Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion
Speaker 2: to talks back.
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a
Speaker 1: new episode of We Talk Back and show dedicated to
Speaker 1: you niggas and these bitches. This is your co hosts
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Speaker 3: We have a guest to go back to niggas and bitches.
Speaker 1: I mean, she got these dreamers and Chaser or spoke Yo,
Speaker 1: these niggas and you host my home got the leading, y'all.
Speaker 1: We got some guests we talked about. Y'all know, I
Speaker 1: am a fucking Charlestonian, okay, and I'm back at home
Speaker 1: and I got let click on. We talked back. What
Speaker 1: was said? Knowing y'all. Okay, you got play and Chris Kaylin,
Speaker 1: the Princess of Charleston, so plaint look sh listen. You
Speaker 1: know it's a group, it's a it's a nice couple
Speaker 1: of groups of young black women and Charleston and I
Speaker 1: love to look at them. Okay, I'll be on Instagram like,
Speaker 1: hey girl, you're like that. I'm good. You ain't with
Speaker 1: that nigga no more. Yea, also cute. They all lit,
Speaker 1: they all got ship going on. These are my friends.
Speaker 1: Okay y'all here.
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm flying to Charleston. Who who is bombed?
Speaker 3: That we can get?
Speaker 4: I was like, right now, I got that text message
Speaker 4: at work. I wanted to quit.
Speaker 1: That. You ain't got no money for your We got
Speaker 1: chicken and watermelon, that's all. We got. More wine. The
Speaker 1: wine is good.
Speaker 4: The wine is definitely good.
Speaker 3: And it's it.
Speaker 1: I don't got no money for y'all, but thank y'all
Speaker 1: for coming. Really appreciate it.
Speaker 3: How was your weekend?
Speaker 4: Whoa you asking? When my man? I meant.
Speaker 5: Asking when my voice sounds like a man, So that
Speaker 5: means it was like, great weekend I had when time?
Speaker 6: Now I'm had a weekend when you like look back
Speaker 6: at the videos and you was like, I did that.
Speaker 4: Yes, it was a weekend full of tking smoking hookah.
Speaker 7: I don't smoke cuoca, but tequila.
Speaker 1: Where'd y'all be doing? They wave more lit than meet.
Speaker 7: Y'all tora, So it was a festival.
Speaker 1: I missed that.
Speaker 7: It was Saturday.
Speaker 1: What would you do?
Speaker 7: You wasn't looking at in the loop. That's what it was.
Speaker 4: It's Okay, some time you have to excuse Nippy, I
Speaker 4: call her Nippy.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but no.
Speaker 6: So they have doo doos, the money, some local artists
Speaker 6: and it was just like an amazing festival downtown.
Speaker 1: So that is the Charleston Coachella. Okay, yes, no, it's Torah.
Speaker 3: Because yeah, a mixed crowd is.
Speaker 6: Just black black black black black black, excellent black joy,
Speaker 6: just black black food.
Speaker 1: You gotta dress, yes, you do.
Speaker 3: It's like real festival.
Speaker 6: Yes, and girl, because let me tell you something. These
Speaker 6: shorts I had on, I was looking real think you
Speaker 6: want to listen, and people can't believe it. I couldn't
Speaker 6: believe in myself. That's why I keep looking at the picture.
Speaker 6: But I was outside. Okay, you know, the girls.
Speaker 1: Single very much.
Speaker 6: I got I'm trying to have five boyfriends TV, I
Speaker 6: have five boyfriends. Well I'm trying to get five so
Speaker 6: but I am staking a long none of your business man, all, well,
Speaker 6: they're all my man, but you know I got you know, listen,
Speaker 6: I'm literally I was like, I'm back outside this summer.
Speaker 6: I am feeling myself. So I'm trying to collect these
Speaker 6: niggas like infinity stones.
Speaker 1: Why not.
Speaker 6: Wait now, you only probably pussy for wine and then
Speaker 6: it's funny. I literally no, But I literally had this
Speaker 6: conversation with one guy and I told him. I was like,
Speaker 6: he was like, I like your vibe and I was like,
Speaker 6: coolcause I don't want to have sex with.
Speaker 4: You, like, but this is my thing. What's wrong with pop?
Speaker 1: So we have a pussy.
Speaker 7: Rock condomn But still just having sex with five.
Speaker 1: People is a lie a lot of energy.
Speaker 4: I mean, is it per week?
Speaker 1: Yo? A woman?
Speaker 4: He would be I'll be pregnant, but all my kids
Speaker 4: going to d s s.
Speaker 8: All right, let's all right, let's start with Drake live,
Speaker 8: baby's father.
Speaker 2: Everybody is just like on my baby father back, and
Speaker 2: I just don't understand.
Speaker 3: What's going on.
Speaker 1: You are not drinks.
Speaker 2: Everybody met, he met, everybody that's mad at him.
Speaker 3: He gave them a hit.
Speaker 7: He gave him a number one and that's what he
Speaker 7: said in the song.
Speaker 2: And it's just so crazy that you know, you bite
Speaker 2: the hand that feeds you. But let's get into it.
Speaker 1: Drake feedt niggas.
Speaker 3: I hit up me if you number.
Speaker 4: One in their hand that Drake was feeding in that.
Speaker 2: When I put your number one in your hand, bars oh,
Speaker 2: I forgot about that video with Drake.
Speaker 4: That video with Drake, Drake said.
Speaker 1: I forgot about that Drake video. Could forget. It was
Speaker 1: kind of slim though it was long, but it was slim.
Speaker 4: It was It wasn't even completely hard.
Speaker 1: Though lasted dick on Twitter is wild. It was very
Speaker 1: much doable, right, none off, It's not hard. I mean
Speaker 1: some people have big soft dick.
Speaker 4: Well that's your opinion, but skinned men don't, like they
Speaker 4: don't do it for you don't. Yeah, yeah, you know
Speaker 4: how I like white men.
Speaker 1: But still my niggas like very much. So that's my
Speaker 1: man black.
Speaker 3: That's mental.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I just kind of feel like that thing with Drake,
Speaker 6: like everyone wanted a chance to jump on him, and
Speaker 6: it's just like when everybody know, like when everybody dog
Speaker 6: polling on you, then it's fun.
Speaker 7: But it's just kind of like, that's why I think
Speaker 7: it's happening right now.
Speaker 2: That shit happened to me on a vacation with some bitches.
Speaker 1: I went on.
Speaker 2: It's like when bitch got mad at me and then
Speaker 2: all the bitch was like yeah, and then I.
Speaker 1: Heard you, Yeah, that's what's going on with Drake. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like abuse obviously all of them bitches about one uber Thurmy.
Speaker 2: So Drake posted a picture from one of my favorite movies,
Speaker 2: Kill Bill.
Speaker 3: Did y'all see it? And it was like where he was.
Speaker 2: He was like, Umer Thurman was on her way to
Speaker 2: get over in e she E and she was fighting
Speaker 2: the Crazy eighty eight that's what they were called.
Speaker 3: I think that's her name. And he posted that picture
Speaker 3: because it's all them people trying to get him.
Speaker 2: And then Uma Thurman was probably one of his cousins,
Speaker 2: was like, you white, so.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2: She was like you need this, you need this, and
Speaker 2: it was the yellow racer outfit.
Speaker 1: Dam.
Speaker 2: He was like, yeah, I need that because the pen
Speaker 2: is the herd. Torri Hanso, Torri Hanso. Do you know
Speaker 2: did you'all watch Kill Bill?
Speaker 1: I mean, no good? How could you have not seen
Speaker 1: that video? Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, y'all need to go take some time and see
Speaker 2: those movies one and Kill Bill two. That was a
Speaker 2: beautiful reference.
