the person, you know, so I'm here.

563
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 3: It's just so hard. So hopefully when I get back

564
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 3: from Lexington, we'll we'll figure it out. Yeah.

565
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 2: Dancing with the Star of Sharna Burgess reveals controversial decision

566
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,680
Speaker 2: about baby number two with Brian Austin green So. She

567
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: said on her podcast that she thinks they're going to

568
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: make what some consider a controversial choice. She wants to

569
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 2: have a girl, so she wants to do gender selection

570
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 2: via IVF. Ladies, what are your thoughts? I know, Katherine,

571
00:26:58,680 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 2: I want to go. I want to go to Catherine first.

572
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:01,120
Speaker 1: Do I go to me first?

573
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 2: I do?

574
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 3: Oh, you're wearing your gender reveal sweater, so it's yeah.

575
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 1: I mean no, I'm not no, I'm not a fan

576
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: to each their own. I don't love it. I didn't

577
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,479
Speaker 1: know it's a thing, if I'm being honest, I mean,

578
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,199
Speaker 1: I guess I realized it could be, but I never

579
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: really thought about it.

580
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 2: Like for example, when you like, when I did IVF

581
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 2: I had, I knew that I had two boys. So

582
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 2: those were the one that those were the genders. And

583
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 2: you can you can choose to know what the gender is,

584
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 2: or you can choose to not know what the gender

585
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 2: is and just you know, put whatever one in. So

586
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 2: I knew that when I lost the one, it lost

587
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 2: a boy, and the other one was also a boy.

588
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 2: And so but if there was if we had you know, Jolie,

589
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,880
Speaker 2: and it was you know, a girl or a boy

590
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 2: and a boy, like I'd be like, well I would.

591
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 3: Like a boy, you know.

592
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 2: But that's just what you have with that, And that's

593
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 2: the piece of the science where it's that is where

594
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 2: it does get controversial, you know.

595
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 3: And I think, you know, looking.

596
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 2: Back, I probably if I was to do it again,

597
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 2: I would probably just I wouldn't want to know and

598
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 2: I would just put in.

599
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 3: But also I mean, I also don't I see why.

600
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 3: I don't know.

601
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 1: It's it's tough, it's that's a tough one. Its just

602
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: and I get it's science. I understand all of that.

603
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, my argument would be, well,

604
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 1: the same thing could be said for IVF in general.

605
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 2: You know.

606
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 1: So it's it's hard. I think that it's a slippery slope,

607
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: and I think that we have to be careful.

608
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 3: Right because like, what are you doing with the other embryos?

609
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 2: What do you do?

610
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 1: Also, we start picking all these genders, what's going to

611
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: happen to natural like recreation, you know, Like again that's

612
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: getting bigger and more, you know whatever. But like if

613
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: we get to a point where everybody's picking if they

614
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: have a boy or girl, that could just be that

615
00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 1: could get that could get tricky, you know. But I

616
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: don't know, that's a really hard one. I understand if

617
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: you had a boy sitting there and you wanted a boy, Okay,

618
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: let's put the boy in.

619
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 3: Because if you're not picking someone is.

620
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 1: Right like ill girl with That's what I'm saying. So

621
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: like my argument is like, let's lead that, let's lead

622
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 1: that up to God obviously, but within vitro already you're

623
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: not I mean, that's essentially making a baby.

624
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, the doctor could pick.

625
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 2: Does the doctor pick? I mean, it's already like made

626
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 2: boy or girl? Yeah, right, do they know what we're

627
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 2: putting in?

628
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 1: I mean I guess they would. Yeah.

629
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 2: We have friends that picked both times, and so I

630
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 2: don't know, and they're both just such beautiful, fun kids.

