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Speaker 2: If you want to win the jubil Shows trip to

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Speaker 2: the Caribbean, you got to listen. At eight ten. Drew

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Speaker 2: is on the phone today for a first date follow up.

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Speaker 2: He's getting ghosted by a woman named Mia, So we're

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Speaker 2: about to call her and find out why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: him and maybe get him another date if he wants

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Speaker 2: one before we do all that, Drew, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from me?

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Speaker 3: Probably about ten days now.

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Speaker 4: But who's counting. Okay, I'm sorry about the ghosting, but

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Speaker 4: let's just get right into it. Can you tell us

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Speaker 4: about your date and what happened?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I mean what happened was we had what

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Speaker 5: I thought was an amazing date. I took her to

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Speaker 5: this barbecue place also like a super fun country bar.

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Speaker 5: You know, they got the mechanical bull, he got line

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Speaker 5: Dan saying a bunch of great drink specials. Right off

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Speaker 5: the bat. She and h Nea was always saying like,

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Speaker 5: I'm always up for an adventure. I she said she

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Speaker 5: loves Luke Bryan so boom plus. Not to brag too much,

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Speaker 5: but they have dancing there, and I thought it would

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Speaker 5: be a real good opportunity.

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Speaker 3: To show off my rhythm, you know, anywhere I can

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Speaker 3: get and move.

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Speaker 2: How'd that go?

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Speaker 3: Well, I feel like you thought about the dancing.

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Speaker 5: It's just the date in general, because I feel like

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Speaker 5: the dancing went really well.

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Speaker 2: Let's start there then.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, Well I feel like we moved really well together.

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Speaker 3: We had amazing chemistry on the dance.

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Speaker 5: Floor, and it was so good that I thought our

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Speaker 3: Floor, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Okay, Also, she ate her food with her hands, like

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Speaker 5: she wasn't afraid to get dirty.

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Speaker 3: I thought that was the best. She was so fun. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: she got dirty.

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Speaker 2: All right, So that's another good sign.

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Speaker 4: I'd say, what are you hoping to get out on

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Speaker 4: this day? Button? Well, did she seem like she was

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Speaker 4: into it? Was she like having a good time when

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh yeah, for sure. I think, like the only

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Speaker 5: eating the ribs with her hands and I wasn't.

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Speaker 3: I was using a fork and a knife, And.

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Speaker 5: Like maybe I made her feel a little bad or something,

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Speaker 5: But I don't think so, because she like teasing me

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Speaker 5: I think honestly, I really honestly think she was joking

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Speaker 3: But maybe that's it. I really have no idea what

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Speaker 2: How did the date end?

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Speaker 3: We both went our separate ways.

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Speaker 5: We didn't you know, didn't get a chance to test

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Speaker 5: any dance theories out. But that's okay, because I want

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Speaker 5: to just make sure that we have a good, good

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Speaker 5: start to everything. And you know, as much as I

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Speaker 5: to find someone and have something meaningful. So she took

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Speaker 5: an Uber home and I took a Uber back to

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Speaker 5: my place because we didn't know who we'd be drinking,

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Speaker 5: and it was I thought it was a really.

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Speaker 3: Nice end of the night.

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Speaker 4: Did you guys text each other afterwards when you got

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and the last that, you know, text me make

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Speaker 4: Going back to your food theory, it is kind of

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Speaker 4: interesting how much pressure is put on matching your date

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Speaker 4: and how they eat. You know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 2: So I don't know that that would be a deal breaker.

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Speaker 4: But maybe did you maybe say something that turned her

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Speaker 5: Maybe one of my jokes didn't land, But I can't.

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't even be able to tell you what it was.

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Speaker 5: I don't think I said anything.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: We looked at each other's eyes a couple of times,

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Speaker 5: you know, those like little moments where you're like, this

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 2: And other than maybe joking about her eating her food

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Speaker 2: with their hands, you got to give anything else.

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Speaker 3: No, I really can't.

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Speaker 5: Like I know, I'm trying to be honest with you

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Speaker 5: guys too, Like I I you know, I'm sure everybody says, well.

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Speaker 3: I can't think of anything, but I really can't.

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Speaker 2: Did you guys?

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Speaker 4: Kiss.

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Speaker 3: We did not.

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Speaker 4: Maybe she doesn't think you're into her.

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Speaker 2: Did you got a hug at least at the end?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we hugged.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we hug I got a little rib sauce on

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Speaker 2: my shirt. Well, we'll see if we can figure it

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Speaker 2: out for you. Will play a song, comeback, and then

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Speaker 2: call her and Steve. She'll tell us why she's ghosting you,

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Speaker 2: and then maybe get you another date if you still

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Speaker 2: want one. With your first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's First Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Drew is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: Mia and has no idea why. So we're about to

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Speaker 2: call her. But before we do that, Drew, why don't

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Speaker 2: you refresh everybody's memory about why you think you're getting

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Speaker 2: ghosted by Mia?

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Speaker 3: Well, we had an awesome date. Took her to barbecue

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Speaker 3: as a country bar.

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Speaker 5: We danced, and we danced really well together, and at

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Speaker 5: the end of the night we hugged. I got a

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Speaker 5: little rib sauce on my shirt and I couldn't wait

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Speaker 5: to see her again.

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Speaker 2: Oh the rib sauce was from her hands. You didn't

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Speaker 2: just dip a shirt and rib sauce and walk out,

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Speaker 2: although that would have been a move. You know, that

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Speaker 2: may be why you're getting ghosted. All right, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: dollar phone.

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Speaker 3: Of it right now. You're ready, I'm ready?

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Speaker 2: All right, Here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hi.