Speaker 3: For this battle. Honestly, it really is.
Speaker 2: But the Kendrick Lamar the release that came out, they
Speaker 2: say it's all AI, it's not real. So, but I
Speaker 2: can't wait to hear what he has to say because
Speaker 2: he's lyrical too, so he's gonna come with them bars now.
Speaker 1: Drake or Ken Gamar.
Speaker 7: I just can't believe they called bitch out.
Speaker 4: I'm kind of confused on why y'all.
Speaker 3: Are bitch out.
Speaker 1: That's wow, it's a rap battle?
Speaker 4: What literally like?
Speaker 3: But they did not his spirit?
Speaker 4: Oh please?
Speaker 5: When and when there's a rap battle, there's nothing on limits.
Speaker 7: Is it almost like when you when be something and
Speaker 7: you want to delete a tweet?
Speaker 1: Is that that same thing?
Speaker 7: But you just you dropped the whole album.
Speaker 2: Have you ever done or said anything that didn't sit
Speaker 2: right with you and you wanted to like just we
Speaker 2: can't and make a mince.
Speaker 1: For Yeah, I did, but like you're a rapper. Let's
Speaker 1: be very clear. And I said this last week Drake
Speaker 1: and j Cole. Okay, they're raised by who white women
Speaker 1: and they have hide their hands when somebody get on
Speaker 1: that ass. Okay, I don't know this, not say that.
Speaker 4: Okay, you want to invite me to over your fest,
Speaker 4: do it?
Speaker 3: I disagree with her.
Speaker 4: They said you are white.
Speaker 1: Actually, Rick Ross said he's white. Okay, Rick Ross had
Speaker 1: three sixty lightels, so he needed to shut the fuck up.
Speaker 7: Actually it is on his ass.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but that's you, lady. I don't see she
Speaker 4: is weight mascow.
Speaker 1: What does that mean, Clay, that's another episode.
Speaker 3: I don't even know what Rick Ross was upset about.
Speaker 1: I don't even know how he really got into it.
Speaker 1: It does appear that they are are all teaming up
Speaker 1: on Drake. We know Drake been number one for a
Speaker 1: long time. For many years now, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: He done ran circles around people who are these people
Speaker 1: raf a long time. But see there's a thing that's
Speaker 1: not That's why I said earlier. Is he engineered?
Speaker 9: No?
Speaker 1: We know Drake is very much so talented. But is
Speaker 1: he an actor like de Grassi acting as a rapper?
Speaker 1: Is he costplaying a rapper?
Speaker 2: Rappers aren't cost playing though, if you're gonna be honest,
Speaker 2: Like a lot of the things they say, they don't live.
Speaker 7: That Shiit same thing with Future, but there was like
Speaker 7: he doesn't do any of the drugs.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he raps about doing drugs.
Speaker 2: He created drug culture and rap in many ways, but
Speaker 2: he don't do drugs, you know, So it's all they're entertainers.
Speaker 4: You call. None of them do drugs. I know future
Speaker 4: doesn't he said it, really he doesn't.
Speaker 3: What do you call it? What's the one with the
Speaker 3: little grass that looks you definitely do drugs? Kodat Black.
Speaker 3: He looks good now, he looks better.
Speaker 6: Look thank you, yod looks good now. Okay, so you
Speaker 6: would ride Kodak what backwards?
Speaker 4: You know that's giving you. Let me get back to
Speaker 4: this topic. We'll see it.
Speaker 7: When you take them drugs out of his system.
Speaker 4: It's amazing what they can do for you.
Speaker 3: I mean, next topic.
Speaker 2: Damn you.
Speaker 1: I like Kodak Black, Gemini, you know Gemini, but.
Speaker 4: He does look better.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he looks healthy.
Speaker 3: He looks healthier.
Speaker 2: Yeah, cosan not everybody or as a j I couldnot.
Speaker 1: I could not pay that extra money. He didn't want
Speaker 1: to pay.
Speaker 5: That part why I feel like he's so funny. He's
Speaker 5: so animated. He has like a personality. I love that,
Speaker 5: like we can feel it with the screen because we're
Speaker 5: not with them, you know.
Speaker 4: And I think he's cute.
Speaker 6: I've never watched and I don't think he's cute. I've
Speaker 6: never watched any of his videos.
Speaker 1: So you cold look at the clips you think Kodak,
Speaker 1: I think it looks better than Kodak looks.
Speaker 4: Really know you know what thinks?
Speaker 1: So long? Oh you tall? Well, you look taller than Kai.
Speaker 1: I like your niggas. There's that you.
Speaker 4: Well, they say a lot about short niggas, So tell
Speaker 4: us the truth is a.
Speaker 1: Big baby big and tall at the same time. Maybe
Speaker 1: excuse me, may be little and big at the same time.
Speaker 4: So in the word of Chris, the dick is really
Speaker 4: giving baby arm.
Speaker 1: It's a tripod. It's sort of like this microphone stand. Oftentimes.
Speaker 1: I don't like niggas over six foot.
Speaker 4: I'll back up with that.
Speaker 1: But if a nigga got on boneless boxers, then know
Speaker 1: there must be inside things anyway.
Speaker 3: Boxes are on.
Speaker 7: Look at it just got out of jail.
Speaker 4: It's like the elastic is like the briefs. The boneless
Speaker 4: they applied like the hospital.
Speaker 1: I call those.
Speaker 3: Bonus draws boneless draws.
Speaker 7: Boneless boxers.
Speaker 3: Yo, sirbye, all right?
Speaker 1: Listen?
Speaker 2: Gynot was it with some tricking allegations Over the weekend,
Speaker 2: a woman posted a photo online claiming that she slept
Speaker 2: with Kai.
Speaker 3: A few years This is from a few years ago.
Speaker 1: I thought it was wow. I thought it was How
Speaker 1: old is she and how old is he because he's
Speaker 1: only twenty one and twenty two, now.
Speaker 3: Are you sure?
Speaker 1: Yeah? It was like three all right.
Speaker 2: Well, furthermore, she posted a screenshot of some messages in
Speaker 2: which the twist streamer allegedly gave her five grand. So
Speaker 2: I saw the allegations and was very quick to respond,
Speaker 2: and he hopped on the stream and attempted to dismantle
Speaker 2: some of the claims. In fact, he revealed his apple
Speaker 2: Pant history and was able to prove that he never
Speaker 2: set the woman five k allegedly. While she had proof
Speaker 2: of the five k payment, it was allegedly from someone else.
Speaker 2: Either way, there remains a bit of confusion as to
Speaker 2: what really happened. However, Kay did admit to meet the woman.
Speaker 2: After all, she does have pictures of them in bed,
Speaker 2: which makes her side of the things hard to deny.
Speaker 1: So the young lady's name is Layla, and I believe
Speaker 1: she has an onlyfan. She's a porn star. They kind
Speaker 1: of linked up over some streaming shit that he'd be doing,
Speaker 1: like you know, they were streaming together twitch there you go,
Speaker 1: and they linked up. She was like, I wish she
Speaker 1: was in Atlanta and somehow Yeah, but she showed proof
Speaker 1: that He did pay her five thousand dollars times too,
Speaker 1: but apparently he was supposed to pay her more and
Speaker 1: he hadn't come through with the money, which is why
Speaker 1: now she's putting out screenshots pictures of him laying up
Speaker 1: on them tigle biddies looking like his son laying in
Speaker 1: the bed with her, Like what the fuck?
Speaker 4: I just don't know why women like exposed men.
Speaker 7: I don't know why.
Speaker 4: I mean some porn stars why not.
Speaker 2: I don't know why you don't get paid up front?