631
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, I just never It's there's a lot that

632
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 2: goes into this process. I think people who've never walked

633
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 2: it don't know. Like I've worked a lot in this

634
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 2: space with a lot of moms, and there's this really

635
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 2: tricky to navigate. What do you do with the embryos

636
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 2: that you never for you know, moved over and so

637
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 2: like I have, you know, really dear friends of mine there,

638
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 2: Like I still have two babies in my eyes, I

639
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 2: still have two babies there. What do I do with

640
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 2: my babies? That's a really it's like a really heavy

641
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 2: decision for a mom. Yeah, I mean I can't imagine.

642
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 2: I mean, we had used all our embryos. If I

643
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 2: knew that their embryos left, I mean, that would be

644
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 2: so hard hard, It's really hard.

645
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: Well, we were just talking about that. I was talking

646
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: about some other friends about this. The other day, someone

647
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: had an embryo that you know they can sit there

648
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: for That was thirty.

649
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 3: Years yeah, oh wow, And I thought it was like ten.

650
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 1: Or fifteen or I don't know, but it was. It

651
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 1: was a long time. I think it's until you stop

652
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: paying for it, like you can pay for it to

653
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 1: stay there. Wow, that'd be hard, which is bizarre, right, Yeah?

654
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 2: What would you guys do if you were in that situation,

655
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 2: Like if I could choose, or if you had, if

656
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 2: you had an embryo.

657
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 3: Last over from in vitro.

658
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: I would probably have adopted it out, Like.

659
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 3: How could do that? And then but then would you

660
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 3: have tried to find the baby?

661
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: Well, you try it. I think the same rules for

662
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: adoption apply in that situation. I actually had a friend

663
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: who did that, who adopted an embryo. I think you

664
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: can do an open adoption or closed it. I think

665
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: all that still applies for that. So if I was

666
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: for sure done, did not want any more children, and

667
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: there's an embryo there, I would adopt it out, and

668
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 1: probably if Nick was on board, I probably would have

669
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: done open adoption to where we could yeah, like know

670
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 1: and see and all that.

671
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 2: I could not do that, guys, I mean I hate Yeah,

672
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 2: it's a different honest, I sometimes forget that we're recording

673
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 2: in a way that I'm like, oh, who's going to

674
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 2: come at me? But I I don't know. I don't

675
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 2: know that I could do that. I don't know I

676
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 2: have there's no mby for this decision for me at all,

677
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 2: because the women who I know that are in this position,

678
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 2: it's so heavy on their heart. And and two of

679
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 2: the women that I know quite literally couldn't carry that

680
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 2: baby even if they wanted to go back in. And

681
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 2: so that's just so it's just so emotional. Oh yeah,

682
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 2: for sure, I don't and I don't think if I

683
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 2: could do the adoption piece.

684
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 3: I I don't know. I don't know. It's an impossible decision.

685
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: It's a hard decision. Yeah, sure, I mean, and I

686
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 1: can't say for sure because I'm not in that position.

687
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: But I know you're seeing confident about it. Well, I knew,

688
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: just like if Nick was on board, I'm like, God,

689
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 1: I even thought about what preston. It's only because I

690
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: knew someone who adopted an embryo that I've thought about

691
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: this before.

692
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 3: It's special, yeah, and a.

693
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 2: Gift that is truly the gift of a lifetime.

694
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I you know, I I don't know that

695
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: I would be This sounds terrible like if if if

696
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: that was an ad option, to adopt it out and

697
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 1: it was like, Okay, you've got embryos sitting there and

698
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: we're done having children. This just has to like go away.

699
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily feel like, oh my god, I just

700
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: like my baby's just gone, like I killed my baby,

701
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

702
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 3: Like, I don't know.

703
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: That gets real philosophical. I don't know how I would.

704
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 1: I wouldn't necessarily feel like I did something wrong not

705
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: adopting it out right, right, I just know that that

706
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: would be a blessing to someone sure that could use that.

707
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just so much.

708
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: That's tricky. That's yeah, that's that's deep. But hey, for

709
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: all the boys that he's got, i'd guess I don't

710
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: blame her for wanting a girl.

711
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 3: I mean, imagine a little one of her.