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Speaker 2: This is Nia, Hey Mia, how are you? My name

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Speaker 2: is Jubil. I host a radio show. It's called the

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Speaker 2: Jubil Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi mea.

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Speaker 2: My name's Nana. Hi, I'm Victoria. It's a radio show

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Speaker 2: called Jubil Show. I don't know if you've ever heard

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Speaker 2: of us before I have. Hi, Okay, cool, I'm nervous.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?

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Speaker 5: I have?

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Speaker 2: Well, you recently went out on a date with somebody

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Speaker 2: and now you're ghosting them. And they emailed us to

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Speaker 2: see if we could get you on the phone and

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Speaker 2: ask you why you're ghosting them? Oh okay, any idea?

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Speaker 2: Who could be?

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Speaker 6: Well, I've only really had a one date in the

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Speaker 6: past couple of weeks, so I think I know. Is

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Speaker 6: his name Drew?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 6: It is.

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Speaker 2: Oh, okay, you just tell us where you go. We

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Speaker 2: really want to know.

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Speaker 6: Wow. Well, I mean we had the thing was actually

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Speaker 6: pretty well and he was funny and silly, which is awesome.

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Speaker 6: And with the exception of there was this moment we

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Speaker 6: were dancing on the dance floor and this ballad Shania

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Speaker 6: Twain song came on and he started getting really emotional

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Speaker 2: So what song was it that came on?

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Speaker 6: Again? Still the one that Shania Twain.

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Speaker 4: Song I love that makes me cry to.

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Speaker 5: It.

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Speaker 4: I cried to it all the time because like, you know,

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Speaker 4: I just want that one date staring into your date's eyes.

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Speaker 4: But did you say anything, Dad, Like, did you ask

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Speaker 6: Well? I did, I you know, I was like, are

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Speaker 6: of like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm good, I'm good,

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Speaker 6: like that moment was just really there was just something

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Speaker 6: I just felt like, is this guy going to say

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Speaker 6: I was not ready for that.

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Speaker 2: So it was not coming across like maybe he was

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Speaker 2: thinking about an ex. It was just like he was

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Speaker 2: thinking about you, That's what It's not like.

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Speaker 6: I felt like he was like locking eyes like still

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Speaker 2: Like I just met you and you're still the one.

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Speaker 2: I could see that being a bit much then.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I could too. I mean, you will you get

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Could you see yourself doing that? Like if you happen

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Speaker 2: On a first date. That's initially I thought maybe he

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Speaker 2: maybe that was their song or something. Right, I didn't.

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Speaker 6: I definitely didn't think about the X idea. But that

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Speaker 6: would also kind of be a deal breaker, like you said.

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Speaker 2: So let's just ask him.

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Speaker 6: Miya.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's on the phone listening and wants to talk

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Speaker 2: to you.

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Speaker 5: Oh hi, hi, Miya Hi. Sorry, Yeah, I'm a little

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Speaker 5: embarrassed right now. So yeah, that missy ID. It's not

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Speaker 5: I was here the whole time. I didn't know what

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Speaker 5: a real soft spot for me.

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Speaker 3: Are you, Drew, Yeah, yeah, that's.

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Speaker 2: What I'm going to say. If you're making that up

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Speaker 2: on the spot, that is genius.

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Speaker 4: Like that's actually really cute, and I kind of wish

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Speaker 4: knows what. I wish you told her that.

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Speaker 5: I we were looking at each other and it wasn't

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Speaker 5: like a like a plan, like, oh my god, I

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Speaker 5: got to get this one. But like, I was having

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Speaker 5: a good time with her, and then I thought about

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Speaker 5: my grandparents when that song came on, and I was

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Speaker 5: trying not to cry.

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Speaker 3: But I guess I didn't do a good job, you know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I of course cried. I always do. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I got real emotional.

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Speaker 2: What do you think about that, Medya?

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Speaker 4: Does it change anything?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean that is a very good reason. I

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Speaker 6: just also felt like it was a little inappropriate to

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Speaker 6: be so emotional. I just didn't feel like to me,

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Speaker 6: that told me that, like we don't match, you know,

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Speaker 6: Like I'm not a super emotional person, but if one

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Speaker 6: is going to be the emotional person in the relationship,

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Speaker 6: I would like it to be me and not the

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Speaker 6: man I'm dating. Like I kind of want I want

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Speaker 6: to rock. I don't want a river, you know.

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Speaker 2: So, wow, Okay, you're not really into emotional guys like that.

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Speaker 6: I just feel like it's a lot of extra work,

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Speaker 6: and you know, I'm so sorry, Drew, but I just

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Speaker 6: feel like it's like a lot that I have to

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Speaker 6: then manage, you know.

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Speaker 5: So, I mean it's.

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Speaker 2: An interesting take. I did not expect that.

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Speaker 4: I really appreciate when a man shows his side.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I do you when it's like six months into

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Speaker 6: the relationship, but not on the first date.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, let me ask you this question, Neal,

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Speaker 2: would you like to go on another day?

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Speaker 5: WI?

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Speaker 2: Drew will pay for it, you will if he doesn't cry.

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Speaker 6: I'm going to gracefully decline, but thank you so much

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Speaker 6: for the offer.

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Speaker 2: No problem, Drew. I'm sorry man, no second day for you.

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Speaker 5: You know, I appreciate you guys trying. It actually makes

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Speaker 5: me feel a lot better just having some closure. And uh,

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Speaker 5: while it stings, I'm glad she was honest. And uh, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I guess that wouldn't work. Uh be you holding me

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Speaker 5: while I'm crying, holding you while you're crying, the us

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Speaker 5: crying all the time.

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Speaker 4: You know what, Ladies, Drew single if you're into the

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Speaker 4: crying tape.

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