Speaker 1: Where's my money? Like what's that?
Speaker 5: It's a job, so I would like a down payment
Speaker 5: and then I expect you after you get that.
Speaker 4: Not getting my mother, No, I.
Speaker 2: Need all of it up front, paying after the nut
Speaker 2: that's crazy your senses.
Speaker 1: Afterwards, Like right, I like how you do that? Like
Speaker 1: you was wrong? You old?
Speaker 2: Mean as a matter, I don't like paying for nothing
Speaker 2: after the fact that Like Klarna, I'll be like, but
Speaker 2: you already wore that outfit.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 4: Apple pay got it now too, so she could have
Speaker 4: used Apple pants.
Speaker 1: That's why I can't with that Apple.
Speaker 4: No, but she could have done her payments and after
Speaker 4: after pay Apple pay, if that makes sense.
Speaker 1: After pay Apple pain.
Speaker 4: Yes, they have it. Now you can buy now, pay
Speaker 4: later on Apple pay.
Speaker 1: Interesting. I never knew.
Speaker 3: I don't know if you could.
Speaker 4: Put pussy on there, you could send that five by
Speaker 4: then that could be out there.
Speaker 1: Could you imagine lay away some pussy.
Speaker 4: Been lay some dick. You trying to tell me every two.
Speaker 2: Weeks, I don't pay.
Speaker 4: When if he paid you to give him some like
Speaker 4: when he'd be like, okay, would.
Speaker 1: You accept, would you step where'd you accept after paid
Speaker 1: for some couchie?
Speaker 3: No, you can't after pay me.
Speaker 1: For my pay it.
Speaker 4: You get the whole payment. It's on them now to
Speaker 4: pay the rest rights.
Speaker 1: You all right?
Speaker 3: If you after pay me, after you pay, then we
Speaker 3: can fuck complete. I'll pull up the fuck. That's crazy.
Speaker 1: So he's saying he only gave her fifty dollars for Uber.
Speaker 1: I watched, we watched this video. He's saying he ain't
Speaker 1: paid her ship. He only paid her fifty dollars Uber,
Speaker 1: and he like kind of puts some evidence up supposedly,
Speaker 1: but I think her evidence is a little bit more convincing,
Speaker 1: right because you're showing so people are saying, oh, well,
Speaker 1: you can change the sin name and all this stuff,
Speaker 1: and it'll show why was actually for what. I feel
Speaker 1: like he did pay her the new your money and
Speaker 1: then he didn't follow up with the rest. And then
Speaker 1: she was also like, yeah, you don't want them to
Speaker 1: know what she was paying me for and calling him
Speaker 1: little Diddy. I wonder what.
Speaker 7: You know what a friend of mine? She went to
Speaker 7: a Diddy party.
Speaker 6: She like when she was just like she said, security
Speaker 6: came around and was like, you got to give us
Speaker 6: your phones and she was like, That's when she left
Speaker 6: because she was like, I don't know what the was
Speaker 6: about to go down, but she was like security like
Speaker 6: they came around with a cocaine platter. Needs a lot
Speaker 6: of security, a cocaine platter. She was like, security is like,
Speaker 6: you need to you don't need to give us your phone.
Speaker 1: You gotta leave, and she was like I left.
Speaker 4: I was like, I want to my story, no Diddy
Speaker 4: allegedly whatever. I want to be like them r Kelly Survivors.
Speaker 1: What the fuck? She recorded multiple times on this podcast
Speaker 1: saying how she would get on the yacht with Diddy.
Speaker 1: I don't need to be next to, but they say
Speaker 1: that Diddy into some ship, put the camera on me.
Speaker 2: God protects babies and pools.
Speaker 4: I also asked Diddy, what do you need?
Speaker 1: Kind can honeys? But would you be a part of
Speaker 1: the freak off?
Speaker 4: What am I gonna do jack Off? I don't. I
Speaker 4: don't do any of that.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean all the freak alls wasn't just remen Well,
Speaker 2: I guess I was gonna put my legs for all
Speaker 2: the players that was there.
Speaker 1: Do you think Saucy Santana was in there?
Speaker 3: I don't think you.
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 1: We've been sitting in Saucy Santana Saussy Santana videos.
Speaker 4: Sausty was there. I don't care what y'all say. Sausty
Speaker 4: was there.
Speaker 1: If Miami was there, of course he was there.
Speaker 4: Was there?
Speaker 2: He says that if we're gonna move on before they cut,
Speaker 2: they take our show off the air. Okay, o J Simpson,
Speaker 2: everybody away from cancer, rf OJ.
Speaker 7: Rest in peace, o J. But did you see what
Speaker 7: they said on Twitter?
Speaker 6: This Caitlyn Jenner was just kind of like good riddance,
Speaker 6: and somebody responded to her was like your next missus
Speaker 6: del fire.
Speaker 5: When o J was out, you orn't even Kaitlyn Jenner.
Speaker 5: You were Bruce Let's story. So let's not talk about
Speaker 5: something you don't know Bruce.
Speaker 1: Now, y'all, remember she killed somebody in a car accident, Okay,
Speaker 1: and she tweeted. I know y'all think it's cute to
Speaker 1: compare a fatal car accident with multiple vehicles involved to
Speaker 1: beat to a brutal murder. But remember OJ says something
Speaker 1: to the effect of, I could kill her Nicole and
Speaker 1: get away with it because I'm Oj Simpson. Girl. Shut
Speaker 1: the fuck up.
Speaker 2: Wow, do y'all feel like Caitlyn Bruce has a right
Speaker 2: to feel how she feels.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's not of their history.
Speaker 2: This is the nineties. They're all partying together. OJ is
Speaker 2: fucking his wife, OJ is fucking the cold.
Speaker 1: No, but she was married to the Kardashian, the lawyer.
Speaker 1: Initially she wasn't married to him yet. Yeah. So, so
Speaker 1: the the rumor is is that Chloe is OJ's daughter,
Speaker 1: and I mean supposed me, girl. He should have checked
Speaker 1: on Chloe that I have a friend who has a
Speaker 1: who has a daughter who who's biracial because her dad
Speaker 1: is biracial and my friend is white and her daughter
Speaker 1: looks like a white girl.
Speaker 3: But oh, J and biracial.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but sometimes like the jeans, right, that doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1: But you don't want j to be Chloe daddy so bad?
Speaker 1: That is that girl daddy?
Speaker 7: Her jeens might have been stronger. Well, she's not Rob Kardashian.
Speaker 3: She's not Rob order but really not.
Speaker 1: I don't know who's what I have to say.
Speaker 4: Oh, j came out of jail on my birthday. I
Speaker 4: was born. My mom she was watching it in the hospital.
Speaker 4: So I support old Jason.
Speaker 1: We don't give a fight at you that young. So
Speaker 1: what okay, I'm like baby, No, Literally, it was just
Speaker 1: such a big thing.
Speaker 6: I mean, I don't remember about the ojk's but I
Speaker 6: don't know the thing about it. Like he really didn't
Speaker 6: do I mean, I hate to be that person, but
Speaker 6: he didn't do anything for the black community. It was
Speaker 6: just kind of like everyone was happy he got off,
Speaker 6: you know, allegedly killing two white people and getting off.
Speaker 6: But it's like other than that, that nigga said, I'm
Speaker 6: not black, I'm not white.
Speaker 1: I'm oj like.
Speaker 3: I feel like him, you feel I feel like that
Speaker 3: you're sitting there black as I'd be.
Speaker 1: Tired of these niggas.
Speaker 4: Understand that.
Speaker 1: Let me be honest, they actually am around.
Speaker 4: There's niggas and then there's black people. Right, So at
Speaker 4: the end of the day, I'm black, but I do
Speaker 4: have a little nigga.
Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all something.
Speaker 2: We gonna be black, and we're gonna be right back
Speaker 2: after this commercial break. We'll be right back, all right, y'all.
Speaker 2: So you know, I had to do some deep digging,
Speaker 2: and I went and listened to y'all show, and I
Speaker 2: listened to y'all what about your Friends episode talking about
Speaker 2: friendship before y'all got into friendship, y'all talking about fucking
Speaker 2: for free. Right. I was like, oh, sounds like a
Speaker 2: topic for me. Right, So I wanted us to talk
Speaker 2: about transactional sex, right, what does that look like? But
Speaker 2: I also wanted us to start with our very first
Speaker 2: time in our first time story, we're gonna get into
Speaker 2: fucking for free.
Speaker 3: Well, first we just gonna talk about what like fucking.
Speaker 1: Period or sex period and what that was like. Some
Speaker 1: of us it was a further back than no point
Speaker 1: at me big, but they're gonna get it. We're gonna
Speaker 1: start with y'all so she can try to remember. You
Speaker 1: don't remember, I definitely remember my first Okay, let's be
Speaker 1: very clear, I have an elephant memory.
Speaker 6: Okay, so my first time was actually with this guy.
Speaker 6: We played t ball together growing up, so like news
Speaker 6: that was three and you know, like at that time,
Speaker 6: I thought like sex is gonna be like this amazing thing.
Speaker 6: And then like it just happened so fast. I think
Speaker 6: I was like sixteen, Sorry, mom, It was like it
Speaker 6: was a summer.
Speaker 7: I was a summer.
Speaker 6: I was like, maybe uh, freshing our sophomore in high school,
Speaker 6: and like after it happened, I was just like that's it.
Speaker 6: So I did not have have sex again for like
Speaker 6: until I got my actual like first boyfriend, and then
Speaker 6: after that I was just like, oh, okay.
Speaker 1: This is fun.
Speaker 3: So wait, we need details, like where were you at
Speaker 3: first time?
Speaker 6: I was at his grandmother's house upstairs in his room.
Speaker 6: He said, what his gun am at the time, and
Speaker 6: like we we take like we texted, made this whole plan,
Speaker 6: like went over there you were going to do that? Yes,
Speaker 6: I knew I was going to have sex, and I
Speaker 6: think like it was just such a build up and
Speaker 6: then like afterwards I was like that sex, Like damn that.
Speaker 3: Did you shave yourcie first?
Speaker 2: I did?
Speaker 1: Because you're not the time.
Speaker 6: You know back then, you like your mind, like you're
Speaker 6: supposed to be completely hairless, like a guy wanted to
Speaker 6: be completely hairless and yeah.
Speaker 2: So like.
Speaker 6: But yes, no childish, childish now I'm looking back at it.
Speaker 6: But it was just like I don't know, like it
Speaker 6: just happened so fast, y'all. Like I didn't want to
Speaker 6: say five minutes, babe. Yeah, but like you it was
Speaker 6: my first I didn't. Yeah, it was just I was
Speaker 6: more of a like, dang, I lost my virginity. Okay,
Speaker 6: so like I didn't know, like you know, even till now,
Speaker 6: like as a woman, still learning things about myself, about
Speaker 6: my body. But like I feel like sex didn't start
Speaker 6: like feeling better until I got like older, because I
Speaker 6: knew what I was doing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you can tell men like dang it.
Speaker 6: But you know what's crazy That same guy who took
Speaker 6: my virginity after I was on the Breakfast Club the
Speaker 6: second time, he texted me trying to talk to me,
Speaker 6: and I'm like, no.
Speaker 1: Time, remember that time my house. I can'tnot stand. One
Speaker 1: thing I can't stand is and I always be telling Tammy,
Speaker 1: I got some goddamn uh h for uh M for h,
Speaker 1: money for niggas, hi high and money because I cannot
Speaker 1: stand when a blast in the past message you after
Speaker 1: they seen you do something like, hey boy, you don't
Speaker 1: know me? Oh you know another? No you know of me?
Speaker 1: Nigga's gone.
Speaker 4: So you didn't answer a question, did you not?
Speaker 2: Or no?
Speaker 1: Like question our question?
Speaker 3: No, no, I don't know any woman that comes on her.
Speaker 1: I didn't have an orgasms.
Speaker 3: So you know, years later, until you.
Speaker 4: Realized I didn't know that women nuts for a long time,
Speaker 4: like growing up, I didn't know that women nut. Like
Speaker 4: I also didn't know that this ship either.
Speaker 3: No, wait, let's talk about your first time.
Speaker 1: Okay, what were you with the woman or with the
Speaker 1: well we're gonna get into this one.
Speaker 3: Do you have two first time stories?
Speaker 4: So I have never tried a woman all of community.
Speaker 4: So I am a strictly Dicky committee. I'm a member
Speaker 4: of Strictly Dicky. So my first time I was seventeen
Speaker 4: years old and I was on a hook up app. Mom,
Speaker 4: it's the truth.
Speaker 1: He came over.
Speaker 4: I didn't know what I was doing because, like I
Speaker 4: tell everyone, like, when you're gay, mama house, see where
Speaker 4: you're going at, see.
Speaker 1: Where she want to. So here's the thing.
Speaker 4: When you're gay, no one.
Speaker 5: Helps us raise like are raised to be gay, So
Speaker 5: it's like who do I depend on and be like
Speaker 5: let me call? So it's like I gotta learn on
Speaker 5: my own. So granted, he was like, yeah, let's fuck,
Speaker 5: and I.
Speaker 4: Said, let's do it.
Speaker 1: Her bottom bothered.
Speaker 5: I was saying, like, I'm a verse bottom because I
Speaker 5: like my ji, I like my dick to be touched
Speaker 5: and like jack off.
Speaker 4: But it's like I do love like throwing it back,
Speaker 4: like you know, Trina, like, look back, this nigga.
Speaker 1: Showed me a video. You want to actually throwing it
Speaker 1: back of him.
Speaker 4: But I will say that the first time I was like, oh, ship,
Speaker 4: this ship hurts, and if you're not doing it right,
Speaker 4: it does hurt.
Speaker 5: It's gonna be like, uh, what the fuck is going on? Yeah,
Speaker 5: And the first time I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 5: I want to I catch something. We did use a condo,
Speaker 5: but it pops, so when he pulled it out and
Speaker 5: then we just like jack off together and my dad
Speaker 5: mom just don't say.
Speaker 1: Shit, just don't listen.
Speaker 4: But yeah, so after that, you know, hook up apps
Speaker 4: are like very big in the gay community.
Speaker 1: But it wasn't that Adam. For Adam, No, it was
Speaker 1: Jack oh, I've never been on ADAM. For Adam, I
Speaker 1: go on those websites and make sure, like I'm talking
Speaker 1: to is on there. I'm looking for my man.
Speaker 2: So when you went on there with this person, did
Speaker 2: you anticipate this all happening or it just kind.
Speaker 1: Of was like it was kind of like, wow, I
Speaker 1: want to be gay, yo, gay er? You was already gay? No?
Speaker 4: No, no, no no, because you know, like I never
Speaker 4: came out to anyone, so I think everyone assumed that
Speaker 4: I was gay because y'all thought it.
Speaker 5: I told y'all, see what, y'all very sensitive. You know that,
Speaker 5: you know that gay community sensitive. Yeah, but I never
Speaker 5: told her I was gay. So I was just like, yeah,
Speaker 5: I gotta hide this. And yeah, one day my mom
Speaker 5: just asked.
Speaker 4: And I was like, you knew that.
Speaker 1: I always know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Mama is always always know.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: One thing I can't stand about our.