712
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 4: Yeah.

713
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean no, no, you know that's that's a

714
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 3: tough one. But I totally get it.

715
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 2: Ladies, there's a real Housewives of Rhode Island coming, Catherine.

716
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: Do you know that I knew there was? Is it

717
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: Rhode Island?

718
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 2: It's Rhode Island. It's coming abro to a new franchise addition,

719
00:33:56,160 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 2: which I think Rhode Island is so beautiful.

720
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be kind.

721
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 2: And there's something like it's not Hampton's, but it's kind

722
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 2: of upscale, right. Yeah.

723
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: For some reason, I was thinking there was a Paris

724
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 1: one coming. Did I make that up?

725
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 3: Or maybe it was like still Nashville.

726
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:15,320
Speaker 1: Still know Nashville.

727
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 3: I think.

728
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 2: Actually, I'm really surprised. I know they've tried it a

729
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 2: million times, but I'm still surprised there isn't one.

730
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 1: I think they could do one if they stop trying

731
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:27,320
Speaker 1: to get all these like country wives one thousands, go

732
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: get the people that live down like and live in

733
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: that house down there, that's just like the freaking surgeon's

734
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: wife or something like one.

735
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 2: Try thousand percent every time they try to recruit the

736
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 2: country wives.

737
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not what. I don't know. It just doesn't work.

738
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: For some reason.

739
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 2: They can have on the country wife, you know, like

740
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 2: get put one of them on there, like, uh, what's

741
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 2: his face? Luke Brian's wife, Like she'd be great, she'd

742
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 2: be funny.

743
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,800
Speaker 1: The rest it's just then you mix them all in

744
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 1: and just make them like oh yeah, I'd watch it,

745
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know why it keeps failing.

746
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 2: I mean, put Pam on there with you know, like

747
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 2: it would be be so good, there would be amazing. Hey, ladies,

748
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,919
Speaker 2: love listening to the podcast all the way in Australia. Jane,

749
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 2: I've loved decent s wander Hill.

750
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 3: Thank you.

751
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: My family life has been disrupted recently. My stepsister has

752
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 2: said some truly horrible things about my mom, her stepmom

753
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 2: of thirty one years. The things she has said are

754
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 2: so upsetting and go against all that I know and

755
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 2: believe and remember about our childhood. She is refusing to

756
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 2: speak to or see her, and I'm left feeling like

757
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,760
Speaker 2: piggy in the middle. I do not believe these accusations,

758
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 2: but I don't want to dismiss my stepsister's feelings. But

759
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:41,320
Speaker 2: she is acting like nothing is wrong around me, and

760
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 2: I feel horrible for my mom and stepdad, who are

761
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 2: reeling from what she has said. Do I let them

762
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 2: sort it out themselves or tell my sister I don't

763
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 2: like the way she has treated my mom.

764
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 3: Thank you and would love your thoughts, ladies.

765
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: I think kind of all of the above, I think

766
00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: that you can tell her that you I don't necessarily

767
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 1: love what she's saying or how she's treating them, but

768
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: I think she has to remember that people remember things differently.

769
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: You know, you can live in the same household and

770
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 1: come out feeling two completely different ways about the way

771
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 1: you grew up. And it sounds like maybe that's what's

772
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: happening a little bit. But I think you can say,

773
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 1: I understand you remember this differently than I remember this,

774
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 1: or mom remembers this or Dad remembers this, but it

775
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:30,319
Speaker 1: doesn't invalidate your feelings. You have your feelings and y'all

776
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: need to sort that out, but also and maybe not

777
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: treat them so terribly. And let's just y'all need to

778
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 1: sit down and work it out and then stay out

779
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 1: of it.

780
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 3: That's what I.

781
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 1: After that, after you said your peace, let them figure

782
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:45,800
Speaker 1: it out. That's my opinion.

783
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 2: To piggyback off of that, I'll just say I have

784
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: not many people know this because I don't share this often,

785
00:36:55,600 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 2: not because I'm like I have, not because I don't

786
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 2: want to. But I have two half sisters. I'm not

787
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,800
Speaker 2: really close with them just because they were I was

788
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 2: nineteen eighteen, nineteen twenty somewhere around there when they were

789
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 2: born and I was already living in Los Angeles, and

790
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 2: so my experience with my dad is wildly different from

791
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 2: their experience, you know, with their dad, you know, and

792
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 2: how I've handled certain things are are different, and they

793
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 2: they probably are confuse why I've said certain things about

794
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 2: their dad, But also it was my experience and it

795
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 2: wasn't theirs, you know, So I think there's worlds where

796
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 2: they can be different, and.

797
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,800
Speaker 3: They like, I had to how do I say this?

798
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 2: Like if if my two half sisters came to me

799
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 2: and they were like, stop talking bad about dad, I'd

800
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 2: be like, you have no idea? Like what? So I

801
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 2: had to sort it through almost myself, you know. Yeah,

802
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 2: it's tricky. I was trying to think. I I had

803
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,919
Speaker 2: to take my own emotion out of it, as she's

804
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 2: as you were, as I was listening, because I'm someone

805
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 2: that has craved family to protect me so much that

806
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 2: part of me is going I love the idea of

807
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 2: someone coming in and saying like, I don't like the

808
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 2: way you're treating this person, because I don't ever have

809
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 2: that in my own world. So like literally ever, and

810
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 2: it's like the gas lighting comes and the shaming and

811
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 2: you're like, Okay, I that shouldn't even spoken up in

812
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 2: the first place. So it's like exhausting, and so I don't.

813
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,359
Speaker 2: Part of me thinks it's really wonderful to have someone

814
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 2: say like I don't like the way you spoke to

815
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 2: her or what you've said about my mom, And then

816
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 2: the other part of me is like, everyone's experience is

817
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,399
Speaker 2: so different. My brother and I are twenty one months

818
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 2: apart and you, so we grew up very close in

819
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 2: age in the same house, and what he tolerates and

820
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:52,399
Speaker 2: what I tolerate are just completely different. So it really

821
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 2: is up to like the level of healing and the

822
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 2: level of work, and you know what, are people even

823
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:00,040
Speaker 2: willing to hear? Is another thing because I think I

824
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 2: think you can say a lot of things to a

825
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 2: lot of people, but if they're not in a position

826
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:05,879
Speaker 2: that's helpy enough to even hear it, then that could

827
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:09,280
Speaker 2: just be a big waste your energy. Too right, tricky,

828
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 2: And I always go back to too there must be

829
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 2: it's I know it's hard for certain people to hear

830
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 2: things about their parent that isn't in their experience, but

831
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 2: I also think to lean into maybe talking to your

832
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 2: stepsister and going what what is your elect to help

833
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 2: me understand what your experience is and lean into them

834
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 2: to maybe help them that way, instead of being like,

835
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 2: don't talk about them and be like, why do you

836
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 2: feel this way? Like what happened that maybe I don't

837
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,320
Speaker 2: know about, you know, to have that, for you to

838
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 2: have that experience or for you to say those things,

839
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 2: you know. So I'm like, I don't think someone just

840
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:48,240
Speaker 2: starts treating someone or saying things if something didn't happen

841
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 2: or there wasn't or they had an experience.

842
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

843
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: Yeahah, I mean there's something has happened for her to

844
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: feel that way exactly, And whether that you agree or

845
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: disagree with the situation, she still feels that way. And

846
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: so I think that that has to be heard.

847
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:10,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, Hannah, how far out is the test front desk?

848
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 3: I said the president, don't worry. So wait, we'll wait.

849
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: I'll be right back.

850
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 3: Okay, it's in a bag. It's under Hannah's name.

851
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 1: Oh how did that happen so fast?

852
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:24,720
Speaker 3: Hannah is my girl.