Speaker 5: Community is that she was like, well, that's the story
Speaker 5: for another day. But what happened was Trey Songs announced
Speaker 5: that he was single on the radio. This is when
Speaker 5: ninety three was really popping, and I was on my
Speaker 5: way to elementary school and I said, oh my.
Speaker 1: God, it's my chance.
Speaker 4: And my mom was like.
Speaker 1: None, em, I.
Speaker 5: Just left it alone and I got out the car
Speaker 5: that day with my red Samsung phone on my act like.
Speaker 4: I was playing Tetra whoever it is, it's my d
Speaker 4: so ever since I've been a bad bitch.
Speaker 3: Where were you going to ask?
Speaker 2: Agent?
Speaker 1: No, I'm not gonna see's good. You never know who
Speaker 1: we're inspiring on here. No, I was gonna say. What
Speaker 1: I was going to say is that, you know, while
Speaker 1: we're talking about the LGBTQ community, you know, black women
Speaker 1: we get a lot of like hate from black men
Speaker 1: for and they say it's encouraging the community, but it's
Speaker 1: not encouraging. These are literally black women's children. These are
Speaker 1: fucking kids exactly. So maybe you should check yourself a
Speaker 1: little bit, because what's the problem. I'm not saying that
Speaker 1: it is okay, and I'm not saying it's a problem.
Speaker 1: Let people be who the fuck they are and accept
Speaker 1: people for they are because guess what, gay niggas got
Speaker 1: preference to. Just because somebody is gay doesn't mean they're
Speaker 1: like yo ass yeah, Like they automatically think somebody want them,
Speaker 1: like nigga, like you're broke. They may not want your
Speaker 1: broke ass either we don't want you, they don't want.
Speaker 2: Over All, black mothers want their kids to be happy.
Speaker 1: That's that's it.
Speaker 4: Being gay.
Speaker 1: So just on gay levels. On the next episode, I'm
Speaker 1: almost touching the never mind this.
Speaker 3: A comedian just said that that gay is not like
Speaker 3: a light switch.
Speaker 4: Is not like on and off.
Speaker 3: It's like a light dimmer.
Speaker 4: It's like bright.
Speaker 3: It's like the rock or is I don't know.
Speaker 4: Being gay is hard. I don't care what nobody saying.
Speaker 4: Being gay is hard. You want to know why. You
Speaker 4: gotta make sure your hair is done. You gotta ma
Speaker 4: sure your nails down. You gotta make sure that you're
Speaker 4: doing the mother you're dusty, your hair is on me. Man,
Speaker 4: you gotta make sure everything. And it just always has
Speaker 4: to be like.
Speaker 1: There hej your first time, Oh my god, what is happening?
Speaker 1: Like I don't look that was.
Speaker 4: Like a donkey.
Speaker 3: You're trembling.
Speaker 1: I remember the guy. I met this guy in the
Speaker 1: hospital when my niece was born. I remember when I
Speaker 1: met him right and when we had sex. He didn't
Speaker 1: know I was a Because my performance has always been
Speaker 1: you know you got here, yes, okay, equestrian. You know
Speaker 1: you know I've always been you don't tell him. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't tell him. But like the next day, like,
Speaker 1: I'm using the bathroom. You I'm young. You don't know
Speaker 1: what the fuck is going on. You think you're grown.
Speaker 1: And I'm using the restroom and the pea isn't coming out.
Speaker 1: It's a whole condom stuck in me for a day,
Speaker 1: and so I'm texting, like not texting at the time,
Speaker 1: I'm calling, like did you lose something You weren't gonna
Speaker 1: tell me. Oh, so I just cried. And then the
Speaker 1: boyfriend I had at the time, like my neighborhood boy No, no,
Speaker 1: you didn't know. Don't the game if I ever the
Speaker 1: guy like my neighborhood boyfriend. You know, everybody got their
Speaker 1: neighborhood boyfriend, Like y'all have.
Speaker 3: A neighborhood boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Never heard the term in my life. This was my nigga.
Speaker 1: We had never had sex neighborhood boyfriend. No, we never did.
Speaker 1: We would kiss and hugging stuff, but we would never
Speaker 1: sex before uh. He he was like, I had a
Speaker 1: hicky on my neck. All type of ship was going on.
Speaker 1: He can on Mom's my mama house. I had a
Speaker 1: hippy iky on my neck. He was talking to me
Speaker 1: so crazy, like you a stupid bitch, like you let
Speaker 1: him do such and sex that you like really making
Speaker 1: me feel terrible. Oh while I got a balloon coming
Speaker 1: out of my kouchie, just not knowing nothing. This is
Speaker 1: this is my dumb bitch story for the fucking episode.
Speaker 4: Was so dumb.
Speaker 5: You are really dumb.
Speaker 1: Horrible story. Look maybe about I want to say, maybe
Speaker 1: years later. Now at this point, I might be in
Speaker 1: my late twenties. My mom just got rid of her
Speaker 1: house phone number. She has a housephone now, but the
Speaker 1: phone number just got changed. So imagine you have the
Speaker 1: same housephone number your whole life. So this person called
Speaker 1: my house phone looking for me. But I heard he
Speaker 1: was a crackhead person. No he wasn't, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: he was a teenager at the time. But he's a crackhead. Now, wow,
Speaker 1: what a way that in your first time. I'll see
Speaker 1: what I do the niggas I made him smoke crack.
Speaker 4: Okay, So what you're seeing over there is you have
Speaker 4: soilk city.
Speaker 1: I don't even know where to, I don't even know
Speaker 1: what my story. Jesus may be chasing that high. Okay,
Speaker 1: such as a j crack, Yes, that's a good thing
Speaker 1: or crackish the first episode.
Speaker 4: Of housh would you let him like sniff the crack
Speaker 4: off of it?
Speaker 1: Of course?
Speaker 3: So my first time story it sounds like something out
Speaker 3: of it, like a GD Bloom book.
Speaker 1: Honestly, Oh.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, not that GD Bloom. So my boyfriend
Speaker 2: and we were in high school. He was the quarterback.
Speaker 2: I was in cheerlead. His parents were out of town.
Speaker 2: So it was our homecoming game. So we went to
Speaker 2: his house after the game.
Speaker 3: We did not win. It would have been a better
Speaker 3: story if we won the game, but we not.
Speaker 1: Really we were kids. We were like seventeen.
Speaker 2: And like. So he had this big ass house and
Speaker 2: he was like, wait outside, and it was so dark outside.
Speaker 2: I remember like waiting outside like thinking, I'm like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, I'm scared out here. And then finally when
Speaker 2: he brought me in. He took me to his room
Speaker 2: and he had all these little t light candles lit
Speaker 2: all over.
Speaker 1: Look, he had like he had Laurence.
Speaker 3: Hill playing all right.
Speaker 1: He took my virginity. It was like really sweet.
Speaker 5: That was my first love question, like when he first
Speaker 5: slipped it in, like did you make the like the
Speaker 5: love basketball?
Speaker 3: I definitely, I definitely did.
Speaker 2: I remember feeling like this is so different, this feels
Speaker 2: it's not unusual, this feels weird, you know. I remember
Speaker 2: feeling like that. But it was very special though.
Speaker 4: It was one of those.
Speaker 3: No I think he like working a tobooth for something.
Speaker 4: Now, like.
Speaker 1: Yo, like I said, middle fingers, our old life. But
Speaker 1: he was he was our quarterback then.
Speaker 3: I used to wear his letterman jackets like.
Speaker 1: He was that nigga.
Speaker 2: Then his brother was in the NFL, so he got
Speaker 2: him a little Mercedes school like me and like man
Speaker 2: like man, but then he didn't do well in high school.
Speaker 1: Right, same?
Speaker 3: All right, So we talked about our first time.
Speaker 2: Now we're going to talk about your first time with
Speaker 2: the new partner as an adult, like how does that look?
Speaker 1: And the day we don't had a lot of first
Speaker 1: time since the first time.
Speaker 2: Okay, exactly that first time? No, no, no, not the
Speaker 2: best first time? Like all right, have you ever had
Speaker 2: sex with a new partner?
Speaker 3: And like the day after you're coming, like do I
Speaker 3: still like him or.
Speaker 2: Maybe we shouldn't, Just like I'm waiting on him to
Speaker 2: call me, and I like, what does that look like
Speaker 2: for y'all? Is that like a different experience or like, AJ,
Speaker 2: what do you think.
Speaker 1: I like the build up to first sex, Like I
Speaker 1: watched I saw this this video Instagram one time and
Speaker 1: the lady was like, you know, to get that feeling
Speaker 1: because it's a different feeling when you have sex with
Speaker 1: somebody the first time, like the build up to it,
Speaker 1: and they really can make a breaker relationships sometimes, like
Speaker 1: you could be really into this person until I have sex.
Speaker 6: I've ghosted after sex. I don't know, but y'all, but
Speaker 6: I would definitely need that person a game. No, not
Speaker 6: if the sex is not good. Okay, I tell clear this.
Speaker 6: Do you tell men if their dick isn't good?
Speaker 1: Or yes? It's our folks that men think they be
Speaker 1: throwing it all.
Speaker 7: You need to stop saying that because you're.
Speaker 2: Not a man.
Speaker 4: I would not like if guys talk about y'all pussy.
Speaker 1: But I never had that problem. That wouldn't all like.
Speaker 6: That?
Speaker 1: Would you smell like fish? Have you ever smelled the
Speaker 1: couchie before?
Speaker 4: I mean it's been very fresh the ones I have smell.
Speaker 1: Let's just listen. I need to hear the story why
Speaker 1: you were smelling coucie and you don't want no cuchie.
Speaker 5: Well, first of all, I hang with a lot of girls,
Speaker 5: and it was just like, oh, like, why did your
Speaker 5: pussy let roast beef?
Speaker 3: All right, I can't win.
Speaker 1: Because all labis are not created equally, Okay, everybody is different.
Speaker 1: Say when you got pencil dicks, you got crooked heads,
Speaker 1: you got like people got to messed up. Circumcision also
Speaker 1: should be going on with min and e penises. We
Speaker 1: don't be putting that stuff out.
Speaker 5: So then why would y'all talk about something y'all don't
Speaker 5: like meant for other people to talk about.
Speaker 7: Y'all know, if you're not mind with a small dick,
Speaker 7: you're's not gonna fuck me again.
Speaker 1: That's the thing.
Speaker 4: When you see that the dick is small, before that
Speaker 4: you should say get out. I meant out, No, it's
Speaker 4: a coom Please state because like this is a little explicit.
Speaker 4: But I have a big dick.
Speaker 6: Ye.
Speaker 4: But at the same time, it's just like I'm gay,
Speaker 4: so I don't really talk like I do talk.
Speaker 1: But oh that did did going away? It goes somewhere, yo,
Speaker 1: I cannot die, I can anyway.
Speaker 6: I was talking to this guy and like the this
Speaker 6: is all khalifault and we just want to go to here.
Speaker 6: He's like, oh, you should talk to him. You should
Speaker 6: talk to him. The guy would bring a podcast all
Speaker 6: type of shit. So build up was there.
Speaker 7: The fore play was great, but then when he stuck
Speaker 7: it in, I'm just like, where's the rest?
Speaker 9: Like it was just not like in an episode like that,
Speaker 9: and it's just like it was cool, but it's like
Speaker 9: pressure man, legion, right, and that's the thing, so like
Speaker 9: you're gonna have big dick and I gotta work, yes,
Speaker 9: Like it's a lot of pressure, like and he was like.
Speaker 1: You know, he was working there, but for me, it
Speaker 1: just wasn't enough.
Speaker 6: So like when I was leaving his house, I was like,
Speaker 6: you know, I like him, like he has a lot
Speaker 6: of great qualities, but I don't know if I can
Speaker 6: just satify like yeah, And then he ended up pissing
Speaker 6: me off anyway, so.
Speaker 4: He's able easy to cut him off. Was when he
Speaker 4: told you to turn on the light and look at it.
Speaker 4: So I think I was amazing, what'd you do?
Speaker 3: You looked at it? And he said.
Speaker 1: I knew it was never happening again. I just wanted
Speaker 1: to be in the dark, baby, like what it was
Speaker 1: the light going to do? Illuminated, like what do you
Speaker 1: want me to say?
Speaker 4: No, y'all don't like when men are like verbal and bed.
Speaker 1: I love them verbal, but not like that. Don't be
Speaker 1: acting like you're dick big and it's not. Don't be
Speaker 1: doing me like that.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: You forced me to tell you the truth.
Speaker 2: Because if I like you, I'll make you feel like
Speaker 2: it's big you.
Speaker 1: You get mad like that little dick. As soon did
Speaker 1: she get mad, she's telling the truth. If you share it,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I know you ain't sharing my little
Speaker 1: bigg out like, don't like or nerve if you'd embarrass us.
Speaker 1: Shrimp you right? It is rough being a man. Okay,
Speaker 1: I want y'all niggas.
Speaker 4: All I have to say is I think that y'all
Speaker 4: should ask for dicks.
Speaker 1: I don't like. I always say that self what.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna get myself in cell phone.
Speaker 1: Save lives because I definitely will ask for I don't
Speaker 1: like unsolicited cock shots, but yeah, send me a cock shots.
Speaker 1: I can see because once I already got on the mind,
Speaker 1: I seemed low visual. So you sing as nice? I
Speaker 1: want to yeah, jack off, but them picture some niggas
Speaker 1: be knowing how to catch the angles. Though, so them
Speaker 1: shit could be misleaddence. I like being put it next
Speaker 1: to a remote because I like to build rapport and
Speaker 1: like the guy. First, that's my downfall.
Speaker 7: I was like, I like to like them, and then
Speaker 7: like when I see it as like, oh fuck, that
Speaker 7: is unfortunate.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you've never already said you never liked the
Speaker 2: guy and had sex with him and then like liked
Speaker 2: him still even though the penis wasn't.
Speaker 6: I tried, but it just didn't work because he wasn't
Speaker 6: stretching that ith. He was gone, And you know what,
Speaker 6: I put my rolls down. I am too much strong
Speaker 6: without my rolls, so I just had to That's.
Speaker 1: Why I stopped. I say that I threw mine in trash.
Speaker 1: I threw my roles in trash.
Speaker 7: I stopped it hits, so.
Speaker 2: I don't have no man.
Speaker 1: I threw min It's been so long, alright, So it's
Speaker 1: been some long since you've been gone. Oh wait, I
Speaker 1: got some more and that's it's a coming home.
Speaker 4: It's been long for you, oh very long for me.
Speaker 4: So what have you been doing for It's very long?
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty three now you and smashed in twenty twenty three.
Speaker 7: You're just kidding because I was still a bit this
Speaker 7: is April.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a lot like oh my god, to be
Speaker 4: multiple not multiple, but like I.
Speaker 2: Just want I need like something real. I need a real,
Speaker 2: super solid connection with someone.
Speaker 1: No, that's how I felt to wait.
Speaker 3: So it's just in the crock pot summary.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I wasn't.
Speaker 6: I'm not having casual sex anymore. I'm like, if I'm
Speaker 6: fucking with you, then that's and that's why it was
Speaker 6: kind of.