853
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: I love how she just we're just gonna keep talking

854
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: while she's not here. I love how she came on

855
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 1: to say that her period was thirteen days late and

856
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: did not think that we would think.

857
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell her I'm gonna tell a story about

858
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,840
Speaker 2: a friend because she's now public and she's told the story.

859
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 3: But my friend Cassie Kelly is pregnant and she's done.

860
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 3: I saw that.

861
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 1: That's so exciting.

862
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 2: She wrote to me when she first found out, and

863
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 2: she was like, Kristen, I just thought I was on perimenopause.

864
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:54,360
Speaker 2: And she now sends to shared that on her Instagram.

865
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:55,919
Speaker 2: So that's why I feel comfortable telling the story.

866
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 3: But bless her.

867
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,959
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm forty two and she's like, I didn't

868
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,760
Speaker 2: It didn't even cross my mind. I mean, they had trouble.

869
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 2: She's also shared this, so you know, it was not

870
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 2: easy to get ward. They're very handsome nine year old

871
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:09,919
Speaker 2: and so he's now nine and she's like, oh, for sure.

872
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:13,439
Speaker 2: Trainer was the one that was like, have you thought

873
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:14,360
Speaker 2: that he could be pregnant?

874
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 3: She was like no, I just wow.

875
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 1: It doesn't register with people.

876
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's wild, especially with Cramer because she had

877
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 2: this baby. She's still going to get her pregnancy test

878
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 2: from the front desk. She had her last baby in

879
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 2: the forties. At forties, right, you know, but for me, like,

880
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 2: it's not off my radar because we just had one

881
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 2: at forty one, right, So I'm like, yeah, and I

882
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 2: could see where it would be for Cassie for sure,

883
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 2: oh yeah, because it's like but even for Janet kind

884
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 2: of was off for a second too, because she had

885
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:42,319
Speaker 2: trouble with like they used yeah, you know, to get

886
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 2: Jolie and Jason. It wasn't easy, and so she thought, well,

887
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:47,319
Speaker 2: there's no way that we would be such and then

888
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 2: there's just sweet Roman, man, he's just so meant to be.

889
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 3: You made a way.

890
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,839
Speaker 1: I'm dying that she's about to take this test right now.

891
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 3: It's thirteen days.

892
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 2: I mean, if I'm thirteen days late, if i'm one day,

893
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 2: two days, I'm testing, and I've gotta be I don't

894
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 2: mean this to be mean great.

895
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 3: I'm glad you're back because this includes you're talking about.

896
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be taking a test with you guys first.

897
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 3: This is what I really like about you.

898
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: She's doing it.

899
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 3: I can't be you know what I mean, that's totally

900
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:15,399
Speaker 3: not sure. But we're gonna find out together.

901
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: Literally thirteen days I didn't even think about. That's what

902
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: we're laughing about. The fact that the thought never crossed

903
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 1: your mind? And my immediate response was was should we

904
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 1: be talking about this right now? And you're like, yeah,

905
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 1: what's the problem. I'm like, duh, what do you mean? Okay,

906
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 1: go pee on that stick. We got a couple of minutes.

907
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 3: Let's go. We can kill three minutes.

908
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 1: Alan's going to die?

909
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 3: Do you want to FaceTime Alan?

910
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 1: In the meaning?

911
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 5: No?

912
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 1: No, No, he's gonta find out later.

913
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 3: Okay, pee right back, get up. She's our number one girl.

914
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 2: What would happen if this is going to be the

915
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 2: most epic podcast of all time? If this chick is

916
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 2: we all find out together? Who's calling Allen?

917
00:42:58,040 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 4: What will we do?

918
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,879
Speaker 1: He's down stairs? How would we walk down while she's

919
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: there and keep it?

920
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:06,439
Speaker 3: We wouldn't. We would hole up here in this little

921
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 3: tree house back and we would just wait.

922
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, make him listen to the podcast to

923
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 1: find out we're This is so creamer.

924
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 3: There's no way I would do this with you guys.