Speaker 1: I think that's most women, right. I don't like I
Speaker 1: can't do casual sex, but yeah, some women are just
Speaker 1: I don't. That's their job though.
Speaker 2: Imagine a woman who's been like married for ten years
Speaker 2: and then get a divorce. She outside, you know, trying
Speaker 2: the waters out and doing all the things.
Speaker 3: But me, I've been doing all the things.
Speaker 2: I'm ready to doing.
Speaker 1: I'm ready to like we ain't miss a beat.
Speaker 3: Now that niggas would listen to that, like she's a
Speaker 3: whole you know, Like that's not.
Speaker 1: What I meant. I don't.
Speaker 3: I just been single, you know, I've been Huh.
Speaker 4: Sometimes I don't believe that women can be horse y'all,
Speaker 4: just like dick, what's wrong with that?
Speaker 1: Thank you, friend, thank you for understanding wrong with that?
Speaker 4: Are you sucking it? What are you doing?
Speaker 2: I feel like in my twenties I was more sexually active.
Speaker 2: Like in my thirties, and you slow down a whole lot.
Speaker 4: I feel like, well, I just turned thirty in October,
Speaker 4: but I don't know.
Speaker 6: I just feel like I feel like I'm more comfortable
Speaker 6: with my body and like, I know how I like
Speaker 6: to have sex. I know what, I know what I
Speaker 6: like my body, and I'm like verbal now, so it's
Speaker 6: just kind of like if I don't like something, I'm
Speaker 6: just not gonna go along with it.
Speaker 7: So I don't know this. We're confident myself. So now
Speaker 7: I like sex well, I mean I always like that,
Speaker 7: but like it more now.
Speaker 3: The older I've got, absolutely you're going to continue to
Speaker 3: like it more.
Speaker 2: Listen, have y'all ever had sex with someone and I
Speaker 2: told him why the sex wasn't good and how it
Speaker 2: could be better.
Speaker 4: I need to get to that.
Speaker 7: I'm not that grown yet. This guy that I dealt with,
Speaker 7: he was like, the sex was great, but he's just
Speaker 7: not verbal, and I want him to be verbal.
Speaker 1: Like, I don't know how, I don't know. I can't
Speaker 1: stand in somebody quieter, like you got to say something.
Speaker 4: What's your favorite line?
Speaker 1: A line?
Speaker 4: I don't know, it has to be a favorite line.
Speaker 7: Like good girl. If I hear a good girl, it's over.
Speaker 4: Good girl.
Speaker 1: Girl.
Speaker 3: My favorite line is you're writ and your light bill paid.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I got a favorite line. I
Speaker 1: don't think. That's the only time I like get nominated, though.
Speaker 1: Don't boss me around any other time I bullied me.
Speaker 4: Shit, yes I am.
Speaker 3: Not the sol you're doing that. Shit, Yes I am.
Speaker 2: You're saying, do you feel like women, especially in younger women,
Speaker 2: do you feel like in today's society, all right, me
Speaker 2: and AJ's age, you have sex.
Speaker 3: With someone, you have like a super emotional connection right away.
Speaker 2: Do you feel like the women now are just more
Speaker 2: like men, where they casual casual sex more and just
Speaker 2: be okay with it.
Speaker 6: I think so, Like I don't know, I feel like
Speaker 6: casual sex is just like a thing, and that's how
Speaker 6: I'm like, Uh, for me, I just wanted like more
Speaker 6: of a connection, like I'm just not trying to be
Speaker 6: fucking just to be fucking. But like, I don't know,
Speaker 6: I feel like women are treating things like mini's d's
Speaker 6: the way they're approaching.
Speaker 7: It like if you're gonna talk to me, I'm gonna
Speaker 7: talk to you.
Speaker 4: If you're gonna have a bunch of bitches, i'ma have a.
Speaker 7: Bunch of niggas.
Speaker 6: So it's almost like a competition type thing. So I
Speaker 6: feel like, deep down just as women like we know, like.
Speaker 7: We want something to nurture, to have to make hours.
Speaker 6: But it's like I feel like you're going with like
Speaker 6: society and then like your actual logic and what you
Speaker 6: want to do.
Speaker 4: So it's almost like a battle.
Speaker 1: So like even when Sexy Ray with the song fuck
Speaker 1: my Baby Dad, like you don't mean that you don't
Speaker 1: want to have a whole human with somebody else and
Speaker 1: not be with them. So I feel like a younger
Speaker 1: generation yet it got all these fun these nigga songs
Speaker 1: and all that, but deep down inside, like a real
Speaker 1: woman wants to be loved. You want that connection with
Speaker 1: with whoever you're giving your body to. So I feel
Speaker 1: like it's like a trauma response when you because we
Speaker 1: was on the Whole podcast earlier on and we talked
Speaker 1: back and I said that howen does not fucking heal,
Speaker 1: because it doesn't if you're going through a bunch of bullshit.
Speaker 1: Just laying up with anybody is not going to make
Speaker 1: you feel good about you. So if that's what you're using.
Speaker 4: No disagree. You want to know why I disagree.
Speaker 5: I feel like hoeng is allowed with women to know
Speaker 5: what they want and the next man or their following
Speaker 5: man that they want like next.
Speaker 1: So if he's not going hoeing is just having sex,
Speaker 1: Clay getting.
Speaker 4: To know can get money.
Speaker 1: But you're having horror, having horror absolutely, but you're not
Speaker 1: getting to know anybody out here.
Speaker 4: Y'all just wanted to sound bad. There's nothing wrong with
Speaker 4: being a little.
Speaker 7: Girl who was hoeing instead of healing, and she's so
Speaker 7: angry she has.
Speaker 4: Mental health issues on her own that she needs to
Speaker 4: heal on herself.
Speaker 1: That's what we're saying. If you already got some ship
Speaker 1: going on, everybody, you're just letting a bunch of people
Speaker 1: get on top of you. It's not gonna fix with
Speaker 1: some that's some people's outlet, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: When when it becomes an outlet for whatever you've got
Speaker 1: going on internally is not going to help. Okay, So
Speaker 1: y'all can say, y'all, what happened? Yeah, niggas. It's not
Speaker 1: the fucking addy over here. It's empty fitting all over
Speaker 1: hell that is unhinged, not she calling up her legs.
Speaker 2: Dumb bitch story, so because we've all been a dumb
Speaker 2: bitch at least once or twice.
Speaker 3: Alright, So y'all, we had this setting.
Speaker 2: On our show called Dumbitch Story or some series, and
Speaker 2: that's where you share a time where you got played
Speaker 2: by the opposite.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, shit, the all you want to go first,
Speaker 5: go first? Because actually I just went back.
Speaker 1: It's okay, I support you either.
Speaker 4: So let me tell you basically, I'm gonna make it short.
Speaker 5: My dar man cut me off because he said he
Speaker 5: was going to propose to his girlfriend, and I said,
Speaker 5: what am I supposed to do?
Speaker 4: He was consistent, So long story short, time.
Speaker 7: Came back around and he texted me and I um
Speaker 7: blocked him.
Speaker 4: And gays to her yet, but you know I checked
Speaker 4: that Facebook. You can't hide nigga, yo.
Speaker 7: They won't block you from a post mouth open.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 5: We have hooked up three times already since the block
Speaker 5: supposed proposal. But I told myself, you know, going into
Speaker 5: the summer, I think I'm going to slowly leave him.
Speaker 5: Alone because they culture it gets like born unless they're
Speaker 5: like real good.
Speaker 4: He was real good, but now it's just like you
Speaker 4: left me.
Speaker 2: N Yo, mouth's open, scary your head like I don't
Speaker 2: lie up said to know that.
Speaker 3: My man is cheating, but also cheating.
Speaker 4: With a man with a bottom man.
Speaker 2: Oh, let me ask this right, quid before with a
Speaker 2: big cheating with a man with a big dig bigger
Speaker 2: than yours.
Speaker 1: Like what in the world. I know you're on a
Speaker 1: stupid bit dumb bitch stories, but as a gay man,
Speaker 1: do you think that men should tell women if they've
Speaker 1: been with a man or not at a point in
Speaker 1: your life. No, that is a fucking fight, dog.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you why.
Speaker 5: Sometimes you have to forgive people and understand that people
Speaker 5: go through things and then they probably heal from it.
Speaker 5: So some men, a lot of men that y'all don't know,
Speaker 5: have been touched, so they like to use that and
Speaker 5: I'm sorry that storyline of yeah, I was touched while
Speaker 5: I was little, so this is what I did. Not
Speaker 5: all gay men were touched, So I don't like when
Speaker 5: everybody say that. But then it's just like want to
Speaker 5: they heal from it. However, once you had bussy. You
Speaker 5: will always have bussy.
Speaker 1: No, no, I'm not talking about Okay, so that is
Speaker 1: not like I can't even get into it. I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about like a child as a child. I'm talking
Speaker 1: about like, say, for instance, you're a you're in college,
Speaker 1: and you fucked on a couple guys. Oh got you
Speaker 1: dig suck a couple of guys, and now here it
Speaker 1: is you're getting married. But if the woman asks you
Speaker 1: and you neglect to tell her, that is being deceitful
Speaker 1: as far as I'm concerned, because I need to know,
Speaker 1: because I feel like that is a particular mindset, right.
Speaker 4: But why are you already going in with that mindset?
Speaker 4: I mean men? Why women lie too? What were you
Speaker 4: doing too?
Speaker 1: You get fucking men?
Speaker 4: But here's my thing. I fuck your daddy. He wants
Speaker 4: to go past and Parama is getting you a dick
Speaker 4: suck in college. Honestly, sometimes don't even feel like that's gay.
Speaker 1: What oh god, look we'll get a mad fuck Okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: never mind, that's a different conversation.
Speaker 4: Bring me back later.
Speaker 1: Listen.
Speaker 2: I get what Clay saying a little bit because as
Speaker 2: much in the black community, like you can't come back,
Speaker 2: you know women are not women can women can show
Speaker 2: you a whole I was with seventeen bitches in college,
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna show you a highlight.
Speaker 3: But a man, he doesn't have that option. He can't
Speaker 3: come back to women and be in.
Speaker 4: With open arms.
Speaker 7: In a white community, he could, but.
Speaker 3: Yeah, in a black community, women are not going to
Speaker 3: accept him bad.
Speaker 4: This is my thing. Have y'all been with girls? And
Speaker 4: are y'all wanting y'all because one your man said? I
Speaker 4: don't want to deal with that. I never been with
Speaker 4: a girl.
Speaker 1: I've never been with a woman.
Speaker 4: I feel like women are bisexual.
Speaker 1: Look right here, Like I feel like that's straight.
Speaker 3: I'm very much straight.
Speaker 5: See but I feel like if you were really with women,
Speaker 5: you would like the studs, windn't you because you're like
Speaker 5: a pretty bitch?
Speaker 1: No, you like girly girls. I don't. I would never
Speaker 1: like the study.
Speaker 7: I don't understand why I need masculinely like like I
Speaker 7: will never state.
Speaker 6: In the other study like I might as well get
Speaker 6: a man. This is how I feel you get stars
Speaker 6: bothered me. I would never funk with him, like you're
Speaker 6: a bitch.
Speaker 4: I could be a bitch.
Speaker 6: I just I really don't like get what it stalks,
Speaker 6: but why you got a fat ass and you gay?
Speaker 6: Like why are you a haircut like the man, but
Speaker 6: you got these big titties and a fat ass?
Speaker 2: You know what?
Speaker 1: A fot cool? If I were a lesbian, I would
Speaker 1: want a woman. Yes, I would be what a feminine woman?
Speaker 1: Because what's the point of having a never mind? Okay, y'all, I.
Speaker 3: Used to like young and though I used to think, like,
Speaker 3: you're just missing the end. Y'all, tell everybody where they can.
Speaker 1: Dumblin story.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you haven't told your real.
Speaker 1: Quick so I'm gonna tell my dumb story.
Speaker 6: I was talking to this guy and like I cut
Speaker 6: him off because he was just not a good person.
Speaker 6: Like it was like anig the nigga lied about his
Speaker 6: grandmama falling and he I'm a maid live on his grandmama.
Speaker 6: He's a cycle path, right, so he never wanted to
Speaker 6: go out. I always had excuse me now going out.
Speaker 6: So cut him off because I'm like, nigga, no, so
Speaker 6: stop talking to him. Two weeks later, he shows up
Speaker 6: to Jamaica with his girlfriend, so the dumbitch store didn't
Speaker 6: come yet.
Speaker 7: Him and his girlfriend broke up. He swings the block
Speaker 7: in December and here I am. I'm like, sure, come back.
Speaker 4: Why not, dumb bitch, dump bitch.
Speaker 1: She had to end of the day like.
Speaker 6: Listen you the princess and Charleston wave, come on back.
Speaker 6: So after that, I was like, no, be a smart bitch.
Speaker 6: Stop talking to him Stan on business. So I was like,
Speaker 6: you're gonna be a smart bitch.
Speaker 1: And you can still business. Eat your pussy.
Speaker 7: After he did that, after he ate my ass, I
Speaker 7: still business.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 1: So then I went to this event, y'all.
Speaker 6: As soon as I like walked up to the red carpet,
Speaker 6: why was he on the red carpet with his girlfriend?
Speaker 6: The nigga held his phone in front of his face
Speaker 6: as if he could not see me, as if the
Speaker 6: phone made him invisible, like a little use an.
Speaker 1: iPhone as a.
Speaker 7: Son who could call on my forehead.
Speaker 6: And I walked up to him and I was like, well, hey,
Speaker 6: and that nigga didknock get me the eye called that.
Speaker 6: He was like hey, Chris, and he left and I
Speaker 6: was like, you know what, So that was my dumbite story.
Speaker 6: Don't never let that nigga spind a block.
Speaker 7: That was yeah, because he's still a terrible person.
Speaker 1: Yeah I did. Yeah, we be knowing. That's the thing.
Speaker 1: We be knowing. We be knowing. It's a y'all, it's
Speaker 1: okay to be a dumb bitch. Sometimes that's just don't
Speaker 1: be an habitual dumb bitch. Okay, that's okay. We love y'all.
Speaker 1: If you like it, I love you so much.
Speaker 4: People even about you, about women in general.
Speaker 3: Okay, whatever, Where they can find you, where they can
Speaker 3: listen to your show, all your things, please plug it.
Speaker 4: You go first, Okay, boom. So I'm Clay. You can
Speaker 4: find me a diary of understore Clay on Instagram, Snapchat, No,
Speaker 4: I Lied, Instagram, TikTok and Twitter or x. And you
Speaker 4: can find me on Snapchat at Clay with four Wives
Speaker 4: three Its.
Speaker 6: Your girl, Chris Kaylen, the Princess at Charleston. You can
Speaker 6: follow me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok at Chris Kaylin, Twitter,
Speaker 6: The Underscore Chris Kayln, Chris forher k k R I
Speaker 6: s k A.
Speaker 1: Y l I N.
Speaker 7: We gotta do it.
Speaker 4: And then you can find both of us at I'm Clay,
Speaker 4: I'm Chris Kaylen.
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