925
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: First never.

926
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 3: She actually got mad at me the other day.

927
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 2: She got mad at me the other day because because

928
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 2: I didn't tell you guys right away about the baby.

929
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 1: What baby?

930
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 3: The last baby? Lying girl?

931
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 2: Oh?

932
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 3: I was like is there another baby?

933
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 1: I can't take it.

934
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 3: No baby, No, so opposite that I'm raging out so nobody.

935
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 1: It would be really fun.

936
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 3: Where I get nervous when you say that if we.

937
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 5: Did a podcast just me and you without her, like

938
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 5: we're doing this and just talk about her like she's God,

939
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 5: she's already back three minutes.

940
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 1: We have a timer on?

941
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:58,840
Speaker 3: Is it a timer fascinate? Accurate?

942
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 1: Oh god, it's asked inaccurate. I can't handle this. This

943
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 1: is making you tell us if it actually.

944
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 3: Says yeah, no, I will.

945
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: We were just about how we wouldn't be able to

946
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 1: walk downstairs because Alan is here.

947
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

948
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,720
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going would be so awkward.

949
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 2: I said, we would just hold up here. We could

950
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 2: door dash, we could do whatever, but we're not going

951
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 2: down it.

952
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 1: Also, while you were gone, we decided we're going to

953
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 1: do a podcast without you one day.

954
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 2: We're just gonna talk about it, but we keep telling

955
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 2: stories about you while you're not here, while you walk away.

956
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 2: I don't know. You got re mad at me because

957
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 2: you were like, yeah, and you didn't even tell me

958
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:32,319
Speaker 2: about your secret baby.

959
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: And then I was like, what secret baby? We have

960
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: another baby? No baby?

961
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, okay, no, stop.

962
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 2: This is the other thing I can't take about her.

963
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 2: She's gonna she's really good at acting. People need to

964
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 2: This should be an audition tape.

965
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't take this. I don't like this

966
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 1: at all.

967
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 2: Oh wait a minute, you guys, we've got your two

968
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 2: minutes and I'm gonna need you to turn that thing.

969
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 3: You know when you like see the like faint line,

970
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:10,320
Speaker 3: I can't Can you turn it? Danna, Janna? This is

971
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 3: such a bad idea. This is a perfect idea. Tell

972
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 3: us what you're seeing.

973
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: No, Like, she's like really looking, so it's not no, because.

974
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 2: If it's not, you don't have to really look, you know.

975
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 2: But like, I see a faint line. This is how

976
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,280
Speaker 2: Romans started with a fat yeah.

977
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 1: Can you turn the damn thing? Hold on, I gotta

978
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: get close to.

979
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 3: We all need our reader. We shouldn't be having babies.

980
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 3: You see the faint line. Oh, it's going to be

981
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 3: a it would be a whoa whoa. No wait, wait

982
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 3: where do we look the tiny box or the big

983
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 3: box on the big box.

984
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 2: We can't see it here. I'm not pregnant. Okay, this

985
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 2: just turned into a whole different podcast.

986
00:45:56,640 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 3: I'm not pregnant. No, now, I don't see it.

987
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: Now.

988
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,399
Speaker 2: I saw the tiny box and the tiny box plus

989
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 2: the big box, and I'm like, oh, boy, are you

990
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 2: supposed to combine the two because.

991
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: We might have we might have to really even think

992
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:08,959
Speaker 1: we're good if.

993
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 3: You combine the things. Yeah, we're good, We'll be fine.

994
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,239
Speaker 3: We're good. Okay, right, we'll talk to you guys next week.

995
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,280
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, can I get some closure?

996
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 2: Bye?

997
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 3: The cold stop doesn't work for me right after the

998
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 3: negative bregnancy doesn't bumble that down. I'm gonna go until then.

999
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 2: Everyone, if you don't want to get pregnant, you should

1000
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 2: keep your umpows to yourself, all right.

1001
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 3: Bye guys.

1002
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 2: Bye,